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Gallows9/r/seduction14/06/14 08:37 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that pretty much every girl? I've seen everything from nurses to lawyers latch onto a high status dick when they're out to 'have fun'.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:05 PM
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Do you frivolously throw away your time, money, and effort?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:03 PM
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Hahaha. Nah man. I like my women to have an ass, not a lump of cottage cheese.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:00 AM
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I mean that I understand that I put myself in a compromised position (black out drunk/high) with someone that I was aware had sexual feelings towards me. I was embarrassed for a while and felt violated for a very long time, but I'm over it. Shit happens and I'm not going to bitch and moan because it was my own fault for not being able to take care of myself. I never considered pressing charges or anything of the like. I moved out of the apartment I was in because it was my roommate (female) that…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 11:30 PM
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Uh.. not a "victim" but as someone who has been raped, yeah this entire issue is pretty fucking bullshit. I'm still waiting for someone to hit her with a bus for the greater good.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 07:37 AM
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Shit, I'm 23 and I wish I had a dad like you. Mine is a distant workaholic that is enslaved by my psychotic mother. Relating what I've learned here to my own family dynamic has been a bit of an eye opener, and not in a pleasant way. Well done, man. Your kids will appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 03:27 PM
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Found the future mod of deadbedrooms. Take notes, son.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 09:48 PM
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It's the hardest part of the red pill to swallow. I can't stand that this is true, and yet here we are. It's just so bizarre to me that something that I consider to be so intrinsic to being human (unconditional love) is so completely absent from women. It's just... sad.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 08:32 AM
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I'd rather have my dignity.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:19 AM
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Can I downvote this below zero? Please?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:12 AM
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Fuck me. Are you trolling or are you autistic?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:36 PM
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Nothing like a wanna be alpha trying to start slinging shit. This sub is a place for men to help each other. All he said is that the post lacks clarity (which is does). If that's a problem then take your shitty attitude and get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:35 PM
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It seems to me that you need to experiment with this theory and evaluate its validity for yourself. However, I personally agree with him because of personal experiences. An example. Some of my friends and I have a guy's night every other week. Whiskey Wednesday. We try new whiskies, new locations, learn about whiskey, and enjoy each others company. One of my friends has a wife. She doesn't drink whiskey. She doesn't contribute anything meaningful to the conversation when she's around, and she ge…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:08 PM
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And we'll do our best to watch yours. There's no way we can deal with times like this without our brothers looking out for us.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 09:20 PM
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They're in the army. They're always drunk.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/15 12:30 PM
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Honestly, I'm not sure how TRP feels about it, but I'm willing to be open with my feelings like this with my one closest friend. That doesn't mean that I'm a big soppy mangina, it means that on rare occasions that when I absolutely need to vent some shit, my best friend is there and we talk it out. It's not what our friendship is based around, but damnit it feels good to know that I have a brother that gives a damn about me.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:43 PM
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Most can't. Dedicated athletes with specific builds though, sure.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/15 11:57 PM
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Stop trying to girlfriend every girl you sleep with. It's needy and sad. Stop taking breaks from lifting/attraction. One day off is two wasted. Stop being a god damn pussy. You're going to die. Possibly soon. Make the best of the time we have.
/r/seduction07/03/15 11:40 PM
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Honestly? I want that more than just about anything. I sincerely wish that we weren't right. I don't like knowing how calculating and self serving women are, especially after spending much of my life caring for people I consider my family more than I cared for myself. But wishes don't change the world. It is the way it is and we have to deal with effectively or fall by the wayside. It's fucking cold out here in reality.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:59 PM
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I just don't understand why it's such a big deal to people. Is it awful? Sure. But it's your own fault for being in a situation like that. I've been raped twice and both times it was because I drank entirely too much and couldn't take care of myself. Lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:53 PM
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Probably going to OD her boyfriend and get a book deal about her 'horrible loss'.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/15 05:55 PM
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Ugh...
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/15 05:53 PM
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You're right and you're wrong. If someone is genuinely turned off by your first interaction and thinks you're an "asshole" then yeah, you probably need to drop the ego and take it easy. However, I cannot count the number of playful "omg ur such an asshole" lines I get from girls that I hook up with, especially those around college age.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:56 PM
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Who the fuck thought it was a good idea to give a woman a firearm?
/r/PussyPass21/02/15 10:34 PM
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I've never wanted to hit a woman before, but if I ever meet the fucking airhead that wrote that I'm belting her. Fuck that entire article and anyone that thinks any sort of domestic abuse is acceptable.
/r/PussyPass21/02/15 10:32 PM
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Anyone that labels them as a 'PUA' reeks of bullshit. Perpetuating information based on an incredibly small sample size (as you said, in a city of MILLIONS) and tinged by your own personal bias just isn't productive. The fact of the matter is that by cold approaching you are creating opportunity for the price of a few seconds time. Does it make you the alphacock pussyslaying god of the universe? No, but it is probably the best way that we have of boosting confidence and skill with the side benef…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:20 PM
