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DebateGalaxyBrainU/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:16 PM
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I mean it depends on what it actually looked and sounded like. Playful teasing is a big part of flirting and finding chemistry.
/r/seduction03/10/23 01:52 PM
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I guess not you, not even sure tbh. Just wanted to write what I wrote lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:47 AM
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Who said that red pilled men are immoral? Also, from what I’ve seen, if any man claims they’ve been lucky enough to get the odd handjob or the like from women who say they find beta, subservient qualities “attractive”, it’s probably more so a transactional reward for good behavior rather than a primal, lustful desire to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:37 AM
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Fact of the matter is, no one is really attracted to the anatomical body simply because of its beauty, men and women included. If we were simply attracted to aesthetic beauty, we would be having a lot more sex with inanimate things, like cars or houses. People are attracted to what they believe a body can give you on a primal level. A woman’s attraction to a man’s bodies often comes subconsciously because of what they believe they can get from someone with that body. If a man is ripped, strong, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:25 PM
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I'm not sure what your approach with women is, but if you work out and have a good body, it's not going to be an automatic chick magnet like some men think. You can't just sit somewhere and expect women to come up to you because you have a nice body. It's also not a magical, sure-fire confidence booster if you have self-esteem or mental health issues that run deep and stem from other things. There's also issues like the style of your physique. If you look like a strongman meathead, well that oft…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 09:35 PM
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If you're going after the girls who have 5000 other dudes in their DMs, you probably need to lower your standards till you get more experienced. Go after less attractive girls for now. Trust me there are girls out there who are easier to get with than you think. You could also meet with some legal escorts if you're really desperate and not willing to budge on standards.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:00 PM
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Most of what he says is mysoginist, douchey, and idiotic, some of it seems like a joke or done to get a rise out of people, but as much as most people probably don't want to admit, there are positive things to take away from his persona. The confidence with which he speaks, the fact he doesn't give a shit what people think about him, his work ethic, and some of the things he says make sense. One thing he talks about in regards to bettering yourself as a man, is if you look to take the easy route…
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/22 10:49 PM
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Correct, a man's ability to get sex is not a fair venture, just like many other things in life. And within the ranks of men themselves, it's also not fair. Fat guys, short guys, guys of various different skin colors and ethnicities, shy guys, introverts, guys with mental health issues all have different disadvantages. Some have multiple, some have none. It's just like being born rich or poor. Women on the other hand, might also consider modern dating unfair. They often want relationships over ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:52 PM
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So many prudes in this comment section upset that you're not 100% devoted to a girl who's not even officially in a relationship with you lol it's pretty normal to continue to see other people if you haven't agreed to be exclusive yet. Anyways, if you have been with her for 2 months, you probably have an idea of her morals and how she approaches relationships. Some girls want to wait till there's exclusivity before they have sex. Depending on her past, she might want some proof of stability befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:35 AM
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Only went on one cruise, and it was with a significant other. However we met a girl who was married yet very forward and open about wanting to swing, and said she had done it many times. She wanted a threesome with me and my gf and also to watch her husband and me, so naturally I declined, but moral of the story, people on cruises can get very wild. Just talk to and meet as many people as possible.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:42 PM
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But that's like me assuming you're a serial killer. Anybody could be anything at any time. Schrodingers cat ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:35 PM
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You kinda did if you follow the train of implications backwards. Automatically assuming someone is creepy or weird for thinking a totally rational idea makes it seem like you feel most or all men who agree with it are also creepy and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:31 PM
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No avenues of meeting women should be ditched completely in my opinion. The more options the better. Cold approach, OLD, daygame, night game, social circles, joining clubs, etc are all valid avenues to meet people, with results varying for everyone. I will say though, that OLD doesn't work the same for everyone, and should NOT be your only avenue of meeting women, especially if you're not conventionally attractive. You can bolster your profile of course by working on yourself (working out, level…
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:02 AM
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Very important question that hasn't been asked/answered yet: how old are each of you??
