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Gallbladder_Summoner/r/askMRP08/09/16 04:36 PM
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Field ReportGallbladder_Summoner/r/askMRP12/09/16 08:46 PM
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Gallbladder_Summoner/r/askMRP16/02/17 05:31 PM
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Yes, I'm lifting. Currently on Starting Strength, having switched over from Strong Lifts. Half-assing it was mostly for the first six or so months since I ran across /r/MRP, because I wasn't ready to stop being a faggot. "Quit being a fat fuck" mostly boils down to diet, which is something I struggle with. I'm getting better as I re-train myself to do constructive things, like working out, to deal with everyday stress rather than destructive things, like buying shit I don't need and eating. Than…
/r/askMRP16/02/17 09:59 PM
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Yes, that's correct. Communicating without directly stating it with words.
/r/askMRP16/02/17 07:00 PM
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I don't describe it in the post, because sidebar. Edit: also go read the post I linked to in the OP, he says is better than I could. Cliff-notes Less: "Wouldst m'lady care to make passionate love?" More: kino, playful teasing, leading conversations in a sexual direction through double entendre, ass grabs/smacks, 10 second kisses, suggestive body language, etc...
/r/askMRP16/02/17 06:51 PM
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You're right, it is a start. That's why I posted this here, instead of /r/MRP. Sex with my wife, or anyone else for that matter, isn't a part of my MAP, because there's too much risk of turning a sex-based goal into a covert contract that distracts from real improvement. Realizing that, by and large, you can get sex from your wife by just asking for it the right way is a stepping stone on the path to abundance mentality. Knowing that you can get it makes DGAF easier, so you initiate more, get mo…
/r/askMRP16/02/17 06:05 PM
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I took a similar approach with my wife this year; my first since I found MRP, and since I started seriously controlling finanaces. I got my wife a gag-gift, along with a few candies and a card from the dollar store. Probably about $20 invested, plus the time invested in producing the gag-gift. Delivered it, when she caught on with the gag we both laughed our asses off for a good five minutes, literally. She got to brag to her girlfriends about what a jackass I am, I got genuine enjoyment out of …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 06:29 PM
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I am certainly not going to improve by going to gym or asking my boss for extra work during my lunch break. Fixed it for ya.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 09:46 PM
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Cut a hole in a box. Put your junk in the box. Have her open the box. That's the way you do it.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 03:07 AM
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Nothing wrong at all with manscaping. First time I did it, it was my wife's idea; when she said "I'm more likely to put my mouth places that aren't hairy" it convinced me to try it. I've since taken to it and prefer the feel of nearly trimmed and shaved sack. I use a different safety razor for that, too. Still fits the definition of metro, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 06:41 PM
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...but there was something different about this incident that I can't quite describe." At a swanky joint where you've reported getting solid passive dread through waitresses hitting on you, which presumably have turned into minor shit tests, which you passed, and helped get you laid. Perhaps I'm misreading some of this, but i wonder if it was the personal nature of the attack from her, combined with what may very well be a covert contract wherein you expected to get softballs and turn them into …
/r/askMRP26/01/17 02:29 PM
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I was going to ask if you are retarded, but then I looked at your post history and answered my own question. DO NOT SEEK LEGAL/FINANCIAL ADVICE FROM ANNONYMOUS RANDOM PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET Find a local financial advisor/lawyer that you are comfortable with. Get their opinion on the matter. Do what he tells you to do. Profit. I'm guessing its going to be some form of LLC or something similar, where incomr from the properties gets rolled back into the business, not to be touched as income until l…
/r/askMRP26/01/17 02:08 PM
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"Get a hobby and stop being boring!" - MRP Starts "old school" shaving as a hobby. "This hobby is ghey!" - MRP Lol, haters gonna hate. for those of you who've never tried a straight or safety razor, it doesn't have to be as labor intensive as described; I've been doing it for about a year now, and it really only takes about 5 minutes in the morning. Granted, I don't get the baby's butt smooth, delicately masculine skin described here, but it's on par with cartridge razors and FAR more cost effec…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 01:52 PM
