| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 198 | I finally did it, I left | FDS SUCCESS! | Fylgija | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 46 | How to address scarcity mindset? | Fylgija | /r/askFDS | 25/12/20 08:09 PM | |
| 1 | How to deal with scarcity mindset? | DISCUSSION | Fylgija | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with scarcity mindset? | DISCUSSION | Fylgija | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:58 PM |
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| 3 | Never Help Men With Their Woman-Seeking MotivesI learned this lesson early on and in a painful way. I was in high school, and a guy I had been interested in approached me about a girl he wanted to date. He asked if I could help her be more like me. I asked why he didn’t want to just date me then, if he clearly preferred who I was as a person. He never had an answer. But that exchange has fucked me up quite badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 24 | What's the best gift you received by a HVM?I have two. One is from my grandparents from when I was very small. Both were deeply religious, but in a way that was never oppressive. They gave me a small, beautiful olive wood Bible from Jerusalem that had been blessed. I’m pagan now, but the meaning and value of this little book from across the world is not at all lost on me. The second was a gift on my 21st birthday. My oupa, the most HVM I have ever known, had given my ouma a string of pearls on her 21st birthday. They had always wanted me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 6 | This post will probably be removed.That’s what I’ve been doing too, it’s also given me a lot more to work with for my level up journey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:57 PM |
| 4 | This post will probably be removed.I’m really glad you mentioned this. I have had to realize I need to take mental health breaks from this sub, due to misery porn and posts that provide no value but only reinforce misery. We should seek to provide posts of value, posts that encourage us to consider our positions and beliefs, and posts that empower us and help us position ourselves for better futures. We should create posts that help us level up, not sink into a scarcity mindset and dwelling on the evils of the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Good news, they’re about an 8 or so on the mohs scale, so they’re actually a pretty good option! Not the hardest, but definitely up there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 07:19 PM |
| 66 | Sex positive libfem sex worker wants to “help” brutalized and abused ex pornstar by normalizing her traumaThis sums up my criticism of sex positive libfems perfectly. I’m supposed to listen to the most privileged within a group tell me about how others aren’t oppressed? How this isn’t violence? Isn’t this the same shit men pull with women in “developed” nations to try and convince us everything is fine? It’s fucking gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:41 AM |
| 10 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.I’m trying to be mad but honestly I’m just giggling over this jfc 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.Such a waste of good glitter lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 32 | This is the worst I have seen 🤢When your oppressors agree with you, it should be a hint | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.If you’re having to “make the best of it”, it needs to be left in the garbage. You can’t polish a turd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 16 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Law enforcement, military, and “entrepreneurs”. Unfortunately, most men who refer to themselves as entrepreneurs are just trying to start a bullshit podcast or only wants to trade crypto or stocks and do nothing that actually adds value to society. I do find starting a business to be a potential green flag, but how he talks about it is very important. That’s something I’ve learned from my dad (who is a very complicated character in my life, admittedly). He started his own business, but would nev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:31 PM |
| 19 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesIt was a mistake I made with a previous ex 🙃 he realized I was desperate to be loved after my previous ex told me how much he adored his new girlfriend (who subsequently dumped him) and I had asked the guy I was seeing if he loved me. Big trap, never doing that again lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:27 PM |
| 29 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesThat’s what I was wondering. Bringing it up first would have been what would put it into pick me territory, personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:15 PM |
| 63 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesWhat would a good strategy to vet for this be? To me, it could sound a bit pick-me to ask what he loves about me and I wonder if asking directly would send the wrong signal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 08:25 PM |
| 362 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.Never in my 27 years of existence have I ever seen a man get over anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:45 PM |
| 496 | Seeing too much bad things. Sharing my favorite TikTok couple. (They’ve met in 1992). Get yourself a man who is excited to take you out.I know it’s rare, but I’d love to see more posts like this. It can be really disheartening to scroll through here sometimes, so it’s wonderful to see the wins and reminders of the good out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:16 AM |
| 47 | Thoughts on Building With A ManI work with someone like this. She’s ten years younger than him, has given him thousands of dollars towards some bullshit business he started, has contributed labor to this business. There is no ring on her finger (or anywhere in sight of course), and he has not legally bound her to this business in any way. She is doing this all unpaid, with no investment from him. She sincerely believes he will give her a cut of the business once it’s “successful” or that he will fund her being a stay at home … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 16 | Don’t get roped into talking about the break-up. There are no good intentions. Either he wants to “win” the break-up or he wants to coax you into a situationship with less boundaries. He is not your counselor. He is not here to process with you.Yeah, they do that a lot. They break up for fun, realize no one else will fuck them, and then go back trying to figure out how to improve their methods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 18 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusA HVM will want you to have a good job, a strong educational background and prospects because it will protect you and it will improve your quality of life. A LVM will not want those things for you because it will keep you dependent on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:53 PM |
| 61 | Thought this belonged here 😉This ain’t a Bethesda game, the bugs are not “features”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 62 | Don’t get roped into talking about the break-up. There are no good intentions. Either he wants to “win” the break-up or he wants to coax you into a situationship with less boundaries. He is not your counselor. He is not here to process with you.He wants to know what he did “wrong”, not to improve but to hide it for the next girl. He doesn’t want to grow, he wants to learn how to lie and manipulate better. Never engage with these oxygen thieves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkThank you! I’ll be using this one. A lot lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkWhat’s DTMFA? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:56 PM |
| 160 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Lmao why would I want a man so shy, so stupid, and so lazy that they won’t take the initiative to ask me on a date? They know they have nothing to offer and want to be rewarded for it, the absolute gall. scrotes mad in the comments 😂 luckily the mods are getting to em real quick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 6 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Take the L. You derailed it. Deal with the consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 7 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?What you said is dumb as fuck and amounts to victim blaming. The law of attraction is pseudo-hermeticism and is not a helpful answer, at all, to the situation. Manifestation is new age bullshit that places the entire onus on the universe to magically conjure what you should be putting effort towards for those things you DO have control over, while also simultaneously blaming individuals for circumstances outside of their control. It is useless, reductionist, and unhelpful. Oh and scrotes love it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 54 | Most men are NOT capable of genuine love. In order to love a woman, they have to see her as human. That’s why most of them would rather keep the privilege of seeing you as an object — to feel less bad about the mistreatment they put you through.There is no such thing as a high value location. There is no single location that will ever guarantee HVM. People can bring value to a place. But there is no single environment that will guarantee value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:27 PM |
| 71 | Porn Star infamous for having 400+ partners and bragging about having sex with men in relationships and rubbing it in their girl’s face woke up to zero presents today. Males being males in the comments.Exactly. They see an accomplice that they can manipulate. She’s just another tool for the patriarchy, and they all know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:11 PM |
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