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Ahh. That makes sense. It could be taken a few different ways when lacking context. Very insightful.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 02:45 AM
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This is something that I can't whole heartedly agree with. People, especially women, often insist that they are the sort of people that they want you to think they are. Look at any dating profile. The first thing out of anyone's mouth is "I am a...".
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 11:58 PM
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Even said sarcastically that quote makes me rage.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:34 PM
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If they can't handle the heat they can go back to playing checkers in the park with grandma.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/15 08:25 PM
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Beat me to it. Cya there, fellow shitlord. ; )
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/15 08:23 PM
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I slam a coffee while screaming along to death metal in the car on the way to the venue.
/r/seduction19/12/14 10:51 PM
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Ann Arbor, Michigan.
/r/seduction15/12/14 09:19 PM
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"23m. Only interested in meeting ripped hot dudes"
/r/seduction15/12/14 09:12 PM
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Begin by learning to speak properly and how to present yourself. Nobody wants to waste their time and effort on someone that can't be bothered to speak like an adult.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:14 PM
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Largely by how she responds to things. Is she responding to kino with her own? Is she giving unique, interesting answers to questions about herself? Is she able to keep up with witty banter? Past social qualifications there are of course standards for appearance and how she carries herself (low class and trashy women are my #1 turn off). I don't care if you look like a hard 10; If I can tell that you live in a double wide down by the river then I'm not interested. Of course, standards will alway…
/r/seduction15/11/14 09:32 PM
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"What? Like this?" Staring intensifies.
/r/seduction15/11/14 07:49 PM
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Not recommended outside of college settings. I would feed you your teeth.
/r/seduction03/11/14 06:50 AM
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Hey! Just getting back into the game after suffering through one of those 'relationship' things. I'm stuck at work right now but we should talk soon. Game in A2 is like shooting drunken sorority fish in a barrel with a missile launcher.
/r/seduction15/10/14 09:25 PM
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I mountain bike A LOT. One of my favorite games is to make a comment about her checking out my ass when I walk in front of her. This devolves into me letting her grab my ass, etc. From there I can either "show her how it's done" or just escalate normally. People are generally totally cool with some ass grabbin'.
/r/seduction26/07/14 08:22 PM
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Thirded. It sounds like you're giving her all negativity with no reward. Remember that it is PLAYFUL teasing.
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:30 PM
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It sounds to me that she has some pretty deep rooted negative feelings about sexuality. Is she religious? Good ol' buddy Jesus is my nemesis in the field of pickup. I feel that Seduction can be used as a band aid to overcome small issues like this but from the sound of your post, this isn't something little. If I were you I would seriously consider whether or not this relationship is worth the effort; especially if your sexual needs are not being met. Communicate that it is something that is ver…
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:27 PM
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Sleep with her sister. Results may vary.
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:41 PM
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"Hi, my name is ______" Report back with her phone number.
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:39 PM
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You should probably stop "rockin' the hip hop look". Know who dresses like that? High schoolers and people that I throw out of my bar. Can you grow facial hair? I know most Asian guys struggle with it but a little stubble goes a long way. Deep voice, solid confidence, strong body language, and a beer in your hand will all project the fact that you're at least 21.
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:38 PM
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Yes. I love it. I go into every date with the mentality that I'm going to sit there enjoying myself and making fun of them. It puts me into a light playful mood which puts them into a light playful mood and that sort of mood rapidly evaporates clothing, at least in my experience. Am I sitting in a booth calling her fat and making whale calls until she breaks down in tears? No. But last night I was out with short Hispanic girl and the first thing I said was "wow. You're shorter than I remember. I…
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:07 PM
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She went out of her way to compliment you? In a busy club? Surrounded by fifty guys that will try hitting on her tonight? Take a hint bud. Grab her hand, spin her into a dip then dance with her. Easy.
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:58 PM
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Dat oneitis. Go for it and ten other girls at the same time.
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:56 PM
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It feels to me that the author briefly skimmed through "The Game", went to a single bootcamp and decided to demonize one very small part of the PUA community. For sensationalist click bait this is an acceptable article. As a look into the PUA community as a whole? It's narrow minded and the author is speaking from a biased and extremely narrow viewpoint.
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:51 PM
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I... Wow. Hats off, man. That is one social situation I don't think I would have felt comfortable with. Nice one. Closest I have come to that was flirting with a doctor that was stitching me up after a concert. Apparently doctors don't wear wedding rings while doing stitches. Oh well. :P
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:38 PM
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This post was informative, exquisitly composed, and well worth the ten seconds that it took to read through it and aggressively face palm. Welcome to your first little taste of success. Enjoy it. Now stop splashing around in the kiddie pool. Finding two horny women in a row doesn't make you a PUA god and you should never "stop gaming women". Phrasing it that way makes you sound like a tremendous chode, and you should never stop practicing something once you get good at it.
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:35 PM
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I think that he's the least charismatic person to ever have that much success. He's awesome.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:32 PM
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I haven't heard of it, but there are always going to be counterpoints to what we learn here. Everyone is different and different thing work for/on them.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:27 PM
