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To be brief: I'm gonna ignore your implication that the condition I live and struggle with is just something normal other people can just get over and I, for some reason, can't without the help of methylphenidate and therapy, and instead hopefully paint a picture well enough for you that you can understand why people with ADHD should get diagnosed and treated if it is disrupting their life. What the hell is the difference between a normal boy and one with ADHD You're right, this is a question yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:42 AM
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To be brief: I'm gonna ignore your implication that the condition I live and struggle with is just something normal other people can just get over and I, for some reason, can't without the help of methylphenidate and therapy, and instead hopefully paint a picture well enough for you that you can understand why people with ADHD should get diagnosed and treated if it is disrupting their life. What the hell is the difference between a normal boy and one with ADHD You're right, this is a question yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:41 AM
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ADHD kids are supposed to be hyperactive and can't sit still Then you clearly don't know what ADHD is and you should do some research on it. This is just a WebMD article, but it clearly explains what inattentive ADHD is and you can do further scholarly reading on it with your mom's subscriptions if you like, or google scholar is also a free resource with plenty of information on it. I was truly bored in class all the time. Yes, I was smart, but I was also incredibly "lazy" and had a knack for on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:29 PM
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You seriously need to re-evaluate how you come across in your reddit responses next time. Your first response was incredibly negative for all the reasons I mentioned before, and you continue to re-enforce that with your response here. Expecting adults to have a thick skin is not that extreme of an expectation as I have the same expectation, but that doesn't mean you should come across as an asshole in a serious discussion like this. You can talk about sensitive subjects without calling people sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:29 AM
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Respectfully, your mom is a chemist not a psychiatrist. I have access to scientific literature too, it's a perk of being a student and doesn't mean anything if you don't read it. my parents aren't stupid, but my dad thought I was gay because I was close to my sisters I'm not saying they're stupid, but they have their flaws. How do you know he would have accepted if you "really had" ADHD even though you and your dad somehow know you didn't? Your source that you don't have ADHD is your parents? Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:08 AM
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My parents did the same thing to me when I was a kid. I'm no doctor and this experience is only relevant to me, but it turns out I did actually have ADHD and that being treated for it and receiving mental care plans for it really helped me out. My parents were very prideful and had a negative stigma about mental health disorders, so in their head I was too perfect of a kid to have something "wrong" with me. So in a way, I was denied an opportunity for treatment any time my teachers suggested to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:16 PM
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You just made it seem like there's a problem with liking masculine women. I don't see the problem, and there are many things you insinuate about people who like masculine women that aren't true. never said there was anything wrong with looking at media for what you'd want in a partner Then you and I have a different understanding of what you said, which was clearly assuming that the person you were talking about has limited IRL experience with women and is very sheltered. These kinds of assumpti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:55 PM
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I didn't realize this distinction was all that important lol. Is it dark femininity when men coerce women to drink a bit beyond their limit to persuade them to say yes for sex? Or is that not really something men do to consider that at all noteworthy? Also I'm really not interested in this random either/or setup because it really doesn't matter what we call it whether it's dark feminine energy or neutral masculinity or whatever. The things I specifically look for in women that turn me on are typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:38 PM
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Her portrayal of Fallon Carrington in the new Dynasty reboot is actually quite masculine. She's very addicted to work, business centered at the cost of maintaining her relationships, is quite seductive but is likely to use sex in a more manipulative way; she's direct, stubborn, aggressive, violent at times (like the time she started shooting a pistol around the house because she was mad at her mom), etc. I see this more as masculine rather than dark feminine energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 07:51 PM
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Are you just trying to justify your own lack of loyalty? Because that's a little sad to say that other guys are delusional for saying they'd resist the charm and seduction of some mistress to preserve their own relationship out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:47 PM
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Please don't tell me you think ADHD is somehow ideal and shouldn't be treated. As someone who struggles with this disorder, there's nothing masculine about it and it fails to conform to the standards of society that I need to live by in order to make a good living.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:39 PM
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As a masculine, financially well off guy who sees nothing wrong with femininity, I'd say that being attracted to masculine women is simply a preference that can't really be explained. Idk why Liz Ghilles is hot, she just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:34 PM
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Not necessarily. I'm a masculine guy attracted to masculine women, and I am still very much a top. I don't mind the other way around, but that's honestly more of a sexual preference where I'm not afraid of getting my back blown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:31 PM
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OP did say they weren't gay. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:29 PM
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I don't like how targeted this feels against people who prefer masculinity in relationships. I'm a masculine guy, but don't have a high energy/high risk lifestyle. I also prefer similar traits in women, and they happen to be considered "masculine". you mentioned a bunch of games and media which makes me think that perhaps all your experience with women is through games and media... you probably live a shuttered life And yet your example of a woman comes from Game of Thrones? A little ironic I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:27 PM
