| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 201 | This really changed how i view pickup. RSD Julien telling us how to never run out of things to say. | Gab_the_Great | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 07:55 PM | |
| 6 | What would your 10 commandments be for pickup? | Gab_the_Great | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 11:04 PM | |
| 3 | How do I respond to "but I don't even know you" when i try to kiss on the first date? | Gab_the_Great | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 09:51 PM | |
| 2 | What do you guys think about this advice? Never isolate a girl from her group under any circumstances. | Gab_the_Great | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 06:10 PM | |
| 2 | ~4 hours of free quality daygame content by RSD Todd. | Gab_the_Great | /r/seduction | 05/09/15 02:44 AM | |
| 1 | Girls are not in love with you, they are in love with the emotions you give them. | Gab_the_Great | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 07:33 PM |
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| 1 | Girls are not in love with you, they are in love with the emotions you give them.Please don't make the mistake of marginalizing or diminishing the feelings of women Yeah I wasn't really doing that, I was just noticing an alternate way of looking at basic human nature. You do have a good point but I stand by the fact that, at least in the beginning, all you are to a girl are the emotions you provide her and therefore she can only be in love with those emotions and not you. | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Girls are not in love with you, they are in love with the emotions you give them.True. It makes the person seem a lot less special. | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 10:48 PM |
| 7 | I can't cold approach. I hate it, and sarging for hours just brings my depression to the surface. Seddit, what are some tips for building a big social circle and mastering social circle game?“If you can't, you must. If you must, you can.” You can do cold approach game. Everybody can. | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 04:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I smoothly transition from a casual conversation to making out?This is simple but gold. I have gone for the make out multiple times only doing the last two steps and it has unsurprisingly not worked. Gotta have all 4 things for it to work. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 01:02 AM |
| 3 | How to beat the "competition"?RSD Tyler has a cool video on this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4WZlb0yEhg | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 03:15 AM |
| 3 | What to say after being rejected?"But...but i love you!" | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 12:23 PM |
| 17 | How do you guys deal with the "how many girls have you slept with?" question ?Yea im pretty sure thats the joke. Its always 6. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 08:29 PM |
| 8 | What's the point in going out if you're a fat ugly loser?Stop complaining and change. If you're looking for sympathy, you're not gonna get any bro. You have no excuses. Do light exercise, eat less, dress better, groom better and become a more attractive person. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 03:16 AM |
| -2 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedSay something about their general vibe instead. "I saw you sitting here with this badass yet innocent look and i had to meet you". | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever question what it's all for?Well first of all, the process of going out and gaming at clubs or on the street is fucking fun. It's exhilarating, scary and badass at the same time. Also, i do this so i never have to experience the feeling of desperation and helplessness and everyone experiences in their life in response to a breakup or simply not being able to find a partner. For a pua, you know what you have to do when your horny. Fuckin go out and talk to girls. For other people, they just wallow in their sorrows. | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Going on a Tinder date with a girl who goes to school far away and is only in town for a few more days. Advice?Make sure you have the logistics to have sex but otherwise just chill out. You can ice skate but remember to slow the interaction down at some point and make it more sexual with close proximity and strong eye contact. If you do this and subsequently. go for the makeout, her emotions will tell her it's the right thing to do. Every girl wants sex. Just provide it guilt-free. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is wrong with my oneitis issue?It happens to everyone. What helps me is if I view each oneitis period as growth and the building of mental callouses and every time after that, it will be slightly less intense. Oneitis is a huge part of pick-up and everybody experiences it. Just accept it and try not identify with it too much. Instead try to observe the emotion. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Kissed two girls under a minute and picked up an other oneHmm interesting choice to escalate by going to your house right after she rationalized not kissing you to herself. I mean if it worked for you, great, but it seems like it would be prone to rejection. | /r/seduction | 01/01/16 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Do girls confuse you? Be thankful! Cos' It's all about TENSION!The game is full of paradoxes. Thats what makes it so complex. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Explain Pick Up like I'm 5.The basics for me boil down to 4 things. Being a high value man, giving her the full range of emotions, keeping your thoughts, words and actions congruent and staying relatable to the girl. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 02:57 PM |
| -1 | How to respond to finding out she has a boyfriend?Never believe she has a boyfriend until you see him. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Date is set for this weekend...what now?Text her or call her in a day or two to ask how shes doing and stuff like that. Also text her the day before to ask if your still on for Saturday at whatever time. | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 01:13 AM |
| 11 | Took the plunge and approached.. what did i do wrong?"Hey, i have a lot of money. Do you like money?" | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Hooked up with a girl, got her number. Now she won't respond.1) You shouldn't have made out for 30 minutes. Either escalate to sex or build more attraction by talking. 2) She might feel like a slut for what she did, in which case you didn't build enough comfort, or she has another reason. Also, chill man, it's one girl, abundance abundance abundance. | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 12:39 AM |
