GGProfessor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments. Ngl, if I see a woman alone at a bar I'll usually assume she's just holding the table while her man is getting her a drink or her girlfriends are in the bathroom or something like that. It's usually the case - someone will come back to join her before too long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 04:50 AM
–	I feel like women cannot understand the male experience Want to be around people who don't see them as human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 10:38 AM
–	I feel like women cannot understand the male experience Many men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 10:29 AM
10	Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him? The thing is most dating apps have way more men than women on them. Can be as much as like 20:80 women to men. Chances are the guys women are meeting and getting into long term relationships with off dating apps are not truly remarkable in any particular way (the "alpha chad" types who are getting tons of matches on these apps I suspect are largely not settling down into long term relationships off them), but for every one of them there are dozens of other guys who are struggling to get any matc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 05:12 AM
8	Switching around "Commitment" for "Sex" may allow more empathy between the sexes? I don't see gay men complaining about how hard it is to get laid. I'll leave it at that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 01:27 AM
2	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? Nope. Depending on state (California being one of them, for example), both could be considered offenders even if they are the same age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 09:23 PM
0	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? I was suspicious if some of these numbers included, for instance, two 15-year-olds fooling around with each other. In the US law varies from state to state, but at least in some I know that even in cases where two minors of similar ages are together both can be considered statutory offenders. Some have laws that reduce it from being a felony to a misdemeanor, but still a crime nonetheless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 06:52 AM
–	New research shows that psychopathic men have more kids. Is it another nail in the coffin to the idea that women will reject bad personalities? Considering a characteristic of psychopathy is poor impulse control, I may be more inclined to believe that this study says more about their poor contraceptive use than anything. A "Chad" who is with a different woman every weekend but responsibly wraps his willy is still probably going to have less kids than a psychopath who only has one long-term victim to abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:01 AM
3	“Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence” I don't think this necessarily contradicts what the above poster said. I imagine most of these guys have still received some form of external validation through some sort of competence even if from an outside perspective their lives look like a mess. I'm inclined to say less intelligent people just have a narrower and less critical perspective on things - more intelligent people are more likely to have higher expectations of where they should be in life and be more critical of themselves for fai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 08:18 AM
3	Why do you think men are more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender? Male attraction to other males seems to have been rather common and normalized in some cultures such as ancient Greece. Do you suppose same-sex attraction was just somehow genetically more common in that specific time and place, or is it possible that social and cultural influence plays a part in human sexuality? Personally, I'm more inclined to believe the latter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 08:22 PM
5	I don't want to judge but do we now have proof of girls' poor choices? Between Kim and Kanye you think Kim is the red flag?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 01:11 AM
2	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. What are you trying to say? Hydrate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:55 AM
5	If women hate men and think we're all predators, why are they in here talking to them? Attraction is not a choice. I don't choose to not be attracted to men any more than I choose to be attracted to women. It just is how it is. It's not a hard concept to grasp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 11:16 AM
1	If women hate men and think we're all predators, why are they in here talking to them? I mean being gay would make things way easier for me. I absolutely would be gay if I had the choice, so I would say that yeah, I do actually want to be gay. Unfortunately as much as I wish I could, it's just not in the cards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 11:07 AM
2	To the Guys who think Girls only want Hot Guys At a glance they almost all look the same. Tall (of the ones I checked the shortest was 5'10", most were 6' or above), white (only obviously non-white one I saw was a Chinese actor), most had a beard, all slim except for one extremely buff guy. If you want to point out some you'd say aren't conventionally attractive feel free to do so but just looking at the top posts does not paint the picture that women can find all sorts of men attractive. One specific type seems to be far and away more popul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 01:30 AM
3	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic Most people who don't have sex also have friends. Friends are just easier to get than sex for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 09:46 PM
–	romantic relationship is a privilege not a right, i think understand that would solve a lot of issues between men and women The idea that there's "someone for everyone" is still very common both in media and in popular thought. That's not exactly the same as saying that romantic love is a basic human right, but I can see how it could be thought of similarly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 01:25 PM
2	There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman If you meet one asshole, you meet an asshole. It sucks, it happens, you deal and move on. If everyone you meet is an asshole...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 07:46 PM
