GDACK Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
65	My own experience	Feminism	GDACK	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 04:48 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	mens rights to wear skirts I often wear skirts and dresses. I even wear hot pants and daisy dukes but people complain about my balls hanging out. People are so judgy	/r/MensRights	30/12/24 01:36 AM
2	Common Law Marriage - How Gender Roles Are Legislated Upon Men By The Feminist Movement. As a man, it is an exceptionally foolish thing to do, to live with a female full-time, let alone actually get married. Perhaps if the laws change to become fairer, that might change but as things are now: the risk of being fleeced by a female is so high, you’d have to be either a complete simp or hate having money to even entertain entering into a common law marriage situation. These laws are very old in origin (back to a time when the poor in England couldn’t afford weddings) but they’re being …	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 09:17 PM
8	Common Law Marriage - How Gender Roles Are Legislated Upon Men By The Feminist Movement. Well said.	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 09:09 PM
2	As a man, how do I get get my spouse to listen about my troubled past? I was really lucky in that I got a really good trauma specialist on the third try. The first one asked me to recount what had happened to me and then responded to everything with: “…and how did that make you feel?” 🤦‍♂️ I would have thought it was painfully obvious how being shot made me feel and eventually I ran out of patience with him. The second one tried to bait me to get a reaction. I reacted and he wasn’t prepared for it. Hannah - my trauma specialist - knew right off the bat that what I …	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 11:16 PM
15	As a man, how do I get get my spouse to listen about my troubled past? Therapists aren’t like dentists; in that with dentists, unless you get a really bad one, most of them can at least pull a tooth or do a filling. Therapists vary wildly in their abilities but there is the added problem of whether or not you and the therapist get along. There’s no point going to a therapist that you don’t feel comfortable with because progress will be slow to non existent. As someone who went through PTSD and CPTSD counselling (2 years, intensive)let me tell you that getting couns…	/r/MensRights	23/12/24 02:39 AM
3	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? I never said they were good arguments or that I agree with them. But people often put forward arguments that they feel make sense to them. The prime one is “marrying for love” when it has nothing to do with love. You can love someone without risking all of what you’ve worked for.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 05:18 PM
61	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? There are many arguments for and against marriage, but there is really only one that matters: Due to the laws surrounding marriage and division of assets, marriage - for men - is a gamble where the odds of not losing most of what you’ve worked for are at least 80 to 1. I’ve seen far too many marriages end simply because the female decides she is bored or just doesn’t love her husband anymore. Getting bored of a car or a house is one thing - you can change those without wrecking lives - but divor…	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 02:50 AM
3	Finally, a step in the right direction. UK Government announces new strategy focused on men's health and suicide prevention is on the way. I’ll believe it when I see it.	/r/MensRights	01/12/24 06:48 PM
3	how can i support my man better? I like some of the answers here, but they have all missed the absolute most important thing …persuade the kids not to leave legos next to yours and your husbands bed. Believe me, sparing him the shear agony of stepping on legos will make him grateful for life!	/r/MensRights	20/11/24 06:40 PM
3	My own experience Same here. Ofc I know it’s not all females but manipulation, instability and emotional abuse just seems to come as second nature to far too many of them. I became close friends with a female quite recently and it took me weeks to realise she was turning on me every time something even slightly annoyed her (not even anything I’d done). She analysed every word I said, making me feel like I was treading on egg shells. Here’s me, a single dad with two careers and a lot of voluntary work, I’m also de…	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 12:18 AM
5	My own experience I have no idea why you’re talking about Thailand, prostitutes or “renting pussy”…. I have never treated any woman as a sex object and certainly would never consider “renting pussy”. I find men who see females as sex objects as part of the problem, not the solution. What you have to understand is that being celibate to me is very important. I really don’t care what other men do regarding their sex lives; I chose to not have a sex life at all, a long time ago. So any point you’re trying to make - …	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 08:40 PM
4	My own experience Of course you don’t agree with me describing someone else’s bad behaviour if they happen to be female. 🙄	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 08:14 PM
5	My own experience Not “all men” and not “all females”. Try not to be quite so thirsty. Conflating my description of specific bad behaviour with your imagined affect on my daughter: very manipulative and more than a little dishonest. Grow up.	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 08:11 PM
5	My own experience Thank you, my daughter is very happy, healthy, clever, funny, sweet, kind and strong. I am very, very proud of her. That she came this far and has grown up into such a wonderful young lady despite having only one parent is a testament to her amazing spirit. She’s doing very well at school too, which I am both very happy and more than a little relieved about. My comments about “a generation of brats” was to say: the culmination of generations of going down this ridiculous path. Over the years I’v…	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 08:03 PM
2	My own experience yawn	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 07:45 PM
3	most psychopathic comment section on TikTok We have bred a generation of extremely entitled, extremely damaged, spiteful and mentally ill brats. Largely by putting them on a pedestal and allowing them to play victim despite it being men who have almost always paid the ultimate price just because we’re men. I chose celibacy from the age of 19, following the death of my girlfriend and although the reasons for my choosing celibacy were mostly to do with grief at the time, over the many years since, I have - on an almost daily basis - been gl…	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 10:34 PM
6	Wow, just wow. They literally say that you must delete all of your messages in this sub before they will consider unbanning you…. That is some extremely unhealthy behaviour right there 🤬	/r/MensRights	03/10/24 12:18 PM
10	How to stop male infant circumcision or advocate against male infant circumcision? There is a sub dedicated to fighting male genital mutilation. I think it’s called intactivism or something. Search Reddit for circumcision subs and you’ll find it. There are a lot of activists on there and none of the “well it happens to females too” crowd. Good luck and well done for taking up the challenge to fight this abhorrent practice!	/r/MensRights	01/10/24 01:42 PM