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Closest I will personally ever come to this is when using a pet name (ie. gorgeous, sexy, etc). But normally, no. No compliments over text. Texts are for setting up meet ups and nothing else for me.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:20 PM
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"To showing you Excalibur" Done. Honestly though, I like this and I'm stealing it. It doesn't allow for a yes or no answer and prompts them to talk about something they're passionate about. Solid.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:17 PM
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Day game separates the boys from the men. Anyone can cart home a hot mess and rail her while she vomits on your bedsheets. It takes skill and charm to daygame. I suggest it for everyone.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:07 PM
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Bartender here. I don't remember people from two hours ago. Your best bet is to be served by her again, make a VERY good impression, and close it up by trading contact info. Fun fact; she probably already had a bunch of people eye fuck her all day so coming off as interested in HER and not her ass is a good start.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:03 PM
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Sounds like you're afraid of approaching someone that doesn't give you ioi's. Work on that.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:01 PM
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Sounds like you're afraid of approaching someone that doesn't give you ioi's. Work on that.
/r/seduction17/07/14 09:01 PM
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Seconded. As a writer, if anyone had the audacity to interrupt my stream of thought by physically closing my laptop I would lose my shit.
/r/seduction17/07/14 08:59 PM
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You realize that most women are ALWAYS sucked into their mobile screens, yes? It's like some freakish dependency that you guys need to be prepared to respond the exact moment someone pokes you on Facebook.
/r/seduction17/07/14 08:57 PM
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Personality traits that I look for in a RELATIONSHIP are intelligence, a love for books, sexual drive, open mindedness, independence/not needy, and a passion for music. Traits that I look for in a hook up? Being able to speak in complete sentences is a good start. Not being a terrorist or serial killer is preferable but not mandatory.
/r/seduction17/07/14 08:40 PM
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I found it neither entertaining nor educational, but to each their own. It just didn't click with me.
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:30 AM
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Man up.
/r/seduction16/07/14 07:03 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I think it's all about mindset. I look forward to going out now because I make it fun. When I first started it was just miserable because I was constantly in my head. If you spend all night nit picking your body language, tone, value, etc. you're going to have a bad time. Too much study harms the student.
/r/seduction16/07/14 07:00 PM
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I'm home for a few months while I wait for my best friend/future room mate to get home from the army. I moved out when I was 17 and have barely visited until now (23). I'm expecting a lot of urging to go to her place, and awkward car sex. Hoping to see some good input here. I'm not looking forward to this clusterfuck of living at home.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:57 PM
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Sort of. Being suave and charismatic will get you where you want to go, but you'll never see some sort of magical godlike pickup powers that eliminate the possibility of rejection. Women aren't a game and there's no cheat codes in life. Some girls just won't like you no matter how good your game is. And that's why you go hook up with her younger sister.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:54 PM
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If she mentions her "intelligence" again I'm going to rage-throw this iPad. People that are insistent on proving their level of intelligence are never actually brilliant. They're just sad and insecure.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:49 PM
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Neediness is extremely unattractive. No girl is going to give you a minute of her time if your attention isn't worth anything.
/r/seduction15/07/14 04:17 PM
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People pop a nerd boner and side with "science" over anything. Guess what. "Science" only reflects our flawed current level of understanding. Shit, I remember only a few years ago when science was peddling the idea that all interaction is based on pheromones. Come on now. One half assed university study doesn't mean a damn thing.
/r/seduction15/07/14 04:13 PM
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Nope. Never. I'm honest about everything I do. If you're not going for anything serious then the knowledge that your attention is divided between her and other girls will spark that massive pile of pent up insecurity and jealousy that she has built up inside. I personally use a big calendar to keep track of dates and a hardcover notebook to record fr's/notes.
/r/seduction15/07/14 03:24 PM
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Stop caring about it. Overcoming your need for a response and validation sounds like it needs to be your first big goal. Dating new women (ESPECIALLY online) is such a craps shoot. They flake, you flake, they just want attention, something comes up, you're not interesting to them, etc. There are a million reasons a first time date won't work. Just roll with it and learn from every rejection.
/r/seduction15/07/14 03:18 PM
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I prefer to have goals and backup plans. Nothing ever goes as expected. Take the boyscout approach. Be prepared for anything to happen.
/r/seduction15/07/14 02:49 PM
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Bartender/Barista here. Make solid eye contact, speak with authority, don't be afraid to be playful/fun. If you make any sort of connection with people outside of your usual "script" (hey how are you what would you like etc etc) they will break out of their routine and treat you like a real person. Find a way to start a conversation. Did you overhear them talking about something interesting as you approach? Are they wearing something weird? Being professional and effective doesn't mean you're a …
/r/seduction15/07/14 02:45 PM
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I suppose that did come off a bit aggressive, but sometimes people need a verbal bitchslap for something to make an impact. Also, you just used the term "play some grab ass". I like you.
/r/seduction02/07/14 04:15 PM
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Wh.... Wait. What? Women aren't gods damned fish, man. You don't use some weird trick to just GET INTO HER PLACE. Do you know how rape-y this entire post sounds?
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:53 PM
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Fucks sake. Put on your man pants. You sound needy and beta, fix that. You have established solid rapport and a playful sexual tone, that's excellent IF you can escalate from that point. I'm convinced you've fallen into the chat buddy orbiter place in her life. The MOVIES?! Why? You are seeing this attractive awesome girl for the first time in years and the first thing you want to do with her is sit in a place you can't talk and waste half of the night doing something completely mundane and forg…
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:05 PM
1

