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Us understanding, accepting, providing praise is inherently blue pill. That is validation seeking behavior. Live for the merit of living and lead.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:20 AM
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As some may have already suggested if you’ve broken up with your ex get either yourself or her out of the house. Nothing good can come from sharing the space any longer.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 02:33 AM
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This one hundred percent. Read and learn; this man has walked the walk.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:47 AM
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Is that you Aleister Crowley?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:12 AM
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I think for you this thread is going to be very valuable. Keep watching it. Much of the problem with the sub is that for many we look at TRP as sexual strategy rather then what it really is: redefining what it is to be a man. The minute I stopped focusing on women was the minute I suddenly had them again in my life. Focus on your goal first; the rest will follow.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:09 AM
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Greetings and thanks for your post! I've taken some time away from this sub and I think it's done me a lot of good, but like yourself I have returned to contribute. Unfortunatley most will largely disagree with you as they view TRP not as theory but as gospel. This is good for those just starting out but it does not adress long term dating perspectives where the goal is partnership not sex. Thus, for most, life post TRP becomes one where love is impossible. Frankly I find this to be a rather col…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:59 AM
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I think this goes back to how you rank women. For me it's not just looks but their mental headspace as well. No looks, sex or anything makes up for bad hormones and mental instability. It's never worth it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:41 AM
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Just don't forget this key detail: They are of able to live in this make believe world because we have let them. Take back what is yours.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:37 AM
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You my friend understand the tremendous value of effective leverage. I wonder, when you say you broke her did she actually catch herself and reflect or is she now just a mess? Well played sir. Well played.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:33 AM
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Problem is not you at all, however I'd draw the line at the point you find out. You should never be attracted to an out and proud slut. Sure mistakes happen but if she's doing it consistently and openly she's a bad person. Get involved with a girl like that at your own peril.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:26 AM
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Yea I agree with you. I wouldn't be in the bathroom I'd be climbing out the window. You got real lucky there, God help any man I catch with any woman I'm dating. Sure she should have known better and perhaps it was an honest mistake but if I walk into my girls house and see you making yourself at home there's a good chance your getting thrown down a flight of stairs. To many emotions in one room, next time it happens get out and get our fast.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:21 AM
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I would feel bad for her too. Sounds like she has more hormones then brains.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:15 AM
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A very interesting observation. I've actually taken step back from this sub as of late as (I felt I was becoming too cynical) and your comment articulates why very well. For many we are chasing what does not exist. Furthermore, we encourage an existence which is entirely self dependant. Sure you'll get laid but you miss put on what is really the point of all of this work - potential partnership. Incidently, once you start going after these fuck yes women you start to realize that this goal isn't…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:09 AM
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I think this would also be a positive step for me as I can think of very few reasons not to attempt it. I'm in.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 01:57 AM
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You my friend are thinking. It matters very little how intelligent the woman is. What matters is her capacity to enter your frame as good partners are made not found. Furthermore, I'm immediately suspect of anyone I date who seems to be thinking on my level. Your comment on nerosis vs. emotional stability is also noteworthy but is something that can be very difficult to pin point in a first date/meeting.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 09:26 PM
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As far as it concerns the red pill community you need to understand that first and foremost it exists to foster better men. Sexual strategy comes second and is no substitute for frame. Of course it is a bit of a misnomer to say build it and they will come, but this is more of an exaggeration then anything else (and not indicative of the underlying theory). You build a house from it's foundation.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:53 AM
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I see your point and it's what I've come to the conclusion of myself. Onwards and upwards as someone once said. Thank you for the perspective, unlike others I do have a solid foundation I just need to explore my options much the same as I need to with women.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 05:46 PM
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This is a good thought thank you.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 05:40 PM
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I had the thought that this was perhaps the wrong mindset and is likely what I've struggled with. Being out of the SMP for eight years has me rethinking alot of things. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:39 PM
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Semi related: You seem to have your head screwed on right as you are obviously dealing with some high level work. Perhaps then you can provide me some feedback. When I started college I initially went for a degree in computer science. In my case the math on the curriculum actually washed me out of the program so I did what most in my situation would do: I switched majors. Luckily this was into economics which I think gives me a better foundation then IT alone. Incidentally my career path hasnt c…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 09:44 PM
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Where it concerns martial arts stick to what actually works. If you want the real deal do a walk in: watch to see if the venue chosen encourages or discourages full contact mat work. If it does not walk as it is not worth your time. Case in point I shattered my lower leg in this art a year and a half ago. Everyone told me to walk and not go back. Incidentally this is also when I took my first red pill. I went back.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 09:26 PM
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My issue as well. I've now canned the drinking and am keeping smoking to weekends but I do agree with you it does kill your frame.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 11:17 AM
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A man is as great as his weakest link.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:59 AM
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I'm not sure if this is one of the better contributions I've read on this sub or if you have simply become bitter. Regardless I will echo what another has said in that it is likely that you are on the cusp of swallowing your second red pill. Now I'm not about to engage in a dialogue as to why my thoughts matter or why I should be viewed as credible. Like yourself I care little for upvotes and even less about what others think. What does interest me is you have unwittingly posed a very important …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:51 AM
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This is what I think the OP has missed: that the RedPill in it's advanced stages is a game of power. I very much enjoyed your perspective and will read your post.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:19 AM
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I've made a few replies on this thread already. My responses will of course anger some but I do not advocate bringing TRP values to those who have not come here on their own volition. I am thus delighted that you have provided some additional perspective: that in instances of depression, anxiety panic attacks etc, this kind of knowledge isn't what is first needed. What is needed is a love of self and a feeling of acceptance. This is not TRP but basic mental health - something I've touched on in …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:05 AM
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For the vast majority already here this isn't a happy place. It is simply another perspective, a way to look at the world with honest logic and reasoning. The picture it paints however is darker then most realize and is a core reason why I never advocate showcasing the community to the uninitiated. One must find it on their own terms. Until then we should focus on shoring up our theories and debates so that when more and more people make it to our door they are able to learn at their own speed.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 04:51 AM
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I hate to be this person but some people cannot and will never be able to get it. I mean look at it this way: what brought you to this community? For me it wasn't just a bad experience (of groping) but the systemic breakdown of my entire life. I literally lost everything - all of it to the detriment of myself and for the explicit purpose of keeping another's frame together (after I had long abandoned my own). Before this point you could not have opened the door for me as intelligent as I may be.…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 04:42 AM
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There's a lot of shit being spread around here but a lot of solid information as well. Thank you OP; I'm a 160 pound 6 foot 3 martial artist and I have both been drinking to much and not getting enough carbs. This (and information from the rest of the comments) actually makes a good deal of sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 09:44 PM
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I unfortunately have to agree. When I shattered my lower leg in a martial arts accident I wasn't the same for almost a year. Mentally and physically. Martial arts is for everyone but not everyone is for martial arts.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 09:31 PM
