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| -30 | Do you think parents and society fail to teach girls to respect boys?And you are blocked. If the mods NEED to tell me anything in the future, and I'm sure they won't, then someone else will have to do it. I'm sure that isn't a rule violation; I'm free to block any user. Good bye and keep fighting for what we believe in. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/21 01:16 AM |
| -17 | Do you think parents and society fail to teach girls to respect boys?The way reddit hides comments is flawed. I have fixed it, and there is nothing you can do about it. This has nothing to do with responsibility. I refuse to downvote a comment that has 1 upvote (i.e. no upvotes) because it will hide that comment and silence that person, unless they are offering genuinely harmful information, in which case I'll downvote and report them as well. I'm happy to downvote comments that have upvotes already, but downvoting new comments is off-limits. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/21 11:55 PM |
| -45 | Do you think parents and society fail to teach girls to respect boys?That's a thoughtful response. Unfortunately, im going to have to delete my original comment now and repost it because you downvoted my comment to zero, reducing visibility of both our comments amd effectively silencing my voice. Feel free to reply to the new comment, and maybe i'll read your reply next time. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/21 09:32 PM |
| -25 | Do you think parents and society fail to teach girls to respect boys?[Denied] | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/21 09:02 PM |
| 10 | Responses to "my exgirlfriend is crazy"I understand this problem better than most, unfortunately. I've been part of two communities of abuse survivors for several years. There isn't a single member of either community who would stand behind sexist generalizations like this towards either sex. Well there were a few a handful of times, and they were shut down every time. Anyone who has been in that situation can read the words of another victim--what they went through--and have an intuition for their sincerity and the truth of their wo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/21 05:48 AM |
| 4 | The very different definitions men and women of different countries and age groups have of sexual harassment.I think it's pretty simple. Sexual harassment is clearly defined where I live (US), as law. A single instance of an unwanted sexual advance, even propositioning someone directly for sex, is not sexual harassment. It requires a pattern. The victim has to make their discomfort known, or a reasonable person would have to believe that the behavior is unwanted and harassing without being told so. This is separate from sexual coercion, of course. A single instance of sexual coercion is a crime. No rej… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 7 | Controversy ensues when science butts heads with liberal ideology: Few seem able to hear that women can be as violent as men in domestic disputesIt's a case of getting too friendly with science. If it backs up your assertions for decades and hinders your opponents then you get comfortable with it. Then it comes as a shocking betrayal when science dictates that one of your beliefs is wrong. It can't be science; it must be someone perverting science. It doesn't help that there really are researchers out there perverting science for political goals, but naturally if someone publishes research that contradicts a viewpoint then someone will s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/21 03:20 AM |
| 3 | "Women who hate men are justified"Many women turn to feminism after being badly hurt by a man who was close to them. For awhile after suffering abuse, people are justified in having coping mechanisms to keep themselves safe while they work through what happened. A common coping mechanism is to take easily identifiable qualities of the abuser and mistrust anyone who shares those qualities. It's easy to identify whether someone is a man or not, so that's a common quality that is used. In the months following an escape from an abus… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/06/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Feminist gaslighting and shaming tactics against men.I see your point and I apologize for generalizing, but I don't think it's a bad thing if some women think that way. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/21 10:48 AM |
| 21 | Feminist gaslighting and shaming tactics against men.I decided to take a look at the sub for fairness' sake. It's a bit better than it was a few years ago, but now it's about 50% posts about women and 50% posts about doing fun hobbies and exploring what it means to eschew relationships. It needs to be 100% doing fun hobbies and exploring what it means to eschew relationships. There is no room in a MGTOW lifestyle to talk about women, let alone love/hate them. The sub has not risen above its trash label. Stay MGTOW, ditch that pathetic sub. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/06/21 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Here is my understanding of just why misandrist feminism is so pervasive.When there is nothing to compete over, men tend to get along with each other really well. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/21 04:02 AM |
| -1 | Here is my understanding of just why misandrist feminism is so pervasive.If you meant to show that men treat women better than they treat other men, and women also treat women better than they treat men, then I agree and I see you have lots of studies to back that up. But I don't believe for a second that women treat each other better than men do. Women are nasty to each other. Men, in the absence of women, get along way better and more naturally than women get along with other women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 8 | Amnesty International now too infected with and pushing toxic feminism1 in 50 is a lot. 1 in 10 is a huge number of false accusations. That is insane. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else felt like they have nowhere to go to for sexual assault support because they reject feminism?Based on what I've learned, Bancroft has an even worse motive: money and power, and of course women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else felt like they have nowhere to go to for sexual assault support because they reject feminism?I haven't been able to corroborate the anti-vaxx claim in my investigation, yet, but I've heard about it. He is trans-exclusionary, though, possibly a TERF. He doesn't write about it in his books, but he has tweeted some pretty nasty things about trans women. The guy has a serious god complex. All men are evil including men who call themselves women, except Lundy himself of course, whom you should believe and trust. The truly sick thing is that his books are very popular. There are thousands of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 13 | Has anyone else felt like they have nowhere to go to for sexual assault support because they reject feminism?I'm thankful to not need those kinds of services, but I agree that they are anti-male. RAINN is not feminist that I'm aware of, but they do seem to believe that men can't be victims, and you can include the National DV Hotline in that assessment, too. Both organizations feature articles in support of Lundy Bancroft, a popular abuse self-help author who is very vocal in his belief that men cannot be victims, although he never uses those exact words. His books are a tinderbox for lighting fires of… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/21 11:00 AM |
| 9 | Question to you folks: How young were you when you were told it's always ladies' first or that you had to put your needs below a women's for being male?Probably 2nd grade. If I was told before then it didnt sink in. Girls were yucky around that age. A girl tackled me to the ground and kissed me on the lips in 2nd grade. The grown ups said it was cute. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/21 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Are we the main Men's Rights subreddit now? If that's the case, we need to be careful.We don't have to do anything. Just be yourself. If you are really a liberal thinker, then that attitude will show through in your posts and comments. There will always be naysayers, and we shouldn't do anything on account of them and what they think. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 16 | As a woman trying to fight misandry, I'm feeling tired and alone.Thank you for your support. It means a lot, and it shows great character that you are able to empathize with what men experience even though you haven't had those experiences yourself. I think if more women were able to understand existence as man then a lot of hate and anger and anguish could be avoided. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 6 | A study done by fellow questioning left wingers.In some ways feminists hold ultraconservative values. It's crazy the level of discord among them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | A study done by fellow questioning left wingers.The left wing has always been the ideology of acceptace, open-mindedness, looking to the future, and change; and the right wing has always been the ideology of tradition, protecting what you have, and honoring the struggles of the past. These two positions are at odds and must constantly be balanced. Sometimes it is important to secure your resources and look to tradition for guidance with difficult problems, and sometimes it is important to leave the past behind and make progress towards a diff… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 0 | A study done by fellow questioning left wingers.Huh? You shouldn't generalize about an entire gender. Thats what we're here to fight. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | A study done by fellow questioning left wingers.I disagree with him, then. The GOP is a far greater threat, not only to society but to our very existence. The party that denies climate change and does everything they can to speed its progress are much more dangerous than the party who denies mens' rights. Also, I have much more faith in liberals' ability to change and be better. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | If I'm perfectly honest this feels pointless...Our voices are being heard. We are becoming louder. Many times someone has been in a difficult fight and has felt hopeless. There are signs everywhere. Feminists aren't able to say whatever they want without pushback anymore. They are careful about what they say. Many people are afraid to identify as feminist anymore. Little things, like #JusticeForJohnnyDepp A few years ago the idea of turning an abuse allegation around on the woman in the relationship would have been unheard of. Amber Heard to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else notice how toxic so many male feminists are?There is no such thing as a male feminist. There are male allies, which are second class feminists who aren't allowed to speak if there are women speaking, and any time a real feminist says anything he is obligated to nod his head and agree. If anything, you should pity these losers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 6 | What is the feminist movement's net worth?I think you've been grinding the ax a little to hard, friend. Maybe step away from the toxic information stream for a while and focus on something that makes you happy. The fight will still be here when you get back. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/21 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Bi phobia specifically from women.I deserved that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about this? I’m kinda sick of seeing it.It's one thing to have heated debate, but you don't get to go around shutting down conversations and literally telling people to shut their mouths. Blocked and reported. Good riddance either way. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/04/21 07:25 PM |
| -2 | Can we talk about this? I’m kinda sick of seeing it.Don't start with that crap. INDIVIDUALLY, not statistically, women are less safe on the street. I'm not addressing the bigger picture with my comment. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/04/21 06:26 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about this? I’m kinda sick of seeing it.Bro don't you guys start with this stupid nonsense. I'm not talking about statistics. Individually. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/04/21 06:24 PM |
| -3 | Can we talk about this? I’m kinda sick of seeing it.Hmm this is one where I would disagree. If women feel unsafe on the street we should listen to that concern and believe them. There really do be weird creepy mofos out there following women and girls. What we shouldn't do is white knighting, or do weird stuff like OP is bringing attention to, or force ordinary men to jump through hoops to make women on the street feel safer. And honestly should they feel safer in that situation? If a man who wasn't going to harm anyone in the first place goes ou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about this? I’m kinda sick of seeing it.It makes sense like, at home at night and you are both tall and walk softly (like me), and you hear someone coming down the hall who will freak out for a second when they round the corner and see you standing quietly in the kitchen, then yeah you might give some audible signal they can recognize you by. But this other stuff is creepy and hilarious. I imagine someone taking this to heart, but who isn't trying to pass a woman on the street, just walking at about the same pace as her, being like, "… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Article about talking with, instead of at, boys and menThanks for adding to what I said. It's not just society at large that will pay a price for abusing young boys. Those boys will be more prone to being victimized. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | A Google Search Experiment: Googling ‘Washington state women’s equality’ produces webpages about women’s equality. Googling ‘Washington state men’s equality’ also produces webpages about women’s equality.No. Thank you for pointing her out to me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Article about talking with, instead of at, boys and menThat is horrifying. What is going to happen to these Australian boys in 20 years? Boys' behavior will get worse, not better, because they are sucking the value out of their lives. They may internalize the message and become ultra protective of girls (like radical islam), or they may reject it and become bitter and angry. Most boys develop a natural inclination to protect girls. Telling them they aren't doing enough is going to blow up in everyone's faces. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 10:24 PM |
| 6 | A Google Search Experiment: Googling ‘Washington state women’s equality’ produces webpages about women’s equality. Googling ‘Washington state men’s equality’ also produces webpages about women’s equality.Ditto looking up material on domestic abuse. Searches for abuse come up with 5-10 articles on abuse from a non-gendered perspective, and 100 articles for women. Searches for abuse with male victims gives roughly the same result. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Article about talking with, instead of at, boys and menWhat do you mean, "if done right?" This is a simple proposition. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 18 | Article about talking with, instead of at, boys and menI just want violence against boys to be taken seriously and proactively addressed, and for children with penises not to be treated like monsters. That is not too much to ask. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 08:07 AM |
| 21 | Article about talking with, instead of at, boys and menI don't know, maybe don't refer to boys as perpetrators and girls as victims, a priori? Can we start there? I've looked up some of these programs they are running in Melbourne and Victoria. They start with sexual violence against girls, and as far as I know sexual violence against boys doesn't even come up. Tell me that's not messed up. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 03:26 AM |
| 25 | Article about talking with, instead of at, boys and menBy education on consent, you mean teaching boys that they need to obtain it and girls that they should receive it; that boys need to apologize to girls because men are rapists; that girls are the victims of sexual assault and men are the perpetrators. You know damn well they won't have more than a token foot-note for victimized and abused boys, "oh and boys can be victims too, BUT girls are the main victims AND abused children with penises need to take a back seat to the real problem, which is t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 03:24 AM |