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I'm bi but I'll answer anyway. My preference in women is strongly favored towards masculinity: women with shorter hair, wearing hoodies, jeans, short sleeve shirts, etc. Women who seem direct, intitiative, forward, bordering a little aggressive are really hot. I also really like it when a woman has an instinct to take care of her family or her partner, and if she makes more than me I'm also such a little bitch for that. Don't assume though, because I myself am a pretty masculine guy. My preferen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:20 PM
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This ambiguity is exactly why I will choose not to have sex with anyone while drunk unless we're in some kind of trusting relationship. There was a friend I had who smoked weed and had some edibles, and while it wasn't my first time trying edibles, I still wasn't an experienced weeder. I had a little too much and although we planned to fuck that night, I instead ended up wanting to just cuddle because I got paranoid. Same thing with alcohol, except in this case I know my limits better there. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:05 PM
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online dating for a decade What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:42 PM
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Any time I come here it's always women and men bitching about each other, and the only time women bitch about other women or men vs other men is when they're telling each other how to think about men vs women. We need the gay pill ffs because yall don't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:15 PM
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only we post our objective factual research
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:13 PM
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6" penis is large Lol no it's not And like I said, women are either into you or they're not. You can be a coward and attract a woman who doesn't care about that. You can be short and still date. In fact, having an actually large penis (like 7.5" and above) is a reason that might even turn some women away because they don't wanna have rough or painful sex. The only things someone should focus on is not being toxic to themselves or others. As long as you have good self-esteem, and are a competent …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:54 PM
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I still don't know what red pill, blue pill, or purple pill even mean. I'm just here for the discussions of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:59 PM
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both sides of female behavior bruh women are either into you or they're not, it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:58 PM
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Bro what are you even talking about? I'm not offended, I'm not a doctor, and I'm over trying to explain English grammar to you. Sorry I confused you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:05 AM
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"I'd be sad if", "I'd quit my job if", and any other similar statement is a conditional proposition that states no truth as it would as if the mood were imperative. I literally have no idea how else I can ELI5 this to you. You clearly don't know what you're talking about and are just going off of an ignorant perspective you have as a native English speaker with very limited knowledge of the mechanisms of the English language from a linguistic point of view. "I'd be a bad doctor if" is a conditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:00 AM
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I told you in another comment that people talk like this all the time. You're the one person who missed it and decided to run a train on that one thing you, yourself, misunderstood instead of talking about what actually mattered in the content of my reply. I never claimed to be a doctor. I clarified that I am not a doctor when you asked. That should have been the end of it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:10 PM
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You have such a native-speaker vibe lmao. You should listen to other people who have more knowledge than you about things. I gave you a wiki link. Click on it. Learn something. Get smarter. The only reason you can back up that I said I was a doctor was that you think it has the connotation of me being a doctor, which is just a product of your ignorance of how the conditional mood (in english) works. Your linguistic skills are limited. Skill diff. L + ratio, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:23 PM
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Do you see women as equals In general, yes. Anything a man can do or wants to do, a woman can do or should be able to do. Specifically, if a woman is my boss, then she's my superior. Do you think women and men can connect intellectually I think they can, but they may not do so often. I would prefer to be in a relationship with someone who connects with me intellectually, so if we don't then I would have to call it quits. Do you expect to do half the work at home It's not like I'm measuring out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:55 PM
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We do it all the time in common speech anyway so I don't know why you're suddenly having a problem with it now. "I'd be ashamed if I..." does not assume anything before or after the "if I" is true. Because it's conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:48 PM
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I am clearly taking my knowledge of the English language for granted. The only thing I'm sorry for is assuming you were open enough to learn something that you were not understanding. If I had any sense (conditional), I'd (I would) assume you never got past "dónde está el baño" in any mandatory foreign language classes you had to take. If you did (conditional, again), then you'd (you would) identify the conditional mood more easily than an ignorant native speaker lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:46 PM
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"would" makes the statement conditional, which is a mood in the English language that makes a statement (actually in this case a "proposition") "dependent on some condition, possibly counterfactual". "If I were a doctor, I would be a terrible doctor if I didn't" is the implied full proposition, but I didn't think it was absolutely necessary to clarify I was not an actual doctor since I never claimed to be one in the first place. The way you derailed this entire conversation from the point to try…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:31 PM
