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The dunking is a key aspect of the service. If you are discouraged by internet strangers shitting on you, you stand zero chance.
/r/askMRP06/03/26 06:03 PM
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IMO she started having an affair shortly before she took the money.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/26 08:43 PM
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Six years into MRP and not getting BJs, lol. OYS
/r/askMRP11/02/26 08:24 PM
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Make that pussy jealous.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 12:51 AM
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You want to know what people think about what you should do. We don't do that here. You choose your own adventure. If you need outside perspective on whether to read the sidebar books, your chance of failure is 100%. Stop being an egotistical moron and you may have a chance.
/r/askMRP13/01/26 06:00 PM
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I copy-pasted your exact post into Gemini 3 Flash. Here's part of the response: Why MRP Guys Recommend It: If you already "get" the concepts in MMSLP, the reason to look at the MAP is for the Action Plan itself. The Framework: The MAP breaks self-improvement into four specific quadrants: Physical, Financial, Social, and Domestic. The Metrics: Many men find that while MMSLP gave them the motivation, they struggled to build a daily schedule. The MAP provides a literal template for a "Male Action P…
/r/askMRP13/01/26 05:23 PM
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You cannot possibly imagine my triggered Jungian anima.
/r/askMRP12/01/26 10:45 PM
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I am telling you how to find the answer your own question. The books are all in the sidebar, and the AIs are trained on the books.
/r/askMRP12/01/26 10:44 PM
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In the time it took you to write this post, you could have prompted a free LLM to summarize the book for you, skimmed the summary, and answered your own question. But instead you came here for... what exactly?
/r/askMRP12/01/26 05:44 PM
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You give entirely too many fucks.
/r/askMRP29/12/25 07:42 PM
1

LOL. You have a long way to go, young Jedi.
/r/askMRP29/12/25 07:39 PM
6

Removing attention after shitty behavior is not boundary enforcement. You are confusing two different things.
/r/askMRP26/12/25 06:59 PM
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It might also be true that TRP is a finished work. Everything that there is to know is already known, so this sub is a museum piece. The dick swinging is all that's left when we get bored.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 04:21 PM
6

It's interesting how many different answers to this question can all be correct if you know what you want.
/r/askMRP08/09/25 06:47 PM
9

wtf is happening to this place? the endless dick swinging is egotistical and gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/25 02:02 PM
10

It's funny because your empty sarcasm is exactly the kind of LARPed self confidence the OP is talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/25 02:11 PM
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OYS 1: "I'd like to lose about 20 lbs." OYS 19: Lost no weight at all Disappear for 8 months Now: "My wife has gone overt in telling me I look bad, what do?"
/r/askMRP26/06/25 09:23 PM
0

You got so drunk on your anniversary that you couldn't perform and then blamed her? And you're 44 fucking years old? Grow up, asshole.
/r/askMRP26/06/25 01:45 PM
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So you did nothing all week. Cool. Keep that up and see where it gets you. PS: You are way, way over 20% BF.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/25 01:47 PM
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4 years ago you were posting advice to others TRP 1 month ago you wanted to marry her 3 weeks ago you wanted to move in but she thought you were a slob 1 week ago you were asking how to close your stupid mouth hole. Now she's texting her ex wanting to meet up. And you actually thought you could save the relationship. You have known about RP for years, and still got oneitis over a girl who doesn't even particularly like you. Maybe try not sucking anymore. How is that for honest and raw?
/r/askMRP19/06/25 05:39 PM
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It takes time and practice. If it were easy, the flunk out rate for MRP would not be >95%. The bottom line is, you need to keep making your life more awesome. Eventually, it will be so awesome that external validation feels meaningless, and even goes unnoticed. You can't build covert contracts around something that mentally does not exist. At that point, you are well your way to being your own mental point of origin.
/r/askMRP10/06/25 06:47 PM
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So your plan is to have no life purpose besides fucking random girls until you are 50 or 55?
