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| – | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedyea but 99% of females dont meet their boyfriends through clubs, and bars, nor do they meet them through cold aproach. they didnt do this 100yrs ago either, so my point is that, overall, they;ve lost nothing by refusing cold aproaches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:44 PM |
| 5 | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedl dont think they did. 100yrs ago, men who aproached random female were low value guys. men who aproach females today, are also low value guys, so if theyre asking not to be aproached, that only filters out the low value men. all the high value men arent going to be aproaching random females. females have always wanted to guys with a solid reputation, not some random dude off the street. even in high school, who did they want? the athletes. someone with a proven track record, the opposite of a r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Women should approach moreaproaching goes against human nature. no one has done this in most of human history, for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 01:46 PM |
| -1 | Confidence vs Lookneither confidence nor looks is important. whats important is that youre likable. being likable will get you into social circles which is the #1 way to get you dates. this is why u see guys who are neither good looking, nor confident but dating all the time | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 05:19 AM |
| – | If I could guarantee you that 1 out of every 40 guys you approach is your ideal man, would you start cold approaching? Why or why not?nearly all of our ancestors mated with people who were extremely close to us. so if you go back far enough, we only mated within our own tribes, and we woulda grown up with these people. then further down the line, they did arranged marriage, which is a slight departure from mating within your tribe only, but nonetheless, it;s still almost the exact opposite of a cold aproach, because usually with arranged marriage, your families would have to know the wifes family thoroughly before the marriage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 05:00 AM |
| 2 | If I could guarantee you that 1 out of every 40 guys you approach is your ideal man, would you start cold approaching? Why or why not?cold aproach is only done by the most desperate guys with no other choices. even when it comes to females, l think they;ll do it, if ur a known athlete. lts not natural to cold aproach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?lf l had a dollar each time someone online lied about meeting a partner through cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?tons of guys with bad personalities are popular, however, 0 guys who cold approach are popular fact of the matter is, most, if not all guys who cold approach were unpopular in school, and unliked by their peers. lf they were liked, they would get invited to parties, and therefore wouldnt have to stand in a mall for 4hrs cold aproaching attractive females. l call cap on introverted men cold aproaching. lf introverted men (with likable personalities) are not even aproaching people they know, why w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?bad personality, as in unlikable personality, personalities that arent popular to the masses. u dont have to put yourself out there to be shunned. u can be shunned by your classmates, coworkers, neighbors, church. alot of the shunning begins early in life, so youre not actually putting yourself out there, rather just doing what your parents tell you. most pua, and guys who cold aproached werent living popular lives as children and then suddenly became shunned when they turned 18. l;m willing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?guys who cold approach were shunned throughout their lives. they dont shun socialization. theyre shunned cause they have bad personalities. and they dont benefit. socialization is great. going up to random strangers and trying to start a conversation is not being social. thats anti social behavior, and not welcomed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?a normal guy surrounds himself with people who bring out positive energy in him. a pick up artist sees a cute chick at chickfila, goes back the next day and stands in front of chickfila for several hours, and tries to pull conversations out of thin air from females who treat him like a pest. said pua then tries to legitimize his actions by saying, "shes just shy. she;ll come around" repeat and rinse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?gaining social skills through cold approach (getting rejected, and despised) is like learning how to swim in a bath tub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?the only guys who think that cold approach was ever socially acceptable are disconnected from reality. they tend to say things like cold approach used to be acceptable, or social media ruined socializing, but actually, l see people list parties or get togethers all the time on snapchat stories. pulling up to a party like that woulda required word of mouth back in the 80s, whereas now, it has a wider reach. there are people who l talk to once and add on snapchat. so he puts up a party on his stor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?i;d say it;s more relevant today than it was in the past. l dont even remember it being a thing back in the 90s. back then if you saw a female you liked, you would ask her friend for an introduction. going back even further, if you cold aproached a female, you would be labeled as "fresh", similar to how you;re labeled as a creep today. the big diference is, these days, there is alot more mental illness, and mentally ill guys just go straight up to females, no context or anything, and just babble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so?l never heard of any men who even got a call back from cold approach, let alone lay | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is Approaching even worth it in this day and age anymore?l believe that. u making men laugh too | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Is Approaching even worth it in this day and age anymore?sounds like a great way to meet females. don;t sound like u getting any follow ups though | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Is Approaching even worth it in this day and age anymore?by further, u mean a fake number? | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 06:26 AM |
