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Fundamentals Fuzzy-Bottle-4138/r/seduction07/02/24 06:43 PM
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I’m sorry but the fact that you’re texting girls from dating apps on a daily basis that won’t be in town until next month is crazy and most people here would agree with that. You sound extremely desperate and all you’re doing is just giving girls what they want: attention. And even to women it makes it seem like you don’t have that many options.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:20 PM
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Yea I get that and it happens to me too. And when it happens I get their number and I tell them to text me when they’re in town or I’ll try to remember to text them closer to when they are coming. And if it doesn’t work out it doesn’t work out. It’s fucking insane to have almost daily conversations with a complete and total stranger on a dating app that isn’t coming to town for months just because she’s “cute”. Don’t you have a life? And you can only build so much attraction over text with a str…
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:13 PM
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Also why are you wasting all of this time messaging girls for months that aren’t even in your city? Why not just focus on girls that live where you live and that you can take on dates today?
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:55 PM
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Well first off stop talking to girls every day for months on end discussing things like 401ks before you actually have met them.
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:47 PM
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Yes, appearances matter. This isn’t some groundbreaking discovery you made. It’s common sense. Not really sure the point of this post.
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:45 PM
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There was a post yesterday about this exact same thing…just scroll down like 10-15 posts and read that
/r/seduction16/05/24 11:36 PM
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In most cases it isn’t…men have wasted fuck tons of time trying to get out of the friendzone in most cases it fails. It’s way easier to just move on to other girls that are into you since there are millions of women out there that are just as good as this girl. And hey a lot of times it’s good and beneficial to just remain friends with girls and have hot girls you’re friends with
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:25 AM
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I will add this too since I don’t know your age…I’m in my early 30’s so I’m primarily dealing with women ages 25-34 or so. And women in this age group, want to go on dates ASAP. Everyone is busy and has full time jobs. Many women are looking to find partners soon. Nobody wants to spend hours messaging all day with 30 different people asking how their day was and what they do for living. It becomes like an annoying part time job. Younger women are a little bit less serious and more flakey and lik…
/r/seduction16/05/24 12:52 AM
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Yea I was going to add that too…after 3-4 hours of conversation (which is already a long enough time) it’s time to just ask her what her plans are for the week and ask her on a date. There’s no reason to ask for a phone number to continue to have more conversations. You can talk to her on the date. And if she beats around the bush and is unwilling to meet you after talking for 4 hours she’s just not that interested and likely just using you for attention on a Tuesday night
/r/seduction16/05/24 12:45 AM
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Ok so the dating apps have like 80% men and 20% women and men are thirsty as fuck. So as a result, women are forced to be picky as hell or else they would have 1,000 matches. So they’re swiping left on most men and even men they match with, they are ignoring a lot of them. So if a woman is matched with you and also being very responsive and communicative with you she’s basically saying she likes you and you’re her type. And if a woman is saying she likes you, then you don’t need to spend hours m…
/r/seduction16/05/24 12:41 AM
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On to the next one…stop spending hours messaging women on apps and ask them on actual dates
/r/seduction16/05/24 12:20 AM
4