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I'm late to the party here, but have personal experience with a similar situation. Story time There are a lot of solid responses already in the comments, so I won’t directly give you advice. However, I’ll leave you with a few things I learned from a similar situation that happened with my wife a few years back, hopefully you’ll be able to learn from my mistakes. I have one guy friend who in common parlance would be called my BFF, though the truth is it’s deeper than that. We’ve known eachother f…
/r/askMRP18/01/17 08:18 PM
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As above, don't wait until bedtime, initiate soon after you get together. Keep it interesting, too; kitchen table, couch, in the shower, find a deserted side street or parking lot right after you pick her up, etc... Wife and I both work full time effectively 1st shift; hard-nos are much more likely if I wait until 8-9 hours before wake up time to initiate. She's tired and has decided to sleep, so I've gotta be very aggressive to change her mind; I'm tired, so I'm less likely to be motivated to p…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 05:32 PM
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Your circumstances make this difficult due to the irregularity, but I'd still give a tracking app a try; you may be able to spot some sort of larger pattern over a longer period of time, given the data. I use the Clue app to track my wife and there are a lot of extra variables, such as mood, emotionality, occurrence of sex (don't be spreadsheet guy, however), and so forth.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 10:28 AM
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Up-vote for the Starting Strength recommendation; I got the Kindle edition first, then picked up a hardcover copy for Christmas to add to the home library; it really is a reference book and should be treated as such.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 02:19 AM
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Piss off, boot.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 06:37 PM
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I'm in a similar place, been on SL5x5 using the app. The progression is slow in order to give you time to get the form right before you have to deal with heavy weight. I'm almost 2 months in and am just getting to the point where some of the lifts are truly difficult; is hard to be patient, but if you stick with it, it will come. Check out the book Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe and look him up on YouTube for videos. I started the book last week, and have watched a few of his videos, and it …
/r/askMRP23/11/16 11:50 AM
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The car is stretching my budget more than I like; bought it for work, because outside sales, but foolishly got more car, dollars wise, than I really should have. Mentioned it here because last week I had planned to try to kill the debt by selling off some assets, but am revising my plan since getting out from under the payment is unrealistic for the time being due to being more upside down than I expected. On the bright side, my credit is improving, in part due to the car loan payment history.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 02:09 PM
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Late 30s, married 6 yrs to late 30s F. 2 kids, 10 & 8 from previous marriage, not with current wife. Completed reading: NMMNG Currently reading: WISNIFG 21%, The New Strategic Selling 18%, The Primal Blueprint 25% Queued Reading: MAP, NMMNG w/exercises, MMSLP, Money Makeover Fitness – unsat. Officially joined the new gym, much happier so far. This week starting the habit of 0500 wakeup & immediate gym time. Going well so far, it’s dead empty at that time of the morning. Started SL5x5 over from s…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 06:39 PM
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If you remove your presence and affection from your wife expecting a reaction from her related to that action, then you don't understand dread. Maybe we disagree, or maybe I'm just shit at explaining the ball of yarn that's in my head, but this is exactly backwards of what I'm getting at. I'm not advocating taking action (removing presence, etc...) in order to elicit a reaction from your wife (being pleasant). That's the definition of a covert contract, is blatantly manipulative, and just genera…
/r/askMRP14/09/16 06:29 PM
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Indeed it is.
/r/askMRP14/09/16 02:07 PM
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Take away #2 needs to die in a fire for MRP to be successful. You want your SO to desire you. Desire can't be negotiated. All transactions have an overt or covert component understood by the parties as "the deal." Although we discourage covert contracts and things like choreplay, what is a relationship if not a contract between two people wherein both contribute to the relationship, according to mutual expectations? What are marriage vows, if not a "deal" between husband and wife to do what husb…
/r/askMRP14/09/16 02:05 PM
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I think you hit on the truth, here. When my wife and I started dating I was in the military, gaining rank ahead of my peers, and gung-ho to do 20+ and retire. Since then I've made some decisions that went a direction I'm sure she did not anticipate, and I'm equally certain that she resents me for it and perhaps regrets hitching to my wagon to some degree or another.