| 0 | Is Approaching even worth it in this day and age anymore?was it ever worth it at any stage in human history? u acting as if aproaching random females was ever acceptable in the past. u think it woulda been any easier 100yrs ago? | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Why is there so much contradictory advice for single men?men who socialize for the purpose of having sex and romantic success never achieve either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is there so much contradictory advice for single men?friends and family is how a good chunk of men actually meet their girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is there so much contradictory advice for single men?our grandfathers didnt really need to meet nice females. they had arranged marriages, but even then, the quality of females you got, depends on how your family carried themselves. lf they were respectable, your family would have more choices. today you rely your on your own merit, in the past, you relied on your family;s merit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is there so much contradictory advice for single men?alot of salesmen, or hari krishnas start with hello, but you kind of know where that is going, and most people don;t want to hear it, just like most people don;t want to hear from pick up artists as a matter of fact, hari krishnas use that very line. "l like your style". whether youre dealing with a pua, hari krishna, or salesman, you quickly know what their motive is for talking to you, and find a way out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is there so much contradictory advice for single men?lve never met a likable man who cold approaches. lt;s usually guys who are pariahs who do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Why is there so much contradictory advice for single men?what you need to be looking is not cold aproaching, but why are females (WHO KNOW YOU) not interested in you. as men, without having to cold approach, we probably meet hundreds of females in our lives, from cashiers, to tour guides. just school alone allows you to meet hundreds. so the question ought to be, why is it that no one took interest. and i;ll tell u 99% of the time, it;s a personality problem. so if you as a pick up artist have a personality problem, then how does cold approaching rand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Why is there so much contradictory advice for single men?here;s why alot of guys online are telling you to aproach random females in cafes, it;s cause they don;t have to deal with the rejection, or hostility associated with the approach. just like l can tell you to go take steroids, and get diesel. lt's cause l don;t have to deal with the side effects. also, notice the guys who tell you to cold approach are always online. lt;s rarely people irl who tell you to do that. l talk to alot of REAL people, not online "personas", and no one ever said they met… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:16 PM |
| 1 | The Time Has Comecan you blame the females for turning u down? | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 03:07 PM |
| – | Men have no options.lm pretty sure that even if we put you back the the 90s, you;d still be lonley. l put $100 on it being your personality rather than dating sites. you have to ask, why you aren;t on that rotation, and what made those guys be on the rotation menu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:35 PM |
| – | Men have no options.low value men have no options because their behavior usually scares people away. either that or they just bring nothing to the table. normal men have options. op has no social circle. don;t know anything about you, but based on how op wrote, l assume he has no social circle, and doesnt talk like someone who does. and also his limit to 3 options is because of his personality once again. l;ve listened to enough losers to spot some of the patterns. my landlord had set me up on a bunch of blind date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:17 PM |
| – | Men have no options.talking to people on a bus is not the same as stopping someone on a street and saying "l saw you from over there, and had to come meet you", which is what most guys who can;t get dates are doing. also, tryin to talk to someone on a bus isn;t necesarily going to lead to anything. lf you think someone on a bus is going to say, wow, l just met this cool guy on the bus, let me date him, then perhaps you need to find a therapist. lt doesnt take a genius to figure out that isnt the way people meet the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:14 PM |
| – | Men have no options.when you tell someone to go to church, and he says hes an atheist, then it just shows his autistic nature of unable to figure out that means just find a community. that kind of autism and inability to understand things being said is one of the many reasons why they;re isoalted. with that mindset and attitude, it;s likely that theyre excluded from all kinds of social groupings. l remember talking to a pick up artist one time, and l said something like, if no one at work, school, or church likes y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:10 PM |
