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Finances we always end up talking. :) But my philosophy on people and life is to give them enough rope to hang themselves with and then help out afterwards. If you tell me you will handle getting movers, great. I trust you. If you don't and have to haul all the boxes yourself, I'll let you. And then I'll draw you a hot bath and have a couple of ibuprofen and a couple of cold beers ready.
/r/RedPillWives06/03/20 01:36 PM
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I handle it myself. If it is minor- like helping me with carrying boxes to the car for good will or putting camping gear away etc. I do it. He knows I have a bad shoulder and if he doesn't handle it I'll hurt for a day or two. But I keep a neat house. And my living room can't be full of stuff. He always feels bad when he promises to help me and then doesn't do it. I don't say a word. But, when he has no laundry because I've managed to irritate my shoulder and the basket was too heavy, he brings …
/r/RedPillWives06/03/20 04:50 AM
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Yes. We lavish attention on our nieces. We prayed a lot. But most importantly, we forgave ourselves. It isn't my fault I was born how I am or my husband's fault he was born how he is. Patience with myself and love for myself were the biggest changes that helped.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 02:20 PM
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That is what I'm in grad school studying! <3 I also teach one night a month at the local senior center.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 06:48 AM
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I haven't had much luck outside of volunteering at my parish's weekly homeschool day. No kids, but I teach history to the little ones. Lots of moms. Lots of awkwardness because I'm 35, childless, infertile, and Catholic. But I try. No friends yet. But lots of kiddos know more about history, so I'm succeeding there!
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 06:16 AM
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My husband helps with chores that are difficult for me- carrying the garbage, changing light bulbs, etc. And he loves to cook. So he makes 3 or so meals a week. It is a hobby of his and he has fun with it. Any more than that is if I'm ill or laid up from an injury or we have plans to sort through a room and donate unused articles to charity etc.
/r/RedPillWives11/12/19 01:31 AM
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Thanks! You too :)
/r/RedPillWives08/12/19 09:45 PM
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I wish you the best of luck! I just went the opposite way you are looking to go. My husband and I can't have children so I'm going back to school to finish my degree so I can work and then we can retire early. We've been turned down by multiple agencies. Don't be a middle-class family in the midwest making 60k a year, I guess. And, we've been turned down by foster care because his elderly parents live with us. Because, you know, having grandparents you can see every day is terrible. And a stay a…
/r/RedPillWives08/12/19 09:15 PM
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Tell them that you plan to have a husband and family and do what is best for you and them as you are able to. Leave it open-ended. It might mean work. It might mean raising your children. :)
/r/RedPillWives08/12/19 08:57 PM
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Classic cinema. My husband loves monster movies! We have a monster movie date once a month. I make sloppy joes and milkshakes and we watch old monster flicks. Super fun.
/r/RedPillWives02/10/19 03:17 AM
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Neat! I haven't seen that show, but my husband and godson love it.
/r/RedPillWives02/10/19 02:44 AM
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I like to hand out bookmarks and granola bars. Costco has a huge package of granola bars and I ALWAYS have them on hand. Not perfectly nutritious, but better than lollipops and taffy! Ooh, edit- I always bake apple pies this time of year too. And, I host a costume party for family and friends. Last year was Fantasy themed and we watched Lord of the Rings. Two years ago was undead themed and we watched The Mummy and Nosferatu. This year is murder mystery themed and we are going to watch Silence o…
/r/RedPillWives02/10/19 01:28 AM
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Shelbey Wilson on YouTube inspires me with her awesome tutorials in how to do tasteful and classy makeup looks! Fresh, clean and nothing over the top <3
/r/RedPillWives30/09/19 07:40 PM
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If you want children, being married by 25 is one of the best chances for it. My husband and I married at nearly 30 and are looking at adoption after 7+ years of no luck. We'll be no less a family, but the fertility specialists I've seen told me that most women with the issues I have manage to have 1 or 2 if they start young.
/r/RedPillWives20/09/19 09:09 PM
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Absolutely! Even if you aren't fluent it makes a big difference in showing that you are interested in his family's culture and history. As a side note- you might read some Russian folk tales or fairy tales. I have a good friend who is from there and he said that their stories are very different- one I remember the best is about a mouse who lived in a dung heap. The mouse hated it becaus it was smelly and wanted to see what the rest of the world was like. He left home and was eaten by a fox right…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/19 01:12 PM
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I had the opposite experience. My husband has half a dozen brothers, so his mother was ready to accept ANY daughter in law who was a reasonably decent human being. I'd say this- be willing to work for some acceptance. Learn how to make a few traditional Russian meals. Be willing to name your children with a patronymic (father's name as their middle name). Be willing to take time and get in good with his siblings if he thinks that will help. You'll want acceptance eventually. My sis had to work f…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/19 11:43 AM
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We don't decorate with any rhyme or reason. It creates a really eclectic look that we both enjoy. All of our furniture save a few bookshelves from IKEA is hand me down. Our couch is blue, white, and yellow tartan. It belonged to one of his aunts. On that we have 2 afghans that I got at an estate sale, one shades of pink and the other in earth tones. Our throw pillows are covered with old t shirts that I sewed with a pattern I found online. We have 3 cat towers that he and I built. They're covere…
/r/RedPillWives16/08/19 06:42 PM
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Hey, janeafraid, you're an inspiration. You are strong, brave, and caring. You know how I know this? Because you are safe now and sharing your story to help others. God bless you. And I pray that you find all the happiness in the world. Until then, know that you are the kind of woman that I'd tell young women to look up to.
/r/RedPillWives04/07/19 01:52 PM
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Absolutely! I love chamomile tea to sleep or lavender buds in the bath etc. But they aren't going to cure disease.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/19 01:59 PM
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I work with a local pro life group. One of our Facebook posts had a troll on it. She was a bitch, talking about how women's rights are more important than cell clumps. I'm also very pro medicine. I looked at her profile, found out she rejects medicines for essential oils and magic crystals. So I reply to her comment with this: At least you'll never succeed in getting an abortion if all you do is rub crystals on your groin and use magic oil. Thank God for stupid people.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/19 02:36 PM
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Thank you! Hope your recovery is swift.
/r/RedPillWives24/05/19 12:51 PM
