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| 2 | On escalating when in a group setting and keeping conversation | Galahead | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 03:10 PM |
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| 5 | About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice!Perfect recipe for lasting 30 seconds in bed | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 10 | Stop falling in love with people you're not datingbeing overly terrified of getting hurt like that will do much worse. Ive pushed away my last gf thinking like that. she was really into me and I was always more distant, never really dedicating myselff to the relatioship. after breaking up I realized, whats the point of dating and living if you cant do things fully and feel them 100%? getting hurt is part of it, we need to learn to be able to move on, instead of just shutting down because we are afraid of getting heartbroken. Now, I will say it … | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 13 | If you are ignoring the basic responsibilities of your life and seeking external validation from women, no amount of women will make you happy." seeing relationships as a .5 plus a .5 equals 1, when it should be a 1 plus a 1 equals 2. " This is such a great way of phrasing this, really like it, thanks it can be easy to fall into the hole of thinking that a relationship will complete you and fill the empty space, when its on you to complete yourself and only be with someone to add into both of your lives | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Advice from my grandmaThat doesnt make sense, at least not for a serious relationship Should we never actually love a woman? Living life trying not to feel things for girls is quite limiting | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 05:01 AM |
| 7 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"To make you feel better im in college and have a friend like that; i told her i was into her and made a move a few months ago and she "doesnt see me that way", so you never really know lol Also we are still great friends and its not awkward at all, it all depends on how you act after a rejection | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | It's hard because of shitty men??? | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 7 | It's hard because of shitty menOof, might be funny to hear that but i bet it must be quite traumatising to have a date randomly do that to you, especially if they are physically stronger | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.Women are people dude, you are not being someones emotional tampon any more than you are with your guy friends lol, its all about boundaries like in any relationship. If you feel attracted to a girl and cant be friends with her unless she wants to fuck you, then i feel like thats an issue with you, not with others | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Abundance mentality will lead you to more sex — and successYou need to find fulfillment in your life first and improve yourself. If you lead a "good", exciting life you will naturally get into this mindset of not needing a girl | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Police: "you harass girls!", got a fine of €100 and criminal recordIf you expect to receive any help here you need to tell us how you are approaching; what are you saying and how are you saying it to women? You are clearly not telling the whole story here, as others have already discussed. What did you expect people to tell you if you dont tell us how you are approaching and what you are saying? | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What should I respond when to this?Ah yeah, you might have said bro once instead of dude. I'm not American so maybe it's not odd to say it. To be fair, in my country theres a similar slang to bro/dude that is pretty normal to use with women | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Dated a girl, it went phenomenal. Now she's going on vacation for 2 weeks.Nah man, this dude went on one date with her, it's way too soon to show so much interest and "availableness" | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 02:51 AM |
| 5 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...Relationships is what evolution and natural selection has given us. Being with one partner really increased the odds of offspring survival, so that's what we did | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Dated a girl, it went phenomenal. Now she's going on vacation for 2 weeks.Please do not text her a lot, that's an easy way for her to lose interest | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Dated a girl, it went phenomenal. Now she's going on vacation for 2 weeks.Yep, with me it happened even if we made out in the date; people are weird | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis ruined me. Now the journey begins.Yeah, thats a good mindset. I didnt mean to say you should block or ignore them if they ghost and reach out again, just that not thinking about it until she talks to you again might be less draining on your head | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis ruined me. Now the journey begins.this advice can be kind of hurtful even if you have good intentions. Its much better (imo) to let them go after they ghost you for a day and stop hoping they'll reply, especially if its a girl you really like. It can be soulcrushing to be there checking your notifications to see if shes decided to reply and gets you deeper into oneitis. From what ive tried, its mych better to let them go and forget about them after a ghost. Shit sucks | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How do I lose feelings for my FWB?it sucks forcing myself to not "catch feelings" , it feels like a huge effort that is useless most of the time lol; maybe I just need to spin more plates, im just tired of dating and wish I could stop thinking/obcessing about all these little games and power dynamics | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | A 75 day challenge that will change your lifeYep, i tend to be sort of "intense" like that with changes and I think it's one of the reasons I have a hard time following through goals. Like, I want to exercise more, so I went from not doing any physical activity in a year or so to lifting every day and and running for like 2 hours once a week. That lasted about 2 weeks, I'm trying to do it slowly this time to see if I'll stick to it. Hell, maybe I just have weak willpower. Tbh the only thing that motivated me to getting fitter and in better… | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 10:18 AM |
| 3 | A 75 day challenge that will change your lifeRealizing that I'm already spending hours a day reading (reddit) really gave me the kick I needed. If i can waste time reading something on reddit, why not read a book instead, something that could actually benefit me | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 12:43 AM |
