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Same. I am banned from so many subs I never interacted with because Reddit is full of mods who cannot tolerate people speaking up against their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:45 PM
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You have a lot of assumptions in there, like that men oppose the draft or that they do not speak up. A lot of men speak up and they're silenced, for example by being banned on platforms like this one. You're called a radical incel and righwing extremist for opening your mouth. Regarding the draft, if men and women are equal, the question is: Why aren't women drafted? But I suspect most men do not actually want women to be drafted. But a lot of men also understand that this is a necessary evil in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:34 PM
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Finally something we can agree on /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:20 PM
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Everywhere else you'll be banned for uttering anything which is not mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:33 PM
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Never heard or read anything like this. What kind of men are you hanging out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:46 PM
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Because nobody gives a shit about men, including men. Men are used to harsh criticism all day every day. We know when we are too short, fat fucks, or too thin. We also know that such movements don't change perception. Some men are super fine being bald. They can pull it off. But most look like they're in the middle of their 7th chemo round.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:50 AM
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I want to agree with you, but your example a woman who is “physically attractive” is literally terrible to make your point. If you have a woman who is considered "physically attractive", the overwhelming number of men will often agree with it. Whereas women cannot as a group come up with something that works for them, or even individually have a consistent ideal for physical attractiveness. Have you tried asking them over time? You will get different answers all the time. "sexual enthusiasm" Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:18 PM
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But just a little bit. Happens left and right, to almost everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:16 PM
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Women are doing their best to objectify themselves for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:47 PM
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As a man, is there anything that isn't unattractive or a red.flag anymore lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:20 AM
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OK. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:47 PM
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Straight man here. I think these photos are absolutely beautiful and the female body is wonderful and attractive. I could look at this stuff all day and be aroused. If you feel "disgust" when seeing this (particularly before having rubbed one out), maybe, JUST MAYBE consider that your experience might differ quite a bit from the average straight male.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:06 PM
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I agree it sucks. Most people should not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:53 AM
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Next Epstein will be an Arab prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:09 AM
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My perspective may be irrelevant because I never had trouble (girls somehow just like me and trust me even though I am weird and peculiar), but in my 30s it feels like I get even more attention. To give some context, I am 36, mixed race and may have gotten lucky on some traits like height, shoulders, skin and hair. Last week I got estimated 25 again, which is quite common. I even get carded once a week. Random women approach me to give compliments or ask me out, I kid you not. Of course, I am ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:07 AM
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Where are you seeing blame for single moms? It's mostly about absentee fathers. Which I think is a justified criticism, though it is one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:29 PM
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No, I said "a lot of", just like OP said "a lot of" men. You take issue with my statement but not with hers, whereas I agree with her and raise my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:09 PM
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Low effort putting words into my mouth. Are you aware of the concept of "a lot of" as opposed to "all"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:56 PM
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A lot of women marry men because they want constant access to resources, not because of his personality. Yes, we are stating the obvious here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:26 PM
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Every group except men is split up and discussed into oblivion over generalizations, but when it is for the sake of argumentation, all men are bad. That's how discourse works in the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:03 PM
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They want the same as most other men do: The woman should be physically attractive and youthful but also be pleasant to be with and loyal to build a life with. She should not be a gold digger and unreasonably live above her means. She doesn't have to be a CEO or managing director but reasonably successful on her own so she can stand on her own feet. She doesn't need to have a PhD, but she should be educated and smart enough to keep up in every day life. And she should not have gone through dozen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:32 AM
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There is no real evidence that women were more sexually repressed than men vs Yes, women were punished for casual sex more, and were expected to be untainted. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:39 PM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:15 PM
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Yes Yes; no if religion is more important than us No; yes if it is a rare special occasion Yes; no if I am expected to always come No Yes No No No Yes Yes No No Yes Yes; no if she isn't a convincing frugal and motherly person No; yes if we can get drunk together and avoid the hangover Yes Yes Yes Yes; no if she wants me to stop one of my hobbies Yes Yes No; yes if she looks like an amazon warriorisn't fat Yes No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:13 PM
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You mention logic and yet fail to provide arguments. I would argue that any model that the people involved agree upon can be considered logical. It just so happens that monogamy is most commonly agreed upon as it involves the least number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:00 PM
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Technically, even though you're (hopefully happily married), you're still very likely to die alone with cats simply because men don't live as long. Not meant in a bad way, but that was my immediate thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:07 AM
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This is one of those weird things I do not get, and it seems to be an American thing with iMessage, too. Green vs blue blobs? Who cares, who has time to pay attention to this? If you care so much about some gadgets you are lost anyway. People spend way too much time on their phones. Put your phone down and do something useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:59 AM
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Look at the state of the world. We are probably in for a bunch of major wars. The number of men will go down, and women will be less picky. Problem solved. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:36 PM
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It's not misogynistic. I would ask: Does it work? If not, it's just plain stupid. If it does, women need to learn to control their emotions and all that. That's what we tell men when it comes to their testosterone fueled aggression and creepiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:09 PM
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who think getting rich is how you physically attract women They don't even think that. They think that flaunting wealth is how you attract women. They may be right, but not for long. But the genuine path to achieving wealth, mainly being frugal, thrifty, better at what you do that most others while being ruthless is not exactly what women are into lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:31 PM
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"Good for him. How did he manage that?" But it's not like I really care. Doesn't really affect me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:59 PM
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Holy shit it's this. What a colossal waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:54 PM
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Meeting in person is vastly different from texting. That is the whole point of such a date. Minimal investment to see what the other person is actually like. It shouldn't require expensive wardrobe, fancy jewelry, or tons of makeup. Otherwise you're not presenting yourself but some highly curated version of yourself which is unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:04 PM
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A friend of mine has been with women between 40-50 for 20 years for this exact reason. Also, his mommy didn't love him enough. He says that himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:17 AM
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But I enjoy being a dick! AITA?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:07 PM
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It's different. Men are already jaded, bitter, and have trouble bonding at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:55 PM
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Heartbreak is one thing. A nasty divorce where you are left with very little is something different. Why are you connecting these things? There are so many women who get screwed by divorce as well. Would you tell them “that is life” as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:47 PM
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The cost of not winning the lottery is the fixed cost of the ticket. This hardly compares to the running equations of wealth redistribution upon divorce over a significant portion of your life and beyond at the discretion of a court order.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:36 PM
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I knew somebody who killed himself over divorce. Granted, he was an attorney, married to an attorney. “Not that bad” is probably as far from the average experience as this guy had being married to an attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:34 PM
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Would you put a gun to your head if you only had a 42% chance of dying? That’s extremely unreasonable for such a life changing contractual obligation for which the state will hold you accountable for decades to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:25 PM
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This is exactly why Trump won, and why Trump style candidates, no matter how stupid, will keep winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:30 AM
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It's sexist to treat one sex differently than the other out of fear Okay. Women are way more afraid of men (with statistically significant evidence justifying it) and are treating them very differently because of it. Are you, as a woman, saying that is sexist? You did not think this through.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:29 PM
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This is men waiting for women to be proactive when it comes to dating. Stop trying to make this a thing. It's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:17 PM
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Keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:37 PM
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Shit mate. Wasn't this the guy who had a stroke? He's making so much sense.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 08:24 PM
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Don't lesbians experience the highest rate of domestic violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:13 PM
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Chad bot Lol The crazy thing is, if Chad bot can be tamed, will it still be Chad and attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:37 PM
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Feminism and dating apps have given women all the power in relationship dynamics, and they are unhappy with it because they're constantly dating up as long as they can. And now they blame men again. Thank fuck I don't have to date anymore. Red Pill is just a reaction to it all, trying to play these mechanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:49 PM
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I have made the same experience, although I do not think I had "red pill days" myself, and neither would I have called my behavior misogynistic. At this point, that word has lost all meaning. Whatever is said that a woman does not like is now called that. In any case, I have said plenty of stupid or offensive things, and women would mostly laugh and hit right back with something on the same level. The only thing they consistently hated was that "step bro" shit. Only men will find that funny. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:22 PM
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At this point, if you are independent, the left has pretty much stamped you as a right-winger. This is why they won.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:54 PM
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What does the mainstream left constantly shitting on men have to do with bad parenting and lack of community?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:52 PM
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No. The left will double down. But it's not like the right is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:09 PM
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Probably something like an ultimate insult to injury. They are rejected even by fat chicks after spending so much time trying to "improve themselves" and going to the gym because they thought it would change anything. It doesn't. Women do not find most men attractive, period. There is no recipe to change that because women themselves cannot tell us. They'll come up with long checklists and suggestions but it doesn't work like that. Men fail because they think they can tick a bunch of boxes and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:02 AM
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I don't mean this in a bad way, but women don't even understand themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:56 AM
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Do you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:54 AM
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At this point, you're better off paying some random bloke's bar tab if you want to support men. That way, you might at least make someone's day. What a sad joke.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 06:03 PM
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Get educated! Become a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:37 PM
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There's plenty for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:28 AM
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There are solutions for that. Get rid of any gender specific laws, have an LLM sanitize all sources and inputs with regards to characteristics that would allow for relevant discrimination. Maybe the sources and precedents should also be filtered to only rely on male bias sources first so that gender specific leniency is eliminated. Then you train a model to judge based on that information. Importantly, an o1 like model discussing the train of thought and reasoning behind a judgement, with source…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 09:03 AM
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Wait, what? How can guys at the same time be horndogs and sapios? It's either one or the other, but never both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:27 PM
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Femcel shit has been mainstream for twenty years. Bannable statement if genders were reversed.
/r/MensRights27/09/24 03:07 PM
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Not only should you aspire to remain independent financially to a large degree, but your partner should encourage you in that regard. When I see people give up immediately after just meeting one another, it has me scratching my head. Both men and women. People immediately join all accounts and embrace a lifestyle that is completely dependent on the partner financing it. They do this repeatedly, not learning anything, and getting into trouble each time. I don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:44 AM
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I wouldn't want that. I want her. It would also make me feel like a total dick. Her coming out with something suddenly "one day" would be a huge red flag and I would assume it to be a trap and that I was in for a nasty shit show. Maybe she did something bad herself...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:48 PM
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For once I’d like to see female friends hold each other accountable. For once I’d like to see women check each other Holy shit this. For all the talking they do and how communicative they are claimed to be, women absolutely suck at telling each other how it is. If I am out with a friend and he's behaving badly, I'll tell him to stop being a dumbass. Like, WTF is wrong with you? Snap out of it!I tell them straight up when they are hurting their health eating garbage all the time. You look like as…
/r/MensRights01/09/24 10:21 AM
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Yeah. And Billy can finance her lavish wedding, be trampled all over, then end up miserable and posting on the DB sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:41 AM
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Being trustworthy plays into being attractive. More like the other way round. You know whether someone is trustworthy after some time has passed, but people immediately rate based on what they are attracted to. They are willing to overlook the lack of trustworthiness (and bad behavior) to a huge degree if they are attracted to you. "Working harder" to make women attracted to you doesn't work. After a certain point. There is only so much you can do. What are you going to do beyond that? Be a bill…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:34 AM
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No amount of trustworthiness is going to get you into those pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:25 AM
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I think it should be mandatory. It's fraud or it's not, depending on what you discussed as a couple, but facts are facts. Why are people against facts? Because of the "societal stability"? Why are we building on lies as a society?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:31 AM
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Ah right. My feminist phone femsplained it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:11 PM
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The sexes drifted apart because women are expected to take up all gender roles and expect men to find that attractive. Meanwhile, men are expected to take up only male gender roles and that is the only thing women find attractive, but at the same time they claim they hate it. Marriage doesn't work because the concept was last updated in the 19th century but is colliding with reality hard. We need to stop lying to ourself. Feminism diddidn't help men break out of their chains. It keeps reinforcin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:57 PM
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Rhetorical question. Of course they cannot.
/r/MensRights24/08/24 12:30 PM
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the Court of Violence against Women in Seville WTF is wrong with Spain? Gendered laws are stupid. Gendered courts are a symptom of skewed jurisprudence.
/r/MensRights24/08/24 12:29 PM
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Haha This is exactly what they want. These men are never single long. They fuck around. Women fuck around and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:39 PM
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The majority of marriages end up in divorce, with women initiating the divorce, with usually catastrophic economic consequences. Your attitude of don't get married if you think about divorce is like saying you can't fail if you don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:26 PM
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The problem is real, but the other real problem is alcohol and that is much larger. It can and will fuck you up, and people need to understand this. I love a good drink, but sometimes, it takes less than usually. The effects can be delayed and hit you like a truck, especially with the style of drinks that are popular with women. Among guys, we just say: He drank it all himself, stupid mofo. Or: Had too much, never drinking again? See you next week. We don’t automatically assume some did somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:15 PM
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I think marriage is the one thing that men have a high-ish bar for because there are almost no incentives and so many drawbacks to getting married for men. All the attractiveness in the world doesn't make you marriage material if you have flaws that put your "forever" relationship in danger. Many women like to engage in a lifestyle in their youth that does exactly that. It puts into question this long-term viability. Some even engage in it while expecting to get married soon. Men are extremely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:03 AM
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The rumors of men being less horny are greatly exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:18 PM
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WTF I don't know where you get your trends from and I don't want to know.
/r/MensRights31/07/24 01:59 PM
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Men are losing because feminism is the prevalent ideology and feminism has ideologically (but not biologically) torn down any uniquely male selling points by claiming that women can and should be anything that men are, but not the other way round. Men cannot be what women are, they are despicable, useless, worthless. As a man, you not only compete with other men. You compete with women for the traits that they are attracted to, which leads to expectation inflation. This is why every man needs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:46 PM
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Unless done for legit medical reasons, it's just male genital mutilation and should be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:08 PM
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Women ARE more empathetic and emotionally intelligent than men, it’s not an opinion thing. What a sexist thing to claim. Such claims made about women are bannable in most subs and would cause a shit storm in public. Most people don't give a shit about other people. That so-called empathy that is so prevalent among women is hard to notice as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:08 AM
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Because women don't hate other women Yeah... about that...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:04 AM
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Straight man here, very interesting to read from your perspective. Very few straight women do express their attraction openly. I always wondered about it. They mainly express it when there is no chance something ever happening is my impression, for whatever reason. It's like they love dreaming about the idea more than they like acting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:56 AM
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Melissa. Didn't even have to read the first line to the end for each option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:39 PM
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No. A light smoker maybe but both are unhealthy and unattractive, and I am neither a smoker nor fat myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:53 AM
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This again? Low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:09 AM
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You have a shitty social circle then. It always comes down to who you want to believe, and the lines are usually drawn early. In my circle, we saw men being shitty and getting what they deserved. We also saw men getting steamrolled by their exes for financial reasons, we saw a woman abduct their kids to a far away country and the state would say there is nothing they can do about it. Of course we have empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:38 AM
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No amount of ceremony or spending demonstrates higher level of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:32 AM
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What could or should be done about it? You tell me. How are they to blame for it if they honestly don't know? Why don't they know? My impression is that so many women say bogus and inconsistent things on the female body, pregnancy and related topics, and the reaction is always "she is a woman, her opinion is valid and true." Plenty of women don't do that. Can't blame men for the huge gap and at the same time not reward it by faking it and coming back. So many bitter women out there who keep bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:26 PM
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That's what I immediately thought of when I read this title. It's constantly talked about and written about, but nothing is done about it. To the contrary, women reward shitty behavior, or take the "my body is a mystery" route and don't even know how to achieve it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:03 AM
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Well, according to general consensus, it either plays a very large role, or no role at all. Which one it is depends on the topic being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:24 PM
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Because (1) it is adults who decide to do this and (2) not just babies are affected but non-adult males, that is, boys. A male baby is still a boy. A 12 year old male kid is a boy. Circumcision for nonmedical reasons should not be performed on either. Both are forced into it, by adults who want to do this.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 07:16 PM
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How is that weirder? Babies cannot stop anything. They don't understand what is happening to them. Therefore the original title "male babies need to stop xyz..." is weirder.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 06:53 PM
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Title is weird. Should be: Adults should stop circumcising (baby) boys.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 06:39 PM
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But that would require women to do something, and possibly face rejection. That does not work! How dare you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:41 PM
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isn't a win by any metric They're trying so hard to be like the men they hate so much that they declare it a win. An empowering experience, when all it really takes is to drop your pants, whereas for men it is a hard, damn near impossible grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:09 AM
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This, pretty much. A lot of men are happy seeing it because they feel they were shunned themselves. Doesn't really make sense, but men are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:17 PM
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It's not a nice thing to say, but women don't know WTF they want. Ask a bunch of women what they find attractive and you'll get a very diverse set of answers. Ask them a week later and you'll get different answers. Tell them what the other women think and you'll once again get very different answers; you'll actually get to see inflation of requirements. Now look what OLD does. It turns this behavior into an absurd caricature. It's the requirement inflation of what they think they want, but ultim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:05 PM
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The average guy is quite shy and rejection averse therefore he doesnt try with many women. The average guy will be called a creep by most women for trying. Especially in an age of OLD where actually approaching or talking to someone is considered creepy. You call them rejection averse, but rejection is the norm for men, even for players. Women are rejection averse. I have been successful, but the number of women I have rejected who lashed out and called me a f4g or racial slur or insulted me in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:12 PM
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That's not a privilege. Why not? It's a huge privilege, but also a burden. Biological facts and differences have resulted in many privileges awarded to women in most cultures. But there are also restrictions. Which by the way is also the case for men. But for some reason, women will never admit their privileges, while at the same time, pointing out privileges of men and denying problems and restrictions is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:39 AM
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No fault divorce is a good thing, it needs to stay. The financial incentives for divorce need to be abolished.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 04:44 AM
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Men are just unwilling to raise and finance another man's kids while being put last.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:45 PM
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If you, as a woman, integrate into a structure of women and conspire to withhold affection from a man, as part of men, for no reason other that he is part of said group, not a personal reason, you are a sociopath and a lunatic. If you, as a man, see yourself as being denied affection for being part of men, not for personal reasons, you are an incel, and a lunatic. Groups don't owe each other social interaction or sex. A group does not represent an individual or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:23 PM
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Their hobbies are crime$ I mean, WTF else am I supposed to do on a Saturday night? I'm gonna rob a store and slap some cheeks, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:15 PM
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Women don’t care. Because the empathy that they are praised for is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:47 PM
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Is it? Men are far more willing to engage with women than the other way round. The average man is undesirable to the overwhelming amount of women. The average woman is undesirable to many men, but not nearly as many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:51 AM
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For every woman who'd date Musk they'd be another who wouldnt even with his obscene wealth. That literally means nothing. For the average man, for every woman who'd date him, there would be countless who wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:11 AM
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Except many of the attractions men and women have are fundamentally different and thus standards are also very different. The question is whether the standards you have for partners balance out with the standards required of you, but neither are easily measurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:47 AM
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I am not whipped. I have different commitments in life. I can do all of those things, I still do those things, but not as often anymore. The question is whether I want to, given all the other things going on. And of course you ask your partner in life if the plans you made are okay. But sometimes, it might also be a convenient excuse to not do something. The wife made other plans ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:52 PM
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He obviously is very bitter, but there is a lot of truth to what he says. As for most people liking their lives, I am not sure about that. Young men in general are going down the shitter fast, and nobody cares. They are hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:20 PM
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You can “like” that, but that’s a far cry from being attracted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:15 PM
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Men are stupid. That is my opinion as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:57 AM
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This is a discussion of stats vs aesthetics vs health. People are attracted mostly to aesthetics, which implies health (not always, but it is a good approximation). The numbers say very little about your appearance. Physical attractiveness is given by shapes and proportions, not numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:51 PM
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How are generalizations against men used for anything except shitting on them? Meanwhile, this is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:43 PM
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It’s not research. It’s not claimed to be a study. Why does it matter? Yesterday someone here used “there are videos” to explain that all men are shitty fathers. OP is just posting some data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:30 PM
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Oh, now we are consulting online videos? I'd be careful with calling those representative, because there is so many more of women behaving exactly like the rage baiter and incels describe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:34 PM
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You seem to have a lot of internalized hate for your own sex, and also seem super fixed in predetermined roles assigned to both men and women. Why wouldn't a dad know where a kid's dentist is, or where extra hand soap is? People have to stay on top of such things all the time, regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:11 PM
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No, you can't. Have fun on the dead bedroom sub in a couple of years. It is an unreasonable self-imposed high-risk restriction. The connection you can have if you know each other well in that regard, after so many years, is incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:35 PM
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I think saving yourself for marriage is a path to failure. A healthy bedroom needs to be established long before you get married. The sensible thing is to be careful and only sleep with people you are in an established relationship with. This way you can be sure that you are compatible. Otherwise you are in for a huge disappointment. Just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:54 AM
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It doesn't work because women will not make the first step. They are too afraid of rejection. They don't handle it well, and neither do men. But men are taught from when they are little that they'll be rejected a lot. Whenever I rejected a woman, it had to be because obviously I was gay. Or she got mad and claimed she was never interested to begin with. Or something like that. They were never socialized to deal with rejection.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 07:57 PM
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Being educated in one area shouldn't make people think that you are automatically also qualified or even smart in all other areas. Sadly, right now, there is a lot of education going into that direction for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:07 PM
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Yes. That last part hits hard. It's like these days, people believe so much in titles and certifications. Meanwhile they won't even look into what they say. I have a PhD, your argument is invalid...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:58 PM
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They're not arguing in good faith, but there are also unhealthy trends here. Young women want older men because that's what they hear and read about. They're willing to ignore so many red flags just to be with a guy who is 35 when they're 20 that you keep reading their shit stories left and right. While this might be fine in many cases, as an "older man" myself ten horses couldn't drag me to be with a 20 year old. Now of course it is different and there might just be that individual you click wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:22 AM
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Maybe just tune out of TikTok and Instagram. Social media is a cancer. It's making us sick, it's a danger to society in its current form. The sooner you realize this, the better. I am glad I realized this somewhere around 2014. I still have many of those, but I do not consume or participate much. It's like people compete on it and consider it reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:38 PM
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Bear with me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:01 AM
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While true, this is not a real solution. We teach kids not to touch a hot stove because you will get burned, but this is hardly the same. Compared to most regions on the planet, western society is incredibly safe for women, and in the overwhelming amount of cases, nothing happens if they behave that way. So this is not the prevalent culture. Arguably, the problem is worse in more conservative places and cultures, where more people behave like predators. Telling women to dress more modestly and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:21 AM
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They think that it will reduce divorce rates, which is stupid. You should be able to be divorced quicker, but the consequences need to be fairer. Right now, divorce is too painful and complicated, and women tend to be favored by judges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:41 AM
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For example in Germany, Switzerland, Sweden, most parts of Canada? Oh no, do those not count?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:31 AM
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Yes. The formal definition doesn't matter because it is not relevant in practice. Feminism doesn't advocate fairness or equality. It is a one-sided political movement fighting for more privileges and power for women by means of antagonizing the declared enemy that is the entirety of all men. They fight with the same means that they accuse their enemies of using.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:59 AM
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They are in fact illegal in a bunch of countries, and even if they prove that you're not the father, the result will be inadmissible in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:58 AM
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Your perspective is biased. OnlyFans and Instragram are not representative of reality. They're just a growing cancer. Feminism has resulted in women having to fulfill both the male and female role models, and men being constantly shit on. Both men and women are unhappy with this. The economy and government are happy because it almost doubled the workforce while relative wages have stagnated compared with productivity over the last 50 years. To call princess treatment and OF a variation of tradco…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:16 PM
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WTF am I reading? It's like the web has cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:05 PM
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The Middle East and North Africa and Sub Saharan Africa regions showed the largest improvements in the WBL Index in 2021, though they continue to lag behind other parts of the world overall. Oh look. It's the regions associated with the religion that we aren't allowed to criticize. Good to have them as a standard as to why we suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:52 PM
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Screw the EU.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:00 PM
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We are fucked arent we? Ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:09 PM
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So I found a post on a anorexia forum That's where you went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:49 AM
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I don't really know. The problem is manifold. Men are now encouraged to open up and share more, but they are also mocked and even attacked for doing it. For many it's like they don't even want help. They want to be angry. Any weakness you show paints you a failure, and not being successful is poison to manhood. At least it feels like that. This is why many men would rather lie to themselves than admit they have a problem. And it's serious. Anger is like the only emotion they allow themselves. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:25 PM
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Therapy isn't a joke, but it also isn't the solution to each and every ailment and situation. Reddit is so quick to reply with "therapy, now" that it is hard to take seriously. The relationship subs are notorious for being one-sided and suggesting women break up for even minor things whereas men are always told to get therapy. Nobody even seems to know what that actually means. What is true is that you really need to want to get better and change things. This is a step that must happen before th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:17 PM
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It's easy to blame something that you can't change. Some people get so used to it that they want things not to change at all cost, and they would rather accept something wrong as a fact than face the possibility that it might not be relevant at all. Also, and I notice this as a man myself, it is very easy to spiral into misery when you're not feeling great. It's hard to describe but even as a happy individual, there are times when suddenly everything feels like it's turning to shit and everybody…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:45 PM
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On point analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:30 PM
3

