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With neural network sciences the DSM is going to need to be updated. As it's a newer science it's going to take some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:33 PM
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Fun fact. Children born into tribes are less likely to suffer from mental health problems. It's so rare it's almost non-existent. They were used in the studies when trying to determine if it was nature or nurture that caused anxiety and depression. Also, GOSH (Great Oramnad Street Hospital) did some excellent work with premature babies. They found that babies that we're not touched would self terminate. It's why premature babies are now held by their mothers/fathers. This had to do with the requ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:32 PM
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It doesn't matter unless it's in the formative years. You stop making the right synapses at aged 6 altogether but from birth to age 3 is the most important time. If your child hasn't formed them by, then they never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:49 PM
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We aren't talking about survival. We are talk about anxiety and depression and the rise of it. Keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:09 PM
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Same. But people are so competitive and want to be right all the time so they don't have to analyse their own behaviour, it's lazy and narcissistic. It's so easy to blame the other gender because that means you can just sit back. No one likes to admit they are lacking because they've already told themselves they are superior, anything else would just shatter the illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:15 AM
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What else has changed is the way we raise children now. With both parents working this has also contributed to anxiety and depression in children. From birth to aged 3 (minimum, 5 -6 is most desirable) an infant creates synapses by being around the mother as much as possible during these formative years. Babies know when they are abandoned. One of the most important books I've read on this subject is Why Love Matters: How affection shapes a baby's brain - Sue Gerhardt. Mothers leaving infants to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:52 AM
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Again speaking in absolutes. I'm pretty sure married men and those men in LTR would wholeheartedly disagree with you. Just because you're a pump and dump dildo doesn't mean all men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:06 PM
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Very few men are physically attractive. Women mostly always settle in this department. If she is fucking you then you're not LTR material, you're just a warm dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:22 AM
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If the guy is hawt enough if she wants sex she won't care. The end. FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:18 AM
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As a man, for sex, I don't care if a woman is kind or respectful, as long as she wants dick. This is why your experience is what it is and why you're speaking in absolutes. You exude an energy that women are rejecting. They know you just want to use them as a masturbation receptacle. It's no wonder you think the way you do. You're probably deluded by how you think you treat women, I.e. thinking you treat them better than you do. Yet the women have clocked the "as long as she wants dick" seeping …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:07 AM
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The worst thing is being trapped with a red piller in a relationship. I.e. that waste space hobo has moved in with you and is refusing to move out having converted to TRP halfway through a LTR. That 8% that said "toxic relationship", go see a therapist you need help.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 11:40 PM
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I agree with you it's why they also invented 'shit tests'. They must invent reasons why women challenge their behaviour so they don't have to blame themselves.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 08:20 AM
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The staggering irony
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 08:09 AM
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Look at you being all abusive, kind of red pills thing isn't it. Enjoy being unloved dickhead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:48 PM
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Wow what a clap back /s How long did it take you to think of that simpliletons reply? I'd tell you to grow up but it's evident that's never going to be a prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:39 PM
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Yeah, I believe you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 09:05 AM
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Like I said you don't understand lol. You read my profile and make all kinds of crazy assumptions and judgements. At least you're consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:43 PM
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You don't understand... Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:04 PM
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People that judge to that degree both deserve to be lonely, unloved and single. There is much more to people than their "looks". You people aren't going to cope when you get older, you just creepier and weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:01 PM
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are below your smv Wow, what's it like looking down on people from those heady ankle heights?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:51 PM
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Are you seriously bragging about how many people are subscribed to red pill? The irony! I have 4 profiles in there and there are many more people who are also there, but not because they like or agree with it but because they want a laugh at your sadness and cherry picking of data. Well done for proving that point for me. Lol
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 11:39 AM
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I wasn't polite about moving away from him. His face was a picture though when he realised how repulsed I found it. He literally was bragging like it would impress me. I did all the faces and sounds of disgust imaginable, I even involuntary gagged a little lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 08:00 AM
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I think high n counts is fucking gross. I once moved away from a guy that bragged he had slept with over 400 women. As I moved I let him know it was because I didn't want to catch something. If you're that emotionally unavailable its just utterly repugnant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:28 PM
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r/sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 08:27 PM
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Again... Me me me me me... Why are you so self involved? Is it because no one cares about you so you go around talking about yourself because no one else does? It's sad as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 10:10 PM
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All I read there was me me me me me me me... I I I I I. Idgaf about you, your looks or what you think you are it's all a delusion anyway. You think are better than other people which you're not. Very much not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:16 PM
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All I read there was me me me me me me me... I I I I I. I had about you, your looks or what you think you are it's all a delusion anyway. You think are better than other people which you're not. Very much not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:16 PM
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I can see why you're so angry, FDS really puts a dent in the number of women you can abuse. Ahhh suck it angry little man. You're mad because you've never even spoken to one. They will sniff you out in seconds. Also, the efuck are you to speak for the body preferences of all men? Typical red pill arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:53 PM
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Maybe you should take your head out your arse and objectively observe without pre-judgement? I'm not part of these subs but I watch them like I do incels, red pills, MGTOW and other subs. I don't like FDS because it operates on superiority just like the other subs I just mentioned. Each group is trying to have the upper hand through hate or control. FDS doesn't hate but it certainly does control through rules (no sex for 3-6 months etc). Most of what I've observed there is sharing experiences an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:41 AM
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Separate like askredpill and the like... Yeah ok bud. Edit: it's not cute to tell women what to do and it sure as shit isn't cute to tell them how to run their subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:34 AM
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You're wrong. There is a separate sub dedicated to leveling up r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy the main sub (from what I observe) is to talk about experiences, sharing memes (which are funny) and discussing various topics. The other sub is dedicated solely to improvement, sharing advice and supporting one another. Your post comes across angry maybe you should get your TRT levels checked before you stroke out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 09:59 PM
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good. then stop messaging on this sub. Are you trying to control me? Oooohhhhh loooooool! Your "Advice" goes against everything i'm trying to say. You have no skin in the game as well. Yet you don't dare confront anyone else on this comment section apart from me. Nice, I feel honoured:)
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 02:12 PM
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Good get lost. You talk rubbish. This is not a blue pill group and is def not a red pill group. You know what's funny? I have 2 profiles in this sub. 1 is on my phone and the other on my tablet. It's only this profile that gets disrespect from triggered terpers like you because I offer the exact same advice on both profiles. I'm the same person after all. Yet you read my profile and make ALL kinds of assumptions about me because I post red pill nonsense to the blue pill sub. That's ok I expect i…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 02:08 PM
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Again, you know nothing. You're a monumental waste of my valuable time.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 12:57 PM
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Stop gas lighting terper, it wont fly with me.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 12:54 PM
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Don't make assumptions about what I am thinking. That's your red pill talking. I can think for myself and if you don't understand ask for clarification. Otherwise zip it with that "hippie shit" condescending back chat.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 12:49 PM
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Guys should do what's right for themselves instead of always being told what to do by others; is my point here. There is an entire range of likes and dislikes and people should be doing things that they like rather than confirming to others expectations.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 12:35 PM
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Body shape is subjective. I find guys with some body fat to be actually very sexy. I've dated the entire range of body shapes and I've found that no matter what form his body is in, it doesn't mean shit when it comes to how he 'treats' you. An 'in shape' guy is just as likely to treat you like garbage than an out of shape guy. For some women, being in shape will get you a foot in the door. It's for this reason I've never understood the whole "must be tall" craze. It doesn't make sense to me.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 10:26 AM
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I think this is a difficult question to answer because from my observations there are many different ways one can become enticed by this group. However, that said people with these types of tendencies will always flock together. It will go one of two ways... Either you're repulsed by the ideas or you will be attracted to it. If it repulses you then it doesn't fit well with your personality traits. There is too much abrasive resistance to you morality, personality, outlook on life, how you treat …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 12:54 PM
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JFC, it's classic projection! This applies more to red pillars than women (jk because it's both). They say anything to get women into bed then piss off at the first opportunity!
/r/ExRedPill17/09/20 10:15 AM
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Awesome quote!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 05:10 PM
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It's sad. It's theft of life imo. Time you never get back and time you spend healing, wasted on someone that never deserved it.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 04:57 PM
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She is. Our group pooled some money together so she could pay a deposit and 1st months rent on a place of her own. She still hasn't fully got over it but she is out and that's a start. I'm pretty sure keeping them in poverty is part of the control.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 03:52 PM
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My friends ex did this to her too. He demanded she pay all the bills, he paid 50% of the rent and some food and that was all and she had to pay for everything else. He made 4x more than her too. She literally had no money left at the end of the month. He would be physically and mentally abusive if she tried to even things out. She let it go on for too long and he kept doing things to increase the bills for her so she got a second job in the end. It was a shit show and he was red pill too, kept g…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 09:33 AM
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Urgh, I feel so bad for that poor woman being with that abuser. I hope she gets out and understands that she is not the problem here and that he emphatically is.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 09:26 AM
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Flip the script. How would you feel if that statement was about men? Would you believe it? What points would you disagree with? Blanket statements like this only have a tiny element of truth in it. It's like saying "every Rainbow has blue in it" which is true but a rainbow also has other colours in it too and mixing the primary colours makes shades of other ones and so the statement no longer holds the absolute truth. I always find it helpful to apply statements like this to another scenario so …
/r/ExRedPill12/09/20 09:25 PM
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This is the first comment you've made on your brand new account... So you can here to troll then?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/20 09:25 AM
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Red pill men lurk here so they will downvote you because they don't like people speaking negatively about their cult.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 10:45 PM
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Start by making some truthful realisations. Every person who dates has bad dating experiences in varying degrees. If people didn't then they wouldn't be dating right? You're looking for a certain type of person and so is the person you're on a date with. Some people bring out the best in you and some don't. When you calculate all the variables in dating people the chances of getting things right is actually very slim, which is why you keep looking. Stop blaming everyone else and take some accoun…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/20 06:17 PM
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Thanks for your unsolicited advice. I know what I am doing. No need to be pedantic.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 10:45 AM
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After years of doing so I created a rule for myself... Never ever debate with a JP fan. I just don't have the time or the inclination to have a circular argument. Anything else, we can chat, just not that.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 10:14 AM
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You could ask a less broader question... Almost everything that trips out of his god forsaken pie hole is misogynistic. I'm not about to get into it with one of his obvious fans because I simply don't have the time for it. So let's do the abridged version for expediency... "JP said X, X, X and X". "But he has tenure, he is a highly respected psychologists and professor". "JP doesn't do X". "That's just an ad hominem attack". " JP just does X and X and excludes X." "You don't understand his work …
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 08:24 AM
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Hmmm... There is an argument here for using gender-neutral pronouns then isn't there? Wait... JP hates gender-neutral pronouns! Ahhh, see, it all makes sense once you use your big brain.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 08:11 AM
