GROWINGSTRUGGLE Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Women in open marriage wants to have sex with me Don't stretch it man, she's probably in just for the sex, give her what she wants and for the love of god wear a condom.	/r/seduction	11/04/25 02:04 AM
1	Reminder: end game requires inner frame, which requires real work That's weird imo, how long did you guys last?	/r/seduction	15/10/24 04:06 PM
1	Reminder: end game requires inner frame, which requires real work Dude if you're dating a girl for 6 weeks straight and she still isn't sure about exclusivity, she's a hoe, that's it. You were completely legitimized to want to push things forward or atleast have a clear answer on what point your relationship was. If have been dating a chick for more than a month and she still doesn't consider the relationship something serious, than she's the weird one and it's probably because she doesn't have the balls to end it or state clear that she isn't that interested …	/r/seduction	15/10/24 10:19 AM
28	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated Not really, it's more like " I'm openly showing sexual intent or general interest in your regards" kinda phrase.	/r/seduction	04/09/24 10:07 AM
0	How to get laid with minimal conversation you don'have to do either usually let girls talk their way into liking you by actively listening to them than when you feel it's time escalate both phisically and with words	/r/seduction	26/08/24 11:04 PM
5	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work the whole point of approaching "100" girls is to get over the fear of being rejected. The same thing that every guy who's getting into seduction or PUA share is that they are scared of approaching girls in fear of being judged... or running out of things to say, becoming too anxious, making a fool out of themselves and eventually ruining their chances, basically in order to avoid rejection these people prefer not to approach women at all, instead by cold approaching "100" women you're basically …	/r/seduction	17/07/24 11:16 PM
14	Tips for easing a girl you’ve been dating into a FWB? Honestly there are 2 ways to approach this, you could either exploit the situation, taking advantage of her feelings for you and continue to have sex with her prolonging and postponing the "what are we" discussion with excuses , this way you unsure yourself to have sex with her another couple of times, before she starts to understands your intentions or you could be straightforward and tell her you're not looking for a serious relationship, but you don't mind sleeping with her, because you feel …	/r/seduction	09/05/24 02:00 PM
25	How many guys here actually approach? Shit dude you must be handsome as hell and a god of the game for having 100 makeouts in a year	/r/seduction	06/05/24 09:36 PM
1	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine Like OP said, you are the one who has to explain himself.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 08:02 PM
2	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine That's exactly the problem and the fact you indulge in the behaviour doesn't make it better, I advocate for people living however they want, but imo we shouldn't advertise acting like an asshole as the norm or has universally attractive. That said, suit yourself.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 07:40 PM
3	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine Explain how any of those described by OP are fantastic qualities	/r/seduction	02/05/24 06:38 PM
2	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine Acting like a bitch doesn't make you a better person, stop fueling these behaviors.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 06:37 PM
-2	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine You misinterpreted him, he meant these women present toxic masculine behaviors or atleast higher than average masculine energy.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 06:34 PM
10	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine As if occasionally shutting you up in bed will magically make your bitchy behaviour more bearable, grow up.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 06:32 PM
1	I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong? Fuck the numbers, ask for their IG and then hit them up there. IG it's better than having the phone numbers because is less personal and gives the girl a "escape route" in case they're just being nice or are too shy to say they're not interested, that way a stranger doesn't have their number. IG is also better, because you give the girls a window inside your life and your interests/hobbies, which makes them decide faster if they're interested in you or not.	/r/seduction	28/04/24 05:44 PM
1	What to do when she goes cold I know women want men that have shit going on in their Life, but what if one of my main life goals is actually to spend as much time as i can cultivating a relationship with my girlfriend/wife?	/r/seduction	05/04/24 07:46 AM
4	Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs? IMO anything that can expand your social circle aka meet new people is valid, try any course, go to the gym or practice any sport, do charity work, go out and try new activities. Point is there's not a specific place where you find "singles", just go out in places you've never been before, so you meet new people, who might introduce you to other people as well.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 01:15 PM
3	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move What did you do? Do you have a fit body? Do you dress well? Take care of your face and body? Groom yourself often?	/r/seduction	19/03/24 12:53 PM
37	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move I think the main takeaway is that grinding is for the guys who are just starting and don't look well put togheter or aren't putting in the work to become more attractive. The moment you start focusing on yourself work out, dress well, eat healthy, take care of your body, work on your self esteem etc, then women will naturally gravitate towards you, because you actually have something to offer and are attractive to them. Everything becomes easier, women are attracted to you and put in the effort …	/r/seduction	18/03/24 04:50 PM
6	Humbled Why the hell do you guys even use dating apps for? It's statistically the worst place to find dates, when you could actually go outside and approach a girl, who has probably never been approached before, which basically means there's no competition whatsoever, plus even the smallest action would make 100 times a better impression, just for doing it in person.	/r/seduction	12/03/24 11:35 AM
24	How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym? Former Gamer🥲	/r/seduction	11/03/24 10:32 AM
1	I can easily make female friends but I don’t know how to get a girlfriend? Watch videos on how to sexual escalate, coach Kyle is the best. On how to escalate and kiss a girl	/r/seduction	07/03/24 02:58 PM
2	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. I don't like the world "control", IMO it's more like balancing the interest in a girl, unless she REALLY likes you, you're fighting to make her think about you and to keep her "entertained".	/r/seduction	02/08/23 10:17 PM
3	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. Yeah, but people who understand seduction and dating and have actually talked to girls, they know they could literally do anything, but if a girl isn't interested, you ain't going to take her to bed period. It's like fighting a lost cause, you can do everything right, but you ain't going nowhere.	/r/seduction	02/08/23 05:26 PM
5	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. that's the hard truth, maybe we're conditioned with media that if you do the right things eventually you'll conquer a girl, the truth is that dating is a numbers' game, you might like 20 girls, if you have the courage to speak to them, maybe 3 will be interested and 1 you'll have the luck and skills to take to bed.	/r/seduction	02/08/23 05:23 PM
1	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. what's social conditioning?	/r/seduction	02/08/23 05:17 PM
1	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. what's coke approach? You a dealer or smth?	/r/seduction	02/08/23 05:16 PM
0	To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “ i can't say I'm a player and i don't have alot of luck with women, what I'm saying comes from experience, introspection and a bit from what i read on social behavior analysis.	/r/seduction	01/06/23 05:11 PM
0	To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “ I have plenty of self esteem, but when you take in consideration the dynamics of dating, women got most of the power, we can hide however we want, but we all hope to get laid at the end of the day and that only happens if women let us.	/r/seduction	01/06/23 03:08 PM
68	To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “ that's the easy part, keep a conversation going, breaking touch barrier, escalating, creating arousal, going for the kiss, that shit is hard, plus it's really fucking hard trying to juggle all this stuff while your main thoughts are I hope she gives me privilege of riding her all night long.	/r/seduction	30/05/23 10:52 PM
2	A reminder to stay confident even if the date starts off awkward out of curiosity, what topic did you bring up?	/r/seduction	12/05/23 09:16 PM
2	Old school tip: the Knee test Ovviamente o frat che condivide i trucchi con le femmine è italiano🇮🇹	/r/seduction	14/04/23 07:32 PM
2	Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive. Thing is that aren’t that many cute girls on my local dumpster	/r/seduction	12/04/23 09:51 AM