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| 30 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeHe was arrested and charged (on evidence). He had yet to be convicted. There is very strong evidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/25 02:17 AM |
| 44 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeFirst off, listening to Andrew Tate in and of itself is a red flag. The dude is a known sex trafficker. How anyone takes this guy seriously is beyond me. Part of the reason why I got off Red Pill to begin with was that I actually was trying the tactics and I realized they weren't actually working. I was dumb enough to fall for some of it but smart enough to put two and two together when I tried these in the real world. One of my theories is that these manosphere types are giving bad advice on pu… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Why do incels seem obsessed with the idea of virginity?I also find virginity loss to be overrated. Mine wasn’t special at all. She is a very kind person who I hope is doing well, but the experience itself wasn’t great. I have had amazing sex since then though. People make it sound like losing virginity has to be this special thing, but I think that’s total BS. Just because the first thing I ate this year was McDonalds while I was drunk doesn’t make the next dinner I have at a nice restaurant any less good. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How come I want to be in a relationship?I don’t want a relationship for different reasons. I’m afraid of commitment because I spent too many years of my life in my hometown where I never fit in. (This was part of the reason why I got RP’d in the first place). Now I’m in a bigger city, but I plan to move again this year, and maybe even move out of the country soon. I realized that I’m afraid of commitment because I have a massive fear of getting stuck in one place and missing out on other opportunities. Maybe you have a subconscious re… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/25 04:30 AM |
| 17 | A cautionary tale for passport brosVacation sex is fun, but that's a dumb reason to go to another country. I go to other countries because I want to experience the sights and the culture. If I get lucky, that's a great bonus. But I have never gone somewhere just to get laid. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/24 01:50 AM |
| 37 | What’s the hate towards older women?It’s just like their hatred of sex workers. It’s all about hating women. Red Pill isn’t just about frustration with not getting laid. I was there too in my early 20’s. It sucks, but it’s not an excuse. However, Red Pill is really about feeling entitled to a young, attractive women. Seeing a sex worker or hooking up with an older woman (and I have done both in my life) breaks the idea that they can get laid in other ways. They don’t want to realize that. They would rather just blame women for not… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/24 01:16 AM |
| 6 | I used to be friends with a dude who hated woman and got laid a ton.I’m not surprised. I wake up every day thankful that I’m not in college anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 04:52 PM |
| 11 | I used to be friends with a dude who hated woman and got laid a ton.I see you have met ~20% of the guys at my college. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 12 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?OP is not correct, but thinking back to my younger years, I do relate to what he is talking about. A lot of the time (in people who are younger), arrogance tends to get confused with confidence. So in high school and sometimes college you will see a lot of people gain popularity despite having few good qualities. This is a very typical experience in high school, but high school isn’t life. I felt the same way in college too, but my college has a reputation for being very high school like. Gradua… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Checkmate, RedpillersI agree with this. Case in point: Me. I never had much luck in high school or undergrad and was always seen as a nerd in both. You would think college would be when it starts to turn around, but that wasn’t the case for me, as people at my college had generally the same mentality as people at my high school. However, being a young professional with a masters in a large, liberal city changed that completely. People who do things perceived as nerdy when you are younger run the world when you are o… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Ever heard of this ridiculous term "hoeflation"?It’s sad that people believe this unironically, but I have to admit that I laughed a little. Hoeflation sounds like a made up word for a comedy sketch. Like “inflation has gotten out of hand. My Onlyfans subscriptions are all raising their rates! Damn hoeflation.” | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/23 12:43 AM |
| 25 | Do women like bad guys?I had a female friend growing up who went through a “bad boy” phase in college. She dated three guys who were absolutely awful, each one worse than the last. She finally snapped out of it with the last one who turned out to be physically abusive. Through therapy, she came to realize that her unstable home life growing up had almost created a subconscious attraction to manipulative people. And these types of people are very good at identifying people with those types of histories. Some women real… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/23 04:22 PM |
| 9 | The 80/20 idea is nonsense but I do think there's a "romantic underclass" of sortsI think that a “dating underclass” absolutely exists in small towns or even small cities. I grew up in a small city that is quite geographically isolated. I never had much luck there. I moved to a bigger city at 25 and the tide immediately turned for me. I can buy that moving out of my hometown made me more confident to an extent, but I don’t buy that this explains the immediate shift. I think the biggest part of it is that in small communities where options are limited, the amount of options yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/23 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Hookup Culture: Real or Myth?I have only ever met one women who had been with 100 people, and she was a middle aged women in an open marriage who was proud of that fact. (I may or may not have been one of those 100…) And all I can say is…Good for her! It makes her happy, and I can’t complain about having helped. The way I think about it is…if the problem is that these men claim to have is that they aren’t getting laid…shouldn’t they be encouraging women to be more promiscuous instead of less? This exact reasoning was part o… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/23 12:40 PM |