/r/askMRP30/05/25 09:21 PM
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You're overlooking how lifting and mindset are inseparable. It takes a particular mind to get big and strong. That's why most guys can't do it. It's not that guys don't have heavy shit around to pick up, or that they are doing the wrong sets x reps scheme, or whatever the excuse is. If their minds are weak and small, their bodies will be weak and small. Not every guy who gets jacked understands RP, but it's impossible to get jacked without understanding that results come through ongoing and focu…
/r/askMRP14/05/25 01:47 PM
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On some level, AWALT. Why do you think guys wash up at MRP? Their wives tried, the men failed, and now their wives won't fuck them anymore. Different women are more or less conscious of what they really desire from a man, and more or less effective in how they communicate that in a way a man understands. Still, it's never the woman who makes the man. She can be helpful to him or not, but every man is exactly who he wills himself to be.
/r/askMRP12/05/25 02:00 PM
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Have you considered that you are so socially alienated that you have become a character from a Dostoevsky novel? In part one, the underground man tries to get into a bar fight, and he steps in an officer’s way. The officer, though, merely moves him aside without saying anything, practically ignoring him. The underground man thinks of challenging him to a duel, but decides to get his revenge by bumping into him in the street and forcing the officer to acknowledge him as a person. When he finally …
/r/askMRP09/05/25 02:55 PM
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OP bitching about his wife... check. OP Posts in porn subs... check. OP posts in deadbedrooms... check. Diagnosis: You suck. Prescription: STFU, lift, sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/05/25 05:51 PM
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Don't do it for her. Do what you want to do. Maybe you work your way up, and maybe not--it doesn't matter. What matters is staying congruent. Trying to LARP your way through crazy dom shit that's far beyond you is not fun. And sex should be fun.
/r/askMRP01/05/25 10:36 PM
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It doesn’t seem healthy if your wife responds to a concern like that with sex. Well then, shall we all agree that the most important thing for a marriage is that it seems healthy to you? Why are you even here?
/r/askMRP24/04/25 02:49 PM
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Spank, dominant fuck, she will receive the message. This is all hypothetical; when I ask for respect some specific way, I get it
/r/askMRP16/04/25 10:20 PM
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I basically agree. A newer guy should probably just STFU through this until he is past the phase of getting upset about stuff like this. If we use the "no phone at the dinner table" example, and I had already expressed this preference, I would: Ignore the behavior during dinner. I have a hard "no criticism in front of the kids" rule which goes both directions. After dinner, in private, say "I told you that I expect no phone use at the dinner table. Following my expectation is how you show me res…
/r/askMRP16/04/25 09:09 PM
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You disapprove of her behavior, but it's not a boundary. What would an example of that be? IMO there is a threshold of caring. Behavior is either above or below that threshold. Below that threshold, I don't care, so there's no need to express disapproval. Above that threshold, I care, so I'm not going to accept the behavior continuing forever. I tell her to stop. If she won't stop, and there's no boundary enforcement, my relationship sucks because I am weak. So what would an example be of accept…
/r/askMRP16/04/25 05:31 PM
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Your problem is that your girl is doing behavior you find unacceptable, but you are unwilling to set and communicate your boundary. You are coping that it's "not a big deal" and "not a deal breaker" but then why are you here asking us how to get her to stop?
/r/askMRP15/04/25 06:19 PM
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Determine your boundary Communicate your boundary Enforce your boundary It seems like you are forgetting step #2.
/r/askMRP15/04/25 03:55 PM
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but not before getting a HJ lolol best part
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/25 10:49 PM
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If you practiced the sidebar you wouldn't be posting in askMRP six years later saying you are concerned about what your wife thinks.
/r/askMRP02/02/25 07:19 PM
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Techniques: STFU, fog. But that's just playing for time. "Getting a new girlfriend would be difficult" My dude. All your options are either 1. difficult, or 2. don't get you to what you want.
/r/askMRP22/01/25 07:24 PM
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This is stupid. You are asking the wrong questions. You don't know what you want. It's obvious to everyone. That's your problem. Your question should be, what do I want? That's not a question mrp can help you answer. You have to answer it for yourself. But you're running away from that question, the real question. Instead you are focusing on what your girlfriend says, and worrying how she might feel if you say this or that thing. This is a huge waste of time. What do you want?