| 41 | Article about talking with, instead of at, boys and menHorseshit. This article is not empathizing with boys or giving them an entry into the conversation. It doesn't challenge the notion that boys are little rapists in the making, which is what they need to be challenging. This is just more feminist drivel teaching little boys that they are sinners who need to reform. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Reddit admins clarify that they're fine with hate if it's directed towards the right people.Right, but they are responsible if they promise protection from harassment as a service, and clearly state that they do not offer that service to white people or men. If reddit said they aren't responsible for user content and won't police it, then I would agree with you, but they have created a situation where policing content is a service they offer. Conservatives have lost a bunch of lawsuits over similar claims, but the difference is that they are asking for protection from political discrim… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 36 | Reddit admins clarify that they're fine with hate if it's directed towards the right people.I think it's an opportunity to turn disenfranchised men away from alt-right beliefs and toward positive change. If we offer an alternative to that then maybe more people will come here instead of going to a dark place. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 13 | Reddit admins clarify that they're fine with hate if it's directed towards the right people.Question: if reddit is a business, and businesses aren't allowed to discriminate on the basis of race or sex, and someone is harrassed, and that person is denied service by reddit (in the form of intervening against the harassment) based on their race or sex, then is reddit not legally liable for race/sex discrimination? Edit: I'm not finding any case law, which is always a bad sign, but in principle there is a case for discrimination if reddit has clearly stated they will discriminate against s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneI don't know which ones are deranged. I keep in mind that feminists are human beings, too, with their own problems and their own reasons for believing what they believe. Please understand that the way I talk about feminism is informed by years of experience interacting with them. I didn't just wake up one day and decide that feminism is bad. All of what I've said, and all the pushback you get from other places, is a reaction to the words and actions of feminists over the years. The criticism you… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/21 04:39 AM |
| 2 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneAs long as you believe that the world is run by men and men need to take a back seat to women's issues, then you will never be better than those people. Frankly, I haven't seen it. I've engaged with feminists for years. I've read feminist texts. I've had debates and seriously considered the merits of those beliefs. I didn't just have one or two bad experiences and decide that all feminists were bad. This has been going on for years, hundreds of times, and every time I hear the same excuse: "That… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/21 02:33 AM |
| 3 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male onelol here we go again. Anything that is good is feminism, and anyone that disagrees with feminism is either misguided or morally bankrupt. That's what it means when I say feminism is sectarian. Dissent from the perfect truth that feminism teaches is unacceptable. In that way, it shares a lot in common with other sectarian ideologies and radical religions. Non-believers are heretics. Sidenote: women voting? Yeah that was feminism. They were really strong feminists, the suffragists. They were also … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneThe thing you fail to realize is that feminism's fundamental principles are woo woo sexist pseudoscience. You cannot be a feminist, believe in the patriarchy, and not also be a sexist piece of shit. And I don't want to hear this nonsense about "that's not real feminism". Yeah right, that's what feminists always say when confronted with the consequences of their hateful ideology. If these mysterious real feminists exist then I've never met one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneWow we have a big problem then, because men do not feel represented by feminism. I mean, if you are a men's advocate, then shouldn't you be listening to men when they tell you what their needs are? I suppose the whole thing calling all men trash was really designed to help men? How about when MeToo was going on and male victims of sexual violence tried to come forward, and feminists shut them down, told them flat out that this isn't for them and their voices don't matter. I suppose you believe f… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneBy feminist needs I presume you mean things like calling men trash, or telling men their emotional needs are not important, or being so out of your minds that you would celebrate mein kampf as feminist literature if the nazi terminology was replaced with feminist terminology (which actually happened) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneMRA has become a hotbed of toxicity and hate. I don't care what they fight for, their hearts are in the wrong place. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:35 PM |
| 2 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneFeminists say the same about the term feminism. And we have said over and over, "then why do you call yourself feminists? Why don't you just come up with something that isn't controversial?" And they raise hell and throw a fit about it. Well we took our own advice and started something apart from MRA, and it's working just fine. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:33 PM |
| 4 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneCreate a conversation. The next time I see a man needing support on reddit in "neutral territory", I will recommend this sub. If anyone comes along and tries to shut it down as alt-right or whatever, then I push back against that narrative. People will come see for themselves who was right. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:30 PM |
| 6 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneAh get out of menslib man. It's a front for feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 3 | I'm just done reaching across the aisle. I'm so tired of going out of my way to understand women's perspectives to have them not spend a minute considering a male oneWelcome to the club. My engagement with feminists these days consists of telling them they are wrong, and that their foolish belief system is causing real harm to people. I'm done listening. I do not argue with feminists. I do not acknowledge their nonsense in any meaningful way except to inform them that their belief system is based on pseudo-religious and pseudoscientific sectarianism. They really hate when you compare them with radical religions and point out all the similarities. You should … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 6 | The panic mongering about rape culture in schools, and why it doesn't hold waterIf that's all that was meant when people say 'rape culture' then we wouldn't be here talking about it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/21 09:33 PM |
| 5 | The panic mongering about rape culture in schools, and why it doesn't hold waterThe Bureau of Justice Statistics, in partnership with the CDC, publishes data on sexual assault and intimate partner violence, and they DO include figures for male victims. Their figures even suggest there are more male DV victims than female in some years. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/21 09:29 PM |
| 7 | The on-going battle against male sexuality: We need to address the elephant in the roomI think the main thing is delegitimizing feminist theory and removing it from academia. This is a slow process, but we have already seen professional criticisms of gender studies programs at universities. I say keep that pressure on, keep people aware that feminism isn't science, and continue to work on refuting feminist theory both academically and socially. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryIt's the plain truth. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryYou're going to run into a whole lot of avoidable arguments and waste a lot of people's time by arguing the literal interpretation of patriarchy is technically correct. Sure it is, but that's not what "The Patriarchy" means and you know it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 6 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryJust to be clear I do not argue with feminists, but i will gladly educate you and steer you away from your extremist sectarian beliefs. I presume you mean societies before the one we live in now, or third world countries with political and social strife. In n those societies, certain people could not get an education, vote, or hold property. We call that the lower class, not "women". On not being able to work, that is specific to each civilization and in some of those civilizations women could n… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 5 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryThis is not an argument. I don't argue with feminists. I shut that nonsense down when I see it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryYou misunderstand. I'm not arguing with you. I don't argue with feminists. I might politely try to steer you away from radical sectarianism, but I've heard all the feminist pseudoscience I care to hear for a lifetime. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 5 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryThis is rich. They make the old point that without patriarchy men could be stay at home dads and women would approach men to start a romance, but I don't see any feminists putting their money where their mouth is. You talk a big game but in the end feminists still consider themselves weak and men strong. What a backwards ideology. It's really mindblowing that feminists can be so far off their goals that they are doing the exact opposite; making women weaker by internalizing and codifying male po… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryBullshit. That's not all patriarchy theory is, and your claim that men are the ones who mostly reinforce problematic institutions is both false and super sexist. That's some good old fashioned feminist misandry right there, and a good helping of ironic misogyny as well. It's really fascinating to watch feminists talk about gaining more power for women, and at the same time painting themselves and all women as hapless waifs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryWe don't live in a patriarchy because patriarchy theory is make-believe nonsense. Men, now and throughout history, have been competitive risk-takers. Some of those risks played off and a few men found themselves in a position of power. Most risks that men take either don't pay off or backfire. Women are not as prone to risk-taking behavior. So a bunch of individual men through history have fought and clawed their way to the top. If patriarchy theory stopped there then it would be fine, but it do… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 4 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryWhat argument and what point | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:44 PM |
| 8 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryPatriarchy is also make-believe nonsense. The theory is supported academically by the same people who peer-reviewed a study that replaced some of the words of mein kampf with feminist buzzwords, and they approved it. Men are not generally in a position of greater power, they cover a wider curve of power. More men are at the top than women, and also more men are at the very bottom than women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 11 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictorySo it is a system that favors having men in power, but average men and women are all negatively affected by unchecked power. How is a patriarchy any different from a matriarchy in that regard, except for the sex of the person(s) in power? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:35 PM |
| 10 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryDoes patriarchy theory explain why men are at the top, and why that is bad? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 6 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryWe do not "take that it exists", and there is no point in capitulating to the logical soundness of a theory when the theory is wrong. Logical consistency doesn't make it right. Anyway, I would argue that patriarchy theory is not at all logically consistent when you get into it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 5 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryIs this an incomplete thought? It sounds like you are leveling some really serious accusations at the entire female population. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 11 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryNothing is explained by patriarchy theory. It's woo woo pseudoscience that has weaseled it's way into modern academia. Men have held power historically because we are competitive risk-takers, and sometimes risk-taking behavior pays off. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 10 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictoryWith race it's a pretty clear cut thing where racism and socioeconomoc conditions caused by racism have kept qualified people out of power merely for their racial, ethnic, and/or cultural heritage. It's also pretty clear that there have historically been more male leaders and innovators than female, but I don't think that is explained by sexism or a make believe patriarchy. Men are just competitive risk takers by nature, and so you're likely to see men at the top because a few of those risk-take… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | The statement "men suffer under patriarchy too" is a statement that disproves the validity of the patriarchy theory. It's doublethink and self contradictory[Not who you replied to] I'm not sure about a consolidated source like a study, but there is plenty of history and documentation on people like Bloody Mary. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 9 | Good article about the wrong and even hurtful advice often given to incels (meaning the latter word in a neutral way, not specifically any embittered misogynistic communities)Not down with most of this, although I will agree that men who identify as involuntarily celibate need help more than ridicule (I'm also referring to the declarative term, not the politically loaded one). Coaching is not a good idea. Although well-intentioned, women are not going to be able to give men good dating advice. As someone else pointed out, women are attracted to different things, and most women don't have experience approaching women for a date. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | "That's not real feminism"The real question is, If these groups are so disparate, why do they all continue to call themselves feminists? I was on board with MRA a long time ago, thinking it was basically what this sub is. I didnt stay long and I distanced myself from that movement. I guess feminism is such a big name that everyone wants to lay claim to it. Then again, Christians split off into different groups and call themselves by different names. The conclusion I come to is the same as this post: feminists don't want … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 16 | How far are moderate feminists willing to go? What does the everyday feminism looks like in your circle?To me the idea of a "moderate feminist" is as absurd as a moderate trumper or a moderate cultist. I agree that moderate feminists still believe the same radical ideology as the more radical ones. They say there are reasonable feminists, but they don't understand that their entire pseudo-religious sectarian ideology is NOT reasonable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 6 | What it's like to be trapped by a female abuserI hear you man, and I hope things can change for men in abusive relationships soon. You're not alone. You'll find a lot of support here, but you'll also find support over at r/abusiverelationships and r/emotionalabuse (I know your abuse was physical and sexual as well, but that is also talked about a lot in the emotional abuse sub). I've been a member of these subs for a few years and we've made a ton of progress turning those subs into a safe space for men from abusive relationships. There are … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/21 09:45 PM |