Just read the book No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover…it’s highly recommended here
/r/seduction15/05/24 03:07 PM
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Your bio is fine…pictures are really the only thing that truly matters on dating apps.
/r/seduction15/05/24 03:03 PM
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It’s always hard to hell since half the posts in this subreddit nowadays make it seem like we’re actually in an autism anonymous subreddit
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:06 PM
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Lots of peoples Instagram are private until the person gives you direct access. And with Instagram you are giving people direct access the same way as a phone number. They’re able to message you and call you through Instagram the same way as a phone works. Instagram also just has way more personal information on it than what you get when you have someone’s number. You can’t really find out a lot about a persons life with a phone number. Whereas Instagram gives you access to your family, friends,…
/r/seduction14/05/24 03:18 PM
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Whatever you do, don’t give her flowers
/r/seduction14/05/24 02:43 PM
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The ones that aren’t that interested in you prefer to share the insta instead of the phone number. If she actually likes you giving a phone number isn’t a big deal and she’ll want you to have it. Also women above the age of 25 or so and actually serious about dating don’t care that much about giving phone numbers
/r/seduction14/05/24 04:27 AM
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One thing that’s interesting to me is that people say that a phone number is more personal. But if I get an Instagram I can literally see photos of their entire life, all of their friends, family, siblings, past lovers, pets, jobs, hobbies, where they live, what areas of the city they hang out in, what they do for fun, where they are each weekend, etc And facial recognition technology is so crazy nowadays. You can literally screenshot a single photo of a person and find their Instagram, twitter …
/r/seduction14/05/24 02:30 AM
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Yea in that case…an Instagram isn’t really that necessary. Especially for the types of women you’d likely be able to attract if you were looking. Phone number is fine in most cases. If women are serious they’ll give you the phone number. I’ve never asked for an instagram in my life but I’m in my early 30’s and pretty much all of the women I go out with are 25-34 And if you ask for a girls number and she literally says no but you can have my Instagram that often means they aren’t that interested …
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:40 AM
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Do you even have an Instagram profile that’s already somewhat built up, with really good photos and shows you living an incredible lifestyle? And have you had success and experience dating tons of women ages 18-25 or is that just some fantasy of yours? You need to be somewhat realistic. 99% of women ages 18-25 want absolutely nothing to do with men over the age of 40. And you’re also married AND have kids. Seems like a daunting task. Social media game only usually works well if you have a really…
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:29 AM
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Once you realize that women don’t give a shit about the words that are coming out of your mouth and those words are forgotten seconds to minutes into the interaction, and that there are hundreds of more important things that women are actually judging you on, and you stop overthinking this part, cold approach becomes waaaaay easier
/r/seduction13/05/24 09:11 PM
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Yea I agree with that too…the reasoning didn’t make sense. Cold approach is definitely part of seduction.
/r/seduction13/05/24 04:31 PM
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Honestly like 90% of the posts here offer absolutely nothing of value and should be deleted immediately. Like that post. Dude just wrote a short novel to say “having better social skills will get you more women” (NO SHIT) and then went on to brag about how he has better skills than most people and was able to meet 100 women. Completely pointless post. Just an absolute waste of time for anyone reading it.
/r/seduction13/05/24 04:02 PM
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20 minutes driving isn’t far at all when it comes to logistics and night game in big cities. I live in one of the top 3 largest cities in the US and go out all of the time and am usually about 15-20 minutes away from home in most cases. It’s very common. Cities are big. It’s also pretty easy to go back to the girls place if she lives closer. Logistics really only matter if you’re like 45-1 hr away and live in the suburbs. It’s also kind of annoying driving that far to downtown and paying a lot f…
/r/seduction13/05/24 03:40 PM
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He’s right for the most part. Talking to random strangers at a bar is completely different than talking to a girl on a date who you know is single and interested in you. I have friends just like you that do well on the apps. But they are really scared and nervous at bars and basically refuse to talk to women or approach anyone. Lots of guys are like this nowadays. It’s completely different skillsets. It’s not that the women on the apps are targeting you.
/r/seduction13/05/24 03:06 AM
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Well there’s your answer. If you’re going out and not actually talking to any women or actively approaching tons of women each night, how do you expect to meet them? What do you expect to happen? And again….on the apps women are purely judging you on your photos for the most part. Whereas when you meet women in public they are judging you on your physical attractiveness, body language, vocal tonality, how nervous you seem, sense of style, communication skills, sense of humor, your vibe, your per…
/r/seduction13/05/24 02:53 AM
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Are you actually trying to approach tons of women when you go out? They aren’t going to throw themselves at you. You also are just probably really nervous and anxious when you’re out and don’t have much game and could probably work on your conversation skills. Talking to a stranger at a bar and making her become attracted to you is completely different than messaging a girl on an app or talking to a girl on a date that is already interested. Dating apps are basically just 90% photos too. If you …
/r/seduction13/05/24 02:48 AM
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Yea I’m literally just a degenerate and love going to bars and clubs. I’m in my early 30’s and have been going to bars for 15 plus years. I even went to the University of Illinois which was one of like 3 schools in the country where somehow they have weird laws where you were able to get into bars at the age of 18 legally. And I live in Chicago which is a top 4-5 nightlife city in the country. I have shit tons of nightgame experience and have been to literally hundreds of different bars and club…
/r/seduction11/05/24 07:05 PM
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I also am in my early 30’s now and so like half of my friends are married with kids and half are still single. All of my friends that are married have zero desire to go to bars anymore since they aren’t trying to meet anyone. It makes no sense. Occasionally they’ll go out for special occasions. But it doesn’t make sense to spend hours getting ready, taking a 15-20 minute ride to the bar, pay $10 for drinks, etc if you’re just going to stand around and talk to your friends and wife the whole time…
/r/seduction11/05/24 06:50 PM
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Yes there are some women that just want to go out and hang out with the girls. But the main reason most people go to bars and clubs is to socialize and be around other people and to meet people. That’s the reason they exist and the reason they were created. If people want to have a chill night home with close friends it’s way easier to just stay home. Drinks are expensive as hell at bars, you have to drive out of the way and pay for cabs and Ubers to get there, it’s a hassle. Girls spend tons of…
/r/seduction11/05/24 06:43 PM
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This is honestly a pointless argument but for example I was at a bar a couple weeks ago and this woman was sitting directly across from me by herself. And she was giving me eye contact. And then some random dude approached her and she gave me the look like he was being weird and wanted to be saved. And she was basically telling me with her eyes that she wanted me to come talk to her. And she was a complete stranger that I’ve never met or spoken to before. But this would technically be a warm app…
/r/seduction11/05/24 06:20 PM
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It’s hard to not feel low value when going to a random place that you don’t even want to be at just to wander around talking to anything with a pussy because that’s a very weird, low value thing to do. And women can just read the desperation coming out of you and know exactly what you’re doing. I go to places that I enjoy and places that I know I will have fun at and places I’m familiar and comfortable at. And I go there to have a good time and socialize with all types of people. And as a result…
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:45 PM
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You seriously have to ask Reddit strangers if you should go hang out with a girl you’re interested in? Yes papa Reddit says it’s ok for you to go out with these girls…just make sure you’re not home past midnight or you’re going to be grounded for the next week.
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:17 PM
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The definition of cold approach means that you haven’t gotten any signs of interest from her. If she’s giving you signs then it’s called a warm approach. Generally speaking looking for signs is going to give you way better results and way less rejection. But there are times where you see a girl you like and have to talk to her regardless. You shouldn’t really think about it that much. In nightgame you’re going get more signs than daygame too. Since there’s way more single women out and women are…
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:30 PM
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She’s probably not that interested if you had to extend the match. Simply matching on bumble does not mean much. Only when she matches and also messages do you know she’s interested. Girls on bumble get a bunch of matches then sort of go through them again and filter guys out more. She could have been busy too but I’ve noticed in most cases girls that are interested are matching and then messaging pretty quickly after
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:16 PM
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Pictures and bio probably aren’t that great…hard to tell without actually seeing your profile but I guarantee there’s things you could change
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:13 PM
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You’re probably really bad at reading choosing signals (most men are terrible at it). Women generally speaking are nice, friendly, empathetic people. Especially in work environments. Everyone wants to get along with coworkers because it makes the job way better. Just because she looks at you sometimes or smiles at you or starts conversations with you or jokes around with you means absolutely nothing at all
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:59 PM
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I think you’ll like it especially in the summer. We call it “Summertime Chi”. The whole city changes once it gets nice out. Everyone goes out. There’s patios and rooftops everywhere. Beaches. Crazy boat parties. Neighborhood street festivals where they shut down multiple blocks. Concerts every weekend. Shit tons of bars and clubs. Immaculate food scene. Probably the best restaurants in the country outside of NYC, LA and Vegas.One of the few cities where stuff stays open until 5am. Just Google su…
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:35 AM
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I live in Chicago and I think it’s another solid option. 3rd largest city in the US. Shit tons of people. Top 3-4 city in the country for nightlife. It’s a huge global city so there are tons of highly educated professional people here. It’s extremely dense and very easy to get around. Was named the most walkable city in the country. Also the most bikeable. Tons of public transportation. The weather is the same. It’s basically like a slightly smaller, way cleaner NYC. NY for sure has a better rat…
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:28 AM
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And women aren’t approached a lot nowadays and many are pretty shy too and get nervous when guys approach them so it’s fine to break the ice a little bit. And it makes it seem like you aren’t just some guy that’s hitting on every girl. You’re approaching her specifically because you want to meet HER. And I’m telling you, women will react positively. They aren’t going to get mad or call you a creep. You’re going to make her day at the very minimum even if she has a boyfriend or isn’t that physica…
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:39 AM
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And honesty you can even say things like “I normally don’t do this and I’m a little nervous”. And women find that really endearing and cute. And it makes you seem genuine. Because you’re being vulnerable. Being vulnerable isn’t weakness it’s a sign of power. Because you’re being courageous and showing her you aren’t scared of rejection. And you aren’t scared to express your emotions and how you feel no matter the outcome
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:13 AM
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Just be a man and go talk to her in person. Next time you see her don’t think, just go up to her, stand tall, smile and say “Excuse me…I keep seeing you around campus and I think you’re really cute and I know I’m going to be kicking myself for the rest of the day if I don’t get a chance to meet you. My name is X” She may not be interested and that’s life but at least you’ll stop wasting hours of your life staring at her, waiting for the perfect opportunity and wondering what if and she will defi…
/r/seduction11/05/24 01:57 AM
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You also seem to be extremely picky and looking for needle in the haystack type women. What do you have to offer them? And how do you stand out over all of the men you’re competing with for these women (who are all going to be elite men). I mean I get wanting looks and ambition and a solid job but who the fuck cares about what college they went to. I know women that didn’t even go to college that are more ambitious and have better jobs than women from elite schools. But yes you will obviously fi…
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:06 PM
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How can literally measure your dick and figure out if it’s small or not. That may actually give you confidence since you could actually be much bigger than you think. Women know absolutely nothing about actual penis sizes
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:08 PM
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I mean I guess…you were already being needy in the first place so just texting her again because she didn’t respond and asking why she didn’t or if she still wanted to hang out would just make you seem even more needy What I would have done instead of putting the ball in her court and letting her say “I’m going to text you later” and then waiting around staring at your phone for hours in anticipation like a loser, is tell her something like “Actually I have plans to go to X place at X time tonig…
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:50 PM
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She’s getting railed by Chad right now
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:30 PM
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If you are so terrible with women that you need to wander around a city spam approaching anything with a pussy while simultaneously filming them without their consent you need to reevaluate your life and how you got to this point and seek help and or therapy immediately
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:25 PM
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If I found out that my girlfriend or sister was going about her day and some creepy ass loser was wandering around a city spam approaching random women and filming videos of her without her consent I would beat the living shit out of him.
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:23 PM
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There are similarities for sure but there are also a lot of little nuances of night game that make it way different than day game. It’s just way more of a crapshoot since drugs and alcohol are involved, you’re going to get way harsher rejections sometimes because people are drunk and in all types of moods. Logistics are way more important. Social proof and pre selection is way more important. Things like the 3 second rule matter way less since people stay at bars and you can see the same people …
/r/seduction10/05/24 05:29 PM
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She was probably extremely drunk and lots of girls just like to go out, have fun at a bar, dance and make out with dudes and want nothing more. Or maybe she just wanted to make someone else jealous. Who knows.That’s just night game….it can be a shit show sometimes. I’ve made out with tons of girls at bars with nothing else happening
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:19 PM
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If this is a first date it doesn’t sound like the best idea. When you’re riding a bike you have to focus on riding the bike so you can’t really talk to the other person at all or get to know them and you can’t touch them at all or escalate physically. And then at the end of the bike ride you’re both going to be sweaty and smelly which is going to make women self conscious and hesitant to get close and physical. Also people can just tell how physically fit someone is within seconds of looking at …
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:39 AM
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Most men are also terrible at reading choosing signals and don’t realize that lots of women are naturally flirty creatures that just do it for entertainment and fun
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:28 AM
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Extremely vague post. More context would be useful…such as how you met this person, where you met her, how long you talked to her before getting her number, what you talked about, etc.
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:17 AM
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Yea it’s usually the guys on dating apps that suck at flirting and as a result women give one word answers
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:58 AM
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It’s the exact same thing my man…she is in a medical profession and you’re a patient. Whether it’s a doctor, dentist, therapist, nurse, surgeon, etc. You can Google it. It goes against the American Dental Association code of ethics. Most offices have rules in place that forbid it. Most people in these professions completely avoid it because of the potential risks. It’s also the dentists job to be nice and friendly to patients. You also have no idea if she’s single. Listen you can do you and find…
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:51 AM
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Dentists are similar to doctors where having relationships with patients is a very serious matter. It goes against the codes of ethics, in some places there can be legal ramifications, it goes against their codes of conduct, it’s extremely unethical and many doctors and dentists offices have rules in place that forbid them from dating patients and if they disobey there are grounds for termination of their jobs. In some cases you can even lose your license and be forbidden from practicing medicin…
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:45 AM
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His actions are causing you to not get girls…you literally said yourself in your post that he’s damaging your social status and turning women off. That’s the definition of cockblocking. Whether or not he’s doing it on purpose doesn’t matter. You need to either confront him and tell him to stop or find other people to go out with. You just sound like a simp
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:12 AM
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Only go for the girls that you want and are actually attracted to and that have the qualities that you are looking for. Don’t worry about the girls that other people say you “should” be dating. It’s your life. Don’t worry about others opinions.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:32 PM
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I would agree but he did say it’s the last day of the semester and he’s also going to a community college so nobody is really there for that long and often transferring to new schools
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:11 PM
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Nobody here knows this girl…nobody knows what she’s thinking. Nobody has met her. Nobody has witnessed any interaction you’ve had with her. Nobody knows if she’s just a friendly person at work or if she has a crush on you or if she’s just using you for something at work. Stop wondering what she’s thinking and making up these imaginary scenarios in your head and just go talk to her and get to know her better if you like her. Flirt a little bit and then ask her to hang out outside of work. Then yo…
/r/seduction09/05/24 10:22 PM
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Yea if you like this girl and want to date her you’re fucking it up by ignoring her and not talking to her. If you don’t like her that much and don’t care that much then it doesn’t really matter. You need to figure out what you actually want. It’s not over at this point but you need to start making moves ASAP if you want this girl or she’s just going to think you’re not interested and move onto other dudes that are. It’s really not a complicated situation
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:39 PM
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You sound like a cuck
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:54 PM
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Hard to tell without seeing your profile and photos and what you’re saying to these girls while messaging
/r/seduction09/05/24 04:46 AM
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You literally had a post almost bragging about having 3 lays and 7 makeouts over many months before lockdown. That’s nothing at all. People can literally do that in a weekend in Chicago with half the effort you seem to be putting in
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:15 AM
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You yourself have had 28 straight posts of absolute shit content as well without saying anything worthwhile. The amount of work you seem to be putting into this compared to the results you’ve been posting has also been embarrassing to say the least
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:12 AM
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This dude literally has 28 posts in this subreddit in the last day…more than every single other person combined. And there’s 700k people here. And the vast majority are offering no advice or asking any questions…. it’s him just jerking himself off. It’s ridiculous. Nobody wants to read this shit or cares. I don’t even want to keep commenting because it’s just feeding his ego and insecurities. But it’s just not what Reddit or this subreddit is for. It needs to be banned or stopped somehow. It’s f…
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:52 PM
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Dude if there’s one piece of advice here it’s to never listen to high school boys advice when it comes to dating. Even if you’re friends. We were all that age some point but you guys have no idea what you’re doing at that age
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:52 PM
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Yea well there’s your problem…texting for well over a month, been on numerous dates and you’ve barely crossed 2nd base. That’s kind of crazy
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:01 PM
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Have you had sex with this girl yet?
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:54 PM
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You let her respond and if she doesn’t you move onto the next person because she just isn’t that interested. It’s online dating…you’re one of 50 different complete and total strangers she’s matched with. You’re not that special she’s not that special. It’s not that serious.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:24 PM
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Solid field report…wrote a short novel about 3 dudes who spent hours at numerous bars and only one person talked to a girl for more than 5 minutes and all he was able to do was get a drunken bar make out. Proud of you guys. One day I hope everyone in this forum can have this level of game and be just like you
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:04 PM
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Also I’ve had friends that went to these schools and none of these schools were even notorious for having good looking women. I went to a big ten school and Northwestern was a joke in quality of women compared to other big 10 schools. DePaul and UIC never had that many cute women either. Even your post mentioned that you’re mainly meeting 4’s -7’s at the majority of these places. There are significantly hotter girls in areas of the city that don’t have college campuses. And all of the fine ass c…
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:30 PM
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Also nobody here cares if you want to date 19-22 year old girls but it is extremely creepy that you’re living in one of the best cities in the US and you’re spending so much time hanging out on college campuses that you don’t go to. So much that you’re able to write detailed reports with numerical statistics from each college. And especially since many of the colleges you mentioned aren’t in fun areas of the city where people actually hang out. You’re literally driving outside of the city to wei…
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:20 PM
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Northwestern isn’t even in Chicago. It’s a suburb 30-45 min north of the city so not sure why that’s mentioned. Northeastern is a joke of a campus. It’s literally for people that couldn’t get into good colleges or want to go for 1-2 years and transfer. There’s also nothing in that area. Loyola is also very far north. Nobody really goes out and has fun in those areas. UIC also isn’t in a great area. There isn’t much to do there and people don’t go out there. The only school in a nice area that pe…
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:12 PM
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Please do not take advice from a digital nomad that travels throughout the world, spends a few months in a city and leaves. I’ve literally lived in Chicago my entire life and this is one of the weirdest and creepiest posts I’ve ever seen in my life. The fact that you’ve put this much effort into analyzing statistics of colleges throughout the city is batshit crazy. Chicago is literally one of the largest and most densely populated cities in the US. We have the best nightlife in the country outsi…
/r/seduction08/05/24 06:18 PM
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Dude talks about how great the traveling nomadic lifestyle is then spends every waking hour of his day talking shit and trying to brag to random internet strangers on Reddit….hmmmm
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:43 PM
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She’s a dude
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:04 PM
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Dude you have like 17 posts across this subreddit in the last day. You’re constantly seeking approval from internet strangers who don’t know you and don’t give a shit about you at all about things like hooking up with younger girls, cheating on your girlfriend, various random anecdotes and stories from travels abroad. It’s fucking insane. The majority of your posts don’t even feel like you’re asking for advice or giving it….they just read like humble brags. You seem insanely insecure, self cente…
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:58 PM
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Yea it’s just a lot of girls at that age also don’t have their own place….it’s hard at times but good luck
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:45 PM
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Yea I mean at your age it’s expected so it isn’t really a turn off to women at all…and with some women you’ll meet you’ll be able to go to their place (just not that specific one). It’s also completely fine to be living with roommates and bring girls back with you as well. Or even be living with parents and bring girls back if they’re cool with it
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:33 PM
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Yea that would be your best option if there are hotels that are easy to access close to the venue…it can just get expensive as booking a decently nice hotel in a large city on a Friday/Saturday night without reservation on last minutes notice can cost hundreds of dollars (but I have no idea where you live). You should never just settle for a phone number or Snapchat and leave it at that though. If she clearly seems into you, dancing and making out with you, then you should try to escalate more a…
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:26 PM
10

Yea logistics is basically the most important part of hooking up with girls and having one night stands during nightgame at bars and clubs. If you don’t have your own place to take them to that’s close by the venue, if you aren’t asking her questions to see what her logistics are like for the night and if she also does not have her own place, it’s going to be extremely difficult to make anything happen.
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:15 PM
3

You just seem insecure
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:08 PM
19

You take them home to your place and fuck them and then they will stay in touch with you (if the sex was good)
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:04 PM
38

First of all 31 years old is still really young and it’s still relatively common for men that age to want to go after younger women ages 19-25. It’s really not that crazy. As you get into your mid-late 30’s though there really just start to be huge compatibility issues with dating women that young. The vast majority of women ages 19-25 want nothing to do with men 35 years or older (unless they have daddy issues). You’re just at completely different points in life, looking for different things, o…
/r/seduction07/05/24 09:42 PM
2

I go out to bars and clubs all of the time and trust me, men today also don’t have enough game and don’t approach women at all. I’d even argue that way less men are doing it….especially those ages 25 and younger. It’s becoming quite embarrassing to witness
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:49 PM
3

His point is that this question is literally asked almost every single day here…I’m pretty sure this exact post was even made yesterday and there were 30 plus responses of numerous books and materials that are recommended
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:24 PM
98

Picture yourself walking down the street…you’re having a great day, minding your own business. Then some random stranger you’ve never met before comes up to you and tells you they love your shoes, or you have a great smile, or you’re beautiful and then IMMEDIATELY want your personal phone number or Instagram or they want to take you somewhere and buy you drinks or coffee and shit. You’re naturally going to say to yourself, “Who the fuck is this person? What does he actually want? What is he tryi…
/r/seduction07/05/24 05:46 AM
8

You should have talked to her about 1.994 years ago
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:07 AM
5