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Don't agree with this at all. I view relationships as a contract much like in business. It's an exchange; don't want the constraints? Don't make promises you won't keep. It doesn't matter if she still engages in hypergamy you do it for yourself and hold her to the same standards.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:37 AM
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You don't find good women you create them.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:34 AM
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Everything here down to the comments (most of them) are solid. I will humbly make the suggestion that there is another element at play. Indeed, while the OP is spot on with the AF/BB categorization I'd argue that it's not as simple as branch swinging to a more attractive partner. Instead, women like to play games, and the moment you stop leveraging power over the dynamic is the exact same moment she will play someone else's game. To term it as simple hypergamy is part of the reason many have con…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:14 AM
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A very astute comment. I think I will write this one down. Gives a great deal of credence to proving your worth through social proof and frame and not through running your mouth. This places her in the position of having to live up to your own non overt expectations (she has to keep guessing) instead of the other way around. Women like to play games after all; might as well let them have their fun but on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:04 AM
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People use Reddit for a variety of reasons and while I'd agree with you that a persons post history is indicative of their frame it isn't proof of it either. Despite this, I (like you probably are) am amused by the conversation being had here as you gave us a very simple example of an approach. (something many have continuously asked for) Thus it is rather remarkable that you are bashed because it wasn't complicated enough. I think the problem is that some people don't understand why they are he…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:51 AM
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An excellent reply. This is exactly what the red pill is and what the above poster needed to hear. There are far to many people who view TRP as pure sexual strategy - a contributing factor to why this movement gets the bad rep that it does.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:38 AM
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While this was a rather simple example I completely agree. Despite this, I don't think women are explicitly looking for men with frame (in fact I'd argue they don't have the first clue what they want) but are more or less looking to take the path of least resistance to satisfy their biological imperatives.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:34 AM
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"There is no ‘ system ‘ for teaching or learning Game. None. The process is highly individualized and virtually no two guys will learn at the same rate, achieve the same level of understanding or real world application. There are no cheat sheets in game. You either get it, apply it and internalize it, or you don’t. It’s not about picking up women in clubs. That’s the realm of PUA. Game picks up chicks at a funeral." Anonymous. Basically you practice game everywhere and from the moment you wake u…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:24 AM
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A great submission but I'd be interested in how you use your time after you have woken up early. Would you recommend physical activity or intellectual activity?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:18 AM
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A substantial and much needed contribution to this sub. Unlike much of what I read here these days you managed to get to the root of what the Red Pill is: that this isn't simply theory for sex, for her, or for the SMP but for your own personal life. I really have nothing else to add: Well done and please keep writing. I would however change the title of your posting to something more along the lines of, "notes on frame" as your current heading is (to a degree) a little misleading.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:11 AM
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I hear both sides of this one, and I've actually done a few write ups myself on how mental illness and inter-gender interaction is correlated. Of course there's a great deal of oneitis being depicted in the OPs contribution but it doesn't discredit what is here: that we need to consider more then just AWALT when we discuss this topic.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:52 AM
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This is one of the best comments I've read on this sub. The more shit you go through the better prepared you are - something we all need to remember. Pain is temporary; pride is forever.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:15 AM
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At the same time I find it rather demoralizing. All that wasted time, all that wasted energy. It's all complete nonsense. And yes I get the amused mastery part of the equation but if it's this bad now just imagine how much further society is going to fall. But I digress as this is not the forum for this conversation, and more to the point you've made an excellent post - I just don't find it funny. It's tragic. Still have to play the game with them though:P
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:12 AM
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An excellent take on monk mode. I had it defined as simply removing myself from the SMP and lifting but this is far more detailed and a great deal more useful. Keep writing.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:04 AM
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That would imply targeting one specific woman? See my issue is once you do that and say you mess up, and you continue to mess up a reputation is then earned. Most of the theory here seems to make approaches out to be a numbers game. Targeting one girl would seem to be very blue pill to me. Still I'm currently focusing on getting my blue belt (with lifting of course) and getting out of the hole I'm in work wise.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 12:41 AM
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I live on a very remote island. So small that everyone literally knows everyone - this has created a tight knit blue pill community. With this in mind how does one play the numbers game in this situation? For example if one resets (I prefer in person interaction) tinder there are perhaps 50 women before you run out of perspective matches. This means you gain a reputation (good or bad) very quickly and as I have to work one must be mindful of this fact. Thus, something tells me I will eventually …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 09:47 PM
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I think you are tapping into a substantial insight. I had never thought of it this way.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:42 AM
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To often do I read substance use discussions on this sub from people who don't even understand what it is they are ingesting. You on the other hand have done your homework. Alcohol is by far the CRUDEST of drugs known to man - it's essentially a liquid benzodiazepine with a very very very window of efficacy. Still I agree with you that it's a tool. A tool that should be treated with an abundance of caution. The question still remains... can it be effectively used at all? I don't think it can unl…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 06:18 AM
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Equality comes up a lot but it all boils down to power. This is something Tomassi talks about quite a bit, and while you are correct that the sexs are different the outlier is in each sexes ability to leverage this power. Men are biologically predisposed to be better wielders and this is a simple fact, a fact any martial artist, fireman or police officer will attest to. This is not to say that women have no power but a man with frame, confidence and physical ability will turn a woman into his su…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:58 AM
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The end game is and will always be amused mastery. How you reach it is subjective but inner game is simply the means.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:53 AM
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is by far one of the most important lesson to be taken from RP theory. If you're not ready to walk you will be walked over. This is how I ended up taking the pill. For me it was for the reason that I sacrificed my frame in the pursuance of what I thought was honor.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:40 AM
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Then stay far away from festivals. Oh and the Dead.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:26 AM
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I think he does make a fair point but this has been my experience after college not during. It was a joke getting laid in college. An absolute joke.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:23 AM
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You sir have both talked to talk and obviously walked the walk. Safe travels friend.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:20 AM
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To echo another comment this is a really excellent breakdown. I didn't exactly buy the original post as it was lacking detail but your explanation is extremely clear and concise. I will however add, because it wasn't mentioned in the OPs original post, that a RP aware man is not just defined by SMV and the tactics he uses. Neither is he solely defined by his attitude towards women. RP men have a mission first and foremost; a goal which almost always is in pursuit of being the best you can at wha…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:08 AM
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Probably shouldn't be getting with them if your drunk then either. Intoxication doesn't absolve you of responsibility in a car and it doesn't as far as intersexual dynamics are concerned either.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:53 AM
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You go to a bar to do one of two things. Drink and or make connections. In my book you can't do both at the same time. Just because someone is intoxicated doesn't mean they are not in the same room as you or off the SMP. To each is there own however; I wouldn't go to a bar sober either, but I've never applied game there either.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:51 AM
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I find this almost too far fetched to believe. Actually I don't believe it - with a decent attorney you shouldn't even need to be tested for substance use. This strikes me as illegal. Can the women charge you? Certainly. Is she going to be suspicious of you because you are sober at a club? Absolutely. Can that become a conviction? Not if you obtain competent legal counsel. Further, on the basis of this logic it implies that you've already made it to the point where your being stuck with a bogus …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:47 AM