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Idk he had a daughter but that makes sense. I find JP very misogynistic anyway, in fact I find him to be very narcissistic also.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/20 04:16 PM
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Do you have any evidence that this is true? If red pill says it's true then surely they have some evidence that supports this claim? I'll wait for you to provide it.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/20 10:53 AM
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JP just really annoys me when he only points to mothers and sons. I've seen plenty of daughters being infantilised by their fathers (and mothers too). I've seen whole families that have done this to multiple members of their children through generations. At least one child (usually the youngest) stays at home sometimes forever, never to marry, never have relationships and never move out. There were probably more women than men that stayed home. The sons became alcoholics and the daughters scared…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 08:29 PM
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Is it though? From my understanding, it's used to control women. When she is keen for something he will become "stoic" until such time he grants her what she is keen about. "Keeping frame" because God forbid someone else is in the driving seat. These guys think they have strength by being in control all the time when it is in fact a weakness. Being able to relinquish power is strength.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 03:31 AM
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Well said! Terpers are amazing at avoidance... avoid any kind of emotional investment in anyone avoid working through any emotional pain avoid doing anything selflessly for anyone else avoid personal introspection avoid respecting women avoid relinquishing power/control avoid LTR avoid reading books that challenge their world view avoid love (themselves or others) avoid thinking that they could be wrong about everything they think they know... The list goes on. Observers of red-pilled men know m…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 03:28 AM
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The adaptations have always been there but I am unsure it will continue indefinitely. In TRP comments section it is illuminating to the subtleties. It seems to creep. At the moment there are some guys there that operate on hate and anger. Yet a subsection of men that have gone through that phase and so offer "make her want you by being nice and respectful" advice as part of the manipulation techniques. They are obviously none of these things because they are using manipulation and deception. Yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:00 AM
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Porn. It's accessible, easy, cheap and requires no effort. Some studies have shown that men in relationships prefer porn (dead bedrooms) because they don't have to do foreplay etc. In 10 minutes they got their orgasm and they can carry on (usually gaming).
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 08:31 AM
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Furthermore, he was not asking you for an assessment he was asking for advice. He also wasn't asking for your obvious hate of women to permeate your reply either. This is my last message. I'm sure you will want the last word so over to you.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 10:17 PM
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Perhaps you should read your original comment and see how much what you've said here aligns with your current delusion. No, I won't be private chatting with you. I've rejected your request. Edit: I gave you a chance to prove your maturity by letting you know we shall not be speaking privately. As you seem incapable of doing such a thing and have spammed me with messages I have no other option but to block you.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 10:14 PM
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Your mindset, your language and your assumptions are deeply ingrained with red pill ideology. Every single reply so far. Do you think you're old enough and experienced enough to give someone almost twice your age advice? Particularly as you've just said I read all the posts on this subreddit to get myself out of this horrid ideology. You're not the right person to be giving advice, particularly given how abysmal it is.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 09:45 PM
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Maybe you should focus on sorting yourself out before interacting and giving advice. Even this last reply just reeks of red pill "His wife didn't condition him like a dog". Seriously your advice is not helpful and confusing to someone looking to change their mindset when you're bringing them right back into it with your own words. Call me sceptical but judging by your profile I would say it certainly was deliberate.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 08:30 PM
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This is the worst advice I've ever read on this sub and it reeks of red pill. Just checked four profile and it's less than a month old... Look who is here to troll. Just do one dude.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 07:12 PM
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I just want to add something you said here just from a woman's perspective... All women have 100+ matches on tinder, trust me. Yes. But that does not convert into 100+ possibilities. Out of 100, there are probably 5 (depending on how fussy a woman is) because there rest are just time-wasters (don't respond to messages) or are not otherwise suitable for various reasons. I feel the need to point this out because men just look at the numbers and not the details within those numbers. Go on any datin…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 07:06 PM
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Do you ever wonder why the world is seeing increased numbers of people suffering from anxiety and depression? Do you ever wonder why people keep feeling disconnected and have less social skills than they used to? Do you ever wonder if there is a downside to what you said here... once artificial womb is perfected, women have the choice to give birth naturally or through artificial womb. A bit like surrogacy but not involving another human? It's not true that we don't 'need' anyone. We absolutely …
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 08:53 AM
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You've moved this away from red pill ideology so I'm not going to respond.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 03:37 PM
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I didn't edit it. It's the same.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 02:51 PM
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Men also vote for men in power... Yet women are always blamed no matter what. Men create systems... Child care, pay structures like welfare, rents, mortgages etc.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 02:47 PM
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Just my own observations. You're free to state your own. You can't please everyone so... Meh! In my experience, if it vexes you, there is a reason for it. It's either so true that invokes a strong emotional response or it's so wrong it it does the same.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 01:57 PM
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From what I've observed a lot of red pill men have come from single-mother households. They have anger towards their mothers for their dad leaving. Most of them idolise the father and hate the mother. The reasons are vast are varying from the mother abusing substances or having her own issues dealing with abuse which was projected onto their kids, to the mother being absent due to working, the father blaming the mother for a break up and letting his kids know (visa verse), there not having a fat…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 11:49 AM
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Idk this existed so I will pass it on to those that will benefit, thank you.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/20 07:15 AM
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I would say yes but it's heavily dark triad (narcissistic, psychopathic and Machiavellian). The mods, endorsed contributors and regular 'I'm writing a book' style posters there are clearly dark triad, the rest are looking for validation or selling their own style of PUAstry. Some commentators try to offer a more balanced view but usually get shot down.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 07:13 PM
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Time to speak against it so men can see another point of view. The problem with this is that their anger draws them in, it's appealing because their hate and current view of women is validated. This could be temporary but once you get drawn into these communities a sense of belonging and acceptance takes over. It's also true of incels and MGTOW. So, would they listen? As far as I can see the only ones that can be tempted are those that are looking for advice for dating and relationships and end …
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 07:04 PM
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Red pill men love to tell themselves things that will make them hurt less. They tell all sorts of lies so they can avoid the true story, which is to look at themselves. People stay together for all kinds of reasons and if you take the time to ask questions to the people around you in relationships then that's a better answer than anything a red pill man will say. They suffer from black and white thinking, they are extreme, they ignore the majority which is the grey area.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/20 10:28 AM
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If you honestly want to know the truth about this subject then you need to read "Why Love Matters how affection shapes a babies brain - Sue Gerhardt". Pair bonding really begins in the womb and infancy. Up to the age of 3, each person is creating neural networks and synapses in the brain to the amygdala. In there it tells you exactly how we bond with others and if certain aspects of love and attention in infancy is absent how it can be more challenging. These are based around trauma as babies th…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/20 02:23 PM
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I can identify two major issues here. Self-esteem. How you view yourself is not great. You can help yourself here by working on this issue by using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. There are lots of books out there that you can work through which will help you to look at the way you think about yourself. Currently, the way you do leads on to the second issue... Experiencing intense emotions. You can help yourself by working on your emotions using Dialect Behaviour Techniques (DBT).It will help you…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 10:35 AM
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I think you have a good point. I've been noticing an uptick in an obsession with young women from countries like that. As they tend to prey on those that are not as well versed at understanding their methods, or would tolerate it by a trade-off or lack understanding because of language, it fits. The older guys are having a hard time in their own countries. With Facebook and other social media women have gotten wise to them. I'm glad it's made their lives harder but I still feel for the women bei…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 04:52 PM
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I think some of them do. I believe most manipulate in order to create 'dread' so pretend they have women falling at their feet. If you speak to victims of narcissists they claim quite often that they were cheated on. Those able to find women with self-esteem low enough to have a LTR with then monkey branching is a way of life for them. It's more possible to not emotionally invest if you have several women to divert your attention to and if one leaves you then you're not alone, I think that's the…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 04:22 PM
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Thank you kindly I accept! Lol
/r/ExRedPill04/08/20 09:12 PM
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They have lots of 'plates' so they can avoid emotional pain when they get dumped for a better man. They don't know they are not the type women stay with because they are so emotionally detached. So they tell themselves lots of lies about women and 'their true nature' so they don't have to self reflect. It's the lazy persons way of dealing with things. If you blame other people for your woes there is less work involved. People want connection yet when they are emotionally immature they avoid it b…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/20 09:26 AM
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You see what you want to see.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 08:21 PM
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Woman, actually.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 05:34 PM
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You post that about porn only 29 days ago. 1 month ago you posted about "being free of my pessimistic friend" in which you claim your friend to be a narcissist with an entire rant about how horrible that person was. Not only was it judgemental, derogatory and hateful towards that person you lack the self awareness to see your own narcissism. I am not a Nice Guy anymore. You called me a liar. You're deluded and not worth my time.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 05:27 PM
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By your own admission these were the search terms you typed in. No one else did that for you. This is an insight to your own beliefs and mindset. It's not watching porn per se it's how you wanted to watch women being abused "cry, face slapping, rough" etc that is telling. It's revealing you even laugh here HAHAHAHAH Your past is still your present. You're looking for your views on women to be validated and came to rest on the red pill sub. If their views hadn't mirrored your own you would have m…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 05:11 PM
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When I was looking for porn, some of my search terms were: Thai street prostitutes bbc gangbang bbc anal skinny anal monster anal Brutal anal Mature anal forced anal Painful anal Rough anal Crying anal Rough gangbang Brutal gangbang Granny humiliation degradation Facialabuse You have no respect for women and you fit right in to red pill ideology.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 04:55 PM
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TRP makes up a bunch of pseudo-psychology or cherrypick unusual data points to create sexist narratives Man that is poignant. I posted exactly this earlier today! All of what you've said is bang on. They are 'open books'... The Stephen King book of dating, but then I suppose we all need one horror story to appreciate the rest.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 01:27 PM
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So far the only concern with psychology TRP have made obvious is their obsession with the dark triad. In their quest to become "emotionless" and "detached" from wanting love from women (because that's where emotional pain is for them) they aspire to hone these traits, particularly the skills in manipulation (which TRP thrives on). Their specific aims are**: to manipulate. to control lie. deceive. cheat first (vindictiveness). have no empathy for any emotional distress they cause their targets. b…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 12:57 AM
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That's in no way comparable. Funny you tried to associate materialistic or monetary value to emotional input. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:05 PM
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I can only speak for myself here but if I'm making a man wait, I'm really into him. If I have a ONS then I don't like him that much. I've only ever had 2 btw so it's not much to go on. Both those ONS were disappointing enough for me to ditch that approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:35 PM
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The reasons why men and women cheat are different, generally speaking. If your woman is cheating on you it isn't always because she wants sex. Love and connection is missing so maybe you're deficient in providing her with that? Why is that so hard to understand? Men cheat because they want more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:32 PM
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I read something today that was interesting about this. In a world where men outstrip the number of women men tend to be more monogamous. Where women are in abundance men will cheat more or have poly relationships. Supply and demand seems to have a bearing on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:40 PM
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Did you honestly think that based on my initial posts? Obviously. I am not your enemy, sorry to dissapoint you. Yes, you are. You believe in oppression, manipulation, control and deception (sick minded cult). None of those things aligns with my beliefs of autonomy, freedom, honesty, openness, connection and equality. Do you agree on censorship? Emphatically no I do not. However, invading spaces where people wish to be free of your repugnant ideology is trolling, trying to assert dominance, tryin…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 05:47 PM
1

