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Wisconsin
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:55 PM
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This is exactly how I feel about lifting. I mean I have had a nearly identical experience. Good on you internet buddy! Haha
/r/seduction29/08/14 02:57 PM
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Just FYI, /r/fpua may get you better responses. This sub is mostly guys and no offense to any of my bros out there (yo what's good!? Haha), but you don't ask a fish how to fish.
/r/seduction29/08/14 02:33 PM
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It looks like the mods are going to let this one slide and people seem to be trying to help, but this forum is really mostly filled with male pick up artists. You would probably have better luck cross-posting to /r/fpua, /r/relationships, or /r/sex. That said, I've been in your shoes but as a guy. In my circumstance, I think a lot of it was in my head. This sounds cliche, but attitude is everything. It's true. You have to find out how to feel better about yourself. If you're depressed, seek help…
/r/seduction29/08/14 02:28 PM
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Where you go or what you do doesn't really matter that much. The important thing is how you interact. Keep it comfortable at first. You should be focusing on creating shared experiences. Avoid movies, shows, and plays because there is limited opportunity to interact. I like to meet at a local cafe by the water and get our drinks to go. This way she's comfortable meeting in public, but we don't get stuck interviewing each other for 90 minutes. We can then either take a walk along the beach, sit i…
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:30 PM
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I agree with everything you said except "fall for the game"." If you have to get women to fall for the game, you're doing it wrong. Believing ideas like that ruin this lifestyle for the rest of us.
/r/seduction24/05/14 10:56 PM
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"Whether you think you'll succeed or fail, you're probably right." If you're serious about changing, the first step is to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start to take control of your own life. You're a grown man for christ sake. The next thing you need to understand is that confidence doesn't come from a great body or well weathered experience with women. Confidence comes from having a strong identity. That means you have to be so unapologetic about yourself that judgements from others are …
/r/seduction18/05/14 10:12 PM
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I apparently had exactly the same problem. Here's what worked for me. My issue came down to not engaging with people enough. I desired companionship, love, and social opportunities, but I despite my stellar game, I never seemed to leave an interaction feeling fulfilled. It wasn't about sex nor was it about a girl. I just went into a social scenario thinking about inputs and outputs and optimizing my algorithm for good emotional response. I mean what the fuck. Whether the cause is the same or not…
/r/seduction08/05/14 12:33 AM
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A girl once told me that opening online with something like, "hey, what's up" make her think the guys entitled. Not sure if this is the norm, but i'd be curious to hear your thoughts if this has worked for you.
/r/seduction22/04/14 12:09 AM
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I'm not sure what kind of parties you're looking for, but it doesn't really matter what you do as long as do you it together. If it's a dinner party, make dinner together or have everyone bring a dish. Here's the thing though - if you want to entertain, you have to be entertaining. Don't worry about other people, just talk to everyone and keep the energy level where it has to be. If you have trouble with this, bring or have something that you can talk about - an interesting food, a fine wine, an…
/r/seduction30/10/13 03:54 AM
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It's easy to like someone because of their traits. It's much much harder to like someone despite their flaws. I know this isn't a popular subject here, but I think love is being able to do this so easily. I don't care if your religious, if you believe in god's will, karma, fate, destiny, your gut... Whatever it is or isn't, I don't think there's a much better thing to believe then that this will happen to you.
/r/seduction20/10/13 05:43 PM
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I'm going to be honest with you man, you come off as kind of self absorbed. The most important rule of seduction to to leave women better than you found them. There are interesting women out there and if you haven't found them, then it's your fault. Unfortunately, in our culture, the onus is on men. Women make themselves available, that's all you can count on. If it's boring, find a bigger challenge. Go date a rockstar. Move to a bigger city. Seduce a well known actress. If all else fails, learn…
/r/seduction10/09/13 01:24 AM
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I used to think that being a man meant not giving a fuck about being a man. The problem with this idea is that it still is centered around the way that other people perceive you. A better version would be: being a man is about not giving a fuck about what other people think of your thoughts on being a man. The thing is, I recently changed my perspective. Thousands of years ago probably, the symbol for men was/is a shield and sword (♂) while the symbol for women was/is a comb and mirror (♀). So b…
/r/seduction15/08/13 03:09 AM
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I'm surprised this hasn't been said yet. Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo.
/r/seduction04/08/13 10:34 PM
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Whats the problem? Its the same fundamentals. Don't worry about not being able to talk. You will be able to find a place even at loud clubs. If all else fails, pick a place with an outdoor patio. I go out a lot to nightclubs and bars and have a few pointers that have helped me. It's hard. You're going to a place with a lot of men on the prowl. The women have their guard up because they expect to get hit on. A lot or most women are not out to get laid or find a bf there. Many are with groups of f…
/r/seduction03/08/13 12:11 AM
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