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I'd = "I would". I'm an IT professional, and I've never claimed otherwise. The context of "I would be a terrible doctor if I didn't" is conditional, not subjunctive. You originally did the right thing by trying to clarify if I was claiming to be a doctor, and I clarified with you that I was not. Trying to "prove me wrong" like this is extremely childish of you and is making you look really stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:21 PM
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Women are far less likely to orgasm from a ONS than men are Because the man they're with didn't take their time to make the woman they're with orgasm. many men are not interested in making women cum; far too focused on themselves This is the reason used to explain the point above, but this reason isn't actually backed up lol. As a man who would go to great lengths to make a woman cum (since it takes me an hour to get there anyway, I might as well), I'm sure I'm not in a minority of men willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:16 PM
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I never claimed to be a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:02 PM
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I'm gonna just put in my three cents as a guy who hoes around, hope it contributes positively. Personally, I do it because I know I'm not ready for a long term committed relationship with someone yet, and I think a lot of young people are in the same boat I am. But, sex is fun and there's no reason we shouldn't be able to have sex outside of a relationship. This isn't the 1800s, and we should be able to fuck around as we please. The guilt and shame that might come from the hoe phase might be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:55 AM
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thiamine deficiency LOL I do not have whiskey dick. I'm 21 not 14, I wake up with morning wood many mornings, but not every morning lol. There's nothing wrong with a man that isn't horny 24/7, just like there's nothing wrong with a man who is. My point is men are by and large different and it's a large, normal range.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:53 PM
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Blanket statements never help make a point because they're always wrong on some level. For example, it can take me hours to cum if I even cum at all, so obviously my pleasure is not my main focus. I can understand pregnancy is never something I have to worry about if I remain abstinent from sex with women, just as women don't have to worry about pregnancy if they abstain from sex with men. I can handle bacterial STIs, and I take meds to prevent HIV infections. Pregnancy is a risk I'm not willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:14 PM
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I don't have a problem with anything. You just made it sound like men are horny as fuck by default and that's not really true for all men. I don't "practice semen retention" I just don't feel like I need to jerk off and cum that much. Innately, physically within me, there is no sex fiend trying to bust out where I'm literally miserable for having a dry spell. My life doesn't need sex to be complete lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:10 PM
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Ok if you're serious, this might just be a you problem. I have nothing in my life sex (or the lack thereof) gets in the way of. I already only cum like 2 times a week if that. There is no value that can be added to my life if I joined r/nofap. I'm not even religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:08 PM
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Lmfao top quality bait if I've ever seen it. GG bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:12 PM
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Why is masturbation unhealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:28 PM
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If jacking off sometimes is the solution to complaining about women not sleeping with me (and not, in fact, my controllably good mother-taught behavior), then I guess I just must suggest touching yourself at least twice a week. I'd be a terrible doctor if I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:26 PM
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Well, I don't pay for sex lol. Even if I considered paying for a date as paying for sex (but dates don't imply sex), i still would not pay for sex, and never have before. I don't need sex that badly that I need to pay for it, and people have been fucking with me for free for months. Why pay for something you can already get for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:09 PM
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Ah yes, thanks for arbitrarily telling me what you meant without clarifying that in your post. I commend your excellent communication skills. Clearly you are more intelligent than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:06 PM
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"I'm not gay but I would fuck men for sexual pleasure" is a weird cope to me now, having myself said that in the past. You don't have to be gay to have sex with men, in that you don't have to be romantically attracted to men to fuck someone you deem worthy of fucking. You call masturbating a "temporary solution" when really what you mean is it's a substitute for sex. It accomplishes the exact same thing in a different way. It's a perfectly valid solution to celibacy. You don't have to explicitly…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:57 PM
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Funny, your deleted post said something wildly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:48 PM
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I do like women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:48 PM
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I'm gonna admit I only read half your reply before responding, but my point still stands if you take "literally live" out of my response and replace it with "to be happy/content/satisfied/not miserable". It's not a biological fact for every man. Sex is an important part of some men's lives (as it is for some women's), but the idea that men need sex to be fulfilled and healthy in life as a regular task or whatever only exists as a cope for men to use to make women feel bad if they say no to sex. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:26 AM
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So many men and women ITT just showing how little of a fuck they give about understanding the other gender at all. Kudos to the ones that care to acknowledge that the generalizations commonly made about men and women don't apply to everyone despite the other crowd insisting they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:22 AM
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Most days I can make it without thinking about sex lol. On days I can't, I jack off and call it good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:19 AM
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I feel no desire for emotional attachment as a man. Frankly has nothing to do with the fact I'm a man, but those two facts are related by your statement so I thought I'd share.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:17 AM
