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Idk why you guys take discussions on this sub seriously when 80% of the people here will just lie for their argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:51 PM
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Personally, I would rather fail at a game due to not having the skill to retain or bypass system mechanics than failing due to being unable to start the game due to issues outside of your control. One is way more easier to have some level of introspection about your approach in addition to being more forgiving (you have a surplus of attempts) while the other one most likely requires you either get hardware upgrades (massive IF you have the resources) or just proceed with a different, lower quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:57 PM
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I don't get how this is ground breaking - yes if a woman is attractive enough, she can bypass certain preferences that some men have, this is pretty privilege 101. The only way this is some own if we go by the logic that most women are attractive therefore can bypass this which is just delusional or if you use the cop out that this is only an issue online. That said, I think red pillers overestimate the amount of guys who are intolerate of body counts (I think being a known town bicycle is a dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:47 PM
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You be surprised if you think its "most" online or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:34 PM
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Disagree that its a "low T" thing but ultimately agree with the conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:33 PM
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Unless you are holding up a sign that clearly indicates those features, those guys who are giving you attention aren't going to know from just looking at you. Retaining the attention after mentioning that you are those features would be a different story but its not a truthnuke you think it is that guys will give attention to someone who is attractive without additional context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:30 PM
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I mean I get that but its just boring now and calling it out just gets you called terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:57 PM
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Coming from GenZ, most are either blue pilled or have some association with the blackpill. By association, they still "bluepilled" but stuff like online dating in the west vs eastern countries, how dating just sucks if you arent a chad or loaded, general sense of misery when someone mentions dating. Those who are solely "bluepilled" tend to be really privileged in terms of attraction and just goodlifers (always think blue pillers tend to be privileged so not surprised) while the rest are just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:52 PM
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It's just a tiring point since they don't even practice what they say - they use online misogyny as a "poisoning the well" but call you socially stunted if you cant recognise the "trolling"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:23 PM
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I mean i wouldnt be surprised; Why would you paint the manosphere in good faith or with naunce vs the current situation whereby you win on all fronts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:13 PM
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I havent watched the documentary but I am almost certain it is going to try its hardest to avoid the "cause" outside of making other men accountable *cue the no male role models argument* and only going to focus on dunking red pillers (not really that hard on dunk myron/fresh lmao) and the "effect" which is silly because no one comes out the womb with these beliefs, literally goes against what you are told to believe in. Pretty stupid because as a 23 year old, most of my guy friends who are in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:56 PM
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The point of these docs are just to easy slam dunk on manosphere spaces because anyone outside of manosphere spaces or those adjacent to it will either lack the context (not that it matters) or think they are weird because they are intentionally exclude antisocial tendancies to conitnue the cult and harp on how its being out of the matrix. If they had to actually engage on RP talking points by non weirdos,/successful individuals before they got into the red pill, it would be alot harder to do sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:50 PM
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F.D signifier is horrible who just says the things in the most obnoxious way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:44 PM
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Yeah don't get me wrong I agree with your premise that men who have the revenge porn fanasty of single mothers are odd regardless their situation but I don't think the average bloke has the same level of contempt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:02 PM
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You are greatly overrestimating the "hatred". Saying "I wouldn't date a single mother, that's off putting" =/= I hate single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:51 AM
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Educated? It's just a baseless assumption used to deflect which most people do here - "people who don't like X are probably Y anyways" is a ridiculous stance. This is an open online forum that is free from typical backlash, it is much easier to give an opinion that is unrelated to you and then go back to your positive life, literally what everyone claims to do here. Most guys don't have hate or vitriol for single mothers outside of manosphere - they just hold a stance of it being an undesirable …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:04 PM
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Or there just better things to talk about? Repeating the same talking points is just pointless and tiring for all involved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:49 PM
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The first sentence is just an assumption idk why people here keep on doing this to support their own perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:47 PM
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The way he is responding vs the way he typed up his post is going to be different, especially since you aren't even being formal yourself. Stop being pretentious over this, it is not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:52 PM
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Don't worry the link she provided wasn't even about social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:58 AM
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So funny how people pick and choose when that monolith argument applies and your Strawman doesn't magically change the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:51 PM
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Women aren't a monolith until I need to make a convenient point I guess lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:26 PM
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Blue pill is for those that are/were privileged in the dating scene and I standby that. I wish for the ability to just manifest things into existence the same way they can. Not even flame, I wish I could be one as well; ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:58 AM
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Same I had to quickly remember that most of the people here are in the US because 80k here is successful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:20 PM
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100k is the new 60k from what I have heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:07 PM
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Tbf I never said otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:51 PM
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Oh I see where you are coming from - ehh it depends as you can always develop new interests. Last year I joined an MMA gym even tho I have only been interested in the sport for close to 2 years now for an example. That being said I do agree that unless you pretty much certain hoobies like pottery, dance classes, etc, you are either picking a hobby that is 9:1 ratio man woman or you are doing something you dislike which is why I don't like the "just join hobbies" as "dating advice".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:27 AM
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Definition of "success" varies from each person to each person as the source partially mention and it is only talking about "current" successful relationships, not just those that formed and then broke. https://www.forbes.com/health/dating/dating-statistics/#footnote_4 https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/02/08/for-valentines-day-facts-about-marriage-and-dating-in-the-us/ Also you can't just simply cross two studies as they do not share the same participants. Sure the logic still remains…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:51 PM
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Obviously on the topic of current "dating" we are mostly talking about new couples instead of considering relationships that have been around 10 years. Me and the other guy were both talking about recent couples. Also, im not using this study as a gospel lmao I personally only shared it once. I've since only discussed what people are considering to be "online".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:32 PM
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Anything to move the goalpost istg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:40 PM
