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| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI do daygame since 2008, readed Mystery Method that same year, i'm fuckin far from a newbie. From my experience PUA is at best an efficient way of pulling your looks-match, no more than that. | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI would doubt that any guru has a great game like this korean dude, even then from 100 approached women on this video he could get only 15 numbers and only 2 women were clearly interested. https://youtu.be/QFY8XV_qiZU?si=6_F5qqCqctb7tyPg | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itIt's simple. Make a video of an average looking pall approaching high-tier women at public places without edition and post it. If anyone can have any girl, then would be a proove that game is real and you would become a millionaire selling your secrets. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itWith hot women it's not. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI did and have failed multiple times on a row cold-approaching strangers at public places. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itGame just is a thing if the girl met you organically on social circles and already has an acquanticement, between strangers looks are fuckin everything. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itYou just said fuckin everything what i wanted to do!! Absolutelly accurate!! | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 12:06 AM |
| 1 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Don't you find very limiting choice to choose only meet men on social circles? Like there aren't infinitesimal men who would be your type in contexts like college, work and friends groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing.What do you think about cold-approach? Woul you be receptiva to random approachs at public places? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing.What do you prefer a 6'1 average looking or a 5'6 handsome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themVery limited view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.I'm 36 years old go to clubs since my 15 and never saw a man who wasn't at least a 7/10 pulling attractive women through cold-approach. I have done more than 2.000 of approachs myself, tried PUA techniques and must have come to bed with no more than 2 really attractive girls. Reality is that regular-looking men will have their shot with attractiver women on situation where they get the chance to know them organically with time like school, college and work. People usually get used by someone's l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.And if there isn't any attractive men avaliable on you social circle? Social circles offers a very limited pool of people on face of cold-approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.There's no cheat-code when it comes to cold-approach stuff. Women will almost only and exclusivelly give their time of day due looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Wait to meet women on social circles it's not that pratical: let's being very optimisc here and assume that a man have daily contact with 40 girls on a college class. From these 40, about 10 will be attractive enough and from these 10 like 8 will be taken. So all the chances and perspectives of this dude has a romantic life will be resumed to two girls? Not reasonoble at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.And if there isn't anilhas attractive dude avaliable at your social circle then? On social circles you always will be facing limiting options on contrast of cold-approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.I mean, do you think all women only date coworkers, college mattes and friends of friends and would refusing to pass their number to Mr. Handsome at a nightclub due he being "a stranger"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.How does it work then? Do you only date friends of friends and coworkers/college mattes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys are confused about what women want because they’re not honest about what they themselves want (which is just sex).What you said would make sense if there was a difference between Mr. "One Night Stand" and Mr. "Long Term Relationship" on approach, but on real life men just don't ask women numbers adding "i know you are kinda dismissive, but take it easy, i want to marry and building a family". No, women just assume that dude have interest on them and give their contact to meet on a date in case of find him attractive enough, what comes afterwards depends of how date and whole interaction was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themHow do you meet men and get dates then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themWhy? I mean after college years there's no much chances of meeting people organically and cold-approach allows you to approach the exact type of women you'd find attractive, things that not always are possible on social circle settings, since you have a limited pool of people you can try something romantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themBe good-looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themFlerting with strangers it's different from harassing, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themMy experience with five different CBT especiallists was very generic remarks and inputs, almost like internet coaches who say phrases like "you are a failure because you don't think great of yourself". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:48 AM |