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Stop larping as a woman and pretending you know what they all want. That's probably why you're not getting bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:16 AM
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lmfao sail is shitting himself right now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:16 AM
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I don't think sex with strangers is all that fulfilling lol. Maybe to other men it is, but sex is better with a friend, or if you're risking bad sex, then no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:15 AM
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As a man, I agree: sex with friends is infinitely better than sex with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:13 AM
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A typical ignorant OP tbh. Although to be fair, some people think the same about men where all our lives revolve around sex, so maybe we should just understand each other more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:11 AM
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single man = havent spoken to another soul in 2 months I'm single. Never had a SO my entire life. But I have good friends I talk to regularly who make me feel fulfilled already. I'm also single by choice and have no desire for a traditional LTR for various good reasons, but the most important one is that I don't want one. Single is not lonely. If you're single and lonely, careful not to conflate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:09 AM
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we have the same level of libido or higher than man we control it better I'm not trying to play into the bullshit that justifies why men should get sex because of their high libidos, but you literally don't have a higher sex drive than a man willing to fuck a bucktooth 50 year old woman if you wouldn't also. If someone is willing to give more up for sex, including lowering their standards farther than you, they literally by definition have a higher libido than you. A controlled libido is just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:07 AM
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I will never pay for sex lmao, and the "men got money" argument falls quite flat in a world where men and women are receiving roughly the same pay. Lol imagine paying for sex. That's some really sad shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:04 AM
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Avg women do love hookups but with hot guys Your definition of "hot" is more fucked up than the one you think "avg women" have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:02 AM
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Men are always, always No I'm not :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:01 AM
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Lol this is so bullshit. Men don't need sex like they need oxygen. That's just common cope to guilt women into having sex with a desperate man who thinks he needs sex to literally live.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:01 AM
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As a man, sex is literally not like winning the lottery to me. I might be the outcast here, but I'd rather actually win the lottery and never have sex again in my life. many report never even having orgasms especially from penetrative sex and even if they do its not like it matters Both people should enjoy sex, there doesn't need to be a "reason" why one can enjoy it but not the other. Lots of women are just with one-pump-chump men who cum so fast the women don't even get a chance to get close t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:58 AM
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Men and women are just different. That's not to say some women can't be as horny as men generally are, and that's not to say all men are generally horny. I found a solution: if I'm horny, I'll find another horny dude. I don't see why people find the need to bitch about how easily someone else could be having sex when the problem comes from within, not from other people. It's not other people's fault you can't find someone to fuck. And just cause you think women have it easier to fuck anyone they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:55 AM
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Bro that's so RUDEEE 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:56 AM
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Sorry but "usually" has no place in this sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:48 PM
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Thanks! it was xd
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:30 AM
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No, I lost my virginity to a guy and he hasn't contacted me again. Literally made my body quake and then ghosted me. What an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:21 AM
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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WHERES MY CHRISTMAS GIFT
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:00 AM
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Sex workers choose the line of work because it's better to pay the bills with. Juno Mac gives a great TED talk on this subject. Not everyone loves their job, but not everyone hates it either. Mac states "Ultimately, most of us have mixed feelings [about work]." The minimum wage retail workers selling the clothes produced by that factory could also be considered exploited if we reconsider the lens we're looking at society from. They're certainly not being paid enough to survive in a standard of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:43 AM
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Well I'm not sure why you didn't pick the most obvious answer according to your logic (the consumer), and instead accused me of being the closed minded one. Lol all I've been doing here is asking questions to clarify your position which, yes, I don't completely understand. That doesn't mean I disagree with you. It is simply your take on this conversation makes no sense and I'm trying to ask questions to better understand it. You and I are both on reddit. Neither one of us are obsessed with this …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:35 AM
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To what extent is a job a job? Who do we blame for environmental issues in regards to unethically producing clothes using slave labor or excessive energy from non-renewable energy sources: the consumer, or the producer?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:29 AM
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So having sex with men because they got holes available for free isn't a flag for sex addiction or a dehumanization of men? I have to ask again, why are only the clients of sex workers at fault for paying for a two-party system?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:25 AM
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Nope, I'm pretty sure I am just looking for sex, no strings attached. I don't have the emotional capacity to support a relationship right now and would not be present enough, and I don't want to treat the woman I end up in a relationship with as invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:21 AM