/r/askMRP22/01/25 02:16 PM
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You do shit you don't want to do. You do it even though it hurts or scares you. You keep at it even though it's hard, and it eventually gets easier. That's it. Exactly like the gym.
/r/askMRP21/01/25 04:12 PM
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It's just like reps in the gym. If you don't push outside your comfort zone, you don't grow.
/r/askMRP21/01/25 03:56 PM
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I said what you want out of life, not what you wanted out of this specific situation. You need to be able to articulate a vision for your life, and how your woman fits into it. Then it will become clear what to do.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 04:52 PM
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A whole lot of problems get solved when you nut up and decide what you want out of life. Start there.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 01:26 AM
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What a load of self-important, navel-gazing horse shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/25 07:13 PM
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STFU, lift, sidebar. The relationship you had is over. This is the epilogue.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 04:52 PM
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"Emotional affair begins when his cock is 3/4s of the way in." ~Chinese Proverb
/r/askMRP26/12/24 01:58 AM
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Some guys getting divorced have used couples counselling/therapy to get it documented by a 3rd party that there is no physical or emotional abuse occurring. Those records can be very handy later when you are in divorce court if a bitch starts making stuff up. Besides that, wtf is the point? If you haven't built a frame in private, how are you going to do it with your naked ass hanging out in talk therapy?
/r/askMRP16/12/24 02:59 PM
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Quit being a bitch and just do it.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 07:38 PM
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You have to lead her. she initiates often We're all very impressed, but who is the leader here? I usually make her come a couple times before fucking her and she squirts often. Might be good lover validation. Also, it's boring to have a "usually" kind of sex life. Specifically, dirty talk I could do a better job leading. If you can't dirty talk, why would she? I'd like her to be kinkier, for example toys, dirty talk, and her teasing me to name a few. So basically you want her to do the stuff you…
/r/askMRP15/12/24 05:53 PM
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You don't need a personal trainer to get diet recommendations. Free AI is already better. Do you really live so far into remote bumblefuck that you have to move to meet women?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 02:41 PM
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Lots of words to say you did nothing
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 02:35 PM
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Started initiating after 2ish years of absolutely nothing about 3 weeks ago. 1/10 success rate. You didn't initiate for 2 years, and now you're initiating every other night or so? Great work, really. Just expect massive shit tests both in and outside the bedroom, and focus on passing them.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 02:31 PM
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It's all a shit test. My wife said not to call her a bitch or slut, or say tits or pussy, etc. Now I can make her beg for the privilege. You're exactly right, ignore what she says and pay attention to how she responds.
/r/askMRP06/12/24 06:18 PM
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My guess is he means this thing you said: I still sometimes fear what my wife thinks or feel weak. Personally I think what counts is the very next thing you said: I typically don’t let that change what I am doing though. It's funny to see people gatekeeping, of all things, the red pill.
/r/RPChristians05/12/24 10:05 PM
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Whoosh, people, this was a sarcastic reply. I didn't realize either that people actually believe the food system is a Jewish conspiracy.
/r/RPChristians05/12/24 01:46 PM
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You are clueless. Read a book.
/r/RPChristians05/12/24 01:46 PM
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This post is silly. The #1 vendor of USDA organic produce in the USA is Costco. I can buy some local produce there. Believe it or not, it's impractical for me as a father and sole breadwinner to drive 200 miles to buy chicken breasts. Most smaller farms do not have B2C ecommerce. They sell their stuff to Walmart or Costco or Kroger. Walmart is not a farm. Your local butcher might source meat from hellhole factory farms. They might even lie to you about selling Tyson chicken. And none of it has a…
/r/RPChristians04/12/24 11:09 PM
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No shit, man. Actually that is very astute. /u/Previous_Trip9347 be sure not to get this bitch pregnant.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 06:20 PM
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Sex God Method, read it. At least read enough to understand DEVI. You're talking about sex with high E but low DV. You are imagining that you can't have D and E together, but you can.