/r/askMRP14/09/16 01:17 PM
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I wish I could. Time with her is not fun. 1) make it fun; 2) make it about you, not her. The entire post you wrote is about her. Her attitude, her shit tests, how you are trying to find the right way to respond to her, etc... Seriously, go back and read through your post and count the shes, hers, wifes, etc... Whether you did it consciously or not, everything you wrote, and quite possibly your whole weekend of "fun me time that I just happened to to invite to wife along for" was, in fact, all ab…
/r/askMRP12/09/16 04:37 PM
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Please study everything about frame. Getting baited into an argument, when she's intentionally creating highs and lows, because the drama turns her on, makes no sense. She wants some passion from your boring ass. She's begging you to take some control. Have you tried hitting her back, first? Most women won't admit it, but they all crave the emotional roller coaster that /u/RuleZeroDAD mentioned here. If they aren't getting their fix they create drama to get it. Fuck with her emotions, make it a …
/r/askMRP12/09/16 04:14 PM
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I am going to either have to accept my wife for who she is and live out my days constantly sparring without cessation or move on without her. Your woman IS your sparring partner! Testing your fitness as a man is her job, ingrained by millennia of evolution. Even if you get the pinnacle of manly achievement, she will still test you because it's her nature to do so. Accept that, use it as a tool to improve yourself, and for the love of Gingy have some fun with it. I think this idea that molding my…
/r/askMRP12/09/16 04:00 PM
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Appreciate the feedback; you're right, I have a lot of work to do. Are you recommending reading MAP ahead of my second, in depth read of NMMNG? Make sense, since I gotta have a plan before I can execute it. Lot's to read, but that was one of my motivators for no-fap. I used to waste an unbelievable amount of time looking at porn, which I'm now using for reading or otherwise being productive.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 03:14 PM
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Thanks for the vote of confidence; I'll consider revisiting this in a few weeks once I'm a bit further along and have had some time to ruminate on it some more.
/r/askMRP12/09/16 03:02 PM
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Funny how you post this question on the very sub that has already answered it.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 05:37 PM
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I touched on it briefly here, but there have been quite a few posts on the main sub recently that go into congruence - the concept that our external behavior and manner should be the same, or at least closely in sync with, our internal self - in some capacity, and I think that lack of congruity is what trips up the guys who can't bring themselves to "dread" their wives. Incongruence – disharmony between our external and internal selves – is frame-cancer, and women are experts at spotting it. Reg…
/r/askMRP09/09/16 12:36 PM
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On reflection, you may be correct. Years ago, before finding the Locker Room, and likely around the time the newer movie came out, I had a habit of responding to questions with "42" just to be a dick. in hindsight I may have been on to something, without realizing it.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 11:48 AM
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I know I'm a decent writer when I put my mind to it, so the necessary quality with respect to the words is there, but I was iffy on the content of the post. I did clean it up when I posted it here, but this is literally a journal entry I wrote a few days ago in order to carry my thoughts to completion. Since I'm new here - this is my first stand-alone post, and my second if you count my OYS entry for this week - I figured it would most appropriate to post it in the beginner sub where the questio…
/r/askMRP09/09/16 11:45 AM
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I am absolutely being selfish, no doubt about it; I journaled about this topic last weekend after I was at the store shopping for groceries and encountered an unkempt hipstery dude with tons of holes in his face and kid in tow rocking a "happy wife happy life" tee shirt and immediately thought to myself "faggot!" I thought about it further, and other than outward appearances and the phrase on his shirt, how do I really know that he's not on point and owning his shit? What if he's wearing it sarc…
/r/askMRP08/09/16 05:07 PM
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Thanks for the feedback and encouragement; I'd like to say that it wasn't deliberate, but the wall of text I wrote, then edited before posting, contained a lot more "her". I realized, though, that she isn't the point, and nobody here cares unless it's contextually relevant information. I do need to work on being more succinct, though. By hamstering I'm guessing you're referring to how much effort I put into the justification and reasoning behind the decisions I've made? Would you mind expounding…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 04:52 PM
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Late 30s, married 6 yrs to late 30s F. 2 kids, 10 & 8 from previous marriage. Been at it seriously about 2 weeks, lurked several months under a different /u/ before this. Completed reading: NMMNG Currently reading: WISNIFG, Sell or Be Sold, The Primal Blueprint Queued Reading: NMMNG w/exercises, MAP, MMSLP First post and OYS attempt following the 60 Days of Dread format. Fitness – unsat. I’m not grotesquely overweight and out of shape, but I’ve become a moderately-sized food blister. Stayed acti…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 04:26 PM
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