| – | Men have no options.dating was never a thing throughout most of human history. it was mostly arranged marriages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:33 PM |
| – | Men have no options.they are, but females have to be selective. that;s why social circles help to facilitate that selection. lf a guy has no social circles it means that his personality is not likable, has red flags, and is simply unable to maintain social relationships. men who cold approach, or want to use tactics usually have no social circles. going the social circle route actually filters out alot of the wierdos, and automatically filters out the bottom 5% of men. this is why females never go for random guys o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:30 PM |
| – | Men have no options.he is aproaching when the female has shown no signs of interest. ie he probably sees a cute female and says, hey look a cute female. "l don't care whether she;s interested or not. l'm going to shoot my shot. the worst she can say is no. let me be pushy, agresive, and desperate. that way she;ll see that as confidence" he is also probably mistaking friendliness for attraction. some people just want to be nice, but he mistakenly thinks they like him, and then proceeds to show romantic interest, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:26 PM |
| – | Men have no options.warm approach isnt an option for him. he has no social circle, and his peers already shunned him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:22 PM |
| – | Men have no options.obviously someone who hasnt done much cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:20 PM |
| – | Men have no options.sounds like the blind leading the blind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:18 PM |
| – | Men have no options.lf ur getting rejected, it just means ur no good at reading people, which is probably why youre not dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:16 PM |
| – | Men have no options.only for low value men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:15 PM |
| – | Men have no options.thats actually bad advice. men who struggle with people usually have low self esteem in the first place. when you go up to random people trying to start conversations, you;re going to get shut down most of the time. people dont like talking to strangers. lt;s just not normal. that shut down is going to lead to further mental health issues for the individual. when you become even more mentally ill, that puts you in an even worse off situation all around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:14 PM |
| – | Men have no options.alot of the guys who struggle with this usually have personality problems. so they act in wierd ways so their peers usually shun them. because of this, it forces them to go on the street and just go up to random strangers and try to pull conversations out of thin air and then ask them out in 5 minutes. alot of it is closely related to desperation too. because they have a bad personality, they are shunned long term. by being shunned it causes desperation, and when you approach strangers with desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:11 PM |
| – | Men have no options.lt;s natural selection. this ensures that the low value men are weeded out. l always noticed that the guys who say that "warm approach risks ruining a friendship", usually have no friends, or social groups to begin with lf you;re a normal guy, you shouldn;t need methods. using methods are usually for guys who aren;t going to attract females anyway lf you come from a decent family, that will get you into the right social habits, which paves the way for natural ways to meet females without having … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant?men who cold approach are desperate and have no standards anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 03:38 PM |
| -1 | For the guys who don’t want to cold approachu mean going from nothing to nothing | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach for everyone? Or is dealing with rejection actually bad for some people?the vast majority of guys l know who cold aproach are mentally ill. they have depresion, bpd, adhd, autism, come from broken homes, abused as a child, etc. and the thing is, if you were mentally healthy, why would u need to cold aproach right? you would just meet people the old fashioned way | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?well the deportation obama did was huge compared to what clinton, bush, and regan did. obama alone deported 400k people in a year. so my point is, if democracies want to do something, they don;t need to go through any process, and can deport whoever they want in a short period of time. do you think that china has deported 400k people in a year? saudi arabia? or others you accuse of being dictators, such as erdogan, putin, lukashenko, duterte, asad, maduro, castro? also during that same 30yr peri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?topic is mating, and people were better off back then, than they are now, and are polar opposites both economically, and reproductively. the only similarities between mao;s china, and today;s china is that america is against it, other than that, there aren;t many other similarities. look at mao;s allies, albania. today;s china are just a mixed bag of countries including saudi arabia, yemen, russia, pakistan, none of whom were really allied with china, except maybe pakistan, but that came later a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?democracy DOES actually allow fast turns in policies for solutions, depending on what their goal is. lf you look at the deportations in america, and europe, that