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There's not that much of a difference. We are talking 3 drinks. I suppose you are talking differing rates of consumption but five is hardly enough to put you in the ground.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:37 AM
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And when in combination the two are lethal.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:35 AM
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This begs the question as to if bars/nightclubs are appropriate places for game to begin with. To quote, "There is no ‘ system ‘ for teaching or learning Game. None. The process is highly individualized and virtually no two guys will learn at the same rate, achieve the same level of understanding or real world application. There are no cheat sheets in game. You either get it, apply it and internalize it, or you don’t. It’s not about picking up women in clubs. That’s the realm of PUA. Game picks …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:34 AM
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Yes and no; by design society is actually against you especially if one considers the economic "frame" we ALL exist in. That said there's a lot to be taken here. Focusing on yourself is very important but few people truly get what that means. However don't be so quick to discredit theory. A martial artist doesn't learn to fight on his own.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:34 AM
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I'm not really trying to make any assumptions but point it that it is now an accepted state of mind. More importantly because of neo feminism it has reinforced the use of an excuse card that you brought up in your response. I realize there are holes in my logic but it seems like something which might benefit at least someone. Finally, there are distinctive benefits to viewing RP through a lens of psychology as was indicated in the post.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 06:11 PM
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This is where I agree with the OP. You always plan ahead - with the laws on the books as they stand and psychopathic traits clearly evident, you'd be a fool not to. Just don't engage in drama with her; if anything get an attorney if the situation warrants. Don't play her game.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 12:45 AM
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At most it's a good general description of psychopathy. At minimum it's a field report of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 12:42 AM
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I applaud your dedication to task, however like many here have already stated you wasting your time. Despite this I'll bite: you are not dealing with a narcissist (as your description of Wendy does not fit the diagnosis) but an individual displaying clear indications of psychopathy. Even this however would require more evidence but the dark triad behavior is very evident. These women cannot be controlled and are extremely dangerous. There is also nothing covert to what she is doing. In fact it's…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 12:40 AM
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Probably one of the better field reports I've read in a little bit - I found it very useful as incidentally I've been a little out of the loop for the past week (resurgence of anger and guilt) and thus, I defiantly needed this to reflect on where I need to be. Moving on you hit this one out of the park: you understand one hundred percent as to what you need to do, how you need to do it and how it applies to underlying redpill theory. As for the girl calling you out on your sexuality this was act…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 11:47 PM
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I have a fair bit of background on this subject. I found it curious that you mentioned economics as the root cause for the above, made some arguments about mega corps (and their valuations) but then brought it squarely back to capitalism. The first part of your discussion was excellent: economics is the number one problem we face as a planet right now. But everything you mentioned is a direct consequence of monetary policy (and fiscal stimulus) not as a result underlying the underlying economic …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 11:51 AM
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And I'm in the second most remote place in the world... there is probably something to be said about location.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 10:58 AM
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That's a pretty grim assessment of things.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 10:47 AM
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I've always subscribed to the thought that the least said is the most said but you have perfectly cemented my thought that this sort of action needs to be intuitive. You just as another poster mentioned need to plan out your interactions beforehand (at least the theory and reasoning aspect of it)
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:01 AM
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It can be said they don't have a plan. That can certainly be said. I also share your bleak outlook in the future, but for more reasons then stated. Of course, Strong men are what this planet needs but we also need strong women. Instead the world has turned into an elaborate game where only a select few have true agency. We need not look any further then monetary policy; an abomination if ever anything of the sort existed. For now TRP theory will help us survive in this world but there will come …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:56 AM
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I think it's a waste of time. It's better to start high and continue to aim high. If it isn't working it's you. Maybe there is a deficit that you need to correct. Most of the time this is due to an incorrect appreciation of theory and/or not applying it not looks. Looks do matter but the more and more I think about it what women find attractive is power. Look around you: there's not a single long term relationship which has existed due to looks alone. Man needs to do his reading then use what he…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:36 AM
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I'll be sure to let you know when I make the submission. Generally speaking I do comment more then I contribute (directly) as I want to be sure I have something relevant to say before I decide to simply speak. I also want to make sure what I say is coherent. What I do think I am going to build on is my original concept of there being a correlation between SMV and predictability. Perhaps I will go into greater depth as it concerns mental instability as you go down the scale. I also want to speak …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:23 AM
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I'd be foolish to disagree with what you've stated but what you've mentioned is more of an extension of what I've stated for some very clear reasons. While you could say plan b is always going to be fucking chad, to most women that option is always there. Yes it's a product of short term "thought" but it's also a direct derivative of biology. This would imply (using your logic) there is no agency as to a woman's ability to plan; that they are simply not capable of it. Indeed in the example you m…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:03 AM
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A very intelligent response. I cannot argue with Aristotle, and again I do not completely discredit military service but you do lose much of your agency. If this is ultimately what you want then fine but to me it is in conflict with everything TRP. That said for some this is not an ideal existence to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:22 AM
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I know a lot of people here will point to alcohol as a tool but I find it to be in conflict with everything Red Pill. Other substances certainly have their place but alcohol has to many negatives to justify its use. Bravo to you for coming to this realization.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:19 AM
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A simple concept to be sure but I like how you've explained this as it's something I would have benefited from in previous years. Unfortunately I was to afraid to act on it. As the saying goes he who needs the other more has the least amount of power in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:14 AM
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I could not disagree more with the statement that universities are not for learning. Depending on the school the education you receive can be quite substantial but it isn't what you find in the classroom which has merit but what occurs outside of it. There is value in everything with the right perspective. Of course everything also comes with a corresponding opportunity cost.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:06 AM
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And in the process lose all agency you have. The military doesn't give you power it gives you your mission. If one wishes to be a man, they simply need to make their own decisions and not succumb to the will of others. This is not to discredit the need for a standing army but to point out the hypocrisy of joining for this reason.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:01 AM
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You've brought up some interesting points: really if you don't want to do something don't do it. Despite this, I do think you've had a bad experience with medicine especially if psychiatry and or psychology was your expected path. It's not a glorious field and generally speaking the tools utilized in patient treatment can often make matters worse. A very sad state of affairs. Your talents will be better served elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:57 AM
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And most of them want to be caught.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:49 AM
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I really like this submission, if at least for the fact that you quoted a fellow martial artist. If there's one item I disagree with however is that a woman will sacrifice the long term for the short term. While this may be true in certain instances, if we were to "become the water for a second" I don't think that most women would agree. In fact, because of how society is constructed and due of never ending existence of the beta man they will always have a plan B.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:47 AM
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AWALT is a bit of a misnomer as all women are not explicitly the same. What they are however is similar and the closer you get to what is subjectively a HB10 (it doesn't exist) you will find expertise in areas such as hypergamy, shit testing ad etc. Conversely the lower you go the less developed these items are and in their place is often uncontrolled insecurity. We men are creatures of logic and reasoning: the higher up the food chain you go the more you can utilize this skill set. Conversely t…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:30 AM
