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4 days ago you were looking at pre-med.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:18 PM
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Dude, just stop. You can google everything you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:49 PM
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You don't know poor people or you live in a less expensive city.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:36 PM
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I know several.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:31 PM
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Duh, he wants her to be homeless after they split.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:22 PM
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Roommates call for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:21 PM
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What appointment? Bachelor men rarely go to doctors. I know two men who died in their early 60s of very preventable illnesses because they never saw a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:20 PM
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women do love initializing divorce Have you ever googled why women get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:20 PM
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I knew two gays who were married and one was unemployed. When they divorced, the money making guy had to pay alimony to his ex. Both men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:18 PM
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Just as women don't date men who earn less than them, who are short, who are not in the same race of them or white, What the shit is this? I have dated all those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:16 PM
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In my country , you need to get married to get a house below the age of 35 lol. Or else what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:32 PM
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Rich Cooper's twitter feed? Why would you follow that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:31 PM
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They are obsessed with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:26 PM
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They are too busy being depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:31 PM
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He has none.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:01 AM
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He also called your husband shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:11 PM
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I only had two friends who did the hoe phase. Everyone else was low N.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:56 PM
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Have you been assigned your woman yet?? HUH???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:55 PM
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genuine LOL! thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:13 PM
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You just made all that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:51 PM
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This is a winning strategy. No, it is not and that is why women hate it. You make yourself a doormat and he will wipe his feet on you and then laugh to his friends about it. You will be humiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:07 PM
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There is no RP for women Red Pill women is a sub linked on the sidebar. Plus the flip side of TRP is FDS or some other female revenge sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:35 PM
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This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:48 PM
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That is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:45 PM
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Yes, I had a glow up and got the man of my dreams within months.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:41 AM
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No, I have encountered all this in RL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:51 PM
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I remember being a very confused teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:00 PM
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"over the serious case", lol. Violence is no laughing matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:26 PM
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This sums up the whole subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:03 PM
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All things being equal, mental illness is worse just as any illness is worse. But how the hell do you know someone is mentally unwell when you first date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:56 PM
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I can flat out answer this from experience. I have dated more than one guy with a mental illness: three were bipolar, one was psycho and I had to get a restraining order, one was just depressed, and of all these example the only one who was dangerous was the psycho, possibly one of the bipolar guys too. In all cases I had to learn the hard way, since not everyone is self aware enough to admit they have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:33 PM
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Broad spectrum. Not all mental illnesses are "crazy" or dangerous. Is a depressed person who hides in their house a whackjob or just someone needing help? Is an anxious person a looney because they cannot control their fear response?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:17 PM
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Simple geology. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:42 PM
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I did a 360 and walked out. You mean walked back in. 360.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:31 PM
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Please enlighten us, as you are clearly a clinical psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:29 PM
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Also the tall thing. Having dated men over six feet tall, it's just not comfortable to hug and kiss. I prefer men my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:26 PM
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Who is saying those things? Quote someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:03 PM
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And you are not a medical doctor, correct? So you cannot access what your amygdala looks like or if you have a tumor or frontal lobe damage? Dude, just admit you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:55 PM
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You do realize that the brain is an organ of the body? And someone might be a better expert on that organ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:51 PM
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By that logic I should never see a doctor since I am an expert on my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:48 PM
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I'm advocating better vetting. So are we! And untreated mental problems are not only common, they tend to arise in early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:47 PM
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Exactly! Understanding that you have a massive anxiety issue and need help for it is self aware. Understanding that you are depressed and need help for it is self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:34 PM
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I have known female abusers, people are onto them a lot of the time. It's not that they get away with it, more like there is no evidence of a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:30 PM
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And you are a delight?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:29 PM
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I don't think you know what "self aware" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:27 PM
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If someone is no danger to anyone, and is depressed or anxious and seeks help for that, how is it a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:26 PM
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Most shooters are men. Most women get help. Which is more logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:23 PM
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Are you a danger to self or others?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:22 PM
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Not getting help is a much bigger red flag. Awareness and improvement are good things. Seeking help is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:12 PM
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Would you rather that people who are struggling just leave society and die? What are you suggesting they do? Shoot up a school?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:11 PM
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OK? But how does that prove they are happy? Beaten dogs return to their owners, abused people seek out abusive relationships, not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:10 PM
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And this right here is why people feel ashamed of their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:05 PM
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Soooo......a woman gets a horrible illness or is grieving a death and a month is too long?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:36 PM
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It is working. Pills work, but they are not miracles that fix everything. You can still have terminal illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:34 PM
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Also women want to appear beautiful so they avoid hanging and guns in favor of pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:31 PM
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No, the courts are aware of job loss and they factor that in. You are being misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:30 PM
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Sadly most likely outcome is the guy will be put on jail. Who do you know that got thrown in jail for losing their job??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:03 PM