| 0 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themI disagree at last sentence, conventionally attractive men modt of time will have at least an edge at cold-approach situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themWe don't see because most women are hypocritical when it comes to being attracted to men looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themMaking friendships first with women you find attractive it's not that pratical, especially for dudes who are with school/college years done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themNo, it isn't. No attractive will prefer the short indian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themOn most cases scenario it's not a matter of low or high mating intelligence but if you either find the type of women who usually would send interest signs on streets attractive or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?I would say that is that man who doesn't inspires female turning necks at streets but isn't see as horrendous either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?How to meet women then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?Well... they might just want... a girlfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?They do, only by conventionally attractive people though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?Have you ever date one of those "cold-approachers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?How do you meet men and get dates then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?I'm very conversationalist but i don't know if i would be deemed a conventionally attractive man, on your opinion could confidence and charisma bypass looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?Would you consider date with me? Ps.: i posted some photo of mine here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?Would an average-looking dude have a shot cold-approaching you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How to Get Hotter GirlsMost average looking men have a hard time to attract really attractive women through cold-approach. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Contrary to popular belief women have a rather similar taste in menNot if he doesn't have a handsome face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 10:56 PM |
| 2 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personI didn't speak just about online, read my comment again, i said the word "random approachs", what means approaching random women at public places like malls, gyms and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 10:27 PM |
| 2 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personOnly circunstances i have seen conventionally attractive women dating average looking/ugly dudes it's when they already know them organically from social circles settings such as school, college and work. People in general tend to get used by someones lack of physical attributes when see this person multiple-times everyday, then personality-wise gets more relevance as time-goes-on. On random approachs or internet, looks it's everything though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 09:54 AM |
| 2 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personIt's most about looks, confidence and those untangible are required after the looks threshold is satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | "Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lolWomen who tipically find average men attractive from the get-go usually are under those men league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personBeing "nice" and not being able to attract hot people it's kindda depressing anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personPeople in general tend to get used by someone's lack of physical attributes when see this person multiple-times everyday, then personality-wise gets more relevance as time-goes-on. This is the reason why we see some "mismatched" couples sometimes, but they are not the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:35 AM |
| 2 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personTo me the issue dwells more on the gaslighting thing of ugly/average looking men could have attractive partners if they have untangible things like confidence and "niceness". Reality shows that looks it's avaliate on first place before all of those traces being noted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inI'm 6'2 and about 5,5/10 on looks scale by Photo Filler. From my experience you should pass on looks requirsment to your confidence be noted, exception is when the girl already knows you more organically from close groups such as school, college and work, then your personality are more visible as time goes on. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inI was the most confident teenager between my fifteen/sixteen years, and all this confindence wasn't enough to girls i cold-approached back then forget my crooked teeth and my lanky clumsy body. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I get laid?Social circle works better for average-looking men who are looking for attractive women. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inConfidence is overrated from my experience. Most of time a really good-looking guy just needs to be borderline neurotypical to get attractive girls. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulMen usually are more honest about that, women on the other hand avoid to tell the truth which is: on cold-approach settings it's not the dude's social habilities that are fundamental but looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulAverage dudes only have chances when already know the girl for a while, not on cold-approach settings, at least if the girl is attractiver. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulI understand... would you say that propinquity, see someone multiple-times every-day is something that makes women passing looks and targeting more on personality-wise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulIf he is a chad you would like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulHow did you met men so? Social circles? Would you prefer to dating an ugly dude from your social circle than a random handsome dude from cold-approaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulHow did you meet men have you date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulIt's all about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Which do ya’ll prefer, cold approach or social circle?Seems to me that women are far more picky with looks when it comes to cold-approach than when it does on social circles. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)I'm 35 and have done this shitt for fuckin 16 years, so i suppose have some knowledge about what really happens on a cold-approach context. If you pull women through it either you are very conventionally attractive and galls go for your looks mostly or what i find most likelly you pull girls under your league. Am I a totally unreasanoble ass-hole who find utterly impossible to an average looking and income dude get well with really attractive women? Not absolutelly, on very especific contexts su… | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 09:17 AM |
