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Why do all these guys want "brutal honesty?" That's why you fall for that red pill garbage. You don't need someone to tell you you're a worthless piece of shit, you need someone to help you figure out what if anything is going on with you and what you can do about it. It's hard to find someone really compatible. I went on I think like 10 bad first dates in a row around your age in between relationships. That doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. (I'm twice your age now, been married for a lo…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/26 08:23 PM
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It's a way to try to feel superior without having to do anything.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/25 12:49 PM
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They have a point that lifting is good for you too! A lot of what they do is take really obvious advice, wrap it up in really toxic ideology, and encourage you to treat women like objects. Anybody you ask about improving your social skills will tell you to practice. That's obvious. The difference with red pill is that they dont care if you annoy, offend, or even traumatize 1000 women (this comes later when they encourage pushing past resistance etc) if it gets you laid. Normal people will advise…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/25 12:46 PM
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If you ever want to learn something from this interaction, you made an error in assuming (ironically) that she was merely assuming the apologies were disingenuous. In reality, she probably has reasons for believing them to be disingenuous. This of course plays right into the pattern of red pillers assuming that women are silly and illogical and unfair to men, when (ironically again) the redpillers themselves are typically the ones who don't quite understand social interactions and are misreading…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/25 12:26 PM
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Bigots being hypocritical?? Shocking! 🤣
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 11:35 AM
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Is it really surprising that people who are bigoted against women are also bigoted against other races?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 03:55 PM
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You shouldnt trust anybody blindly but if you've been with her for a year and a half you should have a pretty good sense of her character. Does she seem like a liar? Are you having doubts because of her or because you read stuff about women in general?
/r/ExRedPill26/07/25 10:36 PM
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When you say incels are you referring to people who call themselves that or just people who can't get laid? Because lots of people don't get laid, but only "incels" adopt a whole red pill ideology to blame it on women.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 03:11 PM
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The church gets followers by indoctrinating children. Red pill influencers don't have that luxury so they take the shortcut of giving you a group to hate: women. (Not that the church doesn't mean that sort of thing to sometimes! But it doesn't necessarily have to.) Some religious leaders are really good people. I don't think there are any red pill influencers who are. It's fundamentally a hate group.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/25 12:27 PM
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I guess I haven't read any of those!
/r/ExRedPill15/03/25 02:35 AM
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I found the book very useful despite the sexism and gender essentialism and armchair psychoanalysis. The concept of covert contracts is valuable. He has helpful things to say about people pleasing, being authentic, learning how to be your own judge of yourself, unlearning some bad habits, etc. I'm sure there is another book somewhere out there that has the good stuff without the bad, but I haven't read it.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 02:36 PM
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Ok? So they should just give up? Or what is your point.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 02:31 PM
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I always figured they didn't see a relationship like that growing up so deep down they don't think it's a real possibility.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 12:31 PM
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Ok that's actually fair. I don't live in one of those communities.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/25 03:48 PM
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Virgins and incels aren't the same thing. Incel is being a virgin and blaming it all on women. That is right wing. Just being a virgin is not an ideology.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/25 05:21 PM
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Ha, eponysterical. I guess you've come to the right place.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 05:06 PM
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I don't think they are necessarily closeted (although obviously that does happen) but that they have extremely low self-esteem and they want some kind of trophy to prove to themselves and others that they are worthy. That's why a lot of them are also so focused on how MANY women they can sleep with instead of looking for a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/25 02:37 PM
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They hate women, they just want to fuck them. And they can't figure out why women aren't thrilled to fuck guys who hate them.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/25 12:34 AM
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Your false assumption is that people are only physically attracted to those who are objectively above average or better in appearance. Most people are attracted to their partners even if you don't think they meet some arbitrary standard of attractiveness. And yes it even happens that people can become attracted to someone physically after getting to know them when previously they would not have been. It's not like they are physically repulsed but the personality makes up for it, the personality …
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 12:53 PM
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Divorce gets a really bad rap but every one I've seen in real life has been a good thing compared to staying married. (Happily married myself so don't think it's me being bitter or something.)
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 05:36 PM
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Yeah that's not really relationship advice then. Just advice on being a sugar baby.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/24 07:29 PM
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I mean nobody should settle for one liking the other more than the other. It's supposed to be mutual!
