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Agreed. I (a man) am quite satisfied with my life and have not had major problems with women. No massive betrayals, no "divorce rape," no allegations of rape after sleeping with one, no long stretches without sex, etc. (Knock on wood, of course.) I'm often shocked by how much people on TRP say these things happen. Not saying they don't, but I haven't experienced them myself and personally know no one who has. I come to TRP primarily for interesting discussions on human nature and sexual attracti…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:42 PM
8

And here I thought TRP was about understanding and constructively engaging reality more than emotionally comforting each other like aggrieved victims.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 05:44 PM
0

Taking it like a man, not a whiny child.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 05:42 PM
15

Crying "victim!" is a bad look for just about any type of person.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 02:49 PM
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The vast majority of your whingeing post makes you sound much more like the "blue pill man" you described in your final paragraph, not TRP.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 02:48 PM
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Yes. Part of growing up is learning to stop fixating on Shiny Object Everyone Else Wants for No Discernible Reason. It's also the key to genuine happiness, not being yanked around by arbitrary social norms, being a truly free human being. But many people don't realize this until it's too late. They spend years and years trying to acquire the Shiny Object, then if and when they finally get it, they realize it didn't bring them any happiness whatsoever. Meanwhile, they are slaves to keeping the Sh…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:54 PM
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Holy shit, We found a time traveler from 1955!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:49 PM
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Of course there are exceptions, but they are just that – exceptions. My advice, although I know you didn't ask for it, is to drop your "thing" for blondes if you can. It's arbitrary and limiting. The sooner you broaden your tastes, the happier you'll be, especially if you're a minority in the suburbs. Actually, while I'm doling out advice, move the fuck out of the suburbs and into a city. You can thank me later.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:46 PM
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I see this dichotomy between online vs. IRL dating all the time. So many men are disqualified for various arbitrary reasons online, whereas these things don't matter nearly as much when meeting IRL. This is why the latter is still far superior.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:18 PM
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This is more true of "fancy" Asians, not "jungle" Asians (credit: stand-up comic Ali Wong).
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:16 PM
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So much of it is cultural/status oriented, even if there's no rational reason for doing it (like increasing the odds of a girl marrying up). What's ironic, however, is that the tables are turning, at least in most major American cities – I'm noticing that it's no longer "cool" to have the so-called aryan look, that some color and genetic diversity is preferred, etc. This trend will likely propagate out to suburbs over time, with rural areas probably resisting it the longest, and the people fixat…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:58 AM
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I have, but not nearly as often as non-blondes, or women with other minority backgrounds.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:46 AM
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Actually, this is true to an extent. In most major American cities I've lived in, the blond girls don't have nearly as much social capital as they do in the suburbs/small towns. Sometimes they even express envy for the girls with some color. But, when it comes to long-term relationship/marriage, they almost exclusively end up with white dudes. The super-generic accountant/MBA types, most frequently. It's definitely a status and what-would-my-family-approve-of thing. But I think this is why I fin…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 03:25 AM
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Yeah, I don't get it myself. What I find particularly amusing is how a lot of dudes who are fixated on blond white girls will think a so-so looking one is far hotter than she really is, simply because she's white with blond hair and blue eyes. Of course I recognize that attraction and attractiveness is at least partly subjective, but in some cases a girl will be pretty close to objectively not as hot as her non-white/blond/etc. counterpart, and yet the dudes who are fixated on the blond white ch…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 03:16 AM
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Yeah, I found it very hard to believe it was really a woman (and as described) who wrote it. Call me crazy, but that sort of matters when it comes to supposedly personal stories of this nature. Do we want to read real accounts of actual life experiences, or shitty attempts at erotic fiction?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 02:43 AM
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"Italian girls," as in girls from/living in Italy? Because my experience with girls of Italian descent, and even more so "Italian-looking" women, has been quite different. From what I've seen, they tend to prefer men who are physically similar to them, which is actually true of human nature overall. And at least in my region of the U.S. (I'm not going to specify), blonde men generally don't do as well as dark-haired men, among any demographic except perhaps blonde women. I think a lot of women a…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:13 AM
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While I don't doubt the general arguments you're making, I'm highly skeptical that you are truly a woman, and as you described yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 08:30 PM
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Definitely true that being horny makes one lift like a beast, and yeah, I agree that libido comes down in the immediate aftermath of a workout. But as soon as my body recovers, I'm even hornier than before. Problem is, I try to put a recovery day in between workouts, and those are when I feel the most like an animal.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 07:08 PM
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The abundance thing is true in many facets of life, not just with women. When you are financially/professionally successful, doors to greater success start opening in ways they never did before. When you have lots of friends, it's super easy to make more. Etc. etc. It's both good and bad. Good, obviously, once you have abundance, but pretty bad before you do, because getting to abundance in the first place is the hardest part. For example, moving to a new city where you don't know anyone. That's…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 06:55 PM
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Speaking from personal experience, getting my body fat down to approx. 9-10% (lost more than 20 pounds of fat), by working out 5 hours a week with a combination of weights and running, has absolutely launched my sex drive and overall energy. I disagree with your statement that if you "start lifting and you’ll be less inclined to jerk off," because in my experience, the more fit I've gotten the hornier I am, and this inevitably leads to my wanting to "self-service" more. Which I do my best to res…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 06:50 PM