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so you mean the same 20% of men who are actually participating in dating? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:56 PM
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yet it is almost impossible to get testosterone No. it's not. Androgel is an easy prescription. I know two men who have taken it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:53 PM
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laws can be very cruel to the man. Often they are not even allowed to see the kids Only if the courts believe he is a danger to the children. This has to be proven. Otherwise he gets visitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:53 PM
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Women are happy with men. That is a fact. You loathe to admit it. You run from it, hide from it but reality arrives. You can't hide from my observations. Eh, there is so much variability there- women are more likely to be killed or beaten by a spouse or domestic partner than anyone else. That is a fact. When you remove the abusive men from the equation, you have a lot of complaints about him not pulling his weight or not helping with the kids or drinking too much or whatever. Lots of walkaway wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:51 PM
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Look, none of us have been in this position where you are terminally ill and in constant pain. You have no idea what you would do. How is it illogical to use morphine instead of a gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:41 PM
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Hormone fluctuation starts around age 40 and causes various symptoms, including depression and anxiety. This lasts for about 10 years until her periods cease completely. During this time (known as peri menopause) she might take anti depressants to help her cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:39 PM
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I don't think you understand how custody works. She gets paid child support based on what percentage of the time she has the kids. If it's full time mom has the kids, and he never has to take the kids, he pays more. Do you really think it's proper for dads to let their kids starve out of spite?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:37 PM
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Older women are more unhappy simply because of hormones. Married or not, they go through menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:12 PM
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Very unfair she keeps getting all financial benefits of marriage Did you miss the part about them both working full time??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:06 PM
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Chile's on dates? That is a long flight just for dinner, but ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:08 AM
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OK, and? It's still not a lot. We can grind the numbers all day and the percentage of single women who are sexually active (but not in a professional capacity) is small.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:34 PM
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I see the opposite. I am middle aged and lots of women (especially after divorce or spousal death) are just done with men. It's not that they couldn't get another man, they just don't see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:20 PM
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::shrug:: There could be other factors we are not considering. How many women are in prison? How many are medically incapable of sex? How many are in asylums?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:17 PM
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Which would you expect to see, older or younger women not wanting a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:16 PM
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Because you are not religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:12 PM
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What about young women in relationships who are not sexually active? There is overlap in those two groups. You guys just assume all relationships are hot and heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:03 PM
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Like literally almost everyone at my highschool talked about sex, relationships and love all the time. Yeah, it was mostly talk. People coupled up but most people did not have sex in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:57 PM
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The male suicide rate I just googled it, it's 23 per 100,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:56 PM
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I'm just saying normally people who have extreme mental breakdowns end up hospitalized/institutionalized. No, they don't normally. I had a nervous breakdown at age 24, and I know other folks who had breakdowns too. Most people just suffer in silence or do drugs if they are unhappy, and it's usually from actual trauma- not superficial dating woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:54 PM
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Every ER visit I have ever seen was from an actual ailment, not from "the superficiality of a future dating market."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:50 PM
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Before Reddit and Instagram, girls got advice from magazines that endlessly went on and on about how to please men. It was nonstop. So yes, there is more to it than "don't be a bitch" and how to spot con artists, it was how to keep the one you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:36 PM
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Trauma is trauma. It's not a contest, if someone has more opportunities or not makes no difference if they are in PTSD from almost being killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:55 PM
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How is that rare?? Women are very self-critical and tend to ruminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:32 PM
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Mansplaining my infatuation to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:11 AM
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I got ghosted by a guy I was dating in the early 90s before we had text messages. It hurt, but back then you just asked his friends to find out what happened with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:44 PM
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You did not grow up in a church? Husband material is the way girls talked about guys when they wanted to have sex with them. Because it's not a sin if you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:43 PM
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I guess I am dating the apex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:39 PM
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however, it is true that oneitis does not exist among women. I have oneitis and I am woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:38 PM
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It depends how long they have been dating and how aggressive he is. You met once or twice and you scared her? She can ghost. Married three years with a kid? Better send a text. ( kidding but you get the idea).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:18 PM
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I used all these excuses when I did not want to marry my partner. The same stuff you are spouting, I told him. The real reason I did not want to marry is that I was not in love with him. It's that simple. Just own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:37 PM
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Do you know her friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:22 PM
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In the old days before the sexual revolution guys got laid at the local brothel. They were not virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:39 PM
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Horrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:15 AM
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OH NOES!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:06 AM
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Oh Wise One! What other great truth do you wish to impart?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:59 AM
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None whatsoever. Men are infinitely happy all alone with no one, not even friends! Gross, other people- amirite??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:48 AM
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My sexiest man in the world is my boyfriend and he is 5'6"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:20 PM
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Marilyn Monroe had slept with hundreds o men before she got famous, still the most desired woman in America. She married Joe DiMaggio. Is he low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:46 PM
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Most women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:51 PM
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Exactly, the cause is biological and hormones- not some dumb hypergamy or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:35 PM
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Good for them. Better than being depressed, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:35 PM
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That goes for all women, not just single ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:13 PM
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Worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:29 PM
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This is the wisest thing I have read on this subreddit. Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:19 PM
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I can attest to this, having worked in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:05 PM
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But the number of "families" with 0 kids has declined, and is declining at an ever increasing rate. Huh? I thought it was the opposite - more people are not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:03 PM
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So how could she have avoided suffering by making "wiser decisions?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:54 PM