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Bro cmon are we really debating that 50% is unreliable because it doesn't precise break it down to each online stream. I think we all know for a fact that the majority of current relationship forming is from dating apps with the sole exception of maybe instagram/discord which can be used as a dating app. This isn't the 2000s whereby the internet navigation was seen as a nerdy thing in which majority of couples online was from wow private servers. Im not eliminating that they don't occur but its …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:39 PM
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and now you changed the narrative from a normal convo between a woman to a club setting lmao. Predicting 7:00 at 6:30 with this sub and talking to certain names. Race/local politics isnt the same as discussing culture or local events (i.e new event, new shop opening, etc to people who are local in the area) this comment is so disingenous & ignorant lmao. Do you think me mentioning politics is like talking to a mexican about the current ice raids as "culture"? XD By your logic, I am sure certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:46 PM
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I know how this sub works so nearly anything I say will be shot down as "boring" but i'll bite the bullet. - Culture, especially true if the couple is interracial and in touch. - Local & National news (not necessary things like politics but interesting events) - Politics & Key morales (you cant even cope with this one as woman are increasingly interested in a guys set of principle/politics especially in todays world). - Work, additional points if you both work in two different industries & secto…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:34 PM
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I woudn't say its nonsense advice from women - its one of those things that seem logical and correct in theory but in practice it isn't that 1 to 1 since that's not how things work now. It's the type of advice that comes across as out of touch to the current dating landscape however I respect the principle of the advice because its one of those "even if you don't get objective A, you still benefit from gaining objective B" (similar to going to the gym is going to be a net positive regardless if …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:24 PM
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Cmon really man. This isn't 2000-2010 whereby most online couples are meeting from WOW or FF14, lets be real. At most I'll give is discord but I doubt that even makes 5% of all online dating at most
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:20 PM
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Oh yeah thats on me for forgetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:19 PM
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You can talk about many things that are outside of hobbies - have you never socialised or something? Your logic only works if you are going to make stuff like chores count has "hobbies" which is just you reaching to make a point. This point is stupid anyways since most people have "hobbies", they probably aren't social hobbies (you can do them individually) or "respected" like playing video games, watching sports. He isnt saying to not do hobbies, he is saying that associating hobbies as a direc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:16 PM
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The advice of "join hobbies" only sings true if you believe increasing the volume of social interaction will increase your chances as I am a believer that luck is "preparation meetings opportuniy". Someone who is maximising his socialising is going to get a higher chance than someone who just works --> home; it's like how you need to mob for several days/weeks in a MMORPG to get a unique item instead of relying on getting it on the first try or not doing it at all. Therefore if you are "unsucess…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:55 PM
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Only one of those is a hobby and "million other things" aren't necessarily hobby related. You made a strawman, especially when people say this advice with the purpose of hopefully meeting someone with similar interests, not to expand on what you can banter about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:46 PM
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Recent studies show that at least 50% of relationship formation are formed online. This sub needs to stop downplaying the emergenance of OLD as one of the more popular ways to date. https://www.southdenvertherapy.com/blog/how-couples-meet-where-most-couples-find-love-2025
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:44 PM
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This is a hard one for personally because; On one hand I personally do agree that outside of highschool/college friends, guys do not strongly pursue friendships unless there is a net gain or if it's circumstantial - pretty hard to find genuine friends ngl. It wouldn't surprise if this also extends to women in the case that guys will try and scout the "gain" for said friendship and a lot of guys do not value the "female perspective" that alot of women will argue is the benefit of having female fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:55 PM
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ONCE again - ignoring the fact that even if you do this in non incel spaces, the same thing happens regardless unless you now admit that due to incels, if you post online about dating woes you will receive character attacks regardless which is a contradiction to your original point. The only correct thing you said was that you should go to irl if you want dating advice which is pretty much adjacent to my original point that you will receive character attacks if you post online. You cannot hold t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:40 PM
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Sexually I disagree since it should be pretty well known by now that men and women do not share the same experiences between the opposing sex therefore its not really relative. Platonic, I disagree significantly especially with the notion that men only qualify good attention from women based on their ability to get laid with said women. I find it pretty comical the assumption that guys just have sperm for brains and constantly thinking about the likeihood of sex upon every interaction with a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:31 PM
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Yes it doesn't lmao it's literally the reason why some guys just check out or go to those incel circles for "answers" - no one wants to be indirectly told that they are hygienic when they made no references to be so because they asked for advice in romance. You changed your argument from "people don't do this unless it's incel" to "people do this because of incels" that is not the same. You justifying it by saying "toxic incels make normal guys look bad" is literally reinforcing my point that pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:30 PM
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Instead of acknowledgement that people may infact do so, we are deflecting it back to incels, the convenient boogeyman? "X thing never happens but if it does so happen then it's due to Y thing which isn't applicable" - a classic PPD argument stance This doesn't just happen in incel circles - it occurs anywhere that is at least gender neutral and highly active lmao I'm not just referring to PPD. No you missed my point entirely that even if the main text holds no misogynist views, people will stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:59 PM
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Hugely disagree with the first point; people actually make assumptions on the guy if he is unsuccessful UNLESS you are implying irl which imo is dishonest as the OP & others are most likely referring online. There is a reason why people used to mock the "just get a haircut bro" "forgot to do my x3 shower routine" due to the constant Freudian slips or people making character attacks if you have some level of frustration in dating even if you held no negative views on women in your text body. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:41 PM
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What am I policing? I'm asking how you got "first time getting laid" from just a basic generalisation? I am waiting to be enlightened. 4 replies deep and you still avoiding this point, you are actively dodging lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:47 PM
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Yeah I made my point in the first reply that the ad hominem based on your "analysis" is funny. I'm not the one who is making this circular
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:00 PM
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"I just discovered how to get laid" is just a funny ad hominem because you "disagreed".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:47 PM
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imo i think its a bit of both aka people who overexaggerate the former in addition to doing the latter because kicking down romantically unsuccessful people online is easy and inconsequential since they are already "married".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:21 PM
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This is alot of people in this sub in a nutshell. Always the same story of having many successful hook ups and fwb as a stacey/chad before finally settling down with their significant other (usually engaged or long term married) but have an "interest" in discussing dating dynamics to "steer" people in the right direction despite 90% of time just kicking romantically unsuccessful down. Call them out on this and they either go slient or they just get the mods to delete your message.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:02 PM
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What type of arm chair analysis is this? He made a generalisation which is essentially the theme of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:46 PM