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:19 PM
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You date multiple women at a time until you find one that you like more than the others, and then you become exclusive. It's a common practice and women do this often as well. Also, this is a valid conversation to have early on in dating because some people have different views on it. Will we continue to date other people at the same time, or once you commit to a first date with one person, are you going to stop dating anyone else until/unless things come to a fully acknowledged end with the fir…
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:35 PM
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So I'm a short mixed brown guy myself, Latino and part Indian. I've had what I'd consider moderate success- several long term relationships, a handful of hookups, was married for a time, and currently dating an attractive girl now (all skinny/fit white girls if that matters). What's worked for me is my best qualities (weird sense of humor, confident friendliness, overall chill vibes) always shone through when I wasn't overthinking things. Just doing things for the sake of having a good time or a…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:23 PM
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That's the point of my comments on here, there are many different perspectives. Sure some women don't like being approached on the street, but some don't mind it and even welcome it. You mean to tell me that if the perfect man of a woman's dreams that checks all her boxes walks up and talks to her on the street, she's going to reject him just because of the approach format? I will agree that there is probably more to the story. Whether OP left out some behavior of his that wasn't favorable, or m…
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:51 PM
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It could be a cultural thing, or even a regional thing. I don't see it happen too often in my area (a liberal state mind you), but when it does no one bats an eye usually unless the guy is being obnoxious and creepy. But clearly you seem to think that the only types of people who would approach a woman out in public somehow must be lowlifes or undesirable. If that's only what you've seen personally I guess it makes sense why you'd think that way, just keep in mind that there are respectful, dece…
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:21 AM
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Lol you're trying so hard to make this an abnormal thing, to the point where you're even implying the use of the word "girls" is somehow creepy. I'm currently with someone so no need to do much street approaching at the moment, but if/when I'm back on the market, thanks for the heads up that a pretty uncommon thing has a possibility of happening lol.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:52 AM
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Sure, joining clubs is an avenue to meet people you could potentially date. It's not the only way. You're acting like it's this taboo thing to approach women in public. Countless men talk to girls in malls, coffee shops, parks etc, and countless girls are fine with it and respond favorably if it's respectful. And it's weird that you're trying to connect this to incel behavior, when actual incels would never even begin to think about approaching a girl in public, or basically any social setting. …
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:17 AM
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Sure maybe she was caught off guard and it may have come off a little weird and unexpected, but if he was respectful and didn't persist, did she really have to call security and have him banned from the mall? If they immediately banned him, she had to have made a bigger deal than it was. Seems a bit of overkill.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:12 PM
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You're right, they don't owe anyone their time or attention, which is why she was perfectly within her rights to reject him, and from what it looks like he didn't persist so should've been no harm done. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with this interaction, how else are men supposed to meet women other than approaching them? Many want to be approached, and they don't wear a sign that says "open for business" or "leave me alone", so you have to take your chances and ask. As long as your respectfu…
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:08 PM
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Buddy, I hope you understand there is no one to be upset at except yourself. Time for therapy and working through whatever emotional issues you have that don't allow you to commit but you still get upset when someone doesn't commit to you. Your friend did nothing wrong, your gf did nothing wrong, you created this entire situation and you need to figure out why you allowed it to happen.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:10 PM
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Lol "comment deleted" the feminazi couldn't handle rational ideas.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:26 PM
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By realizing that they take shits just like the rest of us. In seriousness though, you gotta ingrain in your mind that they are just human beings. They feel awkwardness, embarrassment, have their own insecurities and none of them are perfect. Once you realize they're just regular human beings, it gets easier. Spending more time around them and interacting with them in situations where you don't expect to date them also helps.
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:28 PM
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Sounds like a piece of work lol if her husband has any self-respect they will be divorced before you know it.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:17 PM
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Try therapy, seriously. If you can figure out how to like and accept yourself more, you won't feel the need to use female validation as a mechanism for that, and in return you'll come off as less needy to everyone you meet and girls will naturally be more drawn to you.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:03 PM
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That almost never works out, if it was an immediate rebound. Not sure how long it's been for them, but if they're not already hiding major issues, it won't be long till they are.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:59 PM
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Not always They often allow themselves to feel and process all the emotions right away, whereas guys constantly try to suppress the feelings and end up just feeling it for longer. If she was the one that ended things, most likely she has been over it for awhile already.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:56 PM
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You make peace with it by realizing that the person you were with wasn't that special. They were just a flawed human with their own problems and issues, most likely any issue they had with you stems from their own past or emotional issues, and their opinion of you doesn't define you, give you value, or really matter at all. Think of them as a random commenter on social media. Does that person's opinion really matter in the grand scheme of things? Almost not at all. It holds the same weight when …
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:37 PM
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You should visit some legal escorts if you wanna just get the virginity issue out of the way easily.