happened relatively quickly and sharply like never seen before. even the trade war right now is taking some sharp turns. even the population control, under democracy has essentially reached its goals. and if you study the american population trends you can see there was a sharp rise in fertility shortly after the ww2, undoubtedly social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?in 20yrs, europeans are going to be migrating to africa. the decisions already been made to build africa up to a middle class society. europe is currently riding on the coat tails of america which is going to end within 10yrs. with no natural resources, europe will have little or nothing to offer anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?democracy isn;t the problem. americans were having 8 kids per family in the earlier part of their history (also supposedly under democracy), and now it;s under 2, still under the supposed banner of democracy at the same time, china was an "authoritarian" country in 1966, and they had 5 kids at that time, and china, by most western measurements, is still an authoritarian country, and now has a little over 1 per family. so authoritarianism doesnt really decide fertility/marriage rates. you can be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 04:19 PM |
| 0 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?odd you bring up mao considering under mao, the average family was having 5 kids. also arranged marriage was still very much the norm during that era. lt was almost unheard of for people to be single during that time. even people at the bottom of the stratosphere were paired off with other low lives at no later than 20yrs old. the conditions now would seem to be the opposite of maoism. even these days in n. korea, very few people are single without kids one of the reasons why the birth rate is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldthey are further apart, but not because females were ever friendly. back then, people used to get arranged marriages, and we were brought closer together by our parents. and females were only ever friendly to their husbands. don;t mean they were walking around the street having conversations with random men. now they have done away with arranged marriages in most countries, so that;s why we;re farther apart, but even if you cold approached a female 100yrs ago in nyc, l don;t think you would;ve g… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?l see why ur wife left u. what l don;t see is how anyone ever married u in the 1st place | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?she could just be acting in a hostile way cause she doesn;t like him. just cause he is interpreting it as a shit test, don't mean it actually is that. misinterpreting is actually common amongst autistic guys | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?sounds to me like op is misinterpreting body languages which is why when he approaches his targets, they;re showing disinterest | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?he didn't say he got a number (although many men will lie about that), he;s saying 40% of his targets are outright hostile. this however doesn't mean that the other 60% welcomed him with open arms. however, even if they were friendly, it doesn't mean they were attracted to him. most pick up artists know friendliness doesn't guarantee attraction | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:45 AM |
| 4 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldwhen were females ever warm? l don't remember there ever being a time when females responded well to cold approaches. l also don;t ever remember a time when cold aproach was ever really main stream behavior. you act like there was ever a time when men would just do this normally even generally speaking, it;s always been a very small % of females who would smile, and nod at random strangers. and even then, that never meant that she wanted to date you, or talk to you. plenty of people are just fri… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:36 AM |
| 0 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?you losing interest means that YOU were initially interested, and that;s why YOU went over to her. and you;re ONLY losing interest because she is not responsive to YOUR advance. lf she had been more accepting you would not lose interest, which places the power in HER hands, not YOURS. she's ONLY acting not responsive because SHE is uninterested in YOU. meanwhile, she NEVER went over to you, and was never interested in the first place. she;s rejecting you, not the other way around. you're just tr… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?that still sounds more like her rejecting you by responding in a way that is less than enthusiatic. then therefore you back away. l'm sure the same chic would act alot difrently in front of someone she was attracted to lf she was acting super eager to get to know you, and you back away from that, then it;s you rejecting her, but it doesn't sound like that is the case also, just because you think she is sending you signals doesn;t mean she actually is. one of the biggest mistakes pick up artists … | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?ls walking away really rejecting her? lsn;t that just giving up? how can u reject her if she didnt aproach you? and she was never trying to go out with you in the first place. lf u aproached, her and she shows no interest, it just means u misread her, and does not imply that she was ever interested in the first place. misreading people is actually quite common with pick up artists, and autistic men. that;s why guys cold aproach because they lack the ability to read body language, so they just ap… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Have You Had a Great Coach or Bootcamp Experience?l know a guy who took a boot camp in vegas. females still don;t like him now, just like before. l also know another guy who took an online course for a few thousand $, and he also has no ability to attract females. they both use alot of pua lingo, but both remain single | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How to create conversation from nothing with women (especially when cold approaches make you nervous)??that;s why most people date people they;re familiar with, then they become comfortable after a long time, usually | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 02:15 AM |