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Then stop applying this to dudes whom you (women as a whole) are not attracted to or intentionally omitting that key piece that direction of the statement. Saying "kindness and personality are what matters most" vs "kindness and personality are what matters most once I'm attracted to you" as a reply to someone who is currently unsuccessful is not the same. Inb4 "there is someone out there who will find you attraction anyways" ass response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:03 PM
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Do you actually think most undesirable guys are just some 30+ year old otaku whose a frequent poser on 4chan? Lmao this is so out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:21 PM
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This whole thread is just dishonesty lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:42 PM
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You're not going deeper in the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:13 PM
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Oh I 100% agree with everything you said. The rationale to me is just baffling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:48 PM
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If a guy is inexperienced in regards to dating - you wouldn't want to be friends with him platonically anyways? Bruh this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:30 AM
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Please show me where I discredited myself early? Are you that bitter that I said there is two sides to every story?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:25 PM
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There's no way you read everything I typed in just over a minute lmao you just read what you wanted to read (which is why people are responding to the way they are). If you want to play ad hominem card, one of your relationships flopped due to 4 channers & discorders - as far as I am aware we pretty much the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:18 PM
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There is two sides to every story and then the truth, Idk what else I can really say about your situation tbh. Discorders arent the most mentally intact individuals (especially when the genders mix) so it comes with the terrority. For the sake of conversation, how "normies" and "discorders" approach interacting on discord couldn't be more different - not suttering and holding a conversation with a woman without being a weirdo already puts you in the top 50% so I wouldn't use discorders as a basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:12 PM
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Last paragraph is such a cope - no way outside of certain communities people are reassuring men that the loneliness epidemic isnt consequential to their actions through repeated suggestions that they arent entited to anything. When guys mention male loneliness epidemic you either get women/people clarifying that its gender neutral or criticise male interactions (based on what they need to win the argument). People greatly overrestimate the amount of guys who are listening to "podcastbros" for da…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:27 PM
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It's just two completely different worlds, I wouldn't bother
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:16 PM
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Isn't this not incredibly obvious to anyone who isn't attractive - I thought the main problem is that inexperienced guys aren't even getting the obvious? Unless your post is also implying to pretty much eliminate interest in women as a whole (i.e socially) unless there are obvious signs which is up to the individual tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:14 PM
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But off topic but shout-out to you, you seem to be a really good father. Alot of parents with ND/autistic kids either seem deeply regretful and don't talk highly of them (i.e "he/she means well") or they act like it just doesn't exist then proceed to lash out their frustration that their kid can't effectively keep up with all social milestones that someone who is neurotypical can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:47 PM
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1) I fully agree which is why I try and disengage with PPD "advice". This is incredible obvious once you recognise names and see how they provide contradictory advice depending on what is needed to "win" the discussion. I think this is also the reason why bringing up personal inflo is against the rules. 2) IMO I think women only want guys that are either "pre-vetted" to their suitting or highly desirable men to pursue hence the circular logic that goes around. Granted if we look at it from a the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:11 PM
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She been doing this for like 7 years since her late teens/early 20s, she is literally the finish boss of PPD trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:48 PM
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It's still modern men, no way we acting like it's 50/50 now. Unless you are referring to volume then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:15 PM
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That's your own Interpretation of passport bro, specifically done to just villianise them. It's literally just men who move to another country with the pursuit of women being one of the motivators - can be both an economic successful/unsuccessful country. Another other interpretation is just opinionated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:41 PM
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I can ask the same for passport bros - are they not immigrants if they fully move into the place they are passport broing? Is this the case where success stories are immigrants but failures are passport bros for the sake of arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:35 PM
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Nooo? In the context you are talking about, they are intact passport bros as one of the main motivators (outside of better QOL) was in fact women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:29 PM
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I've known like 2-3 guys in my age range who moved to another country and multiple of older millennials/Gen X who coupled up with first generation foreigners. Don't really think it's just an "online phenomenon" although not as widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:24 PM
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1) Sounds like he has low self esteem in himself and probably comparing himself to other people online. Potentially projecting it to the relationship but I feel that's a bit too armchairy 2) Idk about PPD social circles but most of the guys I know in my age range (22-26) probably believe in some elements of the red pill; they are usually too blue pilled for red pill and the same vice versa. The only people I know who are flat out blue pilled are either highschool sweethearts or people who are at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:43 PM
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Which then recycles back to what I originally said but at least this sub is slowly being honest now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:32 PM
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It is when you assume ugly women and men are the same but exclude if ugly women have options because they just want her as a "warmhole" knowing damn well: 1) Guys don't even get that as the bare minimum 2) Not all options (especially for an ugly girl because she is ugly) will be there just for sex. The idea that both parties are 50:50 is just delusional; idk why when it comes to gender dynamics there are always a group of people who have to insist that both genders have it the same in multiple a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:29 PM
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Was going to reply about the contradiction as well lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:22 PM
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Moved the goalpost and this assumption that every guy who asks you out who you find unattractive as some kind of undisciplined lustful dog as a counterpoint is getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:16 PM
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I strongly disagree but then again I think most people don't truly understand it anyways so it's not even a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:12 PM
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Yeah man ofc TRP friends just so happen to be losers and autistic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:09 PM
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Holy shit people really ain't joking when they say women don't bash anything harder than "undatables" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:05 PM
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He is saying; Is there a way for a guy to greatly boost (emphasis on the word greatly) the amount of women who are into him without changing the type of women he tries to go with aka not rock bottom standards. I imagine this is open to all answers i.e lookmax, personality, game, etc. The most important part is to increase the current portion so saying "duh duh one day you will find the one" isn't really relevant to the question But I ain't OP though so he can feel free to provide clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:36 PM
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No one says this - people just say modern standards are high and if you are "struggling" then you should settle. That doesn't correlate to date someone who you are not attracted to, this is just oversimplification to make the other side seem moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:19 PM
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It's a matter of agency which should be obvious to anyone who thinks about it. An attractive person can afford to have more flaws because they know; They have way more options to fall back on People like OP will just use the logic of "as long as I'm dating attractive person, it's a W regardless of the outcome). Halo effect. Unattractive people do not have this to fall back on so they are more inclined (to be their own benefit) to be a good partner; if they follow suit is down to them. IDK why yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:16 PM