| 1 | "Approach random girl, don't give a fuck" works, guys!! It fucking does!!Yeah i dig that. I think the lesson to be learned though, is that game is learned in the field, not at home. | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | "Approach random girl, don't give a fuck" works, guys!! It fucking does!!There is no "game". There are no skills to be mastered. There is only trying and getting lucky!! Yeah, I'm gonna have to disagree with that. Of course you have to take action but there is indeed "game" and "skills to be mastered". You have to learn how to build comfort, escalate, get her to qualify herself to you, create an "us" mentality and spike her emotions just to name a few. | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 09:10 PM |
| 2 | High school cold approachBe a super social guy, invite people to everything, give value, be funny, bring alcohol/drugs/music, have a bold, assertive personality. Be the AMOG in every group your a part of. | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Party tips?Talk to literally everyone and just be super fucking social. After you make friends with 30 guys you didn't know, talking to girls will flow incredibly smoothly. It helps me if i don't drink or drink very little. It might help you, try it out. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good text opener?"I just saw ... and thought of you" Can be anything, doesn't even have make sense. "I just saw a kid cry and slapped his mother and thought of you". | /r/seduction | 25/10/15 10:52 PM |
| 8 | Going to the movies, never been on a date in my life and need advice.Dont go to a movie, theres so many reasons, just dont. Get coffee or ice cream instead and take a walk in a park, sit on a bench, slow it down, escalate. Take her to your place to show her some cool shit that you have. Profit. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What would your 10 commandments be for pickup?I love you. This is good. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Two questions, different openers and if they are dumb: asking for directions, asking for advice?Its a good idea to approach a group of girls asking for directions just because you will get more comfortable with approaching but trying to smoothly transition a conversation into game after that opener shows a lack of confidence and is not a good idea. And yes most girls would definitely be down to give you advice. Who doesn't like giving advice? | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 09:51 PM |
| 17 | What do you guys think about NoFap?To sexually arouse a girl you have to be sexually aroused yourself so yea, nofapping is a good idea. | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me.Thanks for the response! Now I'm intrigued to see this mystical innocent trait... | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me.Oh this is just so fucking cute. | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me.Great post! Im just curious, how do you meet all these guys? Online or bars or what? | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Two girls, want one numberI think the best call is asking the other one if she wouldn't mind if you get the number of the one you're interested in. She pretty much always will say yes and you're gaining social proof and approval. | /r/seduction | 21/08/15 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Has anything like this happened to you before?Don't go on a date with her if you don't fond her attractive. Its a waste of time and energy and afterwards, you will feel like you settled for worse than you can get. That's not a good feeling. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Seddit Locator 2015NYC | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 02:19 PM |
| 4 | 50 Takeaways from ModelsLETS DO IT TOGETHER BRO! | /r/seduction | 09/08/15 06:41 PM |
| 5 | 50 Takeaways from ModelsOk that's it. Many people have recommended Models for me before but now i am definitely going to read it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | thinking about daygame. any ugly/average sedditor having F-close daygame experiences?Looks don't matter. How you make the girl feel and the connection that you have with her matters. Start daygaming tomorrow and trust me, you will have success if you keep doing it and build momentum. I know guys that pull girls in the daytime every week. If you really commit to it, you will become one of those guys. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Why you should start with daygameAny opener will work, i usually say "i thought you were really cute and i wanted to talk to you". As for the shit test, you have to analyze the interaction and discover why the girls always give you this shit-test. Maybe you came across as too gamey. But as for how you should respond to it, i sometimes just say "hundreds", and change the topic. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 01:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you date good looking girls when you're not a good looking guy?I have a few things to say: 5'9" isn't short. You're 160 now but that change with a little bit of hard work. You're looking for confidence in external things instead of seeking internal confidence and high self-esteem. If you think you're a 5, you'll only get 5's, if you think you're a 10, you'll get 10's. | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone help me out? I am in high schoolGo to as many parties as you can and go out to crowded areas and daygame. | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Where to night game for high schoolers?Parks and crowded streets in the city if you're near a big city. | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 11:01 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong about going movies as a first date? Best and worst spots. What's your say?You are very welcome | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 10:34 AM |
| 17 | What's wrong about going movies as a first date? Best and worst spots. What's your say?Movie is a bad first date because you cant form a good connection with the girl early on in the date. Smoothie/ice cream/coffee/drinks is a good first date because it shows that you are not taking the relationship too seriously, i.e. Not taking the girl to a fancy restaurant, you can form a connection with the girl and pull back to your place usually because finding a coffee or an ice cream place near your house is usually easy. | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 04:25 AM |