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Well, I had surgery and had to take a ton of steroids and stay off my injured leg for almost 8 months in late 2017-2018. I put on a lot of weight. So right now, I'm losing that weight, ounce by ounce. Don't carry a tent down a muddy hill, ladies. You'll tear everything that can rip in your leg. Hopefully in a month I'll be cleared to work out. Right now, swimming gently and stretches are all I can do. I miss hiking. But I've lost 11 pounds. Loads more to go. Steroids and my husband letting burge…
/r/RedPillWives23/05/19 03:02 AM
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I'm a 34 year old woman. I've been married for 7 years now. When we met, we thought that we were in love. That was just a strong mutual attraction. What it has grown into is love. We realized that we shared values and beliefs and goals. We realized that there is moretl to a relationship than a fun evening and enjoying the same genre of movies. (Now, don't get me wrong. I still love going out for dinner and to go see dinosaur or action movies.) Love is going to the store at 3 am to buy Gatorade a…
/r/RedPillWives15/05/19 12:18 AM
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This is where I compromise! I adore my engagement ring and tend to wear it more than my wedding band. BUT, if my husband wanted to purchase another ring as an anniversary gift I'd wear it. Swap my emerald to my right hand. Then, I can enjoy both beautiful gifts and be gracious for them!
/r/RedPillWives05/02/19 12:04 AM
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Exactly. I have 1.95 razor cartridges left. New one went on yesterday... That gives me not enough time to replace the razor I've used since it was released like 15 years ago :(
/r/MensRights16/01/19 05:05 AM
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Venus razors. And tampax. This one is hard, but I love the men in my life. Hello playtex and nair.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 04:54 AM
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Dawn, tampax, and venus razors... this boycott will be painful. Between Nestlé and P&G that is half the grocery store. But it is worth it.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 04:51 AM
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I think both sets of numbers are important to know and to understand. Men make up the majority of the victims and that is critically important. But if it is true that women are more likely to be killed by partners or acquaintances then it is important to make your sisters, nieces, etc aware of that fact. Knowing how men and women become victims, to me, leads to the answers of how best to protect them. If a group is disproportionately likely to be kidnapped or killed or what have you you'd protec…
/r/MensRights28/12/18 01:25 AM
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I'd say revenue from legalizing cannabis should go to fund schools, infrastructure repair and projects, and drug rehab programs. That creates jobs and rehabilitates and better educates the workforce to create a stronger tax base in the future.
/r/MensRights25/12/18 03:17 PM
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If the firefighter is physically capable of pulling me out of a building then I don't care who they are. Men are stronger. Testosterone is a hell of a drug. But if a buff woman wants to do it and she can, hell yeah. Or if she wants to be an engine mechanic back at the firehouse also hell yeah. But don't send the equality hire who can't lift 50 lbs in to rescue adults, please.
/r/MensRights22/12/18 06:41 PM
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Cost of living though. And my husband makes 70k in the Midwest. Not a net gain, plus I'd have to transfer my license. Not fun. Thank you for the info!
/r/MensRights22/12/18 06:26 PM
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And paramedics, firemen, police... All essential public services should make respectable incomes. My grandfather raised 3 children on a teacher's salary. My grandmother worked 3 mornings a week as a bookkeeper and secretary for a local shopkeeper. He paid her in store credit. She bought fabric and sewed clothing. Kept a huge garden. They were middle class. Frugal. The children of farmers. No big inheritance or wealth to ease them along. They married in 1959. Raised their children in the 1960s an…
/r/MensRights22/12/18 05:37 PM
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I'm going in to the teaching field. I'm also a woman. I don't expect to make 6 figures a year. The school districts around me haven't raised starting wages since 2001 and haven't given cost of living wages since 2007. 32,500 is what teachers start at locally. No supplies allowance, though you can write some of that off on taxes. We have a reasonably low cost of living but that is terrible for a bachelor's degree. 31,500 is what a 15 dollar minimum wage gets you. Teachers all over the country are…
/r/MensRights22/12/18 02:22 PM
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Not at all. There are a lot of issues with IVF. First and foremost, it removes the creation and procreation from the couple and God and into the hands of a doctor or technician. This is contrary to theological teachings about dignity, of body and of marriage, as well as problematic when looking at the Sacrament of Marriage. Second, often times more embryos than needed are fertilized. And, if multiples are transferred to the womb and 3 or 4 implant successfully aborting some of them is often reco…
/r/RedPillWives27/11/18 12:28 AM
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I had to check the brand. I don't use it. Thank God. How fucked.
/r/MensRights25/11/18 06:15 AM
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Thank you! Our nieces and nephews are good for now.
/r/RedPillWives25/11/18 01:25 AM
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Yes, I have. I treated the PCOS and I conceived for the first time in 13 years. I've miscarried twice, once in my early twenties and once this fall. My husband also has low sperm count. So, the trifecta of... yeah, not happening. We're devout Catholics, IVF is a no go. I'm not sure if we'll adopt. But if we do, thank you. And I hope that you find happiness with what you choose.
/r/RedPillWives25/11/18 01:14 AM
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Seriously consider adoption if you have fertility issues. My husband and I have been struggling for 6+ years for me to miscarry on the only time I have conceived. My sister in law is pregnant, baby fever is all over the family. And we're quietly grieving. And considering redoing our spare room to make it into a bedroom so that we can foster and eventually adopt.
/r/RedPillWives24/11/18 03:00 PM
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TIL. My British history stops in oh, the years right after 1812. I'm an Early Americanist.
/r/MensRights15/11/18 11:19 AM
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Sounds like my old old computer. I think it had a Banshee sound card too :) We play on the SNES classic a lot. I used to play on the regular SNES with my dad when i was a girl. He still beats me on most tracks.
/r/MensRights15/11/18 12:45 AM
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I liked reading and watching documentaries and playing d&d with my dad and brother.
/r/MensRights15/11/18 12:43 AM
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33, USA. I still haven't seen the Godfather. Movies aren't my thing.
/r/MensRights15/11/18 12:37 AM
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Not at all. I just wanted to cheer you up a little bit. Give you hope. Stave off the bitterness that I see all too often when people get frustrated. You're still a young man, and you should feel like the entire world is in front of you and everything is possible. You and every other young man is worthwhile. You're valuable and important and I hope that you find something, a passion or a career that lets you change the world for the better. Loud voices drown out quieter ones. And angry, radicaliz…
/r/MensRights15/11/18 12:24 AM
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Ooh. Not clear. I didn't do the stabbing. My pupil did. Sorry. And agreed. It IS aggravating. I'd rather start kicking the pebbles that cause a rockslide now and watch things improve slowly!
/r/MensRights15/11/18 12:12 AM
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I'm sorry that you have these fears. I'm sorry that the women in your life, particularly those in authority, treat you poorly and view men poorly. Not all of us are like that. I just want to tell you that I am going to finish my PhD in a few years and that I do not ascribe to notions of female superiority. lf I have children, they will not. And I try hard to make certain that I pass my on views of equality and my love of all my fellow humans, male, female, and even Colorado Avalanche/ Chicago Bl…