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I think the reason women don't get on Grindr for hookups is because they know the demand for heterosexual NSA fucking is high enough to make money off of it. If you can make money having sex with people you choose to see (understanding that sex workers can deny service to any client they want), why wouldn't you do that? Furthermore, how can the sex worker in this case be absolved of this mentality of soliciting prostitution but the client cannot? Should sex workers be seen as immoral as the clie…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:18 AM
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So where would you say the ick comes from about his views on women if he basically does the same thing except pays for it and has sex with women? There's no app that women go on for guaranteed hookups and it's easier to find men to hookup with, which is why I am asking what I am asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:07 AM
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I don't need a woman's emotional support to be happy in life? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:05 AM
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Damn that's so thoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:01 AM
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Damn, you missed me by about a month. Good luck finding men who are virgins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:00 AM
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video games aren't a human right either but I still have to pay for those
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:00 AM
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What do you think about a man who slept with men in the past before he met you? Not even because he was gay, but just for the sexual experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:58 AM
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Instead, I will advocate for the removal of all exclusive scholarships lol. I do think true equality is impossible, but while there are people who still refuse to higher equally capable women over men, while there are still people who refuse to look at resumes with a non-white sounding name, there should be efforts in place to guarantee those people receive a chance at the opportunity they might not otherwise have without it. I don't know what you mean by anything swinging the other way since I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:59 PM
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tl;dr Almost all of these are just general lol and don't seem like good justifications for aspects of male/female privilege. It's not productive to compare men and women like this to try and play in a pity contest about who has more problems. It's the same reason I cringe any time someone says I have male privilege or whatever. It goes both ways. Stop doing this shit lmao, it's so dumb. Some men are sexualized, others aren't. Most of the time it's just ignored because it's not as socially unacce…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:09 AM
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kek emojis on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:40 PM
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w = win, as in the opposite of an L take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:39 PM
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Yeah, I feel like this post was mostly a rant about how single OP is lmfao. Most of the posts on this sub are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:36 AM
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If a woman doesn't want to actually communicate well with me, then I'm gonna lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:35 AM
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Lesbians don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:33 AM
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It really depends on how obvious you are when hitting on him. I've had women hit on me before and I set firm expectations that basically showed I didn't miss a hint and I wasn't interested. I would have the same approach to women who are playing hard to get, though. If I shoot my shot with someone and they sort of slide past it without giving me an indication of yes or no, I can just assume no and fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:33 AM
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w take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:29 AM
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It sucks that people keep holding on to this kind of mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:29 AM
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I'm gonna go ahead and stick to direct communication tbh. It's safer and won't ever get me into hot water. Plus, once everyone is on the same page, it's the best way to set and maintain expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:28 AM
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By and large, women are more courageous than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:27 AM
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Tradition can suck my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:26 AM
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I feel like a lot of people, including OP and people ITT, are the same generalizing idiots who simplify the world and put people into boxes like they understand others at all. I can't believe there are this many people who can't use their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:25 AM
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I'm sure many women are gonna disagree with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:24 AM
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Personally I don't mind a woman with spontaneity. Lil bit of sasón. Idk what men you know in your life but I guess I'm just not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:23 AM
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It's posts and comments like these that really make me think about how seriously people take their gender. I'm a man and not interested in the slightest about companionship, actively choosing not to date or have romantic relationships and being totally fine with that. I think you pay way too much attention to gender and what that means to someone's identity and feelings about love or companionship. Hot take, but people really need to stop generalizing men and women the way they're doing it now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:07 PM
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I wouldn't have sex with someone without some kind of level of trust or relationship anyway, even if it was a fuckbuddy situation. I think one-night stands are incapable of holding each other accountable for things like STDs or even sexual trauma, and would much rather fuck someone I know even if it's not going to grow romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:16 AM