| 4 | A 75 day challenge that will change your lifeEven if you do care enough, the dude is introducing way too many new rules into his life that are really tough to follow (imo). If every week he put in a new rule it might work better | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | She flaked, something came up. She want's to meet again this week but didn't set a date. How do I proceed?yeah, its been cathartic to read these replies to a similar situation, ive kind of come to terms with it by now haha, itll happen if it happens | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | She flaked, something came up. She want's to meet again this week but didn't set a date. How do I proceed?im in a really similar situation (or was?) I met this girl once in the cinema (we were literally the only ones there so it was a good time). She was seemingly busy the week after we met and after that she was travelling for almost a month. Also, in between that time she sort of ghosted until I texted her again some weeks later. When we talked again she was inviting herself to my place to watch something. she was still in another country when she said that so I just talkd to her from time to time… | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 12:06 AM |
| 16 | You're Already Good Enough!You just need to not look awful lol; just lose some weigh, no one cares about your money | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Had sex for the 1st time in 5 yearsyeah, I can relate to that; for the past year or so ive really been going for anything lol. After getting somewhere with a girl I wasnt attracted to i realized it isnt really worth it. I was just thinking about finishing and as soon as I did I could gtfo fast enough haha. After being with girls Im attracted to sex is something desireable again. To be honest I think its good practice to work your way up like that. Its liberating to see yourself not really care when talking to a girl you arent r… | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 12:21 AM |
| 12 | Had sex for the 1st time in 5 years"directly after copulation the devils laughter can be heard" | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial EraIve been off instagram until this year for the same reasons as you; thought id have nothing to post really and would end up getting "absorbed" by the obsession wih followers/posting stuff. I can tell you its worth it, at least to reconnect with friends. I moved around a lot so thats (one of) the only way(s) I can keep up to date with them. Thats not even talking about the game aspect of it. Stories create an easy low effort way to start a conversation. I probably got really lucky but about a m… | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial EraIf they want it that bad why not just go to a sperm clinic? Seems like less of a hassle and a safer option | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 01:25 PM |
| 8 | At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial Eraimo it can be damaging to you and your game to rank women like that; it isnt really a ladder, women are just people, some really hot ones might be easy, some might not. I feel like you end up putting them on a pedestal if you start ranking them like that | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 12:59 PM |
| 5 | At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial Erayeah, because everyone knows that women who arent that pretty also shouldnt have their own standards and go on to develop psychotic behaviours like faking using birth control and poking holes in condoms right | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 12:26 PM |
| 3 | One Year LaterWhat was it that you did wrong? I see myself messing up opportunities with girls after the first date but I really dont know why | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | I finally talked to a girl without giving a fuck.this is really important, I feel like i was gravitating towards not caring at all, its easier to just dont care about what she says but it has some pretty bad consequences | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 12:15 PM |
| 6 | I finally talked to a girl without giving a fuck.if he was in brazil during carnaval he really wouldnt need to have a conversation to get with a girl lol. During carnaval there you basically just approach "directly" like walking up and asking if they want to kiss you; damn, i miss carnaval there | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Sex On The First Date - 17 quick tips to make it happenOn 13, how do you do that? Do you just tell her you can stop at any point or something literal like that? Feels like it kills the mood. I can see asking her if it's okay to unbutton her clothe or something like that | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 09:53 AM |
| 6 | Sex On The First Date - 17 quick tips to make it happenHaha fair enough, although a good way with more success chance on getting head is to just give her oral, she'll most likely return the favour | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 08:53 AM |
| 6 | Sex On The First Date - 17 quick tips to make it happenYes, me too, what happens when the girl isn't into it? Do you do a louie c k and just jerk off lol? | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Got rejected brutallyI think he means luls or something like that, essentially gaps. So when they aren't talking to anyone or not focused on a particular thing, otherwise having "off time". I phrased it horribly but I think you get it | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Got rejected brutallyJesus what a cunt, your story sounds super harsh lol, kind of rough to get in a good frame after being mocked | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Got rejected brutallyNot to be a dick, where = what place Were = the verb, ex - you were walking home | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 05:07 PM |
| 11 | How I stopped being a pussyDid you just assume that helicopter is a "her"?! | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Some good old conversation points!Hahah thats exactly how I've been; it feels good to be in a place where I'm (we're) comfortable talking and don't have much anxiety over it. Just need to tone it back a bit and get back some of qualities we used to have with listening more and taking things slower | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I suck at Communication and Talking to peopleThank you so much!! | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I suck at Communication and Talking to peopleOh, I havent heard of that promo :/ In any case, if you manage to snatch another free copy my email is: [email protected] | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I suck at Communication and Talking to peopleI havent heard of that promo :/ In any case if you manage to snatch another free copy my email is: [email protected] | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 02:09 AM |
| 1 | I suck at Communication and Talking to peopleHow were you able to get free a free audiobook of that book? I've always been interested in getting it but felt it was too expensive. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 11:41 PM |
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