If you’re even talking about anything work related with a woman in the first 15-20 min of a conversation you’re doing it wrong. Nobody wants to talk about that or cares that much. I don’t even have a job listed on my dating app profiles and not a single person has asked me what I do before agreeing to give a phone number or go on a date
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:34 AM
7

He’s completely right with everything he said…the dude had numerous opportunities and didn’t do shit and just treated her like shit
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:00 AM
22

Dude you’re in college just go to house parties and bars and frat parties and shit….it’s really not over complicated at that age
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:44 AM
4

Just whatever you do don’t get discouraged when you fail miserably because the vast majority of women in their early to mid 20’s with unlimited options want absolutely nothing to do with men in their 40’s….especially when they are also coworkers
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:43 AM
25

You just don’t go out to bars and clubs that much or don’t live in cities that have crazy nightlife scenes if you think this isn’t possible. I’ve made out with 4-5 girls in the same night before. I was out on new years this year in Chicago at a huge bar and made out with a girl and her best friend within 8 minutes of being at the bar just by asking them if they got a kiss at midnight or not Making out is pretty easy…but it’s really not that big of a deal or something to brag about. It just happe…
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:14 PM
8

That’s just going out from 9pm - 2am on Friday and Saturday night….really not that much. Basically just a standard weekend for a young adult living in relatively large city in the summer. And you’re really not doing many approaches when you’re out at a bar with friends. Just having fun and it naturally happens from being in that environment That’s why I find this spam daygame approach where people wander around a mall for 5 hours to be kind of ridiculous. When you can just have significantly bet…
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:02 PM
15

Driving 2 hours to Chicago to do daygame just seems a little ridiculous to me. I literally live in Chicago and the dating apps are so easy here because of how densely populated in is and the nightlife scene (especially in summer) is so ridiculous and there’s so many fucking places jam packed with women it’s honestly not even worth the effort going out during the day with the sole purpose of meeting women. I just live my normal life and do things that I want to do and go out on the weekends to ha…
/r/seduction06/05/24 06:23 PM
2

So you actually think that the best way for you to make up for your initially uncalibrated, borderline creepy introduction is to be even more of a creep?
/r/seduction06/05/24 05:03 PM
2

You’ve been talking to this girl for 2 months which is a ridiculously long ass time without meeting them in person. She’s already determined at this point whether or not she is attracted to you and considers you as a potential partner that she’s willing to give a chance to, or if you’re just a nice guy she likes talking to and using for attention. Based off everything you said with her being cold initially, cancelling the date last minute with a BS excuse (I mean cmon who studies on a Saturday n…
/r/seduction06/05/24 01:47 AM
1

It has nothing to do with the timing of the text…these girls just aren’t that interested in you and you aren’t developing a meaningful enough of a connection for them to give a shit about you the next day. You’re talking to drunk girls at bars for 10 minutes, getting a phone number and moving on. And then she also gets approached by 15 other dudes just like you that night, probably gives her number out to a few more. Then wakes up hungover the next day and reality kicks in. She goes out the next…
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:26 PM
13

College bars are like the easiest places humanly possible to meet women…I’m just going to assume you’re physically attractive
/r/seduction04/05/24 09:08 PM
11

You gotta just find other women….she’s clearly just not into you and using you for attention. 5 months is an absurd amount of time to be talking to someone and not dating them or at least hooking up.
/r/seduction03/05/24 09:50 PM
3

Are you guys hooking up and having sex at least? How old are you?
/r/seduction03/05/24 09:35 PM
4

What does talking to someone for 5 months mean? You guys aren’t dating yet? You just been hooking up and keeping it casual for 5 months and nobody has caught feelings? Have you met this girl yet? Have you been on many dates? Have you had sex many times? Who is this girl?
/r/seduction03/05/24 09:13 PM
2

You are stupid as shit if you think bringing up someone’s race in the first 2 seconds of a conversation is a good strategy
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:09 PM
3

Please go up to random black women and say “so you’re black” and report back what happens Yea I’m sure they won’t care at all 😂. You’re a fucking moron
/r/seduction03/05/24 04:52 PM
19

Make sure to also touch and feel her hair as well. Then tell her she looks cute for a black girl. Then tell her she speaks well for a black girl. Then tell her you love her lips. Then ask if she can twerk. Then tell her you like how she’s black but not TOO black. Then tell her you’ve always wanted to date a black girl. Then tell her you have a lot of black friends. Then tell her you’d make beautiful mixed race babies with her. Then please come back and tell us what happened
/r/seduction03/05/24 04:50 PM
42

It’s not normal at all to have numerous girls in a one week period be in your bed cuddling with you, getting uncomfortable and leaving. You’re clearly doing or saying creepy ass shit to weird them out or escalating way too fast, not reading the situation, touching them weird etc. This is clearly a YOU problem You even kind of sound like a creep throughout this post
/r/seduction03/05/24 04:06 AM
1

Why would you date a girl that’s willing to blatantly flirt with other guys right in front of your face and not end it herself? And if she is why would you think sitting there and watching like a cuck is the best choice?
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:50 AM
2

Bro you had a normal conversation with another human about living in the same building together. Then you got her number solely under the context of getting a new job. That’s why she gave it to you….because she was being nice and friendly as a new person moving to the building. Nothing you wrote here was flirting or attraction. That is not day game. That is not seduction. You didn’t really do anything here. You asked a human for a job reference and she gave it to you. Just because you think a gi…
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:42 AM
2

Ghosting means stopping talking to someone forever without warning….it’s not ghosting if she responds back a couple days later trying to hang out again. Either way the definition of the word is meaningless…if you like the girl and want to hang out with her and see where it goes then just do it. She apologized. Just don’t allow her to walk all over you in the future. If not then just meet other girls.
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:35 PM
2

It’s very fitting that in 2024 the most popular post in a seduction Reddit is just one shitting on all women in an entire country. My god this place is just overrun with incel losers nowadays
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:25 PM
6

Yea but those girls are already into you before going on the date…they aren’t random strangers on a street that know nothing about you. It’s completely different
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:19 PM
19

I go out every weekend to the most popular and populated areas in a major us city and I can tell you that most young men ages 18-35 nowadays aren’t masculine at all, extremely nervous/anxious with zero confidence and scared shitless to talk to women
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:56 PM
2

Well yea that’s your entire problem. First of all you’re approaching women during the day at places where people generally don’t like to be approached and don’t like talking to strangers. You’re approaching women completely randomly without knowing if they are actually single and without them giving any signals or indications that they are into you. And you’re doing the same thing over and over. Complimenting and asking for a number. People don’t just give phone numbers out and care about a rand…
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:39 PM
1

Right but how many total women have you actually approached this year in person and where are you approaching them and how are you approaching them?
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:30 PM
16

That’s the answer…every single woman on the apps is single and looking to date someone. And if they matched with you that means that they are already attracted to you. Whereas many random women are already going to be taken and they also know nothing about you when you approach them. They are judging you on that approach in that specific moment. And your way of approaching women in public is pretty terrible. Calling random stranger cute and immediately asking for a number is gonna fail 90% of ti…
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:21 PM
6

Because the only thing women really have to judge people and make first impressions on with online dating are your photos, a couple of dumb prompts and whatever other “stats” you choose to show (height, job, political preference, college etc). When you approach women in real life there are a million other things they can judge you on (confidence, body language, vocal tonality, perceived social value, sense of style, your scent, how nervous you are, sense of humor, etc, etc etc.) Also dating apps…
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:14 PM
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You’re overthinking this shit way too much…reading way too much PUA shit. Bro she already agreed to the date. And she’s a stranger you know absolutely nothing about. Just go on the date, have fun and see if you actually like her or not. Honestly the more stupid shit you try to think of right now to try to “switch the frame” or whatever the fuck you’re talking about (nobody knows) the more you risk of turning her off and her just ghosting you. You don’t need any more witty text messages to make h…
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:28 AM
19

You use these cringey PUA words like IOI way too much and clearly don’t even know what they mean since like 90% of them weren’t IOI’s “They tell me they’re from Texas” is not an IOI 😂
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:51 PM
8

I mean you went out with the sole purpose of trying to pick up girls. Then you just wandered around the bar like a creep trying to find anyone with a vagina that seemed to be single. You couldn’t find that so you just decided to not talk to anyone else and go dance with a bunch of dudes over and over (that part was confusing) Not really sure what you expected to happen here. Wandering around the bar on the prowl looking for any woman by themselves to say “hey ur cute” (pretty terrible opener def…
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:24 PM
2

This isn’t a travel subreddit
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:48 PM
6

Bars and clubs are not for collecting meaningless phone numbers and trying to set up future dates…the goal is to take women home that same night or else you’re most likely going to get ghosted once women wake up hungover, the drugs and booze wear off and they’re back to reality
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:52 PM
2

It’s extremely common for any male or female in any country to have 3-4 relationships by the age of 23 dude. It’s not that big of a deal
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:22 PM
5

I never understand how guys ask where to find women….there’s over 4 billion of them in the world. Just leave your house and go literally anywhere and you’ll find them lol Unless your living in a remote area of Alaska or something there are zero excuses
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:18 PM
147

Maybe stop wasting so much time messaging with complete and total strangers online and ask them out on actual dates….or go meet women in person. You clearly aren’t attracting these beautiful women if they aren’t willing to go on dates with you and ghost you before you’ve even met.
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:15 PM
8

It’s not possibly this is a completely normal situation. Lots of people and women start dating or have their first boyfriend around the ages of 15-16. So having 3 partners by the age of 23 over the course of 7-8 years is extremely normal (especially in college from ages 19-23). Honestly body count is more concerning at a young age. A girl that’s fucked 20-30 guys by the age of 23 is way more concerning than a girl that’s been in a few longer term relationships
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:28 PM
5

I mean she could have dater one guy from the ages of 16-17 another from the ages of 19-20 and another from the ages of 22-23. Along with some short flings or one night stands along the way. It’s really not that crazy at all and completely normal for people that age and in college. I know tons of guys that have had at least 3 girlfriends before the age of 23 and some that have had none. Everyone moves at different paces and wants different things l. And does not mean she’s not wifey material. You…
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:22 PM
34

Literally like every single girl you’re ever going to meet is going to have fucked other guys and been in relationships with other guys before you…unless you’re like 16 years old. It’s really not something you can avoid, especially as you get older. So there’s really no need to think or worry about it. It’s just life
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:16 PM
8

Youre not going to learn anything because no girls are going to match with and have long flirtatious conversations with a profile that only has photos of dogs. Besides bots. Maybe if you’re in the photo with the dogs and have other good photos. You’re also going to kill the algorithms of your dating apps because so many girls will be swiping left on you….you get bumped down. Overall it’s a bad strategy. If you don’t have any decent photos of yourself there’s no reason to even use the dating apps
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:19 AM
5

You ain’t gonna get many quality matches if any on dating apps with photos of dogs
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:53 PM
21

Again I don’t know I’m not a doctor or therapist but it wouldn’t be a bad idea to see one
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:45 PM
25

Idk I’m not a therapist but what you’re saying here is not normal at all for a male your age
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:31 PM
2

This girl just doesn’t seem into you at all…giving an Instagram in that context is her just letting you down easy. If she was into you she’d give her phone number. Especially when you doubled down and said you don’t have Instagram and she still wouldn’t give it to you. Giving a phone number takes zero effort and is super easy to do. If she’s not willing to give a simple phone number there’s little chance she’s willing to spend time going on an actual date. I get phone numbers from literal strang…
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:30 PM
85

Seek therapy…you’re not going to find much help in a Reddit group littered with 20 year old incels scared to talk to humans
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:15 PM
1

This shit just doesn’t matter at all….it’s a small group with little active users comprised mainly of trolls. If you live in any city with at least like 200k people you don’t really need to worry about meeting the same women. It just doesn’t matter. There’s so many people out there in the world
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:35 PM
9

That’s 30k people that have followed the group at some point not 30k active daily users. I live in Chicago which is the 3rd largest city in the US and the group has 90k people which is absolutely nothing relative to the total population. I’ve never in my life even heard of a single person or friend using this site. It’s really not something you have to think about. There’s a million more important things
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:32 PM
1

These groups are so small there’s no reason to even worry about them. I’ve never even heard a single person talk about them in my life
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:11 PM
2

No wonder so many guys say dating apps are hard
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:36 PM
224

Don’t count your chickens before they hatch
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:29 PM
2

It’s you
/r/seduction20/04/24 12:49 AM
2

I’ll usually ask a girl if she’s adventurous and they’ll normally say yes. Then I’ll say the reason I asked is because I hate wasting time messaging on the apps and becoming pen pals. I’d rather just take you out have fun and see if we vibe. Lots of girls will say yes that sounds great some want to talk more and I’ll usually just stop talking to them in most cases. I am in my early 30’s though. Most girls from the ages of 25-34 are more serious on the apps and don’t want to message either and wo…
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:05 PM
2