| 1 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)Cold-approach it's more about looks. If gall not finds you that physically appealing then no deal no matter how advanced your game is. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingI'm 6'2', average face like a 6 and my shape is a little bit similar to the so called "dads body". | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingSo why i cold-approach almost daily on gym and get nothing? I have doing it for 16 years and don't see 7s, 8s, 9s and 10s ftness girls accepting to date with me. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingIt's not a stand-point, it's life. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingI myself cold-approaching for 16 fucking years and for my experiency they wouldn't let you apply your game on them if theresn't some intial attraction. Instead that they will pull a boyfriend from pocket when you ask for their contact or just tell another excuse. All ugly/average dudes that i have seen with hot girlfriends meet them on college, work and through hobbies not cold-approach. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingI would doubt that you pull 7+ reliyng only in "game" stuff. Like how likely is to you a fat ugly bastard approachs a random chick at a supermarket and pulls her through a verbal algorithm, and not only that, could replicate it on hundred more random attractive women? | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everything16 fucking years. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingIt's like 80% or more. I never saw an ugly or even average-looking dude pull a stunner on a club, for example. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingGame alone will not garantee you attractive women if ya don't meet some looks threshold. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingIt's what put your foot-on-the-door though. If ya not meet her looks-threshold on cold-approach situations, your "game" would be irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingUgly dudes whose pull attractive women do it through money or being on the right place at the right time meaning they meet these girls at social circles, contexts where they are able to show their personality off better as time-goes-on, not on cold-approach situations. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingIf you are average-looking attractive women will not give her contact to uou on cold-approach situations, maybe on social circles contexts where you already have some acquanticement with them, but definittely it wouldn't happen with random girls on public places. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingI mean, on cold-approach situations no chance that a dude will make-up for her lack of physicall attraction only with convo and all this pua stuff. On social circle contexts where girl has chance to know him better as time goes on maybe. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?I mean there's no difference of approach from a hookup and solid long relation man, no dude will approach a gall and say "i want long term commitment with you, let's go to a date?", no they simply will ask for her number as a dude who only wants a night-stand. This dicotomy it's kinda dumby. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be?Why would i insulting you? I like your comments, seem a sensitive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 11:54 PM |
| 1 | If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be?Can i give to you? Ps.: if you want i can post my ig here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenInteresting text! I wouldn't say i demonstrate being negative or entitled when approaching, unless you believe on "vibe and energy" from this New Age thing and that they could on some way read my mind, i would say i act very down-to-earth when cold-approaching except maybe by not like smiling so much due my croocked teeth. Average and ugly men that insist on advocating for cold-approaching are dudes who got resignated on pulling women on or under their league doing such-a-thing, you lie to yours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenWhat does another women who you know think about cold-approach stuff? Are they visual oriented too on this kind-of-situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenI'm a millenial and not from US too, and my guess is that not only on western but in all Europe and Americas women are very visual oriented. When i was on my early teenagers years i used to believe that a dude who wasn't horrendous and had a good-conversation skills would do nice with conventionally good-looking women on clubs, bars and pubs, but as my experience gets more room i would see that it's just not how things work, girls usually know from the get-go if some dude has chances with them o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenNo man, if you are a 5/10 you will pull at the best a 5/10 doing this shitt since every medíocre looking woman have tons of orbiters nowadays due apps and social-media. I cold-approaching since 2008 and standard it's clear, some attractive galls would even be receptive, give their contacts if you have a nice approach but will not answer your calls and messages afterwards. I'm between 5 and 6 on looks despite being 6'2` and don't recollect to pull 7s+ through day-game even doing this thousands of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenThen most men after college years are in serious trouble since social circles tend to decrease after this period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysThing is, i'm a 35 years-old man with small social circle and which the only means to know women is cold-approach and apps. I want an attractive partner, is it something realistic relying only on my personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenBut it is, i don't know many regular-looking and average income men with girfriends models