/r/MensRights15/11/18 12:10 AM
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Shit. Did I lose the Irish superpowers my grandfather passed down when I stopped drinking enough alcohol to get drunk? TIL But in all seriousness, thanks :) I try to make the world a little bit better however I can. Last week it was by loanung my brother my car until he can afford to get his brakes fixed. This week it was by playing Bowser on Super Mario Kart and losing so my husband could gloat. The sexes may be equal, but I am the undisputed champion of Mario Kart at our house. Now board games…
/r/MensRights14/11/18 11:58 PM
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I don't. Not at all. I hear my male family and friends talk about their struggles and it makes me want to work all the harder to make their lives better. My husband has 4 female coworkers who can no longer meet the physical requirements of their job- lifting, carrying, etc. He won't do their work for them, they complain, and he looks like an ass to others. I told him to tell them he'd approach the union steward to schedule the annual fitness check (which hasn't been done in at least a decade) be…
/r/MensRights14/11/18 11:36 PM
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Suffragettes were British. Suffragists were American. I'm a historian, poking around in here and I saw this. Go forth, win trivia night at the bar. Also- a few Suffragists were willing to continue pushing for all women, but the majority caved to get the votes from the pro-segragation, racist demographic. They chopped racially inclusive language to get the amendment through. Sad, but a few of them stuck to their guns.
/r/MensRights14/11/18 11:23 PM
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Aaaand, I'm done with him. That is horrendous.
/r/MensRights14/11/18 11:19 PM
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He was in a bad car accident that really changed his appearance. I remember reading that he had a lot of surgeries etc. I'll respect his choice to transition to voice acting. He was a DAMN good Joker in the animated series. Until moments ago, my favorite in any medium. Now I am not so sure anymore. Hell, Mark Hamill has always been the Joker to me. I never knew he acted until I was maybe 16 or 17 and saw Star Wars for the first time. Shit. This makes me so sad. Hard to lose respect for a person …
/r/MensRights14/11/18 11:16 PM
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Mr. Roger's Neighborhood. Hands down. Snow White, Beauty and the Beast, and Sleeping Beauty from Disney. Charlotte's Web.
/r/RedPillWives13/11/18 03:33 AM
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Thank you! My sister had luck with it, baby boy due in April!
/r/RedPillWives12/11/18 01:02 PM
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I can't get even pregnant without having had one. I wish you the best of luck, perhaps look into IVF? It wouldn't need a reversal.
/r/RedPillWives12/11/18 04:20 AM
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I think we all make mistakes. Please, be careful. I don't know you, internet stranger, but I want you and your child and dog and pet iguana and whatever else that matters to you to be safe. If you ever feel like you need to walk away, there are groups to help. Don't let being almost 30 or a divorcée or a single mother scare you. You are young and you deserve to be happy, safe, and loved. I'm a graduate student in my 30s. 30 isn't life over. Far from it. I started fresh at 28 in finishing my unde…
/r/RedPillWives08/11/18 06:53 PM
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Oh, honey. This isn't keeping calm during a fight. This is abuse. He threatened to leave you because you got upset after he yelled at you for spilling a soda by accident. I'm so sorry that you're in this situation. There is a difference between harmony and working to make a happy household and tolerating mistreatment. Threatening to leave your spouse over spilled soda and an argument is not healthy or normal. Neither is shutting up and accepting verbal abuse. I'm not sure where you are, but if y…
/r/RedPillWives08/11/18 06:08 PM
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I've been active with both organizations. I think a merger, calling them Scouts, and letting each troop/unit decide whether to be co-ed or not is what will save scouting. If my nephew sold cookies I'd still buy them, they're too tasty to be sexist. I have nostalgia for my days as a girl scout. But damn, I loved helping with my brother's boy scout group more. I'm 21 years older than he is, and I volunteered to be a leader with our dad. Great times.
/r/MensRights07/11/18 06:19 PM
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I'm pro life, but I could support both men terminating parental rights AND having priority over any adoptive parent if they so chose and the woman wished to give up the child. I'm going to say to everyone to keep their genitals put away if they don't want to risk children and the consequences. But, giving men more options is more than fair.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 07:25 PM
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Thanks. I'm a woman and I'm very formal and by the book. I got a lot of complaints, but I designed all my lessons to be critical thinking and examine multiple sides of an issue. I told my dept chair that being able to discuss something controversial and consider many viewpoints was a skill I cherished and I wanted to pass along that idea to my students. She was pretty cool with it. Another one I had them look at was discrimination in jail sentences- crack vs. cocaine sentences for racial element…
/r/MensRights01/08/18 05:37 PM
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I had the misfortune of being a TA in a gender studies class last semester because it was topical and related to my dissertation (US history). I made my class read about Terry Crews and write a short essay about how to balance victim's rights with privacy concerns and Constitutional rights. I was not a popular TA. But I made them think. At least the ones in my discussion section.
/r/MensRights01/08/18 02:30 PM
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I agree that the child needs to be #1 for both parents. A child deserves to be cared for and raised properly. I don't care if it is a married couple or a hook up. I do not agree that a mother can't raise a son properly. That is akin to saying a father can't raise a daughter properly. My dad turned out fine, lost his father at 11. He was raised by his mother, who never knew a mother because she died in childbirth. I think that a young person needs role models, both male and female. In the absence…
/r/MensRights01/08/18 04:29 AM
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I love men. My dad, brother, grandfather, husband, and all the other men in my life. The hatred of men turned me against it.
/r/MensRights01/08/18 04:19 AM
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I'm sorry, but I will not advise men not to interact with women, and it is rather rude to imply that I am an 'expensive and dangerous prostitute.' I have nothing else to say to you other than you are entitled to your own views and thoughts and that nothing we say to one another will change our respective thoughts.
/r/MensRights31/07/18 06:18 PM
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Brothers in England, I have a spare bedroom on the other side of the pond. If you don't mind cats, snow, pothead neighbors, and like spicy food, we can offer safe haven. America isn't the best place, but I'll happily help you get out of your increasingly 1984 nightmare.
/r/MensRights31/07/18 03:10 PM
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That is scary. I'm a woman, and I am very friendly, kind, and attentive. It comes across as flirty, I am told. I never noticed because I was just being kind and gracious, like I was taught to be. I never considered smiling, paying attention, and making polite small talk to be flirting. I am finishing my phd and I am a TA. I have to be so careful. Open office door, no private meetings etc. You know who taught me? My mentor and member of my dissertation committee. He told me the best thing that I …
/r/MensRights31/07/18 03:01 PM