| 41 | If the 2020 BLM protests achieved anything, it's being undone by the response to the Everard murderHood down hands out? Am I supposed to do a curtsey as well, perhaps utter a gender neutral honorific and kneel when any woman walks by? "Sorry M'liege, good day M'liege" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/21 06:33 PM |
| 39 | Left wing male advocates labeled as "hate" by radfem bloggerThey talk about early 20th century feminism, how it's "the fabric of leftist history", and forget to mention that feminists at that time were shockingly racist. Sounds about right. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/21 01:58 AM |
| 16 | What you need to know before talking about issues on this sub.I agree, and I will make it a point to talk about my liberal beliefs whenever I comment here. I don't think anyone will be able to call us right wing and get away with it. Look at organizations like Republicans Against Trump. People take them at their word that they are Republicans despite their fundamental disagreement with other Republicans. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/21 11:08 PM |
| 20 | Why is it kam till trans? I'm not any less of a man because I'm not amab.Because you started life as a girl and not a real man so you dont deserve the gallows like the rest of the male trash /s It is sad and infuriating to watch feminists stumble over their own beliefs and cause harm to people they claim to support. Do you even want their support? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | [X-post from r/science] New "scientific study" links mass shooters to "masculine overcompensation" and toxic masculinity.Indeed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | [X-post from r/science] New "scientific study" links mass shooters to "masculine overcompensation" and toxic masculinity.As with all crossposts, please do not downvote brigade the linked post against reddit's ToS. Thank you. I'm linking this because I thought members here might like to engage the people over at r/science in healthy discussion on the topic of mass shooters and the causes for it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | [X-Post from r/science] "Masculine overcompensation" and "toxic masculinity" used to explain mass shooters in new "scientific stufy".As with all cross posts, do not downvote brigade r/science or the linked post. It is against reddit policy. Thank you. I'm linking this so hopefully some people can engage with other users over at r/science in healthy discussion about the topic. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 8 | Some thoughts about recent discourseMy advice, as always, is to stop focusing on women. Your post, as much as i agree with your sentiments and I understand your frustration, focuses on women: how women feel, what women experience, what women need, etc... And this is a problem. The best way to fight against this hateful narrative is to focus on your own problems, male problems, and stop worrying about what feminists want you to worry about. They are stealing your precious time and energy forcing you to focus on them, because of cou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/21 10:30 PM |
| 7 | We should teach all people INCLUDING men that it's OK to assert your needs, desires and set boundaries on othersI agree with this wholeheartedly. As someone who has also been through an abusive relationship, I learned about setting boundaries to make sure I never found myself in that situation again. Men don't know when to tell women no, or even how to, and girls are not taught how to treat boys with human decency and respect. Men just expect women to be a handful and a pain in the ass, and it shouldn't be that way. We shouldn't allow ourselves to put up with entitled, petulant behavior. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 39 | Leader of the UK Labour Party claims the majority of violent crime is committed against women.They actually use the word misandry? This should be celebrated. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/21 11:35 AM |
| 3 | I've seen a lot of feminist posts recently talking about not all menThey aren't getting away with it anymore. People are fed up with feminism and starting to push back. Normal people with no political agenda are tired of hearing their crap. It's plain as day to anyone outside their sphere of influence that feminism isn't about equality. Real women are speaking out against feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 6 | I've seen a lot of feminist posts recently talking about not all menHey I like this. Someone do an article on how men are weary about what women may do to their children #YesAllWomen, And feminists will say "abortion isn't murder you sexist misogynist pig!" And we'll say, "I know, we don't think so either. We didnt include abortion in the data" feminist screaming noises | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 6 | I've seen a lot of feminist posts recently talking about not all menThat sums up my biggest beef with feminism: women who have no understanding of what life as a man is like and dont care, who have no business telling men how to think and feel, telling men how to think and feel. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm sorry if this is off topic. But what is with other men's subs on reddit being more concerned with maintaining the image of feminism than with the lived experiences of men?OneY has actually been pretty good about allowing varied discussion. I've railed against feminism plenty of times there and received a lot of support, and the mods haven't removed any of my anti-feminism comments. I'm not sure why you had that kind of experience there, but OneY has been the only men's sub I've used (until I discovered this one) for a while now. MensLib is an obvious front for feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 15 | How do you cope with the feeling or accusations of being leaning to the alt-right?I dont know what to tell you man. I'm a die hard liberal. I believe in universal healthcare, criminal justice reform, raising the min. wage, etc... (USA issues). I think Republicans and Trumpism are horribly destructive and corrupt. I also hate feminism with a passion and I hate identity politics. Feminism has attached itself to liberal politics like a leech and it is sucking us dry. Feminism isn't liberalism. Go with your gut. Don't let anyone define your political beliefs for you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: #MenAreHuman.You're not alone. You've been backed into a corner. It's time to fight back. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/21 09:10 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: #MenAreHuman.Don't. don't respond to it. Let them dig their own graves. If you have a movement, you need to stay focused on the goals and values of that movement. Engaging with trolls and detractors is going to bog you down and dilute your message. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | UPDATE: #MenAreHuman.If your intent with this MenAreHuman trend is to convince feminists and placate them, then count me out. I don't care what feminists want or think. I'm out to convince others. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | UPDATE: #MenAreHuman.I'm not leveling with feminists or trying to get them to accept anything. They can acknowledge that their sectarian philosophy is a blight on humanity and that they were wrong. Then we can talk. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/21 09:02 PM |
| 0 | UPDATE: #MenAreHuman.We don't want to reclaim the term toxic masculinity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on feminists complaining about "Not all men" and trying to pin responsibility on men as a groupHey man I had an abusive ex too who is a hardcore feminist. I was critical of the movement before her but after going through an abusive situation with someone like that I realize the true depths of depravity that feminism encourages. Some will wield it like a weapon and use it to justify their horrible behavior. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Amber Heard admits to hitting ‘f–king baby’ Johnny Depp in court audioShe's not smart enough for any of that, though. Depp introduced a photo of her on the night he allegedly beat her and there are no visible marks on her. Although I believe Johnny here, I still thought to myself "bruises can be painted over. Many women have done it before to hide their shame and their pain." But what was Amber's response in court? "It looks like my lip is a little swollen." Really? That's the best you got, Amber? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/20 08:59 PM |
| 3 | After a woman spent $400k fraudulently raised to help a homeless veteran, she now claims to be the victim.This story does not rise to the level of men's issues. No jury is going to believe her sob story. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/18 04:49 AM |
| 2 | International Men's Day is Nov 19.Men's day should not be about all that shit. It should be about celebrating men. No one is going to be participate if it's about feeling bad for people, and that's why I'm celebrating men on November 19. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | How can one maintain interest without coming as desperate?Oh I can see why that would be confusing. I didn't fully explain my position. MGTOW happens at different levels, and the community overall is not a great one. I definitely did not go with the flow of MGTOW--very much against it. I never hated women and didn't wallow in self-pity like the larger portion of that community. I focused on myself and on my friends and I found a lot of validation about the person I was from that. I didn't reject getting laid, it just wasn't a priority. Like, if a beaut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/18 05:30 PM |
| 2 | How can one maintain interest without coming as desperate?Sent you a PM. Don't quit bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/18 06:24 AM |
| 9 | How can one maintain interest without coming as desperate?Not being able to "take or leave" her means you have no other options. It is instantly unattractive. There's a whole lot more to unpack there with what you're saying but that's the short of it. There isn't much you can do about not having options in the short term. You have to work on yourself and build confidence. For me this meant going MGTOW for a few months. I say a few months because that's how long it took me to find myself involved with a beautiful woman, where I had been in a dry spell f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "I Like A Man That Will Break A Few Of The Gender Rules Because He Is Secure In His Masculinity" is a demand for Costly Signalling, NOT a genuine preference for gender-nonconforming menIf the person was misinterpreting your argument then you are missing some very critical parts of the bigger picture. I'm not trying to CYV so I'll back out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "I Like A Man That Will Break A Few Of The Gender Rules Because He Is Secure In His Masculinity" is a demand for Costly Signalling, NOT a genuine preference for gender-nonconforming menYou're systematically avoiding the actual point being made. Disagreed whole-heartedly my friend. I thought you really had it there and was rooting for you, but if you don't understand that the person you replied to above just distilled your entire argument into one sentence, then you definitely missed the point. There are many ways a confident man can show himself. Most men have at least some preferences that are traditionally feminine, and the confident ones will do whatever the hell they want,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.So Donald Trump, basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 05:48 PM |
| 11 | Riely J. Dennis says Ford is Braver than any Marine.You're right, it doesn't make sense. Unless the woman was paid a lot of money by someone, she has little to gain by putting her life at risk to make this accusation. So far the accusation seems credible. It MIGHT be true. Kavanaugh is denying it. So one of them is lying, and it's not clear who. As much as I love this sub, r/MensRights is not a good source of information on this matter. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | #himtooI'm an independent, leaning Democrat this cycle (mostly because of the corruption and unethical behavior of the Republicans). I hate it when politicians manipulate the system, like when McConnell blocked Merrick Garland, or when Ajit Pai rammed Net Neutrality rollbacks through when the public was very loud and clear about their opposition, or when state republicans restructured voting districts to make them more likely to win. Nothing pisses me off more than politicians cheating to win, and even… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/18 01:42 AM |
| 1 | #himtooIt's credible because it could have happened. There is also credible testimony that it didn't happen. I think my unwillingness to agree with the confirmation with the allegations is because we simply haven't had enough time to look at the evidence and process it. If republicans want to rush the confirmation it will only hurt them because if I had to say yay or nay right now I would vote nay. There are unanswered questions. The republicans did the right thing by delaying the vote another week. Th… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/18 08:13 PM |
| 40 | Reddit is quarantining subs for, "misogyny", but has no problem with r/againstmens rights for some reason... hmm...I'm so sorry for what happened to you, and thank you for helping others. I'm sorry it went that way. It shouldn't matter what sex the victim is, or what sex the perpetrator is. Rape is rape. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/18 07:29 AM |
| 1 | #himtooI'd be glad to. This is a process apart from everything else. It is a unique situation. It doesn't set a dangerous precedent because the only set of circumstances it applies to is a supreme court nomination. I'm not advocating for taking the accuser's word for it in other areas. I wouldn't be a believer in men's rights if I thought that. I don't believe this standard applies to any other party, not even to the president. The president only serves for, at most, 8 years. If we make a mistake and e… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | #himtooOf course not. It is a possible false allegation. It's also a possible true allegation. This isn't a trial. The committee has to make a judgement with the facts they have. If you were interviewing someone for a job and someone called you to tell you they raped a woman, you wouldn't just dismiss it because there's a lack of evidence. You would probably decide it isn't worth it and find another qualified individual to do the job. It's not fair, but that's how it is. Now imagine you were hiring for… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | #himtooI'm listening to kavanaugh defend himself as I write this. He also sounds credible. Its hard to know. I think that with the stakes so high, without proof from either side and both sides sound credible, then the judge should not be confirmed. There is too much at stake. This doesn't happen often, so why him? Out of all the potential ways this could be weaponized, why isn't it? I have a hard time believing that people willing to make false accusations would be so rare if it were such an effective … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/18 08:21 PM |
| 3 | #himtooYes I do. I believe a man's life shouldn't be destroyed by mere accusations. This is different. The entire country and even the entire world will be affected by this confirmation process. It's not just Kavanaugh's life and fortune and stake. This isn't the hill to do battle on over the right's of the accused. This situation eclipses all others, and the rules are different. If there is a credible accusation against this man--even without hard evidence--then his confirmation should be denied. Ther… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/18 06:58 PM |
| -3 | #himtooWhy would I care to elaborate to a talking head? Your mind has been made up for you. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/18 06:20 PM |
| 5 | #himtooIt could descend into civil war. I see where your priorities are. What a tool. Let me elaborate. You went into this with a bias. Only someone who is warped and molded by their politicians could look at it the way you do. That's true of both sides. You have no place in this argument--your masters on the judiciary committee have already given your talking points for you. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/18 05:49 PM |
| 10 | #himtooThis isn't a criminal trial, it's a supreme court confirmation. A credible accusation should definitely be enough to derail the process. A lot more is at stake than Bret Kavanaugh's future. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/18 05:27 PM |
