| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 83 | Raising kids is the easy way out? | RANT | GamerGirlLinda | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Should it make a comeback? | DISCUSSION | GamerGirlLinda | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:48 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Yet another reminder why you vet men, so this won't be your future. It's way too common. No thanks“I’ll get to it!” No, gtf up and do it right now. It shouldn’t be in that state at all under any circumstances unless there was a hurricane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.“...what it means to be a white middle class male” FTFY That experiment can’t speak for all men. It would be stupid to think that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Good news ladies, she actually ends up dumping him. All’s well that ends well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | HorrifyingOr, you can, stay with me now, give her great sex and a wonderful friendship where nobody can even hope to possibly compete and she wants nothing more than to make you happy because you’re worth it. Just an idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | "But WomEn aRe jusT as AbusIve As Meeennnn!" 🙄No, it’s not a myth. Those men do exist and dismissing them doesn’t serve them or us. I don’t like this whataboutism nonsense. We don’t need to compare ourselves to anyone. When you say “I’m starving” do we then need to talk about starving kids in Africa and compare ourselves? No. I’m still starving and that’s still a problem that I want to solve. Women’s issues are women’s issues. Men’s issues are men’s issues. They are different and they need not to be compared like some sort of oppression oly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!What I’m working with? Is he your plastic surgeon or something? What a weird thing to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.There’s plenty of men who love cooking out there. The idea that only women should cook or can cook is utter nonsense and has never been true. The cooking should be done by the one who enjoys it and wants to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.Same, it’s so enjoyable to have others cherish and enjoy your food. However, ungrateful dirtbags can order their own food 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.Good cleaner upper? You mean, like an adult? Anyways, he better be talking about something else when he says “he’s a good eater” 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:13 AM |
| 13 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.Don’t wait ladies. Don’t wait for him to go from punching the wall to punching you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | I got you, babe.Who tf doesn’t have their phone on them in this day and age? Call the police, he should be arrested just for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:11 PM |
| 17 | Don’t forget the sh*t men say about us behind closed doors. Except...this is from Facebook. A public forum where men have their families added for all to see their commentary.Violent? And sexually violent? Jesus Christ...yikes and a half. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:35 AM |
| 50 | Never trust a man who calls himself a feminist.I don’t like the ending. “End rant”? Huh? Hell no. Take that energy to your husband. End the bad behaviour, keep the rant going until it’s gone. No compromises. Especially not for cleanliness. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Which means dirtiness is next to...🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:34 AM |
| 6 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?This is so true. We forgive too much and are too patient and attached. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 33 | If you fw straight men “only ok” is hella generous.You know why? One word: LAZY! They are too lazy. Thankfully not all men are like that. You need you a man with passion for you and is not lazy in the bedroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:29 AM |
| 3 | THIS IS IT. This is the attitude 👑Italian chef kiss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 06:52 PM |
| 6 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.Some men are dense as a brick. They just can’t see anything unless it smacks them in the face. In cases like that, something dramatic like going back to your mothers for a few days or to a friends, will do the trick. Unfortunately, not all men are sensitive and socially aware enough to pick up body language and other verbal/nonverbal cues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Former pickeme me would’ve been like ‘Awww’.It depends on the stage of the relationship. That date idea would not fly in the beginning stages. Super boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.Exactly. The point is to raise the bar AND help women with their dating lives. Tell me how your post above does any of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:09 PM |
| 10 | 🙏🏿Well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.Kinda defeats the point of this sub, no? We still are all looking for dating strategies...right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 9 | Well there’s that.That’s pretty harsh. Plants are very useful... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 11 | Almost seamlesslyEssentially, hyper sexualizing women and their bodies. Not just socially but also in business through advertisements and across all mediums of consumable entertainment. It’s just ridiculous tbh. I’ve even seen kids shows where they sexualized young teens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 11 | Imagine feeling this entitled to women's bodiesI don’t remember society preventing men from “mating” and “spreading their seed”. A weird way of saying have sex and start a family, btw. It’s not our fault you don’t know how to court a women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 29 | ahhh, the real hystories:Can we keep the perfume rule at least? Some guys are just...🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:38 PM |