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Thanks, how sweet. I think we've talked on a few threads now. We gave a great relationship. My dad jokes that it is our fault he needs insulin- too sweet. Nada to do with his defective pancreas or genetics. And aye, absolutely, my husband is fabulous. He is one of the reasons I'm an MRA. I want the world to be more fair and better for him.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 07:54 PM
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I dislike porn, a lot. But I'm a sane woman. My husband and I talked about it. Listened to concerns, ideas, and came to an agreement. We decided it was okay if we watched it together or if we were looking for something new to try, that sort of thing. Problem solved. Love life spicier. This is a hideous example of domestic violence. I am horrified.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 06:53 PM
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No worries! You were fine :)
/r/MensRights30/07/18 03:29 PM
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Absolutely! I'm cool with anybody wearing makeup if they choose to. 100%. It is fun and pretty and funky and mysterious and a million other things. I'm very feminine and always wear at least a bit. Thanjs genetics for the blonde eyebrows lol.
/r/MensRights29/07/18 11:19 AM
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The only time my husband has ever worn lipstick is when he was curious what my 22 dollar a tube lipstick did. He was curious why it was nicer. I mean, legit. It was like a science experiment. "Is it smoother? Creamier? Does it make me a supermidel?" And then we both laughed like idiots when he took the chance to give me lip prints on my face by kissing me. It was silly and fun. Androgyny can be attractive. Like... look at Bowie. But that was his choice. Forcing men to wear lipstick and emasculat…
/r/MensRights28/07/18 04:15 AM
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I'm not a subscriber in that subreddit. And I don't enjoy politics anymore, so I couldn't tell you anything about what the alt right is doing. But, I would absolutely ruin anyone's day who called someone an incel for not being a 3rd wave feminist. That is just wrong and crappy.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 09:08 PM
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Absolutely understood. I respect your choice, 100%. I think that you are right- few people see marriage the same way as we do. Especially the legal system. And yes. Marriage is a huge risk, which makes me sad. We are so happy, and I'd love to see everyone have that happiness as well. And for most people now, marriage is more secular. That is fine. I love my agnostic, atheist, non religious brothers and sisters. I respect their choices. I respect other faiths and what marriage means. But, as we h…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 08:58 PM
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Thanks :) Empowerment is me having the right to to go yup, I like being traditionally feminine. But, if you don't drink the koolaid they are like....must be internalized misogyny and oppression.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 02:17 PM
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There was a time and place for alimony, and it is long past. 75 years ago when very few women worked outside the home after marriage... sure. A 44 year old divorced woman in like 1938 would have been impoverished, especially if she had 4 or 5 children. But, as women have transitioned into the workforce there is much less need. Maybe a stay at home parent (mom or dad) should get a year or two of spousal support while they transition into the workforce. I could see that as fair, especially in situ…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 02:12 PM
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Yes. That is an apt description of an incel. Add a bit of "I'm entitled to sex and women just lead me on every time we interact" and you're on the money. I was appalled and saddened that folks felt that way when I peeked at the incel sub before it was shut down. Some of it was just misogynist garbage. The rest was baffling- "A woman smiled at me and said thank you when I held an elevator. Why am I not getting laid. I showed that whore hiw awesome I am" Like, politeness and common courtesy should…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 01:55 PM
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This makes me so sad. My brother is scared too. My husband is super naive and clueless and I told him be super careful at work. Never be alone with female colleagues. Never close doors. Never ever make dirty jokes (he is a blue collar factory worker, they are par fir the course there) etc.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 07:07 AM
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TA here, female as well. My university assigns numbers. Students use those instead of names on exams. I gave no idea if 76834 is male or female. Sometimes the handwriting gives it away. Or pink glittery ink pens. Seems like a good way to help remove bias-gender, racial, etc. I don't know if it is from Giuseppe, Malik, Kim, or Alicia.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 07:03 AM
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I've been banned from subreddits like others have said etc. I tend to be more active offline than online, especially as a student on campus. I got posts deleted about Terry Crews being thrown under the bus by women.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 06:52 AM
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Chick here. Best haircut of my life was from a barber. I wanted a short cut w/ a fade on the sides. 4 beauty shops tried to talk me out of it or convince me to get a feminine pixie cut. I brought pics to a barber and he was magical. If he told me "No can do, never done women's hair" I might have asked "You sure? I have a guy's style I am going for?" And if he said nah, not sure I can pull it off and make you look good... well, off to the next shop or stylist. My current stylist is shitty with te…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 06:44 AM
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I am an MRA. I speak up on campus against feminists who are misandrists and against injustices I see. I want to see a better world for my nephew, my much younger brother etc. I see discrimination and it bothers me. Double standards bother me. And, feminism ceased being about equality a long time ago. Sure, there are things that need improvement, but, the eqyality pendulum has swung too far from center, giving women the advantage. I can't be MGTOW. I'm a woman, and very happily married to a great…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 06:34 AM
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Yeah, commemts made me sad there. She did a damn good thing in educating her people and family and country and helping 15k women avoid fgm. Totally commendable and amazing. I'm never going to dispute that. I just want her to go. "Okay. Now, to help my brothers." And help 15k men avoid the same thing. Or if not her, someobe else inspired by her etc.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 06:23 AM
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The other sad part about this is that feminists are pissed that I love my pink lipstick, my long hair, cooking for my husband, being feminine etc. They can't let anyone be happy. I wanted to be a stay at home mom. My husband was delighted. But, we can't have kids. I think my feminist sister would have died if her big sis had become a stay at home mom who liked wearing pink lipstick. Something about being brainwashed. I don't know. I am a grad student. I am a TA in a history class and I had 3 gir…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 06:17 AM
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I'm sorry that this happened to you. My cousin was verbally abused and gaslighted by his girlfriend. He never spoke of physical abuse, but it would not surprise me. I would never laugh about it, no matter who told me- man or woman. It shows trust and a level of intimacy to share feelings like that. You had some bad, morally bankrupt humans you dealt with. I hope you can find friends/lovers/companions who are more compassionate and kind. I doubt a stranger's words online will mean a lot to you, b…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 05:53 AM
5