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This is why I think it has to be an impulsive action but there's disadvantages associated with this. Perhaps one simply needs to be better at reading an individual on the fly, but one of my stronger characteristics is thought.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 10:32 PM
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An honest question as it's not really been addressed enough for my liking: when you feel the need to game a girl should this be impulsive and without thought or should some time be spent thinking? I can see merits to both.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 09:48 PM
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The problem isn't just time but sanity. Before I took the plunge that was my number one issue: the mental health of my significant other consuming my own frame. Of course all women by default are consumed by these emotions but one must be careful to not bite more then he can chew. A mans place is to provide certainty and security. With some people this is simply not possible and that's why I gravitate towards women who are physically better looking then myself. Your appearance is very indicative…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 09:25 PM
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I don't see how we are working ourselves into pop culture as that's not what is really taught here. Further if that's the impression you take from the community then I'm sure I echo others with the statement "fair enough". We aren't here to give you a silver bullet but at the same time I think there is good portion of content which is simply noise and not representative of underlying theory. Take everything with a grain of salt and keep on keeping on. You do the work you get the results.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 09:19 PM
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I will hopefully be turning this thought into a post of its own in the next few days. I tend to think very logically and have absorbed much of what is here and in the literature over the span of three months. I'm what you'd call an active observer, and have spent a lot of my time people watching, reading the experiences of others and patiently expanding my social circle, business activities and getting back into martial arts. We all have our reasons for being here, and if you are in a position t…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:28 PM
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In terms of interpersonal dynamics there is no such thing as something which is completely predictable. Further, I think the entire SMV metric is more or less useless if and when it is used in absolute terms. Therefore, you are left with some indicators of predictability: looks, perceived experience, social flow etc. Additionally with the advent of the internet and Facebook it is easier then ever to gain additional information on a particular woman before you even meet her (if you have lead time…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:01 PM
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The unfortunate truth is that to those still plugged in we look like some of the most vile and manipulative individuals on the face of the planet. I mean think of it in their terms: instead of letting "the magic of love" and being yourself dictate intergender dynamics we are in an almost psychopathic manner conning women through pick up artistry and inflated egos. Of course while not true What they will never get is that some of us are here due to the tremendous betrayal we felt when we found ou…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:16 PM
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The "I've seen it before..." is exactly the item you capitalize on. It's a perfect application piece for amazed mastery as you too have seen it all (and you find the behavior consistent). Thus, not only does this provide something you can measure (and act on) it presents a much more mailable individual once you've moved passed their defenses. Not only that but they are also better relationship material (if frame is held) as ironically enough they are less likely to succumb to further hypergamy a…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:02 PM
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I really have nothing to add at this time but as an amateur psychologist (a hobby of mine) I find it curious that you use the term "soul". Thus, as you are a student of this discipline how do you actualize this concept? I know 18th century subject matter used this term quite a bit but I had thought as a whole this has become something broader called the "self". Or are they distinct? I know there are many many answers to this.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:24 AM
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"My greatest fear is not that I will aim too high and fail but that I aim so low that I succeed"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:16 AM
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I cannot echo these thoughts enough. Hard next the girl and move on with your life. Amazed mastery (the final RP step) is impossible without first obtaining an abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:12 AM
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Focus on self development, frame and an understanding of the system we all live and exist under. If you haven't already, the sidebar is a terrific resource as are the words of most of our members of the sub. There's a lot of misdirected anger here but one has to be mindful to simply ignore it. We are all in this together.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:03 AM
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Perhaps, as it's problematic to say if this was a contribution (it will ultimately be down voted) of content. At the same time I wouldn't be so quick to color this thread with remarks directed towards the OPs age as some others have.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:00 AM
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We all want to believe in "the one" and so do women. Much of the behavior we struggle with is pre programmed but the idea of love is universal. Unfortunately this concept is a lie. It doesn't exist in the terms we'd like it to.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:52 AM
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I think it's counter to what this sub stands for: the education of all men. The younger you take the dive the better prepared you will be. Do not show someone the door when they've made the effort to open it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:50 AM
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The irony behind everything you've said is that same fairytale you bought into she still lives. This is where we can leverage the theory into action as we see the world for what it is. A game.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:48 AM
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Your thought processes are well articulated, you have a relative grasp of some of the core redpill concepts and you are focused on what matters most: power and self development. Very few of us realize that we are here for more then just "slaying" and as you have correctly stated the more you dive into the concept of game the better you are at achieving results in the SMP. The reason any of this actually works is because it's very much akin to a science; where applied correctly there is a definab…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:57 AM
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When I asked myself at the age of twenty what happens to to change us so substantially as we head into our thirties I didn't realize how much of a loaded question this really was. You've hit the nail right on the head though as there is no literature targeted to pre wall women. Further much of behavioral science as it concerns psychology is aimed at getting women to "let go" - there is really nothing which exists anymore to teach our women how to be better people in general terms and it's sad.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:30 AM
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The ironic thing is that to the truly unplugged none of this matters. Remember you are not just in competition with your fellow man in the SMP but in every aspect of your life. Further, I'd even go as far as to say that the current state intersexual dynamics is a sincere advantage to us. One simply needs to understand how uneducated the masses actually are to actualize that those who take the time to mentally physically develop (in the way biology intended) gain a tremendous advantage. Remember …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 10:09 PM
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The unfortunate problem with Red Pill theory is that it is not a one size fit all philosophy. Instead, it is a blueprint for thought and expression; a map if you will. Think of it this way, you are a captain on the high seas: without a chart you may crash into the rocks, go off course etc, but with it you know what obstacles you face before they become a problem. It is however not personal, and must be measured with the "self". That is why it is ultimately up to you as to how you apply it. Thus,…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 09:46 PM
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One has to remember that the same core issue plagues the female imperative: that you can be what ever you want to be and there will be someone out there for you. This is a lie, and gets people to do far worse things the craft gender roles which best suit themselves at the time - it gets them to believe any state of existence with the right perspective can be in its own right perfection. You get nowhere in the world with a perspective like this except a slap on the face. You either keep improving…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:29 AM
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At the same time I look at this sub as a gateway. Some will come and go, but you cannot condemn his effort to get some exposure. It's always best to get the right education and not the wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 01:05 AM
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I'd say he's not even ready for the sidebar yet. At the same time though, I don't think he'd fit quite in anywhere else either leaving him at a crossroads. Thus, he either bites the bullet and gets the education he needs or he will sink. My advise to you OP... you need to flounder a bit more. Only when you realize the pain of failure will you understand what an illusion social anxiety is. You have no experience. That is at the core of your post and until you do success will elude you.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 01:02 AM
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I'd say you've missed the point. You are right men fear lack of sex but they also fear rejection - both products of our ego. Despite this, Red Pill ideology and theory is less about sexual strategy and more about the concept of power. It frees you from the normal intersexual interaction you might be conditioned to expect and places yourself as the most important person in life. Indeed at the end of the day sex is just sex - most of us here have gotten laid and there's a good chance you will get …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:38 PM