for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenThen you pull average-looking women at the very best cold-approaching. I would doubt that a Taylor Swift lookalike would give her time of-the-day to a random mediocre-looking man who approached her on a mall. And no, being funny, have demonstrative DHVs, neggs and all this rocket-science shitt will not make you more appealling to a woman who you know for five minutes if she didn't find you attractive from the get-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 07:13 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenIt just happens to be my theory, that a man who isn't physically appealing to a woman needs acquanticement to changes her mind, but pua guys would say that it could happen in cold-approach instances as well with all that "just take a shower and use nice clothes bro" stuff, it's pathetic how negacionist some men could be in order to cope with a tough reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 07:05 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenGrabbs my attention the part where you said that you would give your phone-number if found the dude physically appealing. Many PUA guys just refuse to acept that insisting on "it's all about game" thing. You kinda proves the blackpill claim that looks play a fundamental role on this kind-of-interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:29 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenis it not a little incoerent? Find some man hot and rejecting him only due not having mutual friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenBetween random strangers looks get you into the door. It's not like women will fall for a stranger who didn't pass on her looks-threshold only by a words combination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:00 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenFor average-looking dudes no, it doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 05:58 AM |
| 2 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenAverage-looking dudes on general don't have these signs and on rare ocassions they do it's always from very unappealing women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these dayshow old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysYou guys only want a good-looking and well-suceed dude and for the average man lefts the women that those don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysWhat would be a loser to you? Ugly, no friends and low-income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlAre you good-looking? | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | How to use game as a suddenly good looking guy?I mean, on cold-approach settings women use to be very visual oriented and i don't mean clothes and groom. A 4/10 approaching a 8/10 would have a crazy hard-time on getting a real phone-number, and even if real, a much more hard-time on not being ghosted afterwards. | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 08:55 AM |
| 0 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysSo most single men on their 30's are "losers". Let's just not pretend that all women are demiosexual and need time to acknowledge that they have hormones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysNo man, i want to say that relying on social circles to meet partners is something that most men out of college and school times can't afford. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why I don't enjoy clubs for night gameAre you tall? | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Why I don't enjoy clubs for night gameFrom my experiency a tall average face man would still struggle to attract hot women. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysCold-approach seems a more eficiente way to attractive dudes meet women, I mean building a relationship with an acquantincer could take months and even years, and most men after college and school years don't have that large social circle to know women on a regular basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?I'm not blown up before the conversation starts, women use to treat me well most of time but they would rather say have boyfriend or plainly refusing to pass me her phone-number/ig than anything. Wardrobe is nothing, an average man with nice clothes continues to be an... average man? But i would agree if you say that a dude with 15% of body fat and nice shape would possibly make-up for a bad face. I personally have approaching a lot on the last fifteen-years and don't see much receptiveness from… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysMost of time you being interested mean the dude is conventionally good-looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysSay for you, i would love to be "bothered" by a random victoria secrets model type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysCold-approaching random girls works if you are really conventionally good-looking though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysMost guys after college time could rely only on cold-approach to meet potencial romantic partners though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Women only go for looks on clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?I have some curiosities about lesbians. Would you tell that conventionally attractive women are picky when it comes to analising the looks from another women as possible partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Why I don't enjoy clubs for night gameNo shitt, i'm 6'2 and get nothing on clubs. Height only makes difference if you are at least a 7/10 face-wise. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Why I don't enjoy clubs for night gameHeight is nothing if you aren't at least a 7 on face-wise. It's funny how dudes on menosphere equal height to beauty even if the man is a ogre. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymOnly if they are on your league or under it. I literally cold-aproacched above 400 girls, being groomed it's basic stuff, doesn't change average faces, and cheerleaders types wouldn't fall for you only by a cool hair-cut and some wardrobe stuff, trust on me. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?Let's suppose that you ask a random girl on a groocery store for her contact. The only data avaliable is your looks, you should first pass on her looks-threshold for even engage on a conversation with a totally strange with sexual/romantic intentions. On social-circle settings on another-hand with women you see multiple-times times everyday as acquantincers and friends, personality-wise use to tryumphs over looks though. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?Dating-apps are mostly looks oriented than nothing, seems very unlikely a 5/10 get a match with a cheerleader type on this kind of stuff. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?Most men don't get matches on dating-apps, and women on these middles are only 20% of users what allows them to be extra-picky. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?Ok the Uganda and India part was xenophobic as fuck. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?The women standards are just high. On cold-approaching settings no real attractive woman will be really receptive to random average-looking dudes. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?If you are good-looking, yes. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 07:08 AM |
| 0 | Approached girl in the gymIf women usually are receptive to you, ya are either very good-looking or are pulling women under your league. Cold-approach it's very looks-related. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**What PUA guru material did you read? | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 09:35 AM |
| 1 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workShe probably found you attractive from the pictures. It's very unlikely that she swepted on you on a dating-app just by your "vibe". Looks are fundamental on online game. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 09:24 AM |
| 1 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workI just never ever saw a regular looking dude pulling a conventionally attractive girl through cold-approach. All the mismatched looks couples i have seen were formed on pre-established social circles not by cold-approach stuff. And if PUA works for you and you get hollywood like women being a 5, i would love a field report about a sucessful approach on a stunning woman | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 09:14 AM |
| 0 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workEven handsome and rich pua gurus like Paul Janka admitted have a score of 10% closes on cold-approach. The 'yes' definitelly seems to be the exception to the role when it comes to cold-approaching random womem on public places. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 09:01 AM |
| 0 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**You mean Mystery Method? All this shit is very very overated and even unneficient nowadays with women knowing first-hand all these negs and rocket science PUA stuff. Let's be pragmatic here: How good-looking ya and the girls you pull are and how often you are well-suceed cold-approaching? Paul Janka is a rich and handsome dude with amazing game who already admitted had a score of 10% of closes cold-approaching on his guru pua times, are you really saying that ya do better? | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**Man i was into this PUA scene for more than 15 years, again average/ugly men don't pull conventionally attractive women through cold-approaching but through acquanticement on social circles, it's just how things work, I would challenge you to post a video of a very regular-looking dude getting a 7 or 8 through cold-approach, there's no one as i never saw it on IRL going to clubs every weekend for ten years. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**I mean it's unlikely that a 7/10 would date a random 5/10 who stoped her on street to make passive-agressive games. Let's be realistic looks are the only data that strangers get from us, it's not like a hot girl would change their mind about not find a random strange attractive only by a words combination on 30 seconds of conv. Most likely she would take from pocket a "boyfriend" to not pass her contact or just will plainly ghosthing you afterwards. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsDude i'm 6'2 and like 5 or 6 on looks and say to you that shit doesn't work. Hot women don't stop on the Middle of public places to give choosign signals to regular-looking man unless they have a very high pre-selection like being a DJ on a party or something. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONProbably dudes from her social circle. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONDid you ever have a random dude who you don't find physically appealing first getting you through cold-approach? | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 10:30 AM |
| 0 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**Cold-approach is akin to dating-apps when comes to looks. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 10:04 AM |
| 0 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsNow you brought esoteric stuff to justify all this pseudo science PUA BS. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsI mean long term relationships use to start on social circle settings, so if those studies focus most on these kind of matteship it's natural that looks would be on secundarys positions versus cold-approach contexts where looks are the only data random women get from you. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsI mean i'm like a 5 or a 6, and never ever saw a 5'10 fitness attractive girl sending me chooses signals on gym, streets or clubs, so seems to me pointless reliyng on it most-of-the-time. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsif you arent't on top 5% of looks random attractive women will not give to you choosing signals though. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsOn cold-approach matters akin to online-game. The only scenario where i can see looks being less relevant than personality-wise is on pre-established social circles. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterSo if he asks for your number randomly is ok if he's good-looking but is harasment if he's ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:39 AM |
| 0 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterMore like you don't want ugly dudes approaching you, but if the dude is handsome you give him a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:09 PM |