I wonder if some of that 1.4 million comes from wonen living longer, on average, than men?
/r/MensRights27/07/18 05:39 AM
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I know one person's words might not mean much, but you are not disposable. No man is. If our culture says so, it is wrong. Very, very wrong.
/r/MensRights08/06/18 06:19 PM
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Man. Ellen coming out saved my life when I was a young woman. And I just lost all respect for her. Like a punch to the gut. By all rights, this should kill her career. But it won't. I don't give two shits about Bullock, though she has the sweetest nice girl image But neither of them will face repercussions for this.
/r/MensRights19/05/18 04:23 AM
3

Yes he is.
/r/MensRights23/04/18 11:20 AM
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My dad did my hair. He was awful at it. Crooked, lopsided, always wonky. But I appreciated it. He was gentle and tried very hard. My mother pulled my hair like she was trying to start one of those motors with a pull cord. Sweet woman. But hamfisted with a brush. And a terror with a comb. When my dad started working early mornings he took me to get a haircut. I had a pixie cut from age 7 until I was probably 13 years old. Near baldness was better than my mom's head shredding.
/r/MensRights23/04/18 03:28 AM
3

Agreed. Completely. It makes me worry :(
/r/MensRights15/04/18 09:46 PM
2

Good god. My husband would have to pay me half of what he makes. That is insane.
/r/MensRights15/04/18 09:38 PM
6

I have a husband, a brother, a father, male cousins, uncles, a grandfather and I want to see them have good, fulfilling lives. If I could have children, I'd add my sons to that list too. I hate intersectional and 3rd wave feminism. I hate the blatant sexism against men I see. I've hated it since I wondered as a little girl why most of the TV dads were like Al Bundy, Homer Simpson, and less like the dad on Full House. Or my dad, who got passed over for promotions he was qualified for so that his …
/r/MensRights15/04/18 09:28 PM
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I think the only thing that fat acceptance should be is everyone understanding that it is not okay to be cruel to someone because of their appearance. Period. Fat, short, scarred, ill, tall, scrawny, darker skinned, lighter skinned. Nobody has a right to call names or make nasty, mean inferences about you. I've met plenty of people of all body sizes I'm not attracted to. Nobody, fat or otherwise is owed sex.
/r/MensRights13/04/18 12:15 PM
1