| 2 | How to stay positive in the face of modern dating culture?what are your hobbies? do u like music (concerts, festivals), art, skating (skate parks), religion (church, mosque), anime (conventions), sports (mlb, nfl, nba games)? those are good places to start | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/25 02:00 AM |
| 0 | How important is age?age must be important. think about why we;re attracted to the oposite sex in the 1st place. lt;s for reproduction. by the time we;re 25, our sperm quality already begins to drop, so by the time we;re around 40, we;re pretty much cooked. this is why most females are not attracted to bald guys. lt's not just because it looks bad, but is an indicator of old age. look at all the guys out there getting hair transplants. no one wants to look old. and if you watch videos of pick up artists, you;ll noti… | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach success storythat sounds normal. l know a guy who did over 40k approaches. got a bunch of numbers, but 0 calls back. he does his approach in the same city, and mostly commutes 1hr to bourgeois neighborhoods to approach. he is from the ghetto, and live in the projects. l know other guys with similar results, and they try really hard. they read books, and follow all the pick up rules, and stick to the script. but time and time again, theyre by themselves. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Cold approach success storyi put him in a dress and turned him into a female | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach success storyit must be a blue moon | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Seeking cold approach adviceif females like you, they will invite you to their home. no pick up artist would know what thats like though. we werent born yesterday, and most of us know popular men, and pick up artists dont dont fit that profile. it looks way to inorganic and forced. bro. most of your photos are taken outside. and the sole reason for you taking those photos is to prove you are with females, which is alot difrent than just living a lifestyle where females like you. and the fact that you gotta hide your face s… | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Seeking cold approach adviceout of all the guys who do hidden camera approaches, you never see these guys just chilling at females houses, nor do you see females just chilling at their house. the 3 biggest guys i know are sayed, eric, and kamran. none of them ever have females around them. now l know guys who are actually popular with females, and see their instagram, and stories. always got girls in them, whether its at parties, or just sitting around watching tv. even regular college students you will see females around … | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Seeking cold approach adviceyou sure cold approach is the right way fwd? theres probably a few dozen guys on tiktok who do them with hidden cameras, and you never see any of them on dates, nor do you see them hanging out with females in their leisure time. that says something. they tell you that you shouldnt be afraid to approach females but their results or lack of it, kind of speak for themselves. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?alot of the tik tok pua's seem to be working for someone else. theyre often jobless, mentally ill guys, almost like hari krishnas. l dont know if youve ever encountered those guys who try to get you to sign the marijuana petitions but theyre a similar demographic | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?yea but youre aserting that men should randomly go up to females, yet u cant name any couples who met that way | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?theres alot of guys on tiktok using hidden cameras filming themselves cold approaching. theyre almost always trying to get money for teaching men how to "confident", but all they really say is the same thing over and over like, do you like coffee. i had a crush on you for the last 10 seconds, and where did you get that smile. you may say that pua dont have a monopolgy on picking up strangers, but almost every guy who practices pick up on strangers sounds exactly the same. whats funny is l know a… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?im also curious as to which of your great grandparents met through randomly tapping someone on the shoulder and saying youre cute though? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?arent biblical times before 2014? or was that after? