| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?I’ll never do it again for all the usual reasons. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 04:37 PM |
| 3 | 3 years deep and she’s still failing testsThis depends on how much time and money you want to spend on this. Sure, go get a pit fighter female lawyer and drag her to court for every infraction. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/25 10:34 PM |
| 3 | She wants a divorce.You sound like a good guy who is trying to do the right thing. However, your helping will not be recognized in any way. Wait until court starts. She will play the victim and will try and get everything possible from you. You will not get a gold star on your divorce decree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 04:23 PM |
| 17 | I am 22, this subreddit is so refreshing tbhI found the red pill, mgtow, men’s rights spaces after a cheating wife took half my stuff. It’s good to know about the family court system, metoo allegations and general behavior patterns of the opposite sex. But, it’s also a lot of everything is hopeless black pill garbage. I’ll give the same advice I would have liked as a 22 year old man. Get your career locked down, save money, get out of debt and work on your health. Then when you’re about 30 being the best you possible you go find an early … | /r/MensRights | 08/06/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Starting as friendsScrew all of that. It’s an attempt to make her feel better about her bad decisions | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/25 07:08 PM |
| 22 | Mediation is over…Let that go to trial. You have to ask for alimony. Do it for all of us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 10:45 PM |
| 5 | This sucksShe didn’t. I don’t know if they’re still together. Our kids are grown so I’m no contact. It’s fine. I’m pretty introverted anyway, being alone isn’t a problem. Just the thought of going through dating and what not is too much of a hassle. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/25 01:07 AM |
| 10 | This sucksI’m three years out. You are correct. It sucks. At least for me the worst part was me thinking about what was and what could’ve been. I think initially you think of all the great times and almost gaslight yourself. Mine cheated and left a 26 year marriage and I was super depressed that the marriage was over. Now, I workout more, spend time with friends, picked up a new hobby and hang out with the dogs. I love having my peace. I still think of her, probably out of habit. I don’t have feelings for… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/25 11:18 PM |
| 10 | Hit me like a brick wallBeen there done that too. Pattern recognition is a thing. She decided six months ago she was done. Maybe she’s cheating or maybe she’s spending all day on the interwebs hearing how’s she’s better off without you. She knows she’s blowing up your family for dumb reasons. Thus she is framing the whole situation as your fault. It sucks. It’s over. Go get the most badassed female lawyer you can find. You want to think people who were once married can end it like adults. That is a mistake. She will be… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/25 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Moving DayDid it two years ago. Yeah it sucks. But now you have peace and your kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/25 02:22 AM |
| 19 | Walk away wife syndrome - an observationI swear sometimes women are all the same or secretly given a manual of how to blow up your family for reasons and not take responsibility. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/25 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Google Agenda removing cultural eventsI only care on my calendar. I like to have as few things as possible on there. That’s just me. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/25 06:26 PM |
| 165 | "I'll buy a Glock and shoot you if you're a white male and you're on the same street as me at night"I may have to re think red flag laws. This is not normal behavior from a gown person. They shouldn’t have a gun. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | As a Korean, I apologize for my countryI lived in Korea for two years. Such a wonderful country. You can be forgiven for one mistake. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 17 | Men are not obliged to empathize with womenThis all comes back ti the belief that men’s only purpose is to serve women. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 12:47 AM |
| 17 | Do you guys ever financially recover?My total loss to the cheating x is 1.7M. Somehow my cash flow, meaning money I can spend on my own has increased. It’s almost like she was a net drain on resources. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Americans have a callous disregard for men killed in combat. We need to remind each other that the draft is no longer an abstract hypothetical.There were no new wars under Trump. The new administration has no desire to get adventurous. Vance went to Iraq. I did too. Among other shitty places. They know what it’s like to be in that shit show and how not one American life is worth any of those places. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Please, stop caring about women saying they’ll “stop fucking men”Men shouldn’t engage these overly emotional females. It’s all attention seeking behavior. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | What is going on in the Two X chromosomes sub Reddit? Why are they panicked and calling all men Incels?All the subs have lost their collective mind. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 03:46 PM |