Answer the question I asked not the question you made up.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 05:08 PM
9

I'm always wary of people who try and tell others what to do and how to live their life. You can offer direction or opinions when asked for and I think that's fine in helping people decide for themselves what they think suits them. And that's the key here... What is right for you? Does his advice suit your own beliefs? Who you are as a person? How do you want to live? What are your values? What would make you happy? You're a person in your own right and you get to choose your life. You don't nee…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 10:45 AM
1

I think everyone has experienced this at one time or another in different ways. Doesn't make it right but people know how powerful emotional, verbal and physical manipulation can beaand effective. Studies into criminals like Ted Bundy have shown just how the dark triad use it to their advantage. How the op of this thread can claim that men are too stupid to manipulate anyone, when male criminals were the subject of such investigation is beyond me. For prosperity this applies to women also but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:01 PM
2

So you're familiar with persistence or teasing or bribery or giving an ultimatum? How a woman does it men can also do it too. It's not gender-specific. Depending on how a person has learned how to manipulate then this will be their MO. Harvey Weinstein had his own MO, "come to my hotel room to talk about that movie.. Whoops I'm naked we can still talk though? Watch me wank?" He was the king of false pretences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:26 PM
2

Why are you trolling? That has an obvious answer... Coercion, violence, getting them drunk, drugging them, lying to them, pretending to care for them. There are plenty of ways to manipulate women into having sex varying from extreme to lesser. The fact women might be too scared to say no is subtle, with threats of violence is more extreme. Apart from the fact this is the stupidest question ever asked, whereby there is no single answer just take your pick. Moreover, no is a complete sentence. Lor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:04 PM
0

Manipulation is available to everyone. The dark triad operates on it. That's the difference. Psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists all use manipulation in every day life. They are unable to operate without it because it's all about getting their own way. In no way is manipulation exclusive to these groups. Like I said we learn how to manipulate from a young age. That might be securing sweets, staying up late, getting gifts or whatever. You can choose not to use manipulation. Hope that's cleare…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:30 PM
1

Men as a whole are pretty dumb when it comes to manipulation. The dark triad operates on manipulation, narcissism and psychopathy. The red pill embraces these disorders with gusto. Do men manipulate women into having sex? Yes. Yes they do. Do all men? Idk but I bet the majority have at some point in their life, even if it was during that phase in their life where they were learning. To say that would never happen or is rare is disingenuous because we all learn about manipulation it's a choice if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:15 PM
1

You've got some good points there. Particularly about her taking advantage of her son's friend. It can be argued that it was due to availability but at the end of the day it was still her son's friend. I am a woman btw and I can understand you being salty. I feel the same way when I am discriminated against because of my own gender. Or worse feel there are double standards because there are many. I'd like for there to be a more even playing field but unfortunately, it's a balance we can never se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:02 AM
2

I am a woman and have been one for 45 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:56 AM
1

I think there maybe is a double standard because it isn't exactly an equal play field here. I think we can agree that rape of a minor is level playing field. However, men grooming women is more prevalent due to paedophilia. Men on boy rape is also more prevalent than women on boy rape. So when it comes to it, it's about risk and normalisation of acts. Therefore an older man banging a young women has been normalised to a certain extent and people are hyper aware of paedophilia. Yet an older woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:54 AM
2

I find this hypocritical considering red pill ideology is men being the CC. It's ok for them to dick as many women as their sex drive will allow but yet women can't. If you're a man whore then you have no right to judge women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:25 AM
1

So what about double standards? Seriously we all experience it. Women have done for centuries. Men are only just experiencing it. There have been countless men banging much younger women it's always happened. I think people are just over the whole thing because it's just a load of old noise now. I'm not saying it's right or wrong I just don't see how being outraged by it is anyway helpful? The media is gutter trash and has been since it stopped just reporting the facts and started reporting opin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:46 PM
1

I honestly believe that you're over thinking this. This entire post agrees that banging someone old enough to be your kid is gross no matter what sex you are. So, maybe your beef is with the way it's been portrayed in the media? If so then it is in no way indicative of how people feel about it. What reaction are you looking for exactly? I personally just get sick of celebrities parading their narcissistic lives out in the media like we're all interested. I get bored of it. Same shit different da…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:15 PM
9

Friend zone can mean many things to many people. For some it's a place to park guys that you like but not attracted to so genuinely want to be friends with and hang out with, or a place where you put guys you are interested in but are not ready to date yet, is a place that guys move into if dating didn't work out... I mean it's not necessarily a holding pen like "take a number I'll get back to you" kind of place.
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:12 PM
5

Oh, man. What a hoot this dude is. Seeing him struggling to articulate his awful mindset is hilarious. He is still MGTOW in his head he is just another shambolic dude trying to get rich and famous off a divisive ideology which lays heavily in hate. He needs to give his head a wobble. Edit: I didn't have time to say this in my original post but this guy makes a lot of assumptions which is why I think he is still MGTOW in his head. He thinks he can speak for women and men. It's dangerous to make a…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 12:37 PM
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I fail to see the double standards here. I've read through the comments and the general consensus is that no one agrees that fucking your kids friends is acceptable. It's agreed that both men and women who do this are gross. I don't understand why you're labouring the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:08 AM
1

They were split while she had this so called 'affair '. That's not cucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 09:29 AM
2

Men who dip their feet into the sexual harassment arena. One particular egregious dipshit in the UK recorded his attempts to aggressively bang women, posted them on youtube which was used in court as evidence against him for sexual harassment. His videos we're removed from the platform and the dude served time in prison. He also sold his techniques to the public making himself a small fortune in the process and creating a shit ton of coercion rapists, which will be his legacy. I've not yet heard…
/r/seduction13/07/20 11:41 PM
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Pretty much anti-redpill like you said... but it takes owning up to it, being vulnerable, and feeling uncomfortable enough to take those steps. Redpillers are not known for deep self-introspection, emotional maturity or 'beta' (reduced ego) enough to admit they're wrong. I can't ever imagine one being that insightful while indoctrinated and I believe it would take some ego shattering once they are out to achieve that level.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 10:40 PM
1

I'm not an incel lol and yes I agree personality is mostly what does it.
/r/seduction12/07/20 11:32 AM
2

So yes then.
/r/seduction12/07/20 11:26 AM
5

Don't tell I'll guess... An incel makes a post about height and how short men will be dateless virgins for eternity and will use a poll with a couple of hundred votes on it as sUbStaNtIaL eViDeNcE they are the tRuE ViCtImS until the EnD oF tImE?
/r/seduction12/07/20 11:24 AM
2

True to form you didn't answer my question.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 07:10 AM
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You also post on MGTOW so I'm a bit confused about you. If the mods knew I was a red pill guy they would probably ban me here, You don't post there though. So what's your purpose here? If you believe in the ideologies then surely you're here to cause problems for those wanting to leave these sick minded cults?
/r/ExRedPill11/07/20 10:11 PM
1

Anxiety is fear of things that haven't happened yet. If you change the narrative around fear to dealing with things WHEN they happen life becomes less anxiety-provoking. The way things are is that fear prevents you from doing things so you do nothing and achieve nothing. But if the goal posts we're moved to deal with things when they crop up it means you can do things. If you don't do that you'll always be living for tomorrow and not for today. Makes sense?
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:53 AM
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I agree. Wear a condom if you don't want kids and if you do have them then you should pay for them as a parent.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 12:03 PM
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Superiority. To denounce someone as boring elivates themselves as 'not boring'. Red pillars suffer from a superiority complex. They must put others down so they can stand on their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:56 AM
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Observational humour. Slightly sarcastic. I.e. it wasn't serious because I'm pretty sure there is zero correlation between the wall sub being ban hammered and the above conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:25 PM
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Why is this whooshing so many people? I'll add you to the list. Also see my comment above about "reading someone's comment and making wild assumptions".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:13 PM
1