–	Male virginity is a common joke subject, but female promiscuity is not. In a row!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 05:20 AM
-4	What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women? Yeah but I'll bet they can't open jars or reach things off high shelves or tell you why your opinions are wrong. So there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 03:06 AM
13	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Always glad to see more men getting into therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:32 PM
5	Women do get rejected by men Idk if the average lifetime number has gone up across the board, but for young women (who lets face it is all this sub really seems to care about) the average is going down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 05:49 PM
4	Does experience from paying for sex counts? If you're looking to improve you can't necessarily trust what they say though. They're not going to say anything that could make you upset, leave a bad review, or cause you to not want to see them again. Maybe they might give you honest feedback, but you can never really be sure if they're being honest or if they're just saying what you want to hear so you'll have a good experience and see them again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 08:43 AM
2	Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode? Everyone here saying they would want to be a gay man I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 11:55 AM
7	Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode? I mean I have definitely heard that there are people who refuse to date bisexuals, often because of the idea that they're just too horny and attracted to too many other people and they'll inevitably cheat on you, but I feel like the number of people who hold those views can't make up for doubling the number of potential people you yourself are interested in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 02:03 AM
14	Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode? Bisexual woman probably. Really surprised by the lack of bisexual in the comments here. Especially when so many talk about having more options - how could you possibly have more options than by being bisexual?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:56 AM
5	We're going full circle, conservative sexual morality will become the norm again for heterosexuals Exactly. Despite having more choice and opportunity than ever it does seem like young women may be becoming more sexually conservative and abstaining from casual sex. They certainly could be sleeping around if they were more sexually liberal and so inclined, but presumably they're choosing not to: their lack of sex certainly isn't for lack of options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:06 PM
6	We're going full circle, conservative sexual morality will become the norm again for heterosexuals Idk if it's necessarily "conservatism," but it does seem like young women may be becoming less interested in casual sex. The way you tell it, women should be sleeping around with Chads while non-Chad men grow into adult virgins. The fact of the matter is, though, that while men on average are having less sex and remaining virgins into older ages, the same is true of women compared to past generations (just at a lesser rate than men). This in spite of them now having online dating to help match t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 10:30 AM
5	How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign? Everyone needs external validation. Thinking you're attractive without anyone being attracted to you is like thinking you're strong and fit when you can't even do a single push-up. Confidence without any external validation to back it up is delusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 07:24 PM
42	How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign? Actions speak louder than words. A man isn't going to believe he's handsome, charming, or desirable no matter what anyone tells him if he still can't find any women who are interested in him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 06:16 AM
3	So I see men here say women having male friends in a red flag, but also that women are unreasonably mean to single men. How are women supposed to navigate this? A lot of people say stupid things on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:20 PM
3	Getting sex isn't an accomplishment, or something to be ashamed of I hear women complain about the quality of sex from their hookups, fwbs, fuck buddies, etc. all the time. IDK why they keep going back to them but, at least from what they say, it's definitely not because the sex is great. Being good at getting sex and being good at doing it or making it pleasurable for your partner are very different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 09:44 AM
6	Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship? You are correct. I don't like being a man either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:13 AM
12	The women telling you to not approach don't care about your success I've read posts on Reddit from girls who went out with guys who approached them at the grocery store, at a book store, at the gym, at concerts, at work - anywhere, many of which are places guys are told not to approach at. If a woman is interested she won't care - anywhere is the right time and place. If she isn't interested it doesn't matter - nowhere is the right time or place. There's no way of knowing whether she's interested or not without approaching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 08:56 AM
1	Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice. I speak French to men, Italian to women, Spanish to God, and German to my horse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 03:15 AM
4	70% of all younger woman are in relationships where as only 30% of younger men are I have wondered if gay men and women are skewing the numbers a bit. I have a hunch that lesbians are more inclined to date each other whereas gay men are more inclined to stay single and hook up with each other. Though I'm skeptical the numbers of the gay population are high enough to make that significant a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 02:59 AM
