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Just my opinion of course, but I believe the best response is to laugh your ass off and throw her out.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:59 AM
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How would that help?
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 07:13 PM
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Sometimes the gods smile, and it was ALL worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 08:33 PM
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I was FAR FAR too generous! If you've spent years taking care of someone, it feels wrong to stop doing so. I was very lucky though. My stupidly generous offers were not enough for my wife, so every time she said I wasn't offering enough, I responded by offering her less. I finally got her down to "little or nothing." She took the little.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 09:24 PM
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Opinion: Relax... People say things to try to cope. Technically "Narcissist" is a self-obsessed person. "Narcissist" is also what a narcissist calls someone else who is finally learning to defend their self or to set personal boundaries. Sometimes it's a combination of the two. It's just a noise people make to make themselves feel better. Don't let it erode your calm
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 10:09 PM
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Yes. She keeps showing up. I'm always surprised to see her. The dreams are never focused around her, but she's a recurring background character more than she ever was while we were married. (Shrug). Brains are weird.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 10:04 PM
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Good! Don't trust "women". Hell, don't trust "men" either. Humans are a shitty lot. But, don't be so jaded that you won't let an individual EARN your trust, no matter who they are. Life is better with good people at your back.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 06:38 PM
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And guys are taught that it's weakness to give up.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 08:28 PM
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I've wanted a divorce for years and years, but I signed on to support her, pretty much no matter what. When she mentioned divorce I jumped on it and she did NOT have to mention it twice. Divorce was final almost a year ago, and life is SO much better.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 08:27 PM
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Just hold tight, because holy crap does it get better.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 04:42 AM
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A LOT of people lie... most of them lie to themselves first and most. Lying to everyone else is just a byproduct. They have been taught to play a role, and they judge themselves by how well they pretend to be something they aren't. But that's no way to live. So they hate their lives and resent everything and everyone that they think expects them to pretend to be someone besides themselves. This was never your problem to fix, my dude. Hell, even she is probably as much a victim as a perpetrator. …
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 09:54 PM
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It's gaslighting. Let me share some magic words, best when delivered calmly and with a smile. "I refuse to accept guilt for doing as you asked." "If you just want to have an argument, there's a mirror in the bathroom."
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 02:11 AM
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Yes and that's not the half of it. Hot, cute, smart, loving, horny, silly, supportive partner, shares my values, gleefully takes care of all the domestic stuff even though I'm not one of those guys who demands it. Hell of a cook, and loves my cooking. It's been 2 years and she still meets me at the door grinning from ear to ear, half the time wearing something see-through. Either I'm one lucky bastard or I'm actually in a coma dreaming all this. If so, don't wake me. No, she doesn't have a siste…
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/24 10:46 PM
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Sounds to my like thinly lamp shaded mysandry.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 10:23 PM
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Burger and fries.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 02:42 AM
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For me, the marriage WAS the pain and struggle. Divorce was the light at the end of the tunnel. I spent 20 years or more just trying to bring her happiness. Eventually I gave up on making her happy and just tried not to actively make her UNhappy. I began to break free the day I realized the thing I was doing that REALLY pissed her off was being male. All the huffing and scowling that used to make me SO sad was now just amusing. If anything, it made me happy, because it was a reminder that none o…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 11:21 PM
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Either this woman has been horribly abused in the past or she thinks she has. She may have VERY good reasons for being this wary, or she may be a paranoid nut-ball. Either way, if you continue with her you are signing on for an extra helping of drama. As a divorced man you probably have had your fill of drama for now. If it were ME, that would be a hard pass.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 02:44 PM
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There ARE exceptions. My complete dream girl dropped right in my lap. We've known each-other for years. The attraction has been mutual all this time, and now we're free to pursue it. Turning her away would be a decision I would regret the rest of my life. Otherwise, I'm with you 100%. Already holding this principle in mind was the only reason I hesitated (about half a second) when she came calling.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 03:33 PM
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Don't ask us. Ask your lawyer. In my state, it counts against you if you make any precipitous change in advance of the court order. If it were me, I'd stay steady-on. Pay to keep your child housed and fed, just as you are. If she makes unreasonable demands, just say "no". Don't let her stampede you into being the villain.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 06:00 PM
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You have multiple relationships. She is no longer your wife, but she IS still your co-parent, so you can think of her like a professional peer. She is still your child's mother, so you can think of her as an indirect family relationship. I don't usually buy gifts for my coworkers or cousins. Just don't buy a gift for your wife. She does not exist any more.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 12:04 PM
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So... If it wasn't for curious women, honest snakes, and a passive aggressive deity, I wouldn't have pockets? I DO like pockets.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 03:31 PM
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There's this thing I was lucky/unlucky/smart enough to figure out when I was in highschool. If you are incomplete, and "need" someone else you will either attract nobody, or other broken people who will try to use your brokenness as a crutch for their brokenness. That kind of relationship CAN work, but both of you will live in fear of abandonment, and fear poisons love. Take a deep breath (or a thousand) get to REALLY know yourself. Find your center and your strength. Find your passions and star…
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 03:23 PM
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That was a hell of a hard pill to swallow. I have nothing for respect for OP AND her ex.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 06:01 PM
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I would go to my lawyer and draw up a letter of agreement in which I surrender my ownership stake in the SUV in exchange for an understanding by her that half of the appraised value of the vehicle, or the payoff value whichever is greater, has already been credited against any marital support to her, or added to her support if she is paying you.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/22 05:07 AM
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No... it's tactically excellent advice... So long as you can afford those same lawyers again to divert forensic accountants. And then once again, if your shenanigans gain legal attention anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/22 04:56 AM
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u/upfnothing: What wound up working? What did you learn?
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/22 01:31 PM
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