So I'll ask again what's the point, why read a book when the other person rejects reading it. You read it. There is learning to be had. If the other person is unwilling to then what does that tell you? It's pretty simple and idk why you keep labouring this point. Correction: the fact you've made relationships a competition tells me why you are doing this. I find it kind of sad that you're unable to self reflect and see where the real problems are rather than spewing your inner loathing onto stra…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 06:16 PM
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That's not what I was saying. I guess whoosh applies here. Imagine reading someone's comment and making a wild assumption about it like you left your sense of humor at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:09 PM
0

I find this fascinating since the wall sub got ban hammered into oblivion. Is there something magical about this situation? Imagine if the red pill, MGTOW or incel WoH got banned, could the male/female war on hate be defeated?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:44 PM
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I second this. It's a crutch but it will also be their undoing. They just don't know it yet. Once they realise that needing control is a weakness that's the only time they will let go of it.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 01:38 PM
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I like to to think of it as this analogy... A man has been dumped out at sea and sees no land. He is lost and floundering. He spots a lift raft called "the red pill". He swims to it and climbs aboard. It saved him from drowning and he feels safe, he is Cpt. Of his ship. Yet some swimmers come up along his raft and says the shore is just beyond his view, but he won't swim because he doesn't believe them. He is right and everyone else is wrong. He will only ever swim to shore when he realises he i…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 01:33 PM
1

But If a random dude comes up to any woman on the street and demands sex, 10 guys would jump in to save her and it’s not even close to accepted by anyone. What? No. This does not happen. Ever. Wtf you talking about? Ok the whole post is utter trash to be fair. I'm going to file it under 'stupid' and 'how gangbang porn storylines begin' and leave it at that...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:14 PM
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It's kind of hard to read an essay where half of it is along the lines of "grow up, you can't fuck your mother incel". Never even implied that. That's in your head not mine. You say I'm unwilling to change my view but you refuse to read my argument for red pill because I start by saying you are "strawmanning" Yep because that does shut down debate. It's purposely used in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 08:26 PM
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That's just a straw man of what red pill is. I didn't read past that. The second you bring out the strawman argument there is no point. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 08:03 PM
0

You agree with me that the lessons are terrible but then downplay the effect they can have. BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS TAKEN ON THAT ADVICE... The rest seems to be about how I personally fit into this, though you may have only used "you" generally. Yes. Not the 'you' per se but the collective. However, you ignore my points and haven't responded on those just nick picked at my reply which means you are deflecting so as not to address them. I shall assume you understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 07:56 PM
2

These are the facts. With the menstrual cycle there is the ups and downs. On the downs more work is required to get things going.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 11:52 AM
2

Also People seduced by the red pill do so because they are obsessed with getting what they think they deserve and are entitled to. They are already closely aligned with the dark triad and so it will appeal to them all the more. They feel they have found their tribe so there is a sense of belonging. These men has a sense that they are owed something and nothing more. Others realise that they are owed nothing and will reject red pill ideology because they see its pitfalls. The main one being that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:13 AM
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You're MGTOW poster. You're not here for anyone to CYV. You're here for validation and to make blanket statements... However, let's play regardless. My argument is that women raise their sons to be "nice guys" Blanket statement right here. This is your opinion which excludes different types of men. In my own experience of men, there are many different types. Just show her you care and she will like you. Always be a gentleman. Once you reach X age, then girls will start liking you. These are real…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:12 AM
2

Because the dudes think it's 1500 still and they need to ensure their inferior genes are passed on else they will throw a man strop.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 09:00 PM
1

What a cool jacket, That would never fly in Newcastle UK lol
/r/seduction29/06/20 12:02 PM
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Because "its not all about you".
/r/ExRedPill29/06/20 11:58 AM
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Women can't read minds Neither can men, which is why he is guessing all the time.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/20 11:55 AM
10

This book as some good tips Failing that watch this video
/r/seduction28/06/20 06:46 PM
2

But, looks don't matter nearly as much to girls. Mansplaining and wrong lol
/r/seduction27/06/20 02:07 PM
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You're going to have to leave him alone I'm afraid. He won't change his ways while he is around you. He treated you badly and you're legitimising his behaviour by sticking around. You've already said he won't listen and won't seek help. That means he is in it for the long haul. You either accept his abuse or get out. The smart option is to get out. You can't change anyone unless they want to themselves. They won't do it unless they need to. I'm sorry but there is no other way. Staying with him w…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 11:55 AM
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I get a sense that you are looking for answers and looking to belong somewhere. This is usually how redpillers get sucked in. Most are looking for people to agree with their own perception rather than looking for a more objective viewpoint. The fact you feel so uneasy of a number of things about this cult is telling you (intuition) that all is not well with the ideology. I could say anything about the opposite sex and I will find evidence to support that. That doesn't mean AMALT or AWALT. It's j…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/20 10:14 AM
1

I've read up on some of this and from what I have read it's quite a complex issue. For starters, people who come from abusive homes (childhood) are more likely to choose abusive partners. Generally speaking, this comes down to low self esteem, a high tolerance for abuse, not recognising abuse, a deep psychological need to repair past trauma by trying to relive past trauma relationships and a subconscious attraction to familiarity. Familiarity is key. People who grew up with narcissistic parents …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:12 PM
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That when someone puts up a CMV post they are not asking you to change their view. They are there to argue their own POV. It's a poiness exercise. I've never seen a single person say "well that's a good point" or "I never thought about it that way" or anything other than "BuT i'M rIgHt YoU WroNG"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:31 PM
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I believe in equality between genders, freedom in life and being able to be yourself even if it doesn't fit in gender boxes If you believe this then why does it matter? You are putting people into boxes by trying to reason with hypergamy in the first place. If you truly accepted that some women choose this way of life because they are free to do so, then it is simply just that. A lifestyle choice. Just as you choose to go to the gym, eat healthily, eat junk food, do adrenaline sports, do sports …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 10:43 AM
5

I tend to go to local events if in the summer. I had a date at a dogs agility competition, carnival, fate, RAF air show something like that because there is lots to do and see so you have something to talk about as well. But I am a Brit so I'm not sure what America has an an equivalent
/r/seduction16/06/20 07:52 PM
71

Getting your balls in the right pocket is kind of hot
/r/seduction16/06/20 07:48 PM
1

So a Karen is a racist dog abusing piece of shit then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:07 AM
1

I did ask somewhere on this thread because I've never met one yet there is always talk about them. I only have a vague idea who a Karen is. I thought fat middle-aged white woman was the basic descriptor? Can you clarify what one is for a high level ignoramus like me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:06 AM
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I'm 100% not like anything a Karen is being portrayed here. I don't complain to the manager, I've never felt entitled, I have long hair, I'm not fat... What am I missing? Edit: I'm also English. We were taught manners and our society operates on politeness. We don't make a fuss and we accept that mistakes happen. I really think it's an American thing. Nice attempt at trolling though. I score 2/10. Also, can see why you're still not finding a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:51 PM
3

"What is" is subjective though, it's viewed via your experience only. I can't say I've ever met a Karen that's suggested here. So in my world the whole thing is nonsense. However, I'm not saying these women don't exist, I'm sure they do but the question is how prevalent are they? Also, what part of culture plays a role in creating them? I'm sure societal cultures has some bearing on the prevalence of these types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:43 PM
1

I'm not entirely sure what a Karen is but if she is an entitled jumped up little princess type that I think is being talked about here then it's really a failure of parenting. You can lump incels, TRP and any type of extreme personality traits person in there too. Media loads onto the problems by making everyone fight to be the top dog and making anyone else that haven't fought their way to the top as being the biggest loser. Given our failure to parent and external pressures is it any wonder we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:25 PM
1

Is a 'Karen' exclusively an American type of woman? As a Brit I can't say I know the type of woman the comments claim a Karen is. I wonder if it's a culture thing. Are there any UK males who have met a 'Karen'?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:04 PM
15

There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Some men approach with pure arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:36 PM
2

Dude, you'll be on TRP in no time. I feel it in my bones.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/20 08:29 AM
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Creating insecurity in a person is a douche move. She probably left your arse for other reasons.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 06:04 PM
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TRP: AWALT Also TRP: all women are crazy you don't want to be with one LTR Meanwhile, TRP: so yeah that bitch is feeling the dread and all her insecurities making her crazy, this is why you shouldn't have LTR
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 05:54 PM
5

It sounds bad but at least from what he described, the ultimate goal is to find a long term partner, so it's not THAT bad I guess. Why do I get the feeling that it appeals to you and you want to do it so you're looking for the 'how-to' guide?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 05:52 PM
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I'm not taking anything personally dude but it does make me worried for the women around you who you project this on. Good for you on improving yourself, but I really think judging women's bodies is just part of what you need to improve. I give my personal experiences because I've been around men like you I've had some horrible things said to me about my body. It being too fat, too skinny too whatever. It's damaging. It's taken me years to get over my eating disorder and I wouldn't of had one in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:41 PM
3

Dude, you have an impossible and quite derogatory/impossible standard for women bodies. Projecting your own body dysmorphia onto women is harmful. For being 5'11 and just 11.5 stone you're underweight for someone that lifts so much as you claim you do. Smh. Edit: number Second edit: I've just checked a cart and I just... And I mean just, scrape into the healthy weight barrier you expect women to be. I am borderline underweight. If I was to look like the girls on the that link you posted I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:16 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:33 PM
2

Hahaha changing the goal posts! You're trying to convert your BMI into a women's If you just take my BMI and translate it to women of average height you’re looking at about 120 lbs and pretty lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:28 PM
2

Hahaha I've got more chance of finding a needle in the ocean!
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 01:38 PM
1

Well as you have no comprehension skills at all this has become utterly pointless. Persistently changing the goal posts is how narcissistic people try to win arguments. We are done here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:47 AM
3