/r/askMRP04/12/24 06:03 PM
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A video is not going to help you dude. Your problem is wondering "am I doing it right" when you should be enjoying the present moment.
/r/askMRP03/12/24 09:49 PM
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There is no "correct" way to fuck. Sex God Method has some good advice. Read it.
/r/askMRP03/12/24 09:19 PM
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Ages 5, 7, and 9 are not small children anymore. The nine year old should be able to run shit when both parents are busy. You have some work to do here.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 08:27 PM
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In a way it helped push me further into red pill because it was just hypergamy at play and I wasnt presenting as the best option, but it also hurts to have my fairytale dreams of forever faithful and soulmates crushed. Welcome to reality, dude. It hurts now but it will be better for you in the long run. Echoing the other commenter, why stay in this marriage? The sex sucks, she is a cheating whore, there are no kids, you JUST got married, and you are only 31. This seems like a good time to at lea…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 07:34 PM
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There is another triggering conversation for her around kids coming in the future where I’ll share about my fears of us getting even further down this hole we are in and becoming trapped, maybe delaying the decision, and how important it is for us to shift this. I’m waiting until she isn’t sick and after my trip this weekend. Uh oh Sex has been a struggle area in my relationship for a while. I’ve been afraid of rejection, bad sex, etc. Since getting rejected a week ago and starting this journey,…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 07:18 PM
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Entire post could boil down to this: "I got nowhere on a dating/hookup app."
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 02:34 PM
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Personally, I used to initiate sex for attraction validation. I thought that if a woman wants to fuck me, it means I am worth something. This was always subconscious right up until my wife started rejecting me. Then I felt like shit, and it helped me realize what I had been doing. If you get rejected, and you are outcome independent, then you know it wasn't about validation. Also, you can be horny and want validation at the same time. It's not only one or the other. You can also be horny but als…
/r/askMRP02/12/24 10:08 PM
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You've got to calibrate to the situation. If it's just complaining and bitchiness, ignore. If it's a disrespect, nuke. If it's actually useful information, listen and say thank you. Think about how good parents handle children. Then do that.
/r/askMRP29/11/24 12:31 AM
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If I don't have anything to say, then it's, "I'm not going to talk about this," broken record. I don't have to maintain it anymore, the pattern is broken.
/r/askMRP28/11/24 10:13 PM
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Personally, I ignored that shit completely, and it stopped 100% within a few months.
/r/askMRP28/11/24 05:04 PM
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Gotta put it in the butthole.
/r/askMRP21/11/24 11:16 PM
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L-Glutamine Worthless supplement. It's in protein. Eat protein and you get L-Glutamine. Keeping protein intake to 135-150 grams a day while maintaining a calorie deficit That's low, I would do at least 180.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 09:08 PM
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The point is to get you to think about her until you finally cave and ask reddit.
/r/askMRP19/11/24 05:02 PM
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You are so deep in her frame that I can barely stand to read this shit. Figure out how to write your OYS without mentioning your wife. It might seem counterintuitive, but it's actually the master key of being red pilled.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 03:05 PM
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I think your basic problem is fragile ego and fear of sexual rejection. The longer you prattle on about, "we'll see what happens," and, "I'm just recalibrating right now bro," the less likely you will change. Don't be one of the idiots who is on OYS 30 and still defending his amazing dread strategy of never fucking. And you're still doing Qi Gong instead of lifting. What the fuck. Maybe you just aren't up to this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/24 06:08 PM
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Hint: It's probably not about the house or the stupid furniture. If you want real answers, cut the shit and tell us how much you suck.
/r/askMRP15/11/24 09:38 PM
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For the past 17 days, I've managed to do this without fail each day: do some Daoist qigong / martial arts related stuff... I'm also working with other body weight exercises and dumbbells, but more intermittently This is a funny way of saying "I'm not really lifting." Pull ups are one of the best exercises for physique, but you will need to do more than pull ups. I'm not feeling like I want to try hard to seduce her. Then why are you here? This is just your ego talking. If she wants to get laid, …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/24 08:48 PM
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It's definitely time to move on my dude. Sorry you are going through this. But try to see it as an opportunity for a new beginning.