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Preach. Hot "popular" blonde types aren't necessarily hotter than hot chicks of other ethnicities/types, it's more about status – not in the socioeconomic sense, but in a cultural/racial sense. Who needs that shit (I mean literally "needs" – I won't pass on a hot blonde, but I'm also not going to put particular emphasis on them). There are so, so many beautiful women of all kinds out there. If anything, I go for the Mediterranean-looking ones – olive skin, dark eyes, black hair. THAT is my defin…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 03:33 PM
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Can't agree more with this and similar sentiments. DO NOT FUCK OR ATTEMPT TO FUCK YOUR SUPERVISOR(S). Hell, even coworkers are often a bad idea, at least if you work with them a lot. If shit goes south, now you can't get away, and it can fuck you up professionally if she gets vindictive.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 03:27 PM
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Isn't it incredible how quickly they can sometimes turn when you start showing interest? With some girls, you have to deny, deny, deny until they can't stand it anymore and practically beg you for it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 03:25 PM
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I've learned over time that when it comes to dance floors at least (as opposed to the bar, etc.), you generally can't be too immediate, unless it's one of those rare scenes. I've witnessed many a guy go in too soon and get shot down instantly. And the guy who essentially ordered those girls over to his spot obviously failed to create enough attraction between them – they were almost acting out of a sense of duty, didn't really dance with him, just kind of hung around for a bit before splitting. …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:32 PM
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This is just straight up truth. Tonight I was out at a club, started dancing near these two hot chicks, working my way in. I noticed they kept looking at me, gradually moved toward me as well, tittering to each other each time we met eyes. I kept making eye contact, smiling slyly, building tension, waiting for a moment to make a move. Along came a dude, seemingly from nowhere. He straight up told them (I couldn't hear, but could see from his gestures) to come join him and his friends in another …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 07:52 AM
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I have that with this super-cute girl who told me up front when we first met that she wasn't interested in a relationship and just lives "in the moment." Fine by me, and I'm under no illusions that I'm her only dude, although she never mentions them. But I make it my personal mission to fuck her better than how any of the others might (I have no idea what their level of prowess is, so mostly I'm competing with myself). Only thing that takes getting used to is her relative lack of availability/re…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 08:55 PM
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This is why I described it as a "mild and conversational" Socratic method. Just testing assumptions through open, probing questions. That often does plant the seed of doubt. And if the person is too thick-skulled to realize their position is weak, you can just sort of shrug and say you don't really see it that way. But for me, unless someone truly needs to be put in their place (because they're being a dick or whatever), I don't much care about defeating them in verbal combat.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 03:08 AM
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If you're talking about a group setting (I was thinking more of one-on-one interactions), that's different. In that context, sure, it's good to entertain the group, perhaps with stories or jokes. In one-on-one conversation, though (such as with approaching or going out with a girl), trust me, it's better to put the focus on the other person rather than go on and on about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 03:00 AM
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Speaking for myself, the only reason it would piss me off would be if either (a) she did it constantly, because that's annoying as hell, or (b) I was deeply insecure about myself and my standing with my "special snowflake," such that the occasional, lighthearted remark about a hot celebrity would get under my skin. I've experienced neither of those, so I'm afraid I'm not the "amused mastery only idiot" you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 02:36 AM
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Definitely an awesome thing to do when having sex. Their excitement factor shoots through the roof when you pin them down by their wrists. Another good one is to grab the wrists and pull them back behind the small of her back while she's on top. You can basically drive her down onto you while thrusting. Plus it makes their tits look awesome, chest bowed out.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 12:18 AM
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Also (and this echoes much of TRP), live your life in a way that shows it's rich enough without her! There's nothing needy or desperate about a guy who treats a woman well, but mostly as a by-product of his own happiness and enjoyment with life.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 09:33 PM
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This is actually where I and common TRP doctrine part ways. I've had great success with making girls feel good, specifically feel good when they're with me, in a way that makes them attribute that sensation to me, making them want to keep coming back. I think the key is to not be a doormat, or Nice-Guy validation machine (BP); TRP doctrine recognizes this truth but, in my opinion, takes it to an unnecessary extreme. Then again, I'm just talking about what works for me. But I think that's the big…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 09:07 PM
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That's the thing – I've never felt it rise to the level of disrespect. The most I've experienced is the occasional remark, not that weird fangirl shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 08:53 PM
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True, if she does it constantly, that shit would get annoying enough to justify an overt repudiation. I've never known a woman who did that though, thankfully. Seems like a chick would have to have issues of some kind (stunted psychological growth?) to constantly talk about what male celebrities she thinks are hawt.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 07:55 PM
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So true. Speaking just from my own experience (please pardon the "I" statements!), I've often found that when I'm feeling on top of the world, I am far more curious about others, laugh at their jokes more, and overall have a better opinion of them. The whole entire world seems better, more interesting and just. It's like the opposite of the lyrics in "People Are Strange."
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 07:42 PM
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Hard to rate – overall very good, but some of the language and advice can be a bit dated/old-fashioned. The parts that continue to be relevant today (which is most of it, in my opinion) are excellent. Besides the bit about asking questions and showing interest in the other person, I also found the proviso about avoiding overt disagreement very useful and effective. Bickering with people you don't know well is a lot more off-putting than many people realize, and there are tactful ways of pushing …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 07:37 PM
2