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When we finally let go of our anger and truly enter the SMP with both an open and informed mind it is shocking how predictable women actually are. Remember women communicate emotionally, and to a person who actually pays attention this can be a tremendous resource. When however she resorts to overt communication this is when amused mastery comes into application.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:29 PM
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Not the above poster but as an extension you will find that the more attractive the woman, the easier she is to game. The slightest of clues: makeup, the way they talk, walk etc, it becomes an art much like amused mastery. This is why you should never aim low as you will find that these conventions are not universal. Further, those you can predict often become the most mailable of individuals - lay count is merely another insecurity that can be leveraged. Play to a persons self esteem and their …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:24 PM
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I disagree. The entire purpose of life is power; the universal connection to everything we do, and happiness is an extension of that. If you can leverage your charm to provide this source of power to yourself or a "significant other" the possibilities are endless. The unfortunate reality is a lot of us get so caught up in the anger phase that we never make it to amused mastery. Realize there are many paths to the same goal but all of them require skill, ability and frame.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:18 PM
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I'd say they do have similarities, if only for the reason that they can be misinterpreted as the wrong item. This is a common mistake and how the OP discussed this topic is both relevant and helpful for others.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:14 PM
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These are things I need to work on myself. Wise words.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 02:40 AM
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I agree with what you've said almost one hundred percent. This is why you must not only be prepared to next any woman but also a venue that isn't working for you as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 02:37 AM
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I think you are misinterpreting my frame of reference. Ego as you have correctly stated has multiple meanings - there is blue pill ego, alpha ego and then amused mastery (when you as you say love destroying the ego). That said behavioral science will still contend ego to be the core of an individual - your self esteem, and if I am to follow your train of thought our ultimate goal then is to not have an ego? To me that is to also not have a sense of self, a goal I hardly see as being very benefic…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:54 AM
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Agreed: I feel we are debating terms which for each of us have different meanings entirely. I am speaking on the level of a sense of self, not a simple "let's just be me I love myself" sort of thing which is blue pill by definition. Part of the reason I use the term ego is because it is a term which best fits in this situation (especially given the discussion in the thread). It's a word I feel has been misused and through inter gender reeducation has become something it's not. Regardless it's al…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:46 AM
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That's the importance of ego. A strong enough ego allows you to ignore those who are smarter, taller ad etc. It enables you to exist in your frame and be confident that the tools you bring to the table will get the job done. After all, ego is your estimation of self importance and everything we talk about here is about giving yourself agency. What good is it to focus on others. Despite this I agree it cannot be the only component of ones frame but it is perhaps the most important. If you don't t…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:37 AM
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Social media is a tool of power as far as I'm concerned. Indeed If Wikipedia is at the opposite end of academic literature then social media is at the opposite end of social proof: anyone can say anything without restraint and they are often free from the burden of proof. It is neither reliable nor useful for anything other then stirring the social pot. But I'd disagree that we have little to worry about, as we are all here (or should be) due the breakdown of what was once a more equal SMP. Wome…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:33 AM
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I do not disagree and simply view ego as a broader construct then most. Before you love others you must love yourself, and when your ego breaks so does your frame. No ego and confidence should not be confused but it is a core component of abundance mentality and an essential requirement in plate spinning.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:19 AM
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I disagree. These people largely come and go. All of us here can differentiate between those who get it and those who don't and that's the point. It's like black and white alpha and beta. It's so obvious, and it's equally so to women, that one might as well hold up a sign. Despite this I think those who actively participate here do so for another reason entirely: a desire for power. A need for agency. TRP should not be sex focused but a way to give men more choices in there lives to give them a …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:21 AM
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I like how you've described the transition from childhood to adulthood. It makes a great deal of sense in these terms, but the issue then becomes how do you grow your social circle. As a twenty six year old I find that when I try to do this I am often faced with people who are trying to "turn back the clock" and return to the days of college and high school. To the contrary I desire a world where I associate myself with adults; other people who are trying to build and grow power and not simply e…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:16 AM
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The internet has changed a lot. Now the problem is sorting through all of the "data" and turning it into information.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:11 AM
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Exactly, one cannot get angry at these people - they are simply not there yet. Without something shattering your original perspective TRP will not help you. If you are not ready to learn you will not.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:10 AM
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The sub is a gathering of people and ideas. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:07 AM
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It's ironic sometimes how this works. We spend so much of our time worrying about external factors yet it's often our own emotions which bring us down. Further, when this happens it's often far more destructive. This, is the importance of frame, and without it we are nothing.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:03 AM
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This is really a better starting point for a question as I find abstaining from masturbation to be counter intuitive. It's your body, and your agency - do as you please. That said to what end does and rather should TRP theory embrace drug and alcohol use? For me this has been a struggle as I see alcohol as an explicit hinderance (as a substance it has no real value outside of its qualities as a tranquilizer) yet every now and again these very faults seem to be a positive. Harder still are other …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 11:50 PM
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I disagree. Ego = Frame. It's entirely the problem. You don't win by taming the beast; you win by letting it loose.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 11:15 PM
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On this point I've had many female posters actively lash out at me in private chat simply because I made a good comment/contribution (in another sub and unrelated to TRP) and they decided to search my post history. It's as if the mentality is entirely abhorrent to them and this is what still confuses me the most - why is education for educations sake such a problem. Perhaps because it's power, but where I see the female perspective I do not see my fellow mans... there cries are often the loudest…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 11:10 PM
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I agree with what you've stated. In fact, the author of rational male goes a step further stating that it's questionable as to what if any moral obligation we have in helping our beta brothers. The consensus generally speaking is that we do not and we might as well embrace this because others, as you have stated will attack us (and our contributions) because it conflicts with most people's vision of the world. If however the OP wishes to write and associate it to the school of thought practiced …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 11:04 PM
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Poor advice. Your ego is your best and last defense and core to everything redpill. Yes you cannot say you are intrinsically better then anyone else but do not disregard this item of power; your ego is your frame. Approach anxiety is something entirely different. That's your attempt to maintain an illusion. To the contrary if your ego is big enough (frame) you simply won't care what the results are. It's only true if you make it true my friend.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 09:35 PM
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I have not but I will look into it. Welcome to the sub.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 09:24 PM
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Everything you read is made up of bite size pieces; that is why it is up to you, the reader to connect the dots and make it applicable to you. That said everything is subjective and everyone learns differently. To each is their own, but literature can be extremely useful.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 09:17 PM
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The attractiveness of the woman I would say matters very little. In some ways it's easier to get with a HB9 then an HB6 but I digress. It's the mentality which is more important. TRP is not just about sexual game but a direct and implicit act of leveraging power back into your life - a way of retaking your own frame and living life in the way you wish to. Once this is accomplished then one enters the SMP. What the OP is displaying is scarcity mentality where amused mastery should be the goal. Af…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 06:00 PM