/r/RPChristians15/11/24 12:02 AM
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Any chance of her coming back to me because I "let her go"? (I think that's called "dread"?) I lol'd. She moved out, drained your bank accounts, filed for separation, and you're wondering if you can get her back?
/r/RPChristians14/11/24 03:42 PM
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Calibrate for your life dude. There are no hard and fast rules.
/r/askMRP13/11/24 09:45 PM
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When you fuck whenever you want to, there is no need to jerk off.
/r/askMRP13/11/24 09:11 PM
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Fasting for weight loss is gimmicky and overrated. Lift, >10k steps daily, clean diet and you can lose 100lbs in a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 09:54 PM
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OK that's better
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 05:41 PM
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1+ month ago: Stats - W: 368.6 lbs. Today: Stats: Weight - 367 lbs. You are not a serious person.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 04:59 PM
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A real alpha male can jerk off and have normal Testosterone results. Don’t know why all the down votes. fucking lol
/r/askMRP08/11/24 08:11 PM
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Is she hot? Are you lean? Is your lifting, diet, and sleep dialed in? Falling down on this crashes your T and your desire. Also leads to depression and anxiety which crashes desire. If all that's dialed in, well... sometimes you just gotta fuck her so she feels better. Deal with it. It's one of the easier things a married man has to do.
/r/askMRP08/11/24 04:08 PM
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in general the diet described above already lead to good results in terms of reducing inflammation, as confirmed by blood levels Which confirms your diet was a significant part of the problem. now I have to take it one step further and find and apply a combination of foods that allow my body to generate energy and drive again. meaning more NO producing foods, leafy greens, fermented foods and such Rather than thinking about what to add in, I would consider experimenting with radical elimination …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 06:56 PM
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What different diets have you tried, with good adherence, for at least 4 weeks?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 05:07 PM
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You are weak, and say you have low energy, chronic pain, inflammation, autoimmune disease, ED, and a back injury to boot. In the last week you have been sick and took an entire week off the gym. All this in your mid 30s. And this is OYS 42. If I were you, I would drop everything, and I do mean fucking everything else in my life, to fix my health. And I don't mean fitness, I mean health.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 03:02 PM
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What is it with Indian guys and sex anyway? And why are none of them jacked? Something is wrong with that entire subcontinent.
/r/askMRP28/10/24 09:40 PM
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It was a covert contract. "If she feels good about our sex life, she won't put in any more effort, so instead I'll make sure she knows I'm not satisfied. Then I'll ask reddit, but I definitely won't initiate sex." Nice guy 101 right there.
/r/askMRP28/10/24 07:33 PM
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RP is not about what's normal. Blue is normal. Normal is fat, weak, covert contracts, dead bedroom. RP is about what's possible.
/r/askMRP28/10/24 01:54 PM
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Mass retardation in this thread. Being pregnant creates tons of spontaneous desire. Plus a bitch's need for comfort goes WAY up, so if she is already using sex for comfort, she will want it all day, every day. If she's not already using sex for comfort, this is a great opportunity to teach her. If you are ready. My wife was almost never hornier than 2nd-3rd trimesters of her pregnancies.
/r/askMRP28/10/24 01:11 PM
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My response “honest answer, this is probably the least amount of sex I’ve had in any relationship ever.” I said it non-confrontational and just stated the fact. She didn’t have anything else to say. Are you trying to make her feel like shit? Good job, you succeeded. What would you say in response to that? "Yeah babe, I'll take you as soon as we get home."
/r/askMRP28/10/24 01:05 PM
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Yep, I remember loving that post the first time I read it. It's kind of cool to look back at what an idiot Sepean was in 2015, too. I had never seen those posts before. There's hope even for real morons if they stick with the program.