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Good relationships start as good friendships. Under the layer of shiny love should be a solid foundation of trust, communication, understanding and friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:33 PM
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The only based comment I've read that also uses "high value" to describe men and women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:29 PM
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sussy baka
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:52 PM
1

Okay, but I'm still not sure what you meant... Now I'm just more confused lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:00 AM
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Sorry, I'm not sure how I was being unreasonable. I wouldn't have a problem with frotting with guys so idk what ante you're upping.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:42 AM
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lolwut you confused me homie, what's the problem with used punani then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:23 AM
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Good news, indirect peen contact will not make you gay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:09 AM
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No, I couldn't give a fuck less about virginity. That's honestly kind of a dumb concept to me and I don't really understand why that's important to some people. I would rather not date someone who has not built up dating experience because I don't want to date someone with some weak ass boundaries where I can do damage and cause some unknown trauma because I'm not treating them right... Experience is an amazingly underrated thing in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:08 AM
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I said no, what are you gonna do about it O_o
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:07 AM
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Okay, I was mistaken thinking it was removed, so I take part of that back. I considered re-editing my post to make it less bitchy at the end, but instead I responded to you and now someone reading this thread knows to pretend the end is less bitchy. It's on them now because I'm a lazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:10 AM
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There definitely is sexual objectification of boys, so there is an equivalent lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:23 PM
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This isn't something I share all the time, and none of my friends know, but my aunt who lived with my family when I was young, and then again during high school and college, would find any reason to touch me when she walked by me. She'd pat or squeeze my ass, rub my side, put her hands on my shoulders, etc. and I found all of this uncomfortable. I built up the courage once to indirectly tell her that I didn't like it when she did that, but she justified it by saying she used to do that with her …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:18 PM
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Let me put it this way. I agree that you should be able to say no without needing to justify it. People need to respect your boundaries. Even though I said you don't need to lie about having a man in your life, you insisted that it was a good idea anyway and I respect that. I also agree that people need to not take rejection personally and that kind of mindset has to be taught at a young age. Almost every man I met in my life would take no for an answer because they're respectful to other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:31 PM
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If I had just said I wasn't interested I'm not saying to just say that. Please understand that I said to incorporate that into whatever else you said, as in "I have a boyfriend, so I'm not interested in a relationship with you". You also don't know how he would have reacted, regardless I'm sorry you felt that way about how he presented himself. Just like offering someone lactose intolerant some ice cream My sister is lactose intolerant and takes pills to quell the symptoms so she can eat things …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:47 PM
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See? I knew I was better than everyone else my age. Time to go make memes about it between my grind >:) ^^^^<sup>/j</sup> Thanks for the conversation and the perspectives you shared over the course of the thread. <3 love and peace
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:14 AM
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That's more than most folks can yield to I'm a reasonable man, and I do the reasonable things :) Well, as a nihilist I can explain some stuff to you if you had any particular burning questions about it. I kinda misrepresented it in the joke I made earlier, but nihilism boils down to either a lack of moral realism or a lack of existential realism (or both). Me, I don't think either morality or a life purpose objectively exist, so in essence there's no reason to live and no true good or evil. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:06 AM
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I ignore any strong initial emotions because they're always illogical and cloud my own judgement. I can't remember a specific time I felt like I was head over heels for someone, but I do remember when I was younger getting temporarily boosted self esteem by things girls have said to me which I remember recalibrating myself before thinking of doing anything rash (like, omg, dating them :O). I can't miss any red flags unless I'm blinded by some sense of love. My eyes are bad, but they're not that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:00 AM
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Bro what are you talking about? What BS am I making up? All I said was it doesn't matter why you say you have a boyfriend. I don't care why you say you have a boyfriend. You are not obligated to tell anyone about why you say you have a boyfriend. What part of this are you confused about, and maybe I can say it in another way that can make sense to you? When I talked about unclear communication, I was talking about despite you saying you had a boyfriend, you said that some men asked you if you we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:55 AM
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No, I think I'd feel secure enough knowing that she'd rather use toys to experience something larger than go try to find another man to do it for her. Ultimately if she's not satisfied in bed and it absolutely, definitively has to do with my size, then she needs to find someone else as that's not something I can control. Most people will not have such a standard though. Motion of the ocean, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:46 AM
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because we have to bE In tHiS tOgEtHer!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:44 AM