Sorry I jumped on you a bit with my initial comment. The "olive branch" bit in particular struck me as a bit condescending. I think you'd find that plenty of TRPers would meet your own definition of Chad – but the true definition, to the extent there can be one, is a guy who most women would categorize as a 9 or 10, and who fairly effortlessly sleeps with whomever he wants. You seem like more of a "normal" guy than that – one who's had success with women, sure, but nothing particularly out of th…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:41 PM
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And has lived to tell about it!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:13 PM
1

Agreed. Having known several women who went through pregnancy, they have every reason to need and expect at least someone to give up their subway seat to them. Let's not TRP be a parody of itself, gentlemen. How Olivia Wilde handled it in this particular instance is perhaps another issue.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:17 PM
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Hefner knew the game from the start. Hell, he named his magazine "Playboy"!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:09 PM
2

I definitely agree there isn't one universal technique to picking up girls. People on TRP do sometimes seem to believe there is, but the problem I've seen here more than anything is in the often rigid and formulaic execution. It's one thing to say "Be Alpha! Maintain Frame!" But there are many, many ways to do those things, often depending on the person with whom you're interacting. Goes along with the concept of AWALT. I agree there are tendencies among women, but their behavior is by no means …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:00 PM
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This is a major element of Dale Carnegie's timeless advice in "How to Win Friends and Influence People," published eight decades ago. Despite this advice having been around for so long, it's amazing how many people have no clue about this and think yammering on and on about themselves is the key to impressing others (male or female). Reminds me of a related truth: Studies have shown that the quantity of I/me/my statements a person makes in conversation is correlated with feelings of insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 04:49 PM
3

