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| 2 | Field Report: Can confirm that your race and looks aren’t why you can’t find a girl. Also yes you can in fact chat up a woman with a topic as boring as office chairs.Its almost as if everyone is too afraid to be politically incorrect to admit that height and race are a factor. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 11:32 PM |
| -12 | What women expect you to do in the first date?Women are all sluts for the right man | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | There’s always a hotter girl.So you're saying women aren't shallow? | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | EVERY person here should watch the movie "Juliet, Naked"No problem man. Wish you the best | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 11:58 PM |
| 3 | EVERY person here should watch the movie "Juliet, Naked"Especially when you're married. There has to be a net loss if she cheats or loses out on you. It's why men should remain skeptical about marriage and commitment when women have options and attention spans of a fish. The game never stops after you start being in a relationship with her, it just now has a label on it. She's going to test you, try to make you jealous and seek out other better men. It's up to you what you want to do with that. | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 11:51 PM |
| 3 | EVERY person here should watch the movie "Juliet, Naked"Just have as many as options as you can. Never count on the woman to do the right thing and remain faithful. | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 11:45 PM |
| 4 | First, let me say this community is amazing I'm a little frustrated this is only for males BECAUSE it's assisted me so!Roles and what is expected of genders is a factor and trying to say a general sentiment does not help your arguement. You came on here wondering why this sub is more accommodating for men. Men are expected to initiate, carry the convo and make the moves. Women are expected to choose, accept/reject, and make it difficult in some way. Clearly, someone is seducing and the other is seduced. Now of course there is the modern dating culture of unknown rules and new territory but that's not important r… | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 05:55 PM |
| 4 | First, let me say this community is amazing I'm a little frustrated this is only for males BECAUSE it's assisted me so!It's mainly for men because men need the help more than women | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyThis is such a try hard comment to only validate female experience. They have choice and are allowed to be judges and that is vastly better than average men having to work with very little choice and trying to make something out of it. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyLook OP. Other people won't mention it but I can get why getting a girl or getting laid will feel good: it's one of the few times for men to be emotionally vulnerable and intimate without seeming weak and looking less attractive. It's also validating and feels good to have someone that likes us and to see the notifications on your phone as they text us and check in on us. I get it. Other people on the thread are going to shut you down because they want to accuse you of being a hopeless sex fiend… | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyThis is why women honestly should not give advice to men that are in a desperate position. You list things that you're concerned about ON the date, not even finding a date. This guy can't even find a date and you expect him to relate to that. Theres no actual strategy on your side, it's all about making minor changes and the man still has to make moves. Then you go off with the "Nothing is guaranteed", "just be genuine and enjoy yourself" cliche statements to give him a intangible solutions that… | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonely"Woe as me" arguement is similar to how rich people will complain that they have too much money in front of poor people - just incapable of empathy and then you try to top it off by saying that chemistry/compatibility is the only thing that matters. There have been plenty of people that can fake genuine interest time and time again. This proves that women cannot instruct on men how to pick up women. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 07:39 PM |
| 14 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyThis is true. In the aspect of women's role of being passive in dating, they are the choosers and judges. The bar is set lower when it comes to getting laid and having options to choose from which women take for granted because they can't understand that it is better to have a lot of options and a possible relationship than having a few options and having to work with it. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyIn the aspect of having choices and getting laid, yes. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Shit test compilation threadIt's not the exact same behavior. Shit tests are to disqualify and to attack your frame. Teasing falls in line with banter. | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is making me depressed.It IS hard. Women will never understand how hard it is to get laid or attention since they get it in spades. Never expect them to be able to understand that. Take your attention away from them and work on yourself and also seriously see all of this seduction stuff as a game. Like points and non-reality. Don't put your ego on the line and don't expect them to sympathize. It's a constant frame battle and right now you're gonna have to work on being the best you can be ASAP. You have no time to be … | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Stop believing other people are having more sex or more luck with women than you, it's not trueThat actually sums up how some guys are literally sexually clueless and girls cannot fathom why it's hard for men to get laid. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to read this girl!Sounds like dry tests can be leading her to not invest too much into the conversation. Just set up a meetup wherever you would like. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | No date, now she's ghosting me, what should I do?Keep distance away and move on. She gave the number so you would walk away satisfied. Just move on and don't give any attention | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead?Definitely migrate if your situation sucks and you can afford to. Being the new guy in the area helps. Don't worry about having a high standard, have a list of what you would not tolerate and you will realize there are actually a lot of cool people that you can still hang out with. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 10:27 PM |
| 9 | I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead?Stand by your personal standard and do not associate with them. Seek to associate with people you would like or want to associate with and they can help introduce to new people. Never settle for bad company. Hanging out with them while wanting someone else can be bad for your self esteem and they could also be using you to try to bump up their own social standing. It's a lose-lose for you. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 06:49 PM |