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Tbf most of the active women here are just here to ragebait less successful men in bad faith, don't really blame these group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:04 PM
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Aka when the guy has already passed the looks threshold aka reinforcing what he is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:58 PM
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Alot of larpers here and it's mostly from one side if we gonna be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:55 PM
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Every woman claims to be ex-stacy that are now married/engaged here to the extent it doesn't mean much I'm gonna be honest. For all I know 50% of RP are currently on their yacht typing away on their downtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:21 PM
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The irony of you saying get off PPD - could say the same thing to most active users here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:14 AM
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"don't feed the troll" "That's what the other guy basically said" " You don't like it when I criticize men" A lillth classic right here in the making
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:46 AM
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Which is what that guy warned others to do... This is the trolling we be talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:38 AM
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Because you are a troll so any discussion with you is naturally partaking in bad faith discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:05 AM
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Not contradictory as his comment was a warning to other readers/potential commenters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:12 PM
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Think there is a difference between age gaps whereby the woman in her 20s and the guy is not than a guy deliberately fishing to date a girl still in school/freshman no matter how hard you try to spin it. Couldn't care less about age gaps in general - knew enough relationships whereby it's a common occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:14 PM
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You tell me, I ain't the type of guy who would deliberately date someone significant younger. Based on what I've seen/heard irl and online - the guy is usually a loser (an actual loser, not PPD loose definition) or the "tricks" in their bag only realistic work on young (the appropriate word would be inexperienced tbh) people. I don't think I bought gender to this (it's applicable to both) but the people on the younger side usually do it for the false belief of believing they are mature for essen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:08 PM
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Yeah I gotta disagree with point 7. Complain about the usage of personal experience but everyone I've known who only dated woman SIGNIFICANTLY younger than them, did so for a reason. I don't really care for age gaps once both parties are ~21+ but don't get mad when you get sideeyed by the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:36 PM
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Maybe from the older generation because my generation (Gen Z - millennials) I would say it's a lot more nuanced although most would identify as "blue pilled" to avoid social stigma and it's what you are told to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:32 AM
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Blue pill is a prilevege that I'm sure majority of men would love to follow if that shit worked for the majority on a consistent basis. After a while you learn to quickly become disillusioned; maybe not become a TRP but realize most of the BP is just idealistic and 🧢 but I understand the purpose is to give teen/young men a temporary "blueprint" to migiate desirable men to gamify dating to their favour and not make undesirables a threat to society until they are old enough to basically have shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:11 PM
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Either: you have skeletons in your closet that has been leaked without you knowing. B your interaction with men is bad to the extent that regardless of the different type of guys you know, it's replusive. You (and I mean this in a honest way) probably give off crazy and probably not attractive enough for it to be tolerable. Usually I would say all 3 is a bit extreme and rude but if every guy you know has blocked you then that is insane. If a guy told me that every woman he been in contact with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:20 PM
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2nd paragraph is just flat out not true - this is probably only of the few forums that this maybe true but that's prob because the guys here will just cut the BS without risking any penalties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:14 AM
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How does this disprove what I said? If anything it just reconfirms the belief that PPD women are just people pushing down losers Polls don't even mean anything anyways unless it's peer reviewed, people can easily lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:17 PM
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It took me a while but I accepted this as well. Feels like 90% of the women here are just 30+ year olds who larp as ex Stacies in their prime but have a weird enjoyment of arguing with red pillers or essentially bullying undesirable young men by disingenuous talking points with circular arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:07 PM
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You really think someone who made the comparison between the fulfillment of companionship and intimacy with another person to the satisfaction of reading a book is someone talking in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:43 PM
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Outside of facial piercings, most are just preferences aka things you can live with but would prefer the alternative. I only known one guy to have the same level of repulsiveness towards small boobs than for fat women (and before you say body hair, you will straight up get called a virgin or something adjacent in like 80% of male spaces unless you make it clear in what degree) but he is basically a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:06 PM
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Yeah anytime I see a self titled "Stacey" here I just chuckle. Reminds me of the days of internet larping growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:53 PM
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Sometimes I feel like a good 75% of women commentators just comment to essentially kick someone while they are down with plausible deniability. I'll think maybe I'm being delusional but then I see comments like this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:10 PM
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Same I actually noticed how every woman here just so happens to have a top 10% "chad" who are either engaged/married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:07 AM
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Leagues do exist but it's as the top reply said, women just prefer kindness > facts in addition that admitting that they exist would just kill alot of hope. All you need to do is look at the amount of times you see the "maybe if you stop chasing models and shower 2x a day..." (Aka aiming too high) as a rebuttal to realise this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:09 PM
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This is how this sub works bro lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 05:46 AM
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No and I think more people should look at it as an alternative as long as they don't take the piss and do it when they are like 65 yr old dating a 20 yr old aka an abuse of power dynamics 95% of the time. Only crowd (TBF it's large) I know who has a problem of it are the people who think it's a cowardly move but I think it's due to knowing having less abundance of men involved in dating/society is a net negative and men who have the inability to date/get better options but trying to fix this out…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:31 AM
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Who cares who gets laid the most? I knew guys who were in the 100s but they wouldn't be caught with the woman unless they were intoxicated or downplay Vs "Chads" who had the ABILITY to do so but went with desirable women (consistently) whom would commit murder to maintain to them. I'll rather be the Chad in 99/100 of the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:09 PM
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Fine with me I'm just glad we are all acknowledging that creepiness and attractiveness have a level of alignment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:42 PM
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I can't open tiktok clips but "If you're cute, you're probably not creepy anyways" The message is not for people who need the message lmao. Are the target demographic chads with a bit of low self esteem? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:51 AM
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I would assume she is fucking with me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:11 PM
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This guy is just being dishonest now, I cba
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:20 AM