| 15 | #himtooGuys, I've been posting here for a while. This accuser against Kavanaugh sounds legitimate. Her story has the smack of truth to it. A supreme court nomination isn't the same thing as a criminal trial. The mere possibility of it being true is and SHOULD BE enough to stop someone from being confirmed to the most powerful governing body of the most powerful nation for life. I have doubts about some of the accusations, but the first one sounds legit. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/18 05:25 PM |
| -6 | It doesn’t even guilt women :PDick move on both sides. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/18 07:31 AM |
| 6 | Cleared of false rape accusation! Thank you guys!Possibly, but probably not unless you can give evidence that she, herself, didn't believe it was rape and just wanted to throw you under the bus. In a case where she actually believed the thing to have occurred then it is not automatically defamation, even if it is false. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Just imagine what people would say if it were the other way around..."Then let me sit you the fuck down and teach you" My gf would never do this, but I can imagine what would happen if she were someone else who did try this: Push off or let it happen--split on how much I don't want to do it. It would result in a serious talk and possibly a break-up. That's how these things should be handled. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/18 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Are beta bux's that naive?This whole thread is borderline incel territory. It's fascinating and frightening, like watching a squirrel stand at the edge of road getting ready to run into traffic. Good read, PPD. Keep it coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 10:59 AM |
| 5 | Being considered "marriage material" as a man is an insult and a bad thingThis, with one caveat: Marriage Material men and women can be found a little later in cases where a quality person marries an asshole, and later divorces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/18 07:27 PM |
| -1 | Father accused of molesting his daughter for 15 years. Goes on Dr Phil, proves his innocence and his daughter still doesn't believe him because of the magnitude of her mother's lies.What the fuck are all of you doing with your lives? Polygraph tests are complete bullshit. They aren't admissible in court as evidence, and you shouldn't be listening to this bullshit either. The polygraph means jack shit. This clip is meaningless. Let's see the whole episode. But wait, this is doctor fucking phil. What the hell would compel any rational person to sit down and watch an entire episode of this [probably scripted] garbage? Done with this. You've earned my downvote. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Amazon Video Series: Catastrophe: A Realistic Portrayal of a Couple's Sex LifeIf your wife/girlfriend isn't feeling it then that's on you. You have to elicit desire in her. Part of the problem lies with her, but it's not a part of the problem she has any control over. Asking her to have sex to fulfill your need is wrong. If things aren't going well then step your game up. Sometimes the attraction just isn't there, but that's a different discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 09:57 AM |
| 34 | [CMV] Blaming the Patriarchy for male disposability only goes so far.It's a tactic used by feminists to turn conversation about men's issues back to a discussion about male dominance and oppression, usually in an effort to get the offending thinker to change their beliefs by a show of sympathy: Feminist: "Men control everything and oppress women!" Man: "But men are disposable and women are not. I can list 5 things right now that prove it." Feminist: "Yes that's true. I'm sorry you're disposable. You should join our movement because your problem is actually caused… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | The Factual Feminist: My new favorite Youtube Channel.Saying that feminism was about getting men's privileges without the responsibilities from the beginning. Most early feminists were christian conservatives, not radicals, and the right to vote (the driving force behind first-wave feminism) shouldn't be automatically connected to selective service (which is mentioned below). Rather, women pushing for the right to vote without having to sign up for the draft is a perfectly reasonable proposition, as reasonable as it is for men to propose NOT having… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | The Factual Feminist: My new favorite Youtube Channel.Have you tried challenging them on the use of the word "feminism"? It's a total shit show. They will simply not have it. The mere suggestion of it will devolve into total chaos and everyone will leave with nothing. You don't win that argument with them. Full stop. Like 10 times worse than feminist's ordinary stubborn rage. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 11:31 AM |
| 0 | The Factual Feminist: My new favorite Youtube Channel.Like voting? That sounds pretty extreme, sir. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | The Factual Feminist: My new favorite Youtube Channel.Yes that's essentially what I meant when I said she was old school. It could be helpful to point to her as an example of the kind of person men can actually listen to about gender equality. She's similar to Jordan Peterson in that people presume she's an MRA because her videos are about destigmatizing men's issues and she doesn't really talk about being a feminist or a liberal, but that's only because the scales are balanced against us. If the scales were actually balanced against women then she… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 02:09 AM |
| 2 | The Factual Feminist: My new favorite Youtube Channel.It invokes the ideal that women want feminism to be. It's a person who is studied in gender issues who believes in gender equality, who is actually taking reasonable positions on the matter between the two sides. I say real feminist to mean the person modern feminists Think they are, but this is the real deal that they aren't. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | The Factual Feminist: My new favorite Youtube Channel.Look, man, we have to make some compromises somewhere. Women are insistent about using this feminist label. I get what you're saying--I think feminism cannot be a term focused on equality because of it's etymology, it's a word about women--but I've gone down that rabbit hole too many times with women and I'm content to just let them use the damn word. Best we can do is redefine it. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: how would you feel if a random 5-6/10 woman you barely know started aggressively talking and flirting with you out of the blue?They may not think that way but their minds work that way whether they acknowledge it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: how would you feel if a random 5-6/10 woman you barely know started aggressively talking and flirting with you out of the blue?A guy needs to have sex before laying down a commitment. Sex is very important for men to establish feelings in the first place. Men will often feel intense love and infatuation after sex with a woman they find very attractive. The infatuation wears off eventually, leaving just love and steady (hopefully good) sex. It's important to get the infatuation out of the way before making a commitment, because if love doesn't develop then he's going to leave, eventually, and you don't want to stake your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Is there a difference between “who you are”’ and “what you do”.Yes. Your body is an ape--a silly, violent, curious, dangerous monkey. It wants things like food and water, and sex, and shelter. Your mind is a disconnected entity living inside the ape. They have a symbiotic relationship. The mind, far smarter and more clever than the monkey, helps it to stay alive and secure it's desires. The ape gives the mind a home, taking care of all it's existential needs, and leaving it free to peruse the depths of it's creativity. It is possible, by meditating with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Nice to see this be saidTrue independence is special. Working yourself half to death to get into a job as a corporate slave, then living in an uptown apartment connected to the grid with an umbilical cord--shops, restaurants, and entertainment all around--is not really independence. That is something very few people achieve; especially modern, city-bound women. I think feminism likes to imagine holding down your own life without the support of a man is independence. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Nice to see this be saidVery deep. I hadn't considered that. It makes sense. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/18 11:42 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The Redpill is turning into MGTOWIt isn't. Those folks aren't MGTOW. They just post in MGTOW forums because they think they will find a sympathetic ear for their misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 11:00 PM |
| 15 | CMV: The Redpill is turning into MGTOWActually the guy talking about his stamp collection instead of talking about women sounds like the true MGTOW to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The Redpill is turning into MGTOWMGTOW isn't about hating women. It's about going your own way and not worrying about women. RP is not at all aligned with that philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 10:52 PM |
| -1 | it really be like thatI got 19 people who agree with me, then I got you over here on the extreme end acting like a snowflake. The OP was trying to be funny, not start a debate, so I'm ok with just letting it be. Maybe another time. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/18 09:53 PM |
| 2 | it really be like thatNobody wants "accountability" for drunken sex. The consequences of drunk sex are self-enforcing. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/18 11:56 AM |
| 16 | it really be like thatDude, no, it really don't be like that. Men want to make a point about women not stopping radical feminism from taking root and just "going along" with it, letting it spread. Well I'm not about that shit happening with us. I don't want us to be like feminism, so no, it don't be like that. Some of that's true, but it's sensationalized, and some of it is untrue (no responsibility for drunken sex you say? I got sources that say otherwise). Stop with the hyperbole and stick to the facts. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/18 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Top cancer charity sues Health Secretary Jeremy Hunt for denying boys access to HPV vaccine leaving young men exposed to cancer causing infectionhow does that matter? | /r/MensRights | 28/05/18 06:07 AM |
| 5 | Top cancer charity sues Health Secretary Jeremy Hunt for denying boys access to HPV vaccine leaving young men exposed to cancer causing infectionThat's not how government funded healthcare works. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/18 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Way to perpetrate a sexist stereotype Teen Vogue13 reasons why rapists can be good guys, too. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/18 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Does feminism shame male sexuality/masculinity?Absolutely. I would think it obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 07:00 PM |
| 13 | Woman rapes boy multiple times. Prostitutes him. Posts nude photos of him and provides him with drugs. Seems prosecutor is trying very hard not to charge her with a sex crime. Soon to receive a pussy pass.Considering the circumstances of the case, she should be getting a far heavier punishment. She gave the kid drugs, including heroin, and tried to pimp him out for money. That is fucking sick. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/18 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?I know a lot of women have apprehension about having a penis inside them in many situations (virgins, new guy, big guy), but I don't believe that means less desire. It means less willingness to actually do the deed when the opportunity presents itself. Women can often feel [almost] as sexually frustrated as men. They want to, but things are holding them back. Same for men. We want to, but things are holding us back. If an incel really wanted to get laid he could go find a woman desperate enough … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 05:07 AM |
| 0 | Why should men keep approaching women?omg I'm done with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?Dude it's really weird that we're even talking about this. Do you seriously believe that? This is like, women are pure and don't think about sex or something. What gives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Why should men keep approaching women?Just because a girl doesn't want to fuck you doesn't mean she doesn't want to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women sacrifice more when in a relationship than a man.Ohhh lololol. You have no idea how badly men cherish the freedom of bachelorhood. Suddenly you have someone else that you're accountable to, and she expects you to do things. That is a HUGE sacrifice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] how does your ideal partner look like physically?Haha I'm impressed. Your standards are very reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Where do you fit in the hierarchy of RP disbelief?1.5) It "works", but is ultimately futile and a poor way of living, not to mention there are much better ways of getting women. The number one thing is to see women as people and just connect with them emotionally, mentally, and then physically. You just have to take the time to understand how a woman feels, not be an asshole, and you're golden. RP makes it a point to not connect with women and understand their feelings. It's pretty stupid. Making connections is ultimately more rewarding, even i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:30 PM |
| 2 | If sexual attraction is not always instantaneous and can grow with time, why do women turn down most of the approaches they get?No it's a great thing. Nobody wants a bunch of ratty, smelly kids running around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | If sexual attraction is not always instantaneous and can grow with time, why do women turn down most of the approaches they get?Because they will blow you off instantly for little reasons. If you look ratty, smell bad, are too awkward, or any number of things, you will not get a chance to build attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?lol touche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Why should men keep approaching women?Men have 6 to 10 times more testosterone than women. A man's sex drive is not 6 to 10 times stronger than a woman's. Testosterone plays a role, but it's not the big picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | The most masculine thing you can do is not care what other people thinkYou can also notice how femininity is often associated with negative traits, and this in turns shapes what masculine traits are Yes, of course. Women are pretty (bad/feminine) so men are ugly (good/masculine). Yeah I follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:27 PM |
| 6 | The most masculine thing you can do is not care what other people thinkYes but that's not a cuck fetish. The act in question requires humiliation and psychological pain to qualify as a cuckold fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Men who frequent TRP/MGTOW are there for the misogynyFor the most part you're right. I left the MGTOW sub because of the things you're talking about, but I was also MGTOW for a year after I left there and just went my own way. I was never down with the woman bashing. You're generalizing pretty hard. Most of the guys who frequent those places are there to vent anger at women, but some of them are there to feed and grow their hatred, and some are there looking to connect with someone but don't have anywhere better to look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] In your experience how common are women who use their sexuality to manipulate men ?Male, haven't taken a pill but considering taking the blue one; All women, all the time, as long as there are men wanting them. It's so easy to do it that a lot of people do it without even trying or realizing they're doing it. I'd say it's the exception for a woman to make sure she isn't doing that, rather than the rule, and even when someone does make a conscious effort not to influence someone with their sexuality they find out that it doesn't work. The man will do things because of her wheth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/18 10:41 PM |