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah you do need to be patient. You went out one time, seemingly to one location and said that most of them had boyfriends anyway. You don't think you'll get better after more nights out, in new places, with more opportunities to meet single girls? Also, try to go out to places where you know there will be single people looking for casual fun. Party hostels are a great option.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:26 PM
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This is literally the best thing you can do. Always, always, always work on yourself. But also, don't do it so that you are more desirable to women, do it so that you can be proud of yourself and what you can accomplish.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:20 PM
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If I was a girl I'd talk all night about this
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:56 PM
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You're planning random hookups at 3am with strangers on tinder and you were this worried about tardiness? Hope this is a lesson for you to learn how to be wayyyyyy more chill going forward lol I wouldn't have even expected someone Ive never met to show up at that time, let alone be a catfish.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:07 PM
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Yeah he's alot different during interviews than he is when flirting/vibing with women. I've seen him flirt with doja cat, saweetie, Emma chamberlain, and he seems to come off as having a chill confidence. He doesn't really have "game" so to speak, so all the pleb girls drooling over him are definitely just mesmerized by his fame and aura, but he does have a somehwhat charismatic personality that comes through when flirting with other celebs.
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:09 PM
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Physically attractive (Tall, curly hair which is trendy right now, dresses well, beard) Confident, funny and charming Is a famous successful rapper Is a multimillionaire Pretty straightforward.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:00 AM
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I've heard theories that OLD apps often bury the less attractive people in the stack, so you only see the top 20% or so of people in your area. So they may actually be real profiles, and you're just not seeing any of the below average ones.
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:55 AM
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Lol if you think having self-respect and acceptance is "all possible positive traits on earth" and something that is only implemented by pick up artists to seduce women, I really think you're the one who needs help. Lol literally never heard someone get so upset and negative about someone else saying "be more self-assured and accepting of who you are". Hope you let go of the bitterness someday and learn to love yourself.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:37 PM
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Buddy you're not making any sense here lol. It's ok for OP to say the guy in question has nothing going for him, and is literally asking for someone to explain it, but it's not ok for someone to make an assumption of possible positive traits he might have, based on similar situations I've seen before? My whole point is that you can be an "average Joe" and get girls as long as you have the right attitude and some semblance of self-respect. I'm offering help and a perspective here, not sure why yo…
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:23 PM
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It's all about how you ask. If you say "hey umm do you think perhaps it would be ok if I kissed you" it's probably a turn off. If you're vibing and flirting and moving into her space slowly, and she's not moving away, and then you playfully say something like "what would you do if I kissed you right now", it's alot cooler and still asking consent.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:19 PM
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I'm not mad. OP made the rant and attributed zero good qualities to the person in question first, acting like it's a supernatural phenomenon that he pulls. Obviously I don't know the guy who is being described, but I've seen this story many times before. The guy who "has nothing going for him" getting all the girls. And usually, the thing that he has going for him is what I described: a chill, self-assured attitude and not caring what anyone thinks. I'm just offering a realistic perspective, so …
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:11 PM
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Focus on things about yourself that you are proud of. Skills, hobbies, accomplishments, etc. And allow yourself to feel pride about it. If you don't have anything to be proud of, time to start working on yourself. Therapy can also help with a mindset/attitude change, because if you have self-esteem issues that means for some reason you don't like yourself and are looking for external female validation. Getting to the root of why you need that external validation can help to start the process of …
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:30 PM
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Alot of people were, myself included. It's ingrained in us from childhood to be nice and obedient little boys to win the approval of the female figures of authority in our lives, namely our mothers and most teachers. We were trained to think that if we do what we're told and don't cause problems, those females will reward us. And they did for the most part. But that's not how it works when you get older. This mindset screws people in dating because while it's great for being unproblematic and we…
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:49 PM
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The fact that you're the one ranting about this while stoner dude gets the girls explains it all. He doesn't care either way, while you care way too much. Its all about his attitude and vibe he gives off. He doesn't need validation or to be liked, he just wants to do his own thing and chill. He's leaned into his personal identity and could give 2 shits what you think. Girls gravitate to this because it's the opposite of needy behavior, something that's super common among men. So even if you don'…
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:44 PM
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Perfect. Forget about her then, guaranteed at least one of those girls will end up being more fun or just better for you overall.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:10 AM
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She very well might, but you can't hold on to that hope because you'll never move on, part of you will always be waiting for that call. You have to legitimately move on to new things and new people, and basically assume and accept that you're never gonna hear from her again.