The problem will solve itself. Western culture will die and be replaced with cultures that have social contracts which favor procreation, as evil as those might in some cases be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:38 PM
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It's not unreasonable. I think it's a reasonable expectation. The problem is that women have started out-earning men while everywhere the talk is about gender pay gaps. Women have systematically outperformed in school and higher education for decades. There are exclusive grants and funding for women. You know what there is for men? Nothing. Women want to have it both ways, and it doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:56 PM
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Dating is systemic (not systematic!) discrimination by arbitrary criteria. It is not supposed to be fair. Look at the groups and draw your conclusions. You should be fair in your relationship, but the selection process is completely bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:45 AM
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When you're so progressive that you go full fundamentalist.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 06:47 PM
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You know that's what it is going to be. Because women must not be excluded.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 06:45 PM
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Insert average Redditor meme here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:17 AM
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I hate cake. You can have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:45 PM
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I think people who kill themselves have mental issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:38 AM
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It doesn't matter to the victims and their families, and it likely was a misogynist attack. Then again, it does not make much sense to derive something from this incident and transfer it to men in general. The attacker was mentally ill, a schizophrenic with deeply rooted issues. The media is making this a men vs women issue because that way they can continue outrage farming. As for the impact, I think as usual, very little will happen. Psychological conditions will continue to be ignored, and ve…
/r/MensRights16/04/24 08:56 AM
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Who consumes romance: women. Therefore, women are the more romantic gender. That makes no sense at all. I listen to music, but I am not musical or artistic at all. In fact, I plain suck at it and have no interest in making music. The person who acts in a specific way is attributed the descriptive quality associated with that behavior. What the motivation behind said behavior is can be speculated about, but it is secondary to this discussion. The fact is that women hardly ever are romantic at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:40 AM
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Valentine's is one of the least romantic days of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:30 AM
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it's the bar of what passes as an attractive man that is up in the sky It's not even just that. It is relatively easy to find women that straight men will find almost universally attractive. You could go outside and find a random woman that men anywhere would find super attractive within 15 minutes. Women cannot even describe it because they don't seem to know for the most part. Ask the same women a few times and you will receive a different, convoluted answer every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:05 PM
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She's just a child. Wait, what.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:45 PM
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My parents would never approve and I care about their opinion. Why? Are you not a modern, independent woman? I could accept many reasons, but this is just... not a great one? Personally, I respect whoever works this job. But I'd prefer someone with more ambition in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:43 PM
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Women here will tell you it does not matter and that they gladly make double what their SO makes. In reality, women care a lot. For perception and monetary reasons. A garbage job is a hard job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:36 PM
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Have you thought about some other guy "raw dogging" your wife and you cannot get a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:03 PM
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Men lose hardly any value by aging because they inherently don't carry any value to begin with. Women are allowed to age but they do stand to lose much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:17 AM
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So are the men. Though a lot more of them die long before they go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:16 AM
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Such a creative post, we've never heard this one before. It has been obvious forever that men are hornier than women, and to claim otherwise is just gaslighting. Women cannot comprehend male horniness just like men cannot comprehend periods. You can understand it on paper, but you will never have lived it. All the people claiming that men and women have the same drive are just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:10 PM
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Bumble is going bankwupt because women won't make that move.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:09 PM
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If "improving his odds of getting a date" translate into "trying anyone just in case it works". It is indeed ridiculous, sorry. Easy for you as a woman to call it that. The odds of actually getting a date are extremely low. Plus, almost all women are entirely passive and would never make the first step. In the end, for many men, it really comes down to trying with as many as they can. Every time you don't try, you lose. You call it dehumanizing. Is it so? These dating mechanics have been establi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:09 PM
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Ah. To what, and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:03 PM
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Reality is ugly and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:53 PM
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Because men have always been thirsty, and the thirst basically turns off the brain. They're basic and they don't influence each other much. Whereas women's preferences highly depend on what other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:52 PM
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It was better. For men and women. The internet gives men infinite competition and women infinite options. Both make people unhappy. The prevalence of cell phones and social media made plans unreliable and non-binding. Gone are the days when plans meant something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:14 PM
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No one is stopping y’all from leveling up to get the type of girl you want Reality is a hard wall for both men and women. You can keep lying to yourself but it doesn't make reality go away. Some people will just never become a millionaire or grow tall. Women's requirement inflation only results in unhappy, bitter, divorced, single women in the long run. Setting the bar to something that only 0.00xyz% of men pass is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:53 PM
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I think you're on to something here. You need to find happiness in yourself and be content first, then build on top of it. A lot of people are inherently unhappy and expect a partner to magically fix that. It does not work like that. Men are like addicts, interacting with women like they're their next fix. Desperate as fuck, not understanding that that fix does not make happiness. Women are sabotaging themselves by following the hive mind checklist. Other women have XYZ, why don't I? If I do, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:58 AM
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There is a large overlap between romantic sentiment and being physically attracted to somebody you are already friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:22 PM
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The only way to be equal is to be a woman.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 05:01 PM
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Nope. That would be weird. Might still sleep with her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:51 AM
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Standard marriage is a bad deal. Smart people do smart things, including in marriage. Most people are not smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:06 PM
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I would like some flowers. Anything, really. The weird thing is that as a man, you almost never get anything and it is considered normal. Meanwhile, women get to complain and say things like "giving gifts is the easiest way to show how little you know someone" or how men are "not romantic". Romance is a one-way street, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:59 AM
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We truly needed the academics to figure this out. What are they trying to discover next? That it is... and god forgive for for saying this... okay to be different??? Interesting even?
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:41 AM
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He better be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:51 AM
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Correlation is not causality. Given the great filter that women apply when it comes to partner selection regarding income it is no wonder that married men make more than the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:49 AM
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And most of Asia is just as individualistic and ruthless as the West at this point. People still treat Asia like a third world continent, but that's just ignorance. Yes, large parts of rural regions are still like that, but a lot of Asia is just as advanced -- if not more -- as the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:50 PM
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Western society is super individualistic. There is no collective responsibility or immediate need to have childern. In fact, entering a relationship (marriage) and having children poses significant risks to the individual that they are otherwise not subject to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:10 PM
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Try less. Also, mommy compliments are nice but they don't really count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:12 AM
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No. They are abusing desperate men. Dating is ruined by OLD and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:45 PM
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To me this is the average man who is above the age of 30 Average height or tall If you're not tall, you're automatically below average in the eyes of most women. social circle of friends they see on weekends and friends they can speak to Yeah, that's hard for many men. Facebook/Instagram That's a no for me. I don't do social media like that. Has a job or at least a career, perhaps not mega high earners Six figures is poor now. Has a mortgage or rented place and their own car I get that. Average …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:35 AM
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Maybe you should get that checked out by a medical professional. Being able to read and understand a couple of sentences should be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:23 PM
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Do you believe that, or do you know that? I know a bunch of people who have a kid they didn't want. And it happened because they didn't use contraception at all. ONS babies and all that. Though these examples do in no way have to represent a cross section of society. Could be just random. Oh and shitty sex ed for sure is a big reason too. One thing we can agree on. Absolutely atrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:20 PM
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You were saying how I, not having any financial or physical skin in the game, should not get an opinion. To which I say: What is the point of the whole discussion then? Are you saying I should not get an opinion due to my sex (as in category) or personal non-involvement (me personally)? In the first case, there is of course financial skin in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:13 PM
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By definition, birth control failing is the exception for birth control. If it weren't we'd technically still be relying on esoteric measures like in ancient times. Wearing weasel's testicles, casting magic spells etc. Therefore if pregnancy is aborted after having relied on birth control, it is an exception by itself. Are you saying that the majority of abortions occur due to failed contraception? Then we should have a discussion about how current contraceptive measures suck donkey balls and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:10 PM
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Oh, I thought this sub was about opinions and discussing perceived things regarding sex and gender issues. You seem to be fine discussing as long as everybody shares your opinion only. I hope you don't have an opinion on anything that doesn't affect you personally, directly and immediately. Because that would never make sense. Wouldn't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:01 PM
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Please elaborate and do not just imply that I said something (which I did not) that you don't like while acting like your conviction should be obvious without explanation to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:55 PM
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As a man, you cannot get an abortion. Neither physically, nor financially. So I am not sure what you mean, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:54 PM
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Oh, really? No, this has of course never occurred to me. I always come to the internets to learn something new every day. And I am especially glad when people invoke the exception to justify a general mechanism. If OP didn't exclude crime or medical necessity, you'd just have used those to greenlight abortion as a general alternative to birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:19 PM
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Women are competing with each other, and they are addicted to social media. Social media reinforces everything. And so they have extreme standards and reactions, ever worsening. They all think themselves 10s, every man is abusive, everything has to be perfect etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:15 PM
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No. Abortion should not be used as an alternative to birth control. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:52 PM
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Divorce tends to kick men out of the house.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 11:45 AM
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I don't think most men do even want that anymore. I want my wife to be her own person and as independent as possible. Why the hell would I want her to be economically dependent on me? We are both well off separately, and even more so together. This is why we have complete separation of assets and want to maintain economic independence. This life is awesome. I can work from home and so can she. When we become parents, I want her to continue to work, if possible in a slightly reduced capacity, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:29 PM
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I noticed these questions popping up over the last few hours and it perfectly exemplifies what is wrong with Reddit. Every single sub is skewed but people think it represents a cross section of real life. Overall, it is pretty obvious that you're right. Meanwhile, the internet is full of BS when it comes to the female body and sexuality for various reasons, which includes porn, bad education, and last but not least, women not understanding their own bodies or knowing what pleases them. Granted, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:45 PM
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He was making a point in how they all have the same phone, use it for the same things, presenting themselves in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:06 PM
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Probably because it's often cheaper = he cannot afford an iPhone = he's poor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:55 AM
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Wasn't there a study stating that 70% of women would exclude Android users in online dating scenarios? Men, as usual, don't care what phone women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:47 AM
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It probably works the same way as with most things. A tiny portion of men on top profit the most. Then all the women. Then the majority of men. For the most part, women don't have to commit anymore. This is why men don't have to commit anymore. If women want, men are on the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:08 PM
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Yes, that would be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:24 PM
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How about this entire sub being about the issues arising from male/female relationship interactions? It is generally accepted that men are shit. It is generally not accepted that there is anything wrong with women. Admitting that there is something strange going on is the first step in improving things. Even if you don't give a damn about men, admitting that women have such preferences and realizing that they are hurt by them would be beneficial for women. Do you care about women at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:43 PM
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Hypocritical statement by a super privileged woman who keeps dumping on men. She looks like a cow with extensive make-up, slob clothing and still has men and women thirsting for her because celebrity culture is that stupid. Women are not nice. People are, on average, ignoring you at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:10 AM
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If that happens to us, in most cases we can simply remove ourselves from the situation From the immediate situation, yes, maybe. But nobody will believe you, you will be ridiculed. And your personal ties will mean it will happen again or you will lose big. Imagine the usual family scenario, how do you remove yourself there? If you react proportionally (or worse), it will be written as if you were the aggressor and the woman the victim, and you will be crucified by your social circle, media and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:02 AM
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Where are all the good men? They are with the good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:01 PM
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POC Mostly being black. Being Asian counts as white when it comes to being shit on. Hell, even black men are constantly shit on. There's this whole "black men are the white people among POC" insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:55 PM
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Men die -- women most affected.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 05:20 PM
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Most women have no idea how to be romantic. They expect romantic gestures all the time and will complain about how men suck at it, but they themselves do absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:40 PM
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What would you expect? That men keep putting them on a pedestal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:22 AM
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There are plenty of countries where results are inadmissible if the mother does not consent. Hint: The mothers never consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:53 PM
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Social media encourages such behavior because it gets them attention, and they are all about attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:52 PM
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Chicks don't want to fuck nerds. No, they don't want to be near terribly insecure weaklings who have no spine to stand up for themselves. I am a nerd. One girl fucking bought and started reading The C++ Programming Language, 3rd Edition because she saw it on the floor of my smelly room. The photo of Bjarne Stroustrup on the back alone should deter girls as per your theory. You just have to be fit and upfront, assertive. The fact that it is mostly jocks who are is well known. But the fact that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:26 PM
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Mostly it's just entertainment and baiting. It's not like discussing things here will ever change anything because the issues discussed here are systemic societal and cultural problems. But it's good to see the extreme positions on all sides. Here, it is mostly out in the open, whereas in the other subs, it's the meta. r/tinder will rip a guy's profile for having one imperfect photo, meanwhile women's profiles showing them on the shitter has them drooling still. r/relationships will advise thera…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:26 PM
49

The patriarchy: A miniscule minority of men > All women > The rest of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:03 PM
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romance is heavily gendered Romance is what men do for women. Most women have absolutely zero concept of romance, but will readily complain how men suck at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:58 PM
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Not really. Most "good women" have dated a bunch of shitty men because those are the guys they were drawn to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:11 PM
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No. But marriage is a terrible model if it can be dissolved for any reason at any time when the economic and social consequences are often one-sided and incredibly harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:42 PM
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Reddit is authoritarian left-wing for the most part. Intersectionality is the top mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:38 AM
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Marriage is dead because it can be cancelled for no reason at any point and the economic ramifications are massive and lasting. It happens most of the time, too. The social contract is dead, the system does not work, has nothing to offer but drawbacks. You say that they only complain about women, but look at what feminism is. For decades, feminists have only complained about men and have done everything to break apart the family and relationship structures. We are all on our own now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:16 AM
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Don't get married to that woman.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 04:41 PM
1

And women should choose better men. But when women experience these things, or comparable things, blame isn't shifted onto them. At least not most of the time. But with men, it's always them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:52 AM
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takes care of her 2 kids (previous marraige) Had me up to that point. He's a simp then. Apart from that, overall, yes. That sounds like a good arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:51 PM
1