You couldn't pay me to set foot in that crime ridden shit hole. HOWEVER, if you would like to come out to Ann Arbor, I would love to work with a solid wing. :D
/r/seduction02/07/14 05:26 AM
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Seems like you just need one good connection to break the ice. Also, what the hell? Explicitly told you weren't welcome on a trip that they're all going on? They sound like assholes.
/r/seduction02/07/14 05:03 AM
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I compliment them ONCE when I first see them if I have no reason to be irritated (lateness, etc.). And it's not a compliment that fulfills their need for their attention. A girl that came to my place showed up with a bottle of good whiskey so I said something along the lines of "Since when do cute girls drink good whiskey". It's a compliment but it isn't "Oh my god you're the hottest thing to ever rub against my penis please love me forever". It also gives her a window to start attempting to qua…
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:37 AM
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Find social events that YOU can host that make YOU happy. There's more to this than club/bar game. People just gravitate to that because it is like shooting fish in a barrel with a bazooka. While opening yourself up to new things IS extremely important, so is finding things that make you happy.
/r/seduction01/07/14 06:28 PM
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Don't lose that motivation. Getting into seduction is all about learning how to get shit on and keep going. But don't think for a second that you have had it rougher than anyone else here. Check out some of the "where I started" threads people have made recently. People don't come here because everything is perfect and they have model lives. People come here to improve themselves because what they're doing isn't good enough. Now go lift, get some sun, eat a good meal, and get shot down by at lea…
/r/seduction01/07/14 06:21 PM
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Friendzone'd. Don't take a girl like that to dinner, man. You're better than that. Only thing I would invite this to is a party/get together where you can get tons of other female attention to make her jealous. Otherwise throw this one away. And don't you dare become some sort of texting pal/gal pal to her.
/r/seduction01/07/14 06:09 PM
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My favorite response to the head turn for the kiss is to immediately de-escalate. Disentangle yourself and cut/deny physical contact confidently without making it awkward. I feel like from your post that you may be pursuing them and providing too much validation and attention. Mild teasing and push/pull aside, you need them to seek your attention and approval. The times I have hooked up with solid tens (a maxim model is my current high point) was all due to treating them like girls with lower va…
/r/seduction01/07/14 06:02 PM
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I think you're in the wrong place if this is all you gathered from his post. We're here to learn and improve, not start keyboard battles.
/r/seduction01/07/14 05:50 PM
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I've said this before, but there is NOTHING a girl can do to turn me off more than so much as even mentioning rape when we're hooking up. Nothing terrifies me like a potential life behind bars because of a lying chick. If she talks about rape my pants leap back onto me and I sprint out the door. No amount of sex is worth dealing with that sort of crazy, especially if it could land you in jail.
/r/seduction01/07/14 04:19 PM
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You don't prove it. Insecure children feel the need to prove themselves. Be the person you want to be and SHOW HER that you're mature.
/r/seduction01/07/14 03:51 PM
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Of course. We're all just here because seduction DOESN'T work. I'm going to go sit on my couch eating Cheetos and wait for a perfect 10 that wants to blow me all day to fall into my lap because we can't influence how much sex we get. The sex stork just drops off pornstars to lucky dudes. Right?
/r/seduction01/07/14 03:48 PM
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I have introduced quite a few to the seduction community. Nearly every one of them tried to tease me about it. Then they would feel bad about it on the car ride home when there's a model on my lap and they're going home to their hand. I've found that men tend to be 100% wrong about two things. Their ability to win in a fight, and pick up women. That's why you should practice both of these.
/r/seduction20/06/14 06:56 PM
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Because I'm too awesome for any one girl to handle.
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:19 PM
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Why is there some ugly chick posting pictures of herself here? I thought we came to meet attractive women.
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:16 PM
1