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:50 PM
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It's unfortunate, but there is often a negative bias against anyone foreign sounding. The first instinct is often for girls to think the guy with the weird accent hitting on them is a creep. Maybe try your luck in different cities. I'm not foreign sounding but I am a man of color and I've done not so great in certain cities/states (northeast, progressive areas) while doing very well in others (west coast and the south).
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:37 PM
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Totally fine if it's not what you're looking for, but just as an FYI it is a good way to open the door to other girls. If you find some female friends who you get along with platonically, they will try to set you up, bring you around their girlfriends, or at minimum if you go out with her to like clubs or bars, other girls will see you with girls and know that you're not a creep. It's one of the easiest ways to get social proof.
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:07 AM
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Jeez what a shit show in the comments. I'm just thinking about how completely reversed the sentiment would be if the opposite situation was happening. If it was a girl talking about her BF going to frat parties all the time with tons of lingerie-wearing girls, the comments would be telling the girl to leave his ass because that's disrespectful to her and unacceptable for him to be going to such parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:28 PM
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Yeah if more guys actually did this I think it's a great idea. Women just have to show up, be somewhat attractive and they're getting tons of male attention. I used to just swipe right on anyone I found sexy on OLD. Nowadays I actually read their bio and interests, even if I'm not looking for an LTR, because I want to get along with them. If you're looking for quick sex without any human interaction, there's far easier ways to do that (brothels, escorts) than trying to pick up a random girl who …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:25 PM
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Whatever you do, DON'T correct form or tell them what they should be doing different. That's the cringiest thing ever.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:11 PM
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1 sexual partner per fortnight comes out to over 100 partners in a 4 year span. That's doable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:49 PM
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Is this an open invitation? Lol you're about to become the number 1 wingwoman on Reddit.
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:31 PM
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What if the guy is great dad material and a decent person, just not someone you find particularly attractive or financially well off?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:01 PM
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This is the type of thing someone with not much sex experience outside of porn says. If you listen to current and former porn producers the only reason they care about actors with big dicks is because you can see it go in and out better on when filming. Doesn't necessarily have much to do with giving pleasure. You'd also be surprised how many girls get hung up sexually on guys with very average length dicks, simply because they know how to use them and how to find the right spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:45 AM
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Start with going on YouTube and searching for whatever the social skills you wanna learn are. Charisma on Command is a pretty good channel for learning different types of conversational skills in regards to both speaking to women and also just general social interactions.
/r/seduction19/04/22 02:11 AM
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"it starts from a place of you are not good enough, you need to be better." So do you feel that any type of self improving behavior is useless because it starts with you not being good enough? If you don't come out the womb perfect in every aspect, is life just pointless? The thing is, "game" is not built to work in the first place if you can't create a sense of self-worth. You have to find a way to believe that you are enough. If you can't create that as is, you need to improve yourself (workou…
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:48 PM
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Definitely prioritize the two hander if you can. I can't remember how many times girls have said how much they hate the one hander or the side hug.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:24 PM
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Learn how to give good hugs; not too low on the waist, not too high, and just enough firmness without hurting. Also, if hugging is too much, give high fives and also firm handshakes. Lots of guys shake a girl's hand softly because they're afraid to hurt her; trust me, you won't hurt her and it'll leave an impression.