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Just to be absolutely clear, a nutshot is not brief. The initial impact can be blinding for some people, but what most people actually remember is the long nauseous ache afterwards if they're lucky enough not to get their balls twisted. I can't remember what it really feels immediately after getting kicked in the balls because I guess my brain blocked that shit out, but I remember every single moment afterwards of how absolutely shitty I felt for anywhere between 30 minutes to 2 hours. For the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:43 AM
1

What a fucking savage, this is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:39 AM
1

Though unlike getting labor pains, getting pegged might actually feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:38 AM
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I don't mind the opportunity to experience something like that. I would want to be in full control of the experience though, and of course be under direct supervision of medical professionals. However, it really isn't my problem if the woman I'm with wants me to experience the pains of labor in order for her to "allow me" to get her pregnant. I don't think pain should be mutual like that. Even if we simulated labor, I'd never understand the full effects of pregnancy like hormonal and body change…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:36 AM
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I'm 21 and I'll freely admit I'm not dateable. I focus too much on myself, I don't have the drive for companionship, I think I'll struggle with control issues and setting up boundaries for which I will have a very low tolerance if someone steps over them, and frankly dating doesn't sound fun to me. It sounds like a huge drain on my life and a massive waste of my time. Ironically I never got turned down by anyone I asked out (never asked anyone out, was asked to hoco and I'm sure I intentionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:25 AM
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Oh yeah, I totally ignore that. On this sub, when there's a post I agree with, I head straight to the comments and find something I can talk about with someone. I'll never actually contribute to this website most of the time if that's not how I rolled. OP better not fucking cheat when they respond to your comment. Plagiarism is a bitch and I worked hard on my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:12 AM
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Relax, that's just what I say to people as a response when there's a misunderstanding. You don't have to have not been relaxed before I say it lol. There, I did it again in spite, see? Peace love and joy. Back to the drawing board Stop drawing, we already found the solution lol. We need to fully restructure our public education system to indoctrinate our kids with the wonders and values of nihilism so all they have left to focus on is their own existence and the lack thereafter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:03 AM
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That was my ex husband lol. I wasted way too much time with that guy so maybe I just have a lower tolerance Yeah, this is the exact situation I want to avoid. It's gonna be hard to find someone who I think is worth my time too and I've never even been in the dating game before. cuddle but no relationship This is why I tell my friends I don't mind physical contact. Cuddling with the homies is a meme for a lot of people, but I think it should be taken more seriously. Sometimes you just need friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:55 AM
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I responded to your thoughts with my thoughts so that we could have a conversation. Fuck what OP said, do you want to continue the conversation with me or not? It sounds like you have interesting things to say about my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:48 AM
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... men are socialized due to TV so I'm not sure where that's coming from It was a joke, relax. I just meant that I'm nOt LiKe tHe OtHeR GuYs. I just feel like I'm being ignored because of the more notably shittier men out there. Sure, I'm doing the absolute bare minimum expected to be decent to women, and I don't expect praise, but we need to do a damn better job of isolating shitty men from typical men. Shitty men are not the standard, and most men are not shitty. It only seems that way becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:47 AM
1

In my case, I'm not actively looking for companionship so I'd be the kind of guy that won't get into a relationship unless I make a new friend and fall for them after knowing them for a while. I'm meh about everyone I meet because I don't make everyone my friend just because we're friendly to each other. I think if I met someone who was unsure about what our relationship should be or could be, but I had feelings, I'd just have a conversation with them and test the waters. I don't like wasting ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:05 AM
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I'm not talking about your fabrications of reality. Like I said, no one else is promised details in your life so I don't really care about your reasons for lying to other people. What I said was that it seems in the cases where the boyfriend confession doesn't stop a person from trying to get with you anyway, the expectations were not set regardless. They may have been implied by you saying "I have a boyfriend (and so therefore am not interested in a relationship with you)", but people cheat on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:57 AM
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I'm saying that men as an entity seem to think the "absence of no" = yes That's definitely a problem for those that do, but it also sounded like you had a problem with persistence in the absence of no which was what I was mainly talking about. But men are also socialized to feel entitled to womens bodies and to intentionally ignore women's boundaries I must not watch enough TV lol, because I was raised with none of this in mind. Thats why domestic violence, sexual assualt, groping, molestation, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:52 AM
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Even then, there are still guys that will persist and ask of they can be my friend or if I'm happy though/willing to cheat Seems like you glossed over exactly why just saying you have a boyfriend is not enough to set the expectation that the person interested in you doesn't have a chance with you. Because this is literally what my response covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:40 PM
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I'm sorry, I think you misunderstood what I said. You might be okay with people feeling “meh” about you, but I’m not So do you expect everyone who thinks that you could be right for them to already be in love with you by the time they talk to you? I'm a guy who would rather be friends with someone I know first and then see if it goes anywhere. I don't think a relationship will last beyond the initial head-over-heels stage if the people in the relationships don't have a solid friendship underneat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:39 PM
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No, this isn't true for all women. I think your question is valid but your underlying assumptions are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:35 PM
