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CMVGDP1195/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:48 PM
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It’s not impossible. Striking up conversations in public feels natural sometimes and it’s how humans are hardwired to meet. Don’t feel like you have to limit yourself because “cold approaches don’t work”. If there’s a girl who’s a stranger who you think is cute and you want to approach, talk to her. Just don’t be a creep about it and think you have to get her number. Believe in yourself. If you’re not super creepy about it then the worst that happens is that she’s flattered a guy talked to her.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/22 09:16 PM
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Alexander Grace wants you to think he’s not a redpiller/misogynist and that he’s just a curious guy who’s “asking questions”, but he spreads the same nonsense that red pillers spread, just in a more insidious manner. He shills the concepts of Hypergamy and the dating game being a competition of alphas vs. betas, and says women are overly emotional, women don’t have control over their impulses, etc. His “interviews” are exclusively of 18-20 year old girls who don’t know anything about relationshi…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 06:45 PM
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Well, duh. If you're not starting a family there's no reason to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't find you attractive. But if starting a family is your biggest priority then the most important thing you would look for is who'd be a good mother/father to your children. There's no reason to start a family with someone hot if they're a bum and don't make an effort to support the family. So in that case where a woman or man is looking to find a suitable partner to settle down with it mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 07:30 PM
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It sounds like this red pill stuff works for you which is fine. But it wouldn't work for all men. Some women are more attracted to beta qualities than alpha ones. Just like some men are more attracted to a kind/motherly woman than a mysterious, sexy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 07:19 PM
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I'm not saying all relationships have to be like that, just don't judge them all through the same lens. Just because someone waits to have sex with someone doesn't mean they find them undesirable. In fact some of the girls I found most attractive I waited to have sex with, because we had a deep connection and I wanted to build intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 07:04 PM
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So it's essentially about what you want. YOU want to be desired for fuckability. But there are women who prioritize things like what I mentioned above over that. People are different and you can't judge them all by the same cover. Basically I was just proving that just because some women wait to have sex doesn't mean they find the man unattractive, they are waiting to get to know him before becoming intimate with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:53 PM
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This is retarded. There's more to relationships than fucking. Women are different. Women looking for marraige/long term relationships will often prioritize other things (providership, personality, kindness) over fuckability. Relationships are about accepting someone's flaws for the good things they provide you. But red pillers will never understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:47 AM
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Just because a small minority of men on the internet espouses this does not make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 09:57 PM
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I get what you're saying. Sometimes it's really hard to bring those walls you've built up back down. But those walls will make you just as miserable. Think of it this way: it's okay to keep the front door unlocked, but now you have your past experiences as a burglar alarm. It's not foolproof but at least you have a chance at getting the sweet apple pie that way. But if you just keep the doors locked and never let anyone in, you'll nee even have the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 06:24 PM
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No there's nothing wrong with improving your life but there's a difference between improving your life and teaching people they all have to act this specific way or a woman will never love them. Some people, it might fall in line with their natural personality so that's fine but others not so much. As an introvert, just going to a party and staying the whole way through is a struggle for me. It's much easier for me (and many others) to make a connection through shared interests rather than a fak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 06:01 PM
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Well trying to me shows that you are passionate about something. If I meet a woman whose face I want to make out with, I will try as hard I can to do that. Whether I succeed or not depends on how well I applied myself. Cockiness is not attractive to all people. Some guys like cocky girls and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 08:31 PM
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I may have been a little harsh with my word choice so I deleted that comment. But my point still stands: TRP is shit advice. It says introverts don't have a chance. You can be an introvert, enjoy plenty of solitary things and still get with a girl. It might be easier for an extrovert to meet more women, but introverts can meet similar women just as handily, they just have to try a bit harder to meet them. I explained all this in one of the other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:49 PM
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Like I said in the comment directly above yours, those solitary hobbies can be exploited for the purpose of meeting women with similar interests, and there are many introverted women. Like Reading? Join a book club. Videogaming? Join a local videogaming league or join your schools videogame club, Like birdwatching? Join a birdwatching society. etc. If the women there aren't your fancy then try a new hobby to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:07 PM
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Forming relationships does involve, alas, going out and interacting with others. What I was saying above is that a lot of girls prefer quiet alone time rather than large social gatherings. But even they realize they have to go interact with guys if they want to meet one. There's no difference. Not all women will be attracted to the same type of man. Implying you can meet those women by reading or playing videogames. Come on, haven't you ever heard of a book club? Library? Bookstore? Gamestop? Vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:00 PM
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You must be fucking loony tunes man. PUA hate was not some feminist white knight site. It was guys who thought they couldn't get women no matter what so they hated on both women and those who gave dating advice. Elliot Rodger did not have an idealistic view of women. If anything he thought the majority of them (99.999999999999%) were sluts. He hated women because he thought they were all sluts and he wasn't "alpha" enough to have one, that's why he went on a killing spree. "I will be the true al…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 02:06 PM
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There's lots of girl introverts. Lots of girls who enjoy video games (i know it's mostly a guy thing but I know some girls who do play). Lots of girls enjoy reading. Lots of girls enjoy making music, writing, and blogging, and hell some girls enjoy reddit! :0 Do you really think a girl who enjoys reading and playing video games will want to be with someone who spends all of his time hiking? Didn't think so. Assuming that you need to be some boring douche to get women is a detriment to yourself a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 01:28 PM