Ex world of Warcraft addicted fat goth virgin with delusions of grandeur and a deep rooted superiority complex. Two years of seddit later, I'm in shape (just now getting into some serious lifting), finally motivated to write a novel, I've slept with 20ish gorgeous ladies (mostly gorgeous... We all have an oops night), I'm happy, confident, and loving life for the first time in ever.
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:06 PM
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Hey man! First of all, welcome to seddit. Secondly, don't be afraid of having "rocks thrown at you". We're all here to learn. Seddit is incredibly accepting of newcomers with a passion for bettering themselves and is a fantastic community in general. If you're just starting off, check the stickies. They're invaluable and I still skim them fairly regularly. As for your age, it's never too late to learn this stuff. Every dating coach has the story of the 60something guys that still go out and kill…
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:59 PM
1

Oh, trust me I know. But I will never skip the chance to learn from someone else. I used to work at the south u Starbucks. The amount of times I've gotten dates/laid just by flirting with girls over the register is a little absurd. I like the arb idea though. I've never gone there for anything but jogging.
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:39 PM
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Seems to me that someone is jealous! But in all seriousness; this is the sort of thing that really bothers me. From this girls perspective she sees men as being manipulative, dishonest, and women of being flawed for wanting sex. She goes on to use deragotory terminology to describe women who are open about their sexuality. In addition to all of this, she demonizes men in general and accuses them of not "not valuing sex". Shit. Where to even begin? First and foremost is that no advice I have ever…
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:28 PM
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Lame. Thanks anyway. Any insights that you can provide pertaining to game in AA?
/r/seduction14/06/14 09:41 PM
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Right on, man. You know where to look if you change your mind!
/r/seduction14/06/14 09:41 PM
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Damn, son. You need to get out of your current life and do some traveling. Go experience some different cultures and open your eyes a bit. That will help you leagues more than learning seduction ever will.
/r/seduction14/06/14 09:39 PM
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YEAH SPORTSBALL! KICK THE PUCK INTO THE ENDZONE AND WIN THE BASKETS!
/r/seduction14/06/14 09:29 PM
4

