| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | [FR]Just Say "Hi" | GKW | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 08:33 PM | |
| 12 | [FR] #-Close, to bowling "date" on the same night, then AFC'd like a champ | GKW | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 08:13 AM | |
| 2 | Seek comfort in yourselves | GKW | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 07:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 174 | What are flirty signs guys miss?Had a friend model for me at the beach cause I wanted to test some new photography equipment. At the time I was genuinely not romantically interested in her as I was talking to someone else. Anyways just chatting her up, making her laugh. Afterwards she invites me back to her parents beach condo where she was staying and continued to chat. Its getting late and I said I had to go, and as she was walking me back to my car she said "well I dont have to leave for a few hours" biggest woosh of my lif… | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 06:50 PM |
| 2 | 24 , male virgin , not sure what to do...I agree now that I reread that a bit more sober. When it comes to numbers though my text game sucks, so I often call if anything. | /r/seduction | 12/04/15 03:24 AM |
| 26 | 24 , male virgin , not sure what to do...Invest in yourself a little bit more. Find a hobby and get into it. Yes it's tough to wow a girl with "programming" talk, so, take up a hobby and get passionate about it. Girls like a man that's passionate. You have a solid job, so that's a +1. Keep hitting the gym if you need that confidence boost. Don't be afraid of rejection. One thing is to build rapport with a girl, but convey sexual interest VIA sexual innuendos early on. 9 times out of 10, if a girl gives you her number then she's interes… | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 03:21 AM |
| 1 | I need to meet new friends and more girls. [17/M]If you're comfortable talking to girls at your age, you miles ahead of most people on this subreddit. Don't sweat any shit and tell yourself you don't "need" new friends. You make them the same way you've been doing it your entire life, by talking to people and having conversations. That's all | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Short guys getting tall girls?From my experience, the tall women I've encountered (me being 5'9 and them being 4-7 inches taller) have enjoyed any type of interaction. My reasoning behind this is that their dating pool is even smaller for finding a man taller than them. So, my assumption is that they take what they can get. There are two types of tall girls IMO. the 5'7"-5'10" bracket, "supermodel" are the hard ones. Women who are 6' and taller are slightly easier, because they are insecure about their gangly height as oppos… | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 12:58 PM |
| 6 | 18 Years old, recent single, can't seem to be interesting around ladies.to add, when a woman asks about you, try not simply give it all away, make her guess or be playful | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Been on 3 dates with the same girl, haven't even kissed. How do I escalate the physical attraction? Or get invited inside her place to close?Make your intentions be known, don't be shy. She doesn't like to be touched AT work, by RANDOM people. Key words, and maybe she is subconsciously telling you to make a move. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 04:35 AM |
| -1 | 6 year LTR ended 3 months ago. Just feeling defeated, alone, and don't know where to start.Rule 1: Don't be a bitch. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGWWkEJzWeI Edit: On a serious note. It's good to get shit off your chest, perhaps get a journal. The pity party stops here. God gave everyone 24 hours, no one gets a hour more or less. If you want to use those 24 hours sulking, fine by me. It doesn't affect me or anyone on the sub except for you. As for your friends being "too busy" to hang out with you. Fuck 'em. True friends will find a way to hang out with you. My childhood bestfriend,… | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 04:02 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with The Question...I like this one, also kinda doubles if you're trying to win over a feminist lol. | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Mid-30's, often tired from work, looking for advice generating the energy to go out more often.1) Lawyer Up 2)Delete Facebook 3)Hit the gym 4)??? 5)Profit! | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Problem with asking a girl out for the first timeWhats that saying? "you never know, unless you try" or some bullshit like that. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 06:36 PM |
| 3 | This is kind of off-topic, but how many guys here are only children or the youngest child of all your siblings?1st of there is no "I THINK i'm attractive" YOU ARE FUCKING ATTRACTIVE. Never second guess yourself, but don't hold your nose up and act like your better than everyone else. Speak with conviction and be passionate in your beliefs. I feel the romantic stuff you can hold out until you hit "exclusivity" with said person. During the first couple dates, that stuff can come off to strong. It's easier said than done, but you have to be fun and shameless. As for one-on-one or group situations with a tar… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 05:36 AM |
| 5 | This is kind of off-topic, but how many guys here are only children or the youngest child of all your siblings?I'm a firm believer that environment plays a major role in childhood development. I'm the only boy and youngest with three older sisters. By the time I was eight all of my sisters were out of the house and off to college. My parents worked long hours so video games and television were my company. This I found made me shy but I was still able to make friends in school. I've learned nothing about talking to women which made me even more shy and anxious whenever I talked to a girl. Ill attribute se… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 10:33 PM |