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That's just bulllshit rationalization that they use. To me they will need to get rid of any pill ideology before the truly let go of their pedestalization of women. Cuz in a way they are still pedestalizing women, it's only the sex that is now idealized. And the problem is that it doesn't work, in the long run. Unless you are Donald Trump rich or powerful you won't be able to act like an arrogant dickhead and get away with it. Women are initially attracted to men who are assertive (according to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 01:07 PM
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With the red pill, you still have a pedestal. Except now, your pedestal is sex you get from the woman instead of the woman as a person. In a lot of ways, this is worse than having the woman herself on a pedestal. Not only is it dehumanizing to the woman, but the love and companionship that you craved in pre-redpill relationships is not there anymore ecause you are not allowing yourself to feel it. The relationship becomes a cold, lustful exchange of sexual desire instead of a bright moment of af…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:49 PM
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There's not a problem with a lot of what they espouse on the red pill. Work out. Great advice. Get hobbies. Great advice. Stop bending over in all directions to please shitty women. Great fucking advice. In today's climate a woman cannot love you. Err... horrible advice.. You need to be on your toes 24/7 keeping frame and looking out for shit tests or your woman will leave you... WTF? And the comment section... dear lord. Some advice on red pill is very good, but the shitty advice outweighs the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:40 PM
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Bows thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:31 PM
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You're acting like sex drive is considered a bad thing. It isn't. Everyone, men and women, transexuals, genderfluid omniqueer trisexual otherkin etc desires sex. It is a fundamental part of being human. People who shame you for wanting it are shit people. I do agree that feminism has gone too far nowadays with shaming men for looking at women, manspreading etc but I do believe that those feminists are a minority and not much of a problem away from college campuses. Most women desire sex in the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:28 PM
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Or more precise: what you people deem to be misogynistic. People who are saying women are morally and intellectually inferior to them are misogynists. It's all very well rationalized (think rationalization hamster) but misogynistic nonetheless. I'm not saying you personally are a misogynist but the theory that you are ascribing to is. What is that? Sorry, solipsism, duhhhh. Red pillers believe women are solipsistic by nature. Because they are women. Edit: Solipsism is basically the act of being …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:14 PM
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When you say "get women" do you mean get all women? Do all women want men who are fake and only do things to fit in and at the same time have no personality of their own because they are desperately trying to get into the pants of any woman that will let them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 11:40 AM
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The countless posts on your sub of a misogynistic nature is what makes me think you hate women/think women are inferior. Also the fact that your theory explicit says women live in some sort of solicism-induced trance are incapable of higher thought and the ability to love. That is nonsense and not based on any credible science, just like racists who justify their racism with pseudoscience and call themselves "realists". You're two sides of the same coin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 11:32 AM
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I'm tired guys, will respond more tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 11:14 PM
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Scenario: Two equally physically attractive guys approach a woman First guy hits on her Second guys makes polite conversation Who will she find initially more attractive? Hm... I get where you're coming from. But there's so much more to attraction than how much they found you attractive upon meeting you. A lot of times the guy who initially comes off as more attractive turns out to be a dbag and therefore the woman loses interest and the guy who was nice and friendly turns out to be the one she …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 08:15 PM
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There is an element of truth to that. Being assertive is definitely an attractive quality. But not being assertive in a way that victimizes others. I don't know why redpillers think they can't be nice and assertive at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 07:33 PM
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Being an idealist is not the same as being anti-pill or anti red pill. Anyone who doesn't spend hours on reddit every day will understand this. Reality will give you tons of ups and downs but hiding in your bitterness won't solve anything. Many men and women don't get each other but many do. It's not as black and white as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 07:16 PM
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So every man who has had successful relationships with women and other people is a liberal, left feminist? I hate feminists (at least the ones around today) and I also hate TRP. Why do you think that there can't be any moderates and that anyone who disagrees with you is some leftist idealist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:37 PM
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What is the way you "have been"? How was that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:12 PM
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here a promise that it magically will work out. How exactly does that finding someone who is right work? >Randomly? It's futile for me to try to argue with you. You know that sounds ridiculous. Think of all the men that aren't bitter towards women that are able to have fulfilling, successful relationships with them. Not all of them are "Alpha Chad". You can be successful in both life and women without being bitter towards them. But first you need to stop going on the red pill because it's shit a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 05:55 PM
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There's nothing wrong with trying to pursue more fulfilling hobbies. Playing dota and watching star trek isn't really the most fulfilling hobby (for most people). But if they made you happy, then feel free to dive back in! Don't feel like you have to be ashamed of them, but do try to do other things as well. Basically, you must have been a happy person at some point before you felt like you had to be a certain way to get women. What the red pill tells you is "you weren't alpha enough, that's why…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 05:41 PM
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What you see as the "blue pill" is very different from how redpillers see it. They view blue pillers as basically the opposite of what they are trying to be. Basically timid guys who will do anything to please women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 04:58 PM
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Sure, being emotional can help you with many things, and fuels your ambition. But according to the red pill you need to be outwardly alpha towards women in order to be successful with them. And in real life this is not the case. And that really is what the red pill and most pill theory is about. If you are one way you will get women, if you are another way you won't. And I think that's bullshit. There's nothing wrong with being emotional or unemotional, but if you are trying to put on an act sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 04:24 PM
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Oh shoot I forgot to say why blue pill is bad too! Blue pill is essentially the opposite of red pill, that being overly emotional with women is the way to go. This is equally as ridiculous. If you're being super "beta" to get with women then that's just as bad as being "alpha". Again the problem is that you believe in a pill theory! It's all equally dumb and ridiculous. People are all different. I've seen both super emotional, timid "beta" guys and masculine, ripped "alpha" guys have really fulf…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:59 PM
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