That's my favorite reply to "what is your ideal woman?" Even though it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:50 PM
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Most women expect men to initiate, perform and know what they want all while being passive, not telling them what they need or want, and reinforcing this behavior by coming back or faking it because they value attention more than they respect themselves. The fact that women are hard to get off should make it even more important for women to speak up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:29 AM
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Most of them did yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:15 AM
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I should get a shirt that says “these are not my children!!” Ha! That would be my kind of humor and a good conversation opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:49 PM
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Interesting. What makes him more attractive? As a man, a woman with a baby is instantly less attractive (unless of course, it is yours).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:16 PM
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Too blunt. Many would probably assume it's a joke or trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:34 PM
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Hey, you’re a pretty boy and I like you. Can I take you out? Sorry, I’m bad at articulating this shit. Not very eloquent but it would probably work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:21 PM
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Well the West is a culture that values domination, submission, and vicious competition while claiming to believe in freedom and civic duties. It's a culture that prides itself on how the internet has "connected us all" while society is more atomized than ever. Harsh truth right there. Rarely stated so out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:18 PM
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I don't know, maybe you're right. I only have my own perspective on this thing. I like to think that I am a bit more controlled when it comes to gushing about my interests and that keeps it from getting completely out of hand. Then again, it sometimes feels like it hardly matters what I say to girls anyway. I don't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:15 PM
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physically attractive + mildly autistic That pretty much sums up how people see me. The real question is, how autistic is mildly autistic? My brother has extensive symptoms and is severely affected in life. With me, it is noticeable, and I personally struggle in some situations (social and communication), but I am doing super well all things considered. Overall, I think it's been a net positive on my life? I have been in several long-term relationships with very attractive women, with the latest…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:21 AM
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Anything men do is problematic nowadays because women and the media absolutely love to shit on men whenever possible. They can turn anything into a pedo scare. But when it's a female teacher raping a kid, it's suddenly "having sex" or "seduction". Make of that what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:33 PM
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They have plenty of stabbings tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:02 PM
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Billions of years of evolution produced humans as the most intelligent known species in the galaxy. And we still somehow assume that our process of finding a partner follows logic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:40 AM
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To be a prop in a woman's social media. A dream come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:41 PM
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All of a sudden? Most of human culture developed with women being treated as the most valuable thing in society. That's not to say that women were treated well, most of the time people in general were treated terribly and women were handled like property and still are in many places. The worshipping is as old as humankind. They have always been seen as most precious and different, delicate beings. They were always seen as more pure and innocent. Now they're just given agency but no responsibilit…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 09:10 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:22 PM
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Internalized misandry. That's what it would be called if we were being consistent. But we are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:04 PM
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Women seem to think that men value the qualities they value in men, in women. This is a common mistake. Men hardly care for how tall a woman is, or that she has a career that is taking up most of her time. Being successful with women makes a man more desirable due to preselection. They can deny it all they want but it is something commonly experienced as a man. The best way to get attention is to already have it. The same is not true for women. The fundamental difference is that men need to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:12 PM
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Nice guys are boring. When women call you nice, they mean you're boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:33 PM
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Because it still works for them. Easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:19 PM
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No? Because on Tinder you get to choose between ungodly amounts of bad options. In cultures with arranged marriages, you don't get to choose at all. Plus the choice made by the parents or owners may have all kinds of motivations, but the happiness of people to be married is not usually of concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:08 PM
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That's an interesting question. I suppose you'd still have to choose to go on the suggested date. Normally with arranged dates and subsequent marriage it's a matter of negotiations between your parents or owners and you get no say in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:53 PM
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All social media projects live and die with their user base. There is a reason why YouTube, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn and all the other services can get away with so much shit. It's critical mass. The people are drawn there because everybody else is already there. The best solution is useless if nobody uses it. Now look at Tinder. Tinder belongs to Match Group. You know what else belongs to Match Group? Let's see on Wikipedia: Azar, Amoureux.com (Now Redirects To Meetic), Black People Meet, BLK…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:54 PM
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I studied CompSci over a decade ago, and even back then such practices were very common and we discussed it. It's just a question of whether it improves your product. And in the age of internet services, understanding what the product is, is key. As with all social media, you are the product. People still don't see it. You mentioned Spotify. Did you know that Apple, Microsoft, Spotify and many others experimented with their shuffle/random play functionality in their media players? It's not rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:33 AM
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Dating apps are designed to keep you swiping forever and never find your match. That way, engagement remains high and the operators make more money. The worst thing for Tinder would be an algorithm or AI that finds perfect matches, ejecting two people from the platform forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:44 AM
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This number is not new, it's very well known. Though it's not the same as the colloquial "every third kid is not the husband's" -- the people who get these tests usually have a reason to suspect something. The real kicker is how many countries do not allow testing without the mother's consent or how test results are inadmissible in court because that would "damage social stability" like in France.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:41 AM
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That's a good sign at least.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:38 AM
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Women want you to fill the checkbox for that. But few of them actually know how tall that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:24 PM
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Don't lesbian couples hate the highest rate of divorce, as well as the highest rate of domestic violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:08 AM
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I consider it a show stopper because in my eyes, astrology and other esoteric things stand for character incompatibility and low intelligence. They take this stuff seriously, who knows what else will arbitrarily affect them in life? I wouldn't want to be with someone who believed in this stuff. My GF isn't at all about that. Sometimes she says such things to goof around. When we're out and there's a bunch of women, she'd somehow bring it up and they immediately agree with this insane shit. And s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:35 AM
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It's a dumb red pill idea. It's obvious that women. Are the gatekeepers of sex. They wanted to tell men they have something exclusively as well, so they settled on commitment. That's wrong though. Commitment is something that both sides want, and it's still much easier for women to step out of it pending opportunities to do so. Men are not the gatekeepers of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:58 PM
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Maybe it is due to personal experience, maybe it isn't. Women set up rules for men, hoops to jump through, frogs to eat for those they want to seriously date. Meanwhile, the fuckboy you mention is a fuckboy because it works often enough. This is where things break down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:52 PM
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Don't worry, the dating advice women give is useless anyway. There will be no step up in game due to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:37 AM
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It's a meme. Calling her mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:11 PM
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Like aren't men supposed to be natural providers? Yes, but feminism and women don't want to couple natural roles to societal roles. Thus, this no longer is how things work. Women say they don't need a man and that we are all equal. Why do you want a provider then? Get a job and provide for yourself! But most fathers leave their families I am not sure about most fathers leaving, but I agree that this is a huge problem. Why are men leaving? Also, there are many cases where they are forced to leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:49 AM
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Yes, that is my takeaway as well. As long as a woman is attractive and has a compatible personality, men don't care. That is exciting enough for most. For women, it doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:35 AM
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The only times when men get away with being boring is in cultures where arranged marriages are prevalent, barbaric cultures or extreme situations that lead to increased value of men (major wars, famines). It is women who can all post the same pictures and poses, have the same likes, preferences and interests, and start a conversation using only "heyyy" and expect men to do the rest, carrying the conversation and organizing most things. They then complain men are boring lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:25 AM
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This post is making descriptive claims. The real-life ramifications of this post on women are nonexistent. Insecure women still get jobs, relationships and help without issue. Insecure men get rejected at every point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:56 AM
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No. Women are mostly very insecure no matter who they are dealing with. The difference is that it isn't held against them, whereas insecure men are considered unattractive losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:46 AM
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I am not sure I agree. In a long-term relationship I want my partner to be intellectually on a comparable level. It's not necessarily about education but the way she goes about things, learns new stuff, is inquisitive and everything. That is important, because you need to intellectually keep up, or at some point resentment will grow. Having been to college is not a good indicator for intelligence. There are plenty of people who did not go who are smart, and many who got a degree who are dumb as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:23 PM
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Because education is an industry that is making billions every year and politics promotes that everybody needs to get a degree. Meanwhile, most degrees are useless and unnecessary, and the pandemic in particular has shown that even among the so-called "well educated" people, unfounded and esoteric, but also extreme herd animal logic permeates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:39 PM
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Monthly cleaning service is an expenditure that is well worth it, I tell you. We split the bill, too. Let's us focus on more interesting things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:34 AM
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It's the 2020s when you can no longer be sure whether "female women" is meant as a joke or dead serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:14 AM
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Status is relative. Know who you're competing with. A high school boy competes with a guy who drives a car to school. A broke freshman competes with a guy who has an established career and can take a girl on a paid vacation. And that guy competes with a man whose career goes beyond the boring middle class lifestyle women hate so much. You don't always have to think of multimillionaires, corporate presidents, or public figures, though when you listen to people, women predominantly, that seems to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:56 PM
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Welcome to the reality of no-fault divorce and capitalism embracing feminism because it doubled the workforce within a generation. Can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:33 PM
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It's not. Feminism as it exists now wants to tear down every structure, not just the old perceived patriarchy. If the gender wars continue, we will all just end up alone in sensory deprivation tanks with virtual reality masturbation devices hooked up to social credit chips that they control. Even being a woman is problematic now. Everything is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:23 PM
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You forgot status. Status seems to trump it all. Status has to be earned by men, and it takes time, if possible at all. Physical attractiveness is instant, if at all, for most women. It takes time to be kept. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:54 PM
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Women get all the attention in the world at 20, whereas men are seen as immature, underdeveloped and of low status at that point. Men have to climb up and make it to finally be worthy of attention, and that takes time so that most who manage will be around 30 when that happens. The number of women who seem to be only dating up and wanting to be with much older men is astonishing. When you are 30 and already in a relationship, all the early 20 women giving you attention are eye opening. The numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:03 AM
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Or the ring doesn't look the way she likes. Then it's all "he doesn't know me/doesn't have taste." Meanwhile, as a man if you ever get any gifts at all, it's mostly just booze or cigars you already own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:51 PM
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There's no such thing as unfair or fair. There is. We just chose the wrong species to be born among.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:47 PM
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Most feminists choose not to have one for that reason. Most women are not real feminists then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:45 PM
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Men tend to spend a significant amount of money to buy engagement rings. They don't usually get anything in return. Sometimes the ring is seen as "not enough" and there is a whole industry built around this. Putting a monetary value on being able to get engaged and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:40 PM
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Just take the glasses off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:40 PM
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Got the last chopper out of 'Nam then. Reading all of this shit here convinces me that I'll be voluntarily single if we ever break up. Geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:33 PM
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How the fuck did I ever manage to court my woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:25 PM
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Happily ever after does not exist for them. You can always upgrade. Until one day you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:50 PM
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Yes they can be used as such. Romance is what men do for women; women are mostly not romantic, they consume romance. While you state many things correctly, you're missing one key point: One man's romantic gesture is another's harassment. Many of these movies display incredibly toxic and unhealthy relationship situations. They are, in a way, like porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:00 PM
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So in summary, men are much more stimulated by women because they are significantly more visual than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:00 PM
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these differences don’t seem to even out until the 20-22 period. Make that 24-26. Also, men die earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:00 PM
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Every immigration country has this phenomenon. The reason is that immigrants tend to be overwhelmingly young males looking to make it in life. It doesn't matter where you look. Overall, there are still more women than men because men die earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:55 PM
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Strong mutual attraction, loyalty, willingness to compromise and let each other live instead of trying to change each other, being reliable, remaining separate people who can disagree without it questioning the relationship. Consistently sharing intimacy is important as well, and I am not just talking about the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:11 PM
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We are at a similar point in life it seems. We both have good income and assets which are and will be fully separate. My income and assets are significantly more than hers though. Anyway, she threw a fit over the alimony and I agreed to some amount in the event of a divorce but it’s limited. I would not have given in here at all. I am currently doing the legal stuff with my partner and she has always said she wants nothing in case of divorce. When you divorce, your goal should be to become fully…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 10:02 AM
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Somehow I am having a hard time believing that this is such a big deal. Also, hot air balloon clubs celebrate with strippers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:01 AM
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I don't think being resentful about it helps a man at all That is true. Women do take advantage of this skewed situation, but being resentful does not help men as long as men as a group overall stop being so desperate, which will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:07 PM
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Women don't do these things, because they are privileged. Men have to do everything, romance is basically a one-way street until you maybe can crack the shell and you get something in return. Being insecure as a man is a deal breaker. Being lazy is a deal breaker. Being entitled doesn't work. Women act entitled because the system works this way, and they are rewarded for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:46 PM
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Nothing is universally accepted. Heck, even basic biological definitions are controversial now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:32 PM
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I have an acquaintance who regularly reposts Clementine Ford stuff, i.e. minecraft all men, Corona isn't killing men fast enough, all men are sex offenders and all vaginal intercourse is sexual violence. About once a month she has a public mental breakdown about how she's perpetually single and nobody wants to be friends with her. Her behavior is constantly encouraged by other women and "allies" though. If a man had posted such stuff about women, authorities would have gotten involved a long tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:12 PM
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women are only hot from 18-25 and go down hill from there You're wrong. The woman I am with is over 30 and she is now way hotter than in her early 20s. No women are exceptions to this rule either according to red pill men. I am suddenly not RP anymore then. Just like I claimed. Maybe I am weird like that but I actually love her personality. She's not just some hot piece of ass. That's just what first grabbed my attention, but we wouldn't have been together long if that was all there was to it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:24 AM
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My reason for the longest time: The relationship is great and the marriage system sucks balls and has almost exclusively drawbacks for men and advantages for women. Unless there is a very good reason to get married, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:44 PM
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If you Google some of the example couples given here, it all seems to come down to perspective. What I consider to be an average looking man, somebody else might call an "ugly, grotesque" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:48 AM
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We are about to do this, but not to that extreme. Separation of assets and income, contractual budget where we pay in a capped amount into shared accounts. Both get full access and we agree on what these accounts are used for: Family expenditures. We won't keep detailed record of each transaction and position, that would be insane. It's not about 50/50 split, my split will be larger especially once we have kids. But I want her to be independent, have her own money and stuff. Our financial backgr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:45 AM
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Among politicians maybe. But we are at a point where sitting in a pub and saying the wrong or offensive thing is an irredeemable offense. People like to sit in a pub and talk shit and it shouldn't mean the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:42 PM
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Red pill will die together with political correctness, and political correctness is unsustainable. Might take another two generations but it's only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:34 AM
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You are correct, but the reasoning is not sound. What makes a man into husband material is vastly different from what makes a woman wife material. Men and women are brought up quite differently and different rules apply. Still, both seem to basically fail here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:54 AM
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That makes literally no sense. Most marriages end in divorce a few years later. People don't know if it will work out when they get married. Many people who get married, shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:51 AM
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To some degree it will affect how you see the other person, especially if they maintain a close relationship with their family. That is both positive and negative. But it's a mostly unspoken reality. Imagine having to find mutual physical attraction, compatibility of character, the right situation and time, tend to that flame over time and fall in love, establish and continue the relationship. Then you meet the family. Family is always complicated. You can't choose it, but you can walk away. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:45 AM
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A new troll account with negative karma, eh? Come back when you have something of substance to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:51 AM
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Let's talk again in a dozen years or so when you've actually experienced the world beyond the fancy words they teach in school. it's not an excuse to hate and distrust women Feminism is full of systemic beliefs and mantras that serve as excuses to hate and distrust men. In that way, TRP and feminism are not so different, except feminism is mainstream. create misogyny for no reason There are many reasons and excuses used to justify misogyny, just like feminism is full of reasons and excuses for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:59 AM
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This is a debate sub. The debates are toxic. That's the purpose of it. When you walk outside, do you feel particularly respected? It's not about gender. Women don't give respect out of nowhere either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:30 PM
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Not struggling, but I still have one tip: Go clothes shopping with women (NOT with your mom though, she doesn't count). If a woman likes the threads on you, chances are other women will as well. And since we are usually wearing clothes, it's good if you're wearing something nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:02 AM
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I have no problem with gay men being very direct and complimenting and propositioning. My rejection will be friendly but stern. There is a 0% chance this is happening. The problem only starts when they keep digging -- which they almost never do. The situations are not really comparable due to perceived power differences. I don't feel unsafe and threatened when a brother wants to buy me a drink and jerk me off (got that offer a few times). I find it amusing. I can reject that with no hard feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:41 AM
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Agreed. I think it does indeed defeat the whole purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:41 PM
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Leverage, and state enforced economic redistribution. There are pretty much no guarantees given to men. Which is why it is a terrible deal. But no politician would want to touch and reform away something that is favoring women on paper. Even if the current system hurts men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:41 PM
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marriage Men get consistent sex Marriage seems unrelated to sex these days. If you read the nearly infinite stream of sad sob stories from men who ended up in dry land after the wedding, it almost seems like marriage takes away some of the women's desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:39 PM
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No fault divorce means everybody can get divorced without a legally relevant reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:34 PM
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Small doses. Go outside and do stuff on your own. Maybe meet real people that show you not everything is black and white all the time. If you spend time here every day, it will make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:20 PM
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Insert are you not entertained gif.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:48 AM
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You explained it. They are not attractive and have very high standards. It's simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:00 PM
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Good for you. 33 here, trying to seal the deal this month. I say trying because we are just too busy, but it's just a formality really and we have discussed everything. Just glad I found her and she is completely different from what you read in the daily horror stories from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:51 AM
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On bad days, I feel exactly like that. If I am ever single again, I'd rather stay single. Goes to show how shitty the process is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:49 AM
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Agreed. It's mostly unnecessary traditional restrictions that make everything so much more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:47 AM
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Women tend to be more open about what they want It's mostly just straight men and women who are not open. Men being open to women is in many cases considered offensive, while women being open to men is regarded as cheap or desperate. I cannot speak for women who are into women, but I believe you. As a straight man, I have also been propositioned by gay men, and they were super direct. When it comes to certain topics, it is said that they are very direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:44 AM
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Men need to become much more picky and ignore all women any less than perfect And with that, we can already stop thinking about this. Men will not become super picky. The overwhelming amount of men, young and experienced ones in particular, will do anything to just get some. I suspect it's not even about how they are socialized but part of human nature. You cannot just turn that off. If men were picky like women, our species would probably have gone extinct a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:41 AM
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Should racially segregated spaces be supported? Like the place on Reddit where you had to prove that you're black? Would you support the same for a group where you had to be white? Personally, I don't care. Do what you feel you have to. But I prefer mixed spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:37 AM
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Normie consoomer coomers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:11 AM
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I think "fixing" his situation is impossible. He is stuck with his condition, and systematically medicating takes a toll as well, especially when you have to do it in a waiting pattern while trying to find someone. Even if medication works, it could be years -- or even never -- until he lucks out. The truth is, it's already hard out there for everybody else. But for him, being unable to read many cues and being awkward as he says just hits different you know. I am awkward myself. For some reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:25 PM
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Important: I am not the guy from the video. I don't know why but I just had this video from this guy on the top of my feed. It is a self reflection piece of a lonely man in his 40s with autism spectrum disorder. Loneliness, the empty platitudes, and being a perpetually single autistic spectrum man over 40. First time I've ever made a video like this. I had been thinking about making a channel like this for a long time and I finally took the plunge. I might regret this. Hopefully, I won't. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:59 PM
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2023 and still using this inches stuff. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:55 PM
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Not sure it's weird. Rather than that, it seems to be the boring standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:31 PM
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Yes. This is new to me. I have never received a gift on valentines day, and neither has any man I know. To be clear, I am against valentines day to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:01 PM
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Women are expected to give gifts for valentine's day I think I woke up in the wrong universe. What gifts do women usually give on valentine's day?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:34 PM
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They're coming after those as well. MGTOW is an illusion. Give it a little more time and redistribution will take place even more, whether you are alone or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:40 PM
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Real love is rare. So it's not a low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:40 PM
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Maybe that's for the better. Find happiness elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:43 PM
1

Who are you? John Bolton?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:15 PM
6

Can we go back to the robot fantasies from purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:12 PM
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"It's okay to be a man."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:23 AM
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That is an unbelievably screwed up way of thinking about it. The person who is force conscripted and killed is affected more than the one left behind. The person may not be affected anymore, but they paid the ultimate price. The media is fucked up. Early last spring they ran stories about the "hero women" of Ukraine and printed pages of models in European cities. You know who got barely any recognition? The young lads forced to die in muddy trenches.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 03:28 PM
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Wait. That would be most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:59 PM
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Men spend time and are super into their hobbies. Can't get a date, what a cope! Men want to always do stuff with their GFs. What a pathetic bitch. Men are chasing women. Desperate. We get it. Men bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:17 PM
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Yes, we are infantilizing women, not just in this regard but in many aspects of life. In some situations they complain about it, in others they take advantage. This is where they take advantage and it will not change. Women do initiate, but it's very rare and mostly happens when they are outmatched -- which is exactly how they feel about most men initiating contact with them. Case in point, the older I get, the more often it happens. I am not that old and am not interested in them, and it would …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:48 PM
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This is very common in Islamic countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:53 AM
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I think it was excellent. Going to miss the constant fembot propaganda. I damn near lost my shit at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:17 AM
9

Disgusting. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:16 AM
0

inb4 all men pay for it somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:39 PM
32

Your constant fembot propaganda spam posting is based. It was annoying in the beginning but now I am entertained.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:47 PM
1

Shit looks like it's straight out of a macroeconomics textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:41 PM
1

Maybe I am a weird guy but I always thought about it as exchanging numbers. You give me yours and I call you just then and there so you have mine, you do the same when I give you mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:49 AM
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In some cases it was is obvious. In others, not so much. And I didn't want to pry. Most of my friends happen to be women, so I only know their side of the story. Some of them "married down", both financially and looks wise, but they also went for "macho" men with "a great sense of humor" that ended up not being helpful in the long run. One got a husband who turned out to be a legit psycho who physically harmed her and himself. I don't want to be more specific but he's been locked up. It would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:21 AM
3

You say this like I am in some garbage riffraff environment, but my social circle is mostly university educated, financially successful people from very diverse backgrounds. They all seem very stable until they get married. Then it turns to shit within two years. I don't know what is happening, but it's not good. What people do you want me to meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:59 PM
10

Seems like a waste of time. Seems like a waste of money, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:59 PM
87

I am in my thirties and in a relationship, but the number of people who are divorced and back out there after "having found the one" is absolutely ridiculous. Not a single marriage in my social circle has survived. Not. A. Single. One. And there have been quite a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:34 PM
1

Been doing this forever, but most couples cannot afford it. It works great until you have a family. If I could, I would do this forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:32 AM
2

Somebody always has to ask this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:29 AM
0

The analogy doesn't work. Women aren't allowed to drive drunk and accuse other drivers who then get pulled over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:27 AM
2

I meant TC as well. I am in Zurich, non-FAANG myself. 100-120k is quite common for IT shortly before reaching their Bachelor's degree (not from some well known university, nobody really cares much here), and I've seen people go 180k and higher for IT or quant. Not this last year though. We got hiring freezes (aka you need special approval to hire) at the banks and Fintech, and FAANG has their global restrictions. Also seen a lot of people in FAANG get burned. Non-FAANG pays excellently here and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:42 PM
10

FAANG is getting rid of people right now and unless you are the best of the best at right moment in time in the Bay Area, London or Zurich, you can forget about a 200k entry salary. 150-160 is top of the line ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:00 AM
5

And email men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:48 AM
3

They are there to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:46 AM
10

Shy girl? Cute. Shy man? Loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:52 PM
2

22-32
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:10 AM
7

Women being unable to explain what they are attracted to in a way that is actually useful is not an analogy. It's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:44 AM
8

Analogies are never to be taken literally. Neither women nor fish can explain to you how to "get them"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:58 AM
4

I have a good friend who is a forever bachelor type. He's 41, also works in software consulting, though he is more of a blabbermouth than most engineers. He no joke looks a bit like a badly groomed Jake Gyllenhaal. Dude has recently moved to another large European city because he got bored and I visited him a couple of weeks back. He's pulling up to 5 girls on Tinder every week and he complains that he doesn't have enough time and energy to actually handle all the matches. He does dates on workd…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:40 AM
3

retired at the age of 36 Geez. Well, still have a couple of years to get there...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:26 AM
3

As a person who is "playing around on a computer" and makes quite a bit more than $120k, I understand how lucky I am, but at the same time I don't see how burning it all down is a solution. I work hard, harder than most in my industry I would argue. But it's a different, way more comfortable level of hard than many people who make much less. That is a shitty reality. The reality also is: There are women who make significantly more by posting their butthole on OF and this seems to be what society…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:07 PM
3

Ah, interesting. I did not know that. It's stupid to just call them antidepressants then. But many things are stupid when it comes to naming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:13 AM
16

Men aren't handed anything in life because they are born without inherent value. Capitalism and meritocracy gives them an opportunity (however small) to build up something material for themselves. Socialism takes that away again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:09 AM
0

Isn't that off label use frowned upon in medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:06 AM
20

I think marriage is a broken concept particularly for men. Your own children are the only reason you might want to do this, in the same way you might jump in front of a train if it saves them. But ultimately, marriage is a contract with next to no benefits to men, which treats women like in the early 20th century, which can be broken at any time for no reason and it will ruin you financially, and the consequences are government enforced because it would incur significant cost on society if it we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:59 AM
3

Status has very real implications, and thus isn't superstition. Go buy a nice suit that fits you and people will treat you different. Believing that the other person is a virgo and thus must act in a certain way isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:15 PM
3

Most men can't afford such watches, and if they do buy one, it's not for superstition but rather to show off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:05 PM
3

Not so sure about that. They manage to avoid most incels by avoiding most men to begin with. That's not exactly a complicated strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:04 PM
5

Successful religions are more like business or politics rather than superstition. They exploit the people or try to get them in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:03 PM
6

They can disband the morality police, but the religion, regime and its policies are still standing. There are plenty of other organs enforcing the policies. Many regular people support it and want to see people hanged for "immoral" behavior. This is just the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:09 PM
3

Griner, who is now a hostage in Russia, signed a contract over 220k, and still shat on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:04 PM
2

What I don't understand is, why be restless with stagnation when you are happy? I don't want things to change when everything is good. As an unmarried guy in my thirties, my life is worry free and happy. Women don't want marriage for personal happiness or the sake of the relationship. It is mostly just societal pressure (and for some, personal gain). And once they secure it, they stop putting in any and all effort. Every marriage in my social circle has failed within 18 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:57 AM
5

Blue Pill is anything but healthy. Open and honest communication? Please. You're being a doormat while secretly harboring thoughts that would better be out in the open. This is why among the "allies" and "friendly men" are so many crazy abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:09 AM
4

It's like most women see marriage as the culmination and end of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:04 AM
48

Congratulations, you are now considered far right by the other leftists. I'm something of a conservative Marxist-Leninist (in short, my ideal society is something akin to modern China, the USSR, or Putin's Russia) I'm sorry, what? The USSR was mass killing its own citizens in order to force Lenin's dream into reality and it still failed. I can understand that they were still aiming to make it real, at any cost. But the cost was too high. China is Marxist in name only and has been a centralized a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:06 PM
3

Well, men here always say how women's expectations grow the older they are. Also, the ratio of women to men in high school is not 1:1. There are more women. In higher education, it's even more pronounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:10 PM
5

Damn. And people here claim women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men. More like 0.5% then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:33 PM
8

As a man, I am looking for a physically attractive woman who is compatible enough so I don't feel she has to change significantly for it to work. Dating somebody for their potential or with significant flaws in your eyes is always a mistake. A lot of women seem to do this, and want to change or "fix" a man. Sorry, humans are not molding putty. I don't want a female version of myself, I want an individual. An individual may have some things I would do differently. There just has to be an overall …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:21 PM
2

How do you know it will never happen again? Cheaters are very likely to cheat again. Confession should be like ripping a bandaid off. Don't drag it out, be prepared to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:29 AM
5

You know, back in the 1990s, women wore what they wanted, held interests they had and nobody bat an eye. Today, if you're not a girly girl, a lot of people seem to immediately jump to the conclusion that a woman must be trans or queer in some way. Isn't that a weird thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:57 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:37 PM
4

If they're having sex, they're no longer incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:02 PM
14

And it works for the douchebags, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:56 AM
4

Feminists hate her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:51 PM
75

Shows (...) confirm It's for entertainment purposes only. It's not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:50 PM
5

Flair checks out tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:31 PM
8

hair touching Ooof, that must be annoying. Men usually read the continuous little hair touching a woman does as a sign that she's attentive, interested, maybe intrigued or even being playful. Sending out that message when you don't want must make for countless awkward interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:29 PM
4

I find it difficult to accept any of these prevalent explanations as to why relationships as a whole are declining. You're saying that stable relationships are less important to survive nowadays, and yet when we look at the last latest two generations on the dating market (millennials and gen Z), all we hear day in and day out is how difficult it is to make due economically. If anything, I'd expect my millennial peers to stick together more than the previous generations, whom they accuse of havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:49 PM
4

Megan Fox back in the day. I just don't understand how people found her so interesting and sexy. I'm sorry but give me ten minutes to walk outside and I will bring you a couple of girls more appealing than she ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:33 PM
4

Be yourself works for the 1% only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:41 PM
7

This statement is true and also worthless. Women are overwhelmingly more attractive to straight men than men are to straight women. It's almost like men and women are different, and function differently. The problem is depending on time of the, a lot of people will either assert this or lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:51 PM
2

Become a monk, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:52 AM
10

the woman isn’t required to do domestic work. People here pretend that women only have to cook, clean and wash once a man moves in. Men also have to do these things before they get with somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:38 AM
6

Race isn't a taboo here? There are enough comments stating that black men and Asian women are being fetishized, Asian men and black women are basically seen as undesirable and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:59 AM
6

This is an amazingly depressing world view. Your version of stepping up the emotional game is for men to become an emotional doormat, constantly spinning in the wheel, hoping that one day they might get their turn, while realistically expecting nothing at all. You might as well just give a list of bridges to jump off to depressed dudes. If there's anything for men (and women!) to learn in this world, it would be that defining your self worth by attention received from the other sex is pointless …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:49 PM
8

Men aren't that oblivious, but they have become careful. Meanwhile, women seem to think that looking somebody in the eyes is them taking the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:39 AM
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Men lie about virginity because women desire body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:42 AM
13

In my book, you're a sociopath if you didn't do that in the Sims.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:58 AM
1

Gym bro moment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:53 PM
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We don't need to do anything. Women are allowed to live their lives however they want. They should also learn to live with the consequences, as is expected of any adult human man. Why is it that men are considered unemotional rocks, but at the same time, men with preferences are seen as emotionally insecure? Meanwhile, women with preferences are celebrated, no matter how arbitrary and shallow those preferences are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:52 PM
2

No. You say the cultural left doesn't know what masculinity is, but they don't know what femininity is either. They cannot even define what a woman is for ideological reasons. All their washed out attempts at defining it failed. The only thing they know is that women are good and men are bad. If you agree with that, you are on their side. But the left would rather declare a Taliban sheikh a woman than admit that only women menstruate. Their definitions keep changing and you have to keep up or yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:37 AM
2

maidenless Someone was insulted by Elden Ring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:29 PM
6

Women are never happy with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:20 PM
2