My first approach of any night is always a complete blowout. I don't mean I get shot down. I mean that my first approach is like watching a Micheal Bay film. There is gunfire, a gratuitous amount of explosions, one really dumb hot girl that is extremely confused by the entire ordeal, and I'll probably end up knowing exactly what did not work for me. And it is that sort of awful soul crushing embarrassment that motivates me to go kick ass for the rest of the night. Seriously. Go get shot down as …
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:52 PM
2

This post just gave me brain damage. I think you've had enough internet for the day, sweetie. Tell the nice men on Reddit goodbye.
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:03 PM
2

Honestly, this is one of the few areas I've never struggled with. Once the IOI's are there and I've escalated enough with kino, it's just natural to progress to kissing. It's easy and it's a great skill to practice. You'll find that every girl is very different.
/r/seduction30/05/14 04:45 AM
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Stop texting. Read the stickies. They're there for a reason.
/r/seduction30/05/14 04:43 AM
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It's your brain. You make yourself feel however you want to feel. I suggest that everyone gets into meditation. It helps you filter out negative thoughts and analyze your feelings. Take it from me, I used to be a REALLY angry dude. Like, punch holes in walls and break tables angry. It's all in your head. The anxiety you feel when you look at a girl, the happiness you feel when you see a good friend, it's just you. You're Neo and the world is the Matrix. Feel how you want.
/r/seduction26/04/14 10:26 AM
1

Know what scares me more than getting shot down by that 10 at the bar? Dying without trying in the first place. And at the end of the day... nothing matters. Remember that. It doesn't matter if you get shot down in the most humiliating fashion possible. It doesn't matter if you bag the 10. Everything is temporary. Just do your best to enjoy the ride.
/r/seduction26/04/14 10:20 AM
1

Imagine that. Not every stranger is a serial killer rapist pedophile. Welcome to reality! :P
/r/seduction26/04/14 10:16 AM
1

I've met a lot of great people through the local music scene. Everyone is in a great mood and is open to being approached/befriended (yes even that big angry looking guy with the Viking beard. He's actually really nice). In addition to this I meet people through similar hobbies. In addition to well, this sort of thing I'm big into a bunch of nerdy hobbies. If you walk into your friendly local gaming store you're bound to walk out with new socially awkward nerd friends. You like to bike? Go bikin…
/r/seduction26/04/14 10:15 AM
1

First of all, settle down. You're not going to accomplish anything if you're a nervous wreck. Do you meditate? If not, it's time to learn! Just relax and talk to her like she's a new guy friend. For a bit of cash in your pocket you can go donate plasma right now for ~$50 if it's your first time. Also hair, sperm, etc. but those tend to be more difficult to arrange. We all scrape bottom sometimes. Before I got my checks from both jobs this morning I couldn't afford ramen LOL. As for holding to th…
/r/seduction26/04/14 10:11 AM
1

You know who being attractive matters to? You. Just you. Dude I look like a massive, more effeminate David Duchovney. THAT'S BAD. I have chin length hair, wear metal band tshirts, have a nose ring and my ears pierced, and shop for my clothes in the discount bins at Kohls. Know what? It doesn't matter. I've pulled stunners off of the arms of football player looking amogs and I'll laugh in the face of anyone who says it's because I look good. I look weird and I embrace it. I AM WIERD. Hell, I "do …
/r/seduction26/04/14 10:03 AM
1

"Stop being an armchair expert and go out and do it"
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:57 AM
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First time EVER? I was in 7th grade. We were going to some rollerblading place for our class trip. This girl I liked named Marley sat next to me. We talked the entire way there (this was a HUGE first for the fat 13 year old goth boy that I was) and when we were about to get off I asked if she wanted to go on a date with me. She literally ran away laughing. Years of misplaced loathing and misogyny later I realized I was too much of a coward to even speak to girls. I would break out in hives and s…
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:55 AM
0