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There's poison in the well my friend. While you have exemplified what the redpill actually is (versus the OPs very beta submission) I find these posts to be far to common on this sub these days. People want results without putting in the work. Things like drinking, drugs, poor nutrition, lack of confidence, being fake, lying and etc are items of ones life which need to be worked at considerably before the results OP is looking for will come to pass. Further, I almost want to say it has everythin…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:50 PM
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A very astute observation on your part. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:40 PM
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I disagree. As with everything the quality of what you ingest differs from source to source. Therefore, while a lot of the self help information is just that - entertainment, this is not universal. For example the 48 laws of power comes to mind almost immediately.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:38 PM
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You understand exactly what redpill is and what you went through was without a doubt a slew of shit tests. Regardless, I would say that you are ever so slightly taking it to far based on the tone of the post. Remember the goal is amused mastery not to simply leverage power for the sake of leverage. Just my two cents but otherwise you are handling the situation better then most would.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:33 PM
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Value is based on weight and purity of the stone itself. Obviously as a consumer it's going to be difficult to get a return on an investment of diamonds but to say they are worthless is a misnomer. Your just going about the process in the least efficient way.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:01 PM
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More importantly it's always been an engagement of business. Once one realizes this the very things that held them back become leverage in your quest for power. Further, other betas and the very idea of love becomes an additional instrument. After all it's business. And it's your responsibility once an understanding is made to craft what it is you want in front of you. IMHO The anger phase is worse as to me there is no depression. This is due to the factI can deal with things in objective and lo…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:51 AM
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You lost me on diamonds have no intrinsic purpose; it doesn't matter they have intrinsic value. Everything can be measured by its opportunity cost (including a relationship). I digress though, this is not the sub for a discussion on supply and demand macroeconomics.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:48 AM
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Careful. That was a shit test. You've passed the first one but the next one will be harder. This date is a challenge; look at it no other way. And remember persistence is never a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:46 AM
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A very astute contribution.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:07 AM
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Get out of here Charlie sheen!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:59 AM
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That is because men and women are inherently different; Men creatures of honor and the former creatures of biological imperative. Yes a difficult realization to come to but with it you can value your male friendships more and learn to depend on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 10:19 AM
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Astute. It is always worth remembering that some people are worth their weight in salt. Some people do actually get it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 12:21 AM
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You are already getting a tremendous amount of feedback on your post. Some of it good, some of it bad. My take? You hit the nail square with the hammer. To many people here do not exemplify what this community actually should be. This is why my advise to you would be to seek further knowledge in literature - not from Reddit. You are now in a position to give back to us now, and your source of knowledge and understanding must understandably expand. Remember the mentality of not caring about what …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 12:19 AM
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You are even more cynical then me. Sure 99 percent of women are cheating but it is in there nature to do so. Just tone down the bitterness. We are a community, and part of what goes wrong with so many of us here is due to a lack of understanding. Women might as well be a different species. Simply ask yourself this: if you were born a woman and understood how men view sex would you not act similarly? This is a game of power my friend and leverage is everything.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 12:10 AM
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While I do not like the terminology being thrown around I have to humbly agree with one of the comments above. If a woman cannot take her body seriously neither should you.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 12:06 AM
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Not sure how you come to this conclusion. I've not made many attempts at the gym but I would imagine you'd have better results then some other venues.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 12:03 AM
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At the core of every beta man, every white knight and every omega is a concept of honor. This is why an alpha male will always anger these individuals: they do not deal in the same creed. Instead they have the opposite of honor - it matters little if the woman is married, single etc; nine times out of ten they are far more likely to pump and dump. To the beta man this is an insult. A man is meant to act in a certain way, to have a certain degree of respect and to me this is what I struggle with …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 11:30 PM
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Quality not quantity. Statistically speaking we are our own worst enemies: booze, cigarettes, war, etc
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 11:03 PM
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I will add that 90 percent of all fights are caused due to women or drugs. The above poster is right in his categorization efforts but keep in mind that depending on the situation you might be getting more then you bargained for. Some things are simply not worth the price of admission.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 11:00 PM
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Martial artist to martial artist; never underestimate an opponent. If the training is good enough, size matters not. Never think you can beat someone until you actually have. I have scars proving this point.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 10:57 PM
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You are missing a key detail. The wall is defined and determined also by biology. It's something a women can literally feel. It's when they finally wake up and understand the same thing that so many of us get here: That time is your most precious commodity. I believe only then is a woman compatible for any relationship of worth. Otherwise the concept of honor that we men hold so dear simply does not exist, and without honor there cannot be love. That's the value of being a man - we are not subje…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 10:52 PM
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This is a very useful contribution to the sub. I found it especially interesting that you are also a martial artist - for me this endeavor has been key and I imagine for you it is the same; for me the sport became my life after I took an injury. Where some would not have returned but for myself it became real that day. I could not look back.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 10:46 PM
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I'm in utter disbelief and shock. You are both displaying some very beta qualities and yet have digested and mastered the 48 laws of power. Congratulations. Yet, you have missed the most important rule of them all: the law of abundance. In that respect you in many ways wasted your time. Despite this, you have displayed yourself to be a true, and extremely clever con artist. I am impressed I truly am, but this is not redpill.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:09 PM
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Looking to apply some of what I've learned. Made a thread for this question but it probably should go here instead: how worthwhile of a venue is a Sean Paul concert or is not worth the $100 admission? Have some time off and trying to use my cash wisely.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:59 PM
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How does this advise change if you are say 26?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:10 PM
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You've hit many of the things I've struggled with during this progression - namely that of how to live a life of meaning, given the reality of the world around us. It is a profound responsibility because what the redpill actually provides is a framework for power, or rather the tools in which to harness it. Unfortunately this is done at the expense of the modern day relationship - one which is governed by honor, justice and other principles we men take for as dignity. You simply cannot trust a w…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 12:45 AM
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You are a lot further along then you think, yet don't let the past get to you. For me it took six months but it was an eight year relationship. I understand as to me what you hint on is to this is the only thing TRP doesn't adequately explain. How to trust in such a way again. Should a man betray you as such revenge is often swift and exacting. In women we simply say AWALT. In one sense I can't disagree with the literature - my life is better for it. Yet betrayal is still betrayal. And while my …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 03:18 AM
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Another well thought out post. I feel that as this sub is growing (I've only begun to post recently mind you) it's viewed almost as witchcraft and wizardry to some - looking for the easy path into a woman's pants without realizing that what it is we teach here is a derivative of behavioral science. I hope we can get back to more educated contributions instead of what I've seen recently.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:17 PM
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Thank you. I'm not sure if there is a disconnect on this thread or if I'm missing something but there are simply to many blue pill posts in this thread. It's as if sex is all there is to the red pill...