| 1 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youAs a former AFC that has worked in a strip club, this is definitely gold material. Even before I knew about seddit, I struck conversation with the "staff" to pass the time, and eventually you get comfortable talking to people and making crude or sexual remarks. Also helps desensitize you so the next time you see a super attractive girl in the club you're not all thinking her tits and what not. I got to a point where I wasn't even trying to game and some of the cocktail waitresses offered me thei… | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I lost a girl to another guy, but she's openly expressed to me that she still likes me, and I feel the same way.Bitches ain't nothing but hoes and tricks. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Just got dumped, using this as motivation to get back in the game.1)Lawyer Up 2)Delete Facebook 3)Hit the Gym 4)??? 5)Profit! | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 12:52 PM |
| 2 | I am tired and frustrated. How do I a quick first good impression?Compassion is a beautiful thing, so show some for yourself. (cutting the ties - august burns red) OKay, get out of the negative nancy state and tell yourself you are awesome. Like Uncut said, re-read the sidebar. to answer your questions. There is no clear cut way to make a good impression, be yourself, a simple introduction will do and mention something about the surroundings, what they are wearing or doing. Neg them a bit. You want to move quicker? Than do it, there is nothing we can physicall… | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 02:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.Life is about taking chances and going after what you want. The problem with "us" AFC's is that we're too concerned with what people think of us. You just gotta remember, there's 7 billion people on this planet, life is too short to be afraid. Here's a good thing try, approach without actually expecting something | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 04:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #-Close, to bowling "date" on the same night, then AFC'd like a champThanks, next time I get the opportunity I will. As far last nights encounter goes, I wasn't feeling that much commonality so I didn't really pursue it per say, but I still was pleasantly surprised. I also don't wont to lead a girl on, and what i'm about to say might go against everything about seddit, as much as I would have like to have gotten my dick wet, I just lost interest at the end of the night. | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 05:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #-Close, to bowling "date" on the same night, then AFC'd like a champThanks, and thanks for the input. So don't be afraid to #-close early is where you're getting at? | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 03:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR]Just Say "Hi"Antipeople made some good points, don't be afraid to speak your mind. Stay in frame, i'm gonna sound like a broken record and say what's been said before but just say whatever comes to your mind. Defeat your AA and don't fear anything because you'll never know unless you just do it. | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 03:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR]Just Say "Hi"haha, noted, thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 02:59 AM |
| 2 | I have fears of escalating, please helpcan't let it get to you, at that point you have to start thinking with your dick. You're a man and you know what you want, so go after it. There's only two outcomes, rejection or reciprocation. I've turned into an AFC the past month solely because of the same situation. A chance not just for sex but a potential LTR, cause I pussied out. I'll repeat, don't let fear and anxiety get in the way of your goal | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 06:45 AM |
| 3 | [FR] OkCupid date with some girl's perspective on getting gameI agree, great FR. For me I just need to be more alpha and initiate. Hopefully on my 2nd date I don't chicken out :P | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 08:25 AM |
| 2 | The secret of good text gameexactly, and regardless, sex is inevitable, if you don't do it, you'll throw mixed signals, develop one-itis, and die. Rinse Repeat. | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 03:25 PM |
| 1 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...Quick question about this text game. The way you listed, I feel like I'm doing it wrong. I met a girl off of OKC, hit off the bat, had tons of things in common. I tried the whole "only 4 messages and setup a date." Girl responded she couldn't go immediately cause of school, but still wanted to in a week. Fast Forward to this week, our OKC transfers to Facebook, which eventually leads to her giving me her actual number. I feel this is breaking pretty much all the rules but I talk to her almost a … | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Lessons learned from my first game-assisted relationshipnothing wrong with a FWB amirite? | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop getting instant friend zoned?My question is how do you seal the deal, I'm past the point of friends and hover between the line. I've recently developed a better self esteem and that cocky confident attitude. But due to my nature of how I was raised, I feel like going up to the girl I want and say "hey let's fuck" isn't right | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 12:39 AM |
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