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Pretty sure it's been researched that ND women have an easier time dating than ND men yes in addition to many autistic women here confirming. You changed the criteria from finding partners (i.e someone to be with regardless to what degree) to lifelong relationships in which ND women will still have an easier time than ND men. It will always be bad in comparison to NT people but that's not we are discussing here - stop trying to create a point that I didn't say. Nice goalpost, truly a PPD BP clas…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:44 PM
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It's not offensive to simply point out this fact. You can argue factors such as there are much less diagnosed women in ratio to men or that it's not as consequential to being a ND woman in comparison in terms of dating dynamics due to how each genders act but denying this is just being oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:01 AM
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ND women have an easier time finding partners than ND men, this is not false.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:59 AM
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This kinda sounds like projection I'm not gonna lie. Would be with you if you said they wouldn't pry nearly as hard vs a regular looking girl but past the point "they were personally comfortable with" I gotta disagree, even the sentence doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:29 PM
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Like most things regarding empathy; The inability to relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:33 PM
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So who are you talking about in terms of not understanding because it couldn't be further from the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:47 PM
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I'm pretty sure most PPD men are aware
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:23 PM
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As I gotten older, I realized how ableist the regular Joe is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:06 PM
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You seriously telling PPD men that they don't understand the degree of how physically attractive people can essentially bypass certain dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:00 PM
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No but companionship is a large motivation that a lot of people strive and work towards regardless how you personally feel about using that as fuel for motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:48 AM
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We seriously pretending it's the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:10 AM
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At first I thought it was people just bashing women with a new angle of using autistic women but after observing specifically this Reddit, the claim may have some merit behind it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:01 PM
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Making ALOT of assumptions here. Maybe it's because I grow up with someone who was lower on the spectrum but I don't get the ego some of yous have on being able to mask like okay? So can alot of high functioning individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:59 PM
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As said many times by autistic men, no one bashes autistic men harder than autistic women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:31 PM
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I know you brutally simplified this but thats not how league works man + why use udyr specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:18 AM
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No it somewhat tracks to my personal experience as well - maybe they don't give off "I hate women" but I wouldn't say it's charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:17 PM
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Yes? It's still being incredibly selective in the research and your only using it because it fits what you are saying - it is 100% in bad faith to assume high functioning autistic represent low functioning as the difference is huge and I'm pretty sure it's rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:25 PM
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"high functioning" - you know it's a spectrum right? Idk why people forget it's a spectrum, I'm talking about it as a whole - used to volunteer and go to school with close to 100 neuro divergent people and I would be surprised if 75% would be able to find something with no asterisks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:19 PM
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I'm pretty sure the stat of autistic men who are able to find a partner in life / relationship is actually pretty lower than people think. It's like one of the strongest eliminators
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:13 PM
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Life is a bigger dig
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:09 PM
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No you just baited me for no reason; this isn't about the topic. You asked me about HOW they know men are virgins (which I answered fairly because women aren't obviously clairvoyant) not how they shame and then you used it against me lmao of course I'm going to "fail to see the logic", the logic is non existent because that's not what you asked. Idk if it's because you're in PPD so you're constantly on attack mode but this is the definition of bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:37 AM
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That's not what you asked though? You asked me how do women know a guy is a virgin, not how woman shame a guy for being a virgin. This is arguing for the sake of arguing wtf is this bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:59 AM
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Online? They just assume based on context or needing a way to attack a guy , that's why you see insults framed as you don't get women or no woman finds you desirable. Irl? Either you personally admit it in a social setting (there are ways to admit without calling yourself a virgin) or it's something they naturally pick up, probably based on your social interaction with women & looks along with knowing a bit (or lack of) of your relationship history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:13 AM
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Yes, yes they do lmao. Online, it's definitely present and irl it's done much more discreetly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:53 AM
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Damn I only read half of it before getting deleted ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:30 PM
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Yeah mb I was half assing writing this whilst on standby at work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:26 PM
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I don't see the contradiction? If the replies are saying women pursue or let themselves be pursued for men they do like therefore there is no point there is no point putting in effort "in the pursuit" unless they receive any indicator that they are that guy, how is that an issue? It seems pretty valid and truthful to say, especially since you acknowledged it yourself in this particular post The only way to be against this is if you don't personally feel like it's a fair justification which to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:12 PM
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This I actually agree and really makes me cringe when I hear this sentiment online when told to touch grass; it's pretty obviously (especially due to makeup and the fear of seeming gay as a male for challenging it) that a lot of people simultaneously downplay the average male appearance and overestimate the average woman. Imho, I believe it is uncommon asf to see a conventionally average/below date a extremely beautiful woman, it's usually like 2 points difference at most (i.e a 5 dating a 7).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:26 AM
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Just a polite way to provide reasons why she isn't interested. I've seen and got called boring for some of the most minor things that it's kinda comical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:35 PM
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This is obvious to anyone who noticed certain insults used throughout their time being alive. Only thing I say is that both genders make this assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:19 PM
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One time I must have been on a small dating sub Reddit; I can't remember the exact post (I think it akin to dating failure by men) and a woman must have responded in therapist speech saying "I hate when I get approached by men who lack the emotion intelligence and put me in the position to turn them down. I wish they had the emotional capability to understand this as I am into men who are aware of their emotions and able to see if we were a good pairing or not". Some guy called out her BS about …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:50 PM
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No one said they are personality traits but they are cues for a discussion. Depending on the video game I'll argue you can tell a lot about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:30 AM
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It is pretty ironic how he repeatedly says touch grass but he is one of the most recognisable individuals here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:29 AM
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Agreed - more attractive people have more leeway to do wrongdoings because people are either more lenient towards them or they can recover much easier in comparison to the average/ugly male. With this in mind, those who are not nice but attractive simply have more agency than the not nice but ugly individual. When I hear stories from friends about them/men treating women wrong, it shouldn't take a genius to know which one was given several chances to redeem themselves (and no "the women must jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:25 PM
