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| 12 | Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay??This part, that’s the rule to even getting it to begin with | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 09:17 AM |
| 1 | For the boys going through a break up: How to cure oneitisWhen you begin throwing labels at it, you start to blur the lines. Most guys at first to even get a girlfriend are “incels” to some, as this one girl posted, “most boyfriends are usually fuckboys”. This is true. | /r/seduction | 19/04/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?Y’all are too weird on this shit app | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 06:49 PM |
| 5 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?All good stuff, I got all that myself, just build your circle. Really all you can do. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | What day of the week is best for dates? Which are the worst?It’s all preference dawg. | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:21 AM |
| 4 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesI have plenty of women friends who are taller than me, all sexy asf, height doesn’t matter if you can make their eyes sparkle when they look at you. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesIt’s how you see it. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesI’m shorter, 5’6 or 5’5, be grateful for your shit. I remember my ex one time who was a lil shorty, baddie told me “your height isn’t bad but if you were a bit taller mmm you’d get everyone” and she licked her lips and we proceeded to get nasty afterwards ahahah | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesI like this, I was going to comment some BS because there’s a lot of things you have no control over such as me being in the hospital right now waiting for lab results for my health but here’s the control, drove myself to the doctor to hospitalize myself for something I need to find out so I’m getting tests done, I have the control. In dating however it can be out of your hands often than not, I shoot my shot whenever I feel it’s right. It’s when rejection is commonplace that I choose to stop bu… | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Whats a subtle way to ask someone if they live alone or not?People are dumb | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Whats a subtle way to ask someone if they live alone or not?Like this like I do. “Do you live by yourself or” Just be direct, don’t make shit weird, If they take it weird then that’s on them, but be direct, only way to know dude. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:34 PM |
| 12 | Telling women they're hot on dating apps or irl?Don’t listen to anyone on here, scroll down and you’ll see everyone saying different shit. Do whatever you want to do dude, chances are most on Reddit barely get off the internet and talk to girls themselves. Facts. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Tips on approaching womenIt depends on her logistics? Doubt she will even know what that means. Instead of fantasizing scenarios why don’t you come up with something actually useful such as not everyone will want to speak with you, not every situation is the same, all in all men shouldn’t waste their time, chances are every single effort won’t result in anything, even if it’s for “self confidence” in the long run it’s wasted time. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Tips on approaching womenScrap all these bullet points and don’t bother, most women aren’t as receptive as you as a male imagine in your own head. Take it from experience. They can read your intent the minute you open your mouth to speak. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?No one’s talking about measuring and you’re liking your own shit, you’re weird for that. Trying to prove a point on Reddit, shows how sad you really are. Goodnight loser. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:24 AM |
| -2 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?You also probably have syphillis, nothing to brag about. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:17 AM |
| -1 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?Cool dawg, is your ego stroked yet? you sound like my douchebag co worker, trying to one up everyone cause your life is actually trash, it’s all good, no need to prove anything to anyone, also to refer to women as trash I’m sure you don’t get Jack. Have a good one bozo. You must be empty inside. Weirdo. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:16 AM |
| -8 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?I’m a bartender, I don’t have to do anything. You approach, good for you, want a cookie? Did it change anything? Have fun wasting your energy | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 04:47 AM |
| -8 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?Cause you’re all on Reddit and would probably freeze given the chance to speak to a hot girl. Fact | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Got friendzoned. Should I still make the trip?You sound like me, I was friends with my “bestie” for over 7 years, we met on FB and she prank called me years ago when I worked at McDonalds and asked for me, little did I know at the time she was young asf and didn’t follow up with her til years later, then when she was older we started talking, feelings grew very fast and she lived in Florida, she still does and we would talk every single day, Facetime for hours and I went as far as to mail her some of my clothes, buy her games for Xbox and a… | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Normal eye contact vs a eye contact from a girl that’s interested?You won’t get any answers here. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?Most of the junk you mentioned has already been tossed out the window by many women, look up Courtney Christine Ryan, you don’t need cargo pants, that’s a no go, very big turn off and “pockets”, why on EARTH would you need so many pockets and a money clip? This isn’t the 80s, you have wallets now, lots of the stuff is too much, keep it simple and dress how you want, so many of you haven’t the slightest clue. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 6 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?Not exactly bud, how will they notice that when they don’t care to begin with | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 4 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?Go intrude an already established group | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | What are good pickup lines for girls at the bar?Hahaha none bud, I’m bartending rn at Dave n Busters on break eating a manchego chicken. Just be yourself, it’s all you can do, being fake is tiring and trying too hard is even worse. Lastly if you do hit it off with a girl, then see her chat with someone else, don’t stress either, no one is truly anyones and it’s also “not their turn” as some like to say, people either click or they don’t and they make time for who and what they want. You ask for pickup lines while here I’m having normal conver… | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How to not get friendzoned by a girl?Yup, that’s what I do after I get numbers bartending, gotta make them stay interested and remember. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 09:12 PM |
| -4 | How to not get friendzoned by a girl?So many of you can word it what you want but the truth is this, you’re all on Reddit and your advice doesn’t apply for every situation, doubt many of you even talk to a girl a day for it to be valid. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What are some things a guy can do to become more attractive?You must be from that era then, and last I checked that was the “respectful” one, times have changed FOR YOU for sure. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | What are some things a guy can do to become more attractive?Seems like it’s easier for some and others not so much. There is no formula. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Should I (a beginner) be friendly when talking to girls?Correct. As a bartender who works around mainly female servers and gets women literally walking UP to order (talking opportunity) they’re just people. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 09:12 PM |
| 8 | chick ghosted months ago, never msged her again, now she is liking my picsDon’t waste your time, could care less if it’s YEARS apart, find something better to do. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Meeting a girl from Tinder tomorrow. Never have really done this thing before any advice? (m23)This is why I personally never ask anyone for advice on here, what works for someone might not work for someone else, you’re all so critical and judgemental it’s quite disgusting. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:55 PM |
| -6 | I (22M) need help conversing with girls in public.Counter productive and WHY would he do that if he’s not gay I’m assuming, sounds like YOU are jealous. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 02:15 AM |
| 2 | This literally increased my level in the dating gameI got tired of reading all this nonsense halfway through, it’s not that complicated, they either like you or they don’t, and as for the guys that don’t get it, that’s their problem, no one is here to convince anyone of anything, read, take what you will, everyone has different experiences, that’s life. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 0 | This literally increased my level in the dating gameImbeciles on here. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl, I think I was being too much of a nice guy. She’s been dry on the text backs. Is this a bad sign?Leave her be. Sounds like you know the answer. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 02:15 AM |
| 15 | No issue getting dates but physical escalation is a mystery for meIt’s comments like this why I don’t ever ask anyone for advice on here, you all suck at it | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 01:54 AM |
| -11 | No issue getting dates but physical escalation is a mystery for meThat omg makes you sound fruity | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Asked another girl out on Instagram, date is in a few hoursLmfao I mean, I’m a bartender so I do plenty of communicating, and people like me soooo, also, it doesn’t matter, as if it changes any of YOUR situations. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with girls?Getting a job is an easy way to just build the confidence. But one where you have to interact. Simple. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 11:07 PM |
| -4 | How to start a conversation with girls?Less predatory. Lmao only another male would say it like that. Or he could get a job and go from there. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 11:06 PM |
| -13 | Asked another girl out on Instagram, date is in a few hoursNah not really, you sound like my brother though, always nosy, asking questions that ain’t your business. Y’all stay on Reddit being lames, that’s why you got no game. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:21 PM |
| -15 | Asked another girl out on Instagram, date is in a few hoursDOES NOT MATTER | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 07:42 PM |
