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| 2 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Well, let's do an exercise: one interaction might be a golfball, other is an ocean, another is like feeling the breeze of the sea, another one ypu feel like you're flying too high and your wings just burned. If only you could calculate the volume of these 4 examples and add up on your Excel sheet with your relationship marketing funnel... You must also differentiate to keep trying from adding "volume". They are not the same thing, specially when dealing with people. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 03:26 PM |
| 2 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.No, with people you're talking about the subjective. Interact more, get to know people better, are concepts that don't fit well on an Excel sheet. You can't weight friendships and even relationships on a mathematic way, 'cause they are not 1 + 1, even if you met and talked to two people. It would be adding completely different entities. You can sure play the soccer game and try to score by repeatedly kicking the ball at the goal, but you'll end up with shallow relationships, even marriages, and … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Gonna agree with OP on this one (except for the volume part, please, don't cold approach every woman on the bus stop so you "maximize" your chances), though you might wanna check if there's any visual cue allowing the approach to happen and continue, and might wanna watch what you say, specially with compliments some make think are nonconsequential and anything that may make the woman feel like you're following her of something like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 02:10 PM |
| 5 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Too good Reddit is here to help you. Autists from all over the world can contribute 😉 | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 01:59 PM |
| 3 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.I meant it not as an excuse to not trying, but thinking of how this might work differently for your specific neurodiversity, if it ever affects that. Maybe looking how others that share the same struggles overcome that problem might be more productive. There are plenty of subreddits devoted to that and maybe you should post it there, maybe toning down on RP stuff (because of context) and focusing more on your daily struggles, like you just did on the replies. (Also, I didn't know if you were sel… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 01:47 PM |
| 5 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Have you thought about neurodiversities? On Reddit, we don't have context, don't know each other. Maybe it is another factor holding you down and we don't have how to point it out. Sometimes people just don't fit on the culture around them. Even here in Brazil, where it is like super easy to make these kind of neighborhood friendships and people are so open, there are some that complain and many are the cases where they find themselves bonding better with foreigners and fitting on foreign cultur… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 01:22 PM |
| 7 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Oh, yeah, totally get it how it can be exploited. I'll rephrase it on my original comment so it filters this problematic behaviour. I thought it might have been a good suggestion because it is so easy, specially for us men, to get "trapped" on only watching men talking about things, on only exposing ourselves to men's perspectives. It helps, or it should help. I grew up with my mom and we used to watch this "for women, by women" TV channel and I see it as having contributed to me being more mind… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 01:09 PM |
| 4 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Maybe it is a cultural thing where you live, maybe it is what you're saying and how you present yourself, but if for whatever reason you can't bond with people around you, how else you're gonna bond with a woman, develop a relationship with her? Your problem doesn't seem to be the cold approach per se, though. Also, there are people that find it easier to bond with people from outside where they live. The world is big, you know, and people come and go all over it. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 12:33 PM |
| 8 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.The problem is that your framing this question the wrong way. You speak of volume like women were products, marketing leads, whatever, a neoliberal approach to meeting women, which is pretty much akin to RP, so you're gonna find only them have your answer. The issue with redpill is that they prey on people that are in some kind of isolation, of feeling alone. These people feel detached from those around them, causing them to suffer. They feel like they just don't fit and RP culture just give it … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 04:06 AM |
| 11 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.You get over that by living and interacting with those around you, by getting to know people and developing meaningful relations with them, by experiencing that with friends and sharing observations. RP and other kinds of relationship coaches are bullshit, they sell you like they found the answer, but it is all pose, staged, and if it ever feels like those who follow are being successful it's 'cause group fanatism really motivates people, breaking up prior self constraints, and either they were … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 03:36 AM |