| 0 | 7 easy steps to becoming a male feministIt's sad that I couldn't tell if this was serious or not lol. I had to read through many lines to find out it's satire. I think nutz | /r/MensRights | 28/04/18 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Reddit feminists scream that equality for men is "misogyny!". Naive me, I used to believe in the past feminist claims that they stand for equal rights...To be fair, they have a point here if put in the right context. I've been trying to talk about men's issues with people and some feminist will come in and say something about how women have it worse, or what about this issue that affects women (why aren't you talking about that?) It really pisses me off when they do that, so I don't have a problem with women getting angry about someone injecting men's rights into a discussion about women. What I do have a problem with is the thing we all know an… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Donald Trump is extremely sexy.Cockiness isn't sexy in and of itself. It's usually the opposite of sexy. It's only sexy when it's backed up by actions. A cocky punk goes into a bar and tells the girl next to him he's going to get on the mechanical bull and own that thing because he's the fucking shit, and the other 6 dudes who just got bucked off are all scrubs. Nothing in this guy seems like he's actually able to pull it off, and the girl just thinks he's a cocky idiot. Definitely not attractive. Usually this ends with the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 03:23 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Donald Trump is extremely sexy.His money is the only thing that made him sexy. He has power, and he wields that power shamelessly. However, let's consider Donald Trump as a person in his most recent press meeting: instead of announcing his plans to speak and making the media come to him--because he's the fucking president and the media can come see him on his time--he calls into a morning news show. Instead of taking charge of the event, saying what he wants to say, and letting the media respond if he feels so inclined, the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 03:18 PM |
| 5 | To what extend is BDSM a compensation for a lack of submission and dominance in everyday interactions?Probably not. I'm dominant in the bedroom but my gf is pretty independent outside the bedroom. She keeps her submissive behavior in the bedroom and on the dance floor because it turns her on when I dominate her. She doesn't want to be turned on when we're buying groceries or doing taxes--she wants to be an equal partner in a loving relationship. We're not BDSM at all, just like the primal aspect of a man "taking" a woman. If she were submissive outside the bedroom that would be fine with me, I g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/18 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Does "monk mode" work?It doesn't really matter what you think. I was going my own way and that was the point. No one else gets to define that, and I took issue with the whole labeling of MGTOW. There's a lot of baggage with the term but it's what I decided to call myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 11:42 AM |
| 6 | Does "monk mode" work?Yes it can work. It worked for me. I spent about a year walking around the US countryside, backpacking and living in the wilderness. The expedition took place in 3 legs over the course of about 2 years. I committed "social suicide"; walking away from my life and becoming a wandering hermit with no name. I had few responsibilities at this point and it was a good time for me to go. The only thing I was really losing was my job. I lost a few friends, too, but that's a side-effect. After coming back… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Is asking a woman out on a date or giving her a compliment sexual harassment? What is sexual harassment?Sexual Harassment: Continuing to pursue someone sexually or romantically after they have told you to stop, or doing something sexual to someone--even once and without having to be told to stop--that no reasonable person would consider acceptable sexual pursuit. So the definition there depends on what is "reasonable". Telling someone you think they have a nice figure is ok. Telling someone they have a nice ass is border-line but probably harassment, and touching someone's ass is definitely harass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Male laziness as sexual strategyremember that women desire using the relationship as a vehicle to change/improvement more than men Funny, I can't seem to remember that. It seems like that's not actually the case, that men generally want to improve themselves more when they're in a relationship (better job, dressing better, keeping a clean home, getting life in order, etc...), and every man I know gets this same boost in desire to be better from the woman in his life. Maybe I'm just not remembering... Strategically, if you are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?Definitely. Men are more prone to fatalism and gallows humor; staying calm in dangerous situations and thinking clearly in an emergency. Obviously that's a generalization, but generally that seems to be the case. Men are more chill, psychologically, and that's a good thing. On a side note, I disagree with some of your generalizations lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Which sex has an easier time inspiring love from their desired mates? And other related questions.Unaffiliated (MRA-lite), Male: Q1: I think men have an easier time inspiring love from someone who is already their mate. Potential mates, though? I would still say men, but it's a much steeper difficulty curve. Women have an easier time up front, and as attractiveness increases the curve goes up pretty steadily. With men on the lower end of the curve, it's extremely difficult for them to inspire any feelings of love in the opposite sex. If we compare just the low and middle of this mind-chart, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 05:58 AM |
| 1 | The best way for a man to get casual sex/ ONS/ FWB is to maximize SMV and minimize RMVYou do not "have to lift", and having boyfriend/husband qualities can be a total panty dropper if you do it right. "They can get it easily and often" is totally dismissive of what's actually going on in a woman's head and in her life. If you're dismissing that then you're fucking up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 08:55 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The practice of prenuptial agreements is strong evidence that current laws and their adjudication have been and remain sexist against men.Dude not at all. A prenup favors whoever it favors in writing. It very often favors the man. In fact I've heard of men benefitting from prenups more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/18 07:08 PM |
| 46 | Here is a good flowchart which can be used to determinine if a rape case was handled correctly (taken from lawcomic.net)NPR has really gone too far to the left in their programming for my taste, and I'm a liberal for god's sake! I used to laugh at republicans for bashing NPR because they just couldn't handle neutral coverage from an unbiased source. I can't laugh about it anymore. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/18 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Not unlike women, many men meet a Wall i their early to mid 30'sSoooo much BS and misinformation in this thread, from the OP all the way down. Noping the fuck out of this one, guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW Love Women?!I wasn't really involved in the official MGTOW movement. I tried it out at the beginning and wasn't down for that community. None of the guys I hung out with were professed MGTOW, but several were as good as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you Rather be a Homeless Man or a Teen Bride?Oh, sorry. I think I was just trying to block the other user. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 07:22 PM |
| 7 | MGTOW Love Women?!Yes and no. I was eschewing relationships with women (I think I used that exact word, too), and it was indefinite. I went into it with the mindset that I would be comfortable living that way for the rest of my life. Once I got in that zone and found myself quite comfortable in that space, I intended to stay that way forever. I was pretty hardcore. It took a really great person to get me to leave that awesome, fun, easy-going lifestyle. MGTOW was great, but she was better. In the end it wasn't ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 05:20 PM |
| 6 | MGTOW Love Women?!Former MGTOW here. I loved women during my MGTOW days. I have a sister, a mother, and female friends I all love and respect. I grew up in a family of successful women; 3 Ph.D.s and 4 M.A.s (between 4 women) in my immediate family. My MGTOW journey wasn't about women. It was about me. I realized I wasn't ready for a relationship and thinking about what I thought I needed to be in order to be a lovable partner just made me sad and anxious. I focused on myself and stopped trying to be something so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you Rather be a Homeless Man or a Teen Bride?In this culture, you would be expected to marry. God mandates it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Would you Rather be a Homeless Man or a Teen Bride?That safety doesn't exist on the streets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Would you Rather be a Homeless Man or a Teen Bride?Oppression is protection. It was the main moral argument of American slavers. They were protecting the african slaves and feeding them, because they thought of them as helpless savages who would be better off under white care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you Rather be a Homeless Man or a Teen Bride?Are you alone? Are you sad, depressed, and hate men who won't have sex with you and love you? It's time you heard about a little pill called Feminex. side effects may include irrational hatred; misandry; wanton violence against men; and deep, unyielding loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you Rather be a Homeless Man or a Teen Bride?Sort of. Have you ever been to one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Would you Rather be a Homeless Man or a Teen Bride?Option C: Wealthy white man, because I'm a white man and would like my wealth now, please. In all seriousness, I have been homeless before and would choose that every time. I'd choose homelessness and freedom over back breaking minimum wage labor. Your question should really be between those two, so I'll pose the question to you instead: Option A: A teen bride forced into marriage with a poor man who works in a warehouse, or; Option B: A man who does back breaking 12 hour shifts in a hot warehou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like thatYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Two homeless men just sat next to me at a coffee shop and toasted to successFirst off, OP was being sarcastic. Second, if he was being abusive, alienated his friends and family, and didn't have a job/anywhere to turn after the shit went down with his wife, then he absolutely deserves to be where he's at right now. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/18 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Two homeless men just sat next to me at a coffee shop and toasted to successI got the sarcasm but still downvoted. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like thatThat's what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like thatYes you would. In most states single mothers are explicitly covered under medicaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like thatToo much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Surprisingly honest thread on TwoX challenging the victim mentality and the never ending "women are oppressed" mantra from feminismIf I say I haven't experienced much negativity due to being a woman it's treated almost as though I've suddenly invalidated the experiences of women everywhere. You just proved this woman's point (while contradicting it), as a man, while mansplaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Engaging in a submissive sexual role hampers women’s sexual arousal.I mean leading, and a good lead is required to be dominant. There isn't a lead who knows what he's doing who isn't willing to actually take the lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/18 05:13 PM |
| 10 | The way the media talks about women you would think they were just freed from slavery. Does anybody else get tired of this?Same thing with CNN. Their motto should be: "At CNN, everything is breaking news! CNN--your number one source for impeachment porn!" | /r/MensRights | 06/04/18 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Engaging in a submissive sexual role hampers women’s sexual arousal.I don't believe they are less common. Quite the opposite. We're not talking about women in the social hierarchy. A woman doesn't want to be dominated at work by her male colleagues, nor dominated in conversations by her male friends. She does want to be dominated in the bedroom and on the dance floor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/18 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Engaging in a submissive sexual role hampers women’s sexual arousal.The facts might be good, but I'm not buying their conclusion. It doesn't sound right; not even close. This "study" appears to be a systematic review, the researchers doing little research of their own. They look at data from other studies to see if they can answer a question posed for the review. The study begins with: Women are bombarded with images of women's sexual submission and subservience to male partners. Wow. Ok this isn't an acceptable thing to do in a professional research study. Inst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/18 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Engaging in a submissive sexual role hampers women’s sexual arousal.I was thinking the same thing. This study doesn't line up with my experiences at all. I see this all the time on the dance floor, too. Women love to be dominated in dance, and that carries over into the bedroom. I don't care what kind of evidence they think they have, this is bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on shares like this?I mean, it was fine until she turned it around on the boys, who had nothing to do with this. How about stop sending the girls home to change and let them wear the skirts?? | /r/MensRights | 03/04/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Rape Men if they Don’t Have a Penis? – John Davis – MediumThe plain language of the law merely says that there must be a penetration and the victim does not consent. A court could easily interpret this to mean a woman being penetrated without the consent of the man (penetration - consent = rape). The question is whether there's a court willing to see the plain language of the law and apply it accordingly. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/18 08:39 AM |
| 1 | How Can Women Rape Men if they Don’t Have a Penis? – John Davis – Mediumliterally sweeps them under the rug I agree with what you're saying, but I'm going to need sources for this one. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/18 08:34 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] for those ladies who hate modern feminism why do you hate it?I disagree. The fallacy applies when we use expert status itself as evidence in an argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/18 06:59 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] for those ladies who hate modern feminism why do you hate it?I've rarely seen it (hamfistedly) used in response to someone outlining their own credentials. Ever heard of expert testimony? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/18 05:30 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] for those ladies who hate modern feminism why do you hate it?This is juicy! I don't have a dog in this fight. However, I did notice you dodging the accusation of ad vericundium, and I was wondering if you had anything to say about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/18 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Besides sex, do men suffer from loneliness more than women?I walked 500 the year before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/18 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Besides sex, do men suffer from loneliness more than women?The same thing happened to me and it was the beginning of a transformation. I went MGTOW at 27. I stopped trying to be something and just got by. I had a crappy low paying job, lived in an RV on a cheap lot, and just had what I needed to get by. Before, I would have been stressing out because "it's not good enough" and "I need to do better, no one will want to date me or take me seriously" if I'm living like this. After saying fuck it, I totally accepted where I was and I was happier than I've e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/18 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Should women be honest with guys that they friend zone?Not telling him may be more likely to backfire. The desperate guy will be upset if you reject him to his face, but if you continue to lead him on and let him think something is going on then he will come to expect something in return. I think most losers will simply walk away when they learn that it's not ever going to be anything, but some losers will take what they think is rightfully theirs. The danger there is much higher than rejecting him up front, before any relationship has a chance to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | [Q] what are the major good quality for a women to be called a good/better woman?Probably compromise and physicality. Compromise: I appreciate a woman who is willing to let me do the things I want to do and listen to my input. We do things together, as a team; we don't give each other demands and ultimatums. There has to be some give and take. Men and Women have different feelings about things. Men should be willing to give up some things in order to make woman happy, and women should be willing to give up some things in order to make man happy. Physicality: Touchy-feeliness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/18 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Radical feminists are the 'nice guys' of womenLow effort but high relevance and impact. I think OP has a good point and one that I don't see made very often. Thank you, I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Huffington Post writers are chosen mostly based on their gender and race. Isn't that the definition of racism?True! In that case, matching the demographics would mean having a rich white fucktard with small hands and a big mouth. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/18 04:52 PM |