| 8 | Am I a bad person?Do it before you hit ten years. Giving half a retirement sucks a lot. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Has Divorce Prompted You to Reexamine and/or Change Your Core Beliefs About Life and Purpose?I went to therapy. I have a better idea about what’s important to me. I don’t love being alone but I’m ok with it. I have no trust to give anyone. Maybe I’ll stumble on someone or not. Either way is ok. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/24 11:51 PM |
| 7 | Does this pass the smell test?The long alimony payment is real and it sucks. Do not give her the house and pay for it. Lawyer. I was in the same boat. He did make a difference. I was out 1.7M total. Which is a lot for a white trash kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 10:27 PM |
| 8 | Thinking about getting married againThere is no benefit for a man to get married these days. It’s only downside. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/24 12:40 AM |
| 11 | Cheating - ConfirmedI was just as dumb. It’s the craziest thing. 26 years up a smoke for “reasons.” My favorite part is she fucks someone else, blows up the marriage and I get to pay her money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Why am I numb and paralyzed with inaction? How do I gain momentum to make a change?I really hope younger guys read these posts. It’s the same story with different characters-me included. Wife gets(insert emotional fantasy reasons) or (insert in better shape or promotion). She starts checking out of the marriage. Now, husband finds out that she is (sexting, staying late at work). She denies until husband gets served papers. She says some meaningless buzzwords. Finally, she takes half your stuff because she can and the courts hate you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/24 05:26 PM |
| 2 | If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilizationI think up to very recently,in the span of time that there have been human beings, that both sexes did what they could to survive. Men being bigger and stronger did the majority of the physical tasks. Also until reliable birth control babies happened when they happened. Females didn’t have the luxury of feeling oppressed until technology made most tasks somewhat automated. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Feel defeatedI feel you man. I wondered why I was even required to go to court. The outcome was predetermined. The only thing in question was how much I was going to pay | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How emotionally hard is the mere financial side of a divorce?Not even close for some reason. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 05:39 PM |
| 3 | How emotionally hard is the mere financial side of a divorce?Having to give her half of my military pension will always hurt. It’s not just the money per se. I retired as a Lt Col with 27 years. Her getting half means I’m getting the same retirement, money wise, as a Private. It’s not like a private can retire but still. I’m back of my mind I’m like well that was a waste of 27 years. I think that if you and a potential spouse earn about the same money and have no kids marriage is not a horrible risk. But if there is a significant difference don’t do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Grey DivorceWorked for time has a mental health case manager. Did real estate on the side. Kids were grown on their own | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Grey DivorceOhio. Half retirement. Half 401k. 3500 per month for 8 years. Paid 75k to keep the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/23 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Grey DivorceMe 52M ex 48F, two boys 26,27. I spoke with a lawyer. I wasn’t really happy. She was detached. He told me to get a hobby that takes me out of town every couple of months and never come back to his office because I’m going to get killed in court. She filed a month later to be with her soulmate. I got killed in court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | A storySorry brother. It sounds like my story. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/23 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Can someone help me understand as a black conservative why do white female liberals hate white men so much ?They hate you too. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How do you mentally cope with paying alimony?At least where I am the general rule is alimony for ⅓ of the length of marriage. The court takes the difference in income and gives 35% of that to the spouse. It might be a good idea to hire a vocational expert to figure out what the ex should be making in your area. I paid about half as much as the formula indicated the ex was underemployed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Reminder to my fellow man.At least in america the divorce rate is greater than 50%. Females filing first is greater than 80%. The odds aren’t great. If you earn more than she does you are going to pay. The court has a bias towards the mother. You are going to pay for the kids. Once she files it’s done. She is now in it to bleed you dry. She is the enemy | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Pay the lump sum to dodge lifetime maintenance or fight for a different settlement?Get a lawyer it’s well worth the money. Get the house appraised. It’s a million worth of alimony if you live to be 75. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | I’d rather hire escorts than deal with another relationshipThere are plenty of escort websites in your area to get latest prices. I looked at LV and it looked like 500 and up for an hour. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/22 10:04 PM |
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