| -1 | Asked another girl out on Instagram, date is in a few hoursDumb | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 07:42 PM |
| -45 | Asked another girl out on Instagram, date is in a few hoursDoesn’t matter, you sound like my brother, nosy. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How to get feedback and improve cold approach?Weird asf | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How to get feedback and improve cold approach?I’ve done cold approach so many times as you have that many of my memories are just rejections, nothing comes of it, only at two points or three in my life have cold approaches worked with two or three women that wanted to pursue me at the time but I recall I didn’t want them…they later moved on to get married and move countries or cities. I however still remain single and bartending, HOWEVER, the cold approach still applies behind the bar and I personally feel from a completely different perspe… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Should you always ask out / get contact info when cold approaching?Honestly if I knew I wouldn’t even be here typing my response, all I’m given myself is “if it’s meant to be it will be” or “you’re not patient” which I believe is 50% of the equation… My last relationship which was short lived last year was with a girl I had met 3 years prior before moving to a city far away from where I lived in the Bay Area which was always referred to as “ghetto” or somewhere people didn’t want to live and when I moved there after a year of being there, Randomly one night hig… | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Should you always ask out / get contact info when cold approaching?No dude that shit doesn’t work, I’ve done this for over a year, you’ll just waste your time and be left with so many memories of “I have a boyfriend” or other bullshit, the more you try the less you actually get, so don’t try, because it doesn’t work like that, I’m a bartender AND in a good ass band and it DOES NOT work like that, every time I’ve been in a relationship it was when I never looked for it, so don’t bother, others will say different but SCREW them, that’s not how it works. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 04:17 AM |
| 8 | How do you make conversation more fun?Maybe Change your type of jokes lmfao | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 02:40 AM |
| 3 | If you are walking a straight line and the girl os the only clear bumping into you, does that mean she likes you?You sound MAD jealous. Envy peaks on these forums and it’s disgusting. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over women that reject you?You don’t know what they think lmfaooo | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over women that reject you?You’re an idiot | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 08:54 AM |
| 3 | How do you get over women that reject you?You act as if you know my personality over Reddit. Also what point, if it was me then I wouldn’t have the friends or band that I currently do with 12k followers and over 400k views on our MV oj YouTube so try again, you act as if you know a thing about my personal life based on text alone rather than try and help you try and judge. Trust me, I’ve had these women smile at me but they are taken. Period. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over women that reject you?So explain how? Rather than be like my idiotic coworkers with the same mentality “it’s you”, no, how about you look at yourself first, you expect me to swoop all the couples then? Cause most are taken so before you try and judge why don’t you walk my shoes first. You’re a clown. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?So my comment is stupid? You must be an actual moron if you think it’s not the way it is, because that’s how the world is and you can’t change it, go ahead, I dare you, approach any number of women tomorrow and shoot your shot and if it’s not the way it is then you should easily be able to go home with at least two. But you’re the imbecile, I’m a bartender who just clocked over 20 hours at Dave n Busters, I know what I’m talking about, you stay behind your screen and think you know anything like… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | How do you get over women that reject you?That’s something I needed to read, thanks for it. Useful. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 04:56 AM |
| 5 | How do you get over women that reject you?Easier said than done. Especially when it’s constant at work, when you work as a bartender and see countless women on dates with men you wonder how they could be with them and not you it’s hard to just “get over it”. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?No, that makes you more than a simp, according to what I’ve been told if u get a job, or anything f just for a woman then you are lower than low, no goals or purpose. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Everyone is born the same, no one is born “luckier” than anyone else, although it might seem that way, luck doesn’t exist. It just IS what it IS, seriously you cannot try to force anything at all. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Every time I message or DM a girl I never met in person she eventually loses interest and starts leaving me on read/being dryI asked a chick at my work out to late night dinner after our shift, she politely declined, in person, to my face, not that hard bro, 3 months is nuts like everyone says, I’d rather get a no to my face like usual than drag that nonsense along. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Do women view a Guy who’s in great shape the same way we guys view women with a great body?Lies literally lies | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:06 AM |