You don’t ever need to wait that long if the girl is actually into you and serious about dating. This girl just seems like a time waster and attention seeker. You don’t need to build rapport with women on apps…it’s bullshit. You can get tons of girls on dates in 6-7 messages max. Many girls just use the apps for fun and to fuck around. A week and a half is a long ass time to chat with a complete stranger. If she’s not ready to go on a date yet she’s just not into you.
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:46 PM
3

Waiting an entire week to text a girl after having sex with her if she’s also not texting you during that time is horrible advice
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:20 PM
7

There’s no perfect amount of time….you’re overthinking this way too much. What do you want her to question? What does that even mean? You’ve had sex with her…the ball is now in your court. Either she likes you and the sex was good and she wants to have sex again or she doesn’t like you and doesn’t want to fuck you again. LThe timing of the texts is meaningless. Too many guys try to play these games and it’s idiotic. Especially once you’ve accomplished your goal and had sex. I’ve literally texted…
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:35 PM
3

In most cases no
/r/seduction19/04/24 06:10 PM
1

Dating apps because you can change your location and start matching and talking to girls before you even get there
/r/seduction19/04/24 02:58 AM
6

Just because your friends girlfriend has hot friends doesn’t mean they’re obligated to date her friends. They just aren’t into you. Go meet other girls Your friend is spot on here
/r/seduction19/04/24 02:30 AM
2

Blatently hitting on women shopping in the the women’s section of a store you’re working at is a great way to get fired ASAP. Especially if you just started working there and especially if you don’t have much experience talking to women. Because the risk of you doing and saying moronic shit that women take the wrong way is extremely high. I’m going to assume you have very little experience and are extremely anxious around women since you’re posting on Reddit for help and admitting that you’re sh…
/r/seduction18/04/24 06:01 PM
13

Yes
/r/seduction18/04/24 01:18 AM
3

Yes
/r/seduction18/04/24 12:00 AM
6

You’re thinking way too much and over analyzing every little detail of every interaction. It’s insane. Just ask for her number and ask her on a date. You’ll know right then and there if she’s actually into you or not
/r/seduction17/04/24 11:59 PM
3

You’re overthinking way too much…many girls will not have sex on a first date no matter what. And she’s asking you to hang out next weekend. You’re fine
/r/seduction17/04/24 11:33 PM
35

Both are extremely creepy and borderline predatory behavior
/r/seduction17/04/24 10:23 PM
3

That joke he mentioned is fucking horrible and super cringey though
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:01 PM
23

I don’t ever match with anyone 100 miles away from me because that’s an insane distance and most people don’t want to deal with that or have their filters set that high…why would you even want to have a longer distance relationship when you can meet tons of girls super close? And it’s the same with women…they have hundreds of matches with men who live in their town or super close to them and can see on a daily basis so most don’t want to deal with it either. It’s a very valid thing for women to …
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:46 PM
102

There’s literally 9 year old Asian kids that are smarter than you too…who the hell cares. Stop comparing yourself to others. There’s always going to be people better than you at certain things. And you’re going to be way better and more experienced than them at other things. Stop making having sex this super important thing that defines your entire existence. There’s more to life. You’re also not a grown ass man at the age of 21. You’re still a child
/r/seduction12/04/24 10:30 PM
5

It doesn’t matter…what matters if the girl actually likes you or not It’s also impossible to answer this with no context or knowing what you’re actually looking for
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:27 AM
4

This isn’t 100% but generally women only bring up having a boyfriend if they are pretty happy with them. Women that have boyfriends and are willing to cheat on them don’t normally bring up it up ever. It just doesn’t make sense. If you’re a woman and you want a guy and are attracted to him and want him, why would you tell him you have a boyfriend? Since, most guys will move on right then and there and go after girls that aren’t taken. It’s illogical. Usually if you meet a girl and she wants to c…
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:12 AM
-2

THIS…it’s literally scientifically proven that watching porn in moderation is healthy for you. But yea porn is the reason why so many guys can’t get laid. Riiiiiiiiiiight……
/r/seduction11/04/24 09:32 PM
55

What the hell are you talking about? The friendzone happens when there is a friendship between two people and one person has an unreciprocated romantic or sexual interest in the other. So there is such thing as the friendzone. It’s not a difficult thing to understand. It’s not rocket science or quantum mechanics. You want to fuck your hot friend. She doesn’t want to fuck you and doesn’t see you as a potential lover, she just sees you as a friend. Thus you are in the friendzone. And once you are …
/r/seduction10/04/24 10:56 PM
5

Why do you even want to waste time “dating” a woman that won’t have sex until marriage and also wants to settle down asap with a Christian man when these are things that you don’t actually want? There are unlimited women in the world who are just as awesome and cute as this girl but also want the same things as you. It’s kind of insane to be honest
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:30 PM
8

Yikes…this is above my pay grade lol. Personally I think it’s absolutely insane for anyone to get married to someone without having sex with them first so I just won’t respond further But yea you are being way too clingy and needy and nice and giving serious boyfriend vibes to a girl you’ve never had sex with and are barely even actually dating
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:10 PM
8

Lol yea you said nothing about you guys actually dating that’s pretty relevant. Have you had sex with this girl?
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:08 PM
36

This formatting is horrible you need to repost
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:04 PM
22

If you’re into her and you think she’s into you maybe stop being a little bitch and actually ask the girl out on a date before treating her like you’re a couple since you aren’t. This is childish shit. Are you in 3rd grade?
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:00 PM
23

If you have to ask if she’s interested it generally means she’s not interested….girls make it extremely obvious especially early on
/r/seduction10/04/24 02:02 PM
8

Wtf is a hug boundary?
/r/seduction10/04/24 06:35 AM
46

We’re talking about the general population not a single specific situation. For most girls it’s a massive turn off. There’s also many factors such as age. If you were under the age of 20-21 and still a virgin it would be more normal and women wouldn’t care as much, especially girls that you’re in relationships with. If you’re in your mid-late 20’s or later, being a virgin would be a big red flag
/r/seduction09/04/24 09:53 PM
107

No women are generally more attracted to confident experienced men. Sure some may have some rare weird fetishes but it general most don’t want men that have never been able to get pussy in their entire lives.
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:34 PM
3

Yea and a lot of the 4 billion men are worthless fucks too….it all evens out in the end
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:26 PM
2

Also did you actually set up a firm date with girl 1 or did you just plan to do something on Wednesday. Did you actually say let’s do this thing at this place at this specific time and she agreed and said yes? It’s confusing because you’re talking about maybe watching the show on Wednesday. It seems like she agreed to possibly hang out Wednesday but not an actual date/plan. The 2nd one isn’t ghosting since you had nothing planned. It just seems like she’s not interested
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:22 PM
1

There’s 4 billion women in the world and the ratio of men to women is 50/50. So to say that there’s not many girls in the world and not enough for everyone is ridiculous since there are an equal amount of men and women
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:20 PM
9

There’s literally more women in the US than men
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:05 PM
6

With the first girl you just seem way too anxious and eager. If you’ve already scheduled a date with her in 2 days why are you still talking about your favorite tv shows and shit. Save the conversations for the date. The 2nd girl just doesn’t seem interested at all. There’s not much you can do there if she doesn’t respond. If she’s interested in you and serious she’d agree to go get sushi. I mean these girls have unlimited options and in the end even though you matched and talked a tiny bit you’…
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:03 PM
2

Bro once you’re already in the relationship and the girl likes you and you’re hooking up you don’t need to reference an ai bot to maintain attraction. Just be normal and be yourself not some fake robotic version. And again this only works for text messaging. Once you’re in a relationship with a girl you don’t even need to text that much other than to make plans. All of the attraction building comes in person while you’re together not based on whatever dumb lines you say during text. Texting is a…
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:47 PM
2

What was the last message you sent and the messages leading up to that?
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:39 PM
6

A wingwomen or wingman ain’t gonna do shit for you at clubs if you aren’t physically attractive and/or have bad game
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:44 PM
20

She literally said no…what more do you need?
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:32 PM
1

That’s your fault for not getting her interested at the bar
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:48 PM
2

Not really sure the point of this post but yes also water is wet in case you didn’t know
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:39 PM
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Did you at least talk to her for at 20-30 min or more, physically escalate, dance with her, make out with her, etc. Did you actually develop a connection with her? Most bar numbers are meaningless once the liquor wears off.
/r/seduction07/04/24 04:23 AM
1

“Candidate” 😂
/r/seduction05/04/24 07:23 PM
2

Have you ever met this women in person?
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:32 PM
7

It’s good if you’re a noob getting over approach anxiety…but you need to strive for more than just walking around collecting instagrams from women that aren’t actually into you and just giving it to you to be nice and end the interaction nicely without confrontation
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:47 PM
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You guys need to stop judging success based on collecting phone numbers and instagrams. Anyone can get those
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:45 PM
1

Again I’ve been out at bars like 3000 times in my life and I’ve seen situations like this happen extremely rarely. Even your post is only talking about one single encounter ever in your life and it was someone you knew being dumb. That’s my point. There’s no reason to even waste time thinking about these super rare situations where some random drunk guy tries to do stupid shit. Just ignore them and move on. There are a million other things to worry about. Drunk dudes are easy to handle at bars A…
/r/seduction03/04/24 07:06 PM
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No it’s the opposite…it only rarely happens to people to people that aren’t confident, have bad body language, look like they can get stepped over by other people. I’m 6’4 and there’s not a chance in hell that anyone is ever going to try to steal a girl from me when I’m alone and talking to her. It’s never happened once in my life and I’m 35 and been going to bars since the age of 18. I’ve seen it occasionally with short dudes but again super rare
/r/seduction03/04/24 07:01 PM
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You guys need to stop worrying about these one off random situations that rarely happen ever. I’ve been going to bars and clubs for like 15 years and this has never happened to me once and I’ve hardly ever seen it happen to a random stranger
/r/seduction03/04/24 06:16 PM
2

Dating apps and nightlife spots
/r/seduction03/04/24 04:17 PM
4

I mean it depends on the hobby…some hobbies aren’t great for meeting women.
/r/seduction03/04/24 03:14 PM
2

Any of the places you mentioned
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:17 PM
4

Smile in pretty much every photo…photos that work well are photos with pets or animals, photos displaying hobbies, candid photos, photos doing something active or playing sports, photos with friends or groups of people, photos showing you traveling to cool places, photos playing a musical instrument, at least one photo wearing formal wear, some close to your face and some showing your entire body, etc One time a while ago I simply just changed my main bumble photo from a selfie to a photo of me …
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:20 PM
1

No everyone here just loves to cry nowadays and put in zero work or effort
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:17 PM
13

I don’t understand how your field reports are consistently approaching girls that you’ve already approached in the same way days before without realizing. Are you really that oblivious and just spamming anything that has a hole you can stick your dick into?
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:16 AM
2

This sounds like the mentality of a little bitch
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:31 PM
4

You date other women that don’t suck
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:18 PM
5

Yes, some girls will say this. Which basically means I don’t actually like you that much and aren’t that attracted to you, I just want to use you for attention. Or I have many other options on the apps I’d rather hang out with. Or I’m actually not that serious about the apps and dating right now, I’m just fucking around. So you can just move on from those and focus on the girls that actually want to go on dates.
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:19 PM
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You stop talking to them and actually ask them on a date…there’s no talking stage in online dating. If they aren’t down it just means they aren’t interested in you or just using the apps to fuck around and get validation. And you can move on to the next
/r/seduction13/03/24 02:42 PM
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I mean yea there’s no reason to get into a serious relationship if you’re moving extremely soon. But there’s also no reason you still can’t just go out, have fun, meet people, use the dating apps, etc while you’re still around. Just enjoy the last month in your city and don’t put any pressure on yourself Or just sit at home and jerk off all day…it’s your life
/r/seduction12/03/24 12:08 AM
3

“Hi you seem fun or interesting or cute or I love your style and I wanted to meet you.” It’s not hard. Opening the conversation is easy. The hard part is maintaining it afterwards
/r/seduction11/03/24 03:13 AM
2

It doesn’t matter what you say…the words themselves do not matter when opening
/r/seduction11/03/24 02:49 AM
1

Then you need to expand your knowledge…also 95% of the people that complain about dating apps here haven’t even used the main 3. It’s all Tinder
/r/seduction09/03/24 08:44 PM
2

My friends and I all took Spanish in jr high and high school. Not once in my entire life has knowing Spanish been useful whatsoever living in America. Maybe for people living in other countries or doing certain rare jobs. But for the vast majority of Americans, slightly learning a new language is going to have zero affect on their lives or their ability to attract women. It doesn’t matter at all. And it takes a shit ton of time and work to actually become fluent where it might mean something
/r/seduction08/03/24 07:08 PM
3