/r/ExRedPill29/11/24 01:48 AM
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You want to be married to someone you don't like as much as they like you?? How is that working?
/r/ExRedPill29/11/24 01:31 AM
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Oof, no, I can't keep up with every idiot in the world. That's fucked up.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/24 09:22 PM
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How do you know it's a lot? I mean obviously there are the Melania Trumps of the world, but is that really common for normal people?
/r/ExRedPill28/11/24 04:00 PM
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They're successful on on those sites specifically because they're attractive. That's like asking why all the Mormon influencers are so hot. It's because they're influencers! Google ADHD influencers and you'll see that even they are usually ridiculously good looking.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 12:03 PM
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Never take criticism from someone you wouldn't ask for advice.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 05:59 PM
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So I'm a software engineer who works with hundreds of other software engineers and your / our type is incredibly common at my company. Tons and tons of us are in happy, healthy relationships. You don't have to be Mr. Alpha at the club to be successful in love. You're probably wouldn't want to be with the types of women that those guys are going after either, right? I'm not judging them, I'm just saying I'm not interested in what they are interested in. The older you get the easier it becomes to …
/r/ExRedPill23/10/24 10:44 PM
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I don't worry about the opinions of shallow people. They're never going to be happy anyway.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 12:07 PM
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That's definitely a giant red flag, but it's not necessarily hopeless imo. You could try having some intense conversation about it before giving up with you really think it's worth it. It's always possible that he will see the light if you really confront him about his toxic beliefs. Maybe not likely, but it doesn't sound like he's a hardcore believer yet. Only do this if if you are really confident in your ability to tell if he is just pretending to agree with you or not. If you have any histor…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/24 01:38 PM
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A lot of it is cultural. In my circles I've barely heard of anybody in my whole life (I'm in my 40s) who I heard about cheating. One was somebody's dad who cheated like 30 years ago and the other is a neighbor's ex-husband who did it like 5 years ago. I've probably known over 100 couples well enough over the years that I would have heard something if it were really common. Obviously I expect there has been some cheating I haven't heard about, but I've certainly had a different experience than yo…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 02:36 AM
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Maybe I'm just old and out of touch but does nobody like go on a few dates and get to know each other first anymore? Seems like you've grown bored with hookups. Maybe try a relationship. If you didn't see any healthy long term relationships growing up, you probably need therapy.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 11:05 PM
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Oh, LOL. OK. Do you think it's possible you have no idea what the fuck you're talking about then?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 03:10 PM
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The problem is that you're bitter and irrational. You're 18, don't even really know any women well, but you're somehow absolutely confident that you have it all figured out and that your toxic assumptions about what women are really like are obviously true and the whole world is gaslighting you about the truth. I'm a man in my 40s, happily married for 15 years, several satisfying and meaningful relationships before that. I've known a bunch of women as partners or friends or relatives quite well …
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 02:28 PM
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First of all, you probably have an unrealistic picture of yourself. I've seen a dozen if these posts where OP actually shows a picture and they're always some completely average looking dude or better. It's hard to know what's holding you back without actually knowing you in person, though. A lot of times it seems to be someone on the autism spectrum or something making these posts but it doesn't really feel that way with you. The only thing that's really jumped out at me here is when you say th…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 11:38 AM
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No, if you judge a woman negatively but a man positively for doing the same thing, then you're a misogynist.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:36 PM
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It sounds like your main problem is that you think what someone looks like is the most or even the only important thing about him.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 03:42 PM
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I'm all for relationships and marriage (happily married for 15 years) but it's 100% better to be single than to be with a cruel woman.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 03:08 PM
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It's a bad idea to try to find a woman who is "lost" like you or even is "like" you. You need to share important values, but other than that they might be totally opposite of you in a lot of ways.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 06:04 PM
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Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy is a great actionable psychology book. Nothing to do with redpill. I liked Glover's book too but the gender essentialism in it feels dated (or redpill-lite.) But it's worth it if you can look past that.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 06:03 PM
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I've thought about this question a bit in the past and the question that always stumps me is: why does it have to be a MALE improvement community? Without all the red pill garbage, do we really need a male-only community just for improvement? What's wrong with inclusive communities?
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 10:44 PM
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