| 223 | Huffington Post writers are chosen mostly based on their gender and race. Isn't that the definition of racism?Relevant Huffpost article--10 signs of institutionalized racism [archived] Check out #3: "3. When pictures of presidents, board members, award-winning whomevers are hung, and they do not depict a demography that matches that of the state, city or the country, then your organization might have an institutional racism problem. Again, universities, administrations, trustees, check yourselves." LMAO | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Not defending Martin Shkreli but just saying he got 7 years for "defrauding" his investors by making them money while Elizabeth Holmes gets no jailtime and a mere $500k fine for "massive fraud" that lost billions of her investors' money. Hmmm. I wonder why the discrepancy?I'm restoring your patriarchy card for being a good sport. Keep on theorizing, brother. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Not defending Martin Shkreli but just saying he got 7 years for "defrauding" his investors by making them money while Elizabeth Holmes gets no jailtime and a mere $500k fine for "massive fraud" that lost billions of her investors' money. Hmmm. I wonder why the discrepancy?Dude he was a target because he hiked a life-saving drug 5000% to line his pockets while patients were dying in their beds, forced to pay the bribe or die. All that flouting the court's authority stuff was just icing on the judge's cake. I am officially revoking your patriarchy card, not merely for that ignorant shit you just said about Shkreli, but for all the paranoid incoherent shit you said before it. You are a disgrace to Men, and may God have mercy on your soul. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Millions of women forced into equality. #MeTooNot really. I was MGTOW for a year and developed deep bonds with my other guy friends over discord. We just got on discord, chatted, and played games together every evening. It was fantastic and it was perhaps the least lonely I've felt at any point in my life. At one point at least 3 of us were on discord at all times, and we were in constant contact 24/7. When I was focused on chasing women I was far more lonely and had fewer friends. Of course, I'm no longer MGTOW (quite by accident) and am p… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 10:49 AM |
| 0 | Woman pleads guilty to 7 false rape claims. Granted unconditional bail while awaiting sentencing. Who's confident the punishment will fit the crime?I wouldn't be so quick to presume. I've seen quite a few UK cases where false accusers have been sentenced pretty severely. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/18 10:44 AM |
| 16 | Women select for guys who can pull off social risks. Men in the #metoo movement are being punished for failing to pull off certain social risks. Instead of blaming men for harassment, we're blaming men for lacking social acuity.Very very interesting and insightful. This needs to be added to the discussion. I think the fallout of this is that we end up with far more attractive situations for women because the risk to the man is greater than ever before. Sounds good, except you end up with men who would have otherwise learned how to do it eventually who are banned from the dating pool. It's especially perilous for younger men, who are far more likely than experienced men to make simple foibles and faux pas' that could le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Im not usually a fan of r/menslib but i can get behind thislol Ironic that you should say that. Let me explain what a public defender really does: A public defender is an attorney assigned to an indigent defendant. In every jurisdiction I'm aware of, that attorney stays with the defendant throughout their case, up to and including appeals. It's possible a new attorney could be appointed during the appeal process if a more qualified attorney is necessary or the first attorney is no longer available, but usually a defendant will take the same attorney as … | /r/MensRights | 21/02/18 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Im not usually a fan of r/menslib but i can get behind thisIt's called a public defender. The state pays the lawyer, | /r/MensRights | 21/02/18 03:54 AM |
| 6 | Im not usually a fan of r/menslib but i can get behind thisAn indigent defendant doesn't need money, only patience and the will to fight. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | If the West needs mens rights movement because of suicides, homelessness, workplace deaths, draft, bad school performance of boys,... then the whole world needs mens righst movement!"Women don't put out enough" isn't a focus of the MRM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | The Problem with “No Means No” is Men always Think it’s Negotiable.That's exactly what you're going to do because the accused has a right to face his accuser in court. If you refuse to testify, he will have a subpoena issued requiring you, under penalty of confinement, to take your petty vindictive ass into the court room, sit in that witness chair, and have his attorney grill you over every last detail of your life. You're not the one on trial. You don't get a lawyer. If you want anyone to take you seriously then stop trying to hide behind vague accusations. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | If the West needs mens rights movement because of suicides, homelessness, workplace deaths, draft, bad school performance of boys,... then the whole world needs mens righst movement!...simply bitter about their sex lives... The same problem plagues feminists, but that hasn't stopped them from getting their agenda in the main stream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 12:44 PM |
| 5 | If the West needs mens rights movement because of suicides, homelessness, workplace deaths, draft, bad school performance of boys,... then the whole world needs mens righst movement!Exactly my point. It wasn't because they were lazy that people didn't listen to those women. Their voices went unheard for a long time. The Women's Rights movement has taken a long time to establish itself. The Men's Rights movement has only just begun that journey, and we aren't being taken very seriously yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | If the West needs mens rights movement because of suicides, homelessness, workplace deaths, draft, bad school performance of boys,... then the whole world needs mens righst movement!I agree that this is a logical conclusion. They should have a MRM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 09:04 AM |
| 9 | If the West needs mens rights movement because of suicides, homelessness, workplace deaths, draft, bad school performance of boys,... then the whole world needs mens righst movement!It's not apathy by affected men, it's apathy by society. Are you claiming that 18th century women didn't have rights because they were lazy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 09:00 AM |
| 1 | If the West needs mens rights movement because of suicides, homelessness, workplace deaths, draft, bad school performance of boys,... then the whole world needs mens righst movement!There's a shred of truth in that, but well-off men are in fact fighting for men's rights. I'm a liberal, doing reasonably well for myself, have a woman in my life, and still I fight for men's rights. I think the point, though, is that feminists can't claim they are fighting for equal rights for all people if men are required to push back. Feminism should be able to be left alone and things will balance out under their care. We're finding that's not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 08:58 AM |
| 62 | UK: Innocent student wrongly accused of rape calls for anonymity for sex assault defendants until they are found guilty.There's a good reason behind it. People are more afraid of their family members being taken away in secret (a real problem in several South American countries as we speak) by the government for undisclosed crimes. To prevent this, all crimes are made public, or at least the families are informed of the charges (in cases of crimes by minors or sensitive, confidential cases). So on the one hand you have the threat of secret police (nobody knows what the defendant is charged with or where they are)… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | A way to fight campus sexual assault allegations?If I were arguing this case and you were arguing against it, telling the judge "that's not what the law is" is a very annoying and not at all convincing argument. Your argument is that you agree with me but that it it isn't the law. Says who? Says you? Try telling the judge that. They don't take kindly to being told what the law is. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/17 09:36 AM |
| 0 | A way to fight campus sexual assault allegations?In this case, destroying a person's reputation and throwing them out of an institution of higher education, effectively limiting not only their career prospects but their life in general, constitutes a clear threat to liberty. This is a very easy argument to make, and an easy one to understand. It's also clear that this is a matter of procedural due process. These are actual proceedings with witnesses and evidence and a tribunal. The due process clause affects both civil and criminal proceedings… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/17 08:24 AM |
| 1 | A way to fight campus sexual assault allegations?No lawyer would be able to "know" whether a legal strategy will work. The law doesn't work that way. The law is also not as complicated as people think. This strategy is feasible on paper. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/17 03:08 AM |
| 2 | A way to fight campus sexual assault allegations?That's not true. The constitution never explicitly states that it applies only to a criminal trial, and there is precedent for due process being applied elsewhere, both regular and substantive due process. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | A way to fight campus sexual assault allegations?That's a rather large assumption to jump to. Would you like to challenge the feasibility of my argument and come up with a counter legal argument? | /r/MensRights | 10/12/17 10:01 PM |
| 3 | A way to fight campus sexual assault allegations?However, if the university is a state actor, then all the rights afforded by the constitution must be afforded to the accused in campus SA proceedings. They are not criminal trials, strictly speaking, but these are always criminal allegations which have punitive consequences. Due process is not reserved for criminal trials. It simply means that the government must guarantee that citizens who are threatened with the loss of life, liberty, or the pursuit of happiness by the government, then they a… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/17 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Falsely Accused Of Rape and My Trial Is Coming UpThat makes the case look pretty weak, yes, but it's a good thing you refused the sex offender registration. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES accept sex offender status as part of a plea. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Falsely accused of stalking by university - How do I prove my innocence?The university has no right to access this man's private reddit account, but I agree. There is no telling who might read this and go running their mouth to the university, making an already tense situation worse. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/17 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Falsely Accused Of Rape and My Trial Is Coming UpThat will depend on the specifics of the case. If that is the only evidence then you have a good chance of being acquitted. You also have a decent chance of being convicted. Juries are unpredictable. In order to understand what the jury is going to see, we would need to see those text messages. Your issue is going to be highly case specific. A jury Can convict you on this. The question is whether or not they will. As a matter of law, it will be nearly impossible for you to be convicted on the so… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Falsely accused of stalking by university - How do I prove my innocence?True, but we should be taking note of specific instances of abuse. If there's a particular university that has a verifiable track record of abuses then we can boycott that university. In order to call them out and do that we need to have a record of specific instances. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/17 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Now imagine if they switched roles and it wouldn't be so funny anymoreWtf did he expect? She looks strong AF. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/17 12:11 AM |
| 5 | I read this and I cringed. Caitlin Moran: it’s now risky to employ menWait, so women want to be the bread winners and I can stay at home all day? Sweet. Sign me the fuck up. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/17 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Falsely accused of stalking by university - How do I prove my innocence?Can we have the name of the university, please? Men need to be able to avoid institutions that abuse men. We need to be able to network and talk about these institutions and call them out by name. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/17 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Feminist Julie Birchill wrote of suicide that it's "nice for young men finally to find something that they’re better at than girls". Her own son later took his own lifeNo. You never "forfeit" your identity as a human. There are certain inalienable rights that every human being deserves. Being human is even more basic than that. It's not even a right--It's a factual identity. Denying someone their identity as a human is even more horrifying than denying them basic rights. You got a lot to learn. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/17 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Feminist Julie Birchill wrote of suicide that it's "nice for young men finally to find something that they’re better at than girls". Her own son later took his own lifeLet's not be dehumanizing people. She is still a human being and We have to face that side of humanity. We can't just brush it off as the acts of a less-than-human entity. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/17 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Top post on my Facebook this morning: "#GymEttiquette101 if you're a man and literally every treadmill is available, don't get on the one behind the girls."Poor hygiene can lead to those things, but not yoga pants. The tight fitting, low-friction material actually helps avoid rashes and infections. If you have a need to walk long distances or do strenuous activity then consider getting some tight-fitting low-friction underwear for yourself as well. Downvoted. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/17 04:45 AM |