No. My GF doesn't want to try it. I've had it before and prefer vaginal by far, it's not even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:33 PM
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Look at the positions right wingers held twenty years ago. They're virtually the same, if anything they moved a bit to the center. Now look at the positions the left held twenty years ago. By today's standards, the old left is center right. That's because the left got more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:09 PM
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32, never been married. Every guy I grew up with who got married was divorced and got screwed hard in the process. Only one guy is still married, but he is super religious and not exactly happy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:06 AM
5

Getting married turns out horribly for most men (and for women, which is why they divorce you in the first place). There are worse things than missing out on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:51 AM
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Feminism is mainstream. There is absolutely nothing rebellious about embracing that. It is pretty much expected in education, entertainment and politics that you bend the knee and do it. If you don't, you're a pariah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:44 AM
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The political right holds exactly the same positions they held decades ago. If anything, they have become more moderate. The political left is moving further left and taking more radical positions. By today's standards, Bill Clinton would be considered far right by many left wing pundits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:33 AM
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I just find it interesting, it is one of the few places where very opposing positions are allowed to interact. It is often ugly, and the positions hardly change. When I am bored, I like to sometimes add oil to the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:39 AM
8

Straight man. Wouldn't change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:34 PM
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That's sad, but also: This is none of your business. Her reason to be drugged up or fucked up does not matter and you don't know her personal life. Do not play a movie in your head, and don't be creepy like that and get personally involved using fantasies. As somebody who had hiring and firing power for the better part of a decade, do not turn it into something personal. It's highly unprofessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:49 PM
1

Nobody understands women. They don't even understand themselves. Women don't know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:44 PM
177

Do all men No. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:04 PM
3

Apologizing for something you did not do on behalf of others who you do not represent is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:17 AM
6

The concept is stupid. What is the point of it? I wouldn't want my partner to suffer and would do what I can to optimize her well being as far as possible. Her wanting me to suffer to make a point is the exact opposite of that, even though I might technically be interested in experiencing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:34 PM
24

Women suck at dropping hints and men suck at reading them. You cannot rely on these hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:56 PM
1

It is yet another of these terms introduced by the feminists, and simply by using it we are already making concessions to them. A rational being would think that if two items are functionally identical and one is pink and one is blue, and the pink one costs much more, you'd just buy the blue one. Apparently women are incapable of doing that. Or, as some people may have noticed, men's razors are not exactly the same thing. They complain about how women's haircuts, girls' toys, hygiene items, clot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:18 PM
-1

Men are expected to be stoic. Women are expected to be emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:13 PM
8

The fault is all yours. She is a perfect queen. The patriarchy caused it. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:06 PM
31

The bar is where I wanna go, date or no date
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:03 PM
1

I don't like them. I have LinkedIn and Instagram since 2012. I have like ten pictures, none of which are me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:22 PM
2

I mostly meet them through friends and acquaintances. I'm also a bit older in my early 30s so maybe that's making a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:10 PM
7

You also need to have a "glamorous" lifestyle and broadcast it. No. I am not broadcasting my life or faking it to appeal to some social media junkies. In fact, the people who present themselves as living the jet set lifestyle can get lost. Doing okay without all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:33 AM
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32m. I hit the gym 4-5x a week for 60-90 minutes and mostly do strength training, alternating focus on upper body and back or legs. Been doing that for more than 8 years now and it really shows. Been maingaining since the pandemic and am now trying to grow more, but it takes time. Additionally, I do cardio and run multiple times a week. I will normally run for 6-10km, preferably outside, but will also run on the treadmill if the weather is not good. I will run a smaller distance on the treadmill…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:10 PM
3

Holy shit what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:45 PM
1

I am in Europe. I am in the country with the second most expensive healthcare in the world (still more efficient than the US system considering life expectancy), and it's not much more expensive than let's say Germany or France. Free college and healthcare is a myth. It's just that the US is the land of the extremes, so tuition is just stupidly expensive. There is no such thing as free goods and services. We're all paying one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:18 PM
8

That makes no sense. It's legal in most of Europe and literally makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:00 PM
5

It has always been like that. The difference is that these markets you mention (OLD, OF, Sugar baby culture etc.) are now computer assisted and used for corporate monetization. Algorithms have reduced human interaction and accountability to an absolute minimum, possibly optimizing for users never finding a lasting solution so they keep using such services. The women are addicted to constant attention, the men are, as always motivated by never ending thirst and the prospect that they might one da…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:44 PM
6

And as always, for the sake of argument here, men and women are completely different. Later today, people will claim men and women are exactly the same in order to make a different point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:34 AM
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Women love Dad bods Yeah. The Jason Momoa kind of dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:35 PM
4

Anything you can measure or observe is not a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:48 AM
2

Once again, checklist mania hits men again. You can't come up with lists to tick off and expect it to work. Women don't work like that. I am a STEM nerd in my early thirties and some people see me as friendly and agreeable, other see me as an arrogant prick. I haven't been single much since I turned 15. Regarding your list: I only started going to the gym in my mid 20s. I avoid fights and don't do IG. I hate tattoos (and reject women with tattoos). My beard growth is very limited (hello Asian ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:37 AM
23

Feminism is mainstream and men seek an answer to it as it is not good for them. Whatever seems to be an answer will quickly gain popularity, and the media constantly beating down on these individuals and social media systematically banning anyone against feminism is only reinforcing this. Tate seems to be a scammer, selling courses on everything, and men fall for it because the alternative is status quo, which also sucks. The status quo is shoved down their throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:27 AM
3

Right? Sooner even. Meanwhile, a lot of men just run out of fucks to give or resign completely much earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:48 PM
15

A lot of them seem fed up with life in general and are just constantly pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:09 PM
1

Terrible advice as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:40 PM
0

But you still want a stable relationship? That's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:24 AM
2

So they can have sex with any average man they want, without getting pregnant. So they will not have sex with them, which is understandable. What they will do instead is have sex with all the more risky, in demand men they want and believe there won't be consequences because pregnancy can always be aborted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:50 AM
1

State your intentions from the beginning and don't be fun. That way you won't end up in that zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:25 AM
3

It's easy for men: Choose the right race and body type before you are born. Select the right place and time to be born. Work and train hard all your life to be worth something. Doing that, you get a chance to interact with women. From here it's a numbers game. You just have to meet a few dozen women every year, try and make each one feel like she is truly unique and a queen, jump through all the hoops. Then you might actually get lucky once or twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:50 PM
3

Technically, the male role is easier. It can in fact be filled by anybody, including women. If we include bearing children, it's impossible to do it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:44 PM
6

I don't believe I am overly romantic. I don't intend to be crass here, but have you ever fucked a woman who was in love with you and who you loved? That beats pretty much anything. Pretty much feels like, I can die happy now. Also, all the hookups in the universe cannot replace a true partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:21 PM
6

The question doesn't make a lot of sense. It should be: Would you rather have a loving husband you love? Or guaranteed 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years? Putting a price tag on a partner you're happy with is impossible. If you ask me to put a price tag on just anybody, I'd rather take the money and be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:17 PM
7

It's not about what is allowed or not. Of course women are allowed to live their lives the way they want. It's about living with the consequences and having some responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:22 AM
1

I think it is important and good for each partner to at least work and earn a little for yourself. It is psychologically healthy to do that. I would probably also go insane after a week or two of full time house work only. Most of the house work (except for cooking) I do because it's necessary, not because I like doing it. I love my job and it is rewarding. I am in the fortunate position to be able to work full-time from home, and I usually do a lot of things that need doing throughout the day w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:19 AM
2

Women don't know what they want. Women are not a uniform block of people. Women have different preferences over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:41 PM
1

But that's an unnecessary train of thought. Nobody thinks that a woman who takes charge is submissive because she takes dick. TBH I am not very familiar with the gay stances on the topic, but I doubt the view of what is submissive and what is not is very different. If it is, it is specific to that group and doesn't directly translate to straight interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:31 PM
4

Somehow you managed to make men having intercourse with other men about women. I think we're having a moment here. It's like the one thing purely among men, and you made it about women. Can't even ram a guy's butt nowadays without the feminists screaming misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:24 PM
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What kind of twisted logic is that? Men are fed up with women because they are, on average, not getting any attention, or have to jump through so many hoops and live with crazy behavior just to get some. Isn't it on women to change then? This goes to show how crazy that logic is. Nobody is entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:24 PM
-1

And that is relevant how? Does the motivation change the fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:34 PM
4

The second part of your comment is disingenuous. While it is true that some men engage in shaming, we cannot help but notice how aggressively women shame each other for sleeping around or simply dressing skimpy. It's not exactly like women are tolerant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:50 PM
8

Males being deadbeats en masse didn’t come out of nowhere. No, and yet it is the deadbeats who apparently are selected by women to put children into this world. Furthermore, the no-fault divorce laws and child custody being assigned to women by default also did not come out of nowhere either. These days there is no shame. Indeed. Shame is a concept that is foreign to the currently prevalent culture. It's all egocentric individualism, for both men and women. There is no forced responsibility put …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:31 PM
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95% of the time, men have more physical strength/ testosterone to beat somebody up. What help is that? If AH slaps the shit out of JD, nobody cares. If JD slaps AH, he's an abuser. The standards for such actions are vastly different. Men can do more damage but that was never the topic. If you start defending yourself, you're already treated like the perpetrator. Meanwhile, women are always seen as the victims even if they are abusive. That's the model for domestic issues and has been for decades…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:18 AM
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You don't need air raids or even modern equipment for total war. To say that widespread civilian attacks were not common is just plain wrong. I suppose you're not familiar with European history, but Europe has had large scale conflicts forever. The Thirty Years' War from 1618 to 1648 was one of the most destructive wars in European history. An estimated 4.5 to 8 million soldiers and civilians died as a direct result, while some areas of Germany experienced population declines of over 50%. German…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:45 PM
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Total war predates WW1. 18th and 19th Europe was no stranger to that, and attitudes did noch change noticeably with that. Even both with two world wars, once might notice: The conflict never reached mainland America and Western Europe has been at peace since 1945. Chivalry truly died long after that. Women and feminism killed chivalry because it is considered sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:19 PM
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The statement is true regardless of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:04 PM
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That is not advice because women are unable to explain reliably what is attractive to them. They might as well say "the best way to get a woman is being tchungabudingaboom."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:35 AM
2

Flattered. I have an easy out because I am already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:28 AM
3

I think you're inverting causality. The people who are more likely to reproduce tend to marry because that gives their children safety. But it's not like you can randomly get married to increase your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:24 PM
3

Marriage does not at all provide anybody (men or women) with access to sex/reproduction. There are plenty of marriages that end for lack of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:19 PM
3

Why do you need to be married to have a purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:18 PM
3

Your pro relates in no way to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:17 PM
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It's simple: Make your intentions or attraction clear from early on and you will be treated accordingly. Don't act like a friend and secretly expect romance in return. It doesn't work that way and will only make you bitter. You can be a good listener and more than that at the same time. Have some personality, make them listen and get to know you. Otherwise you're just a wall they throw their ideas at and the wall is never interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:07 PM
1

There's something to it. Women get a pass on many things men won't. So ask yourself next time: If a man did it, would your reaction be as lenient? If not, it's bad behavior. Like with the woman who suddenly punches a man in the face. Or the woman who abducts their kid. Or the woman who "has sex" with the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:36 AM
2

Brain surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:41 PM
3

Here you go. Don't spend it all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:39 PM
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It's normal on Reddit. I've been banned from so many subs I have never participated in for no reason. Mods and admins be power tripping.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 07:54 PM
1

Look, men and women are treated differently all the time. There is currently a trending video where a woman punches an annoying man in the face and everybody is cheering it. If roles were reversed, it would be a shit storm and NSFL marked and a huge discussion would ensue. In the eyes of the law, women are treated primarily as victims and get more lenient sentences. A woman on Twitter can write that she is so happy to find out the sex of her unborn child with intent to abort it if it happens to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:54 PM
3

Okay, with bias I can understand it. Just having seen 5 seconds of video and a couple of pictures, I cannot possibly understand her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:44 PM
2

Maybe. In a gym full of "thots", she stands out like 5 in a field of 7-8s. Do you think she's pretty? I don't see it. She can be impressive (haven't seen much of her) and still not be that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:29 PM
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Even as a pseudo gym bro, I don't find her attractive. I mean, good for her to do all that but she's not exactly pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:23 PM
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Anyone can always leave with or without reason or better options. Sometimes, it's better to be alone, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:34 AM
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Agreed. Pretending that men and women are exactly the same just seems to be part of some people's ideology these days. Pretending doesn't change the fact that it is not so. PS Toller Name
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:41 AM
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No you don't understand. It's a bit like quantum physics. Men are simultaneously expected and prohibited to look. With an observer (man) interacting with this delicate system, the wave function collapses and the woman has to decide whether or not the interaction is actually appropriate or not. There is no way of knowing without performing a measurement. It is like a superposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:08 PM
3

"I need to stand out, thus I will do what everybody else does."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:00 PM
1

Ahaha, let's compete who can start cooking first then. In any case, I'll take a girl who can cook and likes to eat over one who can't cook or constantly just eats boring salads. Good food is important. I noticed many women can't or don't want to coo. They don't even like to eat and I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:27 PM
1

Like, throw me out of the kitchen? I don't quite understand it yet, what is the reason? Maybe we could take turns or cook together sometimes, or I could cook for you now and then at least. But if you're a decent cook, how could anyone say no to a nice home cooked meal? Not quite a deal breaker I guess but I'd be sad to be thrown out haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:35 PM
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I guess so. Cooking is very relaxing and rewarding, I consider it a necessity but also a hobby of mine. If she wanted me to stop (for whatever reason), I suppose we would be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:23 PM
0

I got the basics (the three sixes, if you know what I mean). I am athletic, but not a brain dead gym bro. I am well educated and cultured and have seen and traveled the world, working in many countries and cultures. I am experienced and stopped chasing women a long time ago, haven't been single much. I am loyal, but not a pushover, got my own mind and ideas. I am happy on my own. I have my own hobbies and stuff to do. I will take the lead, but I also want you to have freedom. I stand out in a cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:04 PM
17

Decent penis, willing to put in
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:43 PM
1

A woman's value in society as brutal as this sounds primarily is her youth and fertility Men know how that feels. Imagine being born without inherent value. Imagine being born as a man without all that. For a man that gets older there's something he can actually do about it , he can become successful and do something to add to his value Women are free to do this as well. This is what feminism sold us. Your point is moot. Women losing their value as they age puts them on the same level as men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:28 PM
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Not even the opposite necessarily. They do whatever they feel like doing, and it's not their brain that tells them. We can make fun of men and say it's the cock (aka second brain) that stupidly makes a lot of decisions, but at least we can name the origin of some of these questionable decision. With women, we don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:23 PM
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Sorry, gotta earn my imaginary internet points. It has nothing to do with "About 43’200’000 results (0.58 seconds)" for "men are out of touch with their emotions." Women are socialized to be openly emotional and we call them crazy for it. Men are socialized to suppress their emotions and we are called out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:21 PM
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Many men are capable of almost completely suppressing their emotions. This is what you are socialized to do as a boy, with all the benefits and consequences for later life. I got the "boys don't cry" talk when I was 5 and I hardly cried ever since. I know my feelings and am firmly in control. I certainly won't expose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:15 PM
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It's like I say all the time. Ask women what they want and they will think of an answer that makes sense to them. Ask them again and you might receive a different answer. But what the end up doing might be completely different. I don't even think it's their fault. The fault lies with men trying to find a formula or checklist so they can engineer their way into some woman's pants. It doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:09 PM
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Classic woman answer. Be emotional, but also be in complete control of your emotions. The men who are like that, or those who in fact do lack emotion, are then accused of being "out of touch with their emotions."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:56 PM
1

Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:06 PM
0

https://youtu.be/YaG5SAw1n0c
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:19 PM
2

to be rehabilitated That's how it's sold here in Europe. Our terrorists, rapists and killers get to study political science and write treatises, live on beautiful island communities, and the human rights courts have decided that their demand for a PlayStation is justified. What a beautiful world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:18 PM
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A seemingly infinite pool of suitors makes you picky and noncommittal like that. At some point, they will realize that the perfect person does not exist, particularly because the requirements you have also change over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:07 AM
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Many men need to exercise to look decent whereas fewer women need to do so. Exercise in men intended to look more muscular is great. Women can build a butt, but they can't build a chest, and will often even lose breast volume when seriously exercising, which is why almost all well known ripped women have fake tits. 25-30% body fat on a woman means she's got curves. 25% body fat on a man means he's chubby and unattractive. I'd argue that many women don't even need exercise to be considered attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:06 PM
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This assumes that the average man procreated which is very unlikely. Instead, as is known with many other species, it is likely that a strong man would procreate until he is overthrown by a stronger man. The other men would be hunters and gatherers or just banished or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:54 PM
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It's not a coincidence that RP and "non-left" political attitudes are often aligned. A large welfare state, entitlements and redistribution of wealth by means of taxation tend to benefit young men the least out of all social groups. University education is a lie for most degrees and the overwhelming amount of (liberal arts) degrees is unnecessary and only benefits the institutions that can sell them to you for an ever increasing price. I don't think it's all particularly narrow minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:09 PM
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I'd be less upset but I'd still break up because it is about trust and cheating in general. Cheating is cheating, and it says a lot about character. Psychologically it would hit me much harder if she cheated with another guy though. Knowing that she chooses me over other guys gives a lot of confidence because she has plenty of options. Her suddenly choosing some other man destroys that confidence and you lose the competition. It's ridiculous, but it hits hard. I don't care about the toys because…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:28 PM
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Once again: What people say and what they do are two entirely different things often. Women cannot reliably say what their preferences are because they probably don't even know themselves. Ask them and they will think of something. Ask them again and they might think of something else. This is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:54 PM
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I have an idea for a sub or theme thread for PPD. Can we make it a thing to describe male/female interactions using financial and investment terms? I feel like that could be absurd enough for an entertaining hour or two. What is investing in a relationship like? Is it like buying a barrier reverse convertible note on a basket of metrics (attention, excitement, further investment) you have to manage? Invest and keep metrics adequate and you may receive the coupon (attention), but if you fail, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:00 PM
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By everyone, really Not like women talk positively of men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:40 PM
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No. When it comes to abortion, men never had any rights to begin with. Technically, only women had any rights when it came to it. A particular woman might have made her decision in alignment with a man, but that was not because the man had any rights in that regard. If the woman wants an abortion, the child is aborted, if not, it is not. Men have no reproductive rights because it is women who bear children. Wasn't that one of the initial arguments as to why women need to decide?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:44 AM
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In truth, these things are incredibly hard to compare. Differences in cost of living and taxes, even when you know where the person lives, are so complicated that any such discussion is almost pointless. This is why orders of magnitude are useful, but actually comparing it like "oh, I make 800 less per month" is useless. It is a fallacy often seen in the career question subs where people won't read beyond the basic numbers. I get my main salary in Swiss Francs, and it has been closeish stable 1:…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:07 AM
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Chad is also committed. To himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:27 AM
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I agree with your premise, but the differences within the US are as large as within Europe, if not more extreme. So everyone should probably also state their approximate location. I'd think it's pretty common to assume USD conversion when no currency is specified, and a lot of people convert to make it comparable. The exact amount isn't even important, it's about giving an indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:24 AM
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They like to argue, shit on men and call them incels. Just like most of the men here like to complain about how bad everything is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:01 PM
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For once, a less cynical piece of advice from my godfather: When it comes to surprises, gifts and taking out a woman, do it randomly and show her that it doesn't take a special occasion to think of her. You don't need a special date or anniversary to do something, and you don't need to do anything big either. The thought counts. Fuck Valentine's, special dates and anniversary pressures. Let's celebrate 100 years or Tuesdays. You don't need a reason to think of your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:58 PM
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Owning and leading a business is a whole other level. Not going to pretend I know how that works. I am still a company slave (with bunches of freedoms), making a slightly below 200k salary on my day job. I love my work, but this shit is exhausting and random, and people don't get it. At some point you are at the level where there is no guy after you to pick up the pieces. It's like any endeavor you can't bring to bear fruit goes straight to a funeral. You can reject or commit to something, but o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:15 AM
3

Most people don't understand it. Not even men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:10 PM
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I've heard this before. Girls like it when you make 180k+, then get upset when you can't make it on Tuesday because you had to fly to Barcelona with one day's notice to deal with some company bullshit. It's like they have no concept of rewards and responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:54 PM
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I don't think it has anything to do with career choice rather than simply her being a woman. Unless she is hideous, this is not much of an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:51 PM
2

What exactly does that indicate? There are two kinds of men. Those who watch porn vs those who lie about it? You have to explain the scale or meaning of this data point as it is not immediately clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:34 PM
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31m. People these days hardly know how to talk to each other anymore. How would they be able to give a realistic estimate on how many options they have? I couldn't say. I wasn't lacking attention from girls. Things just kind of happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:41 AM
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The issue boils down to this: Ask 100 men what they find attractive and 90% will say the same things and choose the same pictures. Ask 100 women you shall get 100 answers. You can get another 100 answers if you ask the women the next day. The solution straight men seek does not exist, women cannot explain what they seek or want. When you ask them, they will think of some criteria which in that moment may seem important to them, but the reality is they can't reliably say. They'll just know when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:09 PM
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Being nice is not a trait that is interesting or attractive in men. A lot of them seem to confuse being nice with being a pushover, which is in fact super unattractive for men and women. Worse even, they think being a pushover somehow entitles them to something (mostly, a woman's body). Women are looking for confident men, but often confuse being a douchebag with being confident. Maybe confusing is the wrong word because most of these men are confident. But they are certainly not nice, and rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:00 PM
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Don't forget the sex bots. And abortion. Can't have a thread without those.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:15 PM
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Gatekeeping is serious business
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:14 PM
4

FFS I sprained my ankle repeatedly sleeping in my bed alone, how would I survive something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:14 PM
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Forgot to mention the... third twin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:27 PM
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So all women are absolved of responsibility because some might be raped. What was the statistic in the other thread? For every 6 women, 1 man is raped, and he has no say at all over this entire issue. Totally relevant. Exceptions also apply to abortions for rape, incest, various medical conditions... You know where no exceptions are made? Men being raped. It's not on the radar of any legislator. In many jurisdictions, men cannot technically be raped. Can we go back from the exception to the rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:34 PM
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Oh no, you can't say that! 90% of the discussions in this sub are now obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:22 PM
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Are you out of arguments? This thread was about what men and women can do not to get pregnant. You're now suddenly bringing rape into the discussion, which is an entirely different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:07 PM
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My list (probably incomplete), as a straight man, for women: Being kind and caring (but also knowing the limits of that, as people will abuse it) Integrity: Say what you mean and mean what you say Being cuddly and loving touch Having ambition and goals for life Loves to eat, so I can cook for/with her and we can go eat together Smartness (which is not the same as being educated) Curious to learn something new every day Analytical mindset -- I love women who are into math or can break down comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:54 PM
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Good on you for owning it like that. Everybody should do their fair share, and if something is particularly important to you, probably best done by yourself. Which means there are things that I am completely in charge of and it's gotta be a rare exception that I ask for help. Still, I am fine with my girl asking me to do certain things in a particular way. This is not something we need to fight over. If that's the thing we are arguing about, I think we are fine. Somehow, for me at least, it's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:50 PM
2