You don't sound in any way like a Chad. And the way you wrote your initial post – basically just a call for supposedly lesser men to sit at your feet and ask questions, without providing any insight from the start – makes you sound like you were seeking little more than validation. Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 04:41 PM
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Precisely. The rich are not like you and me.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 03:03 PM
1

You're overthinking this. Not like it matters, but nothing says you are confident in yourself like agreeing that so-and-so male celebrity is hot, or just playing along with the banter. What's it to you? When a woman has done this with me, that just tells me she's horny and needs a good dicking. Which I oblige. Overthinking shit in a relationship is what women tend to do. It takes you out of the moment and kills fun, which, even if your behavior isn't overt, subtly communicates weakness and insec…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 01:05 PM
1

If you're going to use a dating/hookup app, use it primarily to supplement your real-life game. Don't make it your primary means to meet women. Real-life interaction lacks many of the imbalances of the online version, and actually getting out there and having a social life helps make you less thirsty and temperamental when it comes to dealing with flaky chicks on dating apps. Besides, women will usually prefer a man they have actually met over a man they've only thus far seen in profile pics and…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 12:51 PM
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Particulars of this case aside, I get the sense that quite a few marriages between a "trophy wife" and a rich-but-not-very-attractive (or old) man involve the wife regularly sleeping with other, hotter men. And the husband probably sleeps around too. Those marriages are purely for appearances for the man, and money for the woman, and the men tend to travel a lot for business.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 12:35 PM
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I've had good results from complimenting their looks in specific and creative ways. If you're original about it, it shows you are perceptive and activates a more novel reward sensation in their brain than a generic "you're beautiful."
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 01:45 PM
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Funny you should mention being a "degenerate drug addict." From what I've seen, those kinds of guys often end up with really hot women. Is it the access to drugs? I've known many a hot chick who LOVED coke.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 01:40 PM
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For some reason this reminded me of an anecdote I read from an A-list male celebrity (inverse situation, the highest possible male SMV). I think it was Leonardo DiCaprio. He said something like, when he would hook up with a girl, she would "explode" at his slightest touch. Now that's got to go to a person's head.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 01:39 PM
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I don't really see how you "fucked up." You didn't introduce yourself? So what? You didn't say anything embarrassing or act weird, did you? If anything you may even have increased intrigue by coming off as IDGAF. Wait to see her again and, if she doesn't ask for another spot, just approach and introduce as you normally might (this technique is on you, your personal style, and the situational context). You'll already be at a bit of a psychological advantage because she initiated contact with you …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 01:31 PM
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The key is to do it in a neutral/non-confrontational way (unless of course you are trying to be overtly adversarial). Like you're curious to hear more. The silence alone will make them want to fill it with more words.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 10:28 PM
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Every major victory is preceded by smaller, antecedent victories. Knowing how to achieve the small victories (like getting to where OP got so far) is a prerequisite to achieving the big ones.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:48 PM
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Totally agreed. One of the most valuable skills I learned was to meet an insufficient answer with silence. Takes discipline, but it almost always results in their saying more.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:46 PM
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Thanks for your response. I'll try to be patient and focus on making good comments.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:44 PM
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Well, I've finally written up my closely related post – which was at least partly inspired by yours – but it got auto-removed because I'm too new. Hopefully I'll be able to post it soon.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:28 PM
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Just tried posting my piece, got auto-removed for being too new. Do you know of any way to ask to override this feature? I believe it's a quality post and, because it's based on something that happened to me recently, I want to post it soon.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:26 PM
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Nice post. As a person who's had his own share of martial arts training (Judo, Jujitsu, American Kenpo, Muay Tai, Jun Fan), I wholeheartedly agree with all of what you wrote. In fact, I've been thinking of writing a post on a somewhat related topic. I've lurked on TRP for months (under a previous Reddit username) but I'm not yet certain about posting protocol. Am I too new to write my own? Are they subject to approval, prior or otherwise? Sorry to offload these questions on your post. Again, I r…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 04:17 PM
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