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Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:26 PM
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Yeah I agree I always referred to it as believing in "the magic".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:30 PM
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It's one of the dumbest shit and it's so back handed when you think about it. I just think of that one professor X meme when I hear woman's 6th sense or whatever they call it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:48 PM
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Been an anime fan for many many years and I will say unless you are watching old school anime or anime like soul eater / fire force (they will sexualise without using the ecchi tags) it is not nearly as shoehorned as people make it seem unless you are being insanely prudish by your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:50 PM
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He didn’t give the answers she wanted is what my guess is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:47 AM
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If you had to put in effort (direct or indirectly) to reach a milestone, I do not think it is “easy”. Maybe our definition of “easy” is different because my definition of easy is reaching a milestone with little to zero effort without much resistance or a change of what you typically do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:33 AM
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Yeah I think it is but his flair was blue pill so I was generally clueless if he was trolling or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:29 AM
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So you do acknowledge that there is difficulty? If that’s the case - why say it was easy in the first place? The only way this logic works is if you generally think it is “easy” but if you struggle then it’s hard (which for most guys they have to put in some levels of effort) which is just a roundabout way of saying it’s not that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:58 AM
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Another strawman, please stop making fantastical stories about me - it’s getting weird. This is a debate sub so I’m naturally going to the point I disagree openly while not being as open with agreeing outside of acknowledgment (which I just did). Nothing I said even contradicts the general point you were making as the 3 things you listed are generally easy parameters to hit - if she is into you/ finds you attractive. The disagreement is that it’s not the mic drop you think it is since that just …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:55 AM
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If you have to “work on yourself” on an aspect on life that people from the age of 13, just to “raise your chances” (aka a possibility without absolute certainty) then there is probably some level of difficulty at hand. I do understand the concept of what you are saying (and to some extent I do agree with it). I just can’t logic how it is easy then you proceed to claim you should work on yourself if you lack dates (things like socialising, better job, gym, genera engagement to life, etc requires…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:44 AM
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Answer the question? I’m not even against what you are saying but I’m adding clarity to the first point you made. Idk why I have to ask a question in order to respond or else I get strawmanned lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:36 AM
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The bar is hell for people they find (or is) attractive. The people who are complaining about the standards are high are not the same people women are saying the bar is low for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:27 AM
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You went from “it is that easy” to “if it’s not in your cards, just accept your fate”, that’s the contradiction. Unless you are of the belief that those with a bad hand should just take the L in grace, trying to pursue would be an uphill battle which logically means it will be a difficult endeavour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:23 AM
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Tbf I said irl but fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:12 PM
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I either see; liberal woman x conservative man (reminds me of that one millennial couple meme) conservative woman x centre-right man (the woman is more politically to the right). I can’t think of any irl couple (not situation-ship) whereby it’s the reverse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:52 PM
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This is strangely 1:1 to my experience wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:23 AM
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Half the people listed I do not think have self claimed themselves; at most maybe by emission (Goggins come to mind).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:06 AM
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That’s not how being offended works, just because you don’t find it offensive doesn’t mean others won’t. Idc about being called regarded but my brother HATES it for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:48 PM
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Oh I didn’t mean take down, moreso intervention. As you said, some are wayy too big at this point let alone in a decade or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:28 PM
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Ya that’s why it’s debatable but I think it will get to a point that big business will have to compromise with daddy Government since the system relies on a growing population.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:06 PM
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My tinfoil hat prediction that within 10-20years, government will slowly encourage incentives to partake in dating as more people are checking out which is bad as typically, the more people who partake, the better. This will be either done positively (less working hours, more child/marriage benefits, etc) or they will start targeting the “coping mechanisms” people (mostly men) rely on to deal with loneliness like video games, porn, internet/social media, less remote working, etc to the point you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:53 AM
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I am highly functioning and voluntarily work with autistic people and I wouldn’t say women are “better” at masking. It’s just that they are way more likely to be “reserved” and shy (aka not explosive) and the social/gender expectations are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:20 PM
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From my own personal experience - agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:34 AM
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You can close the thread lmao this the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:20 AM
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This isn’t a good justification for women are wonderful/women never wrong (WAW/WNW). People complain about this because not only does it overly criticise men unfairly by removing blame to women but it also strips any agency woman have by making it seem like they are incapable of doing any wrong-doing. It is not a case in which people are arguing women are more crueler than men but moreso how this is just another form of pedestalizing and whiteknighting. A good example of this is anytime deadbedr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:51 AM
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When you say “lower your standards”, to what end? I understand if you mean it in terms of preference (I.e being picky on hair colour) but I’ll argue standards are already low at this point; anything lower would just be a liability. Like my standards are; Doesn’t smoke cigarettes In shape within reason Has a job/career (dual income) Has a compatible personality Attracted TO her (doesn’t need to be conventionally attractive, as long as I find her attractive). Like what is there you could “lower” w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:16 PM
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I thought the same thing but thought I was just being negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:14 AM
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To simplify it (can’t really type atm); the BP without the defeatism/pessimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:37 AM
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Alright 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:14 AM
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Never mind I realised I was thinking of niceguys not inceltears mb
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:06 AM
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They fantasise about this on incel tears?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:55 AM
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Yep agreed, I think the reason for a lot of these discussions is due to the social change which is more recent than people take for granted. This makes a lot to advice which may of worked 20+ years seem redundant in today’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:22 AM
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In regards to point 2 (I agree with 1), just want to clarify that the social messaging is less of something we individually thought but moreso what we was told. Throughout my life years I was pretty much told that I would make a great husband and all I needed to do was just get a good job - this was told by pretty much everyone in my life besides my brother. Despite being rather observant (and kinda knew it wasn’t true) I still hung onto that message because it was a coping mechanism to work har…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:56 PM