| 2 | What is the best way to ask for a girls number?It's not what you say, it's how you say it. | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about this advice? Never isolate a girl from her group under any circumstances.Thank you. My mind is no longer conflicted. | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 07:58 PM |
| 3 | ELI5: How to keep a conversation flowing with anybody you meet.Im honored :') | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 12:38 PM |
| 1 | 18 y/o. How do I get over the initial fear of walking up to a random girl and striking up a conversation?It helped me to go out with a friend and tell him "don't let me leave until i approach at least one girl". This will absolutely ensure that you approach. Although it is easier to do it with a wing, its still a step in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 03:38 AM |
| 14 | I didn't talk to the girl on the trainDon't beat yourself up over it, just realize you let an opportunity pass you by and don't let it happen again. | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I respond to "but I don't even know you" when i try to kiss on the first date?Thanks. This is probably the problem. I'll definitely work on that. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 02:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to "but I don't even know you" when i try to kiss on the first date?Could you either tell me or point me to where i can find out how to really emotionally stimulate girls? | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 03:24 AM |
| 3 | keeping eye contact just makes everything a lot more intense. cant process everything. Tips?Holy shit I have the exact same problem. I thought I was the only one. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 10:06 PM |
| -1 | I honestly have no idea what I'm doing?If you're willing to pay 2 grand, you can sign up for a bootcamp with rsd. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Daygame: approached my first 2 set today. It was exhilarating.Fuck yea dude! | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:11 PM |
| 6 | This really changed how i view pickup. RSD Julien telling us how to never run out of things to say.What video led to this scandal? | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Calling vs texting when setting up a dateThese are some good points. Im starting to reconsider whether calling girls is a good idea... | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Calling vs texting when setting up a datePm me. Let me know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Calling vs texting when setting up a dateBecause you can build or maintain attraction more easily, because it sets you apart from the other afc's, because it shows your dominance and because it will catch her off-guard so she most likely wont have any kind of defenses. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Calling vs texting when setting up a dateWell start gaming tomorrow then. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Went to a high school dance and didn't approach anyone.The next time take specific steps in order to lessen your chances of getting in your head too much and not approaching. 1-You spot the girl and realize that you can approach her. 2-Take a deep breath and without letting more than 3 seconds pass, go fucking approach her and introduce yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Anyone in the New York City area interested in doing day/night game?How old are you guys? Im interested but I'm only 17. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | People if seddit, what was your first ever approach like and how did you feel before/during/after?In my first ever approach i went in so fast i didn't even have time to get nervous. The approach went badly because she didnt show any interest right off the bat and i was not the least bit persistent. After it i felt pretty amazing but regretted not being persistent. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | When I'm alone I fantasize about women; when I'm with women, all my sexual desires fade away.I would say this is the case if you act like that to all women, but if you just act like that to the very intellectual ones i would say its normal. You don't have to escalate with every single girl you meet. You can simply have a very interesting conversation. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Too young to drinkMay i ask why you think this? | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | When I'm alone I fantasize about women; when I'm with women, all my sexual desires fade away.Wow totally on the same boat as you on this one. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to go from texting/snaping to meeting up irl?Asking her to come to your place might be a little transparent and maybe taking it a little tool far if you don't know her that well. I would recommend coffee or something and if goes well you could ask her to go to your place. | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 12:24 PM |
| 6 | How to go from texting/snaping to meeting up irl?Don't waste any more time. You should ask her to hang out in person (get some coffee after school or something) but if you're really nervous you could ask her out over text at the end of having a good conversation with her (something like "your actually really cool, we should hang out). | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 10:55 PM |
| 7 | Conversation with Girls Who Won't Shut UpI've had this problem before. I would advise that you start calling her out on it in a joking way and continue to do that so it's almost like an inside joke. She'll become more conscious of it and probably stop doing it as much. | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 02:04 PM |
| 11 | What's A good Second Date Idea?Um i think he was referring to exploring abandoned insane asylums and things like that. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | For those ugly motherfuckers such as myself.For some reason i really want to see a picture of you now. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with flakes?Hmm interesting, how would you suggest pursuing her without coming across as needy or desperate? | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 01:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd approach so far..Awesome, thanks for this man. | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 08:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 2nd approach so far..Oh man. I need your mantra. | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 03:13 PM |
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