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?sounds like u have a good understanding of the pick up scene. the guys l know will set specific times like monday wed, friday from 4-5, and just approach as many students as they can, but the funny thing is, outside those hours, they approach no one, even if they see someone really cute on a tuesday, because they didnt plan it. it;s like this switch they turn on and off. another odd thing is, like u said, they have this script, and can only turn it on if it's on their terms. to be honest, if the… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Should i forget about cold approach and focus on warm approach?l dont think u can meet people by looking to do it. lve tried joining random clubs, and attend the biggest campus events, but nothing ever came out of it, whereas sometimes, i just happen to ask for directions, and that person happens to be nice, and we exchange socials | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Should i forget about cold approach and focus on warm approach?heres what college is. the first 2 weeks of college, everyone is open to make friends and talk to new people. after that they form their cliques, and mostly exclusively hang out with the same people | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Should i forget about cold approach and focus on warm approach?why do u need to wait for college to warm approach? sounds like u making excuses. there were females who were sending me signals all throughout the pandemic. u can warm approach at mcdonalds. obviously u cant go there looking for females, but it can coincidentally happen if you go there to eat | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?there are pick up artists who will go to college campuses, pretend to be students, and lie about their age in order to attempt to ask females out. its just funny how the females just usually ask, how old are you, implying theyre too old to be in college | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:16 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?most men who cold approach have no social skills thats why they have to cold approach in the first place. if you had social skills, you wouldve made friends in school, and the school network carries over after graduation. guys with no social skills have no social circles and therefore HAVE to cold approach. most of them have personality problems and thats why they couldnt build social circles in the first place. the golden question is, if people shunned you at school, work, and the gym, why woul… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:14 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?actually no. alot of people actually met through arranged marriages. that was a thing for a long time | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:12 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?social networks have weakened in recent decades, thats why people have had to do cold approach only recently. nobody had to do it before because social networks were strong. even now, you look at big cities, and you have these bengali communities. their networks are still strong. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:11 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with cold approaches?l dont think cold approach was acceptable in the 80s, 90s. no one would say, wow youre cool, you just went up to a random female in a park and said she's beautiful | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:09 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with cold approaches?lve seen pick up artists tap random females on the shoulder and say "i want to practice conversation". that sounds predatory to me. you say men who want more friends should try to be more friendly, but guys who cold approach usually have no friends. havent you noticed that? the very guys who go out of their way to try to be friendly are not getting any friends | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?word up. i agree with u. most people were tribal. and when we became farmers, we pretty much knew everyone around us. arranged marriage was also very common. people also didnt even date in the past. they just went straight into marriage as teenagers. with those circumstances, you wouldnt need to cold approach anyone. even today in india, you see mostly people associating with people from their own caste. if you tried cold approaching someon in pakistan, that's considered harasment, and the whole… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?l dont ever remember cold approaching being socially acceptable. it was always the wierd guys who were doing it, especially men who set aside time to specifically cold approach. l know a bunch of guys who say, im going to cold approach on monday wed, friday from 5-6 oclock | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:02 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with cold approaches?men who are attractive to females never need to cold approach. the females who complain about not being approached are probably talking about approached by guys they see on a regular basis or that they already know indirectly, not some random pick up artist circling around a park asking "can i taste your food"? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 06:00 AM |
| -1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?if you were good with people you wouldnt need to cold approach, because everyone you come in contact with, ie cashiers, or delivery people would be drawn to you, and from there, you can build social circles. one thing you notice about pick up aritsts is that they have no social circles, and it's almost like they have no other choice but to cold approach. l dont think it's ever a first choice for anyone. still l think that asking a cashier how are you when youre buying something is very different… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:58 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with cold approaches?that becomes 100 fold in high crime cities like ny where people are already paranoid, and defensive | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:53 AM |
| 4 | What's wrong with cold approaches?thats a good comparison. if gay men came up to you and said, i saw you from over there, and thought you were cute. how would you feel? but even when gay men are talking to me, theyll know im not gay after the first minute, so they usually back off. problem with pick up artists is they dont back off. in fact, they say, a female is only shy, and you should try harder to convince her to like you | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:51 AM |