I'm not trying to be a prick here. I just want women to also bear some responsibility since they also choose to go raw. or your personal favorite. “Don’t have sex.” That's like, a conservative's wet dream. I'm more of a "be careful who you have sex with" kind of guy. I'm practically milquetoast. what men frequently bitch about on here Yeah, that is some unbearable shit. Just go be alone then. Nobody wants these whiney creatures. And advocate for it but contraceptives are not 100%. Glad we agree.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:34 PM
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No women cannot control where men put their cum. Wear a rubber or get lost. Easy as that. so why are they constantly bitching about child support? Who here was bitching about child support? This was about aborting children. That does not change the fact that they can control who they get pregnant Women are in control of whether they get pregnant, too. Get over it. I never said that contraceptives weren’t Then accept contraception as a solution to a growing pool of poor people, like the super ric…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:15 PM
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I agree, but women also have a choice not to go raw. I don't understand how women are always absolved of any responsibility, yet get all the rights. They are adult humans and should be treated as such. It's like the feminists don't believe that women are capable of being responsible human beings even though I'd argue that they are probably more likely to be that than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:12 PM
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Women cannot control where a man decides to put his cum They can't? They can choose not to have sex. Just like men can choose that. They can insist on their partners wearing a condom. Stop treating women like children who don't know what they are doing. They are adults and human. It's creepy how little trust people have in women while claiming to be advocating for their rights. outlawing abortions will just increase the amount of children born in low income homes Why do you insist on treating ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:09 PM
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You want me to fight over how the spoons and forks are ordered in the drawer? How to put socks together or fold a shirt? I literally do not care. This is fine. It's minor things. I get along perfectly fine with these women. Just cut the mental load crap because these are not important things. Interestingly, when shit goes down or something actually complicated is to be done, everything is suddenly delegated to me and I am not questioned. Multi leg travel planning, major financial decisions or mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:04 PM
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Men literally control where they put their sperm…I swear it’s not rocket science. Women literally control what sperm they receive... I swear it's not rocket science. How about we stop treating women like children and instead treat them like the adults they are? Actions and responsibility. And why is a child a punishment? Who again is complaining about the whole abortion thing? You do realize your tax dollars will support the children in low income homes right? What does that have to do with anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:52 PM
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So, in the egalitarian relationship, women assume the role of the manager, killing the egalitarianism, then complain about added mental load? Sounds about right. I have noticed that when I do things my way, it's almost never good enough for her. She always has to have everything her way. She laughs at my "incompetence" even though I am perfectly fine living like that. To clarify, I'm not talking about one girl in particular, they have all been like that. Personally, that's fine by me. One way wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:35 PM
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I laugh at the constant reorganizing my girlfriend does. Like, how the hell am I supposed to know where everything is? It's all perfectly logical in her mind. Also, sometimes I literally can't see the thing that is in front of my nose. Seems to be a man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:28 PM
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men have 100% control in whether or not a woman gets pregnant Women have 100% control in whether or not they get pregnant. It takes two people. Both should be responsible. But somehow, men are constantly told to shut the hell up while women get all the options. Or got all the options, because now things are looking different. (Some) Women now have to live with the consequences of their actions, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:24 PM
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The problem these days with the manly duties is: Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Everything is always wrong. Just be careful with your protective instinct because in the eyes of the law, getting involved is always bad and as a man, you'll face the full brunt of the legal system even if you meant well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:16 PM
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Ask this on the fem sub and it's an insta ban.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 02:51 PM
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If men could get pregnant... they would be women.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 11:50 AM
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Being nice isn't a personality. The difference between men and women is that right now, women don't need a personality to succeed in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:19 AM
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There is something between soy boy and viking vs average fat slob, and the ROI on converging on both overall life styles is decent. You don't have to go all the way. You don't have to be super ripped, but you can be toned and actually wear clothes that fit and be healthy. That is what you should strive for. Being either ripped or a soy boy as a personality doesn't work. You still have to be a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:35 AM
1

What is your interpretation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:27 AM
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The basic respect for fellow human beings is not to bother them, do nothing to them that would annoy you when somebody else does it to you, but basically ignore them. That on its own does not improve your prospects with women much. It should come naturally, and sadly it often does not, but it does not make interaction more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:07 AM
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I agree with that. It should be normal. But make no mistake here, that basic level is not much, and thus I don't think it is conductive to what the men here are trying to achieve, which is further interaction with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:05 AM
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Men interacting with women by either treating them like a means to get satisfaction or by putting them on a pedestal is what women hate and can smell from miles away. Both ways reek of desperation. But I think treating them with respect is different from how you explain it. Respect has to be earned. Nobody gets immediate respect beyond the basic modicum. Not men, and not women, purely by being what they are. "Respect women" doesn't work. Respect yourself first, and don't be a prick about it. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:38 AM
2

"Most people sleep at night." "But my cousin does not, therefore you are wrong and this is a fallacy." You see this? That's either an incredibly dishonest and shitty discussion culture or this person lacks intellect and doesn't understand what point is being made. If you want to express an opinion and contribute to the discussion, actually discuss the topic. If it's about apples, don't say apples are shit because you like oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:27 PM
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Regarding the second point, there are plenty of posts and comments on this and other subs claiming the contrary. Plenty of media pieces claiming it, too. They say that there is no difference between men and women, or that in fact women are hornier. That's a lie that keeps popping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:19 PM
2

That would be... A for effort!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:51 PM
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This post managed to cram about 60% of the common tropes in this sub into a few lines. I expect more next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:42 PM
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I still remember those days as well. People were way more relaxed and not constantly glued to their phones. Sending a text cost 20 cents, most phones were not internet capable. I found plenty of perfectly fine girls on a night out. It was not considered offensive to interact with them. The world seems so much simpler in retrospect. One time, I believe in 2006, we went bowling with friends and there was a group of girls who was also bowling. We started bowling together. Got to talking with one gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:21 AM
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And Tinder, Snapchat, TikTok, and OnlyFans. Those apps are killing social interaction in favor of an unreasonable short term revolving cycle of possibilities, all of which are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:34 AM
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The incentives and tax benefits mostly apply to couples with children, which drives the risk of divorce. Without children, in countries where you are taxes together, progressive policies have made it so that you end up in a higher tax bracket and pay significantly more. Men don't make more because they are married, they are married because they make more. As for happiness and being taken care off, that may be true, but what is that in comparison to? Single men, all men, or men in relationships b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:21 AM
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Tell me, what is the point of marriage? Particularly if you don't have children. Prenups don't hold up in court very often. There is no benefit for men in marriage anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:27 PM
3

Wow. That is so much better. Only 20%, or even 15% of a ruined life if you find a woman who is actually into you and satisfies all those criteria you listed? /s If you had only a 20% chance to be struck by lightning under optimal conditions, would you go outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:16 PM
10

FDS tells its members to stop dating and fix themselves first, I think you need to go back to Earth 2. This is nothing like FDS here, you're confusing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:49 PM
1

It's almost like men and women are wired differently. Which is something that people and the media lie about constantly, but suddenly promote as fact when it is convenient. As a woman, you cannot understand the drive men get, just like men cannot understand women when it comes to that. You say it's not important to you and I believe you, but the male drive starting in puberty is capable of almost overriding every other sensation or plan you may have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:08 AM
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Get off any sub on the topic of human interaction on Reddit. It's all toxic bullshit. The relationship subs in particular make you want to jump out of a window as a man, and probably as a woman too if you read the stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:34 PM
1

I believe you and accept this answer, but it is also the most womanly and useless answer. Because the question is already stupid. Men expect there to be a scale or checklist that is shared by a majority of women, but for women there is no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:36 PM
1

I mean, I'm just an observer and I've noticed this. Depending on time of day it seems to change for some reason. I wonder why that is haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:41 PM
5

Oh look, it's women are not as horny as men o'clock. Return in a few hours for women are hornier than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:24 PM
2

I am aware that it has ended. Reddit somehow ate a sentence in there. The "problem" China has is that people won't have kids anyway because having kids sucks balls in China even more than here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:51 PM
2

The practice of going to a doctor and saying "abort my baby if it's a girl" is now illegal when it was super common a few years back. I meant restricted in that sense. But yeah, abortions are legal. In China it is still super common though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:20 PM
1

It was and is legal, but medical practitioners try to talk people out of it and in practice some might even just not do it. It was common practice to find out the sex of your child, then abort it immediately as soon as it was known it would be female. This still is common practice in China because the One Child Policy. When everybody could only have one child and you need to have a son not to shame your family, you keep aborting girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:06 PM
2

I disagree with that notion. I think absentee fathers, forced or not, are responsible for shit masculinity. Now, whether the fathers are systematically absent because the mothers intended it to be so is a wholly different question.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 09:41 AM
7

No. Pushover men do.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 09:38 AM
1

FYI India managed to get the numbers so that they now have over 1000 women for every 1000 men, though that only happened a couple of years ago. They did this by restricting abortion access. It will be decades until this can have any impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:44 AM
9

The Romans were a strange bunch. What have the Romans ever done for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:11 AM
1

This explains why there are so many abusers among the feminist allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:31 PM
3

Early thirties half Asian half white straight male in Western Europe, tall and athletic, relatively wealthy and successful in my career, introverted nerd who learned to be outgoing for my job. I like computer programming, math, learning languages, reading about history. Love to cook and drink and discuss stuff. Haven't really been single long since I turned fifteen. I live a rather peaceful and quiet life and don't chase after women. I prefer to be left alone for the most part. I like to think I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:00 PM
1

*erect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:22 AM
2

Depending on the outcome of the election, there's a chance that they'll codify an actual ban instead of "no right".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:50 AM
1

Didn't this guy also call for electroshock therapy for gays? What a guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:10 AM
2

This is what I don't get. I understand the principle of common law and all, but if it is so important, why won't politicians do their job and legislate on a federal level? There have been majorities for such things now and then and this issue has been on the horizon for decades. Why base what you see as a core principle on the result of a court case fifty years ago? Same with gay marriage by the way. Are these people insane? Rhetorical question. We already know they are not doing their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:02 AM
3

This is stupid. As a man, I'd be impressed with that, compliment her and leave her be. Good for her. She told you upfront what's up and didn't lie. Don't be such a baby. There are better things to be upset about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:45 PM
6

I might be interested in sex if they are still good looking but that's it. They have certainly proven not to be relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:52 AM
1

Men expecting a logical explanation or recipe on how to get women do not understand women and will forever fail. There is no magic word, no checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:19 PM
9

Women cannot even describe what their preferences are. One day it's physical, the next it's something else entirely. Might as well be into astrology and choose your partner based on that. Oh wait, many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:44 PM
5

🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:35 PM
13

my goal is to retire early in 10 years. Best stay single then if you want to maintain that goal. Finding a woman who is frugal is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:26 PM
1

Evolutionary psychology is a strange concept. You can explain many behaviors and preferences using evolution and and biology and it seems to make sense. And at the same time, we are presumably the first species to leave the traditional rules of evolution and survival behind us. A few generations back, most people still knew the basics of survival on their own, but now it is all irrelevant. Evolution and biology still shines through all the time, but humans are super adaptive to changing environm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:36 AM
2

You're probably right, though I question whether that preference is intrinsic. Like with height, I get the impression that men simply want to provide what women desire. The traditional scenario is women wanting a provider, so the men want to be able to provide. Women prefer taller men, so men want smaller women. Both results on their pool of options being as large as possible. But ultimately, if every woman were 2m tall and earned six figures, I don't think men would mind. It's just that this im…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:55 PM
1

Okay, so we can reduce it to this: Women may be aggreable as long as they make less than the men they are with. But feminism tells them they have to compete and outperform the men, which is why they are unhappy. If they do outperform the men, they are also unhappy because they feel like they deserve someone who can take care of them. Women these days are always unhappy, and the preferences men have have little to do with it. Apart from the outliers, men literally would not care about a woman's i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:43 PM
1

As long as she is hot and agreeable, then yes, why not. Are woman okay with making more than the men they are involved with? A lot of them are not. They are also not happy with making less, because feminism tells them that means their not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:42 PM
2

That's stupid. Men don't want someone lesser, men want feminine women who are hot and agreeable. Women want masculine men, or maybe they don't -- they have pretty much failed at explaining what they want so far. The interpretation that they want someone "better" is from a male perspective and thus false. Women cannot explain what they want as a group. In that situation, feminism comes in. Feminism tells everybody men are shitty, then tells women who act masculine and adopt manly behaviors that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:37 PM
2

Well thank God I am Catholic. Now I just need to stop sinning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:11 PM
4

I won't do that. I have walked out on that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:40 PM
28

I am very particular about hygiene and I'm a dude. Out in public, 95% of smelly people are men. Big part nature of it is nature: You go on try and not stink when working an intensive job in a male body for a day and see how you smell. The small part of it is actually people letting themselves go, which also seems to happen more often to men than women. But god help me if I haven't met enough women who seemingly don't even know how to wipe their asses properly. What the fuck is wrong with you? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:02 PM
27

No. The current culture collapses and will be replaced by something else. Conservatism, religion (Islam, anyone? They don't lack for children) etc. What won't be as prevalent is the liberated, lesbian, gynocentric individualism that dominates culture and entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:30 PM
9

But an LTR ending, especially a marriage ending, tends to screw you for good, particularly if you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:18 PM
12

"Men and women are the same! Women have the same or higher sex drive!" Until they don't because it doesn't suit the narrative. Men and women are different and we should finally be okay with admitting that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:27 AM
2

So hose her down
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:19 AM
1

I don't know your whole story, but as a straight man, I mostly hang out with women. I mostly find men insufferable. And yet, I am having trouble understanding and accepting your point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:23 AM
1

So bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:19 AM
2

Domestic violence isn’t as much of an issue in lesbian relationships It is a huge issue, even if the statistics are washed. "43.8% of lesbian women and 61.1% of bisexual women have experienced (...) by an intimate partner as compared to 35% of heterosexual women." These numbers are from a women's rights group.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:18 AM
1

Yeah, usually the attackers are scrawny guys with short blades and they're not exactly trained with these weapons. In that case, one or two semi fit guys can beat his ass with whatever is around. With guns, they can do much more damage from far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:51 AM
9

Not you personally maybe, but in general. Women in STEM. Career days for girls. Stop bullying girls. Off days for menstrual pain in certain countries. Earlier retirement in most countries. Job and university quotas. Research finance grants exclusive for women. Quotas in management and politics. Believe all women. Preferential treatment in front of the law because justices are far more lenient. And so on and so forth. Last but not least and entire culture and entertainment industry which for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:24 AM
8

As long as it is not women suffering from a condition, nobody gives a shit anyway. Men can rot in their own juice for all society cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:46 AM
6

The number of incidents is nowhere near as high in Europe, but there have been a number of axe and knife attacks in Germany and France in recent years, particularly on trains. It's not as huge news because in many cases, these attackers get their ass beaten by some ripped dudes or they hurt a couple of people before they are shot by police.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:35 AM
3

Marriage is great. You can pay and have no sex while contractually bound to get fucked by the government on behalf of the woman if she thinks you're not good enough. Marriage is a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:11 AM
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If the guns were unavailable, it would be axes like in Europe or knives like in China. Makes it easier for police to kill the attackers which is why there are less victims, but the root problem is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:08 AM
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Young American men and women largely have the same issues. No way. Men in the West in general are either successful on their own or they are being left behind. There is no support net and no discourse on the matter whereas there are plenty of Initiatives trying to improve the life of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:06 AM
4

VR immersion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:23 PM
3

It's actually what a lot of women say to men to let them down easy. Oh, you're so perfect, I'd rather have you as my best friend (slowly fading away into nothingness). Translation: You're a boring pushover, I am not attracted anymore. I doubt it's because he's spoiled her. Spoil them every day but be your own person and do stuff for yourself, not a pathetic excuse for a man who's sole purpose of existence seems to be to please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:22 PM
1

It's always the same. Men are seen as the perpetrators, women are seen as good natured, soft beings. The media plays a strategic role here with their super biased reporting. Yesterday there was an unrelated headline that read "Woman (26) had romantic relationship with girl (13)" and the article basically described how her husband sucked for going to the police because it hurt the girl. Had it been a man, the headline would use the R-word and laud the woman for saving the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:21 AM
7

Women shit on other women way more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:46 AM
8

Whoa, slow down there cowboy. You can only cram so many buzzwords into one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:24 PM
3

That is true, but the overlap between the people who want to find a new romantic relationship and those who have intrinsic motivation to take care of a child that is not their own is small. The original motivations have little to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:14 AM
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The people who decide to adopt often have circumstances that prevent them from having children on their own or have a mindset that makes them want "to save children." It's a wholly different motivation compared to wanting to find a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:04 AM
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They fall through the great filter for most young men looking for a woman. There is something about the idea of entering a family's life and becoming involved in it as a role model and taking responsibility for a kid that is not your own that is hard to swallow for men. Personally, I happen to know and be friends with one single mother and she's absolutely delightful, and her kid likes me a lot. I could imagine getting involved in such a situation if I were much older (mid 50s or something like …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:49 AM
3

That's part of what I meant with my comment before. I am not a professional gym bro but I when I take something up, I am very consistent. I will be active every day, and I will go to the gym 3-5x per week. There is a program I follow (it does not involve spending time answering phone calls or texting...), and when I am there, it's hard work but it's also rewarding. I can see and feel the progress. It is part of the me-time I crave so much as well, so it's like two flies with one hit. You know ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:39 PM
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And how many women can shit on men for playing video games (games are for kids!) while they themselves can watch TV and scroll their social media for hours every day? It's not like those are attractive qualities either. No, there is a part missing in this story and I am not quite sure what it is. I am that guy who used to play a lot of video games, who is into computers and programming, I am introverted and awkward. And yet, I've not been single for a month since I turned 15. I have since learne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:56 PM
1

Most of the feminist subs are openly anti men and anti trans nowadays, and that seems to be perfectly fine. I don't really care for what they say, but tech should just apply the same rules everywhere and not take party.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:02 AM
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Having to start multiple threads to convince men that something is not hard is evidence that it is hard. You're doing this wrong, you're doing that wrong, you're not playing the game right, go through this checklist before you get started. Dude, it feels like we are trying to fly a fighter jet after learning with a Cessna.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:59 AM
18

If men had the standards women have, our species would have ceased to exist a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:17 PM
25

The same can be said for the feminists in their subs. They have devolved into endless circle jerks of hating men and nowadays hating trans people. Nobody cares about that, they're still seen as universally good. They are mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:54 PM
2

I have never been a particularly social individual. I am naturally introverted and awkward, and I have stopped trying to fit into any groups as a teenager. I just live my life and try not to be too much of an asshole. And yet, I've never had any issues meeting women. I haven't been single for more than a month since I turned 15. Meanwhile tons of these super extroverted people who go paragliding every other day and live in a tent while hiking in groups are still alone. It's Friday and I am looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:08 PM
9

but those are western norms Show us one culture in the world where this is not the norm...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:57 PM
14

generally unhappy in life Quite revealing. It's like they're incapable of being content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:30 PM
5

What do you mean it's gone? Did they ban it? More censorship on Reddit is not the answer. I'd rather have the ugliness out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:16 AM
1

No means no, but also sometimes it means you need to try harder, as I have been told many times by women. I never played that game, but considering the number of such interactions it is no surprise that some people will. Don't know what the solution is. It could be that women try and be a little more active themselves, but this probably won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:45 PM
3

Don't you get it? It's women are not as horny as men-o'clock. Come back later for women are just as horny as men or women are far hornier than men hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:29 AM
4

And here I thought the asshole was...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:56 AM
5

It's not toddler mentality, it's quite normal. It's like reading the reviews on a store page. Even if you just look at the star rating, you're much more likely to go for the five star thing and dismiss the other options outright. Everybody does this, for everything. Hell, when ordering food at a restaurant I sometimes look at what other people are served and decide then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:45 AM
3

Alpha fuxx, alpha buxx? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:04 AM
5

Heard of equality? Music just stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:03 AM
1

Aren't we forced to be a part of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:41 AM
3

If only those were the things. But if you look at the government's spending bills, you will find so much bullshit that makes you question whether paying the taxes is actually the moral and right choice. Doesn't matter what country you live in, it's degenerate everywhere. It's just particularly bad in Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:33 AM
1

It's not ridiculous, it's women driving a hard bargain while them being fat does not seem to affect their chances on the markets that much. They take whatever they can get away with, and since men are thirsty, they get away with more every day. On a sidenote, getting and staying in shape as a man or a woman does not necessarily have to happen in order to attract people. Sometimes you just need a project, and your body is a great project for life. It's good that men get in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:13 PM
7

It's hard not to turn into a cynical being. You might just discover some truths for yourself and only later realize that you are not the only one who got the same impression from life. Also, a lot of the self improvement advice is not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:19 PM
3

Effing inflation man /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:32 AM
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Yawn. I could not care less about some Hollywood elites, period. Whether they are praising, insulting or fighting each other does not matter. I'm glad that tomorrow the news cycle will no longer care about this. Right now we are being force fed this BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:30 PM
5

Yum
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:18 PM
1

Who knows. Might be. What is your point? The father, both the assumed and the real one do not get a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:06 PM
1

And what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:13 PM
0

Cue the alliance of the Saudi Arab led UN Human Rights council and the feminists of this world in collective outcry. That will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:07 PM
4

How is it not fraud? In a system where it is automatically assumed that the man in the picture is the father and thus financially responsible, it does not matter if she knows the real father. It matters that she is leading on the man. As for criminalizing, the real father, if identified, even against his will, is alread liable today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:10 PM
3

True. But that's a low bar. I don't know what would make for a fair system. Paternity fraudsters getting away like today isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:02 PM
2

They used to do that and it sucked for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:50 PM
1

I agree with that. It's just upsetting that there are no consequences for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:24 PM
15

The point is there is no consequences for the woman. The man getting out is a good first step, but it is just socializing the cost of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:55 AM
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The problem is that this just shifts the financial obligation to the tax payer and the woman is not made responsible. You cannot punish the woman because it would indirectly punish the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:50 AM
3

I don't see a lot of defending, but as usual with the relationship subs: If it's a man asking a question, people suggest giving her another chance and going to therapy. If it were a woman asking, people would be shitting over the man and suggesting a break-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:39 AM
2

It's Twitter. The platform is full of deranged people who need to tell the world how screwed up they are while expecting you to accept and cherish them for that, or you'll be the bad person. This is why basing your perception of reality on Twitter is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:19 AM
0

Statistically, you way more likely to be assaulted, robbed, stabbed or killed as a man. Sexual assaults are more likely on women, but overall, it's way more dangerous as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:03 AM
35

So privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:58 AM
8

Of course I do. If I didn't, I would have been gone a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:55 AM
1

why did women elevate a terrible man to the highest positions of society just because his single picture made them ruin their underwear? What? I have no idea what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:52 PM
2

What do relationships have to do with sexual attraction? Nothing. But sexual attraction plays a huge role in relationships, because without it, a relationship is doomed. offering the woman nothing in return It's never nothing. It is always something. For men, an attractive woman just has to be what she is and that would be considered enough. For women, not even women themselves can explain what they want. But it usually amounts to something a man actively needs to be doing, and those criteria ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:36 PM
5

Maybe I am, maybe I am not. I have not been single much since I was 15 and I do not care. The fact is that women as a group cannot even agree on what makes a man attractive to begin with, so this point is moot. Further discussion will only lead to the same point again. A tiny minority of men is considered passably attractive by a majority of women. The rest is just not interesting at all. Women will argue against that, and ultimately nothing will happen. I'm not sure something needs to happen. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:27 PM
3