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:49 AM
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First, focus on believing that you are good enough for any person you set your eyes on. Second, Treat her like a regular person, not like some unattainable goddess who you should thank for gracing her with your presence. If she's as attractive and high status as you say, she probably has enough dudes fawning over her. If you don't put her on a pedestal, aka do things like playful roasting, joking around, and most important don't overcompliment or try to impress her with yourself, you'll stand ou…
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:59 PM
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As a person who struggles to fight the urge of being a naturally nonconfrontational person, I can say that there are many "nice guys" who are natural people pleasers and they're not being manipulative, they would just really like to avoid any and all disagreements. There's a whole personality type centered around this: INFP, "The Mediator", the hopeless idealist who altruistically sees the good in everyone and does whatever necessary to create peace and balance. The issue with this is, they not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:35 PM
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Seeing how he's Ryan gosling, I think he'd do quite alright in the dating world. But even someone who's not a movie star with comparable looks, attitude and demeanor, he would fuck based off his physical attractiveness and the fact that he is aloof and like you said isn't looking for validation, could take it or leave it, and goes in for the kiss when he wants it. Social skills or not, he has confidence and is highly attractive physically, he's gonna do quite well.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:09 PM
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Very good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:54 PM
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Having channels to find hookups/relationships and being able to take full advantage of them are two very different things. It's not as simple as one side has kind of an easier time. The discrepancy is vast. Average women have 100+ likes in their OLD queues, inboxes full of DMs at any given time, and get approached regularly. Men almost never get approached and have to work very hard for a handful of matches and dates. If you don't see the discrepancy you're obviously paying alot of attention, pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:12 AM
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Banana bungalow in Maui Hawaii
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:12 AM
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There has been fucking out of wedlock in every generation in history. Also, this isnt available to the average men. If you're in the top 10-20% of men, yes it's much easier. But it's not like regular guys can just fire up tinder and order a hookup whenever they want, or go to a club, pick out a girl, and immediately she will go home with you. Conversely, most regular girls can fire up tinder and find a hookup almost immediately because they have a ton more options than regular guys. That's my po…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:10 AM
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The one I went to in Hawaii was in Maui called banana bungalow. Just google best party hostels in whatever country or city you wanna go to. They're everywhere!
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:54 PM
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A hostel where you party
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:09 PM
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When I went it was honestly pretty even. People come and go every day though so it fluctuates. I went during an off time (early December) so i wasn't even getting it at full potential, like spring break or summer. Most of the rooms sleep 4 to 6 people but there are some private two person rooms available. Every hostel is different I assume.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:32 PM
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Yup. You could come up with the wittiest, funniest most original bio, and if the pics are garbage, girls will just laugh and say "wish he was hotter" as she swipes left.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:45 PM
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Is this an average day for you? Or less successful than normal? Also, how much harder is night game than daygame, or is it easier?
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:38 PM
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Not necessarily. It might just be easier in some countries or areas. Domains matter to pretty much everyone except literal celebrities.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:31 PM
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I have seen this up close, can confirm. Spent 4 days at a party hostel in Hawaii last year while in a relationship. I'm a short brown dude, it was clear I was taken, yet there were at least 3 girls I met (2 German, 1 swedish) that made it abundantly clear they were down to fuck me, while others gave me "come talk to me" eyes on multiple occasions. Party hostels are the way to go for sure.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:26 PM
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Couldn't agree more. It's a catch 22, when you want girls to like you for validation, less of them will. When you do work on bettering yourself and accomplishing goals, you'll feel less of a need to validate yourself thru women, and that's when they show up. Whenever I hit dry spells recalibrate by reminding myself of this and getting back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:14 PM
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Men might not be judged overwhelmingly based on looks, but there is baseline of acceptable, and the closer you are to the baseline the more factors it usually has to be paired with (confidence, Convo skills, life status etc), whereas pretty much all a woman has to do is look good to have overwhelming male attention. I do agree though that through working on yourself and putting in some extra effort the results will be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:57 PM
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Nothing. I've mentioned in multiple comments that it could go both ways and that my scenario was an incomplete idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:30 PM
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Yup. Exactly what I'm doing. It's better than sitting around being bitter every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:27 PM
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This is an interesting thought. I was also raised and advised based on what time period my parents grew up in, which would actually line up with when you were growing up (boy crazy) and my experience ended up being not very similar at all to how I was told it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:23 PM
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For sure, which is why I questioned my own idea in the first place. It probably makes for a better movie/book idea than it does solving human desire IRL lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:18 PM