6	I don't buy that romantic literature "means nothing" about people's preferences I've come under the impression that men fantasize about being James Bond far, far, far more than women fantasize about being with him. My personal theory: a lot of the fictional men women tend to spend the most time falling for have some sort of emotional vulnerability to them. They can be broody or aloof, and might have a traumatic past or some other personality flaw that explains this behavior. They have an aspect of "I can fix him." James Bond I think, at least in most depictions, is perfectl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 11:36 AM
6	I don't buy that romantic literature "means nothing" about people's preferences Those are all isekai power fantasy anime with more focus on action and fighting than romance or fanservice. Other genres of male-targeted romance/"erotic" anime may have some other insights. In the cliche harem for instance, the main character tends to be an unremarkable, ordinary dude - often a bit of a loser even. He's typically surrounded by attractive women who are all interested in him in some way or another, despite him seemingly having little to nothing to offer them. These women are typi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 11:28 AM
9	CMV: The wall is worse for men, especially incels Your description of 28 sounds a lot more like 38, or even 48...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 08:27 AM
1	CMV: Men who envy/idolise “players” are like starving people who envy gluttons As someone who fits the description to a T, I'm inclined to agree. Sex is pretty much the only thing I find fulfilling, and since I have very little of it and feel mostly ignored by women, I think very poorly of myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 08:04 AM
1	CMV: Incels just need to do coke and fuck hookers They're both addicting, but only one would be expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/16 04:48 PM
1	If you don't wanna get falsely accused of sexual assault, just don't have sex I think there's far more reason to be paranoid about seeing an escort than there is for a casual hook-up. But maybe prostitution's not illegal where you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/16 09:47 PM
3	If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testing Yes. If she says no and a guy continues, that's a sign of desperation. A true red pill man would be happy with or without sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/16 12:29 PM
2	What are some examples in movies of RP relationships? he has a mission and focuses purely on his gang of bros and his focus in life instead of the girl Except for that time he spent an entire episode trying to see tits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/16 01:43 PM
3	CMV: The demographic transition is a main factor in the destabilized relationships we see between men and women in industrialized societies Wow, I was looking for the solution but I had it all along.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/16 12:21 AM
2	If feminism is good for men, why are so many men against it? I think it's hard to talk about whether or why men support feminism when it's pretty hard to define what "feminism" is at this point. I suppose in general the idea is that "feminism is the belief that women are equal to men and should be treated as such," but there are very, very many different ideas about what that actually means and lots of arguments about how to go about it. "Feminists" are hardly all in agreement with each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/16 11:48 PM
5	Red Pillers: how are these four famous YouTubers able to have girlfriends and successful relationships? Not a Red Piller, so I'll answer with my thoughts here: They most likely used the same "skills" they have as YouTubers to win over these women. A lot of people will give famous or successful YouTubers shit for doing something "anyone can do," but as the millions of YouTube channels with less than 50 subscribers shows, it takes more than just being able to record yourself and post it online to be a successful YouTuber. All of these guys have charisma and humor going for them (you may not agree - …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/16 06:16 PM
3	Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars? Those are both rather difficult questions to answer. I find I don't usually "try" to make friends with anyone - it mostly just happens due to shared interests. And I'm not sure what "meaningful relationships" means exactly, but I would say I do, though more with my female friends than male ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/16 09:35 PM
3	Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars? This is generally what I do. The result is I have a fair number of friends (or at least acquaintances) of both sexes, but no women consider me anything more than a friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/16 09:21 PM
3	Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars? They might not forcibly kick you out, but they will see you as the sleazy guy who tried to get with one or more of the women there and failed pathetically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/16 09:14 PM
1	Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars? Hitting on people in a club or sports team gets you kicked out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/16 08:38 PM
2	Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars? Personally, I don't see a lot of people just sitting around waiting for people to talk to them in public. They're either going somewhere or waiting for something, and if they're waiting for something they're usually on their phone, listening to music, reading, or chatting with friends. Now, I am legally blind, so it is possible opportunities are abound and I just don't see it, but I can't imagine when one would actually make a "cold approach."	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/16 08:32 PM
1	What TRP men actually need is love. Please tell me, then, how much money does a man need to make before he's "worthy"? How much does he need to have saved up? How many square feet does his house need to be? How tall does he have to be? How much does he need to be able to lift? How expensive do his clothes have to be? What about hobbies? What hobbies does a man have to have and how accomplished does he need to be before he's "worthy"? And how do you even begin to measure things like charm, humor, intelligence, insight, and any sort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/16 06:10 PM
1	What percentage of red pill followers are Trumpies? Because he's a billionaire businessman with a model for a wife? That seems like what most of TRP ideology aspires to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/16 08:50 PM