| 5 | I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead?*wonder not wander | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 05:01 PM |
| 126 | I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead?Girls always have multiple guys talking to them, even in relationships. But for them to make you a number 1 priority, you have to lead and be the most exciting prospect. Easiest way? Have other options. Kills 3 birds with 1 stone. 1) Talking to other girls takes your focus away from this one girl and you don't have to develop oneitis. It avoids putting the girl on a pedestal. 2) It kills your neediness. If you know you can get another girl that is just as attractive, you're not nearly as nervous… | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Understanding Women They Think Differently"Women want to just feel good and listen to their emotions." Exactly. Do not try to logically persuade them. Reasoning is impossible with them. Change her mood and manipulate the atmosphere. Change her perception and make her feel special and wanted. It's all about perception that she is special. Women are just as superficial in men and want validation and attention except they can get that in spades. Now its who they're getting it from. With women, it's a power struggle of frame and they've pla… | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What you need to hear if you're hung up on a femaleThanks. Judt what I needed | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?Could be a double edged sword. One girl sees that you're friendzoned with the girls and wonders why no one wants you. Do you have an idea of what your reputation is around the college or town or among girls? | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 11:09 PM |
| 7 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?Just remember that girls are passive as mess and want to be in power to decide who is getting rejected and who isn't. So in the end, you have to do the approaching. But even then, to most girls, they will reject you and take your interest as an ego boost. I've been in your situation and you're gonna have to talk to people and be slightly more selective who you associate with. Remember that women are hardly ever direct and you will have to carry a good load of the burden that comes with the conve… | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreOkay that I can agree with. Thank you for clarifying | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreWhy would putting yourself through hundreds of rejections or AKA just play the number's game? | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreWho would they be asking out? Every guy? | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreNo, my guess is better. It just sounds like you don't know what you're talking about. Hundreds of failures to numb yourself? Are you crazy? | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreWhy the heck would anyone out themselves through hundreds of failures over and over again? | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Women need to ask men out moreThat's only because it is an almost guarantee that a woman will have a higher chance of success than a man in securing a date in the way our culture is made. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreWrong. Women hold and retain validation just by attention alone and can rotate through men. They also are able to put themselves in a position to begin a relationship and where it leads. They don't just sit there and wait, they can put themselves on the market and have plenty of men from above and below their own rating coming to them. Women are also more likely to humiliate the man in the face of rejection and get away with it versus a man will look bad. When you try to be objective, mention ev… | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreThis is terrible logic. What is wrong with you? | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Women need to ask men out moreExactly. I had the feeling the OP is being sympathetic to the female cause because he imagines that will raise his chances of having a date. At the end of it though, I caught on that he is speaking in a way as if women are a victim of the dating world and they aren't enjoying the attention. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 02:03 PM |
| 0 | Women need to ask men out moreIt's not being powerless to not being able to attract someone. Just like men, they have to accept the fact they can't attract everyone | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 11:04 AM |
| 0 | Women need to ask men out moreYou used the word "powerless" to describe the feeling of letting a guy go by for women as if they are children. Can you relax on that? They just don't want to risk any power in the relationship bu being the pursuer. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Women need to ask men out moreWow, four times! | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Women need to ask men out moreJeez you really like painting them as victims. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 10:09 AM |
| 1 | In the process of being friendzoned and wondering where I went wrongSo to hop on to this guy's comment, @ OP, Murgdigidy brought up some good information. Don't forget to tell some stories with confidence and dont shy away from sexual topics so that you plant the idea in her mind to associate sexiness with you. Don't be afraid to hug, tap, and get close to her as part of flirting. Make it very playful and light. Have fun misinterpreting her negative snide comments into compliments. Make predictions about her and explain it | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 12:50 AM |
| 2 | In the process of being friendzoned and wondering where I went wrongI'll make a list for verbal and body language stuff when I get home. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | In the process of being friendzoned and wondering where I went wrongBring up another girl into your sights and stop focusing on her asap. She's seeing how you react and wants to know how hard you would fight for her. *going to finish my workout and point out the mistakes Okay, taking her pic gives a subservient vibe. It just serves her making you feel good. Just add her to your snap or Instagram and use her to show other girls you're hanging out with a hot girl next time. You should have sat next to her. When she keeps mentioning the guy, you should have said, "… | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Flaky girl who was previously super responsive has not replied yet, what to do?Find other girls asap. Next time, add them on social media (snapchat, instagram) so they have something to talk about and break the ice with you. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 02:43 PM |
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