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I agree. I was never talking about men acting like creeps or perverts because they're horny. That's never ok. I was talking about the thoughts or desires coming up in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:17 PM
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Great points. There really is a disconnect in what women and men think is attractive about themselves and each other. It would also be great if these programs taught people, men and women alike, that certain shallow standards that they deem so important might not be as important as they seem, but that could also just be done through therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:14 PM
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In my idea for bought companionship, it would be like a situation from the movie Her, or Ex Machina. Where the AI is fully aware and sentient, and programmed to be your type, and you just have to be the one she sees first; which you will be if it's your purchase. Basically, it would be like you're purchasing first dibs at your perfect woman, eliminating the randomness of dating, competition and risk of getting drowned out by a sea of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:05 PM
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Of course anyone should be able to have self control to not try to act on every desire. What your mind automatically wanders to, though, based on ingrained desires, is not something you can control without extreme discipline, and borderline getting brainwashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:00 PM
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Agree highly with this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:40 PM
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😂😂 if that's the case I'm happy with my moderate, if unspectacular success
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:40 PM
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I definitely don't, that's more of a mgtow, doomer pill idea lol the buffet gives a large amount of options, meaning most options go untouched. My whole premise is more about what, if anything, would flip the script and get average men invited to their own buffet. Right now they're at McDonald's most of the time, unless they put in the work to better themselves, while women have a ticket to the buffet simply because they are women, and working on themselves significantly gets them to the steakho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:33 PM
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If I could easily fuck 90% of women then I'd probably lower my standards to the percentile just below, the 80-90 range, which still leaves me with pretty good selection, even if it's not top tier. Which is what women end up doing. Also, most high value men will date multiple women, because they can, so id say it evens the ratio a bit more. And even if those options are not exactly to their liking, women tend to be much more picky about things that in reality aren't as important as they think. Ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:18 PM
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I definitely don't believe that women don't "need" men or have all the power. I simply believe that the dating world favors them in that the average woman generally has more options than the average man, mostly because of how they are hardwired genealogically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:58 PM
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For sure, everyone has a different sex drive, especially those who have done more of it. I would say it's generally higher for men than it is for women though. Or at least we are generally less cautious about to who or how often we give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:55 PM
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I agree, the only thing that would factor would be women who want to become mothers, but even then science could fix that as well with furthering artificial insemination practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:52 PM
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Yup I agree. As I mentioned in my post men are hardwired to seek sex and companionship, it's in our DNA to have the urge to spread our seed as much as possible. Which sucks tbh, I have more important things to do why am I constantly thinking about sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:40 PM
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There would still be a need to reproduce. Unless science completely takes that over as well and more women start to artificially inseminate, and just have the perfect android man raise the kid with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:36 PM
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I agree, organized programs geared to make men better versions of themselves would be a great thing. Not these "dating coaches" on YouTube that teach pickup and mysoginist nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:33 PM
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If girls are prone to being hung up on one guy (which I agree with) that means there are less viable options out there for single men since so many are taken by their "one". And while I agree being in shape, having game, and having a cool lifestyle makes it easier, alot less men than you think have all 3 of those, or have them to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:29 PM
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Pretty much. I'd say the last time was mid 20th century when employment and financial stability heavily favored men and that was a large motivating factor for women looking for a mate. If they wanted a decent life, any man with a job was a viable option. Not saying I condone this, as it's good there is more equality in that regard, but that was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:26 PM
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It favors the top 10-20% percent of men, not men as a whole. Most men average single digit matches in their dating app queues while most average women will have 100+ likes in their pipeline at any given time. Women are approached on the street way more often than men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:23 PM
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Lots of factors depend on it, and everyone has a different opinion. I've recently seen someone get called a groomer by a lot of people because he married a 20 yr old girl at 37. Apparently even when you're a grown adult people think it's exploitative. Personally I think it's a little odd but grooming seems a bit over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:43 PM
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This. Be attractive, know how to "run game" which just means have confidence and learn how to talk to women in a way they respond to, and you're in. Only thing is sometimes in order to get confidence you need to give yourself something to be confident about, which means working on ways to improve your value (work out, learn skills, get money, etc)
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