Clumsy and confident are not the same things! Try not to conflate separate issues. I am like you. Confident but clumsy. I'm clumsy because I don't always pay attention to what I am doing. This has no bearing on how confident I am as a person. Yes, insecurity does come from childhood. Look to what you do now for the answers. Don't believe what others said about you back then because you have gown and changed since then. Listen to your own voice and people that support you only, not those that try…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 10:45 AM
2

It's not something that can be answered because all people are different. Clumsy and awkward can be viewed many different ways, to some it can be endearing and a quality that invokes a response from a woman that she likes. It could also be seen as a quality that's not attractive by a woman because she likes confident and assured men so might be turned off by it. Asking a question like that is like asking "how long a piece of string?". If you need 20 cm and the string is 21 or 19 cm then you'll s…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 10:29 AM
3

The red pill might have made me believe if I openly communicated about things, they will think less of me because I'm supposed to be the mystery man. This is TRP lie. Communication is an absolute must. People that don't do this have something to hide and we know TRP guys do have something to hide. It's because of this it is best for them not to say too much because they know it will eventually come out and drop them in it. There should never be any secrecy when it comes to sex because that's how…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 10:03 AM
2

Communication is key in dominant/submission power play. So long as you're good at this skill then it should give you confidence with your partner. The first few times you do it both need to be vocal about how it is... Is to too rough or not enough. I find that going easy at first is the best approach because you can ramp it up from there without overstepping the mark.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 09:49 AM
2

Tbh, I would love me some male submissive movie type porn... As a woman I can agree with this. It's woefully lacking as everything is geared towards the biggest users, which are men. I do watch some gay porn because that's where I've seen some male submission or pegging. However, trying to find male submission to a female porn is like finding the answers to the universe.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 09:44 AM
1

If you were paying attention (which you weren't) you would notice that I wasn't Gas lighting... If you were paying attention, which you're weren't, then men are more afraid of man on man violence than women on man. This means that men are more forthcoming with women. That is, it doesn't cause them to approach with with trepidation because they haven't been conditioned to and have no reason to beat about the bush. Women communicate in a way to minimise any potential violence. Just go read some r/…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:26 AM
3

One could examine ones attitude and arrive at the same outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:16 AM
1

trolling It's your insistence that I'm skinny and non-muscular that makes me think you're trolling, You said you're 120 pounds? That makes you 8 stone 5 pounds in my country. Given your height as well you are exceptionally skinny. A waif as we would say here. Someone your height I would expect to be at least 10 stone if they are lifting in a meaningful way. That is 140 pounds in your measurements. I'm sorry that you're taking offense to my disgreeing with you but you did ask for an example and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:11 AM
1

You think guys are immune to threats because? Threats of what from women? Rape? Physical assault? Gang rape? Torture? Murder? What exactly? In the history of time I would say that men extremely rarely get attacked by women. Ok now I know you're shitting me because women have willingly and enthusiastically accepted invitations to concerts and parties where people... I didn't think we were talking about All women, I thought we were talking about the unsure ones... Let's not change the goal posts a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:43 PM
1

Not trolling you at all. I use the app and I had not completed my reply and it has been crashing a lot lately so I closed it and had to come back and complete my reply. It is hard to explain but I'll go by sports. Male gymnasts are muscular. They have all over body muscle, evenly distributed and can only get that way by lifting heavy weights. They weigh much heavier than a runner. This is due to the fact gymnasts need the muscle groups to be able to perform. Male long distance runners are not wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:27 PM
1

By being straightforward and telling them you don't feel comfortable and dont want to go. Ok so a lot to unpack in this statement because it's not as simple as that. she might want to go. she might be afraid to say no because men can be horrible when rejected. she might need more time to decide if it's safe to go. she might be looking for a way to decline which doesn't result in no more asks. something else because people are complicated and they might have reasons I've not thought of. Guys have…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:47 PM
1

I don't go on BMI because it doesn't account for muscle which weighs more than fat. But I see why you want to date girls that don't have more muscles than you. People that are neurotic about their own weight will be neurotic about other peoples weight. That's why people have judgements because they are insecure about their own shortcomings and being with someone that supersedes themselves only serves to highlight what they can't/haven't achieve/d. Having been an avid weightlifter/gym goer my who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:32 PM
2

Oh so that's skinny. You're skinny. I thought you said you had muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:03 PM
2

Oh, so that sounds judgemental and conditions that have to be met based on your own weight, height and statistics... Not at all realistic but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:58 PM
3

What is even comparable? Have you even seen women and their wildly variable body shapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:39 PM
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I've worked in hospitality and bars since I was 15 years old. I have never had a problem with small talk, charm or chatting men up. Jobs like that trains you how to interact with the opposite sex because it forces you to. You can't serve people without first talking to them. Many younger people these days don't see the value in these types of jobs. Sure I earned £1.10 per hour and it was slave labour because it was cash in hand and under the legal requirements. But those skills have served me we…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:15 PM
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What's your obsession with girls being chubby? Women naturally carry more fat then men due to the need of it during pregnancy. What do you think huge tits are made from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:51 PM
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That's why guys get so excited when girls tag along for things they usually do with each other. When asking a guy something(in person not online) you usually get a straightforward answer with women it's like you have to play this game where if you follow the right steps she may come. Do you not think this is due to trepidation considering the danger factor male groups can pose for women? The steps being asked to be taken is the time we need to work out if this would be a safe thing to do. I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 07:50 PM
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If that's you in your profile picture then you're much higher on the scale than you place yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:50 PM
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And "The Mentalist". Not seen that one, I'll have to invest some binge watching time on it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:27 PM
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Do you feel there is a difference in your mental state from living as a slob to living in a clean and tidy place?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:05 PM
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I'm pretty close to BB. If you're ex/army you will spend time up there getting beasted! I've never been up there as yet. If you're further up north have you visited Buxton? Lovely countryside up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:02 PM
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People will listen when they are ready to, in my experience. It doesn't deter me from keeping plugging away at it because that one day might be the day that something clicks in them and they open up. It's a process we all go through. Did you ever see a series called Lie to Me? It got me heavily into body language. It's another fascinating layer to humanity. How our body betrays us! haha I agree with you on the rest of the points. Paying someone shows a level of investment that's unparalleled to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:55 AM
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I used to work as a cleaner and I can confirm that men that have worked in any of the services are way cleaner and tidier then most men. Most of my family are ex service men and they like clean and tidy. So it's both compliment and truth! Although annoyingly, a lot of the women I attract tend to be hoarder mentality, They say opposites attract. I hate clutter and mess so this is very relatable. For years I wondered if I just had high standards and it wasn't until I started cleaning that I realis…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:45 AM
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I'm in south west Wales and the furthest north I've been is the lake district/Derby. I haven't managed to get to creamfields which is 'up north' yet but it's on the bucket list. When I do I plan to make a holiday of it and visit around. I've done all south east and West. Yes, I feel it is friendlier up north or west!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:37 AM
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I hear you. Shame they don't hear us. I'd like to help but it always boils down to them knowing best. I know it's because of their trust issues and coping mechanisms but still, you got to let go of that shit to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:32 AM
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I love it there. I'd like another trip back asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:29 AM
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I went to a small place called Enkhuizen, it's like a little shipping village feel to it, it was lovely. Then we had some day trips to Amsterdam (I've been there numerous times), Rotterdam, Andijk and De Vooroever. I'm going to start learning Dutch once everything is up and running again. People are lovely and country is very pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:28 AM
1

I have dated several squaddies in my life. They are much more disciplined and organised then any of my other exes. Must be what they teach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:10 AM
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Lots of people hate themselves and find love and such imo. They don't have successful relationships because what happens is they find someone who loves them, then they unworthy of that love because they don't love themselves, then destroy the relationship through sabotage. If you want love, learn to love yourself first. How can YOU love someone else when you don't even know how to love yourself? This isn't a parent love situation where you get to be loved and don't love in return. There is plent…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/20 10:45 PM
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Do you love yourself?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/20 10:38 PM
1

Do you love yourself?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/20 10:36 PM
1

Why do you want a serious relationship now? Is it love you want?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/20 10:35 PM
1