2	What TRP men actually need is love. Varies from person to person. Some people love video gaming as a hobby, others find it fucking dull. Some love outdoorsy shit, others don't see the appeal. Hobbies that seem to get shit on as being "universally boring" are things like model train building and stamp collecting, though. But obviously even those still have their fans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/16 05:37 PM
2	What TRP men actually need is love. A worthless guy who's okay with himself and really cool about it and happy and lives happily will still not get laid, no matter how confident he is. The unmotivated druggies I see in dysfunctional (yet sexually active) relationships beg to differ. Confidence goes a lot longer than supposed objective "worth." What makes someone "worthy," anyway?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/16 05:34 PM
1	What TRP men actually need is love. What does it take to be worthy of love or respect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/16 05:25 PM
7	Being dominant is not the same as being an asshole And if she doesn't want to go over there?	/r/seduction	12/04/15 10:59 PM
20	Self-Improvement and Mark Manson's 'Models' Well, you're not gonna meet a girl who loves playing WoW all day if you're out rock climbing or dirt biking!	/r/seduction	08/04/15 04:54 PM
2	Getting Rid Of Your Insecurities! As someone who struggles with depression and suicidal thoughts, this article, frankly, does a better job of convincing me to give up than it does help. I don't think this would be helpful to anyone who actually needs it - it's just there to reinforce things people already think.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 10:42 PM
17	I spend 30 minutes a day reading this pdf on DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy). It's made me more confident, less of an asshole, and given me the ability to relate to women and see myself as an equal, and not as some chump. As an "injured mind," myself (depression, social anxiety, OCPD, and various other psychological issues), I appreciate something here that isn't just another reinforcement of the "Cult of Alpha" I often feel like this subreddit is.	/r/seduction	16/03/15 09:42 PM
1	You probably could've "Best night of her life"? lol you'll just annoy her for a few minutes.	/r/seduction	12/03/15 03:09 AM
1	How many of you actually fuck 4's-5's? Fat girls are all I can get.	/r/seduction	05/03/15 11:25 AM
3	How many of you actually fuck 4's-5's? Yes, it is.	/r/seduction	05/03/15 11:21 AM
7	Helpful book for us "nice guys". I'm not sure I'm so much afraid of the idea of rejection as I am of the idea that I'd be bothering, annoying, or worst of all, harassing some woman I may be interested in. Are these different ways of saying the same thing?	/r/seduction	17/02/15 07:28 AM
4	After being stood up on a date, this guy reacted in the best way possible. Well played. I'm all for having a fun night out anyway if you get stood up, but tweeting about it like that just makes it seem to me like he's even more sad than if he'd just gone home and played video games or jerked off or something.	/r/seduction	08/02/15 09:51 PM
9	What are your fun first dates? Be sure to choose an appropriately mediocre movie.	/r/seduction	04/02/15 06:55 PM
3	Why you should keep pushing, getting rejected, and feeling awkward Women love the guy they just saw get shot down by 15 other women.	/r/seduction	28/01/15 07:14 AM
4	I met a girl and her sister while visiting their city from out of town last night and we all were flirty. They want to have a "sleep over" in my room tonight. I am 99% certain they're looking for more than a "sleep over" so what's the best way to prepare/lead things off? I would consider it a red flag, personally.	/r/seduction	24/01/15 07:13 PM
2	Want more sex? It is all about logistics! Last post you'll need to read. I cannot fucking believe a post on this sub linked to a blog article that opens with Idolm@ster.	/r/seduction	24/01/15 05:02 AM
1	Sit next to that girl Chances are she is sitting alone because everyone is too afraid to sit next to her. Hahaha, yeah, hot girl sitting alone. Literally never seen this. Girls, especially hot ones, to not have to look far or hard for company.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 04:30 AM
2	Sit next to that girl According to some such and such survey, the average attractiveness for guys as rated by women is around a 4. So to score a 7.5 you must be particularly good looking.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 04:28 AM
3	Sit next to that girl You should probably just give up in that case.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 04:26 AM
0	How to make her WANT you. Lot of nice-sounding theory with no actual concrete advice. Sounds like the typical PUA horseshit.	/r/seduction	05/01/15 06:17 AM
5	How to make her WANT you. In my experience you've got it backwards: most girls do have an active (not necessarily "amazing," though) social life - plenty of friends to go out with on a regular basis and frequent attention from men. The girls who spend most of their nights home by themselves are a minority. This probably depends on things like age, employment, and education, though.	/r/seduction	05/01/15 06:11 AM
1	How to make her WANT you. ...and then walk away.	/r/seduction	05/01/15 06:06 AM
7	Holding back can be one of your most powerful tools You know what happens when you don't try? You never meet anyone.	/r/seduction	17/12/14 03:52 PM
-5	Holding back can be one of your most powerful tools If they're at the point already that they care to try harder, you've already won. They're either interested, in which case they'll try harder, or they're not, in which case they won't. This "teasing" crap is pointless.	/r/seduction	17/12/14 07:49 AM
-15	Holding back can be one of your most powerful tools They're not gonna "try harder," they're gonna go to the other guy who'll just give them what they want without playing some psychological bullshit on them.	/r/seduction	17/12/14 06:50 AM
4	Fuck Yes or No (xpost /r/how not to give a fuck) I like to think that those games should not be encouraged.	/r/seduction	16/12/14 11:02 AM
0	Fuck Yes or No (xpost /r/how not to give a fuck) Self-improvement is their handwave for everything. Nevermind all the guys who don't even need to try. And all the guys who spend years improving themselves only for it to go nowhere. They just don't like to admit to themselves that they got a lucky draw. "I earned this!"	/r/seduction	16/12/14 11:02 AM