| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 441 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay! | STRATEGY | Gallaballatime1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 01:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | Thank you thank you FDSSome men want their girlfriends/wife’s to be their therapists. He probably assumed you’d want to rescue him and be better than his ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 285 | Needle spiking in Australian clubs this past weekThis is terrorism and I don’t understand why crime that only specifically target women is never categorized as that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 02:52 PM |
| 90 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..This is foul. She has shown him evidence, repeatedly told him she can’t afford to visit him so often. Instead of paying for her trips, or visiting her instead he has her pay for half of the food when she does visit. He does not care for her. If he did. There would be a much bigger effort on his part both financially and time wise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 06:20 PM |
| 17 | What Do You Guys Think About People Playing Matchmaker?Some of my friends and family members try to set me up with LVMs, even though they know I have high standards. My best friend though will only set me up with rich, educated and good men. So whenever she recommends a guy I never say no and I give it a try. I don’t think it’s bad if you go for a look. Just so you know what type of person he’s trying to set you up with. You can also ask for more information about the guy. What does he do, his background etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 25 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay!You can do both. Some restaurants take pay right after you’ve ordered while others take it after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 82 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay!Very convenient he had to go the bathroom right when the check came. I don’t understand these kind of people. Don’t they feel any shame? It would have been much better had he said split instead of acting like a child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 167 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay!That has happened once. I was so chocked. I couldn’t believe he did that. Plus by the time he had finished my food would be arriving, it made no sense so I didn’t order anything and I left 20 minuets after wards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Automatic dealbreaker for me, but are men who use intentional misspellings lv/nv?Yes. It’s a major turn off. I once had guy call me sweat with heart emojis. The fact that a grown man doesn’t know the difference between sweet and sweat is troubling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 01:45 PM |
| 37 | My friend’s husband brags about not having a job and her paying the billsHe sounds like a child. I don’t think explaining anything to her will help her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:51 AM |
| 28 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩This is abuse! Don’t ever entertain this or find this attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:32 PM |
| 40 | "Have no expectations, then you won't be disappointed" and "Stop expecting so much" being thrown around like they'll help you.Op you’re absolutely right. “What you expect in a pattern is often a reflection of your own self esteem”. That is the truth. Pickmes have no self esteem which is why they have such low standards and expectations and get mad when another woman has high expectations and not willing to negotiate with her self worth. I’ve had those discussions with women close to me and I’ve seen how they’ve tried to humble me and convert me to their lvm loving cult. And each of those pickmes have been left incredib… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:55 PM |
| 70 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….So he’s negging her? Asshole. All my dates have been verbally negging me. This type seems long and incredibly strategic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….He told you all of that on the first date? No way! It might not be a big red sing but it’s still odd behavior. Causally telling you another the first date he finds one of the girls attractive. Then going over to sleep at the other girls house and then proceeds to invite this girl friend to your second date! That is sooo odd. I can’t put my fingers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:47 PM |
| 14 | I'm done with men shorter than meOP he sounds dangerous. How does he “found out where you live” he sounds really dangerous. And then the usuage of the word “Chad”. Start documenting this and tell people who he is his name and number because he could be a real threat to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 29 | FDS is featured on JezebelThis! They’re incredibly biased and should not be trusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:33 AM |
| 8 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.Do these men never experience shame? It’s not like LVMs are taking up all the house duties, cooking cleaning and nurturing the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 07:56 PM |
| 42 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?Male ego and negging. I know how to handle their overinflated and very fragile ego now without feeling hurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 10 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴Sounds like he wants a servant. How does he still have the entitlement to be demanding so much when he has nothing but stress to offer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 17 | NEVER 👏 STOP 👏 VETTING 👏Yes he did it. He never alerted the police and it’s so suspicious she would “disappear” right after their fight. Plus who leaves their girlfriend all alone? He did it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?No it’s not normal and I hate it when people try to normalize dangerous behavior and then act like women are not allowed to react normally to those situations. What’s there to talk about? Ask for consent first. Being slapped during sex and it’s unexpected can be incredibly scary and triggering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Welcome to FDS!Hi. Is it possible I could get a newbie flair? I’ve been commenting but because I don’t have a flair they’ve all been deleted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:31 PM |
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