I drove myself to mine until I almost ran over a squirrel. I then panicked and my sister made me get in the passenger seat. Nerves are why you don't drive yourself.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/18 12:44 PM
9

Well said! My husband and I are the same height, 5'5". I know he had trouble dating before we met. What do those chicks want? To stretch the guys on the rack?!
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/18 12:02 PM
2

Interesting thought. I absolutely disagree with trapping men. Completely.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 03:39 PM
1

In developing countries I'd advocate birth control and education. Strongly. Lots of data showing the higher the education level that the woman attains that she will give birth later and have fewer children. Personally, I don't use contraceptives (religion, stable marriage, and likely infertility from my partner) but I can see how much they lower birth rates . The ONLY time I consider abortion to be an option is if the life of the mother is in danger. If mom dies, so does the baby, and an abortio…
/r/MensRights11/02/18 07:08 AM
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God. This one kills me. I'm pro life and a strong supporter of men's rights. I'm not sure where I'd go with this. But, I'd strongly advocate abstinence as I also do for women who do not want children. But, all things considered, waiving paternal rights is far better than the murder that us committed with abortion . I'd support it, with the caveat that men who choose to waive rights have a few hours of counselling so that they make an informed choice AND that it functions like a closed adoption. …
/r/MensRights11/02/18 06:35 AM
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I love the word. Added it to my vocab. <3 Ovaryacting was pretty good too! I mean, if you want, you can say that a random woman on the internet named galaxine said it was totally okay to use the word. Because I think it is awesome.
/r/MensRights19/01/18 07:21 PM
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It is a fabulously impactful word. As good as a slap- it is one of the only really taboo words left in American English and when used, is amazing for relaying contempt.
/r/MensRights22/11/17 09:53 PM
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As a woman, let me be the first to say- Let her revel in the third degree burn she just got. No soothing ointment. No happy meds. Just debriding the charred flesh done by a ham-fisted and clumsy nurse.
/r/MensRights22/11/17 06:11 PM
1

Not all of us are like that. Most, but not all. If I am ever fortunate enough to have my own children, I will not raise my daughters like that.
/r/MensRights10/10/17 12:20 PM
1

Aye. My brother becomes Canadian when he is drunk. Even more polite, helpful, and thoughtful.
/r/MensRights10/10/17 04:06 AM
1

Me too! <3
/r/MensRights09/10/17 10:44 PM
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I can agree with the sentiment and fervor- but don't punish those poor kitties. Give them pet rocks. Or honey badgers. Or komodo dragons.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 03:18 PM
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Nope, no social media. It was to the house of people who stayed overnight at the party. They nipped it in the bud before she hopped on Facebook or Instagram or w/e. Took a bit to calm her down, but the only thing she posted was about her hangover. Not sure if the other folks at the party threatened to shun her or call her out if she did, but she was mercifully quiet online. My brother's friends are good people. Except that girl, he no longer associates with her, but she is still part of the grou…
/r/MensRights09/10/17 03:11 PM
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If I ever meet her, aye. I live on the other side of the country from him so I rarely meet his friends.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 03:04 PM
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I meant more the idea that going out of your way to be kind and offer help is how to be. The idea of not helping was unthinkable. Small town boy from rural America. He was blindsided by how she reacted. Plenty of people raise kids to help and be good people. Was just trying to offer insight or context.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 03:02 PM
1

A few times. But very rare, my brother has 3 stories. All of them targeted at rainbow haired girls who nail the feminist stereotype. He works IT on a college campus, his office is down in the same building as the gender and womens studies faculty and classrooms. He held the door for an entire class as they came into a lab to get an tutorial on Zotero and citation software. He said a few of them got pissy. A woman did it to my husband when we were walking into a restaurant and he held the door. I…
/r/MensRights09/10/17 02:59 PM
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I remember taking those classes. I work as a tutor with my parish and I'm a girl scout troop leader. We still do a lot of camping, but I think we take almost as many parents as children now and my husband teaches fire building and knot tying in the chutch yard now. He doesn't want to go on the trips anymore because there are always 3 moms who don't go outside ever who are terrified that their daughters will be abducted, raped, or otherwise harmed by the boogeyman in the woods. Camping with those…
/r/MensRights09/10/17 02:52 PM
1

Chivalry isn't dead. Women have tried hard to kill it, but my brother, father, husband, father-in-law, phd mentor and uncles keep it alive in small town America. My brother is way more cautious- but you'd better believe he has learned to enjoy irritating women who think having someone open a door for them or offer to help load a 50lb bag of puppy food is patriarchal oppression. It's his favorite thing.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 02:06 PM
1

Agreed. She is tangentially still in his circle of friends, on the fringes, so every great once in a while she'll pop up at somebody's birthday party or at breakfast at the pancake place or something and my brother will hold the door for everyone but her or warn her new boyfriend that she cried rape after waking up fully clothed the morning after she drank irresponsibly. She doesn't get why he is so unkind to her. Insists it is because he is salty she didn't sleep with him. "Victim" logic.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 02:02 PM
1

So sad, isn't it? We were both raised to help when we can, old-fashioned Christian values, but it stings when common sense tells you that doing the right thing can and will hurt you.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 01:58 PM
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He hasn't. Tough lesson- chivalry almost got him in trouble. Now, I think he'd happily leave a passed out girl on a couch to fend for herself. Also not good. But I'd rather that than him getting in trouble. I'm just glad he was lucid enough to get a couple people to help him carry her and open the door, hence the 4 or 5 people who jumped to his defense. A rape kit would have taken a damn long time to show he hadn't had sexual contact with her.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 12:56 PM
1