/r/askMRP25/10/24 08:25 PM
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Here you go
/r/askMRP24/10/24 05:12 PM
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I'm not going to go into long detail but I just keep getting injured. My latest issue is tennis elbow which makes pretty much every upper body lift hurt and forced me to modify grips (e.g. chinups over pull-ups). If anyone's rehabbed this well I'd like to hear about it. I had tennis elbow for months, did all the rehab modalities (voodoo floss, theraband, ice, stretches, wrist anti-flexion exercises, w/e) for months and got nowhere. Then I adjusted my diet and it got better, along with all my oth…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 05:21 PM
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FR: I am an emotional child. The end. Lurked a lot, read a lot watched a lot. Didn't learn anything.
/r/askMRP20/10/24 12:34 AM
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I lashed out at the only thing I was in control of: my eating. You are nearly 400lbs. You are not in control of your eating. I am refocusing my attention on losing weight, further restricting to 1500 cals/day for the next four weeks. You could lose 150lbs without ever going below 2,500kcal/day if you just walked. Stop sitting on your ass all day. Go to literally any AI LLM and type in "make me a meal plan for 2,500kcal per day of healthy food with protein target of 200g per day, then generate a …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 03:51 PM
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What are you going to do about the back injury?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 03:46 PM
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Look here, retard. If you set incredibly low standards for your life, you will get incredibly poor results. That's the story of your life so far. Do you want better results? Set higher standards.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 03:05 PM
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Your lifts are terrible and you are a borderline fat ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 01:39 PM
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How the fuck do you lurk MRP for 10 years and STILL not lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 01:24 PM
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I'm just respecting the relationship we had for now This is meaningless. You cannot "respect" a relationship that is over. If you are grieving, just say that. try to heal. This also implies you are grieving. Waiting grief out passively will probably work eventually, but actively getting on with your life is better. If you meet some new women, you are going to forget about the ex much more quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/24 03:46 PM
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Let her go for good, without any hope of her coming back (truly that's the most thing I desire) You most desire what? Letting her go for good, or her coming back? No sex after breaking up after 3 weeks, not in the mood to get girls right now. I've seen two cute neighbors that I can approach, but I don't want skip any stage in my healing process. You have oneitis. Fucking some new girls would probably help you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/24 11:33 AM
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A tool for what? Why did you open your mouth? As you said yourself: I couldn`t put my finger on what my issue was And then you said she looks like a whore... which is mean. It sounds angry. If it wasn't angry, what was it?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/24 06:46 PM
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I agree you need to read The Rational Male. But besides that... My brain has a fog, where my self-steam has tanked, feels like I would never get another girl. Banish this stupid thought from your head. The world is full of girls and always making more of them. Not only can you find more girls, but you can do a lot better than dating a single mother.
/r/askMRP10/10/24 02:33 PM
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I couldn`t put my finger on what my issue was... I just chose to tell her a what a whore she looked like then I STFU If you weren't angry, why did you "choose" this? What was the emotion or thought behind it?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/24 02:26 PM
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responded with, "Unhealthier than being 250 pounds?" Got a neutral response from that. I surprised myself with how well I handled the situation. DEER. Remember your negative inquiry. I just chose to tell her a what a whore she looked like then I STFU then she changed and left. So you got angry and then sulky?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 04:32 PM
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This aligns with basically all the data points from my life. Read Hillbilly Elegy by JD Vance if you want to hear the version of this from Hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 05:31 PM
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Go outside your comfort zone. Take risks to get what you want from life. Fail, learn from the experience, repeat.
/r/askMRP02/10/24 10:26 PM
1

But I have at times considered looking for a higher paid position, but it took me SO long to find a position in which I'm happy, I am terrified to leave that Why do you want a higher paying job? How, specifically, is it going to improve your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 11:16 AM
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Macrofactor app is incredible. Highly recommend you get Omega-3s in the form of fish, not plants or supplements.