There are significantly better uses of your time for becoming an attractive man than becoming slightly proficient in a random language you’ll likely rarely ever use
/r/seduction08/03/24 06:56 PM
3

Have you tried using 5-10 different apps and not just Tinder? Have you used the paid versions of apps? Have you tried taking good photos and using those instead? Have you tried changing up your photos and prompts? Have you asked people to look at your profile and see how they would change it? Have you looked up good prompts to use and ways to make your bio better. Have you experimented with new things? Have you used the apps for more than just a couple weeks?
/r/seduction08/03/24 06:11 PM
4

Nobody knows anything about you
/r/seduction07/03/24 03:47 PM
10

If you’re in high school or a place you see a girl every day you should definitely ask her in person because you look way more confident….or at least get to know her first. How do you even know her where you have her number but barely talk to her? How often have you communicated in person?
/r/seduction07/03/24 04:37 AM
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No this is idiotic….most guys (even experienced ones) are going to be slightly nervous no matter what when approaching a stranger they’re attracted to. So what’s the point of trying to add more fake nervousness. Just keep everything simple and act normal. Jesus. This is not a video game where you need to accomplish challenges and side quests.
/r/seduction06/03/24 09:55 PM
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Like any other skill, being a “natural” at something involves an extremely complex interplay of both genetic predisposition (physical and cognitive traits which contribute to natural aptitude in certain areas) and environmental influences (things such as upbringing, exposure to different experiences, access to resources, etc) Also you don’t actually need the type of game people work on here to get girls. I know tons of people than have had numerous girlfriends, are married to awesome girls but w…
/r/seduction06/03/24 09:32 PM
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You guys are just fucking delusional if you think there are tons of women that are sitting at bars and clubs for hours talking and dancing with random dudes while they are 100% sober….not a single drink, not a single hit of weed, no pills, no molly, no blow, nothing at all. And if you believe what they all say I feel sorry for you. And again if you’re being ghosted by these “sober” women it’s mainly because they just aren’t that attracted they’re just being nice. And you’re still a complete stra…
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:20 AM
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Yes the vast majority of people that go out to bars and clubs are drinking and or on some other type of drug whether that’s weed, Molly, coke, nicotine, adderall, pills etc. Thats the reason people go to bars and enjoy nightlife. Especially nowadays with the legalization of certain drugs and other drug use becoming more rampant. Personally I’ve never gone out with a single friend that’s ever been completely sober. They would just stay at home. And it’s extremely rare for me to ever meet women th…
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:10 AM
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It’s not alcohol “can be the factor.” Alcohol is the factor and that’s not even mentioning the 20 plus other types of drugs that are extremely prevalent in nightlife. The other factor is that most bar interactions are super short and not enough rapport is developed. And too many guys just don’t have experience and overrate these short bar interactions and think they mean way more than they actually do. They also don’t know how to escalate properly and build attraction. And they think getting dru…
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:00 AM
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You don’t need to explain anything to me. I’ve been going out to bars every weekend since the age of 18 and I’m in my early 30’s. There’s just not really much said in your post unless you’re a complete noob go bar game. The main reason people are flakey the next day is because the drugs and alcohol make them super friendly and flirty and lowers their inhibitions in the moment and that changes the next day. And in the end, you’re all just complete strangers. A bar make out means nothing. Dancing …
/r/seduction06/03/24 12:35 AM
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This doesn’t really give many answers and that’s the problem with the post…you’re basically taking a very difficult and complex topic such as nightgame, which involves tons of different factors and basically boiling down the reason that many men don’t have much success to the fact that women are flakey creatures. It’s funny how this posts mentions nothing about the fact that many women are flakey after meeting at bars because the men themselves are acting very unattractive and don’t know what th…
/r/seduction06/03/24 12:06 AM
4

Well both of those are pretty terrible approaches and aren’t flirting
/r/seduction05/03/24 11:56 PM
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Just do whatever the fuck you want to do that makes you happy…don’t let strangers on Reddit live your life for you
/r/seduction05/03/24 11:54 PM
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Because most people don’t want to be bothered during the day, most people go out at night to meet people and have fun, there will be a higher percentage of single people at night spots, and most people at night are under the influence of some type of liquor or drug which makes them let loose. You also may be drinking which will make your inhibitions lower. It’s just common sense.
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:41 PM
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It is related to drugs and alcohol because like 95% of people that are at popular bars and clubs on weekends are on drugs or alcohol.Especially at certain hours of the night. Guys complain because they’re idiots and never go out to bars much and never talk to girls so they think that any girl that gives them any attention is madly in love. I’m just saying your whole post is basically just common sense to people that go to bars. Anyone man or female that does it a lot has talked to, made out with…
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:35 PM
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There’s really not much use to this post. Breaking news to everyone who has never been to a party before. People that drink large amounts of alcohol, and most times in combination with numerous other drugs all designed to make you way more talkative, social and flirtatious than normal, are not going to give a fuck about complete strangers when all of the drugs wear off.
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:05 PM
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You don’t ever need to approach a group of girls with a friend. You don’t look desperate it’s actually more attractive when you’re by yourself. It actually makes you look less confident when you’re with a friend…like you need help and can’t do it on your own. Girls respect you way more if you approach them solo and it’s way less intimidating than when they are approached my multiple guys holding hands. Trust me, both men and women respect the fuck out of guys that have the balls to approach a gr…
/r/seduction29/02/24 09:09 PM
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Stop texting girls. Put your phone down and go out into the world and interact with humans in real life.
/r/seduction29/02/24 09:01 PM
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Yea if you’re just standing in the corner by yourself not talking to anyone with a sad lonely look on your face then you may lose social value. But if you go out to have fun and just meet people and talk to a lot of people, all of a sudden you’ll seem like the super social guy that knows everyone. Also lots of bars are pretty crowded and have tons of people moving around all over and people coming in and out so it’s pretty hard to tell who is actually there alone or with a group of people. And m…
/r/seduction29/02/24 08:56 PM
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Yea no shit…as every young guy that can’t get pussy does. And you’re catering to all of her needs. Driving to a city that’s close to where she lives and not you. You’re the one spending money on the hotel and driving 7-8 extra hours. You’re the one that has to spend the night with family to make it work. You’re the one paying for the date. Meanwhile if she’s attractive she’s likely matched with and talking to 50 plus other dudes that live in her city or live an hour or less from her. Not to ment…
/r/seduction29/02/24 06:23 PM
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Like first of all you’re complete strangers so there’s a decent chance that she doesn’t like him or he doesn’t like her and the whole thing is a massive waste of time. As happens all the time on dating app dates. But let’s say even the date goes kinda well. What happens next? Are you just going to spend hundreds of dollars traveling to meet her every couple of weeks while having to spend hours and hours talking on the phone with no physical contact. Meanwhile she’s matching and talking with hund…
/r/seduction29/02/24 06:21 PM
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Why are you even wasting time on girls that are a 5 hour drive away? You literally have to buy a hotel, spend 10 hours of time driving back and forth plus gas money, and stay at family’s house for a night just go on a single first date. And she’s basically a complete stranger you know nothing about. It’s fucking insane. There’s millions of girls just like her. Abundance mentality.
/r/seduction29/02/24 05:32 PM
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You still haven’t provided any relevant details of your situation so nobody is able to give you a proper response
/r/seduction29/02/24 02:56 PM
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Anything customer service…bartender, waiter, barista, retail store, etc
/r/seduction29/02/24 02:54 PM
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It’s a term for people that just sit online all day reading pickup manuals from the early 2000’s and rarely actually step out into the real world and interact with humans
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:11 AM
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What is the context? Is this at bars and clubs? What are the men saying when they interrupt you? What does hijack the convo mean? Are they random dudes or friends with the women? Does it happen a lot or is it a one time thing? It’s better if you give a more specific example with details. Nobody knows what the hell you’re talking about when you’re that vague
/r/seduction28/02/24 11:01 PM
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You can meet women anywhere and there’s nothing wrong with approaching a women at Costco or a grocery store or any public place if you’re out and about and running errands at those places. But if you’re just going to a Costco, wandering around looking for single women to approach for hours, that’s extremely weird and you’re not going to get good results at all, especially if you’re new to this. There are definitely way better places to practice cold approach and game where women will be way more…
/r/seduction28/02/24 05:44 PM
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You don’t need to small talk girls on the apps you need to ask them on dates…that’s where you showcase your personality. You don’t build attraction messaging girls about boring ass shit. You’re a random internet stranger and these girls are matched with 50 other dudes just like you at the same time. They don’t want to sit around messaging and talking about nothing. Nobody has time for that.
/r/seduction28/02/24 05:14 AM
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Riveting tale
/r/seduction28/02/24 03:44 AM
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Google “catfish photo search” and take a look at the top links that show up. There are sites where you can take a screenshot of a person’s face and it will use facial recognition technology to show any potential matches of the face all over the internet. And you can find peoples Instagram, Facebook, twitter, linked in, job websites, etc. Its not 100% but you can find a lot of info/ pictures of people. Also if the person has very few photos on their profile, aren’t verified, only have face photos…
/r/seduction27/02/24 11:19 PM
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Yea just say I’ve seen you here and you’re cute or you seem fun or interesting or I like your style or anything and I wanted to meet you. Or you can go more indirect if that’s your style. It doesn’t matter. You just need to do something. The more you wait and linger and stare at her and think about her the weirder and weirder it becomes
/r/seduction27/02/24 06:34 PM
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Dude nobody knows what the hell this girl is thinking…people sit next to other people and briefly look at people in cafeterias. It may be on purpose or she may have no idea or care who the hell you are. If you like her and want to meet her just go talk to her. It’s simple. Stop overthinking every meaningless detail and just act.
/r/seduction27/02/24 06:13 PM
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Situations like this are extremely rare. Most people are not going to touch people unprovoked, especially in public places with cameras, witnesses, and potential friends to back you up. As you said yourself this has only happened twice in many years. I’ve been going out to bars and club’s religiously forever and I’ve pretty much never seen this happen. So I don’t think it’s something you should really worry or think about much. And it’s something that’s really only ever going to happen when liqu…
/r/seduction27/02/24 05:24 AM
2

Yea it’s better to just try to be confident, smile, approach calmly, just try to be normal and not overthink what you’re saying initially since it doesn’t matter much. Simple approaches make it easier. A great line to use at parties too is just something like “Hey I don’t think I’ve met you yet” and introduce yourself and go from there. Or “Hey you guys seem fun and I wanted to meet you.” You don’t need crazy, super creative things to say in these situations. Just see someone you’d like to meet …
/r/seduction27/02/24 04:44 AM
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I like your advice of keeping it simple and not thinking to much and just going up and talking to people. But you also need to realize that parties are classified as more “warm approaches” and not “cold approaches. People at parties all pretty much know other people at the party in some way. So you’re all interconnected even if you haven’t met. Also people go to parties with the intention of having fun and trying to meet strangers and make new friends…that’s why they exist. And also liquor and d…
/r/seduction27/02/24 04:37 AM
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Yea see the thing with cold approach is you literally know nothing about the person you’re approaching. That’s why it’s hard and it’s basically a numbers game and why the overall success rates are going to be pretty low. Especially approaching random girls during the day going about their day to day business. Probably at least half of them have a boyfriend or lover and aren’t looking for anything new. Others just won’t be attracted to you for various reasons (looks, age, race, height, style, con…
/r/seduction27/02/24 04:28 AM
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You need to realize that women are naturally flirty creatures. They love attention. They feed off of it. They literally get hit on all of the time and get tons of attention from guys their entire life. They’re masters of flirting. Many just do it for fun with no intentions of anything ever happening. It’s like a fun game for them. Just because a woman gives you a subtle IOI doesn’t mean she immediately just wants to fuck you and ruin the relationships she’s built. A little hair twirl or smile ev…
/r/seduction27/02/24 04:07 AM
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The words you say to women when first meeting them are really not important at all. A woman’s first impression of you is going to be based on your looks and perceived lifestyle, your overall confidence and levels of anxiety, your ability to communicate clearly which includes body language and vocal tonality and your overall intentions in the interaction. You could literally go up to a woman and just say “Hi, I wanted to meet you” or have the most creative, funny opener possible and neither will …
/r/seduction27/02/24 03:48 AM
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If you’re only approaching 17 year old girls at GameStop and anime conventions or something it could work but it’s a godawful line for 99.9% of women
/r/seduction26/02/24 09:42 PM
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Well for one you should think about way better openers than asking about clash of clans. Most women will think that’s weird or have no idea what the hell you’re talking about
/r/seduction26/02/24 09:19 PM
4