| 0 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Why clubs, dating-apps and bars would be means of just men looking for hook-ups? I want a partner and use those means cause are the only ways to meet women i have avaliable. it's not like all men who go to these places or make profiles on dating-apps just want a night-stand and no more. Sometimes they only want go to a place or access a device where randomly approach a stranger who they found attractive is socially aceptable, and from this they could scheduling dates with this person and know he… | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 10:30 AM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.i have cold approached something about 40 women on gym and got only two dates that didn't go-forward. Cold-approach seems very VERY ineffective. My point is: dudes that argues about being well-suceed on approaching random women are either very good-looking themselves or are seriously overastimating the girls looks that they pull. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 11:10 PM |
| 0 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Well... go to clubs and bars is like... being social irl. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 11:01 PM |
| 0 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.The problem is: after school and college years bars, clubs, social-media and dating-apps are pretty much the only means to meet women. So how proceed? | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 09:07 AM |
| 0 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Dude bars, clubs, social-media and dating-apps are pretty much the only ways that men after school and college years have to meet womem. | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 09:01 AM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.More likely they met their girfriends on social cicle settings where they could show off their personality as-time-went-on. On cold-approach settings looks are everything though. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.But how proceeds when all attractive random girls act this way? Do you Know what i mean? It's just seems pointles to cold-approach conventionally attractive women being average-looking yourself and pretending that your "social skills" will make it up. It's not like they would change their minds due a words combination spitting from your mouth. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.But the very fact that a good-looking dude can be reject due social-skills lack doesn't mean that the woman will fall for the next confident average-looking dude who will approach her. That's the question: how to make an attractive woman falls for you on a cold-approach setting despite not being conventionally attractive yourself? It's even a realistic goal? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 09:20 AM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Then if you are not that good-looking yourself the hot ones will say they have boyfriend or will plainly ghosting you after passing their number. Pick-up stuff it's pretty predicable. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 09:09 AM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.I'm 35 and on this "game" for more than 15 years, so i can tell from my own experiency. Women, at least the top 10% good-looking ones will treat you friendly if you have a good set of social skills but will make-up a excuse when you ask their contacts or will give it but ghosting you afterwards when asking them-out. It's like cold-approach it's kinda forbiden when you don't pass on some looks threshold, but i personally have seen ugly and ok looking dudes with hot girlfriends, all of them met th… | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:59 AM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.BS most women will reject non conventionally attractive men from the get-go and the dude will not have the chance to shows-off his personality. The only scenario i can see a woman valoring personality-wise more than looks is when they already have some friendship or acquanticiment from social circles like college and work. On clubs, bars and dating-apps looks is almost the only thing women note though. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Problem is: the girl has to know you previously to be aware of your social skills. So on a cold-approach setting, looks-wise will be more important than social skills as between strangers this atribute is the only data avaliable. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Social circle brother, propinquity. It's not like a stunning woman will far for a random Danny-De-Vitto-type that cold approached her only becase he has confidence and charisma, it takes time . Put a 6 to approachs a 8 on a club and probably he will be reject from the get-go. Put this same dude on an office with the same 8 girl for 6 months and it's likely that if the dude in question has these atributes personality-wise, she will see him with-another-eyes as time goes on even if on a first mome… | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.personally i see more mismatched couples resulting from people that meet through social circles like work and college settings. When you see someone multiple-times everyday, you tend to get used by his/her bad looks and personality-wise gets more relevancy. Probably are what happens with ugly/average dudes with hot girlfriends/wifes. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Many dudes treat women very well and not are seen with stunning girls. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Most women will go for looks on a first moment. After having a kind of non-romantic relationship with the dude in question like work or college matte is that they will see the personality-wise traces of him. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.None of these things are visível from the get-go though. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.I would bet that you got them after knowing on social circle settings and not through cold-approach though. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:20 PM |
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