I don't have time to read a 77 page essay. Can you abbreviate the objectives?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/20 10:32 PM
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Don’t be with a n demonic man TFIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:16 AM
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Looks like your specific pick up artist style is to pretend to be honest with women. It's still manipulation. You still have plates. You're still red pill
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 11:56 PM
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Don't keep editing your text without an edit in place. You still have a pump and dump ideology"The second or third time I bang a girl, if it’s really obvious she’s cool and I like her and I’ll probably keep seeing her, I’ll have a conversation with her (usually after sex). I’ll say, “By the way, at some point you’ll catch feelings for me, because it’s inevitable when you spend enough time with someone." Some of your word vomit rIght there. You seem to have an over inflated ego like the rest of y…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 11:47 PM
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You're here to hoover up people into your grotesque ideology. I've been on your website and you're full TRP. Your website is shit btw and just vomits words
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 11:23 PM
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Are you from Australia by any chance? You are red pill and are posting on TRP and here. Why are you here? You're not ex red pill but very much full TRP. You can't be both. So I believe you're here to hoover up people wanting to exit this grotesque ideology. I've just been on your website. "Hi are you into BDSM and being submissive?" You're basically a poor mans Dorian Grey.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 11:02 PM
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Porn sickness! It gets you eventually hahaha
/r/seduction09/06/20 01:42 PM
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guys what should I do Stop being judgemental Stop concerning yourself with other people's business. Stop slandering people with accusations of STDs. Listen to your girlfriend and actually "be nice". Get over yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 11:52 AM
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And women have breasts that can get in the way of athletic endeavors. Pmsl that bit had me howling! Tell that to women in sports. Hahaha omg I'm dead.
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:39 AM
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when I hit my stride in my peak SMV years I'm going to be a total heartbreaker. I'm past that relationship crap. I'm going to have strictly sexual relationships with women. If they get to be sluts during their prime then I get to be a slut during mine. Right now I'm just focusing on accumulating wealth so that I can pretend to be the beta provider that women look for when they’re in the epiphany/transition/security years. So you have revealed yourself as not being here to ask for advice but to b…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 11:13 PM
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I won't date a guy that DOESN'T have female friends. That's because it shows that he is unable to have a relationship with them without the sex. It's my red flag. It looks as though you keep posting in MGTOW (a toxic sub) looking for validation of your terrible world view. These types of subs are not serving you. Your world view became the way it is because you kept looking for confirmation bias to support your ideology. If you keep looking to reinforce it then you'll be stuck like this forever.…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 10:03 PM
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I'm a woman and have been in love twice before. There is no way I would have left either of those guys for someone else no matter what they were offering. They had my loyalty and commitment as I had theirs. I believe if someone does leave you for staus, money or anything else then they never really loved you.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 09:26 PM
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I can agree with this. I had a look at an incels profile and he had posted a picture of himself on another sub looking for advice. I had spoken to him on a previous occasion and he claimed he had done"everything... All the advice". Yet he looked like a 40+year old who had given up on life. His clothes were dull, his hair an absolute mess and had not bothered to shave. She he wasn't looking after his appearance as claimed. He was about 4 in appearance as he was. Had he smartened up he would have …
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 06:37 AM
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Awww don't go making me feel compassion for them. I believe some are like that. The rest are deep dark triad and it's more a personality disorder, which is also sad in a way but so long as they admit they have it they can actually be taught to behave better. Of course they won't because the nature of the triad. So they are stuck and either hone their skills (TRP) or flounder trying their best. As the saying goes, you have to love yourself first and the dark triad operates on self-loathing, judge…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 04:10 PM
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The dark triad stop at nothing to indoctrinate people into their cult. What a sad useless unloveable dildo.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 04:03 PM
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Haven't we all been stung by that one? I feel this one is probably the most prevalent. On bumble atm it's literally a "it's complicated" situation. Idk what complicated about ending one relationship before stating a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:06 PM
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I'm female and dude is male where I live but ok! i have a huge dick Hahaha good for you!
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 05:36 PM
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I didn't actually call you an incel because I said both "red pill and incel vibes". I never said you were either. So I'm glad you don't care about something I never did! Haha I'm glad we have a happy ending!
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 03:50 PM
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and yet people still call me an incel, To be fair, and objective, I don't know you, and only today is the first time I read your comments and felt like you do repeat incel ideology. That's why I asked if why you bringing that vibe in here. People will always make assumptions based on the information before them. Just human nature. but even if a bunch of women are mean to a guy, it's always the guy who 'has a problem'. My man, I have worked with many men and being the only woman there I was the s…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 03:40 PM
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Interesting! I would like to know men's agenda. I can say that most people operate alone because in order for an agenda to be effective then you need a group of people working towards a common goal. Yes? I can honestly say that I know of no such grand scale organisation. However, there are always very small fractions and groups such as "TRP, BP, PP, FDS, MGTOW, Incels" aaaaaaand so on who do organise into groups to try and form an agenda. These groups are minuscule in comparison to the near 8 bi…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 03:19 PM
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What agenda is that?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 02:40 PM
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"you are influenced by the people you hang out with" so you are not an individual. No. you're just saying buzz words, fake platitudes and pretending to know everything but i can guarantee you grew up wealthy and off the streets If you can't see the value then that's your problem. I grew up dirt poor.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 02:38 PM
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Why are you bringing that red pill incel vibe in here for?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 01:57 PM
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The parable of the sixth is based in truth as the canadianturt1e says. "If you hang with 5 idiots, you will be the 6th, if you hang with 5 millionaires you will be the 6th". Like it or not you do become like the people you spend your time with the most. We are subconscious creatures and absorb information without realising it. I feel like those subs are your life raft. It's hard to let go of something familiar to go into the unknown alone. You need to get to shore but your group of 'friends' kee…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 10:48 AM
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No. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:27 PM
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I'm ugly...Lifting and job offset my personality Yes. I see you like trolling women upset by their multiple miscarriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:31 PM
1

Not barren, made a choice*
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:26 PM
1

That's awesome! Good for you dude I'm glad you found your happy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:46 PM
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Dude, I'm telling you now I don't think that. Don't think for me please because I'll tell you what I think when it's appropriate. There is no gaslighting going on because I don't believe in black and white thinking. Everything you mentioned is black and white thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:00 PM
1

Eh? Agenda?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 07:29 PM
1

People find all kinds of faces attractive. I'm sure someone does find the cherub look adorable! Ultimately it is about making yourself comfortable and confident in the way you look. Confidence is sexy after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 07:08 PM
1

Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:32 PM
1

If you're bald I see it as an insecurity even more. Like making up for lack of hair on the head for hair on the face!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:51 PM
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A circle beard can make someone's mouth look like a donut dropped on a barber's floor. Hahaha has me howling. I had Homer Simpson flash backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:16 PM
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I personally think it's sad that men in their prime have facial hair and look 40! When they look back on pictures of themselves they will never realise how young they looked! Again I'll state for prosperity entirely a man's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:15 PM
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If you're in London then it's a different game but out of London it's a pleasant place to be. Just a smile is enough for someone to strike up a conversation with you because you look friendly. I have the opposite of bitch face so I always look like I am smiling. God damn can't go to a shop without a conversation with a stranger! I don't think there is anything wrong with you so don't take it personally!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:12 PM
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Yeah, I get that if you live in Russia. Our culture(UK) is very different in that we smile and say hello to strangers walking past us, not everyone obviously! I went to Holland a while back and there they eyeball you, hard! My friend moved there from the UK and said it was disturbing at first but I guess each culture has their own acceptable 'stranger acknowledgement' ritual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:06 AM
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I'd guild you but I am poor lol but you are exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:02 AM
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What exactly have I done or said that would signal to you that I have a big ego? You said that you must argue to be right. That is ego because you feel the need to be superior. Less ego would be realise that other people have opinions that are different because their experiences are different to yours and that's ok. Rarely arguments or discussions have a right or wrong answer to them and being able to acknowledge that allows you to let arguments go. You said that you argued "to get an ego boost"…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:58 AM
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I'd say that poll was spot on but I am wary of placing everyone into that common dominator bracket. It's not about height, jawline or whatever else some guys here obsess over. It's all so personal really. I have a set of top things I look for number 1 is nice teeth. For other women it might be something else, like height, jawline, hands etc. Appearance is so subjective you can't just boil things down to a solid formula. Yet we can all agree that certain characteristics are attractive, but how hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:40 AM
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I agree with you that you personally don't think it's a problem. As a person that read your comments and objectively observed, I say otherwise. Look, it's no skin off my nose what way you take it because it's your life and it certainly doesn't affect mine. Sure, you can downvote me and that's it. I don't care about karma so it's still isn't going to affect me in any way. I am also not looking to emotionally harm anyone. If you are upset by my comment then that's your ego working hard. I had to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:31 AM
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Yeah, how someone carries themselves is deeply attractive. If someone is sat cowering in the corner and trying to look small just screams anxiety and low self-esteem. From a woman's perspective that comes across as "I'm going to be a lot of hard work, you're going to have to mother me to help me be more social" and I personally don't ever want to be a mother or have a "fixer-upper" boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:21 AM
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So saying that you need to harness your ego is not good advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:17 AM
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Sometimes it's the little things, huh. Absolutely! I think it makes a lot of sense that women would much prefer to feel a nice jawline and cheekbones as opposed to hair when they're kissing or touching a man's face. It does add to intimacy (for me personally) because it's skin on skin contact. It adds that closeness, whereas the beards are a barrier. Let's be honest here, faces end up in intimate places too and a common complaint from friends whose partners have beards is "thigh rash". They say …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:16 AM
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there's definitely a subconscious signalling with that. Humans are amazing like that. We do so much stuff without being fully aware of why we so them. Learning this stuff about yourself gives great insights into others too. Another thing I learned is that how we look actually reflects back onto our self-perception. I agree! I learned this about a decade ago when I was doing a lot of self-reflection. I never really gave it much thought before then but then realised how powerful it is. I always he…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:11 AM
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Really? Wow! Where do you live? It sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:03 AM
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All you're doing in this post is making me out to be a villain I'm giving you my opinion of you. It's up to others to decide for themselves of your conduct. Yes, I have an ego. Everyone does. Yes they do, but some have a much more harnessed one. I felt I was giving you good advice. However, I can see you're not good at taking it or even understanding there could be a problem. You do you as I'm sure it's working out well for you. Have a blessed day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:02 AM
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To be fair to some men, they may not look good without a beard shaping their face. Yeah I agree and I wouldn't want a man to shave just for me. I would never ask him to do that. Clean shaven looks really good on men with a nice face structure. I'm capable of growing a full beard but I stay clean shaven because the "pretty boy" aesthetic is way too effective. To me that's fucking hot. Add on some nice aftershave and I become a slipping hazard and will almost spontaneously orgasm at the scent it g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:53 AM
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That's interesting! I mean I think it all comes down to personal taste and I wouldn't begrudge any guy wanting a beard. It's just not something I personally find attractive. Maybe this has to do with the fact I want to remain childfree? Idk but I still ask the dudes with a beard if they ever go beard free just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:49 AM
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like arguing, and I absolutely do want to be right. Half the point of having an opinion is the ego rush of righteousness Yeah, I can tell and it's not attractive in the slightest. In fact reading your argument made me physically screw up my nose. I don't understand who exactly this advice helps though, because the "problem" is how the majority of men dress. If most men dress sloppily then "sloppy" looses its meaning as a word. If it doesn't apply to you then it's not for you. If you can't ask yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:45 AM
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I've never liked them. I don't find them masculine either. I can't wait for the trend to be over because it drastically reduces my dating pool. Clean-shaven is a sign of confidence to me, it conveys a man's desire to groom, look after himself and have a good hygiene regime. Beards convey to me laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:37 AM
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Do people like white teeth? Yes. American style super white teeth look really creepy and tryhard to me and it doesn't seem like there is any practical reason to do that anyway. You can lighten it up to a shade you feel is better in appearance than you already have. Yellow teeth are not attractive. But as you know better you do you I'm sure it's already working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:29 AM
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Then why did you spend the best part of an hour arguing with someone that you think you know better? It might be a "non-problem" for you but it might be for others. It's like you wanted to be right. The other person gave sound advice and I am being objective here. This post doesn't concern me, but it concerns a lot of dudes who think they know better and could do with actually taking the advice given rather than trying to dominate so they won't have to do jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:25 AM
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I would add facial hair. Shaving is best. If you have a beard you have to look after that like you do your head hair and body hair. You must have it trimmed and shaped, oiled etc. I personally find beards gross, mainly because they are just grown out and look shit. Also, because they just hide a face and I see them as a sign of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:19 AM
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Why are you fighting advice? If you know better than don't take the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:07 AM
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Another valid post where good advice is given but yet there is a deluge of dissenting voices arguing the opposite. Take the advice, don't take the advice, it seems to me to be the ones that are arrogant to be the ones that fight all advice given because they "know better" and can not accept the fact others have answers they never thought of or just can't accept because they themselves are getting it wrong. I despair with this lot. If you stopped to honestly think what you're currently doing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:00 AM
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This isn't a black and white issue. The variables depend on the individual and when you look at people who have cheated they are not thinking about their spouse. They are search to satisfy selfish needs. There are multiple reasons why someone will cheat and history with your partner won't have a damn thing to do with it. Cheaters gonna cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:07 PM
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Here is the real context https://www.reddit.com/r/TriCitiesWA/comments/gtvyn7/the_protest/
/r/MGTOW01/06/20 01:22 PM
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I agree and personally don't think bumble and tinder have done anything for dating, relationships or anything like that. I also think it's a terrible way to meet someone, particularly if you want a LTR. It's fine for ONS I guess. Although, I think it makes people lose interpersonal skills and promotes promiscuity. The real test will be in a decade or longer in knowing what harm it does to LTR. Also, how the each sex views the other for their N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:39 PM
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Which means women may not be better people but rather that now with modern feminism they dont live in fear as much and can act on their impulses with less consequences. Is this your opinion? This is pretty disturbing. Men cheat physically more but women are more likely to fall in love with another man while married by a whopping 83% vs mens 17%. They may not act on it but it can still destroy a marriage. Thats pretty messed up. Yeah it is messed up. No matter who is cheating it's damaging for al…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:16 PM
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I think men aso get a dose of depression too IIRC
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 01:29 PM
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The comment implies women cheat more. Whilst at certain ages women cheat more. Overall, men cheat much more as per the first graphic illustrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 01:17 PM
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Well done for cherry picking, the very first graph shows men cheat more as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 01:07 PM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=are%20men%20or%20women%20more%20loyal&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b-m Knock yourself out... I've done the search for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:17 PM
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Women are more loyal...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:57 AM
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But it shows that women cannot love unconditionally Women are not your parents. Welcome to the world of adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:20 AM
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Then why have you been dumped? Surely if they like being bossed around so much then they would stay with your bossy arse? Or give you sex when you demand it. The fact they don't do these things suggested that women hate being bossed around and will leave you if you continue to do so. I know I've dumped many a bossy bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:12 AM
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Error no they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:08 AM
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You can still be equals and alternate between being submissive and dominant. These are essential role plays. Women don't want to be bossed around as such but there is a difference between what's done in the bedroom and what's done out of it. Don't conflate the two and expect women to like being bossed around all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:02 AM
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I think caucasian skin ages much worse than any other for some reason. I'm sure it has to do with genetics. However, my friend is from India and his skin is beautiful but his face just sags rather than having wrinkles. He is 10 years younger than me and looks good for his age, yet I've been on dates with men in their 50's with the deepest furrowed wrinkles imaginable. I didn't find them attractive at all. I'm not attracted to wealth or status either like most of the men claim women are in this t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 09:22 AM
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As a 45 year old woman I can say that link is bullshit. In the past 3 years I have been approached by an 18, 21, 22 and 25 year old. I personally think men look their best aged 29-35 range. My friends tend to agree with me with the exception of 1 who thinks men look best below that range.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 08:48 AM
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"Men age like wine" is something said to make men's egos less fragile. It's not true. Men age horribly due to not looking after themselves. Drinking, smoking, eating pizza, not getting enough sleep and no skin care regime (burning their faces in the sun, no daily care) all catch up with you sooner or later. Oh boy does it catch up with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 04:46 AM
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So we make women the scapegoats once again? Nothing changes. Instead of teaching men how to behave we put the pressure on women to take all the hits because men are too weak to sort their crap out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 11:07 AM
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Oh the narcissism is so strong. I rest my case! Edit: But you're not successful in relationships are you? And you never will be! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:29 PM
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Lol thanks for the laughs that was so wrong I find the humour in it it was in true "MGTOW" that you stropped off with "I'm done with you good bye". Omg that was hilarious. It was satire I hope. Someone once said "you only fail when you stop trying" some people are failures I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:51 PM
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Calling all MGTOW lazy and deserving of their divorces is the blue-pill mantra that justifies the need for this particular forum. If "NAWALT" (Not All Women Are Like That) then not all men and not all MGTOW are like that. I didn't say AMALT I said MGTOW are like that. That pretty much excludes 99% of men. I'm sure you worked hard at your job, but when you got home it was down tools and put your feet up. Marriages and why they fail is vastly complex. Again I was referring to what I've seen in tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:32 PM
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MGTOW men just want to give women the independence they so badly crave! MGTOW is basically a bunch of bitter crybabies that stropped off because they didn't get everything their own way. I've been lurking in that sub for a while now and they are all women haters and misogynists. A large percentage of them were rejected by their wives because they were lazy and entitled. They refer to "being nagged" constantly. "Nagging" happens because they've been asked to do something and haven't yet done it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:59 PM
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Sorry boys, women don't give a shit about you and most men don't either. That's not true. Women do care about men and men do care about other men. I'm sorry if this your experience but it's not something I have in my culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:10 PM
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Men are more likely to be raped than have a false claim of rape made against them and this a solid source.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:12 PM
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There have been studies that suggest we are getting 'denser' as a species. My point also pointed out that we are carrying on genetic defaults such as hereditary disease, narrow hips in females which require surgery to give birth, dwarfism and the like. I'm not saying people with these conditions shouldn't procreate but the fact remains that the current system of marriage, monogamy, female fidelity, males insistence of ensuring their DNA is guaranteed etc, means we no longer select on genetic adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:01 PM
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I never said any of that. I was saying that's HISTORY. That's how it used to be until men's egos got uncontrollably gigantic. Now they insist on their inferior DNA is guaranteed to spawn. Stop down voting me!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:00 PM
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I concur, that's why i no longer believe or deal with women seriously. That's quite a defeatist attitude. If you haven't found the right one within a set time you should just give up? Perhaps you should reevaluate your vetting process instead? Or maybe women see your attitude and reject you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:11 AM
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I never said that. People have the right to choose, yet MEN created circumstances where women were forced into marriage. Sometimes that's ugly women purely because of their dowry. Had evolution been left to evolve naturally then it's fair to say that the very ugliest of people would have been bred out of the gene pool. Russia is one such place where the best genes were favoured as the women fought to procreate with the best looking men once they returned from a war that killed the majority of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:48 PM
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I think you need to check your history first. Women have always cucked men. The penis even evolved into a big mushroom head to displace previous sperm so that those genes would stand a better chance. Many civilisations the world over had women sleeping with multiple men. It's only because men got egotistical and wanted to make sure their inferior genes were guaranteed to reproduce. They created forced marriage and vows to be faithful. That's why there are so many stupid people in the world now b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:13 PM