| 18 | Feminist posts body positive message in support of men: Pleasantly SurprisedOne good thing is some women deciding that it's ok to be the breadwinner. I was having a hard time finding a job, and complained to my feminist friend that women having more access to well-paying jobs means fewer men are able to be providers, but women still expect men to be providers in order to find them datable. A man can't expect to not have a strong career or strong career prospects and still be able to find a partner. She said she believes that isn't fair either, and her beliefs about gend… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/17 01:17 AM |
| 3 | OK Men, Pay Attention To What is Happening and Be Ready to Record Conversations in a Heartbeat if Needed: This is SickeningSickening if true. I would like to see the evidence and witness testimony. I personally would love to see the Republican candidate destroyed, but not like this. As much as I'd like to see the republican ousted, the cost is too high when it's a result of the witch hunt. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | But she's white herself, this doesn't make any sense....Y'all is a proper contraction in some English dialects. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/17 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Woman kills husband: "I wanted him dead, and now he's gone and I'm fine with it," gets 16 months.To a lesser charge. There is a minimum sentence for premeditated murder, and it ain't 4 years. They couldn't get her on murder. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | This website destroys feminismMan, this is great, but completely useless without clear and convincing sources. I can't use any of this without tracking down a source for myself. That's fine for any one item on the list, but the entire thing? If you're going to make these kinds of claims you must have clearly marked sources. No exceptions. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/17 10:59 PM |
| 22 | Woman kills husband: "I wanted him dead, and now he's gone and I'm fine with it," gets 16 months.I want to shed some light on this, because I think there is a lot more at work here than just leniency. They had a weak AF case against her. All these things that are being reported in the article most likely wouldn't have made it into the actual trial. When that happens, and the prosecutor is afraid of losing the case, they will offer the defendant a sweet ass deal. The prosecutor is certainly pissed about this deal, knowing that they could only put a cold-blooded killer away for a few short ye… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/17 10:42 PM |
| 4 | This may be way out of hand... but about all the sexual harassment/assault accusations going around....I totally get what you mean. like, Victim: "This is really hard to talk about but I just needed to get it off my chest. This man came up to me a few yeas ago and said I was pretty, and then he smiled at me. Glad I can finally talk about this openly. #MeToo" Social Media: BURN HIM!!!!! | /r/MensRights | 02/11/17 07:56 AM |
| 4 | WEF Global Gender Gap Report 2017 has been released. It ignores men's inequalities.Wtf is this even talking about. The key points just says "the gender gap" over and over, like that's an understood measure of anything. Not the "gender pay gap", but just "Gender Gap". Like, "Oh, you know, the Gender Gap." No I don't fucking know. What does that even mean? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/17 07:51 AM |
| 5 | perhaps males, but not females, have got the message that domestic violence is wrong #WomenFailingMenThat's very brave! Hopefully you can influence some people to realize that this is a two-way street. Good luck, and thanks. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/17 04:27 AM |
| 2 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.dude wtf universe are you from lol. I see we have a complete misunderstanding. You're saying flirting isn't universal human behavior, that it's not hardwired into our biology. I'm not wasting my time on that conversation. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/17 09:15 PM |
| 3 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.Flirting. Flirting is human instinct. Hitting on someone is just shorthand for aggressive flirting. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.I feel you brother. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/17 07:07 PM |
| 2 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.Actually I meant it at face value. It's something that men do. I was thinking in broader terms, as in 'flirting', but used 'hitting on' instead because it implies a more aggressive style of flirting. Yes, not all men hit on women, but most men do flirt, and even flirting is not safe from feminism. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/17 07:02 PM |
| 3 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.It's not the status quo, it's male instinct. The difference being that pursuing women isn't some social convention that can or should be changed. It's not likely to ever change. Same as is the lion example, except that in the lion example the action hurts people, whereas with men, hitting on women generally helps society. I'm highlighting the fact that feminism has created a culture that makes it seem like normal, innocuous male behavior is not only inappropriate, but actually harmful and trauma… | /r/MensRights | 01/11/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.Good points. Your point also draws contrast between female sexual liberation and male sexual condemnation. The roles are reversed and a double standard has been created. It's so frustrating to hear women talking about having the freedom to be sexual and pursue their desires while men are being persecuted, literally, for trying to express their sexuality. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/17 06:49 PM |
| 2 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.I know. They banned me for 7 days today for speaking up about it. Apparently it's "minimizing harassment" to tell women to stop whining about minor annoyances like men trying to approach them. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/17 06:01 AM |
| 10 | The Gender discussion is all about how men need to change. It's time to flip the script. Let's talk about how women are failing men.Hey that's another thing women need to work on. Stop freezing up and being all subtle. If you don't want it, say it. Make it clear. Shifting slightly to one side isn't a clear message. Men are hard-wired to get pussy by any reasonable means (and some are willing to resort to unreasonable means). You really have to tell him NO. Keep 'em coming. I want to find all the things women do that piss us off, hurt us, put us down, and degrade us, and get that fucking article on the front page. These are t… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Brief analysis of the Slate article about getting men out of the workplace.I'm a working-class white male and I think anyone who voted for Trump was voting to fuck themselves over. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | “Harassment”Not anymore. That law was struck down. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/17 07:20 PM |
| 19 | #mentoo can we start this hashtag?No just use #MeToo if you need to share an abuse story. It's better to be inclusive and deny the haters a voice. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do Daddy Issues affect attraction and relationships?Oh but she's not. I mean literally, yeah, this "she" is hypothetical, but she represents a real demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How do Daddy Issues affect attraction and relationships?Oh I thought you were someone else. I thought you were compensating for your own shame at having your dirty secret fantasies by putting others' down. Nevermind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 12:28 AM |
| 2 | How do Daddy Issues affect attraction and relationships?lol "she" is the type of girl that is the entire point of this thread, and she totally exists. Are you living under a rock? There are young women out there who like to bang older guys. Some of them even like to bang a lot older guys. Maybe she's messed up in the head, but so is he. They both want it. You're just being judgmental because you think it's gross, and that's kind of fucked up. There's people out there that like to fuck trees and cacti, too, and sex dolls, and car tailpipes, and really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 12:11 AM |
| 5 | How do Daddy Issues affect attraction and relationships?hoards? no. But they exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/17 11:42 PM |
| 8 | How do Daddy Issues affect attraction and relationships?But she wants it. How is he preying on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/17 08:43 PM |
| 6 | How do Daddy Issues affect attraction and relationships?Do you also agree that it's creepy for her to seek out older men? Sounds like you just think it's gross. Leave these folks alone and let them have their thing together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856.Your argument is interesting. I'm not fully convinced, but it's an interesting argument. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856.My position is the default position. You're the one coming in here with a different idea than what's already in place, so you're the one who needs to explain why your position is worth considering. Bringing up a different idea and saying "prove to me how my idea is bad" is lazy, dude. You need to prove how it's a good idea, and you seem to think that you've done that. You pointed out that it's fair and reasonable to let people with responsibilities to be the only ones who vote, and you just left… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856.Because that steals the voice from poor and disadvantaged people, which is the problem we already have and which universal suffrage was designed to combat. Giving voting rights only to the few creates social unrest which often leads to rebellion and revolution. It's disingenuous to say that people with responsibilities are the only ones with valid opinions. Your argument has no place in a civil society, nor in the Men's Movement. It's people like you that give our good cause a bad name and make … | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 06:41 PM |
| 0 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856.That doesn't make any sense to me. Why would you want to go to a system like that? | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856.That is very enlightening. Thank you. I'd say you deserve a degree in men's studies but I'm not aware that there is any any such degree. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 06:04 PM |
| 2 | TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856._ Privileged |- (advantaged) |- Basic Rights |- (disadvantaged) |- Oppressed _ Here's a graphic showing the disparity of rights. I agree with you that if the state treats voting as a privilege then it makes sense to call it one, but really voting is a basic right. So not being able to vote is oppressive, rather than having the right to vote being privileged. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 01:20 AM |
| -3 | College student who lied about getting raped begs to dodge jailDoesn't mean she isn't mentally ill, and it doesn't mean she doesn't deserve compassion. She can serve as an example of what's screwed up in our system that it allows people like this to take advantage of innocent men, but the damage is already done. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/17 07:14 AM |
| 0 | College student who lied about getting raped begs to dodge jailI believe she deserves compassion regardless, and it's very likely she's got some mental shit going on she needs to take care of. We should be blaming the broken system that allows disturbed women like this to so easily take advantage of innocent men, instead of the disturbed woman herself. Men do stupid, manipulative crazy shit too and we get the book thrown at us. It's still the system that's the problem. Mentally ill people should be helped regardless of gender. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/17 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who barely found out Amy Schumer raped a dude ? And society decided to just move on and forget about it ? This is sickeningI got really wasted and consciously and willing drove my car into a bunch of people I see what you did there. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/17 12:38 AM |
| 7 | Am I the only one who barely found out Amy Schumer raped a dude ? And society decided to just move on and forget about it ? This is sickeningI disagree. This happened to me and I wasn't happy with it afterwards, but I was conscious and I did do her. I just got too drunk and screwed the wrong girl. She wanted to do more later and I was like "sorry, no." End of story. It's the same when it happens to a girl. She got really wasted and consciously and willingly screwed the wrong guy, after willingly getting herself drunk. It happens all the time. Only in our hypersensitive society that criminalizes sexual activity like it's the Spanish I… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/17 04:52 PM |
| 30 | Court rules man pay $65,000 of child support to the mother of a teenage girl he's only met once even though he is NOT the fatherCentral America is good. Belize literally has citizenship for sale. English speaking country. Beautiful tropical climate. Home prices are roughly on par with the US. If you have 60k to deposit and a steady income you can buy your way in. Also Svalbard. It's a global community that will take pretty much anyone, up in Norway. It's also small, isolated, and cold as fuck. They don't need to enforce immigration there, so you're pretty much welcome to go try. EDIT: Also polar bears. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | 'MY EX DESTROYED MY FACE' Acid attack survivor revealed his ex-girlfriend tested the corrosive substance on a SAUSAGE to prove it will burn through flesh before pouring it over his face as he sleptThat's not a fact it's something you made up, or someone else made up for you and you believed it. With the exception of tampons and a few other things (mostly bought from commissary with the inmates' own funds), the prisons are the same. Amenities vary from prison to prison, but female prisons are just as bad male prisons. You're only digging the hole deeper. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/17 11:10 PM |
| -4 | 'MY EX DESTROYED MY FACE' Acid attack survivor revealed his ex-girlfriend tested the corrosive substance on a SAUSAGE to prove it will burn through flesh before pouring it over his face as he sleptTotally agreed. Everyone deserves compassion. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/17 12:35 AM |
| -2 | 'MY EX DESTROYED MY FACE' Acid attack survivor revealed his ex-girlfriend tested the corrosive substance on a SAUSAGE to prove it will burn through flesh before pouring it over his face as he sleptDownvoted for talking about any prison like it's a cozy place. That's not going to win you any points. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/17 12:35 AM |
| 5 | A Professor Is Now Sharing Men's Personal Info Online To Harass ThemI know, the poor boy. I wonder if bots can receive gold? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/17 08:30 PM |
| 5 | A Professor Is Now Sharing Men's Personal Info Online To Harass ThemThat's a good boy, helperbot. Have a treat. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | #MenAreTrash Countermemehttp://i.imgur.com/GprxejB.jpg This was done with Canva. The font is Granaina. It's easier to use canva to do the text then another program to resize it and make it look good and put the rectangle in. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 03:49 PM |
| 3 | #MenAreTrash CountermemeI will try to find an image like that. This was the first really powerful one I was able to find. Working on it today. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 08:26 AM |
| 12 | #MenAreTrash CountermemeThis is a response to the meme trending on twitter, #menaretrash. A feminist made a pretty picture with a mountain in the background with the words "men are trash" overlaid on it (the text in my photo is identical to hers). The meme was picked up and started trending. Women are defending the phrase "men are trash" by saying it's a statement against female oppression. My point is that the phrase "men are trash" is not something to be thrown around with impunity. We take it very seriously. Posted … | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 08:25 AM |
| 33 | #MenAreTrash CountermemeThis is a response to the meme trending on twitter, #menaretrash. A feminist made a pretty picture with a mountain in the background with the words "men are trash" overlaid on it (the text in my photo is identical to hers). The meme was picked up and started trending. Women are defending the phrase "men are trash" by saying it's a statement against female oppression. My point is that the phrase "men are trash" is not something to be thrown around with impunity. We take it very seriously. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 08:22 AM |