| 3 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Well then that’s what you get for asking 😈🤣 | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 03:18 AM |
| 13 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Right, you may never know the answer and that’s perfectly fine too. But to say it’s a “disorder” is also invalidating, I wouldn’t ever acknowledge those things at all, why give something more power than it already has. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 09:02 PM |
| 36 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?That’s what my dad always said, the worst that could happen is she will say No, unless she’s insane, no one has anything to lose, you lose more by not trying and regretting it later. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:56 PM |
| -1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Dumb you have no point | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:08 PM |
| -2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Everyone has to learn bud, it’s called LIFE for a reason. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?I’ve been told that many times which is why it’s bad advice, you have to put in the work and honestly even if you DO put in the work it MAY still not happen, take that as life either saving you or it’s not time, I wouldn’t even say “dodging a bullet” because that’s just a way to minimize your failure. I am in a band and I bartend, serving people all the time, couples, I flirt with people as well but you can’t force what isn’t meant, just follow your own life without looking for someone else to f… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?You asked for advice, I gave you it. Don’t even bother, if she don’t want you there is NOTHING on Gods green earth you can do to change her mind, stop being a simp and thinking you can. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 66 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?It’s never realistic, to wait for it to just “happen” which people like to say and pretend it does (usually those already with someone who didn’t even land them that way to begin with) is just utter nonsense. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:18 PM |
| -9 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?No, just live your life, that either happens naturally or it doesn’t. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Let's stop saying "looks don't matter" because they absolutely do to the vast majority of peopleFacts | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Where to find girls who are more low keyOuch tf | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:42 AM |
| 18 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingThis is all taken from your viewpoint and I skimmed past most because it really isn’t this difficult, she either likes you or doesn’t, screw all these steps. You meet people or you don’t, some stay and some go, that’s the reality, stop spinning in circles and to say you fucked many women shows you have something to prove to someone, I would have skipped that entirely buddy. My two cents. Experience - Musician in a performing band and a bartender at Dave n Busters 😏 | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way...True, I have done this many times but in the end you should not have to “prove” anything to anyone, while it’s easier said than done and everyone judges based on appearances and first impressions, what’s meant to be yours will always find its way and if it’s not for you then it won’t be and it’s meant to be let go, That’s the ultimate undying truth, we can sugarcoat our plans of “attack” and strategies as much as we want, but the truth is still the truth if your efforts for years are unnoticed a… | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.I agree, when I was with my ex at one point when we first started talking I looked away from her on a FT call and she literally said “ugh you’re so sexy when you don’t even try, why are you ignoring me... Gabe...” and I honestly didn’t care. We aren’t together anymore, been single over a year, but that strategy STILL applies. | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself.I have done this ALOT over the years, being a bartender I can tell you keep doing it but don’t expect anything because you get more rejections than anything, even now after Covid I do it in public sometimes and it is even harder now, but it’s still fun to just break the ice on your own, otherwise you’ll never know and you can only pretend to say you have game but until you can approach random girls and actually have the guts to do it then you DO NOT have game, I’ll tell you that straight up so g… | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | With women it’s always a game of numbersUh... yeah, that’s why life sucks for them more often lmao, the moment you stop giving a damn that’s when life actually gets easier and better, I could care less about numbers, sure it might make some things better as with money but that’s about it. Jesus only had 12 followers and now everyone wishes to be with him, it’s kinda hilarious cause it’s not gonna happen, ironic and hypocrisy. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | How to Play it After Casual HookupThen it’s her loss bud :) assuming she’s doing the ghosting lol Nothing but the best for you. That’s how these girls are now, but it hits them later on when they can’t find a decent guy lol | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How to Play it After Casual HookupDepends dude. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 11:32 PM |
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