If you're trying to insult me or make me feel sad, you are failing. I consider this as happening quite regularly, considering I am not even trying to get attention. I don't get around much lately for obvious circumstances, so once a month is not that bad. This is them approaching me at the grocery store, train or the gym. They are decently attractive, especially the young ones. It's the women I would have loved to have approach me when I was like ten years younger. But they go for the thirty yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:20 PM
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If only women would approach more regularly, but until that happens, I cannot in good conscience agree with you. I am approached occasionally in person, maybe once a month? But that seems to be an absolute outlier phenomenon when you listen to men. Also, the women who approach me are usually very young or significantly older than me. Nothing from the age range that would interest me. If I were single and looking for something serious, this would not help me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:13 PM
2

The way you describe yourself and the situation you're in evokes the same feelings in me as the German language detail description on the back of a processed food item package. Super complicated, elaborate and full of terms nobody normal would use in real life, making something seem much worse than it actually is. Just tell them you need to feel in love for it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:44 AM
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I see multiple paths. One might be that hard times will fall upon us soon and that might just force people back into the traditional nuclear family structure and be less explorative when it comes to relationships and sex. It won't be as conservative as in the early-mid 20th century, but maybe people will once again value companionship and stability over personal exploration and ever changing relations. The other path I see is decay of the currently prevalent life style and culture. This is alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:07 PM
3

Men value individualism over collectivism because they have no support net to begin with and they are taught from the beginning that to be worth something means that you need to provide. Meanwhile women tend to have more support structures and are basically taught that they carry intrinsic value and are worthy of support. As a man, I am not a fan of being forced to provide for somebody I do not care about, but that is what the left parties are normalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:56 PM
-1

That's an old world view. Right wing is mostly conservative when it comes to family structure but very liberal when it comes to economics. Left wing is mostly conservative when it comes to economics but very liberal when it comes to family structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:46 PM
3

Congratulations. You made every (single) mother an automatic 0/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:00 PM
3

Yes, that's probably the right word. Gynocentric, man hating. Women can't do wrong, men can't do right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:22 PM
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I don't disagree with you list. I disagree with the matriarchy that is deduced from it. I feel like women are treated like spoiled children, but they're not given much more real power. The average man is also not powerful. Power is for the elites and authorities, not for regular people. Women are just put on a pedestal and most of them enjoy it and make the best of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:17 PM
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We live in neither a matriarchal nor patriarchal society. Turning women against men is just the latest strategy in divide and conquer by the powerful, and as usual, people will vote in line with those who promise them the most. Feminism is the best thing that's happened to the "new" elites since socialism. It is perfectly controversial, yet you cannot argue about it without becoming the enemy, it destabilizes societies and allows you to promise sweeping changes, it radicalizes people and will ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:07 PM
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Also interesting, women are afraid "to walk alone at night" while men pretty much don't care. However, statistically speaking, in most countries you're an order of magnitude more likely to be assaulted, robbed or killed as a man and nobody gives a shit about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:28 PM
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Same thing with pedos. Every responsible parent tells their kid do not get into the car with strange men, but plenty of this shit happens within the families themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:23 PM
11

It's women are not like men-o'clock. Come back for women as horny as men-o'clock later today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:49 PM
27

Blue pill advises men to become an autonomous door mat, ready to place yourself under somebody's feet at a moment's notice, and silently expect something in return. That is dangerous and unhealthy. Treat people with respect, but also say what you want. If it does not match, respectfully leave them alone. It's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:31 PM
2

Women are complicated and mostly don't know what they want. They may think they know, and when you ask them something like that directly, they will overthink and come to a reasonable result. But ultimately dating and attraction comes down to spontaneity and gut feelings which is entirely different from this thinking process. This is why dating advice from them (as to how to approach and interact with women) is mostly useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:51 AM
5

That's why you should only have threesomes. Life's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:34 AM
2

Ugh, is there any reason you picked these two categories in particular? The first one is pretty much the way nature intended things to be done. It's raw and primal and it's the way I like to do it myself. Not sure what you consider special about that. The second one, I don't really get the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:01 PM
5

That's some r/niceguys behavior if you ask me. There seem to be plenty of men out there who think just by virtue of opposing sexes and friendship it must lead to something else. That's probably what women are afraid of. Some "friend" coming out as in love after months and years. A lot of them will probably claim the woman was leading them on when it inevitably does not work out for them. I think part of the issue is that many of them are afraid to speak up. Lack of confidence, fear of rejection …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:49 PM
3

I liked it better when men were toasters and women were accordions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:30 PM
4

Encouraging to see the sentiment compared to mere years ago. But some statements also make me want to bang my head against the wall. Religious reasons, but you're Christian? Hygiene reasons, how about you show your kid how to wash properly like in large parts of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:28 PM
12

It's just that most women I've met have told me they won't actually consider any of their male friends for relationships. It's like the train left the station already. You either get to be a friend or you are relationship material. From personal experience, I know that this is not true or women do not even understand themselves. I had relationships with women after they told me they just saw me as a friend. It felt like a defence mechanism on their part rather than a truth. But every time, we ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:23 PM
0

Absolutely not. That is part of a romantic relationship and I am not willing to forgo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:25 AM
5

Women are also more educated, and education is more geared towards them with exclusive programs and financing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:02 AM
9

adapt or give up Just change your race, height, financial standing and personal history and you're set. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:40 AM
9

Efing patriarchy designed the tables anyway. Otherwise the legs would be softer and placed differently. It's all men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:38 AM
10

Yes. By giving women de facto lifetime access to resources. Regardless of whether there are children involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:08 PM
2

You know what the fun thing is? You can do this but in many countries the result is inadmissible in court if the woman does not consent, and consent can be revoked at any time. There have been cases in Europe where it was straight up proven that a man is not the father and he still gets shafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:59 PM
11

Marriage is an institution designed to benefit women and redistribute wealth accordingly. That is all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:54 PM
1

How do they know the sex of the users? It's not like there's census data. Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:43 PM
1

People prefer feeling attacked over reading comprehension. This is the internet after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:28 PM
11

When you say attractive, do you mean physically? Because as a man, that pretty much has not changed for me. In my early thirties I find the same looks attractive that I like when I was an eight year old boy. When it comes to personality, it's a whole different topic...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:56 PM
2

It's the same as always with these tactics. The point is to socially shame people with different opinions, tastes and lifestyles into compliance and force them under your control because they fear the court of public opinion. And since it is unacceptable to be racist, transphobic, sexist, a Nazi or anything like that, these attributes are used in an inflationary manner to attack anybody and everything these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:51 PM
21

I know what you're saying but the way you said it made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:59 AM
1

From personal experience, the women are hot. Dealing with their families is an absolute shit show though. 2/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:14 PM
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Most single mothers ended up like that by choices they made themselves, dumping a man they had been with or having a child with a man they could not make stick around. They have no idea what makes for a reliable, desirable man, and thus cannot nudge their own kids to develop into that. Instead, they form their boys into something that would avoid the issues they experienced with men and leave out everything else. You can get a docile creature on the surface by doing that, but these guys do not k…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:01 AM
21

they just stopped caring Which would be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:36 PM
3

The day I'd rather jerk off than do the dirty with my girl is the day I leave. It's also the day she should leave me and never look back. Because that is fucked up. You can have kinks but if that overrides everything, you have a serious problem. I have watched some kinky stuff in my time, but most of it I would not even want to try myself. Maybe I'm just boring like that. I'd rather watch my girl change into different clothes in real life than go to the hub and stream somebody take it in the poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:06 PM
1

Maybe the crisis of masculinity comes from the fact that the average male is further from being Jason Momoa than from Alain Delon (I've never heard of this guy, probably too young). I once watched a documentary on his meal and workout plan. Looking like that is a full time job. The guy eats protein and drinks dark beer and works out a lot even though he does not like it. For most men, doing this full time is impossible. If Baywatch was unrealistic, then what is this? Meanwhile, if you ask me to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:37 PM
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I always found that super confusing. How does one even end up like that? It seems to be surprisingly common these days. It's like being hungry in a restaurant but instead of getting something to eat you just pull out your iPad and look at the pictures of a buffet in a land far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:22 PM
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Bag it. They mostly imagine themselves looking at their backs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:22 AM
2

Testosterone is a hell of a drug I still remember puberty. Let's just say that shit is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:17 PM
3

Well neither have I. Because it's weird and I don't want them. TBH I also think I don't need them. Perfectly fine without it. But here, you can see ads for toys for women on TV, YouTube and plastered over the city walls. They're even on display in the super market. Toys for men are invisible because they are for creepy, weird guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:07 PM
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That's not what he meant. He's referring to the Greater Male Variability hypothesis. It's only a hypothesis, but the data is clear: Male adults show more variation on weight, height, 60-meter dash times, and blood parameters such as triglycerides and cholesterol. They also show more variation on measures of spatial performance, verbal ability, intelligence, and physical aggression. It means that if you take 100 men and 100 women, the variations among the men tend to be much more significant than…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:06 PM
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society pressures women to not pursue their desires No, it's perfectly normalized for women to buy and have toys and do whatever they desire. Meanwhile, men are vilified for being driven like that, and the toys for men are seen as weird and only used by losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:00 PM
27

That's very interesting to read. Thanks for commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:57 PM
25

Is once a week low? Not low per se but most men would go for 2-3x a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:57 PM
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It's all very entertaining and now and then there are genuinely interesting discussions. I like to occasionally pour oil into the fire, I have to admit. What is also good is that it shows how my own opinions are not that extreme. Not that I care much about Reddit but I have been banned from subs I was not even active in apparently for being an "incel" -- I guess if you are not a blue piller guy you're automatically the scum of the earth. You can shit on men all day every day though and it's fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:41 AM
2

Jobless is way worse. I'd rather have a decent career and be stable all by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:46 AM
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foot baths Wait, what? I like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:41 AM
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1) I was being sarcastic. I could not care less about anybody's preferences. 2) Do not make assumptions about my race.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:58 PM
2

Have you met men and women? They are physically so different it makes me wonder why people go out of their way to claim that they're the same. I love that we are different, we should embrace that. Why is that so hard? Pick 50 random men and 50 random women. Line them up from smallest to tallest and on the short end it will be women, on the tall end it will be men. The most stupid bunch of people among them will likely be men, as will the smartest (smart does not mean easy to deal with). Have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:02 PM
3

Caucasian Racist. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:49 PM
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How you tell? They wrap 'em up in bags so you can't see them. Half joking. I know some who are gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:12 AM
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beer goggles noun INFORMAL used to refer to the supposed influence of alcohol on one's visual perception, whereby one is sexually attracted to people who would not otherwise be appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:26 PM
1

Yes it is helping them overcome the need. But it is not helping them overcome the cultural entitlement and legal privilege of being provided for. Feminism has cherry picked the advantages while holding a protective shield over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:39 PM
4

Ever heard of beer goggles? It's common among men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:08 PM
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I think there are very limited uses for it where it can be appropriate and improve things. But most people who get into it overdo it and go for the Barbie and Ken look and it just looks absolutely ridiculous. There also seems to be a lot of cheap surgeons who don't do a good job. The less you notice it the better. Sadly you often notice. A friend showed me her fake tits a couple of years ago and they were well done, but they still looked off. Also felt a bit strange. Looks great in a bra though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:45 AM
4

I cannot really argue against you. I might just want to add that it is okay to be different, but that's a notion that seems to be deeply offensive to many these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:52 PM
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Women get little, men get less => Men must lower their standards! Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:32 PM
4

That's a very unhealthy attitude. Men are treated like garbage and told off whenever there's a chance to do so, but this attitude of yours is not helping anybody. I mean you are correct at the core. Every statistic these days is about women. So many women kill themselves, are murdered, robbed, etc. -- nobody cares the numbers for men are much higher. You always read stories of women scared to walk alone at night but statistically men are much more likely to be attacked and they do not even care …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:34 AM
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I do it for myself. I started working out for various reasons, but attracting women was not a primary concern. Never had any issues with that and started while being in a relationship. For me, it's a means of balancing out my job and lifestyle. I am a software engineer which has me sit and think all day. I love to eat and drink lavishly -- thankfully, my metabolism handled it just fine. Still, at some point, it felt like I needed to compensate because you don't do this forever and stay healthy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:55 AM
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women are out here saying men are allowed to show emotions Go ahead and try it. Positive emotions are fine. The other ones, not so much. They don't know how and don't want to deal with that. They get tired by it real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:36 AM
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Ever notice how men and women consider different things shitty or attractive? That's at full play here. Also, watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:29 AM
2

I just like to say some provocative stuff and troll for a bit. I assume that most here are ultimately doing the same, so I cannot say that it affects my views much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:43 PM
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Her boobs gotta be bigger than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:41 PM
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Women just can't handle me in my plateau shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:30 PM
2

I was half joking of course. If I remember correctly it's an idea from astronomy. A civilization will only succeed if it survives that critical time between reaching the atomic age and colonizing multiple star systems. Gotta reach that level to truly make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:09 PM
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As a non-American, pro gun individual and gun owner, I find this view oversimplified but it has some truthful ideas. At the end of the day, it is always good to be able to defend yourself if it comes to that. Guns are the great equalizer, as somebody once pointed out. Basic firearms and self defense training for everybody would do a lot of good and also clean up some of the common misconceptions. But for some reason many women seem to prefer somebody else having to defend them rather taking matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:48 PM
6

Why did you just pick the wrong sex before you were born?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:41 PM
6

I admit I am half trolling. I never had any issues in this department. Though I am also 185cm tall, in great shape, and not desperate. Have only been single for a couple of months since my 15th birthday lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:40 PM
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Yeah, men! Why won't you just grow a bit taller and overcome the great filter, you lazy pricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:39 PM
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Also, don't forget animal loving vegetarian. Except when it came to Weisswurst. He loved Weisswurst.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:38 AM
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https://youtu.be/9vkF-k56b2g
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:35 AM
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It's a BS rationalization from those who would or could not have kids in the first place, but it's such a mainstream thing to say. Wasn't there a bunch of "news" pieces last month where men claimed to get a vasectomy to save the climate and proving their conviction to women they don't even know? Absolute lunatics if you ask me, if it's even true. The primary reason not to have kids is financial. Too many people are in useless debt, while also spending the little money they have or get on a month…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:31 AM
1

European white
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:18 PM
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Am only half Asian, so naturally I only get half.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:07 PM
6

Be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:07 PM
3

It's an incel term for going to South East Asia and finding dates there. As an average guy in the West, Asian or not, you're loaded there and stand a decent chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:02 PM
1

But inflation man! It's expensive :'-(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:59 PM
2

Kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:44 PM
3

Why would it not count? Because it's less about the end goal but rather the fact that attention is given to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:41 PM
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Are men not born with beauty? Apparently not. Or at least you're more likely to win the lottery than actually be considered "beautiful" as a man. Can women not create value? Yes, they can. Which is why men are completely worthless nowadays, and everybody lets them feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:32 PM
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This here is important. If you made it to like 6 years old, you could live to 60, especially as a female. As a male, depending on year and region, you were used as cannon fodder for the ruling classes' political games, which is why at the end of the day there still were significantly more women than men. But the notion of people only living to 25 and thus having to have had kids at 14 themselves is just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:33 PM
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Feminism says men and women are equal, but mem have to approach, if they're not a match it's harassment, if they are a match they have to pay for dates, dating does not mean exclusivity and you basically have to read minds. Thanks, Obama.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:07 PM
4

Probably ban worthy there. Cannot assume that just women are answering or that they're just approaching men. Bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:05 PM
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i don’t approach men because i’ve always been told it’s unattractive. Was it, by any chance, a woman who told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:04 PM
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It is ironic how women and feminism have passed the stage where they won the discussion against men, and now they are tearing each other apart over what remains. It took literal minutes for the discussion here to arrive at the fortified positions of "trans women are women" vs "I don't like girl dick" and the whole transphobia argument. There will never be a solution to this because there will always be more categories people put themselves into but every group will fracture because the ideology …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:46 PM
2

Feels like 2011.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:03 AM
2

That would be sexist! Where is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:02 AM
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That's a very well written and balanced perspective on things which you should be commended for. I would have written it in a slightly more cynical tone, but overall I agree. I am sure some people will twist your words or try to tear you apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:03 AM
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It's actually not an unreasonable list, but it is demanding indeed. I don't understand what the third last point, what does that mean? Regarding the second last point, I would tend to agree, it's just that it must not be abused -- women calling themselves "so random lol" are not covered here, right? I like the fifth point the most and would even exclude the typical jock interest and goals. Be different and passionate about something that not everybody else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:51 AM
3

The politically correct term is to be poly. There's a whole sub and culture built around this notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:50 PM
3

Maybe you should make a move then. Sometimes people have to be nudged in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:46 PM
2

Ah shit, I've been found out!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:38 PM
2

r/suddenlyincest?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:37 PM
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Didn't even notice because it had been quarantined and censored forever. Meanwhile the most toxic bullshit default subs are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:35 PM
3

Soup kitchen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:34 PM
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Thanks for the downvote. My point was: Men and women are different. This is why women cannot understand why men value different things than women do, and men suck at understanding women. Women go through puberty a bit earlier than men and are more developed at a younger age. Most men only look and feel like adults by their mid 20s. Definitely easier and less painful to be a man overall. Still, women can't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:27 PM
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The short answer is yes. No matter how often they tell us that men and women are the same and women have the same libido and energy when it comes to it, the average woman will never understand what puberty does to a guy. The urge, the need is strong and overrides almost anything, impossible to explain to those who have not gone through it. It's like nature, is hitting you over the head with a club and telling you this is what you're meant to do. You feel like you could literally fuck a tree. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:19 PM
2

Is that so? Men filter out cheap women when they complain about splitting. Women filter out cheap men when they are asked to split the bill? One is quite significantly cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:31 AM
6

Jerkflation vs price to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:25 AM
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This is the answer to this thread. For every repost, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:37 PM
1

Garrus is strong with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:27 AM
6

Saying no to women really screws with their world view. How could anybody ever reject this? They're not used to it, they're drowning in desperate thirsty men. Their habits, attitudes and beliefs have gone through systematic development in the wrong direction because no matter what they do, a man will jump off a roof to have them. A man saying no in very calm and clear terms is nearly unheard of and it's very powerful. So next time you hear a girl say something about Scorpio and Gemini, just call…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:59 PM
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I am not so sure about that anymore. More women seem to have an indifferent to sour attitude towards each other and men and they make no effort to be agreeable. Meanwhile, more men these days are pushovers and secretly expect to be "compensated" for having no backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:46 PM
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No. Equality does not exist in nature, and dating is the practice of using a great filter to get rid of most people so you can get to know the individuals left. We cannot expect for the established roles of men and women to become equal when these categories themselves are comprised of unequal individuals. It will never work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:03 PM
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The other thread was absolutely ridiculous. Yeah it's all simple but not easy, except growing tall which you have no influence over. Tough luck. Making a salary like that, it's simple, but just incredibly hard. Being athletic like that, it's simple too. Just realize that it's like another 20-40% job to what you already work every week. Real simple. It really is simple, but it's incredibly hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:02 AM
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As somebody who has all three criteria checked (well, 6 pack hardly but it's coming along), if those are the criteria women are looking for primarily I'd rather be alone. There's absolutely zero personality behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:57 AM
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I guess somebody once linked it on r/askmen and as a cynical bastard I took a liking to the extreme positions trying to argue with each other because I know it won't work. Move towards each other or you'll both be stuck. Anyway, on most other subs you'd be banned outright for saying many of the things here, and I am all about being able to say those things (for all sides).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:56 AM
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Girls don't mean "friends" when they say be friends first. Once again, girls suck at communicating what they want. Sometimes it's best to just do your thing and not put too much value into the words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:01 AM
2

Rawr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:59 AM
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Not just in the west, but yeah, here it's the worst. Developed Asia is not far behind. Also, you've got a point in "people", not just "women". Men are pretty much useless as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:50 PM
6

They don't know about off-peak electricity either. Geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:32 PM
9

Says you. The last two generations of women can't cook, clean or install a light bulb. If you want anything to work, you need to do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:21 PM
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Not sure you even want to read this, but I have a female friend in her early 30s. She is an amazing individual, but not particularly attractive. She drinks a lot, and she just adopted two cats. Her standards for men are so high that she will never find anybody, and I have told her that with confidence. This is why she's been alone for the better part of a decade. She has reached the point where she just says she'll be alone forever, but she's unhappy. She is in fact in therapy for being unhappy …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:11 AM
6

The problem with discussions here is that most women here are more reasonable than the average woman, and most men are less reasonable than the average man. Women here mostly are more tolerant and accepting because they spent some time thinking, and men here mostly got burned and turned into pretend TRP giga chad or bitter guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:22 PM
0

Then how the hell does being stoic and not interested work so well?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:16 PM
3

Man, I am sad I already gave away my free award for today but this comment chain is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:47 PM
56

Also, women suck at hitting on men. Half the time their signals could be interpreted as literally anything, including not being interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:45 PM
13

Lindsay Lohan average? Come on! She was very physically attractive before she got fucked up. Agree on Sarah Jessica Parker though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:43 PM
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wants and needs Men have wants and needs?! That cannot be. Who would have thought that... Seriously it often looks like women just want to demand things without bringing anything to the table themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:31 PM
-5

Well men call women sluts 24/7. Men like sluts. Women call women sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:36 AM
2

Benefits of not getting married and being a responsible adult human being would be pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:19 AM
1

I would tend to agree with you. Who even cares what this caricature of a woman thinks? The problem is this stuff being on the verge of being mainstream. It's so cool to shit on men all day long and it's starting to affect people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:25 PM
1

It goes both ways of course, but men do it subconsciously when interacting with women in general for the most part, while for women it seems to be more of a conscious decision for very specific individuals and purposes. As a boy, you're pretty much constantly trained to not say X, do Y, or ask Z because girls might not like it or be offended. When you don't follow it all, you're a rude, terrible man. There is an entitlement. Meanwhile, it's normal for women to not cater to the male ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:11 PM
4