| 17 | THEY JUST BANNED ABORTION IN POLAND 😳I’m still shocked that many countries don’t have maternity leave. Is no one else shocked by this? Some countries even have paternity leave, get with the times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 56 | Just like nature intended“Side piece” is a gender neutral term gentlemen. We can have them too, Don’t play yourselves 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Why do straight women even bother tbhI’m actually curious what the difference for women is between hetero and homosexual sex. Any bi woman that can enlighten me? What’s the difference? Which one is better and why? I’ve only had heterosexual relationships so I don’t know how it compares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Pretty much sums it up!Preaaaaaach!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Little Mermaid is a pick-meisha who needs FDS and needs to heal her self-esteem.Was I the only one who realized how stupid that was? Why is it normal in Disney movies for women to be exceptionally dumb for the sake of a man? Like, no critical thinking? At all? Plus, her family and friends also advising against it...nothing? She still dives head first? 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:01 PM |
| 47 | Never settle for less than you’re worth.Did she just call her dad a loser boy? Lmao, I’m assuming there’s more to the story behind that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:09 PM |
| 16 | Truth hurts and the pickmes don't like to hear it 🙄Exactly! Well said Princess! We cannot condemn pornography while at the same time support sex workers and porn actresses. It’s hurting our efforts. We need to be clear that this is something our society does not need at all. Furthermore, it’s creating unhealthy relationships which affects us as women in the dating market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 08:39 PM |
| 21 | Your body, mind and spirit deserve better.Unfortunately, there’s way too much support from women of porn. As clear as this message should be to all, the opinion on it is split down the middle. Some women recognize it for the damage and destruction it causes whilst other women see it for empowering woman and a way for woman to reclaim their sexuality on their own terms. It’s not even men we’re up against, it’s other women including women in porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 08:36 PM |
| 5 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleAnother method is to keep talking through their interruption as if they’re not saying anything and not to acknowledge that they’re talking at all. It’s very tough to listen and talk at the same time so if you keep talking, they’ll stop talking and listen. If you haven’t finished your thought, I don’t see any logical reason for someone to just up and interrupt you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...I agree 100%. The person who asked for the date should be the one responsible for planning the date and paying any expenses. Doesn’t matter if it’s the guy or girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:48 PM |
| 7 | You owe it to yourself, sis🙌🏽Not a lie in sight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 5 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againYou know what’s also biological? Murder and many other violent crimes but guess what? Nobody cares. It’s still wrong and you should be held accountable when you do it. If you can’t respect your partners feelings and want to pull the “its biology” card. Then she can pull another biology card called hypergamy. Enjoy, big guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 98 | and feel attacked when you ask for anything moreOh it gets worse ladies. Wait till you realize that “bare minimum” is what he’s nicknamed his penis (for obvious reasons) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:27 PM |
| 16 | If his apology has the word 'but' in it, it's not an apology, it's an excuse.No, sorry. An apology is in actions. It’s in changed behaviours. I never have and never will accept verbal apologies. Show me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 5 | GoldI’ll never get used to how stunning she was and is. Even more stunning is her beautiful soul. Unlike anyone, man or woman, in Hollywood. Only person who comes close is Keanu Reaves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Most importantly, NEVER SETTLE LADIES!Tell em again Patrick! Some of these ladies need to hear it twice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:18 PM |
| 8 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️I thought it was a computer graphic for a second. Wow! You’re talented! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 9 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”It’s actually the other way around. Men who habitually look at pornography have a higher tolerance for abnormal sexual behaviors, sexual aggression, promiscuity, and even rape. Porn is objectively bad. The small pros are outweighed by the cons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:50 AM |
| 19 | Imagine giving birth to a man’s child just for him to say this.That’s so disrespectful. I’m guessing they’re not together? I don’t know how these walking turds end up getting women pregnant? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:42 AM |
| -8 | Scrote wants his girlfriend to fulfill his perverted fantasy but gets upset at the thought of her wanting him to change 🤦🏻♀️A relationship is based on compromise in my opinion. Nobody always gets their way. You always negotiate and come to an understanding. If he wants you to be more anime like in the bedroom and you’re ok with it, I don’t see the problem. Outside the bedroom, I personally don’t see the point if sex is not a factor. He clearly wants it for the sexual appeal so having it in a sexual capacity should be enough, again, if you’re ok with it. Give him some time to cool off and then talk about it. Your comm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:40 AM |