/r/askMRP02/10/24 11:10 AM
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My huge mistake: My car auto played a section of Dread talking about hysterical bonding right as I turned it on and at the same time my wife was walking up to say goodbye to the kids I was driving to school. She asked me what I was listening to and I just said "some relationship stuff". She kept grilling me and I was definitely shifty and guilty looking/acting because Rian's Frame and Dread, as I understand, don't work if the woman sees through the curtain. My mistake was that I told her I was r…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 08:55 PM
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Mission: Fuck knows. Still. One week I feel like it's about making an impact on the world; the next week I feel thats all pointless and I should just focus on myself and my family. Maybe it's both. Figure out what matters to you personally. Besides pussy and money, what do you want? Focus on that as much as you can. Exclude everything that does not matter to you. Build a life where you do things that matter to you, and you enjoy doing them. If you can't enjoy doing those things, at least embrace…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 07:09 PM
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There is another guy my guy
/r/askMRP18/09/24 08:59 PM
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I just see standard niceguyism showing up as social anxiety and the need for good lover validation. When you are free your social interactions will either be fun or be cut out of your life. You won't worry about whether she's "into it" either. If she's not you'll just pull some filthy shit that she likes. Or else you'll stop and find something better to do than fuck a starfish.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 05:17 PM
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I did get in my head the second time on whether she was into it ... I am or I should say have not been a very social person for most of my life.. So these kind fo things are draining for me right now. It is something I want to fix however - getting out of my comfort zone and keep doing these things is the only way I know how to become better at them.. or atleast make them less stressful events for me. For a long time I used to tell myself that I am an introvert and that is why these things feel …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 01:43 PM
1

If your training and diet is dialed in you will lose 0.0lbs of muscle dieting to 13% BF.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 06:39 PM
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I’m normally spectacularly analytical. That's unattractive.
/r/askMRP10/09/24 02:02 PM
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On my MAP, physical is the most important thing for me to fix. I am at 21% bf right now. I want to bring that down to 13-14 and then start on a bulk. I estimate 25 lbs should do it - feels like such a long way away. I started my weight loss journey at 245 lbs so I know I can do it.. just that the discipline has been waning more recently especially after I took a long trip out of country couple of months back. Dear diary, whine whine whine. Who knew doing the "most important thing" would take con…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 01:54 PM
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Besides what has already been said, here's some more advice. Learn to write. You are 61 and your writing is still a mess. You wrote a paragraph with SEVEN parentheticals. Disorganized writing comes from disorganized thinking. Learn to write and you will also learn to think. Learning to think helps you in virtually every area of life. I'm not expecting swinging from the chandeliers sex and it would probably kill me anyway. But reasonably regular and all the other affection/romance/cuddling stuff …
/r/askMRP09/09/24 02:33 PM
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I am looking for other people’s experiences with this and theory as to why partner selection doesn’t follow the normal hypergamy criteria. Hypergamy still doesn't care. The normal criteria were followed. It's just that a woman was a better man than you. Look at your OYS dude. You weigh 400lbs. You are really not in a place to judge anybody about what they "bring to the table." You have 200lbs to lose and a skin removal surgery before your SMV reaches 1/10. Or maybe you'll just have a heart attac…
/r/askMRP09/09/24 02:22 PM
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If the cabin experiences a loss of pressure, put on your own mask before assisting those around you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/24 10:46 PM
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I requested my LTR to limit sharing “especially so for women” viewpoints and programming to others in her circle... While many of these young people will already be too conditioned to break free, I’m optimistic that some are open to unplugging. Why the fuck would you even care? Is your self worth tied up in being a men's rights culture warrior? How are you going to teach others to unplug when you don't even understand STFU?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/24 10:19 PM
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Your post is over my length limit for give a shit, so here is an AI summary: 1002 words long 5.5% of all words are either "she" or "her" The word "sidebar" does not appear Sidebar, OYS.
/r/askMRP04/09/24 07:54 PM
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Moderated drinking, but went two over the weekly limit I had set. So basically, you set a nice concrete goal (max 4 drinks/week), ignored your goal later that very same week, and now you're framing it as a mild success. Did I get that right? I don't know why you're fucking around with a dozen different supplements and talking about completely unimportant (for you) shit like protein timing when, at the same time, you literally can't stop yourself from drinking. I don't even believe you that it wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 08:39 PM
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What is your MAP, foot porn guy?