I would like to know this as well. In the past I've given the bold answer of "I don't do relationships". I don't rationalize it or back it up with excuses. I've had mixed results ranging from the angry "What you think I'm just some slut then?!" to complete understanding with "Yeah, I'm just looking for someone to hang out with". I think this situation really depends on what the girl has told herself she is looking for. I've slept with girls who give me the whole "All I want is a long term relati…
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:42 AM
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Some of the most successful guys I know are ugly as sin. I kid you not. My old room mate was 5'6"ish and had buck teeth and the biggest afro I have ever seen on a white man. That boy pulled some of the hottest girls I have ever seen out of a club. For me, the most important thing that I realized was that I'm going to die very soon. In the grand scheme of things, my life is not even the briefest flash in the pan. When I go out and find myself in a negative state I immediately remind myself that I…
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:36 AM
1

First. Stop. Shut up. Nobody but you cares that you're short. My wingman is a full foot shorter than me (That's 5'4") And he KILLS IT. You can do the same. So much of the game is about core confidence and overcoming mental barriers like this. Embrace the short. Find your inner short Buddha and embrace that man. You overcome phobias by exposing yourself to them by small degrees. I imagine overcoming an insecurity works similarly. Go draw attention to your shortness and embrace it. Go use it as a …
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:28 AM
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So what you're saying is that you're not right for club game? Look, I'm drunk and I just got home from a ridiculous night so I'm going to keep this short. The purpose of seduction is not just to "bang hot bitches" but to make you into the best man you can be. Not interested in that? Then go back to crying while you wank. Learning this is a roller coaster. It's trial and error and it takes time to find your own path. Stop being so outcome dependent and just go have fun if you go to a club. I pers…
/r/seduction26/04/14 09:21 AM
1

My friend has a pretty sizable beer gut and has great game.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:59 AM
1

Flirting is harmless fun and both parties feel better for participating. Get out of your head and stop worrying.
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:52 PM
1

Don't overthink it. Just let it happen. A few that I always find myself doing are resting my forearm on her shoulder before I lean in to say something conspiratorially. Also a light touch on the arm when you both laugh at something, or a touch on the upper arm to get her attention back.
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:29 PM
3

I was fat, sad, alone, depressed, and working a shit job. That was two years ago. You wouldn't recognize me today.
/r/seduction12/04/14 08:34 AM
1

I didn't sleep with a girl until I was 20. After it happened the only thing I could think was "Seriously? This is what I was afraid of?" The sex itself as I would later learn was the definition of awful, but neither of us knew it at the time. Just get it out of the way. It's not a big deal. Hell, I bet there are hordes of college girls out there that think being some guy's first would be awesome.
/r/seduction07/04/14 10:09 PM
1

Bonus points if you train a pet parrot to repeat pickup lines.
/r/seduction07/04/14 10:04 PM
3

23 M here. I've undergone a complete metamorphosis over the past two years and this is partly due to pickup/seddit/RSD, partly due to diet and exercise, and all because of perseverance through all of the pain that it takes to turn a nose dive into the bedrock of life into a steady climb. I was an absolute trainwreck. Now I'm on the path that I want to be on. I'm the man I always wanted to be. It wasn't easy but damnit it was worth it. Two years ago I was just over 300 lbs (I'm 6'4", so while I d…
/r/seduction07/04/14 09:53 PM
6

My best advice is to continue with the 100% simple sexual vibe. This isn't a girl you're going to take on a date. You're going to go have fantastic meaningless sex. Communicate that and close. Give her an excuse to come over or for you to do the same. Drinks, movie, whatthefuckever.
/r/seduction07/04/14 07:47 AM
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My man, if she's been leading your friendzoned ass on for four years no amount of cute lines are going to save your ass. Get some space from her, improve yourself, and come back in 6 months with some real game. Get over your oneitis in the meantime.
/r/seduction07/04/14 07:22 AM
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You should instead focus on becoming the person that you allow yourself to be when you're on MDMA. There's nothing holding you back but your own fear. This board is every bit as much about self development as it is pick up, and at the end of the day I know which one is more important to me. That being said, sex on Molly was one of the best experiences of my life. Just saying.
/r/seduction02/04/14 05:08 AM
2

I know plenty of models that are into metal. I've slept with them. They're great. That's like me saying that because you browse reddit you're probably a fat nerd. It's just useless group think stereotyping that needs to be forcefully bitchslapped out of the world. Think for yourself. Most people are dynamic individuals with deep multifaceted personalities.
/r/seduction27/03/14 07:30 AM
11