Because the rules are not applied the same way for everybody and this is Reddit. Admins ban and quarantine whatever they feel like, and the narrative is that women are good/the victims and men are bad/the perpetrators. This is in the media as well. There was a thread where a woman admitted to assaulting a man and most comments were jokes and snide remarks. Had roles been reversed, this would probably have been all over the news. As far as Reddit is concerned, this is a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:07 PM
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Not in general or not in this specific case? It's not like every side is constantly coining new terms. LGBTIQ+, latinx, the patriarchy? Those fake, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:33 PM
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What a boring pushover. Fuck that guy. Oh, wait. I meant: Don't fuck that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:02 PM
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It's too obvious if you ask me. What kind of man would say that and mean it? Those must be exceptionally rare. What age range of men are you dealing with, if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:56 PM
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As a straight man, they're lying to get into your pants. I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:37 PM
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How is it not? Did they change the rules? Pretty much anywhere on this planet the man basically has to finance his ex-wife when in doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:36 PM
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women- focused dating sites men say they want a strong career women Who the hell are they talking to? I don't see many straight men putting that as a criteria high up their list. They want a woman capable of financing her own lifestyle more or less, but a strong career woman? In that exact wording that sounds like something a bitter feminist would claim. In any case, I agree. Don't listen to what people say. Look at what they do. That goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:35 PM
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There are entirely different dynamics at play here. Being single vs being in a relationship is just a statistic. How about being single and in some weird pseudo relationship vs being single and alone because you can't find anybody vs being single because you want to be alone? All of these single existences are much more common and have become much more accepted. There are people who don't want to be in relationships, some having been "cured" by bad experiences. Others want a relationship but can…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:38 AM
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Astrology. Instant deal breaker for me, and super common with girls these days. You shouldn't want to be with somebody who's into that, so don't lie about yourself to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:28 AM
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Dude's the face of several marketing campaigns. How broke can he be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:08 AM
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It's only important when either you or your partner are on the extreme parts of the political spectrum. The problem is that a lot of people seem to get more extreme nowadays. People on the left seem increasingly intolerant, unaccepting of any deviation from their opinions, making the mad conservatives of the last century look like an open minded crowd which is worrying. Of course, having plenty of overlap helps. But I am of the opinion that you don't have to always agree on everything to get alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:40 PM
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by reddit standards, I'm a conservative By Reddit standards, the far left is the center. So almost everybody is conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:16 PM
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Women shame and pressure each other over so many things it's not even funny anymore. It's okay as long as they do it, but it's a huge drama if a man says anything that could in any way be interpreted as shaming. The women are ruthless with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:31 PM
1

Yep. Refuse to get used to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:30 PM
2

Since my top level comment was deleted, here it is again: I am not a woman, but I am going to marry my "forever girlfriend" soonish because she's the love of my life. The important takeaway is: The decision to do that has nothing to do with love or with us. It's all about societal norms, our parents and what is expected of us (even if we are in a position we could ignore it all). As a man, I hope everything pretty much stays the same. Me, her, and the rest. What else should there be than being h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:10 PM
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That's a funny view on things, but it's very close indeed to what I'm saying. If you're a woman in rural India, the only life path is to be married and become a mother. If you're in a city in India, you also have the option to go to work and outperform anybody because that gives you power in society. So in New Delhi's tech sector, I found plenty of successful women who would walk the night alone without fear and who would outperform any men in my line of work (and I'd always make sure I'd recomm…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:45 PM
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I have traveled all kinds of countries for business and pleasure and learned a lot. I have been in Scandinavia, I have been in the Arabian peninsula, I have been to India, and have seen people and families work and live their lives. When it comes to women, and people in general, the issue is not one thing in particular, but the more options you have, the less likely you are to choose one particular option. If you are in a country where women have all the options and support you could imagine (Sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:33 PM
2

Look at the flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:03 AM
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Nobody said women have it easy. Unfounded fears are still real and have real implications. But the attention and sadness concerning our youth and all the outreach programs and initiatives are incredibly one-sided and focusing only on "women and girls". Just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:54 AM
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And it also does not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:45 AM
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It is both a problem, yet only the porn consumption is recognized as s such. It is in fact shamed. Shaming it does not work for various reasons, among other the fact that men do not have much to lose (or that's what they think). Meanwhile, women are encouraged to be out there and show themselves off because it is supposed to be empowering. You even get stupid celebrities sing praise for in the the name of feminism. Don't have the article handy, but just last week it happened again. $edit: Oh so …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:56 AM
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Social media and online dating platforms are killing what remains of the healthy self worth and perspective on life. Women get addicted to attention, and it's easy to get attention online. But it becomes a competition and reaches unhealthy levels very quickly. Women become caricatures of themselves, pretending to live a jet set life style, always dressing up and surrounding themselves with expensive things, and somehow everybody thinks that's normal. Young girls think it's normal and they know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:20 PM
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In an ideal world, you keep everything separate but maintain a shared account with an agreed upon monthly budget and credit cards. Both contribute to that budget, but it makes sense that the person who makes more will contribute a bit more. It's shared expenses. At the end of the month, the remaining money can he transferred into an index fund. For projects outside this budget, you should be comfortable to regularly talk about it. Anything from going on vacation to buying a house should warrant …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:42 AM
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Yes, as long as it does not negatively impact our relationship. It's not like I don't watch comparable stuff myself. We sometimes (rarely) watch together and I know her taste is not that far away from the stuff I watch on my own. Except there are days when I watch stuff for entertainment and laughs, and other days when it's out there. Maybe she has such days herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:27 PM
1

That's awesome. It's actually a decent way to "hide" it in plain sight. Your average person hasn't had a DVD drive in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:20 PM
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Not playing is a winning strategy if you're at least somewhat attractive. For everybody else, it's an automatic failure. Can't fail if you don't try is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:18 PM
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This comparison does not make much sense because the categories are mismatched to begin with. One who is successful is not a loser, and success can be measured in countless ways. One who is well-read is not automatically doubtful nor a gentleman. Let us in fact drop this gentleman term and refer to the men as just men. People in general like confidence resulting in success, and straight women in particular seem to find that very attractive. Being confident in thought only, or in abilities that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:36 PM
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It's wrong. Men tend to look at women how they are in the moment and hope they stay that way. With more experience, they tend to look at who a woman could become in 5-10 years. The past is of little interest. Women look at men for their potential, and the younger they are, the less important the present seems to be. They might even assume they can change or fix a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:18 PM
2