My brother is so terrified of this, and rightfully so. He never ever has casual hookups. Never ever has sex if either of them have had a beer. Outright ignores women who approach him at a bar or a club. I'm 12 years older and it blows my mind how different the atmosphere is. He was at a party 2 years ago and carried a girl who passed out up to a bedroom and slept outside the door because he was drunk and couldn't tale her home. He took off her heels, tucked her in, and stayed outside the door so…
/r/MensRights09/10/17 12:32 PM
1

Awwwww. <3 We need to give our dads a hug for saving us from mom hair styling.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 12:20 PM
12

Agreed. And this reminds me of my dad. He was terrible at hair, but he did mine. My mom was rough, pulled, combed hard, and always made me cry. So, my dad volunteered. So I showed him how to braid and do ponytails with one of my dolls. I was always a little lopsided and the ponytails were never perfect, but my mom never savaged my poor, tender head again. I happily looked a little goofy to escape my mom's hair styling. And it made her so mad. I'm 30+ now, and still have the most tender scalp eve…
/r/MensRights07/10/17 09:30 PM
10

It is funny as hell. Even if it isn't perfect, it makes me chuckle every time. He says a mildly offensive statement and she goes batshit. Makes the point enough for me.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/17 04:19 AM
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His joke- Sticks and stones may break my bones But words always offend a feminist The old saying ends with But words will never hurt me instead of the feminist bit. Then she gets mad and says I can't believe it, you have to let me respond or I'm never coming on your program again. I mean it. That proved his point. And he said it right as the host asked for his last thoughts because the program was over!
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/17 12:58 AM
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Because it makes us grin. It is such a happy 25 seconds. I knew what it was and clicked it for my daily dose of happy!
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/17 12:54 AM
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This made my day! Totally worth pausimg Midsomer Murders to watch this clip. I'm going to smile all afternoon.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/17 05:14 PM
3

Do it. I should have had to fill out a draft card at 18 like my uncles, dad, brother etc. had to. It is completely unfair. Israel has mandatory service for all. The least the US can do is potentially call ALL citezens to serve in war, regardless of chromosomes.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/17 01:56 PM
1

But it is society's problem. You obviously feel strongly and want to see some kind of meaningful change. I respect that. The world needs more people like that, especially ones willing to meet in the middle and work to help create change.
/r/MensRights03/06/17 05:39 PM
1

I have no issues making less if I choose to take the time off. Opportunity cost vs. Opportunity benefit. Basic economics. I'm not entitled to anything. Neither is any other person who takes time off. Break a leg and out for 6 months- sucks, but you don't merit that work performance raise for not working. Frugality is less and less common. America has a consumer based and driven economy. I'm an oddball for knowing how to sew buttons, hems, and patches. Saves tons of money on clothing. Many of my …
/r/MensRights03/06/17 05:29 PM
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Not my problem. I refused to let them use made-up words. They weren't quoting a someone who said it. They were calling themselves herstorians who study herstory. Vomit. Let them make bad choices trying to break into a competitive field! I have no issues being the bitch who won't tolerate it. Publish or perish is still a thing. They could have learned about the process in a forgiving environment as undergrads and had a nice line on the CV for grad school.
/r/MensRights28/05/17 04:57 AM
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They complained to faculty that they were discriminated against because their articles were rejected. I rationally defended my reasons, including the fact that we were a history and anthropology publication with no feminist background and that neither hystory nor herstory were considered appropriate spellings of history per the reference dictionary we used for editing. I was willing to publish the material with those terms altered to history because the research was good and citations were done …
/r/MensRights27/05/17 05:20 PM
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Slightly off topic- but, your use of 'hystory' and other uses of 'herstory' reminded me of a total of 11 undergraduate articles I rejected for publication when I was supervisory editor for an undergraduate research magazine. I returned each one and requested proper, non-slang, standard English in the highlighted portions. They were not happy. They were doubly not happy when they realized there was no patriarchy to cry about because the 'evil editor' was actually an editrix who was concerned with…
/r/MensRights27/05/17 05:02 PM
8

If you want to get parents of either gender in the US back in the workforce affordable childcare is the way go. My mom stayed home until her youngest was kindergarten age- so, 10 years or so counting all of us kids. 3 kids in childcare= oppressive financial burden. But, my dad made enough money to support the family without her working. She went back to college, and then work after. 18 months is extreme for leave. 9 is about perfect- that is the age when most kids eat a lot of solid foods and ar…
/r/MensRights27/05/17 04:50 PM
1

I was kind of excited to get banned until I realized I didn't actually post anything in there in the past few months. Oh well. Upvote and downvote buttons still work. I can still be amused even if they muted me.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/17 04:16 AM
1

I love his beard. :) He keeps it short in the summer but lets it grow out when it is cold.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/17 03:34 PM
1

I have no idea what my husband looks like without a beard. That bitch is fucking nuts. I don't wear makeup what he saw is what he got.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/17 06:15 AM
1

Awwww. Another good group. I might have to change to them for a few months.
/r/MensRights29/03/17 03:08 AM
1

I know. They also have a terribly high kill rate in their animal shelter. It is a farce. Be vegan, don't have pets, don't wear fur and kill animals to make sure theh don't suffer the evils of treats, walks, belly rubs, and cuddles. That is PETA. Virtue signalling with a dark and nefarious core.
/r/MensRights23/02/17 03:08 PM
3