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This is a strawman and the tweet got 1.4k likes on twitter… how is that viral?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:45 PM
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No shit his Dad just died, is he not meant to cry? I swear y’all pick the worst examples to prove this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:57 AM
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Damn you need a hug?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:57 PM
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Post like this helps remind me why this sub was the most likely followed by a fellow FDS user because wtf is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:54 PM
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I laughed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:03 PM
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I wouldn’t see why wouldn’t it? I said it in this particular thread that I knew a guy who pretty much did this to a woman. The husband material thing probably is more frequent due to guys pursing more so this is more common but I know the woman equivalent probably exists. Maybe Madonna complex but it’s not really the same (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:12 PM
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That’s true I can confirm the soft rejection. I’ve heard “he’s too good for me, I feel like ill ruin him” or “your the type of guy girls would like to marry and I’m not ready for that yet”. It sounds great when you are on autopilot mode irl but when you take a step back and think, you really see that backed it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:34 PM
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I once knew a friend who had a girl in his rotation to which he said “she the type to wife after you get bored of dating”. The guy pretty much didn’t commit and hooked up with other girls (idk if he was giving her false hope or not) but the girl in question would be cooking and cleaning for him. Thats how I envision being called wifey/husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:20 PM
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Tbf you ain’t wrong - anyone who claims to dated beautiful people I tend to put an asterisk anyways unless I see otherwise. Obviously you are gonna claim the people you were attracted enough to date beautiful so it’s a pointless claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:29 AM
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It’s 1am here so I can’t really read rn but I’ll read this later, seems like a decent read
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:25 AM
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I mean: 1) Those aren’t bad features despite what a lot of people may think. Even baldness if you do it well is not as brutal of a drawback (I say this as someone who is bald) although mentally it is “taxing”. 2) I never said average 30 yr old guy cannot date - most can. They will just never get the same level of agency as “Chad” (which are rare in itself). Dating is only feels bad when you are in your 20s with nothing to your name when your counterpart is arguably at their peak. Bonus points if…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:33 PM
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Technically true, the people I have in mind are arguably more conservative than liberal but I don’t think that’s the case in regard to their relationships. They all seem to be with people they like unless you are talking about getting someone who absolutely completed the attraction checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:24 PM
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When I was referring to older, I had 30-40s in mind. Not dismissing what you are saying but some of these women in my life are not in the position of requiring a man for survival and had been in relationships/married. I do think what you said is reflective on the advice older men give which is just grind hard financially and it will naturally happen. Used to wonder why this advice is always the go to until I realised the old power dynamic was the perfect blueprint for that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:52 PM
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Maybe it’s because I’m in my early 20s so there is a generational gap but I feel like you insanely downplay how much women do sugarcoat their preferences; I do not know if they intentionally do this do be virtuous or they are genuinely oblivious. There is also a personal belief that a lot of the women who do this are older and therefore have more life experience in regard to this topic(?) I knew if I followed the advice older women give me irl of “just be a good man with a sustainable job” I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:33 AM
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Last two sentences are basically 90% of Lilith’s posts in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:42 PM
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Legit thought the same thing when I saw that tweet lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:00 PM
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Maybe in terms of resources and creating a better hand sure but anyone who honestly believes the “prime years” in terms of physical attraction is coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:46 PM
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Bro she posts daily and been on these rants for like 6 years. I wouldn’t be surprised if she got some ties or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:27 AM
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I don’t see how that’s meant to aid what he said though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:11 AM
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Walz is a guy depicted from a woman’s mind is the best way to put it and I think people underestimate how much people low-key hate girlboss energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:21 PM
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Ehhhh I aways got the impression that Walz tried too hard as an outsider looking in. He seemed like a good guy anytime I saw him but he is more of the type of guy a woman would want as a male representative than men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:18 PM
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Online dating I think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:37 AM
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I thought this post was more about acceptance and being validated (not the only person who gave up from his post) than a desperate cry for help. This mirrors the advice everyone says when people ask for help - get used to being single/ learn to love yourself and he is coming to terms with it. Just my interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:36 AM
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1) don’t think it relates to PUAs or grifting at all, sometimes it’s just cultural to that generation. I have family on the older side that indirectly says trp and I know they are completely clueless about what’s going on online 2) Feel like saying it doesn’t work is a reach, probably more in the middle. All the people who are going to say success stories you are gonna assume they are lying anyways so it’s a pointless remark. I for sure know some people who spin plates successfully although the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:13 PM
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May not directly subscribe to but I have heard a lot of TRP talking points before it became popular irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:55 PM
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Women who want to date but cannot because the quality of men is either bad (not in the sense of incompetence like now, just not compatible), they checked out or it’s too competitive to get the remaining ones and are encouraged to spin plates - therefore they are involuntary not dating. I am projecting admittedly but I’m pretty sure the guys eventually will either be open to try at a later point due to FOMO or learn to find genuine solace (not from hate) which just circles back to my first point.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:50 PM
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I think it will age itself out since we have no choice but to adapt. Best thing you can do is just encourage everyone to touch grass and constantly get used interactions. However what probably will happen is an eventual pendulum swing from the other end (this affecting women at large) that’s when I think it will get pretty worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:19 PM
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Pretty much, I was thinking of the quote that goes something like “luck is preparedness meets opportunity” which in this case is just the individual himself and him actually trying. I just think unlike previous generations dating has just adapted vastly and not a lot of guys/previous generation prepared for this hence why a lot are either getting filtered out or self filtering themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:05 PM
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Fair enough I just think you overvaluing parental guidance ino
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:44 PM
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I don’t really think it’s anything to do with family upbringing (I grew up with a widowed Dad of 4). I think it’s simply due to: Low self esteem + lack of female attention growing up + not making your own luck (anyone who into sport theory will understand how some “luck” can be manipulated). This is based on my own experience and from others I heard online/irl. Only way I can make a connection to your post is maybe not having a family that installed your self confidence but that’s not a gendered…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:23 PM