/r/askMRP30/08/24 05:47 PM
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I'm 6ft ~250lb, I lift so I'm pretty stocky and muscular, but also carry all my excess fat in my midsection so I have a little beer belly (I could lose 20 or 30 lbs). My lifts are 310 sq, 350 dl, 230 bench. You are not stocky or muscular. You are fat and weak. You have at least fifty fucking pounds to lose. Seventy or more if you want to be lean. Get real with yourself. Would you want to "experiment" with you? Chad has a six pack, bigger arms, and a tight ass. What are you going to do about it?
/r/askMRP29/08/24 09:01 PM
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It's ILYBINILWY, but you already knew that. She's not asking to "experiment" with you. That's for Chad and Chad only.
/r/askMRP29/08/24 05:30 PM
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Why exactly is this bitch still in your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 04:59 PM
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Short term: reduce drinking to 4x per week You have had a "short term" goal to drink less for 3 months. And yet your OYS is littered with stories about binge drinking and regretting it, or patting yourself on the back for not drinking one day. Do you admit that you have a drinking problem? What are you going to do about it? Specifically, what are you going to do DIFFERENTLY from the last 3 months, since none of that worked apparently?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 07:47 PM
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What is your MAP? Don't have one? I recommend taking the time you currently spend jerking to foot porn, and make a MAP.
/r/askMRP27/08/24 06:54 PM
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This belongs in the museum of what not to do. Complete dumpster fire from beginning to end. You are a child throwing a tantrum. When are you going to pull yourself together and maybe follow some of the advice you've solicited? 8 hours of non-stop talking and drama Are you trying to do the exact opposite of what we advised? Shut. The. Fuck. Up.
/r/askMRP23/08/24 01:54 PM
2

Let me guess, you are Indian?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 01:47 PM
1

fuck 12 rules for life Why do you say so? I thought it was helpful. 48 Laws of power is an okay start 48LOP is not a place to start unless your objective is "understand power and how to use it." But guys don't start there. The blue male is afraid of personal power.
/r/askMRP21/08/24 06:22 PM
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He's in the "fuck off forever" bucket. Being a physically weak fat fuck can be fixed. Being so mentally weak that you won't post lifts to anonymous internet strangers is incurable.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/24 04:03 PM
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​Stats: 36yrs, 175cm , 75.8 kg , ~25 % Body Fat (visual) In January 2023 you were supposedly 81kg and 25% BF. Did you really lift for 1.5 years and lose 7kg of lean mass? You sound like a lazy fuck. You aren't training hard. You can't even be bothered to find out how fat you really are. You'll be 84 kg with 15% bf soon enough. Yeah? Keep telling yourself that and see where you end up. Post your lifts or fuck off forever.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/24 01:58 PM
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Tell her to DM me, if she's hot I can speed the process along for you.
/r/askMRP13/08/24 04:38 PM
2

I feel better in the moment, but I do wonder how to make permanent change in this area. Seems like it would be something where you bullshit yourself into thinking something, but when truly challenged you I would crumble due to deep rooted core beliefs. Do things that are hard. Then it's not bullshitting yourself anymore. Externalizing your blame to "muh core beliefs" is a great recipe for getting stuck here. What do you want from this relationship anyway? One kid already, second on the way, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/24 02:42 PM
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Pointless. Acta non verba.
/r/RPChristians03/08/24 02:39 PM
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See negative inquiry chapter in WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP01/08/24 08:40 PM
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Some guys go to the park, have fun, smile, and enjoy their lives. Other guys apparently go to the park and worry about all the ways women are going to disapprove of them. Which do you want to be?
/r/askMRP01/08/24 04:20 PM
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Posted OYS #1 seven months ago. Has not started WISNIFG. Might as well quit now.
/r/askMRP29/07/24 05:02 PM
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