I’m the same age and in a large city and 34 is an amazing age to meet women. Tons of girls ages 25-33 love older guys and tons of girls ages 36-45 love younger guys. That 18-23 age range is tougher as you get older and I try to avoid places that are filled with super young immature people. Also, so many guys in their twenties nowadays are scared shitless to talk to women and have horrible game and social skills from spending much of their lives online with social media and dating apps. I witness…
/r/seduction26/02/24 12:25 AM
4

You don’t go for phone numbers during night game at bars and clubs. And yea when women say they have a boyfriend whether or not they’re lying just means they aren’t interested in you
/r/seduction26/02/24 12:21 AM
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Use bumble and hinge instead. Lots of women, especially older women prefer these two to Tinder nowadays.
/r/seduction25/02/24 11:37 PM
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Lol yea this ain’t rocket science
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:50 PM
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I mean still living with an ex and talking about how much you like her (you literally know nothing about her) on a first date are 2 massive red flags. This isn’t that hard to figure out. Would you want to date a girl living with an ex boyfriend and also talking about how much she loves you on a first date? I would suggest trying to move away from your ex asap
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:49 PM
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This subreddit should change its name to autistic anonymous
/r/seduction20/02/24 03:10 PM
21

You just don’t understand how the dating apps work….these apps have about 80% men and 20% women and all of the men are thirsty as fuck and basically swiping right on any remotely cute girl that they would stick their dick into. So literally every girl is matched with hundreds of guys. Now picture yourself as a girl with 100 matches and 100 dudes all asking her “how was your day?” “What are your hobbies?” “What’s your major and how are your classes?” You’d probably want to kill yourself and it wo…
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:33 PM
2

Idk he’s 5’9 and looks to be barely pushing 145 lbs. That’s scrawny to me but I’m 6’4 so everyone is pretty scrawny to me
/r/seduction16/02/24 03:11 AM
2

I agree with this but it isn’t necessarily even the country it’s also the areas of the country. For example I live in a Chicago which is a very diverse, liberal city with millions of people. I have tons of minority friends that do fine. In the south it would be way more of a struggle
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:44 AM
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I actually really respect you because you’re one of the few people in this forum that seems to be working really hard and really wants to get better with women badly. And you’re constantly seeking advice. And you’re writing field reports and trying to things and constantly trying to get better. You also seem really smart and I can tell you’re going to be very successful in your career and in your future. I just think you’re just thinking about this too much and putting way too much pressure on y…
/r/seduction15/02/24 11:31 PM
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And here’s the thing too…you’re still super young. You’re going to mature a lot and become more attractive. You seem super smart and super motivated and hard working. Your confidence is going to grow. You’re probably going to have a great high paying job. But the fact of the matter is a 5’9, skinny, 21 year old Asian kid in college is just not the best demographic for meeting women. But in 5-10 years or so when you’re a grown, 28 year old confident man with an awesome job, own place, way more mo…
/r/seduction15/02/24 11:09 PM
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I’m not trying to be rude…and most guys are average and looks don’t mean everything. I’m also more talking about the general population. Yes, you may be slightly above average compared to college aged students at a nerdy college in Canada filled with minorities. But you said you’re 5’9 which is average-slightly below average height. You posted pictures where your body was pretty scrawny. I wouldn’t call you unattractive but you just look like a lot of Asian guys. I have tons of Asian friends and…
/r/seduction15/02/24 10:58 PM
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Listen man…I’ve seen you post here a bunch of times and here are some harsh truths. First of all you’re putting way too much pressure on this and taking things way too seriously. You’re in college. Most guys at this age are socially awkward and not fully developed physically. Stop worrying so much about getting pussy and making it a huge deal. Focus on having fun, meeting tons of people, trying to be social with everyone, join tons of clubs and sports that you’re interested in, pursue your studi…
/r/seduction15/02/24 08:50 PM
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Probably not a whole lot you can do here…any response or text is basically just going to be a Hail Mary with little chance of success. She doesn’t seem interested at all and you messed up numerous things both on the date and after the date. And there’s probably tons of little things you didn’t mention in this short post.
/r/seduction15/02/24 08:05 PM
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You really think there’s a high percentage chance that a super hot girl with unlimited options is just going to say yes to a date with a random person she’s never spoken to in her life who also happens to be a coworker?
/r/seduction15/02/24 02:25 PM
2

It’s not terrible as a “hail mary” play because it doesn’t require any effort. But 95% of girls won’t even respond (only the super insecure ones). Because you’re basically telling the girl that you’re a desperate, needy loser that can’t find any new pussy so you need to come crawling back to an old fling. And this is super unattractive to women. Also women have so many options that they’ve probably already found many other dudes that are the same if not better than you and are actually looking f…
/r/seduction15/02/24 02:58 AM
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Yea there’s definitely people in this forum that can ask questions like this in a seductive manner. Nobody is saying to never speak sexually to a woman ever. But the problem is many guys here are weird, creepy losers with zero social skills who have never touched a woman in their lives. So it’s not as easy as just saying “don’t be a creep…all you need to do is harmoniously escalate to intimate questions.” They need to learn basic social skills first and how to have normal interactions with human…
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:40 AM
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Honestly there’s not a whole lot to go off here but nothing you said makes it seem like she’s into you any more than a friend that she enjoys playing badminton with. It also sounds like you’re just reading way too much pickup shit, over analyzing every little thing, way in your head too much. You’re treating getting girls as some mathematical formula where you need to do a,b and c in order to get x result. It’s kind of cringey to read to be honest. Saying things like “I can kino her” just sounds…
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:24 AM
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Why would you even be asking these questions if you haven’t had sex yet, especially to a girl that you haven’t had sex with or aren’t dating yet? No wonder you haven’t had sex yet or can’t find anyone to date
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:03 AM
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You’ve clearly learned a lot 😂
/r/seduction14/02/24 03:46 AM
10

If I had a dollar for every hot girl I joked around with, danced with, talked to at a club and never saw again in my life, I’d have like $17 just from last Saturday night alone. You clearly don’t go to clubs much
/r/seduction14/02/24 03:45 AM
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The way to build confidence, game, social skills, etc in dating is by actually going on dates, cold approaching women, talking to women, etc. Dating apps can take some time to learn. If you’re absurdly out of shape, have health issues, are broke as hell with no job, etc then you should focus most of your time on that. But if you’re relatively normal and have these things somewhat under control there’s no reason to hold off on dating.
/r/seduction14/02/24 03:40 AM
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Shit tests are generally done subconsciously where as manipulation is usually done consciously, on purpose with some sort of ulterior motive
/r/seduction14/02/24 03:16 AM
0