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Yes. I am also saying is that for centuries men have been responsible for millions of illegitimate children outside of their marriage, lied about it and expected their wives to accept it. This is just the other side to it. What's good for the goose is good for the gander
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:10 PM
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How would you feel is nurse randomly assigned you a baby from the maternity ward? Why would a man be okay taking care of another mans baby after his wife cheated. A baby still needs love. There are lots of cultures where polly is the main type of relationship. In Africa the Himba tribe the entire village raises a kid and no man knows which one is genetically his because the wife has multiple lovers and the man has multiple wives. It's only in our societies where individualism, hubris, selfish an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:04 PM
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Oh selfishness is the main reason, gotcha! God forbid anyone help another person out the goodness of their hearts because I should imagine all those stepchildren are unloveable right? Imagine loving a child you thought was yours to later find out it wasn't and the love went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:53 PM
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Oh, so hubris is your main concern and the ego boot you get for producing a minime! Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:48 PM
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Oh! It's your insecurity she will leave you for someone better! Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:41 PM
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Yeah, it seems that way. I have asked for their N count and absolute crickets. One rule for them and another for the 'sluts' it seems. They want sluts but at the same time hate sluts, then they wonder why they get rejected so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:39 AM
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Let's see those studies. Post links please of the one's you've read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:13 AM
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What's your N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:24 AM
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10 is not marriage material. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 07:58 AM
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Shaming doesn't have to be public at all. It can be between two people. It can also be implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 09:46 PM
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Sure but it's still slut shaming. It's still telling someone they aren't good enough. That's what name calling is. Putting someone down and shaming them. You want easy women to have sex with when it suits you but you reject them for something more because you're judging them. There are reasons like you are insecure about the sex skills you have and feel they would be comparing you, you feel they are unable to connect on an emotional level or you fear they would leave you if someone better came a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:51 PM
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To be fair when guys say they don’t want a woman with a high n count they’re referring to LTRs or marriage. Think about that for a second... What is that actually saying? It's saying that women that have slept with a lot of men are not as valuable as those that haven't. It's subconsciously slut-shaming. You don't have to call women sluts to their faces for you to shame them. Rejecting them for LTR is subliminally admitting they are worthless. For men to NOT slut-shame a woman then the shame atta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 02:00 PM
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Thank you for your kind words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:42 PM
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I usually go volcel in-between relationships. It's a good time to center, clear your mind and heal before moving on. Otherwise you just end up dragging your baggage into the next relationship. Longest I spent volcell was 8 years before re-entering the dating arena because it was a particularly emotional ending (he died). I usually start off with a casual rebound before I start looking for something more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:38 PM
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Well, I would say it should mirror how you conduct yourself in life also but I get people let other sides of their personalities become dominant. That's just my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:41 AM
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He was a nice guy, smart, funny and easy to get along with. That's what I found attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:37 AM
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He wasn't rich, I supported him, he lived in my house rent free for a large part before I kicked him out. I brought him a car also. He was on his arse when I met him, jobless and no hope. So I helped him. He got a job, sorted himself out. Idk why you are looking for something shallow on my part because I never "stuck it out" we were together for a year and that was enough for me, I stuck it out longer because he didn't have his act together and my ending it sooner would have left him destitute. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:55 PM
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Well, yes it was to point out that some men just aren't capable of learning. Once all avenues have been exhausted the only option is to leave. You give people a chance and it's up to them to take it. If they don't then they are the problem in the relationship. Some people can't see that though because they are too busy blaming other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:40 AM
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He wasn't good looking! Out of all my boyfriends he was by far the ugliest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:30 AM
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Men are absolutely giving women orgasms. How can you speak for all men? My ex didn't give me a single one! He refused to learn because he was arrogant and thought he knew best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:27 AM
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If you read the chain you would of had your answer instead of spoiling for an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:45 AM
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How bad is IT comparatively? I've heard it's a boys club too, There are 2 beasts. The manual labour market: mostly feral. Their work references don't follow them around and they don't care for the sack because there are plenty more jobs like that to do. No one is calling to ask why they left their previous employer. Office professionals: boys club. Yet behaviour is much less boisterous, more passive-aggressive emails and slagging people off in the toilets. Networking, through after-work drinks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:08 PM
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As a woman I disagree. Edit: just thinking about it and maybe this has to do with an individuals attitude to sex? I've personally have gone into some casual relationships (although exclusive but not actually dating) I've never had any expectations of catching feels. I had a couple catch them for me. Yet I know a friend who had a casual fling in the HOPE it would turn into something more... Maybe that's why it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:08 PM
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Power and being offended are not the same thing. Good for you bud I'm glad things are better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:08 PM
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Once you have been having regular sex with a woman for ~3 months, she's bound to fall in love with you. It's just inevitable. Nah, that's a generalisation. It's not inevitable either. It's wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:58 PM
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I'm not mocking the word I am saying usage of it take the power away from the message. I.e. I hate it when women put me down... Also... I put women down with my insults. So you came here an on alt account to battle your original text so you don't get banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:51 PM
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I disagree. It does change the point of the original comment because the point is lost by the low level insult. If you don't change now, then when?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:35 PM
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I am showing that he puts no effort into his judgements and resorted to a low-level insult. If you want to be the better person then be the better person. Don't do yourself a disservice by resorting to the very things you take umbridge with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:12 PM
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I am not insecure enough that I need to attack you. I can convey what I need without the insults, hate or putting you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:06 PM
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No, he called her names. He could of said "looked less than perfect" or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:54 AM
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I have never said, nor will I ever say, that women are better than men. Seriously read my comments here. I have provided examples to people with the wrong perception that "x never happens" or "this is the way it is" type of argument. Don't think for me because I think for myself. Don't second guess me because I will tell you how it is. Don't insult me because I have haven't done anything to deserve being called names. Either be respectful or don't engage because you wouldn't like it if I started…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:52 AM
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Perhaps men should stop behaving like dicks to everyone then? Seriously no one wants to live under that kind of stress either the threat of physical violence, rape, psychological violence etc. Men need to wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:46 AM
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I started my career in IT, also a male-dominated field at that time although it is better now. I left because my boss wouldn't promote me because he thought I had "a pretty face and a fluffy personality and should be the 'face' of the company". I worked freelance for a while. My circumstances changes and changed field again going to work for a delivery depot (I was the only female again) in customer service. In the 3 years I worked there I was promoted to manager. We won 5 prestigious awards eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:43 AM
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I have to maintain the body of a pro athlete just to be ignored and condescended to by overweight women. So you don't like being judged yet you immediately judged a woman in the exact same sentence. Hypocrisy at it's base level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:29 AM
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So are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:24 AM
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In other worse, women want a dominant strong man but they also want a sweet sensitive guy, who also dominates them and puts them in their place. No, they don't. Any man trying to put me in my place will be dumped quickly. I have my own mind thank you. What I want is a strong man with his own opinions who can also accept that other people have their own opinions too. I don't need to be dominated. I also like a guy who has a sensitive side and isn't afraid to show it. Yet, that doesn't mean I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:17 AM
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How can you extrapolate tone (where you find true intention) from text? There are many things missing with text and when you read it, you read it from your own perspective. Take the sentence "so you have a daughter, how old is she?" Anyone could take that multiple ways. For a paedophile he is asking this question because he wants to see if the daughter is ripe for grooming. Anyone else might think that he is taking a general interest in her offspring. Another man might be trying to calculate how…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:11 AM
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I, a female, once worked on a building site. I stayed 3 weeks because men kept pulling their dicks out and I started to get scared I would be raped. If men could behave themselves instead of behaving like this then perhaps more women would be willing to enter the male-dominated workforce. I would have loved to have taken up the offer my boss made to me of learning his trade. However, in the 3 short weeks of me working for him every week there was multiple problems with either sexual harassment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:59 AM
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Please see my comment above yours in this tread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:42 AM
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I, a female, once worked on a building site. I stayed 3 weeks because men kept pulling their dicks out and I started to get scared I would be raped. If men could behave themselves instead of behaving like this then perhaps more women would be willing to enter the male-dominated workforce. I would have loved to have taken up the offer my boss made to me of learning his trade. However, in the 3 short weeks of me working for him every week there was multiple problems with either sexual harassment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:39 AM
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Wow, this post should be pinned or at least linked in the sidebar. As a new member I feel I have just got to know about this sub! I have to say I was shocked by some of the stuff here and the extreme views posted. Particularly how some narcissistic individuals have been so open about their hate and methodology of shit testing women. I almost got banned for it. I feel more acclimatised to the sub now I know what a mix of people are here as it didn't match the sub description and it always felt at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:26 AM
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History shows that where women are leaders the likelihood of going to war is greater, barring any legal restrictions, the wars were far longer lasting and far more damaging. Margaret Thatcher went to war with the Falklands, it lasted just 10 days, there are no more problems. Then came long Tony Blair and started a war with Iraq and that war lasted 8 years and is still simmering with tensions to this day. Historically, more men than women go to war because more men than women have that kind of po…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:11 AM
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If only they realised that life is better when we help one another. Life is harder when you're fighting half the population. It's a constant drain when that energy could be put to better use.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 09:58 AM
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I'm doing my best! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:15 PM
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After reading this entire thread I can honestly say as a woman that I shall never again involve myself with a man in any way shape or form. This thread disgusts me. The attitudes, manipulation, hate just everything. There is no hope here, love or compassion. I feel sad that the objective is to extract something for selfish means and there isn't a single thought about doing something selfless. How the fuck did we get to this point? It isn't all women fault yet there is a distinct lack of self-awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 02:32 PM
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I respect a guy that can chat me up cold. It shows a level of confidence which is attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:54 AM
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Being a woman in her 40's I can say that I have lived through a number of revolutions in my time. The main one being the proliferation of porn. Recent studies have shown that porn does have a detrimental effect on relationships. Before porn men invested in women more aggressively in able to have sex. Men can now reach for porn and have a lazy wank. Women need a work up to sex and porn doesn't. So any man wanting to just get off is going the lazy route of watching some porn for 10 minutes and kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 11:05 PM
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It's both! Men also hide their faces because they are unhappy with how it looks. Women hide their faces under make-up because they are unhappy with how it looks. There are many reasons why men have beards and there are many reasons why women wear make-up. It is not a bad claim because it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:26 PM
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I could sit here all day spouting the reasons why women don't have it easy. The fact you're here spitting they do says a lot about your male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:25 AM
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I agree but there are multiple reasons why men have beards. In fact, beards should take more care however most men let their beards get unruly and unkempt when they should be shaping them and oiling them. Women wear makeup for all kinds of reasons... My point here is really acceptance that people are just doing whatever it takes to feel good. Some women are insecure and makeup helps them feel good. Others do it because they want validation of being attractive because that's what all media pushes…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:23 AM
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My mother but that's a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:52 PM
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Imagine being in womans shoes when your only problem is weight Are you sure? Men: look at the pancake nips on that and those beef curtains yak! Also men: why won't you have sex with me under this 1,000 lumen light? Why are you so insecure about your body? I've no idea what your problem is landwhale? Tell me whyyyyyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:11 PM
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But women lied to men first. You wear gallons of make up, alter your features, height with heels, and much more to get men to want you. You better check your history before you making accusations like that men were the very first to wear heels. Men also wore wigs and make-up. Granted they don't so much now but since men have persistently sexualised women throughout history and given "MeN MaDe EveRyThInG" it would be wise to check your facts before looking foolish. Oh men still do wear wigs. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:06 PM
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That's the difference between men and women when it comes to a gentiles. Women accept them as they are. Men want what's perfect for them. Hence... Selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:07 PM
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When I have experienced the polar I shall concede. I have no problem with that. My experience with men is they are inherently self centered. I'm sure 'not all meno are like that but enough of them for me to generate this opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:45 PM
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After asking why men married their woman it was always for shallow reasons... "Because I loved her labia... Because she slept with me on the first date... Because I was losing my hair and she was ok with it". It's always about them and never because they liked something about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:54 AM
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So, you dated my ex too then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:44 AM
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Yeah because all people are alike and so we must treat all people like they are alike right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:41 AM
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