| 16 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Yes, if he's already thinking on these terms, framing women like that, no wonder he sees only RP as answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Men should avoid Women at all cost."Uhh uh, women bad, my father abandoned me, but women bad, my mum bad", it is the wrong situation to be arguing about how women treat men and OP's POV is very common among men that were abandoned by their fathers, they tend to turn on their mothers, blamint them for everything and siding with their absenthee fathers. In a few words, daddy issues. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/26 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Men should avoid Women at all cost.Parents are not perfect and at least one of them sticked together with him. Raising children is difficult and we do not always have the answer. Yes, every child has grown up dealing with some level of mistakes from their parents, be it in the manner they treat, the rules they set, or even on the examples they display. This "mom let's me be harrassed by my sister" is his POV and what I pointed out is that maybe he is not paying attention to good things his mom does for him. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/26 07:40 PM |
| -1 | Men should avoid Women at all cost.I'm sorry, but you show a very common opinion to many men that grew up with absenthee fathers. I knew you were one prior to reading you state it on your post. Your father left completely, but still it is your mother that you blame, and you transfer that to all women, and vice-versa. Give her a break, many of us would be very happy to have any parent at all. I'm sorry if it is different of you because of your neurodivergence. As a matter of fact, it is very common for men to leave when faced with… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/26 04:44 PM |
| 3 | I've read rebuttals and agree that a lot of red pill's claims are exaggerated or wrong, but I still think the sort of core idea that love is shallow and depends on your social status is trueYou misinterpret how science actually works. A theory is a framework you apply into reality so you get some knowledge out of it. It simplifies reality so it turns out inteligible and manageable, so we can aprehend something from it. Because of this, theories have a series of limitations that should be highlighted by the scientists using it (otherwise it will be pointed later by their peers). A theory serves science and nothing else, not one theory alone defines a science, no science by itself de… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/26 03:32 PM |
| 2 | I've read rebuttals and agree that a lot of red pill's claims are exaggerated or wrong, but I still think the sort of core idea that love is shallow and depends on your social status is trueYou're pointing to "white swans" (while performing an almost criminal simplification of reality) while you should be looking for "black swans" that disprove your thesis. You're always gonna find more white swans and it will lead you to nothing. The thing with redpill is that: they focus on novel cases interpreted through very questionable lenses and when they find a black swan, they distort it or try to downplay it. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/26 02:59 PM |
| 2 | How To Save BrotherHe's a teenager, and as everyone of them, he's trying to fit in and find himself in the world. Bring him along whenever you go out with friends, break his "isolation", be the cool brother, show him the world, he's gonna find it much better than that redpill masculinist crap. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/26 11:25 AM |
| 5 | How do I stop my brother from becoming an incelWell, while reading about masculinist groups I stopped to reflect why I, despite having many factors pushing me towards them, ended up developing in a complete different way (I was a nerd, introverted, unpopular, so very little interactions with girls of my age, with a misogynist family and having grown up in the 90's and the 2000's which were not particularly political - look for postpolitical zeitgeist - therefore, not so much questioning). The main reason I didn't end up incel, red pill, MGTO… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/26 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Leaving red pill behindWell, go for the red pill, the real one. Watch the Matrix trilogy and later read Jean Baudrillard's Simulacra and Simulation (just the first chapter, it is already difficult enough on its own). Basically, they talk about the real world, the world of appearances (Plato's Cave ends here) and a third more contemporary dimension called hyperreal, which are preconceived ideas with no origin or referential that kill and substitute the real world (like beauty standards not based on real human features,… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/26 02:57 AM |
| 10 | is my [20F] bf [18M] falling down the red pill pipeline?Red flags are red flags. Though he's presenting some masculinist arguments, he might not be "formally" red pilled, but unfortunately many young boys and men are adopting this ideology, and some of them might be red pills. You might want to question him about that. "Hey, honey, I've been noticing you are coming up with new ideas of how I should behave towards you and I'd like to understand that better". Problem is he seems to be avoiding questions, and that may be the bigger issue right now for y… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/26 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Can men not use all gender bathrooms?Shit, man, you're real life's Randy Marsh! Soon you're gonna be dressing as a woman to use their bathroom and start composing songs to be a pop singer: https://www.southparkstudios.com.br/en/episodes/2opbg6/south-park-the-cissy-season-18-ep-3 | /r/MensRights | 07/11/22 04:31 AM |
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