| 6 | This is a genuine question— where do redpill men get the idea that women LOVE being with “bad boys”/borderline abusive men??I don’t get it either. I have known men and women who have admitted to liking bad boys, and I have known men who have admitted to liking mean girls. I think a lot of it comes with age. It is kind of true that the archetype football players and frat boys do tend to be popular in high school or college. A lot of the time it is because people like that are at the top of the hierarchy in their own bubble. I would combine that with that fact that young people aren’t very good at determining the diffe… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 08:25 PM |
| 4 | If you're under 6'1" (185 cm) among white males, it's over.Height is an extremely overrated indicator, and the idea of women preferring tall men is very overblown. My last girlfriend even told me that she preferred my (very average) height over 6 foot guys, mainly because she was short enough to look awkward next to someone over six feet tall. Yes, women on Tinder with bios saying “6 feet and above only” do exist, but trust me when I say these these types of women (or men) are not the kind of people you want to be dating. To me, that indicates that the … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?I lived with my parents for a year after college. It was actually pretty great. Free rent and dinner allowed me to pay off almost all my debt within a year of college. Now I’m 100% debt free, and it feels so great. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Bad Boys Get All The Hotties - DEMOLISHED!To play devil's advocate - Sometimes manipulative people are good at passing as confident. (Even though a lot of the time they really aren't). However, this can happen the other way around. Sometimes people that are actually confident do get falsely labeled as manipulative (usually by people who are envious of the other person's confidence). It does take some people a while to figure out the difference, and I have experienced both sides of this. I grew up with severe social anxiety, which caused… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 6 | How true is the phrase 'Dick is abundant and low value'You joke, but I actually had a girl (who was trying to get with me) send me a pussy pic once. It made me realize that vaginas are actually pretty gross without the full context of the body. I would imagine that women feel the same way about dicks. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What RP gets completely wrong about the Sub and Dom relationship.If you happen to be a switch, I would recommend starting out as a sub first and then becoming a dom after becoming more familiar with the process. This was how I did it. You may find that the BDSM scene is more accepting than you think. Also most people in it are not who you might picture. As in, it’s pretty much all neurodivergent people. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually stop or prevent becoming a simp?Anyone who uses the word “simp” unironically is not worth listening to. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW: A Losers Mindset, Or Do They Have A Point?Dating apps are a common scapegoat for a lot of societal problems. And let me tell you, while they might come tribute somewhat, they don’t work as well as you might think even if you are attractive. I’ve been told that I’m an above average looking guy by women. I’ve been told by close female friends that I’m about an 8/10, maybe a 9 on a good day. I also have a pretty good job for a mid 20 something. But my success with dating apps has been minimal. I have only had sex with someone I met on a da… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Misconceptions about having "confidence".I think there are a ton of misconceptions about having confidence. And actually this is one area in which I can kind of see where Redpillers are coming from (though of course they go about it in the worst possible way). I can think of several examples where someone I knew was accused of being arrogant when they were just being confident, and vice versa. I have seen some very confident people get labeled as arrogant by some people, even though I know those people would be there for me if I needed… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you find confidence in your appearance?Fake it till you make it. Seriously. I walk into every club with my back straight and head tilted slightly back like I own the place. That isn’t really my natural posture, but I find that of I act confident, I will start to actually be confident. Literally just pretend you are the sexiest and most important person in the room. It doesn’t have to be true, just act like you are. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:24 AM |
| 4 | Consequences of being single for life?I was almost 26 when I got into my first relationship. By that time I had travelled to more then 14 countries, most of them solo. I don’t think that anyone can say that I had no personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Need Feedback: Women and “Orbiters”Women like this do exist, but men like this also exist. Redpillers do this a lot. They take a thing that some people do that is wrong and pretend that only one gender does it. But in reality there are women out there that use men and men that use women (and it doesn’t have to be heterosexual either). That’s life. Some people are trash. Pretending it’s all one group of people helps no one. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if it is the city that people live in?I think there’s some truth to this. I spent my teen and college years in a medium sized Southwestern city, and now I live in a big East Coast city. While a medium sized city isn’t the worst place to be, it still doesn’t compare to living in a larger, more diverse city. Throughout most of high school and even college, it felt to me like certain kinds of people were popular and other kinds weren’t. Like the more stereotypically masculine you were, the more success you had with women. Even in colle… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | I used to be what you'd call a "Redpiller"I see the pattern to this. The US has a long history of holding back women an minorities. There are still many, many remnants of this culture today. However, plenty of white men too are also struggling to find themselves. In that process, they see the help being given to other groups, and wonder why they are being helped while the struggling white does not think he is being helped. So he turns to any far right organization he can, as these people tell him what he wants to hear. People who are lo… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/17 08:59 PM |
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