You think I care that you're hookerish? As long as you're attractive, well spoken, clean, and open about what you want I'll sex ya' after about 5 minutes if that's what you're after. I'd imagine that most men are the same.
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:47 AM
3

Not if I can out lesbian you! THE GAME IS ON.
/r/seduction25/03/14 07:41 PM
1

Sounds right to me.
/r/seduction25/03/14 01:10 AM
5

I'm sorry but no short term instruction is worth that sort of money. I'm sure you could learn a lot from it, but that is just absurd.
/r/seduction25/03/14 01:09 AM
3

"How about we go back to my room" No, really. You're a guilt free temporary fuck buddy. Embrace it.
/r/seduction24/03/14 01:58 AM
6

Exactly what JM said. In my experience American girls rarely approach, but they will make it very clear that they would like you to approach them. Canadian women on the other hand will jump you and drag you down into the nearest alley. It's pretty fantastic up there. :D For example I was out last night with a female friend at a bar and while standing at the bar having a casual conversation two girls walk up and one places herself facing away from me, but in between my friend and I that are speak…
/r/seduction20/03/14 11:52 PM
2

I'm proud of you, man! Live the dream. :D
/r/seduction10/03/14 07:17 PM
3

Oh hell.. I wasn't aware that board existed. That's absolutely terrifying.
/r/seduction10/03/14 09:05 AM
1

I hear you. I'm 22, turning 23 in May and I'm dating an 18 year old right now. I didn't think the a difference of four years would be so noticeable but it really is. I think back to when I was 18 and I just remember being confused, stupid, and not at all sure of my direction in life. I'm sure I'll think the same when I'm 26 looking back at 22.
/r/seduction10/03/14 09:03 AM
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This has got to be the one point of the whole "pickup" thing that I hate the absolute most. Last night for example, I met a cute girl, went back to her place, and escalated normally. But she kept saying "no". I would stop. Wait. Then we would go back to making out. Escalate more. Then another "no". I DO NOT like forcing things. But then she would go back to it. Eventually we were having sex and she was saying no in between moans. That isn't okay. That isn't playful or fun. Eventually we talked i…
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:08 AM
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People treat others poorly. That has nothing to do with you. You could be the greatest, most accomplished, well meaning person in the world and everyone will still do their best to shit on you. They want to pull you down to their level. So why do you care? Why care what petty unimportant people think of you? The people that should matter to you are the ones that you find uplifting to be around. Even then, take their input with a grain of salt. Don't measure yourself either. Don't say "uh.. I'm p…
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:59 AM
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He's 17. By older he probably means 21. And honestly, I can't even begin to advise you here. I do know a few girls my age that go after "younger" guys, but at the youngest they are 19 or so, and even then it is SUPER awkward and they're embarrassed by it. Just enjoy the fact that you can hook up with all the cute teenagers right now. We can't do that. When you're older you'll look back and be like "shit. I really missed out" if you don't do it now.
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:50 AM
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In my experience they seem a little bit more open about what they want, and more willing to do... stuff on the first date. By time most women turn 30 they aren't so shut off and shy about sex. That being said, they're past the cute little boys and want real men in their life. Find your balls and don't fail the shit tests. Work at McDonalds? Don't be shy about it. Just have a plan, be passionate about your direction in life, and own up to that shit. As far as the sex itself goes (maybe I'm unluck…
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:41 AM
2

I mean, this IS the seduction and SELF IMPROVEMENT board. I would certainly hope that nobody thinks that the lessons they learn can only be applied to a narrow spectrum. The information here is absolute gold for everything from friendships to work relationships and interviews. I recently got a SICK bartending job with zero experience simply because I interviewed like a champ. That's something I would have never been able to do half a year of seddit ago.
/r/seduction11/02/14 09:45 PM
1

You need to lead the situation. If you're allowing her to dictate the pacing of your interactions then it's not going to go anywhere. Pull her somewhere. Grab a drink, pull her on stage, to a better point on the dance floor. As for escalation when dancing our experiences may be varied here as I have no clue what a "local country dance hall" is as I am a city boy. However in any sort of "clubby club" we're grinding, not dancing. This makes escalation laughably easy. A few tips; Spin her around. I…
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:32 AM
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Seriously. Go home.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:22 AM
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