I hear you, brother. I was talking about something similar last night with a few colleagues. One of them is a hardcore feminist who piped up that she is worried for her 3 little boys because of how our culture is. Never thought I'd see the day... Don't get me wrong, I totally support proper treatment of cute fuzzy critters too. Just not through PETA. Maybe Pamela Anderson could use an adorable puppy or kitten as a mascot, wearing a tie or something. Everything needs a logo. I dunno. I love men a…
/r/MensRights23/02/17 02:03 PM
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I agree with you. Very well said.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 04:20 AM
7

Hey there. I'll step in and offer you a conservative opinion. I'm female, in my early 30s and conservative. I think the best description I can give you of what I believe without writing a novel us this: fiscally- very conservative, socially- conservative on some issues (abortion being the big one) and moderate on others- (Supreme Court ruling on gay marriage is fair for example) environment- SAVE ALL THE WHALES AND ANIMALS (liberal here). I am extremely anti intersectional feminism. I think it h…
/r/MensRights22/02/17 07:21 PM
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A way better cause than PETA. I applaud her.
/r/MensRights22/02/17 06:44 PM
3

I don't know what my husband looks like without a beard. I remember seeing his face clean shaven in 2002 when we were in high school. But nothing since then. He always looked younger, even then.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/17 04:46 AM
2

I want hate this picture for sexism but the Meijer sale tags are taking up all the hatred I can muster. I worked in that hell hole for way too long. But, take solace in the fact that the chocolate will only be a "perfect man" for the type of person who can't appreciate another human being. And, all you have to do to make it a woman is pipe some frosting on it to make a dress and a hairdo. Maybe add some gummy boobs from Spencer's. I'm not sure what I'm typing anymore. I do thank you for making m…
/r/MensRights03/01/17 05:40 AM
2

Tell her you want to go to couple's therapy. Try to work through the issue there. If you can't fix it that way James Bond it. Set up a few teeny tiny cameras. Record it in case you have to take legal action or get a divorce. I'm not sure if you are religious, but some pastors/rabbis/priests are trained to provide counseling as well. I hope you are able to find a way to stop her that doesn't bring you harm. I'll say a prayer for you, brother.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 03:31 PM
1

I'm bi. Try again. ;)
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/16 02:17 AM
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I don't think other women are inferior. I just can't relate in any level to the idea that using being female should get me out of trouble or get me preferential treatment. I literally don't understand it. I am not saying every other woman is like that. But I could make an entire subreddit full of the times I've seen the pussy pass attempted, justified, and succeeded by people I know or are dating my friends etc. Equality =/= preferential treatment Give my husband custody of our theoretical kids …
/r/PussyPassDenied28/12/16 10:13 PM
7

You're going to need better bait than that! ;)
/r/PussyPassDenied28/12/16 08:18 PM
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I'll hold my tongue and not say anything. Whenever I say what I think about most women I get blasted with angry comments and downvotes. But there is a reason my friends are overwhelmingly men and I don't consider mhself a feminist.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/12/16 07:20 PM
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I used to like her, too. She put on a really caring façade and worked to improve conditions for people living in underdeveloped countries. And now she is having a psychotic meltdown and trying to keep a father away from his children after alleging all sorts of shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/12/16 05:02 PM
2

Thank goodness! I'm always cautioning my brother about hooking up not because of STDs but because of crazy women. He is such a good guy, slept in front of a door ourltside the room at a party after he got drunk because there was a drunker girl he had brought as his date in the bedroom. Figured his bulk and the lock inside the door would be a good deterrent. It was. He said she didn't even acknowledge his gesture and was rude. He proceeded to tell her to lose his number, called her a cab, waited …
/r/MensRights27/12/16 10:04 PM
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Originally when it was passed I think the intention was to make sure stuff like women's basketball teams and tennis teams got some funding and weren't totally ignored in favor of male teams in like, the 60s and 70s. I had to take a ton of title IX training when I worked as a research assistant a few years ago in college and 99% of it was related to gender non discrimination and rape prevention. It has flip flopped and become a nightmare. Hours of seminars learning how to stop rape culture on cam…
/r/MensRights27/12/16 04:20 PM
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Thank you both for the kind comments! I just wanted to be very open about being a woman. Full disclosure and all that. Just in case there was some subreddit etiquette I missed in my months of lurking!
/r/MensRights27/12/16 02:34 PM
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This might not be worth much, but, I am a recent IU grad. I refused to do any of the "safe campus" and rape advocacy/outreach training. I spoke out in the one damn women's and gender studies class I had to take. I engaged and challenged every feminist trying to recruit me for the feminist groups on campus. I hated every anti-rape seminar I had to go to. Someone scribbled over my "Drunk men can't consent either" on the giant rape awareness poster hanging in a lounge. I don't know if speaking up d…
/r/MensRights27/12/16 06:05 AM
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Learn to read. I said I don't agree. I never said men are smarter. And for anecdote- sure. I can speak for 2 female chess players who have been playing for 12+ years. They= Chess federations, both US and international. More players =more annual dues. Getting women to play = more money. Take your head out of your ass, dude. I was supporting your point. I'm a female chess player who doesn't go to women's only events because I don't need a "safe space" in which to play. Do I really have to say I HA…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/16 02:05 PM
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If this helps- I played in a co-ed chess club in high school as did my sister. We were the only female chess players. I graduated before she did so for 8 years in a school of 3k+ students in a wealthy district 2 girls played. It was 25 members or so. My sister played better than I did and made the state championship. She said she was one of a handul of girls out of 100+ competitors. It isn't that men are smarter. It is that fewer women play chess so they want to make it inviting. I don't agree w…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/16 03:06 AM
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If I could give you a dozen upvotes I would.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/16 10:45 PM
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