| -7 | What's wrong with cold approaches?cold approach generally involves a female who shows no interest. a man then goes up says some awkward things, and tries to seduce someone who isnt trying to be seduced. if a female is friendly toward you, ie saying hi, then it's not a cold approach. talking to females at gyms is actually great, but not cold approach | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:49 AM |
| 5 | What's wrong with cold approaches?cold approaching in a grocery store could work, but if you look at the couples you know, how many of them met that way? lve never heard of anyone who met from cold approach | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:46 AM |
| -5 | What's wrong with cold approaches?when l was growing up. i'd observe females, see who her friends are, and then ask them for an introduction. that would always work better than randomly walking up to her and say, "do you like coffee" | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:44 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with cold approaches?yea but look at the men who walk up to a female and say, i want to be bold. i like you. how many females do u ever see around those guys. i never see any around those men who are so direct. clearly thats an ineffective method. it's been tried and tested throughout the milenia. thats why 99% of men dont walk up to females saying, i saw you from over there and think youre cute | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?i have met females at parties, mutual friends, vacations, classes. my landlord has set me up on dates. it's never from tapping random females on the shoulder at a park and saying i like you. couldnt you easily ask, who has the mental compacity to go up to random females in a mall and saying "im about to go meet up with my friends, but i wanted to get your number first". cold approach is actually way more time consuming, and fruitless than networking. ive seen guys who spend like 20hrs a week doi… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:39 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?alot of incels and pua think that its either cold approach or online dating | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:32 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?most men meet females in real life, but meeting females in real life doesnt mean going up to random females on college campuses, pretending to be students, lying about your age, and asking what's your major to random students. theres millions of ways to meet females in real life without cold approach. the only guys who cold approach are guys who have no other choice. it's a last resort, which is why most guys who do it give off desprate vibes | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:31 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with cold approaches?alot of online videos are actors. ive observed real life pick up artists, and the reactions are completely difrent from the pua using hidden cameras. alot of those guys are not any different from fousey tube, or vitaly who used to fake their pranks. if you look at the online pick up artists, you never see them on any dates. they get all these numbers, yet you never see them hanging out with females. you never see them at females houses, and u never see females at their houses. why is it that the… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:24 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with cold approaches?from the mans approach, it's bad cause it gives you a bad reputation. youre seen as desprate, thirsty, creepy, etc. it's also inefficient. 100% of the men who do it get no females. you also lose your self esteem by getting rejected constantly. from the females perspective, she's also going to think youre desprate and thirsty. so why should she go for some guy whos out there begging for phone numbers, and dates? men who cold approach are practically panhandling. it's also annoying. think of those… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/24 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached for a few days. Need helpexcuse me I thought you looked nice and wanted to say hi. how awkward would that be if an avg looking female came up to you and said that. even if it was an attractive female, i'd be suspicious of her motives. and almost always they want something from you, like money | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Cold approached for a few days. Need helpl dont think women were ever receptive to being approached, whether it was in the 80s, or today, especially by a guy she doesnt know or has no mutual friends with, which is the method used by pick up artists. humans, by default are resistant to cold approach, and would be suspicious. by nature, humans are tribal and dont like to mingle with other tribes. even in india today, you see alot of people marrying only within their caste, meaning they would never even consider a random guy going up to h… | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Are there any good seduction/pickup youtube channels/podcasts ?lve watched a bunch of seduction videos, and l must say that none of them are good. all of them seem to focus on making money by making you believe you can get "any woman". most pua all sound the same and what they say all seems to be based on theory rather than practice. people just sound difrent when theyre actually approaching females vs guys who just read books. alot of pua will tell u things like "females love being approached", but anyone who has cold approached females can tell you that i… | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 03:13 PM |
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