| 4 | #MenAreTrash CountermemeI am a photographer. I cannot claim credit for the photograph but I looked into the copyright situation before posting this to avoid infringing on anyone's rights. I have the utmost respect for the man/woman who was there to take this photograph but I know I am in strong legal territory to use it as a historical photo. But yes I have some photoshop experience. It's essential for a photographer. I actually used a combination of 3 editing programs to make this. It would have been 2, but I wanted t… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 08:18 AM |
| 57 | #MenAreTrash CountermemeWorking on that tomorrow. I want to flood them with these images. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 01:14 AM |
| 394 | #MenAreTrash CountermemeThe point I want to make with this image is how disgusting the 'men are trash' images really are. And how true it is. Men are treated like trash every day. This image is of the first responders to 9/11. At least one of the men in the photo is now dead as a direct result from his actions that day. Take the steam out of their sails. Fight back. Men Are Trash is our phrase. Men have the most dangerous jobs and take them willingly. We die in droves to make the world a better place. When was the last… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Fatherless, how did we get here.Thanks for taking the time to make the video, man! I couldn't get through the video because you are very hard to hear. Also it's very long and intimidating. You have good stage presence! I wouldn't mind seeing you in youtube videos talking about stuff, but I have a few suggestions. Get a better camera. I can hardly hear nor see you in this video! Don't have everything on the whiteboard at once. It's intimidating and confusing. Could you take a picture of it or have the info on a piece of paper, … | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/17 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?I would not deprive you of your romantic notions then. Carry on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 03:49 AM |
| – | Stances on Prostitution?[removed] You're next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?I have a similar problem. I identify with a lot of MGTOW ideas and am pretty much living that life-style myself, but I can't stand the woman-hating BS that goes on in the MGTOW subreddit. Those people are obsessed with women (you wouldn't think it to read their manifesto), and the guys who get a laugh out of women getting raped really pisses me off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?Funny story: I lived with a prostitute for a while. She was an old highschool buddy with my sister, and I needed a place to stay during an extended backpacking expedition. Her other roommate was an incel. No he didn't pay her for her services. He was broke, and she wouldn't do it with her own roommate. Oh the comedic relief (not really). Also, I see that we meet again, cami9x, and under different circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?What did you say, bot? I'm pretty sure you're supposed to say, "Bleep Bloop" at the end. Can you run that by me again? r/totallynotrobots --literally You did say this was ok... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?Unless it's the frontier era during the American gold rush, and prostitutes are the glue which binds communities of prospectors together and are the wealthiest citizens in town, paying for schools and other infrastructure to expand civilization in the west. Unless you're talking about that or something, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?That's why there are escorts who will charge you money to spend time with them and sleep with you for free. Maybe the US will crack down on that, and then we'll see an explosion of "personal tutors" spring up on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Stances on Prostitution?Legalizing hard drugs wouldn't protect dealers, it would take away their business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Stances on Prostitution?Because I believe sex is an important act between a man and a woman in love. Much more degenerate than that is two people engaging in sex for pleasure. HAHAHAHAHA!!!! I'm sorry. I literally LOLd when I read that. That is very sweet and romantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.I can easily believe that. I'm not sure which is worse. I'm sure there are even a few companies out there who have a pretty level-headed system going on. I'm backing out of this debate for now. It's too complicated to make sweeping statements about "the way things are". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.Nuh-uh no way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.No not all the time, but men are definitely weary of this sort of thing happening. There's an article somewhere saying men are unlikely to help/communicate with female co-workers for fear of losing their job to a misunderstanding, and women in the workplace are suffering from it. There may be a bit of hyperbole in there but It sounds like something that could actually happen. I'd hate for someone to feel like they couldn't say something about harassment at work, but it's become really hostile. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/17 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.I'm talking about this, and so are you now, apparently. It's not normal when someone can get you fired from your job for social interaction by making a sexual harassment claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.You agree that rape is a big problem, and that there's a big focus on stopping it. The false accusations stem naturally from that. Whether it's intentional or not, true or not, someone is more likely to be taken seriously if they accuse someone of rape in a society where that's a problem. That creates a situation where a false rape accusation could be taken very seriously, prosecuted, and even end in a conviction. It does happen. The fear of sexual contact goes far beyond just false rape accusat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.Yeah, stranger danger, satanic panic, etc... My worry is that an increased focus on the problem of rape will cause a lot of false accusations and people's lives will be destroyed over a panic. We're talking about the same problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.Now imagine that instead of Reddit it was your work or school, and instead of a meaningless comment it was someone accusing you of stealing a large amount of money from the institution. Not like someone just suspects you and goes to investigate you, but they say, "That's her. She did it. I saw her do it." Sure your life will be literally intact, but you will face a lot of trouble over nothing. You might lose your job or get expelled--over nothing. You will lose friends and be an outsider. Even a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.Being a man doesn't make one privy to how most guys think. That's not true. I would know because I'm a man. Men are simple. How would you know? People generally don't fear getting falsely accused of a crime. Much less being falsely accused of a specific crime. Most people don't give much thought to false rape accusations at all. That's not true at all. Men are afraid of false accusations all the time. They may not be specifically afraid of rape accusations at all times, but every man and boy in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.I read the original post. It looks like you're saying that someone can't just say "so and so raped me" and then his life is destroyed just like that. I disagree, that can totally happen. Although I don't see where you said it was actually ok. That being the case, it looks like the OP made an accusation against you, and most people took his word for it. So how did it feel to have someone level a false accusation against you? It was very simple for him to just say you said it was ok and now you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.How would you know what most guys think? Are you a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.How could she misunderstand whether or not she was raped? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.Well you can take legal action against rape, so why is rape even a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.Actually no, not if you know it's false. That is a crime, and the subject of this debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.They aren't making a big deal out of it either. It is a big deal. Men are terrified of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.It's in the title: /u/Electra_Cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.[serious] Are you afraid of being accused of rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:37 PM |
| 11 | Q4RFeminism and Feminism in general: please explain why some of you think falsely accusing a men of rape does not ruin his life.Are you serious? False rape accusations are a very big problem. Men are terrified of this, especially young men who are just now thinking about love and sex. I can't imagine the feelings they must be having about this issue. They want to go out with girls, but they also don't want to go to Prison and have their life ruined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Do Women Hate Weak/Unattractive Men?Why do you care? Do you feel weak or unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | 25 Cool and Simple Neckbeards for MenI remember you now. You're that guy who was defending that other guy talking about robbing a woman then raping her and kicking her teeth in. Get the fuck out. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | 25 Cool and Simple Neckbeards for MenI'm not even kidding. Some of them actually look pretty cool and simple. I'm totally rocking the neckbeard now! | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/17 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Have you all noticed: Infiltration stopped and numbers are growing.Thanks for the info, dude! I'm pretty excited about picking up another game soon and it will probably be one of those. The best part of it is that the answer to "can I get in on this" is "hell yes you can! Come on in, dude." It's super simple, practically stress-free, fun, and like 40 times easier than trying to maintain a dwelling fit for a queen (which you must maintain whether you have said queen living there or not). I'm dubbing myself as one of "The Beautiful Ones" (TB1) from here on out in… | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Have you all noticed: Infiltration stopped and numbers are growing.Nice! I've been meaning to pick up that gem. I didn't know there was a PSP version. I'm about to start Ogre Battle on the 64 again though. I always get the two confused somehow lol. I think it's too late for MGTOW to be a serious movement, with the cheesy manifesto that no one takes seriously, and the immense database of awful quotes and soundbytes that anyone wishing to discredit the movement can draw from. As a personal ideology, more power to MGTOW for doing your own thing, but as far as any … | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Have you all noticed: Infiltration stopped and numbers are growing.That's what I'm hoping to see more of! I am on the verge of abandoning MGTOW and doing something else that doesn't involve constant woman-shaming because I still see it all over the place here. I'd rather just talk about guy stuff: i.e. I'm replaying Majora's Mask right now. I never finished it the first time so I'm stoked! | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | (female) Driver who rammed cyclist in road rage revenge attack jailed for three years.I know a guy who got 15 years for the exact same crime. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | [boredom] It sure felt fucking good telling this superficial feminist off!Dude she totally owned your ass. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.Nah I'm not buying it. I hear a lot of "I'm moving on from those evil cunts", but that's not really moving on. Every post in this place is about women. I wanted to come here and see dudes just talking about whatever fun shit they're doing, and occasionally laughing at the silly girls in the village, going about their days in an estrogen-fueled frenzy while we're all chilling in the forest drinking beer and living it up. Just relaxing like kings. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.Well when you put it that way it makes sense, but it's not that coherent. There's no point at which the man is supposed to move on. He can stay right where he is and be bitter forever (from what I've read and heard). I don't hear anyone talking about moving on here. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.Actually it does need positive PR, if you want other guys to join in. I'm all for spreading the word, but it needs a coherent philosophy. "women are evil" isn't fooling any half-sane person. A lot of us are choosing to forego relationships for the simple reason that being single and doing whatever the hell you want is awesome. Giving up on women means I can live in my tiny RV, roam the country, work a low wage, low-effort job, wash myself maybe 3 times a week when I'm not working (always after w… | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.I would hardly call it 'us'. I seriously want to find a more mature group of men who don't subscribe to the hatred BS. I don't have time for that. I'm just hoping they'll get the sticks out of their asses and go be free of the burden they're carrying. Got any ideas for what to call such a group? | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.Stop acting like a wounded puppy and go drink some beer dude. I'm telling you this for your own good. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.Dude what the hell is wrong with you? Stop being angry and go jump on a trampoline or something. Take a hike through the woods. Play that backlog of video games you've been meaning to tackle. Forget this hatred nonsense and do something you really want to do. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.I totally agree. Men who act like that still have a chip on their shoulder. Why waste time on women at all? I don't hate women. I just don't want to be in a relationship nor have kids. Everyone deserves compassion. This immature woman-hating bullshit has got to go. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/17 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Degenerate men who turn into ghosts a huge dating problemI just think it's a waste of time to feed these witches. Nobody listens to them and nobody cares what they are saying. I see no reason to be truly angry about this. They're just pathetic. | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/17 08:15 PM |
| -4 | Degenerate men who turn into ghosts a huge dating problemWhat is canoe.com, and why are you sourcing from this place? Don't you have better things to be doing? | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/17 03:01 AM |
| 4 | Dating - Think about this.Oh man. What are you doing here? You are clearly still very interested in having a relationship. If you were only interested in sex you would need to edit out most of the words in your post. This should read-- "I found this really bottom of the barrel girl the other day and she turned me down for sex. Werid, but it turns out she is still in love with her ex from years ago, so that explained it. Then I left her alone and went somewhere else." end of story You are having some emotional reactions t… | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/17 02:56 AM |
| 4 | I am a cowardI have to agree with the above advice. I was in a complacent job and ended up walking out one day, hitting the road, and walking 800 miles with a backpack and no money. It was the best, most therapeutic thing I've ever done. Nothing holds a candle to the freedom of walking wherever you please. Finding food and water becomes second nature because that's what you evolved for (I'd actually call finding food "first nature"). I was completely free from any hint of mental illness or addiction after 2 … | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/17 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Females teacher sleeps with student. Gets off scott free.I dunno man. Threesome with two teachers? Sounds like the kid got carried away with his story a bit. Sex with the first teacher, sure, but once the jury figures he's lying about the threesome the whole thing may as well be made up. | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/17 02:04 AM |
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