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:12 PM
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Better advise. It's a useful relationship for the OP, he just needs to understand why - despite this if he's wondering if he can do better he can. TRP is not simply sexual strategy. Once you lock down a woman your work has only just begun. TRP is about being the best possible person you can be without us telling you to simply be yourself. It's a set of theories and perspectives which if applied can change your life. Almost everyone settles down and accepts the world around them. We don't. We loo…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:04 PM
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There are no such things as unicorns. AWALT. Why put energy into someone who isn't complete in your eyes? Why waste your most valuable resource: time. You people make me laugh sometimes, all this mental energy, all this research all this knowledge but when it comes down to it you display the very qualities you despise. I will repeat there is no such thing as a unicorn. If she doesn't measure up she doesn't measure up. Don't open the door to someone who won't make the same sacrifices as you. Next…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:00 PM
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And that's what also leads to oneitis. All that energy into one woman? I did it for eight years. I thought it was great but when it fell to pieces it wasn't that I knew I was doomed to be single forever. No even before TRP I had abundance mentality - it was all the time I had wasted breaking this individual down systematically. This is blue pill advise, and the OP is right to be asking the questions he is. Here's some advise. She won't be submissive forever; if you think you can do better do so …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 05:57 PM
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I didn't say I didn't think things are going to work out for me. Further, I'm very capable of displaying an idgaf attitude. Despite this, I find bars and clubs to be set up in a way that is more valuable to a woman then it is to me. It's a way to shit test men on a grand scale and I simply don't like playing by other people's rules. More to the point I don't like paying for alcohol. I'll certainly go out and grab a drink with the boys, and I'll spin plates if the opportunity presents itself but …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:59 PM
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Ive commented on this thread enough already but I'd just like to highlight how ridiculous this thought is. You are talking image and image is not power. Action is. If you are this focused on how "she" views you then you've already lost.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:34 PM
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I like the way you think. That said I'd caution any further interaction with his ex. He's already shown his hand and as is stated in the 48 laws of power once this is done there is no reversal. There is literally no way anything can work in his favor. It's time to ghost her. Believe me I know how hard it is, it's so easy to slip and think let's try this but let's be honest he's probably tried everything in this situation except walking. It's the only play of power left.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:29 PM
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No. I'd argue it's the result of actually reading and internalizing useful information in a way that's applicable for you. A lot of us say that it should be 80% application and 20% research but I'd argue the opposite. There's simply to much there for it to be luck. It's yet another example of why this a behavioral science board and not a sexual education class.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:24 PM
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That's not how women communicate though. What we all have to understand that the opposite sex is much more intentional with communication then we are. Yes they may not be as direct but it's in the small details. Most girls will say something like this just to see if you "get it".
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:20 PM
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I have to up vote this thread. This is an excellent list. Thank you OP. I hope others have something to contribute but I will add some of my suggestions as well. Note you've mentioned a few that I would have already. The History of Madness The four agreements The Lucifer Effect The Red Queen No more Mr. Nice Guy
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:54 AM
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This also proves that even when these women are done with the club they are still down to branch swing. We can talk all day long about the game that was applied here but to wit these girls did nothing yet went home with you. This goes a long way in proving the opportunistic nature that AWALT describes but it is also a good lesson for us men. Always be on the lookout for what's next.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:47 AM
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What if you don't have fun going out. I'm not awkward don't get me wrong but I find the process expensive, time consuming and just not my thing. Yet as the OP mentioned social circles can end up a dead end and day game can be problematic. I guess I'm just not a fan of situations where people are drinking and acting at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:04 AM
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Your words are wise. This goes at the core of some of my beliefs. Do I want love or do I want pussy. Wise question then. If TRP is as restricted to sexual strategy and to as becoming the alpha as you say does love even exist. I'm starting to think a lot of people here would say no. There is only love of mother and child. Relationships seem more like business arrangements. Some great some terrible but you need to work.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 03:25 AM
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I agree with this man here. Pay your life insurance. This is a good contribution but I think it does miss the mark. Part of the reason red pill theory exists is because it breaks down some of our more blue pill thoughts; I.e. If you simply work hard you'll succeed or be the good guy and you'll get the girls. It sounds great but it's not not in tune with behavioral science. In this same vein simply being alive giving you the drive to succeed is a misnomer. There are plenty of people who tell them…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 02:15 AM
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A very intelligent reply. I see exactly what you mean but as my situation is a little extreme (I just came back from New York City and now live in the second most remote place in the world) I just wanted to get some context. And I do agree with you about the social media completely - its a total waste of time and imho it kind of ruins your opportunity to change your game on the fly because its establishes you before the girl even meets you.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 10:40 PM
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I disagree. This has probably been one of the best contributions to the board today as you have actually recognized your blue pill tendencies. More then that this looks like something that actually happened vs some of the other things I have read. Your on the right path, and you displayed some traits of amused mastery in how you've analyzed the ordeal (the ultimate goal for anyone who buys into this). You certainly have a ways to go, but the fact you can identify the shit slinging for what it is…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:36 PM
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The thread as presented has some really good ideas. I too have wondered what a redpill chat could look like. The only issue is the group is getting rather big now so it would have to be segmented somehow... that's why perhaps Reddit is indeed the best venue.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:29 PM
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While the contribution is certainly not offensive, I do see both points. Most especially that looks matter more then they ever have, and because of this I don't think the OPs submission is completely off the mark. However the idea that playing proper game leads you to a major city and a continuation of college seems to indeed be missing the point. This is also coming from someone who just left one himself and is now 26. Therefore can you perhaps elaborate on this? What should one really be doing…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:55 PM
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I have to echo this thought as well. More content would be appreciated as I can think the OP can further elaborate on this discussion in small chunks.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:06 PM
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I don't think I am. Trust comes with time. When two people can with reasonable confidence predict and count on the behaviors and words of others. Some of us view honesty (especially relationships) as a venue where you communicate everything and there are no secrets. I simply think one should be careful with their words and what they volunteer. We all have skeletons in our closet and it doesn't make us better people for admitting them. It takes a very unique person for me to volunteer some of my …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:22 PM
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As I stated further up some situations call for immediate action. I think revenge was probably the wrong term to use in this thread because I also identify with what you've said as well. Spending years plotting an equal response isn't the idea either.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:19 PM
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I take it that if SHTF you have two people already in mind as well lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:16 PM
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I echo your thoughts. The above is perhaps the most blue pill post I've seen in a bit. To provide perspective I am a martial artist. The OPs example of a 20/80 comparison is rather good here so let's give an example - I'm at a bar and I've been having a few drinks. I make the mistake of bumping into someone and by accident spill his drink. I buy him another one and all seems well. Later when I'm smoking a cigarette the gentlemen comes outside and accuses me of doing it on purpose and that I was …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:12 PM