Start putting miracle gro in your shoes asap
/r/seduction09/02/24 04:20 PM
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Pickup lines are normally terrible and don’t work but here’s a fun one. You see a girl walking her dog You: “Wow that’s a really cute girl you got there” Her: “Actually he’s a boy…his name is Frank” You: “Oh I know, I was actually trying to talk to the dog”
/r/seduction08/02/24 10:20 PM
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This is specifically a post and tip about setting up dating app profiles. I’m not talking about real life approaches. I’m not talking about about when you’re conversing with a woman. I’m not telling guys to have a weird mysterious persona and not share anything with women. It’s about making small tweaks to your dating app profile to get more results. On the apps, women are primarily looking at photos and after that they’re looking for red flags and reasons to swipe left on people or not message …
/r/seduction08/02/24 06:55 PM
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I agree that the opener matters but every app is different. Bumble is the main app that a lot of people use nowadays and on there you literally aren’t able to message the girl first. She has to choose whether or not to message you. And girls that have hundreds of matches are looking at your profile before deciding to actually message or not. They aren’t just messaging every guy they match with. They filter people out. And lots of guys have weird things in their profiles that turn women off, many…
/r/seduction08/02/24 06:39 PM
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Yea I agree…my post is more of a slightly advanced topic. First and foremost pictures matter most. But there are a lot of guys that have decent photos but little things in their bios and prompts kill them. And if you make little tweaks here and there you can see better results. As the two women responded here, they are looking at these things and using them to filter out guys. I’m a tall dude, which helps a lot on the apps but I’ve come up with funny ways of talking about it in my profile and wo…
/r/seduction08/02/24 05:27 PM
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You just don’t understand what I’m talking about in this post and I don’t feel like explaining it further.
/r/seduction08/02/24 04:13 PM
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It’s literally only referring to online dating and setting up an online dating profile…has nothing to do with real life interactions or cold approach. It’s an online dating tip
/r/seduction08/02/24 03:50 PM
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It’s nice to hear a female opinion. I completely agree that having multiple good photos in a variety of settings like you said is the most important thing. And you definitely can’t be too mysterious. Leaving off things like height and schooling does raise alarms. I have really fun, original, funny prompts and bios and I’ve had women comment all the time on them and tell me how funny it was and how much they loved it. And too many guys are way too logical and serious with the content of their pro…
/r/seduction08/02/24 03:38 AM
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Tinder, I agree is definitely more set up to quickly swipe through photos since you just have to tap on right side of the screen repeatedly. Bumble and Hinge have a different UI though. These have a scrolling mechanism so the girl is only able to see the first photo and then has to scroll down to see the rest of the photos. And in between the first and second photos, the girl has to scroll past the bio and the section that includes height, politics, what you’re looking for, etc. And the font is …
/r/seduction08/02/24 02:53 AM
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Yea this sometimes works when you’re a child and you’re hitting on childish, immature high school and college girls. But this style of texting is super unattractive to many women especially when you start dealing with women above the age of 24-25. And honestly I’ve seen so many post here like the OP where you kids say the dumbest shit humanly possible. You guys kill opportunities left and right. It’s not making women attracted to you. They’re just putting up with it because they’re attracted in …
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:26 PM
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I’m just saying…it doesn’t matter what the woman starts the convo with on bumble. You just ignore it and talk about what you want to talk about
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:37 PM
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It’s the man’s job to steer the conversation not the woman’s
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:32 PM
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Just read all of the posts below…everyone is telling him his numerous fuck ups in this conversation
/r/seduction07/02/24 06:09 PM
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Yea you and 900 other dudes….it don’t mean shit. It’s a dating app and she’s a girl. 250 lb girls have hundreds of matches. I’m a dude and I’m matched with over a hundred girls right now across 5 apps. And I’m not even going to talk to 75% of them. And I want pussy way more than she wants dick
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:43 AM
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😂 You literally told a hot girl who’s matched with 50 other dudes that she’s a standout. Asked her how many dudes she’s matched with every day. Then told her you’re honored to match with her. And you think the issue is what you said about the car 🤣
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:29 AM
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You’re clueless but you’ll learn over time. Good luck. Your looks may save you from time to time but your message game is trash. Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. It’s seduction 101
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:26 AM
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You definitely don’t want to tell a girl you’ve slept with 100 girls this month. Yea exaggerate but not like that. I swear this subreddit is just littered with the worst possible advice sometimes. It’s honesty insane.
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:48 AM
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The state of the world isn’t that different ….guys hit on girls all the time. And they have for hundreds of years. I see it first hand on a weekly basis,going out to bars every week in one of the biggest cities in the US. Your friend is most likely just a weird ass creep. This is a super rare situation that doesn’t happen often
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:42 AM
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There has to be more to the story
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:37 AM
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I literally just read the first message and nothing more and could already tell you had no chance after that. Yes you were “over eager” in the first 10 seconds. This is why I hate people that say that you can’t build attraction over text. Yea you should never be talking to these girls about boring ass shit and doing interview questions for multiple days straight. And yes, if a girl is showing interest, you should just ask her out ASAP. But so many guys fuck up the openers and first 5–10 messages…
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:28 AM
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Jesus what did he say and do to her?
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:32 AM
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😂
/r/seduction06/02/24 11:10 PM
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You should try to get on the dating apps as well as doing cold approach. I would just start trying to take more photos of yourself if possible. Ask your friends to take more photos when you’re out. If you have close girlfriends, many will be willing to help you take photos and tell you which are best. You can also hire a professional photographer to get some good shots. But yea you won’t do well on the apps with all selfies.
/r/seduction06/02/24 10:16 PM
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You literally said you waited weeks and months just fantasizing about her without speaking to her. So no you didn’t shoot your shot too soon. You waited way too long.
/r/seduction06/02/24 07:57 PM
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By securing more bags
/r/seduction06/02/24 07:54 PM
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Yea simply matching with girls online and asking them out on dates in one or two messages is not going to work out well for most guys. These girls are talking to so many guys, if they did this they’d have 50 dates every week. You do need to be able to have an opener that differentiates you from the others and be able to banter and have a fun, flirty vibe when first talking to her. And these are things that many guys don’t know how to do and skills that you can improve over time. People that have…
/r/seduction06/02/24 07:21 PM
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The main key is to not go out with the sole intention of hitting on women. That’s the problem with a lot of guys here. The go out to some mall or grocery store or park and just wander around like a loser looking for any girl that’s remotely attractive and shooting their shot. Even though they don’t have to actually be at those places. Or ask 40 different girls where the closest Starbucks is even though they don’t need to go to Starbucks. And women can sense how desperate you are and what your in…
/r/seduction06/02/24 06:08 PM
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Yea this is one of the most common shit tests. All you have to do is not get defensive or explain yourself. Just agree and exaggerate.
/r/seduction06/02/24 05:50 PM
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Yea his post definitely has some good points but it’s a little bit too cut and dry and you can’t just apply it to every scenario. On the dating apps, unless you’re absurdly attractive and the girl is really desperate, you normally can’t just ask girls out immediately on the first message like he said. They’re matched with tons of dudes and women need to see a little bit more before going on a date. They aren’t just going on dates with every guy that asks them out ASAP. You don’t have to talk for…
/r/seduction06/02/24 05:40 PM
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Great response Kevinjames…glad it’s working out for you
/r/seduction06/02/24 03:12 PM
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Well when you’re approaching random strangers you learn not to care since these women know nothing about you and they aren’t judging you at all they’re just judging your approach to them in that specific moment in time. And there’s millions of reasons that women reject you that have nothing to do with you. But in this situation, the key is to just not put women on pedestals and not fall madly in love with women that you’ve never spoken to before. You can’t be creating this magical picture of wom…
/r/seduction06/02/24 03:05 PM
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First of all, aren’t there tons of other places to meet women where you live other than this one single coffee shop? You can just use this as a place of work and meet women in a million other ways. Also you’re just talking about the employees of the shop. Random women that come into the shop have no idea who you are or know anything about you. So I don’t even see how any of this matters unless you’re only trying to hit on the workers there. In which case reputation does matter a lot since they w…
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:57 PM
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That’s not what I’m saying
/r/seduction06/02/24 04:12 AM
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I’m telling you…it sounds counterintuitive but the less you care about getting pussy, the less it’s on your mind, the more pussy you’ll get. If that’s all you’re thinking about and all you care about and your only goal, then women can sense it and they don’t want to fuck you because you’re just like every other thirsty loser out there.
/r/seduction06/02/24 03:39 AM
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Well the problem too is you shouldn’t be labeling women that you barely know and haven’t even been on a date with as “easy lays”. And it seems like the only thing you care about is sticking your dick in her. And women can just read the thirstiness and desperation from a mile away
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:55 AM
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When you click on any of the links for the first time there’s literally a popup directing you to sign up for multiple paid versions of the substack lol
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:37 PM
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This whole post is just littered with “I’s” “I’m a good listener”…”I’m jacked and in shape” “Most guys are timid but I’m not timid”…”I can beat the shit out of any guys boyfriend”….”I’m good at making jokes”…”I do X and women love me”. It’s reading as very narcissistic. You give some good advice from time to time but a lot of it is just the same generic copy paste stuff over and over…word for word without changes. Without taking into account people’s unique circumstances. With constant links to …
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:01 PM
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This reads more like a humblebrag than actually giving any relevant advice. No shit being in good shape, good looking, funny, sociable, genuine and a good listener is going to help give you success with women. That’s not some earth shattering revelation. It’s common sense.
/r/seduction05/02/24 05:24 PM
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I’m not even just talking about me. I’m talking about all of the friends I’ve hung out with too. And I also go out solo all of the time which allows you to sit back and observe people and situations and I’m telling you this rarely happens. Yea there are occasional times where guys can be dicks when drunk at bars. But it’s not something I think people need to spend a lot of time worrying about. Just keep trying to improve your confidence, body language and game. Keep getting in better shape. Ther…
/r/seduction05/02/24 04:25 AM
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Definitely do not get confrontational like this and seem bothered or try to start a fight. That’s the worst possible approach. Women will become super unattracted by that.
/r/seduction05/02/24 02:38 AM
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Personally I don’t think any guys in the seduction community should even spend much time worrying about guys like this. I’ve gone out to bars religiously for 15 years and I’ve rarely seen situations like this happen to anyone
/r/seduction05/02/24 02:30 AM
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If guys are doing this to you often, theres something about your vibe, confidence, body language, physicality, etc that’s showing other men that you’re easy to walk all over. So I would try to improve those things as well. Even just going to the gym and getting in a bit better shape can make a world of a difference.
/r/seduction05/02/24 02:08 AM
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Yes, for the millionth time, this is all just a numbers game. If your goal is to have the most success on the apps you need to be using multiple apps at once and swiping as much as possible. Yes, if you pay for the apps you will have an advantage with the algorithm and the ability to swipe way more than people with the free versions. If you live in a large city with millions of people it will be way easier than living in bumblefuck. It’s all numbers and volume. And girls have so many options on …
/r/seduction05/02/24 01:05 AM
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Well yea that’s my point…the girls could have easily been drinking ahead of time. It’s college at a party school. And I’ve been to a hundred exchanges. They are literally events designed for sororities and frats to socialize, meet people, hookup, date, etc. Obviously girls are going to be way more social at these nighttime events, surrounded by their friends having a great time. Compared to a girl by herself or with a couple people at a grocery store, class, mall, gym, etc where people generally…
/r/seduction04/02/24 10:16 PM
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Ok that’s weird. You go to parties where they make you take a breathalyzer? I’ve never heard that before ever. Sounds insane to me. What school is this? But I guess I went to one of the biggest schools in the big 10 so it’s different. Also breathalyzers can only pick up alcohol and not other drugs
/r/seduction04/02/24 09:25 PM
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I went to the biggest Greek life college in the entire country. If you think people in college are staying sober because of some made up “rules” you’re being delusional. You can pregame on your own.
/r/seduction04/02/24 09:23 PM
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Because people at parties are drunk and/or on drugs, their inhibitions are way lower and they are way more relaxed and sociable. It’s not rocket science. It’s the same reason why so many men are scared shitless to approach women during the day but they’re willing to shoot their shot at night
/r/seduction04/02/24 09:05 PM
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I agree that looks aren’t everything in dating. But you’re being completely delusional. Theres not a chance in fuck that an average looking guy with average to below average game (most people here and most people in the world) are going to get 30-50% of random strangers to agree to an insta date after 1 minute of conversation. Especially, attractive, high quality women with options. If getting a date and approaching women was that easy, this forum wouldn’t exist.
/r/seduction04/02/24 05:55 PM
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This is the guy that helps people with dating app photos so I know he’s above average in attractiveness, and he is in a completely different country, but you’re correct, these numbers make absolutely no sense. Like you said, if you’re approaching random strangers on the street you know nothing about a lot of them are going to have boyfriends or some type of lover currently. Then a lot of them are going to be busy and not just able to stop their day. Then a lot are just not going to be attracted …
/r/seduction04/02/24 05:50 PM
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If you’re talking about random strangers then yes, you’re overthinking. You shouldn’t worry about being called a creep or if other people judge you. But if you’re talking about people you’ve already known for a while it’s weird to start randomly hitting on them, especially if you’ve already set the tone of the relationship as a friendship from the beginning. And especially if they haven’t given you any signs or IOI’s that they are into you yet. In the future you should try to be flirty from the …
/r/seduction04/02/24 05:40 PM
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The main reason is because of women have so many options like others have said. Also a lot of women on the apps don’t take them seriously and just use them for validation. They log on during a weekday night while sipping wine and watching the bachelor, look at their 50 new matches of thirsty dudes telling them how hot they are and move on with their lives. Your message game could be a part of the problem though if this is happening all of the time. It would be helpful to see what your opener is …
/r/seduction01/02/24 08:16 PM
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Haha I feel you too bro…I just know there’s way better places in the US, especially for minorities. But I get sometimes you gotta just make the most out of it. Good luck
/r/seduction01/02/24 07:50 PM
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I’d suggest moving out of Salt Lake City if possible
/r/seduction01/02/24 07:45 PM
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This is a good video. I can tell many similar stories like this. I’m in my early 30’s and I have salt and pepper grey hair. I was recently out at a bar and I approached 2 different girls with the same opener, same energy, body language wearing the same clothes, etc and the first girl literally said to me “Ew, you’re way too old, please stop talking to me.” 15 minutes later I went up to a different girl and she said “OMG I love your hair, you’re a silver fox. You remind me of X guy from my favori…
/r/seduction01/02/24 06:32 PM
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The vast majority of men online also only use 1-2 apps max and not everything that’s available. They are unwilling to pay for upgraded versions of apps which makes a huge difference. They don’t work on their photos or prompts. They don’t practice or work on messaging game. They spend very little time swiping each day. And many people don’t live in highly populated areas that are good for apps. I agree that location matters A LOT. Here in Chicago there’s just an unlimited pool of women. Every sin…
/r/seduction01/02/24 05:49 PM
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Bruh you’re about to be in college…focus on leveling up, becoming the best version of yourself and stop worrying about stupid immature high school girls. Trust me you’re going to want to be single your freshman year and then you won’t even give a fuck about wasting time with girls still in high school when there are unlimited fine ass college girls to choose from. EDIT: Just saw she moved 6 hours away. Just end this shit bro. Trust me, you’re not going to want to be dating a high school girl lon…
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:47 PM
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I honestly think most younger guys do way more harm while texting than good. There’s just so many idiotic things I’ve seen people say here in their posts. Texting is meant for convenience and not building attraction, sparking emotions, or offering value. And therefore it’s better to text as little as possible, especially during the early stages of meeting a girl
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:34 PM