Wait. It's not? My life is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:09 PM
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Some are extremely picky, others just had bad luck. What they all have in common is that they beat themselves up over it. That is the hard thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:30 PM
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Specifically, they find that the pool of suitable partners is growing ever smaller and all the interesting men in their age range are in stable relationships. What is even harder on them is the self doubt that comes with it. They tell themselves they are at fault for ending up alone, which is really hard on them. It's like some kind of depression, and that makes it even harder to find a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:40 AM
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Just have plenty of female friends in their late twenties and early thirties who are single and complain about how difficult it gets compared to younger years. The Rona really got to them, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:15 AM
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For women, late twenties is when it starts to get hard. For men I'd say mid fifties is still doable but only if you take good care of yourself and are successful in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:24 AM
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That first example you give pretty much covers one of my good female friends, except she is not particularly pretty. She is slowly slipping into mental issues because she has been single for a dozen years now and she knows that her standards are too high, but she can't just turn that off. As a woman in her early 30s, the pressure starts to mount hard. She's deeply unromantic and doesn't do much to begin with, but he's got to be almost a buff prince from a European royal family to stand a chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:00 AM
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That entirely depends on his emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:10 PM
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That's the difference between the original and current waves of feminism. Nowadays, plenty of choices are wrong, and if you don't conform as a woman, you are just as bad as the men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:52 PM
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That's a classic from back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:48 PM
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Thoughty2 made a video on this recently: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLhJEawvu9w Disturbing how much of an impact this madman had on American culture.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 12:13 PM
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I have no idea what this means but I just took this test because I am bored. My result: Male, early 30s, ISTJ-A (Assertive Logistician, Confident Individualism). Very interesting and the write-up had a nice quote: "It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company." -- Couldn't have put it better myself. Pill history? I refuse to be put in a box. My views have always been rather cynical and mostly red leaning (long before I ever read about all that). I'd rather be alone than play this game or …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:49 PM
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Intelligent pessimist is far more close to my personality than anything optimist. Don't need to drag everything through the mud but it's better not to expect too much good in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:47 PM
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I have absolutely no idea WTF this question is about. Bombing? Cluster bombs? Love bombing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:11 AM
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Nobody is forced to take part in this dystopia, so it's not really a dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:35 PM
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It's easier to stay rich or become richer once you are rich. It's impossible to stay pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:24 PM
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More generally, everybody is trying to do that. It's not even just about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:22 PM
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Rich people don't answer with life isn't fair, do they? Also, yesterday I replied that life isn't fair to somebody's question here, but it was a semi serious retort. Nobody really says this. You can redistribute wealth to a certain degree (beyond which I fundamentally oppose the idea because it kills incentives), but you can't redistribute attraction. It doesn't work the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:38 PM
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Seems to be a lot more than just Hollywood. Just keep reading right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:41 PM
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Online dating. Tinder and the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:07 PM
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With my FWBs I never assumed exclusivity. With that girl I went on a date with after meeting her at university, it was pretty much assumed from both sides that it was already exclusive after the first kiss. For you to find out that the other person is seeing other people would be a deal breaker akin to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:06 PM
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If you kiss her, it's exclusive unless discussed otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:54 PM
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It looks like a crap dating market if you ask me. Western Europe isn't that far behind those levels of crap. You can easily get shafted here and I hear such stories every week. I generally think that the emphasis and reliance on OLD is killing relationships regardless of location because ultimately the same principles apply. One major difference I see between American dating culture and European dating cultures (at least for those I have experienced) is how people in America seem to date and sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:43 AM
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No. It's not just genetics at play here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:32 AM
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I would not have it with people I wasn't comfortable to begin with, but I believe somewhat in sexual compatibility that goes beyond my part fits into yours. It's a very important part of a healthy relationship and it also saved my current relationship a bunch of times at critical points. Arbitrarily waiting until you are contractually bound to each other seems more dangerous than the act itself. sex shouldn't have to be a delanreaker for folks who otherwise love each other for months or years. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:42 PM
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It was a joke. Life is not fair. As for women having an easy life, women have it easier than men, but that does not mean that they have it easy overall. Life is hard. dating app Dating apps are garbage. I never had any issues meeting women in real life. I am not fat, ugly or old, I may be a bit awkward, but I am fit and confident. You know how many matches I got when I tried making a profile? One match in a whole month. Meanwhile I randomly get approached by women when outside. I’m sure you’d fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:32 PM
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Well, for me that's true at least. But a lot of people don't need that apparently. But I was speaking of how comfortable you are with this other person in bed. If you are good together, that is very helpful long term in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:23 PM
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fair If you wanted fair, you picked the wrong species at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:03 PM
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You should not get married to someone you're not comfortable and enjoying having sex with. To know that, you need to have sex with this person before you get married. Thus, being a virgin when you get married is not a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:02 PM
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God's creation was perfect. So let's chop off a part we don't like for no reason.
/r/MensRights27/07/21 03:39 PM
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The biggest mistake you can do as a man is to want to constantly serve a woman and fulfill her every wish. They don't know what they want and will resent you. Do something for yourself, by yourself and stop putting her on a pedestal. Being a slave to her does not make you desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:34 AM
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Why not? I worked 50-60 hours a week last year and cooking myself a nice dinner is what kept me afloat. It's such a relaxing and rewarding thing to do. I'll make a nice roast on weekends, a casserole on weekdays and open a decent bottle of wine even if it's just for myself. Taking time to cook and eat well is priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:47 PM
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As long as it's just critique, fine by me. When they start trending their hashtag on Twitter to end us all for having a dong again and Twitter promotes it again because Jack is in his man-punani week of the month, it gets real annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:50 AM
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Welcome to being a man. First time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:46 AM
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*Cooking skills optional I am a thirty year old boomer and I have met a lot of decent women out there but they all can't and proudly won't cook. They feel like that's part of patriarchy and oppression and even call it out as such. They all eat the food I make though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:45 AM
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No I don't think so. Abortions should not be considered a means of contraception. The side effects can be severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:51 PM
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Yes it does. This is one whole ugly mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:44 PM
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Women should have the right to abort because there are plenty of circumstances under which abortion is the best option. It's not pretty and there may be ongoing discussions, but as of right now, her body will be affected most. Women who repeatedly abort and treat abortion as an alternative to birth control are despicable human beings. It says a lot about them and they are deeply undesirable. If abortion is freely possible for women, an opt-out should also be possible for men. It takes two to tan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:30 PM
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I don't like texting very much and I don't understand how these people who spend hours every day on their phones spending texts don't go completely insane. If I have a lot to say, I will say it to you in person or call you if that's not possible. I won't send you a wall of text or voice message (that's what I hate most by far). I mostly find texting to be a hassle. It's gotten much better since we have been able to send and receive from a desktop workstation, but it's still annoying. The only pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:49 PM
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Wow, you must be real fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:08 PM
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I think you're mixing up many different topics here. First of all, I think respect has to earned beyond any basic modicum, and that goes for men and women. Nobody is entitled to friendship, romance or admiration, and you won't get any of it if the other person does not respect you. Basic respect should be there for men and women, and if it's not, you're hanging out with the wrong crowds. Your idea of basic respect is wrong. You link respect to seeing somebody as your equal. I don't think that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:56 PM
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More men and women will be single and legislation in the name of equality will further increase economic redistribution from men to women. If relationships and marriage won't do it, it will be hidden through taxes so that everybody has to pitch in whether you partake in relations or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:43 PM
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Pockets empty quicker than your looks deteriorates, but pockets can be refilled. Be prepared to be tossed aside once the time comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:34 AM
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Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:30 AM
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As a cynical person, I should invest into MTCH because this is not going away. With the current downturn, tomorrow might be a decent $150 entry point depending on what gifts the VIX might bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:35 PM
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The standards are really low, but most men are struggling. Somehow it does not add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:45 PM
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Funny, and quite accurate. It's almost like getting laid once switches 'em to the polar opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:35 AM
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You didn't answer my first question. I ask because I had a bit of a phase in college where I would go through Muslim girls. Befriend them, clearly state my intention, give them freedom, secrecy and peace of mind in return. The families would hate me if they knew what we were doing. I am culturally Catholic, but live an agnostic life style.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:29 AM
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My social circle is made up exclusively of educated people (bachelor degree at least) and over 90% of them are in relationships. Same here. Mostly software/IT, law and econ people, all of whom are in relationships and have at least a bachelors degree. Some of these women make six figures, most of the men do (and rather easily do so). Most of them want to work less once they become mothers. I don't think this is where the "problem" appears. It's when you start looking into the mid six figures or …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:59 AM
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Are you Muslim then? Is this about Mut'ah or something like that. I am genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:56 AM
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I agree with you. Everybody should be financially independent and in a position to finance their own life style. Women in particular are in a much better position if they're not dependent on their partner to live a decent life. They're less vulnerable, as you said. I don't know where the line is, or whether there needs to be a line. Quality of life does not include dating success though. The point is that focusing almost exclusively on your education and career later does not help prospects. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:47 AM
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Interesting, thanks. Added it to my check later tracker so I can read into the details. Red market like today is a good time to buy, but you have to do the research first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:36 AM
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Not sure I quite understand you yet. You have relations with various women from those faiths? Don't you get annoyed by all the religious talk? Or is it just about the framework to operate within? How do you handle the fallout? With Muslims, the families must fucking hate your guts when things come to light.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:26 AM
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Any good ideas? I already own the classic Unilever and the likes, but am having trouble finding anything more targeted that appeals to me. I'm more tech and innovation focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:19 AM
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They educate and work themselves into a life situation where they can't find a partner they are attracted to because they have taken that role themselves, all the while they are looking for somebody who still does better than them. These people do exist, but they are so rare and they are always taken. If you're so successful and high up, the air thins out and you need to descend (date down), but they don't want to. Men do. After reaching a certain level, they don't care how educated a woman is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:09 AM
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We all love a good sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:50 AM
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I prefer women who subscribe to Islamic law How is that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:47 AM
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UBI will not be implemented anywhere in the foreseeable future. It is a left wing wet dream, meanwhile there has not been a single country where socialism or communism has been implemented ever. It always ends in atrocities and a fallback into an oligarchic system. UBI just aims to strip out the work part of it as well, which makes it even more unrealistic. The moment UBI is introduced where I live is the moment I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:39 AM
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I like this question because the answers show how differently men and women are seen. All this alpha/beta talk doesn't really apply to women because they are not expected to be alpha, and more importantly they don't expect it from themselves. A woman who dates a single father and takes responsibility in bringing up that kid is seen as a nurturing, good force. In the eyes of men, she shows more of the qualities they desire in the first place. She is so selfless and good with kids and people just …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:02 PM
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Good for you. You're principled. Most people aren't. A lot of women want to have fun and go through countless guys and then, once they settle, want to turn into wallflowers. Your problem will be identifying the men who are principled vs the ones who lose out in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:54 PM
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Women consider about the top 10% of men to be "average" or better. Men consider the top 60% to be "average" or better. This leads to women having to fend off a constant onslaught of creepy, thirsty men. Meanwhile, men always get rejected in the harshest possible way for bullshit reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:58 PM
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It’s like trying to smell the color nine. With your ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:14 AM
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hence the MGTOW saying of; "He is only a bj away from being a beta". That's some legit funny shit. More than an ounce of truth to it, too. Still an extreme view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:09 AM
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What's considering attractive is mostly sociological. Being gay is just how people are. What is it now? If I am attracted to men, I am born that way, but if I am to women that's sociological? There is a sociological component, but it plays a minor role.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:54 AM
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close-minded red pill agenda It's not necessarily close minded. It's mostly just a cynical, reductive and edgy analysis of what is happening, condensed into a bunch of catchy phrases so that you'll always have something to explain any given situation. The disturbing thing is how often these ideas are correct accurately explain and predict situation. What follows from here is the question of what to do with this, and there is a lot of good men can draw from here: Focus on self-improvement, stop b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:51 AM
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No it's not. Women generally can't reliably describe what they find physically attractive, but men can. There are enough reliable visual stimuli independent of culture and upbringing to see that it's way more than sociological for men at least. Also, what you're saying kind of implies that being gay is also sociological and can be trained or gotten rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:19 AM
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These pill "communities" represent two world views on dating. The fact is that the dating landscape seems to leave a lot of people deeply unsatisfied. If you choose to vocalize (and you don't have to), there are two main options: Be a blue pill conformist and keep telling yourself that everything is alright and that by being good and following all the rules laid out in front of you, you will find happiness. Be a red pill rebel and think you can figure out the real rules, be smarter than everybod…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:05 PM
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Have you ever been to Japan or Korea? These countries are not exactly open and welcoming to foreigners. I am saying that white men, who are super rare over there, are being fetishized. There's a difference between that and being valued. Asian women in the West can explain this to you because they experience yellow fever. This is just the reverse phenomenon and it's much rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:17 PM
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And I, as a tall, mixed race half Asian man who works out a lot, am seen as some sort of exotic bird in the West. People can't quite put a finger on it and are intrigued. It's the exception, not the norm. Being paraded like a gorilla in the zoo is not the same as being valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:08 PM
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Long post is long. Women are no more inherently valuable than men. But throughout history, they have always been accepted and treated as such, while men are inherently worthless. It might not have been comfortable because being seen as valuable, women might have been locked up against their will, but they always had more value than men. Men only have value for what they provide and achieve. Women have value for what they are. Our society is one in which men hold primary power in terms of politic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:14 PM
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And if they're not, it'll be a matter of days until they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:25 PM
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Western Europe not as wack as dating in the US Yeah... about that... I think you'd be disappointed. It may not be quite as crazy just yet, but it's not far behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:04 PM
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It's not quite the same, but porn and prostitution devalue women and sex, that's why most women hate it. What they can't understand is that men pretty much start out completely without value. They rely heavily on these services, which is why they exist in the first place. I'm not advocating for it, but it is clear that this market exists because most men can't get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:15 PM
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Aren't all men that marry deflowered women technically cucks? Absolutely haram! That's some straight up Islamist view on relationships and marriage. The word deflowered alone is disgusting and says a lot about your world view. It shows you're terribly insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:56 AM
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eye for an eye mindset fuelled in spite Sounds a lot like feminism. I think they're two sides of the same coin. It's just that one side is generally embraced and the other is shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:42 AM
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Validation plays an important role probably? Women have lots of casual sex, way more than the average man, but at the same time we constantly hear how they are unhappy, not satisfied, how the orgasm gap is a thing. It's probably less about the sex itself and rather about the ability to get it whenever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:14 PM
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Most women have at least some of these traits. Hence why men rate women much more favorably overall than women do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:39 PM
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I don't get it, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:29 PM
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It shouldn't be men vs women but it is because when it comes to responsibility, women are generally treated like little children in society overall. They're less responsible for their own actions, and whatever role they take, many responsibilities are shifted away from them. They get all the rights, entitlements and favors, but their responsibilities have diminished. Men get the full brunt of it. It is considered sexist and misogynistic to point out that there might still be something left for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:24 PM
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Most men seem to prefer a selection or combination of the following (list not conclusive): Youthful looks, clear skin, longish hair, mostly symmetrical faces with rather light features (small chin, straight and fine nose, short and narrow jaw) except for relatively large eyes, not over- or underweight, curves in proportion (hip/waist ratio around 0.7, 45:55 breast ratio, etc. -- absolute sizes do not matter). Something along the lines of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:19 PM
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But you can be tall and still be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:04 PM
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Women do think physical attractiveness is important. However, they just cannot reliably explain in concrete terms what makes for an attractive male. It varies massively between women, and for each woman over time. Meanwhile, men of all ages and locations pretty much have very similar ideas of what makes for an attractive female. That is the true difference between perception of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:12 PM
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How do women need men? Prominent feminists have called for men to be forcibly removed from this world (to use a slightly less incendiary wording). We constantly hear how women can do everything that men can, and do it better. What can men offer to women? Only being semi facetious here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:31 AM
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Neither sex robots nor prostitution replace real relationships. I'd rather be alone than engage with either. Might invest in a company that provides one or the other though because both stand to make decent money in coming decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:12 PM
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Nothing personal, but I don't think so. The guy is significantly more attractive. The guy (you) is actually kind of good looking. Yes, style is always debatable, but the fundamentals are solid. It's not Adonis territory, but a friendly face with nice eyes, but also a good serious face and brow, nice angular features here and there. You're somewhere in between hobby Jesus, death metal lead singer and beach boy. Somebody I'd grab a beer with and call a dude. With some exercise and slightly differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:58 PM
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I'm more worried that you resurrected to write this comment ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:19 PM
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A glimmer of hope, and I guess hardly a surprise. I often tried, hard, to be friends, and it turned out different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:52 PM
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Is it patriarchy or feminism exacerbating this issue? Maybe it's both. Men are encouraged to show more emotion but at the same time emotional men are seen as weak, undesirable and useless losers. Men can kill themselves left and right and nobody cares. A slight increase in women doing it and you'll get a few days of press attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:42 PM
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You have to admit it's kind of funny that the argument is always made so that women are either exactly like men, or not like men at all, depending on what fits the narrative. Women are just as interested in men as men are in women. Women have just as high a sex drive as men do. Women are also interested in tech and math. Except when it all does not apply. I'm not saying you're wrong. I think there's some truth to it. Women will never understand the drive men get from being thirsty. But we're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:34 PM
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It always comes down to the same thing in the end: Men are seen and treated as worthless. This has always been the case, whether it was a hundred or a thousand years ago. Feminism just added the final nail in the coffin for relationships by enabling woman going into the traditional male role and successfully proving that women don't need men. A lot of women don't see it yet and think they can have the cake and eat it too. I don't think there is a great waking up going on among men. It's mostly j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:04 PM
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Isn't it kind of the point that they don't fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:51 PM
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The difference between humans and animals is that humans have the ability to organize and establish artificial order and use technology to a point where the natural order no longer applies in our every day lives. That does not mean that we are happy. I also do not think that people were happier in a tribal society where the majority of men were killed off and a few surviving men would just take and breed the women. It may have been normal, but it was also cruel and should not be romanticized eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:33 PM
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I disagree. Porn categories are hardly representative for real life preferences. The fact is women can't for the life of them explain what makes somebody physically attractive to them. Women don't agree on it and it varies between women and for individual women it varies over time. There was a thread full of it mere days ago (not sure if it was on PPD) where one popular answer from a female commenter was that she used to find 1990s Leonardo DiCaprio attractive but now she finds him ugly (both th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:07 PM
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Keanu is not Chad, and the idiots who thought that he must be Chad don't get him or Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:29 PM
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"Females preferred mates who were independent and generous, and both males and females preferred physically attractive mates." Generous, huh? A very vague term. It would never be used to refer to peoplemen who have a big wallet and are willing to use it freely. Too obvious. As for physical attractiveness: Good. Now if women could reliably explain what they consider physically attractive it would help a lot, but they can't. They want a 1990s Leonardo DiCaprio in the morning, a Dwayne Johnson in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:23 PM
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Brb, birthing a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:14 PM
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It's like nutrition. All the abundance is eventually useless if you lack that one single thing you need. With the nature of the sub being about debate and complaining and the majority of users being men, it's hardly surprising it mostly revolves around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:50 PM
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Yep, the drinking in general. Went to a school infamous for their electrical engineering and computer science tracks. We had student organizations handing out free coffee with liquor at 7am once a week. People would drink beer all day every day, including during exams. That moment when you suffer through Calculus II and the guy next to you is casually drinking his third can of beer. You'd think they're homeless drunks when you see them, but their drunk discussions were about calculus and shit an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:38 PM
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Women have more life paths and options open to them, and they are encouraged and supported all the way through. It's not easy, and on some paths they will be treated like garbage (sometimes by other women). This empowerment comes at the cost of men, who get nothing in return. The traditionally male style of competition and expression is discouraged, education is female first, and standards are in some cases different for women than men. Traditionally male life paths have been opened to women, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:11 AM
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I am not sure I believe that. Maybe it's true for a majority of people (including women), but for many men, as long as work is rewarded well enough, they won't slack off. Over the past few decades, society has evolved in a way that the hurdle of "making it" for men is so high that lots of them simply give up. Nothing will become of them, and they're treated accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:02 AM
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There are two kind of men. Those who watch porn. And those who lie about it. Go to any engineering school and you will see bunches of high achievers and intelligent people who certainly embrace all of these vices, plus heavy drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:53 AM
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Everything is better under communism. This is why it does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:57 PM
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F'ing commies won't suck my cock, hurr durr!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:26 PM
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That's just gaslighting. Maybe they should make a positive ad and appeal to men with positive role models instead of lecturing them on stuff that everybody knows is bad, as if that were what a majority were guilty of. Show them what they should strive for rather than tell them they're bad and need to be a passive ally to fit the decade's narrative. Pretending like bullying and raping is what masculinity stands for right now is just insulting to men in general. Meanwhile, women can do no wrong, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:48 PM
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Well, I assume that op intends to show that in the eyes of the law, these qualities attributed to men are usually seen as evidence of a power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:35 PM
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That's the classic summary when the affair of the professor and his student goes to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:28 PM
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I see this comment, assuming from a woman: Women have rights. No upvotes. They don't like that position much.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 05:09 PM
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As are all ideologies that are about power.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 05:07 PM
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I'm sorry, but who unironically labels themselves as a hardcore misogynist? That just seems super over the top. The existence of such subs which are increasingly rare does not affect the overall picture much. They are a rare, minor occurrence, banned or quarantined when they become large enough to be noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:21 PM
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It's Reddit. Everything is very left leaning and gynocentric. Subs like r/relationships determine whether you are in the right or wrong depending on your gender identity. They have been deleting and banning other viewpoints for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:51 PM
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It's also cancer Semi-anonymity helps but it's getting worse by the day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:06 AM
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Social media is cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:03 AM
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Out of a whole list of dos and don'ts you pick the only things that would make it interesting for men, imply that this is what they don't like, then use that to reject them. How does this make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:29 PM
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Validation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:14 PM
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Male privilege protects us men /s
/r/PussyPassDenied27/06/21 03:42 PM
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Hormones will change your metabolism, but it's the burgers that kick in and make you balloon up. A lot of women (and men too, obviously) just have garbage eating habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:47 AM
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By men's standards, there are enough attractive enough women out there to drown yourself in if they would have you. A lot of men are willing to settle for somebody even less attractive. Maybe Chad isn't, but it's not like he scores 8+ exclusively. He's still a thirsty creature after all. Men settle because their drive is significantly higher than women's, no matter how equal some here claim it to be to women's. LVs will go to almost anybody that will have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:29 AM
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Most women are done at 15 wat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:13 AM
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It must be all that male privilege protecting us from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:13 AM
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You have no idea what anybody receives from it, personally. Maybe they just want to know and prove that they still got it. The point is, if they got nothing out of it it would not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:24 AM
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It is not gender specific In theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:33 PM
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I went to college to study Mechanical engineering Welcome to the world of STEM. I spent five years in CompSci and we had fewer women than I could count with my hands in all that time. My class had 3 women for over 120 guys and that was after years of government programs to promote it to women. Their reaction mostly? Ewww, fucking nerds! The next year had no women at all again, and it wasn't the first nor the last time. You need to look outside the field and forge your own path and it will be eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:40 PM
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I agree. The point is that sex is not the same as a meaningful relationship. Living in a (European) country where prostitution is legal, I actually don't know anybody who ever paid for sex. Maybe it's my circle of people but illegal drugs are not unheard of among high performers and f'ed up people, but paying for sex is not. A lot of men probably see this need to pay actual money immediately to have sex as a giant hurdle. If you do that, you admit that you lost the game and it's bad for your sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:37 PM
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As a (barely but definitely) above average height man, I prefer smaller women, but I don't have a number nor is it a deal breaker if you're tall. Tall women can still be very attractive, but there is something about small women that draws me to them. They're cute. Women on the other hand will blindly filter you out if you're below 6"/180cm. For most regions on this planet, that is above average. Men seem to prefer women of average height or not care about height that much. In summary Tall women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:21 PM
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We're all here, telling the story of the experiences we had, realizing that there are all kinds of people out there. This is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:33 PM
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Obviously not. When not in a stable relationship, my partners always were out of my circle of female friends, not people I did not know. Always made sure they'd be okay, pretty much had a reputation of being a gentle, safe guy at some point. Also, I hate anal. Only did it when I was asked repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:24 PM
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Goes both ways though. Enough women out there expect porn like performance and clockwork reliability. They think you're always good to go. If you're not, you must be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:08 PM
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The majority of women don't do those things. The majority of men does not demand it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:59 PM
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Not sure I agree. I think it's best not to overanalyze things. VS adjusting its brand is a reaction to VS failing. For some reason it lost popularity in recent years, and it got so bad that the core business is in question. This is a company struggling and management (which is mostly old dudes) desperately trying to save it and themselves. Back in the day, VS was the place to shop lingerie for a younger crowd. Girls would drag their boyfriends and even dads there. Pop music, security in black su…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:10 AM
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It is inevitable. Men are being disillusioned, and TRP offers short-circuit "wisdom" in an edgy way that appeals to men. Young men are alone, lack perspective and purpose, and are seen and treated as worthless. You are never good enough. TRP is about how to stop being a pushover as a man in today's world. That's the first step, and that is very good and important. A majority of men of my generation was brought up to be afraid of speaking their mind and standing up for themselves. They tiptoe aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:34 PM
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People are quick to call this creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:47 AM
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You don't have to be in pain to take pain medication. You might just love the side effects. The numbness or the high you might get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:22 PM
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It reduces pain. It can also numb you or give you some kind of high, modulate how your body perceives touch and temperature. Really depends on the medication, quantity and the individual. At higher doses or with systematic intake, it will damage certain organs, you build up a tolerance, and it might eventually kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:17 PM
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This is due to the current political climate and the rapidly increasing cost of child-bearing Why do European welfare states fail at maintaining reproduction? They seem well organized when it comes to taking care of children and mothers. They are monetarily protected, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:18 AM
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Women get more choices than they used to, and more choices drive up opportunity cost. Unlike men, they don't seem to run out of fucks to give quite as quickly. Maybe that makes them unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:18 PM
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Flair checks out. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:24 PM
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It generally seems to me that social media, unlimited plans and always-on mentality led to a lot of communication, but there is little of substance being communicated. It seems to be a lot of idle chats but when something important comes up, people shut down. In my opinion, there are some things that are best discussed in person, where text or phone calls are an inappropriate medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:23 PM
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Creepiness is not objective. An action is deemed creepy depending on who does it. It might be considered a charming surprise or harassment. I think the problem of this current radical filtering is that it is mostly the obnoxious fucks who can't help themselves try to engage anymore. Men who don't want to offend women are reluctant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:19 PM
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It's not necessarily my logic, I'm just trying to explain it. I guess it depends on your perspective. Men tend to emphasize the importance of the physical aspect of a relationship, so a high count means you had that with many other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:02 AM
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If find it quite exaggerated, but at the end of the day, it is an easy hard metric. A high count means that you're one of many. A low count means you're one of few.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:53 AM
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Of course. That's what makes a romantic relationship different from any other relationship. That special treatment and bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:46 AM
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I mean, at the end of the day, everybody is looking for a partner who treats them very differently from the rest of the crowd, and that means deviating from their usual way of interaction and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:37 AM
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Women make less money than men. I don't even need to elaborate on this. Oh look, it's this again. Let me guess, women also bring children into this world. And they only got the right to vote so much later. That totally explains why women cannot possibly be in a position to fork out a couple of bucks and pay for their own meal. But don't forget: Men and women are all equal. Birthing PeopleTM includes everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:35 AM
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That's pretty much the essence of it, even though it's a bit exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:32 AM
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First of all, robotics and AI enabling that level of automation are far out in the future, probably hundreds of years out considering the problems that are still there to be solved. In order to maintain current living standards on an automated basis without downgrading, we need replicator level technology (dear replicator, I would like synth sushi for dinner with a glass of bubbly... kzzzt here you go, sir!) which is in the realm of science fiction. Machine learning as it is currently prevalent …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:00 PM
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People suck, yes. Hurling abuse at somebody is just crappy behavior. But telling a morbidly obese person that they are healthy and beautiful when they are not is not necessarily much better. It's lying to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:28 PM
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That's not objective though. As for the women you listed, they may be beautiful, but I wouldn't all call them attractive. There is a difference between that. Naomi Campbell never appealed to me. Penelope Cruz is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:59 PM
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What is objective beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:45 PM
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No, it hasn't always been this way. The difference is that for women, OLD dramatically increases the number of options. For men, OLD dramatically increases competition. Back in the day, your options were limited to the locations and events you were present at. That is no longer the case. People are no longer locally bound. I know a guy in Austria who is rather successful. Your classic forever bachelor type, going onto 40 years now, adventure traveler, drives a Tesla, has great career. He gets to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:28 PM
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It's one thing to be against mobbing and discrimination. People are who they are and should be treated with a basic level of respect. But this movement goes out of its way to promote people who are unwell and tell everybody that they are fine and beautiful when they are not. That's dangerous and feeds delusions. But at the end of the day it's mostly just marketing, and the target audience is the one who looks like that, not you as somebody who has a different beauty standard. There is a reason w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:19 PM
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Have you met men? They notice and go after way more than 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:39 AM
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Saying it out loud is way too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:38 AM
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I think your imagination is running wild. Polygamy is not coming back, at least not for economical reasons, as long as the current welfare state continues expanding. If things get worse, you can fully expect governments to redistribute wealth from loser men to women in order to avoid this. As for career prospects, people will have to adapt. A lot of people already have to take up jobs they never expected. The reason is that most higher education is a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:07 PM
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Here, have this award.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:04 PM
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A lot of women realize later in life that the men they are interested in have standards they can no longer meet. That does not mean that other men will profit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:21 PM
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What makes you think women are more susceptible? What kind of propaganda do you have in mind? Do you have a study or at least some articles that substantiate this claim? At least give us something to chew on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:18 PM
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If you have one crazy woman in your life, the woman is the problem. If you have only crazy women in your life, crazy is drawn to you. Something's off here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:06 PM
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Women are democratic in nature, which is why most of them vote and align themselves with the Democratic party. Women overall are more left leaning, that's why they align with the Democrats more. It has nothing to do with democracy. The party names are meaningless nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:38 AM
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That's a wat for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:41 PM
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It certainly gives you some perspective as to where on the spectrum you are. You find that there are way more extreme positions than your own and people get real passionate about it. For a cynical bastard, I guess I am pretty normal after all which is funny. I wouldn't say the sub hugely affected my views. I mostly had a live and let live attitude to begin with. People will do and say what they want. Sometimes there are these rare moments when people who you fundamentally oppose make a decent po…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:40 PM
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Women are expected to choose their partners. Men are expected to wait to be chosen after proposing. It's not like among animals where the stronger one just takes what they want. Criminal justice and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:57 AM
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Humans have enforced social rules that go beyond animal behavior. Men are also bigger and stronger than women, but that does not matter much because women are expected to choose, not men. Among animals, the strongest usually wins because that's just how nature works. So we can hardly take that and apply it to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:25 AM
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Having to point that out is a bit gay tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:20 AM
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I was trying to come up with some elaborate reply, but instead I just have a couple of bullet points with ideas. Most people are boring and it's better that way. Not everybody is fit to actually lead and thrive in the cut-throat corporate world -- take it as a compliment if you're not because many of those who make it so far tend to have rather unattractive personalities. It is expected of men to have a success at work. If you don't, you're worthless. Women assume because they expect that of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:32 PM
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Not according to tons of men and women. Can't really tell because I happen to be above the magical barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:13 AM
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that leaves the overwhelming majority of men taller than most women? And yet isn't enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:57 AM
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Emma Watson and back in the day Megan Fox could be massively overrated, but for most men that does not matter. Hot enough is hot enough, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:22 AM
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Probably means in a non-white area with different local culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:19 AM
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Can't change your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:19 AM
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Dangler
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:24 AM
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My career is for me, not for anybody else. $edit: I am a man. I am motivated because I made my hobby my job. I turned into a career animal because of the competition and I needed to be the best and wanted my customers and the companies I work for to depend on me. At some point it also clicked in my head and the financials turned into a game. When you make x-times the money you need to live and you look into consistently growing that by renegotiating just for negotiations sake and you invest to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:12 AM
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Depp may be the victim here but that doesn't make him good. As for Heard, didn't she "get with" Musk for some time? Probably not eccentric and ambitious enough to keep up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:33 PM
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Because men are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 09:26 AM
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Regarding height and financial situation, I think you're onto something. These preferences go both ways for many people. A lot of women want someone taller than them, a lot of men want someone smaller than them. And a lot of men feel very insecure about making less money than a potential partner. The reason why it is more common to see women criticized for it is the way these preferences are expressed. The 666 man meme stems from OLD where it feels like a majority of women have conspired to put …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 07:44 AM
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That's what happens when you change partners frequently (every time even), don't know your partners and go raw. As a guy, I understand that wearing a rubber is annoying and sex feels much better without one. But I can't for the life of me understand why women aren't insisting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 07:31 AM
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And how is it established? By default or by a test?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:55 AM
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You mention debt in every other sentence, and that a recession is coming. This culture of overspending and getting in debt for useless things is a cancer. The number one reason for people staying poor is debt. College education is a scam for the most part outside STEM. Women of the latest generations are doing better than men, but both are screwed because they consistently spend money they don't have on things they don't need. I don't think it will be so easy for them as to resort to typical sug…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:16 PM
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That would be good for her, but it is super rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:35 AM
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I have given up understanding and rationalizing everything. I wish them the best of luck, but unless I somehow personally invested, I pretty much don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:17 AM
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And your question is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:32 AM
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r/askwomen is a window into everything that's wrong right now with womens' mindset and feminism. It's not the worst sub by a long shot but it's bad. Everything is considered offensive or triggering, everything men do seems to be wrong and you can never be good enough. The funniest shit is how any question can be ban-worthy. TRP is full of oversimplifications, but yes, what you see in that sub mostly confirms their worldview. I don't even think it's because women in general want to be like that b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:15 PM
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TRP is full of oversimplifications, but usually admitting your own problems is not much of an issue. men are hypergamous too No, you don't get it. Women go for the best man they can get and always look to upgrade. Men go for anything above a certain standard if they can get away with it. Women will lower their moral standards for chads. Ask women what they want and they'll come up with a complex catalogue of rules, then ignore that catalogue for Chad. Ask men, and they stupidly go for an attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:47 PM
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Hardly anything new or surprising here. For men, it is best to be stoic, forge your own path and stick with it, even if you go down in flames. People, particularly women, will not support a man who is down because at that point he lost all value. The funny thing is that feminism, after permeating society and culture, has produced large numbers of weak and vulnerable conformist men that women hate so much. Among them are many pretenders and creepy nice guys. Meanwhile, the remaining normal men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:43 PM
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April fool's should be one extra purge day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:07 PM
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Oh, it exists, to varying degrees. What western nations fail to recognize is that white women are by far the most privileged class of humans in the existence of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:06 AM
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Women are raised and taught we should be humble, not ask for much Not much left from that upbringing now, is there? Humility is pretty much a lost quality among women starting with Gen X. We can dump on bad male behavior all day and I often won't disagree, but let's not act like women aren't calculating and putting men on leashes as well. Women usually invest way more emotionally, so women should not be ostracized if they demand someone who invests something equally. So, basically, emotional inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:30 AM
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I think it is a very good and healthy attitude. I have followed this idea for a long time, and it's the reason why I have been happy and why my current relationship lasts so long. I felt like a whole and complete person when I met her, and continue to do so to this day. There is no pressure on her to fix or complete me. A lot of men, but also women, reek of desperation and think they just have to be with somebody in order to advance. Anybody, really. I think that's dangerous. If you're broken al…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:50 PM
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A lot of low value men are bitter and when they see a woman lose her value and end up alone after having lived the good life, they probably get even more upset because they keep telling themselves how good of a partner they would have made. If only the woman would have seen them 20 years earlier. Maybe they would have had two good decades together (or apart, if the overall numbers would support it) and only resent each other now. It's probably something like an I told you so moment, coupled with…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:56 AM
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Your idea of what you want to get out of OLD is admirable and it would be good if there were more people like you out there. But the reality is OLD has devolved into something that is mostly useless if you want anything serious. It's like there are four main groups of people using it. A very small group of very successful men who hook up with one or more random woman a week. They get most of the attention from women and will not settle down because there is always another one. A larger group of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:48 AM
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Yes, of course that makes a huge difference. You know what's worse than being alone? Being alone while surrounded with people. I don't need a lot of people in my life, but somehow, people tend to like me and it's nice. If they didn't, I wouldn't have gone out of my way to be with them back when it was hard for me. I am okay with it now and even want to be around people because it's good for me. But sometimes, reward comes not from people who judge you by your looks. I am pessimistic and cynical.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:02 AM
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I agree to some extent, though some aspects of personality are harder to change than others. Maybe change is a strong word? I did over time reduce some traits and learn to be okay with some situations that would have made me very uncomfortable before, but at my core, my personality feels like it was fully forged by the time I was like 17. As an introvert, I learned to be more outgoing to a point where I actually like interacting with people, but it's never not going to be draining me whereas a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:29 AM
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Kind of a high sodium take, are you alright? You do realize that this happened more than 15 years ago, during a time when kids were not yet universally connected, always on and drowning themselves in memes, when Facebook and Reddit did not exist yet, 4chan was just in its infancy and knowing and meeting people didn't consist of swiping right on an app? Of course it wouldn't work like that today. But I guess you're just salt mining anyway. Leave some for the others, will you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:09 PM
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Sure, I'd be interested. I never said that women won't tell us what they want though. I said that if you ask them, they will come up with a list of criteria. Whether those criteria play an actual role in their decision making is a different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:59 PM
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Not really a red pill guy, but I guess I share a lot of their world view. Many of these ideas I thought of myself (yes, I am kind of a sarcastic person), only to find them again many years later codified by RP advocates for consumption by those who are losing out on the game. If I had to choose a specific aha moment, it's probably the moment when I got my first phone in high school. Imagine that, there was a time when not everybody had an iPhone (this was in fact before the first iPhone came out…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:29 PM
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So many men think women have unrealistic look standards for men because they don't know what women find attractive. Well, yeah, you're probably right. Women cannot for the love of life coherently tell us what they find attractive because they don't know themselves. Ask a thousand times and a thousand answers you shall receive. And after that, they still go for something different and cannot explain it. It's almost like when women have to think of criteria, their heads will produce a list of sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:03 PM
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I was ready to call this statement useless, but thinking a little more about it, there is at least a partial truth in it. Men and women don't really understand each other. Nora Ephron did not seem to understand men herself either and just wrote what she thought they worked like. Sometimes I myself feel like I don't understand them. The point is we don't have to fully understand each other in order to support a working friendship or relationship even. One might argue that I have some pretty RP-li…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:57 PM
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TRP and FDS both attempt to explain why interactions with the other sex suck for a lot of people. Ultimately, it all comes down to the following: A woman's options to choose from multiply with increasing attractiveness on her part, but most suitors are low value. Trying to find the highest value suitor is incredibly complex. As your attractiveness diminishes, so do your options. A man of average attractiveness has next to no options to choose from, and aims to increase the range of options. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:42 PM
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I tried reading that and I honestly I can't for the life of me understand what they're trying to say. If that's what they think makes for a desirable woman, then all hope is lost for them. TRP at least offers a toolbox full of edgy heuristics that are easy to digest and general self-improvement orders. Both attract people who lose in the game, but at least AF/BB, AWALT and hit the gym are understandable without a degree in esoterics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:18 PM
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Being over- or underweight Non-feminine body form or face Flat butt/breasts or overly massive butt/breasts Short hair on head or baldness Extreme body hair (not on head) Bad skin Too many tattoos or tattoos in the wrong location I would have added the penis, but contrary to many here, I have never been confronted with an MtF option. Is it really so common these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:50 AM
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Well, that's very specific and escalating quickly. But not unexpected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:40 AM
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The view is half the fun with doggy style.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:39 AM
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especially if she’s reciprocating Rare, but not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 08:23 PM
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If FDS weren't a women's sub, it would have been quarantined or banned a long time ago. Toxic cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 08:27 AM
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You don't have to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:42 AM
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It's nkt inherently bad for women. Even if the sex is terrible, she still gets a sense of validation and attention out of it, and all people crave this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:23 AM
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Men are simple to figure out. Women are incredibly convoluted and cannot even explain their own behavior. That's why women have men figured out but not the other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:52 AM
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Being a female in a gay relationship is attractive to a lot of men. As long as it is traditionally feminine women, that is. A butch lesbian is not going to sustain that fantasy. It's not the relationship mechanic they are attracted to. It's the idea of multiple attractive (in their eyes) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 10:47 PM
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fathers who Choose and had resources to be a single father Except there is virtually no single father household in which the father chose that. By way of divorce, the children almost always end up with the mother, who in the majority of cases also initiated the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:23 PM
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But it does not make sense. The parent who disappears is very obviously the worse parent. The question was about single father households, i.e. a household where the father is the single parent, attachment figure and provider. He can't be that and at the same time be the person who just walked away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:17 PM
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There is probably not enough data on this because single fathers are relatively rare compared to single mothers. So beware of my speculative answer here. In many cases, I would assume that it involves some sort of personal tragedy where the mother died. There is no other realistic and common way for a single man to end up with a child on his own. For women, this is very different. Most women who end up being single parents don't do that because their partner dies. Some just get pregnant as singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:12 PM
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You somehow managed to reply to the question with an irrelevant counter question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:07 PM
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