| 14 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesKanye is a broken man. I don’t think a relationship is what he needs right now. Ever since his mom passed away, he’s been slowly sliding downhill. He needs healing. Best of luck to them both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 26 | An important lesson in valuing yourself.At that point, can it even be called a “breakup”? Sounds more like a repair to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Don't know how to date in a city where men put no effort.Unfortunately, what you’re talking about is a real problem in any big and developed western city, not just London. Truth is, these areas are fast paced and heavily sexualized. The idea of dating is almost non-existent for the younger guys. Can you find a young guy who’s normal? Yes. Is it easy? No. You’re better off going for an older guy who takes you more seriously and has passed through this “playboy” phase guys seem to go through when they’re young. You’re young though, don’t worry, take you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:38 PM |
| 7 | On a scale of 1-10, how much are we leaving him? Because he never called.I’d listen to his phone call at least but realistically, if a guy loves you, he’ll make time for you. Unless of course he’s an entrepreneurial business man type but even then, he should be explaining that lifestyle and what it means to you. Some men are just oblivious and terrible communicators but once they realize it’s negatively affecting you, there should be obvious signs of trying if he loves you. However, most likely, he sees you as a side piece and he has someone else or wants to at least… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Should I plan to have kids on my own?Firstly, can I ask you a few questions? What’s your definition of a HVM? What qualities are deal breakers vs must haves? Where do you typically go to meet guys? What age group of guys do you tend to date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, line up for your chance to give this man head in his car! This self proclaimed disease-free, kink-friendly cheater could be all yours (for an afternoon) for the small price of your dignity! [BARF]I’m not really one to shame someone for their sexual preference or their choice in relationships but the last bit lost me. He’s in a relationship? Unbelievable... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 6 | this is the bare minimum ladies !I’m sorry but can you say it louder for the people in the back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Scrotes mad they can't get modelsHis dog is pretty cute tho, I’ll give him that, but the rest...😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 11 | Women idealize the best in men, often to their own detriment. Don't date potential, date reality. You can't change him, sis, so know what you want upfront and never settle for less.Damn! I’ve never looked at it like that. In fact, I would say we’ve been more pushed towards imitating the craziness of porn than men are towards behaving decently like the characters of “chic-lits”. It’s a result of our hypersexualized societies. Dating almost feels like screening a sex partner more so than finding a soulmate. I don’t know, maybe I’m being naive but I miss wholesome long term relationships where friendship and love is mutual and long term and not temporary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 2 | 😂Lmaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | AVOID THIS AT ALL COSTSHeeeeell no! If his place is dirty I’m out. I don’t care! How am I supposed to feel comfortable in a pigsty? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious!Haha haha! Yes! Yes! Yeeeees! I love this so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Should it make a comeback?I 100% agree and I will check it out. Thanks for the info. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:44 AM |
| -4 | Should it make a comeback?No, sorry. I did not read through it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:32 AM |
| -18 | Should it make a comeback?Sorry, I didn’t read through it. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:32 AM |
| 80 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.Why we shouldn’t? Because it hurts. I don’t need anymore reason than that. Sex is about pleasure. There’s is nothing pleasurable about that for me. To each his own though. No kink shaming over here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 20 | Men think we’re supposed to sell a leg and two eyes on the black market to keep them happy 🤮🤮🤮This makes me sick. Because I know there are people who love hard like this. Who’d do anything for their significant other. It pains me knowing that some of them are going above and beyond for a complete dirtbag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:08 PM |
| 8 | Even if he’s rich/famous, you still hold the power to choose a better manWait what? Is this true? Can somebody expound on these? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:22 PM |
| 10 | Raising kids is the easy way out?You’ve entirely missed the point and are doing exactly what I’m complaining about, belittling women who choose to raise children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:08 AM |
| 14 | Congratulating an engaged couple...My sister recently got married and something her husband said stuck out to me. In our culture, the man gives a monetary gift to the woman that the woman agrees upon. They agreed upon a small sum. My dad felt the sum was small and felt insulted. The two fathers were kind of stuck on this point and in the middle of their back and forth, the husband says, if she asked me for a million I would pay because she’s worth more. My dad felt that was a good answer and they’ve been married happily ever afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 05:11 PM |
| 6 | It's not "failure" if you manage to escape.It’s important that our daughters are taught early all the red flags. The lines that should not be crossed that terminate the marriage. To each his own on what those should be. For me, cheating and physical abuse are instant terminations. It won’t go up hill from there I PROMISE YOU! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 10:21 PM |
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