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Ain’t this just emotional cheating or monkey branching? I mean congrats but damn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:04 PM
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Ok I laughed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:26 PM
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Like what a pervious commenter said, the OP in question gives off “main character syndrome” and wanted either her partner to take part or at the bare minimum weaponise him for her bidding. The lack of action is a problem but I think a lot of guys have hang with women who romanticise the “superman” to the extent of always wanting confrontation so even though she tries to downplay wanting violence, let’s be honest… Btw, I think it’s less of a gender thing and more of a maturity (or never actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:30 AM
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"Gym addiction" no shit? There is a difference between being physically active and straight up being addicted man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:22 PM
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Read the name, some names you gotta assume they are baiting at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:03 PM
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Outside a year or so ago, the only time I heard about him is from other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:15 PM
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Even for this sub this is such a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:02 PM
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If you want to get laid, you are going to muster whatever you can to increase your odds and being seen as a liberal is one of the ways. You feel this way because you are putting emotions into this, the men who do this do not give care about “self-image” lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:00 PM
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Rea harem fans knows this is false because the MC would never shoot his shot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:14 AM
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Ain’t it just OLD but irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:20 PM
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I mean but why? It’s like shaking your coins to the homeless as an own to capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:59 PM
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I am so certain that is not how you manipulate stats to work. No matter how you slice it, saying “slim, childfree and young” is top 3% anywhere is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:09 PM
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Top 3% woman is slim, childless and young? Are we being serious? Wtf??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:18 PM
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It’s due to inability of getting a significant other, not about being able to handle or tame your significant other to what you want. You are talking about different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah I noticed that from my time here and online that I think some women go for fundamental character attacks (i.e claiming you objectify women, lack of showers, etc) when guys announce they don’t receive romantic attention. I don’t know if they are being genuine or if this is a way to dunk on probably the easiest target conscious-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:11 PM
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Idk man to me it’s nice to see she doing well. I gotta have my daily Lilith post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:42 PM
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Yep fully agree on this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:40 AM
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NAH can’t lie I wouldn’t say “false accusations” but you do get weird looks as a guy when you interact with kids. Ever since I started having nieces and nephews, I’ve been more playful with random kids like smiling and waving and you get death stared (especially girls). Of course this isn’t every interaction but it’s such a toss up that I rarely try and tempt fate. The only exception in my personal life are black kids and I’m 100% certain it’s because I’m African so its a “skinfolk = kinfolk” si…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:49 PM
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Sometimes idk I’m reading from this sub. “Zombie apocalypse” fam wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:06 PM
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I think ever since OLD and the internet, it completely humbled men and made it pretty obvious what the reality is. Only guys I personally know who overrate their looks are older adults who think they can put on the jersey and score like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:02 PM
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Ugly people are treated more harshly for the same antics as the better looking counter parts, that’s what pretty privilege is. Some men would be considered creepy for doing something outlandish while others would be deemed “bold” “confident with himself”. I do think that outside of high school / uni age, women (like 80%) will give face if you ask them out as long as you didn’t act socially indept. Some women are ruthless though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:56 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:19 PM
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Yeah idk I’ve been here for close to a month I ain’t seen this - you just be seeing new posts or sorting by controversial. Most I’ve seen currently was that one weird guy and the abortion post ~4 days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:00 AM
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Literally must of sent like 5 messages in this sub in total what are you on about?? And what guys are you talking about in regard to this? (and in mass, don’t just give me one guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:57 AM
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You all victimise? All I did was ask you because it seemed like you were talking from experience (unfortunately your goal was just to derail with an exaggerated point). You are also talking to the wrong person about disabilities that can’t be “changed” since childhood. That doesn’t mean I am automatically more entitled to complain than the majority of people nor that they can’t complain. THAT is a weak mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:55 AM
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So what was the point of this comparison? It’s not even remotely comparable to what he was talking about lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:39 AM
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Did this happen to you or?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:32 AM
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I think you forgot to add the /s or something. It’s a thing people do on Reddit since no one understands sarcasm through text.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:13 PM
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“Valid” idk about that one. As for your original point, what is there to discuss? It’s pretty much common sense to the point I’m surprised it needs to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:07 PM
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That’s not proof? You sent a video with <500 views, 1+ year ago listing why 87% of men, in general not relating to RP, are lonely and single. Anyone here could literally do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:51 PM
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Just sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:49 PM
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Do you really think boys do not get pushed for good grades? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:42 PM
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Tbf you are pretty known (pfp and flair) and no one really wants to go into your comment history to look for it; it’s not like people be keeping an archive of what each individual mod is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:07 PM
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I don’t get the difference between the two outside rejection sounds more brutal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:04 AM
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Oh I thought he mentioned it in one of this replies that’s mb if that wasn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:36 PM
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Yeah but the women in question asked him, it’s not like he randomly brought it up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:27 AM
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Not disagreeing with your post but define “struggling” - are we talking about lack of looks or social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:42 PM
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I’m from the UK fam, we fat for sure but I don’t be seeing people shirtless like that. Then again I tend to avoid all naked fat content so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:44 PM
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I mean yeah due to deception, I doubt they would be angry if the woman was upfront about it (probably because they would never take the woman seriously I guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:30 AM
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Just typed it, wow I guess. Feel kinda bad for your friend because she got put in a shitty spot between sucking it up or telling him how she feels when something like this I feel like the guy should have enough self awareness to see it being problematic. Like lifting it up and putting it on her back feels disrespectful to both parties and I’m not involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:49 PM
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Wow i didn’t think being that fat was possible lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:22 AM
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