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Game is not simply an understanding of the rules governing sex relations. Game is the understanding of power, where it is, what it is, and how you embody it. Game is a tool where you see the world for is what it is rather then what you've been told it is. It is the means towards the embodiment of amused mastery - when you realize your grasp on power has eclipsed that of the alpha and you are in no way shape or hold beholden to them, women or anything else in life. Game allows you to do what you …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:52 PM
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I won't get too involved in this debate here but I personally found the discussion of honesty to be a bit lacking in focus (as it pertains to game). You see the thread's main idea was that of self actualization - a concept taught in classes around the world and viewed as a quintessential philosophical theory. To view this as the height of human achievement is I think a sincere error and will confuse more then a few. Instead Frigzy correctly pointed out the goal should really be that of amused ma…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:38 PM
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I do like how your discussed this. For reference I'm an economist by academic discipline. I tend to view things in terms of opportunity cost - and was just interested if there was a concept similar to diminishing marginal returns in red pill theory. It just seems like a relatively universal thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 04:33 PM
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Humor me dear poster. At what point do we hit diminishing marginal returns as it concerns looks? I know we say lift lift lift, but let's say like myself your not overweight or even underweight. Let's say your 6 feet+ tall and weigh 165, and have a history of martial arts (recently snapped my leg last year for it). Are we suggesting everyone should be putting on OBVIOUS muscle mass or are we simply talking about being comfortable with your own frame, image and physical ability?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 04:03 PM
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I like how you think. That's one way to spin those wheels and stir the pot.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 03:59 PM
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I see where your going with this but at the same time its lacking something. Yes do something because you want to but there are obvious limits to this. One must continuously act in a way to build power and to simply act on whim does not do this. Secondly, congratulations OP: we all must aspire to get out there (regrettably I have not) but it's all based on setting goals and accomplishing them. Mine is to build power, yours was to get a date. You accomplished that but if you have really been foll…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 03:53 PM
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Makes a bit more sense with context. Personally I've never done a cold approach and it looks like with where I live that's gonna need to happen as I don't really know to many people here now since being away for a decade.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:29 PM
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I like being skeptical, and I'd like to point out that that line probably would not work. IMHO. Just doesn't seem natural.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:12 PM
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There's also a great deal of youth displayed in his post. As either you or someone else stated at some point college does have to end, and with it its corresponding mentality. Further, while I do crave leaving here and returning to a big city my experiences so far in these areas have also left a bitter taste in my mouth. Everything one despises can be seen in abundance in these locations and it's simply not the nicest of places to live outside of having "fun". There also seems to me to be a bett…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 12:57 PM
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I'm not sure if most of the thread has missed the point or if you and I have. I completely agree with you yet at the same time I can't help but identify with some of what has been said. Context: I spent 8 years from 17 onwards in the city (NYC that is), where I had a relationship span the entire period, had tons of friends and had I been red pilled at the time many more opportunities to seize. Instead I've choose to return to a remote island called Bermuda which is filled with some of the wealth…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 12:16 PM
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I like this for some reason...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 12:21 PM
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I too like the OP have struggled with the subject matter discussed. I'm not sure if I identify with this "feeling of Christmas" but the comparison is relative. Indeed, I have simply viewed the affections of the opposite sex in vein of the same linear logic we use as men for all things: honor, justice and solidarity. After all if the above does not exist in a relationship there is no bond or unity. This face and RP knowledge coupled with my own experiences has had me loose faith in women - that n…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 12:13 PM
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Perhaps it's because what brings most of us here is often very personal; something like a breakup or a wake up call of some type. For me it was the former, an eight year relationship that ended in the most confusing of ways possible - until I read the sidebar. However I would not say that I was not still angry because again these situations are very personal and while some might mention frame there are some things you simply do not forget. Further, as another mentioned somewhere else anger can o…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:42 PM
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Absolutely outstanding submission. Well done. This is something we all should read. The modern man is indeed dead, and those who do not accept this for fact will live unfulfilling and ultimately miserable existences.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 03:00 PM
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Been stuck in phase one of my "recovery" for about 5-6 months now and am starting to see a gradual reduction in my anger and an increase in confidence. Being back on the mat last night at the dojo (after a major injury a year ago) has contributed greatly. I am also trying to increase my overall intellectual ability and proficiency and am pursuing professional qualifications on top of this. However, I do still want to get back in the game and this brings me to my question. Long term game or short…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:53 PM
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This this this this this this again. My number one goal was also a family, kids the whole nine yards if only because I grew up that way. I simply expected the love I felt of others to be possible for a significant other. Instead as soon as it was to the benefit of the other person and I became a drag (went through a rough month) they left. Seems to me the closer and more you share the less restraint there is when cords are cut. Left me thinking it's every man for himself.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 04:29 PM
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How long did the initial mental withdrawal last for you? I need to do this not now but right now and have unfortunately quit 3 times before - so I know what to expect:(. Only been smoking for about 12 weeks this time though but I'm still scared lol.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:29 PM
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Wise words. I especially appreciated the tie in to the 48 laws of power. I've had some personal experience with that law recently... have co workers coming to me over management. Could become problematic.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:27 PM
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Drinking is a big one for me as well. Keep trying to close the door on it completely but when pay day comes I tend to over indulge.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:14 PM
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Back at martial arts in a big way, slowed down the drinking big time, and lifted a good portion of last week. Also finally cut off my decade long ex; I simply saw no direction for me and her anymore - and much of my problems can be attributed to her. Unfortunately not much success with the cigarettes and I got sloppy going into the weekend and didn't eat properly, slept poorly and focused on immediate gratification rather then long term sustainability.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:10 PM
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I discovered the sidebar after having a disastrous conclusion to a 8 year LTR. Then as I started to make use of some of the information here I noticed more friction - not less. This at first had me confused but as some of the older and wiser posters continue to stress we aren't about bettering the world around us we are about bettering ourselves. I.E. the red pill is a complete disconnect from traditional values and embraces the only truth which exists: it's every man for himself. In fact, once …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:57 PM
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Never have never will. I'm a fighter, and unlike most who practice Kata until their face goes blue, we get on the mat and learn how to actually defend ourselves. I broke my leg for the sport. I still went back; that's the level of mental discipline and focus it teaches.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 10:16 PM
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Haha. I agree with your comments outside of the slander on ninjutsu. In fact we've merged much of Muay Thai into our program along with another art. Yes what we do is violent. Yes we tend to get injured on the mat as half of our students have sustained injuries as they are also rugby players but to bring this discussion back to the topic at hand I find it also embraces much of the redpill philosophy. What we do is more then just fitness. It's a lifestyle and I've not seen other arts touch on tha…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 10:01 PM
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Agreed; at the same time I hadn't bought into the theory at that point though so just as you said many a man has walked my path. And many a man more will as well. Perhaps this thread can become something that benefits more then just me. I've got a lot going for me, but hell I've got a lot of shit to deal with as well.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 02:19 AM
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Bermuda. More remote my friend. Much more remote, but there's also more money.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 02:16 AM
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