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I’ve mentioned this before, but even people that are successful on the apps should go out and approach women. The apps create this situation where they only show you the girls that are liking your profile when in reality there are hundreds of girls swiping left on every guy every single day. It’s good to go out and get your ego tested, get denied by some girls. It really builds your character and resilience and improves your game way more than sitting at home all day like you said. And you’re ab…
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:32 PM
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Can it help a little? Yes. But say that having an IG with a few hundred followers with some decent photos is “absolutely required” to get with women is one the dumbest things I’ve heard here
/r/seduction01/02/24 05:06 AM
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Nobody gives a fuck about how many followers you have, especially if it’s only in the hundreds or even below 10k. What matters is the content on your profile. High quality attractive photos of yourself, photos showing you doing cool things, going to cool places, having an active social life, hanging out with attractive women. And the only way to have a profile like this is to actually be an attractive man and be consistently doing high quality things over a long period of time. Which takes time.…
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:39 AM
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If she already said yes and you’ve arranged a date and time, then why do you even need clarification? It’s already set in stone. You don’t need to ask again a couple days before, you just sound needy. You can text her the day of the date just to make sure something unforeseen hasn’t happened but you don’t need to text her in between. Also how long did you give her to respond before assuming she’s ignoring you. Was it at least 24 plus hours?
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:11 AM
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It’s always good to reference something funny or fun you talked about in the conversation you had with her…did you actually speak to her for more than 2 minutes or did you just compliment her and ask for a number?
/r/seduction01/02/24 02:58 AM
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You guys are just overthinking this shit way too much….there are a million more important things to focus on
/r/seduction01/02/24 02:38 AM
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No NEVER
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:22 AM
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Yea man 19-20 is just a rough age tbh. High school girls are too young and immature for most college guys. Getting older women is super tough, especially women out of college and in the real world. You can’t get into most bars yet. Some guys are still developing (I literally went from 6’ to 6’4 my first two years of college and dealt with bad acne). You have no money or a good job. You’re living in shitty apartments with roommates or parents, etc. If you go to a big school with a decent party sc…
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:17 AM
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I think that 19-21 age range is just an awkward time for a lot of guys. You aren’t in high school anymore which was all about cliques and social circles. Being cool in high school doesn’t matter anymore, the game changes. Social skills and confidence are often lacking. Many guys are rapidly changing physically and still look very young and awkward. Like I was looking at pictures of me and my friends from our drunk college days compared to late 20’s-30’s and everyone looks significantly more attr…
/r/seduction01/02/24 12:12 AM
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It’s just common sense man…there’s nothing to explain. You just don’t comment on strangers body parts, especially women. It’s basic social awareness/social skills 101. Go out this weekend and comment on 50 different women’s ass and tits and see what happens
/r/seduction31/01/24 08:04 PM
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Yea as a man you NEVER want to bring up being in a relationship until the woman starts mentioning it first. So many guys do this and it kills them. And then even if she brings it up you don’t need to get into a relationship until YOU are ready. You’re the man…everything operates on your terms. And then if you want the relationship it’s fine to date her. If you want to keep things casual, you can say something along the lines of “I like you too, we’re having a great time, but relationships that s…
/r/seduction31/01/24 06:31 PM
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There’s nothing worse on Reddit than when people ask for advice about a photo but then don’t actually post the photo. Like what do you expect people to say that’s going to be helpful
/r/seduction31/01/24 05:08 PM
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Has she even mentioned anything about wanting to be in an exclusive long term relationship yet?
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:56 PM
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This line works flawlessly for groups of girls or groups with guys and girls in bars. You’ll basically never get a bad reaction. “You guys seem like the most fun people here so I had to come meet you. My name is X” People (especially girls) love to be complimented on their energy and vibes and not their looks. You’ll still need to have game after this point but you’ll basically always get a good initial response
/r/seduction31/01/24 03:41 PM
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Girls will still give real numbers though, even with no intention of responding. They can just easily block it or not respond. Just because it’s real doesn’t always mean she’s interested.
/r/seduction31/01/24 12:59 AM
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She just gave you the number to be nice and get you to leave respectfully
/r/seduction30/01/24 08:25 PM
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Night life areas in major metropolitan cities
/r/seduction30/01/24 08:24 PM
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Yea I understand it’s not possible for a lot of people but simply moving to a large metropolitan area would solve a lot of problems that people have here both with cold approach and online dating. It’s just a different game and so much easier in cities with millions of people. If you’re really serious about meeting women or just want to have a way more fun life while your young, you should definitely consider moving to a new city.
/r/seduction30/01/24 08:16 PM
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Just the nature of dating apps
/r/seduction30/01/24 07:31 PM
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You can go out to bars, and nightlife spots at any age. I’m my opinion night game is actually way easier in your late 20’s-early 30’s than when you’re younger anyways
/r/seduction30/01/24 06:39 PM
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Nobody should have to tell you why commenting on a random stranger’s ass or tits or other body parts is a horrible idea. And the fact that your seriously asking this and not trolling shows you lack social awareness. But you are young which is somewhat of an excuse
/r/seduction30/01/24 05:23 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with talking to a girl with a guy, it’s just way more advanced, difficult and requires nuance. You have to be able to read body language to tell if they’re dating. You’re going to have to deal with the guy being rude or being a cockblock. You’re going to have to be sociable enough to seem fun and include him in the conversation. It seems like you’re thinking too many steps ahead for how new you are to the game. Meeting girls in college isn’t difficult there’s so many places…
/r/seduction30/01/24 08:51 AM
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I don’t want to promote drinking especially since you say you have health issues but parties and nightlife are arguably the best way to meet women when you’re younger and especially in college. So if you aren’t going to these types of events and places you’re severely shooting yourself in the foot. And you don’t have to drink if you don’t want you. But having an active social life at night makes a huge difference in meeting women. I don’t even know a single person that ever even did cold approac…
/r/seduction30/01/24 08:00 AM
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Are you as good looking, in shape and as tall as they are? You were also that guy that made the post about wandering around a mall for daygame and commenting how a woman’s ass looked so you clearly aren’t the most socially calibrated person in your interactions. Also probably just coming across as a nice guy too much.
/r/seduction30/01/24 07:28 AM
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I’m happy for you but this is more of just a unique situation of luck and happenstance. In the end, if your photos and prompts and profile are the same, resetting does not make much of a difference. Yea you can get a short term boost with the algorithms and be seen by some more people by resetting it once or twice a year. But I don’t want people here that struggle on the apps to think this is some magical solution to start getting matches.
/r/seduction30/01/24 03:26 AM
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These cheap dinner dates may work when you’re young or living in bumblefuck and there’s nothing else to do but for example in my late 20’s- early 30’s living in Chicago, girls do not want to be taken to Chili’s or chipotle or some cheap food spot on a first date. There are way more fun things to do that don’t cost money. And honestly even getting a drink at a super trendy, nice bar would be less than an entire meal at chili’s so there’s just no reason to go there. Especially on the apps. It’s on…
/r/seduction30/01/24 03:17 AM
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Calibration is just being able to read people and tell when they are into you or if they are annoyed and don’t want to be bothered. And knowing how to escalate and flirt without being weird and creepy. Having emotional and social intelligence and being able to read how people are feeling in the moment. And a lot of young guys (not saying you) are very weird and lack experience and get super nervous. And so you have to be careful practicing since you’re going to make tons of mistakes. And college…
/r/seduction26/01/24 12:14 AM
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A lot of this has to do with your game and attractiveness levels too. Like if you’re not that attractive, have no style and dress like a slob, are scared to talk to girls and get super nervous and anxious and use the same opening lines over and over you’re going to seem like a campus creep. But if you’re decently attractive, have some status, know how to flirt, have confidence approaching strangers and you’re genuinely talking to girls you are attracted to and not spamming 50 approaches a day as…
/r/seduction26/01/24 12:07 AM
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College game is all about social circle game and social status game. You really don’t even need cold approach. It’s mostly warm approaches since you see people all over and everyone knows each other in some way. Just talk to girls in your classes, join tons of clubs, go to parties and frats and bars on the weekends. Go to the gym, go to campus events, hang out with people in your dorms, talk to girls in the cafeteria. If you’re in a fraternity you’re going to be hanging out with a lot of the sam…
/r/seduction25/01/24 11:57 PM
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Be good looking and have social status on campus
/r/seduction25/01/24 11:45 PM
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You look like a normal Asian high school/college kid. I think you could turn into an attractive man over time but it takes a lot of work. You seem to be taking care of your health which is good but you also seem a bit insecure. Constantly asking everyone if your facial structure is good, seeking approval in every post. There’s a lot more to attractiveness than just working out and getting in shape. But you seem smart and dedicated enough to get there.
/r/seduction13/01/24 07:15 AM
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Your facial structure has nothing to do with why you failed at a night club.
/r/seduction13/01/24 07:04 AM
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You’re definitely attractive enough you just need to present yourself better. Smile way more, no shirtless selfies or any selfies, variety of photos doing cool things (anything with dogs or puppies is a cheat code). Make up some fun original prompts. Work on your text game. You’ll be fine. It’s also going to come down to how much effort you put in. You want to be on a variety of apps, even consider paid versions for those benefits. It really is just a numbers game and it’s better to have access …
/r/seduction13/01/24 06:56 AM
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Good shit lil nig
/r/seduction12/01/24 06:52 AM
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Also average is average…the average man has always gotten average girls. The average man has never slayer more than the above average man. But these forums are all about improving yourself and finding ways to become above average and then you’ll be able to attract above average women. But most guys don’t do that or care that much and that’s why people settle and will always have to settle.
/r/seduction12/12/23 06:22 PM
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Most men nowadays get good results with a combination of numerous dating apps, going out and approaching and meeting women in social spots, social circle game when you’re younger, meeting women through cool hobbies, interests etc., coworkers. You’re entire mindset is just wrong here…you’re very black pill. Making ridiculous generalizations. Most people aren’t borderline incel. Saying women only want perfection. Just absurd statements. I lived and seen enough to just know that this is wrong. Also…
/r/seduction12/12/23 06:16 PM
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Men swipe a lot on the apps because it’s just way more efficient…it’s easier to swipe faster and see what matches you get and filter from there than to waste time observing profiles for 10 minutes and swiping on women you actually want. Women obviously can’t do this or they’d all have 500 matches so they have to be pickier. But trust me most guys aren’t trying to date or be seen in public with 50% of the tinder population Also most guys have terrible dating profiles and don’t care or try at all …
/r/seduction12/12/23 05:57 PM
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Again you’re just making ridiculous generalizations. First of all most men by the age of 25 have dated or has at least one sexual partner so saying most men can’t get anything is false. Also dating apps and technology makes things easier for the average man. You think it was easier 10-15 years ago when apps, Facebook, Instagram, snap, online meetups, etc didn’t exist and the only way to meet women was by leaving your house and approaching random women or through social circles? I mean I have fri…
/r/seduction12/12/23 05:54 PM
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You sound extremely young and immature which is ok. But how is finding a women that you’re super attracted to and love and dating them or marrying them and wanting to have children with them meaningless? It’s the end goal for most people. It’s literally how our world is able to continue to exist until eternity. And I’m not sure if I want that yet or if you do but that’s not the point. And every person I’ve mentioned that’s now married or in serious relationships in their 30’s have all fucked and…
/r/seduction12/12/23 05:12 PM
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Idk man I think my anecdotes are a lot more common in the US than this incel ridden seduction forum think…I’m in my early 30’s, I live in Chicago (top 3 biggest cities), went to a big 10 school (one of the largest in the nation). Everyone I know are normal people that graduated from college, went to decent schools, have solid jobs, have other hobbies/passions, active social lives, etc. Every male family member I have, every single person from my fraternity in college and every person from high s…
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:42 PM
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Most difficulties and problems that exist in life nowadays are overblown and exaggerated because we live in an information and media overload culture where everything is amplified to a ridiculous level. And controversy has always been one of the top ways to sell. And when you’re constantly scouring self help and improvement forums you’re going to be littered with the opinions of the minority that struggle to find success and it makes it seem like that is what is prevalent when in many cases that…
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:05 PM
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It’s just common sense
/r/seduction07/12/23 09:18 PM
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You can’t tell that this is a joke? 😂 man you sound like a blast to be around at parties
/r/seduction07/12/23 09:06 PM
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Wrong it’s just simple logic
/r/seduction25/10/23 04:53 PM
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You need therapy
/r/seduction08/10/23 07:25 PM
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You increase your conversion rate by becoming a more attractive man…getting in shape, fixing your style, going to therapy, hiring dating coaches, reading books, working on improving your dating profile and taking good photos, going out and approaching and learning from mistakes, improving text conversation. It’s just not a logical or efficient approach to try to magically work game on girls that are clearly not interested praying on some off chance that she somehow starts to like you. As the guy…
/r/seduction06/10/23 03:01 PM
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This guy isn’t talking about seducing yellows though…he’s talking about trying to convince reds to become yellows or greens which is extremely difficult and time consuming and most often results in failure
/r/seduction06/10/23 02:52 PM
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But the point we’re trying to make is that if a girl denies you initially it’s usually because she’s not attracted to you, she has other guys she’s more interested, you did something low value, your interests aren’t the same, etc. And lots of these things are hard to overcome no matter how much extra work or game you put in. So what’s the point of spending all of this time trying to get girls to be into you (and most likely ending in failure) when you can just spend way less time finding other g…
/r/seduction06/10/23 03:53 AM
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Haha yea I feel like it should be a prerequisite to read that before posting here
/r/seduction06/10/23 03:15 AM
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But if you’re a man that also has options it makes no sense to play around with uninterested girls and you can tell very early on if a girl is interested. For example I just recently matched with 2 girls online, had a good convo and got numbers and was setting up the date. One girl kind of didn’t respond at all and the other offered up a new time, told me how excited she was to meet, talked about what she was going to wear and came out on the date. Yea I can spend time going back to the first gi…
/r/seduction06/10/23 02:39 AM
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I think a lot of it has to do with time already invested too…like there’s situations in social circles and with friends, coworkers, girls you’ve gone out with a couple times, etc where it makes sense to keep putting in a little bit more effort to turn things around since you already know the person. But too many guys here get caught up with these girls that they met at the bar for 10 minutes, or matched with on an app and talked for a second or slid into a random girls dm’s. And the girl clearly…
/r/seduction06/10/23 01:02 AM
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Here’s the thing…When women are unreceptive to men and reject men early on it’s usually for good reason. She might have a boyfriend/husband or other lover she’s happy with, the guy probably did something to show too much neediness, she’s probably not physically attracted, there’s too many differences in values/interests, bad logistics, she might not want any man right now etc (and a lot of these reasons have little to do with you). There’s obviously rare cases but generally speaking you’re not g…
/r/seduction06/10/23 12:42 AM
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Yea this is the issue…there needs to be a separation between playful teasing and negging. They are not the same at all.
/r/seduction03/10/23 03:46 PM
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Yea I think the better word nowadays is teasing…negging is an outdated term and guys in the past would say more mean and hurtful things to women that could backfire a lot and a lot of women catch on to it. Nowadays most guys just use playful lighthearted teasing because it’s way more effective
/r/seduction03/10/23 03:45 PM
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It’s clear that you have limiting beliefs and a low sense of self worth and no confidence at all…id suggest looking into therapy or coaching to help fix your mental game since clearly nothing anyone says here matters or resonates with you
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:01 PM
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It’s completely fine when she wants you to touch her and allows you to touch her and doesn’t back away. It’s when she says no and you keep pushing when actual assault happens
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:47 PM
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You don’t get humiliated if you just don’t care about what others think about you…and you shouldn’t care about what random strangers think since they know nothing about you they’re just judging you on some random moment in time. Press charges will never happen unless you physically assault or touch a girl but nobody does that anyways unless you’re a complete and total moron
/r/seduction13/09/23 06:42 PM
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