1

how is your TL;DR longer than your original statement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:34 PM
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If it’s not a yes, it’s a no. It’s not that hard. It depends on the question you think you're answering "yes" or "no" to. If a guy wants to hang out and your answer makes it seem like you would but you have a boyfriend, then it becomes less clear that your real rejection is "I don't want a romantic relationship with you". The guy may still egg the woman on to hang out just because he thinks they can be good friends, but that's not going to be received well and we only have ineffective communicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:10 PM
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teach men not to be promiscuous It's more valuable to teach men about the values of consent, and it should be up to them how to attract attention to themselves. teach men women can be fearful rejecting someone It's possible we can resolve the core issue of ineffective communication by instead teaching men to respect boundaries and teaching women how to effectively set them. A part of this problem may be in part affected by ego, which someone can take personally when feeling rejected. Another thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:02 PM
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It's becoming more clear over time that not all women are being brought up this way, and many women currently hold a lot of value over their own personal agency. I'm glad this style of traditional upbringing is going away though, and I'm really proud of everyone who puts themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:56 PM
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Concealing personal information is not the same thing as being unclear with your communication. Strangers are not entitled to the truth about your personal life, but the problem comes when boundaries are not clearly established. A: Hey, I thought you did great during your ----, and I was wondering if we could hang out later. B: Sorry, I have a boyfriend... A: Oh, maybe he can come too! I'd just like to get to know you more because you seem really cool. B: Well, I'm not so sure... A: Why not? Are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:53 PM
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No one should follow set expectations that aren't right for them. There are men and women who want to take their relationships slow, and there are men and women who don't. The important part is communicating effectively with your partner your expectations, boundaries, and making sure you understand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:39 PM
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This generalization is not correct. First of all, no one should be expected understand what someone truly means when they are not communicating effectively. Secondly, assuming men do all perfectly understand indirect communication and saying that those that "can't" instead don't care about women's boundaries ignores the possibility that the man simply didn't understand the person they were communicating with meant. A generalization like this will hurt men by asserting things that are simply not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:37 PM
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Also if a man approaches you on the street and asks you out he wants to f. If you find a guy on a dating app, bar or club he wants to f. This isn't true. Lots of love has been found in dating apps and clubs. The next and equally important thing girls need to be taught is guys don’t get hints or any type of indirect communication That's also not true. Many guys are able to respond socially to indirect communication, but it requires a skill that most people in general don't have. First of all, a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:32 PM
1

Because looks are temporary. Personality is more permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:46 AM
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I understand that you have been through a very traumatic dating experience with someone, but when I hear you say that you find it hard to trust someone again, I only can suggest that you do not continue dating people until you can either seek help from someone or find it within yourself a healthy way to move on from that pain or trauma. It's inevitable to live through some form of trauma, and you have every right to feel the way you do, but make sure that your actions are safe for yourself and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:21 PM
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I just find it incredibly funny that a person who constantly cheated on their partner and was involved in extra-marital relationships with other women now has trust issues about his own partner cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:44 PM
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”you can’t trust that others will never hurt you, you can only trust that you’ll be strong enough to handle it when they do” You can trust others not to hurt you. You just can't trust everyone that they won't hurt you. This kind of mindset is incredibly negative and will stop you from opening yourself to other people. but even with that there’s an inevitability that infidelity will usually be present to some degree No, not everyone cheats when a relationship isn't working out. For the most part,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:41 PM
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I don't think someone's gender makes a difference on how open minded someone can be. Maybe people of one gender tend to be more open minded than the other statistically, but it really doesn't have much to do with being a man or a woman. Individually, people can be generally closed minded about a lot of things despite telling themselves and other people about how open minded there are. Frankly, most things most people believe are going to be static in their minds until they either spend more time…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:26 PM
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Part of the reason people stay in toxic relationships is the desperation or craving for love in a relationship, or companionship. I think many people would be surprised what they themselves would put up with if they felt that not doing so would compromise one of their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:00 AM
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On a charge like this, I think it has to be unanimous. If even one person votes no, then they can't go guilty. It lasted 7 hours probably because men were trying to convince the naysayers to vote guilty.
/r/PussyPass20/04/20 12:51 AM
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When ruled not guilty by insanity, you're put into an institution. When you're found to not actually be insane, you're discharged. But because of the verdict, you can't double jeapordy so yeah. Lots of people get let off the hook after weeks of their sentencing.
/r/PussyPass20/04/20 12:49 AM
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