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How is a woman who is presumably raising children, tending to a house, cooking/cleaning, tending to a man, probably working, and all the odds and ends in between supposed to have time for the amount of effort required to battle natural aging for a physique that is not natural for their age? Smoking. Have you not noticed how much Europeans smoke?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:25 PM
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Unless you are Japanese it is unlikely they will want a gaijin like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:44 PM
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Men cry less than women, and have less anxiety so they seem more stoic and people interpret this as "more logical" but men also have more anger and rage and will drive aggressively or commit acts of violence more often. Horniness is also an emotion. Women are less stoic about how they feel, and display more negative emotions such as fear. Neither sex is logical. Humans are not logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:38 PM
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I bring joy to his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:15 PM
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Uh, or never have sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:34 PM
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Works to do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:29 PM
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Absolutely would get a pre nup, the smart thing for anyone with assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:23 PM
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I am sorry this happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:18 PM
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Wtf do you do all day?! Candy Crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:02 PM
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Never before in western memory has there been a time with so much despair when it comes to relationship and family prospects Um, what? The Great Depression was a picnic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:38 PM
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The best comment, right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:18 PM
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The rough outline of going to work and grocery shopping is correct, the fawning treatment is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:34 PM
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You have 2x as many female ancestors as male ancestors. Because so many men died young.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:48 AM
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you are wise by learning it instead of going in full denial as most men (and women) do. Or... maybe we have different experiences, say? Not the record I too worked in a retirement home tsar was mostly female staff and none of that was going on. Women are not a hive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:10 PM
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How's your relationship going?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:05 PM
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If we're being honest, I've met way more ugly men with bad personalities than attractive men with bad personalities, but no one wants to talk about that... Same. Ugly guys that I dated were often insecure and negged me or even lashed out in jealous anger. The only man to ever hit me in anger was a STEM nerd with no chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:39 PM
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I had the same experience. Church and churchy friends convinced me that dating attractive guys made me "shallow" and I should date based on personality. That blew up in my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:13 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:10 PM
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I used to be a member, and I found it very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:06 PM
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And we do love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:55 PM
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Best comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:54 PM
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There are no abusive men, just handsome guys you couldn’t bend to your will Oh cool, I guess everyone is safe in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:25 PM
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Most women do not ride a cock carousel. They have a few boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:28 AM
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The way it was explained to me, Feminists who oppose marriage see it as "shackling a victim to her abuser" as in historical context marriage made her into his property. A man was traditionally allowed to beat or even murder his wife, until certain religions did away with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:57 PM
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What's the point of continuing a prison-like society where people are forced to breed? May as well let a better society win.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:26 PM
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So is having a male friend gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:04 PM
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I remember you! You've been here for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:46 PM
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I am taller than my Chad boyfriend. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:44 AM
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I wonder how much of her story was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:40 AM
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Have you seen OP's post history? It is this one topic and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:18 PM
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That sounds ideal to you??? Are you monk?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:30 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:21 PM
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I help out male friends. I help out all kinds of people. What is this crappy island of sexism where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:42 PM
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There is argument that the female orgasm is just an artifact of men and women needing to share a common developmental stage, and it exists ultimately only for men. Except that female animals cum. And let's be clear- if we are talking about artifacts of development in utero, then men are simply copying women's body parts and not the reverse. Penis is just a modified clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:50 PM
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The way I was told, is that she will select for less selfish mates. If he is selfish in bed, he is selfish in general. Not sure I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:44 PM
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If you believe in evolution then this is a feature, not a bug. Women are harder to please in bed, on purpose, to make them more selective of mates. Nature could have made women just as easy as men, and the result would have been less selectivity. Is that a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:36 PM
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Same here!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:57 AM
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women want to hold onto a rigged and discriminatory system because they are selfish and bad people So are you ready to date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:32 AM
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The entire reason we have no fault divorce is because it was so hard to prove fault to a judge that couples would collude to create fake "caught in the act" adulteries just to end the marriage. Some marriages are simply doomed, and why should one partner be the bad guy? You can vet and vet and vet and still end up with a dud, why should you be punished with a lifetime together? Women would rather remain single than return to fault based divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:06 AM
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Some people make the argument that Medicare should be for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:55 AM
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What happens instead is that women unconsciously settle for men who might not be as attractive as other men whom they were interested in in the past. It's more like women settle for men they USED to find attractive but he let himself go and she figures, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:53 AM
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How would that change who we date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:51 AM
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Your entire dating pool is on welfare? Where do you live?!?! This genuinely cracked me up, thank yoU!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:48 AM
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But take away free public education, Medicare, SNAP, etc, well by damn it's like magic Medicare? You want to hurt the over 65 crowd now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:43 AM
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Question for the ladies here, is that a real thing at all? I thought women had it pretty figured out they are the trophy, are there women who actually need to learn that or am I missing context somehow? I still believe in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:12 AM
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I date and I'm unmarried and childfree and will be forever. Same here. "Single" is just how I file my taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:09 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:24 PM
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I have known plenty of ball-breaking women and plenty of submissive men. They usually pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:37 PM
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Who are you describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:45 PM
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Not boob men, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:07 PM
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Look around the planet and you will see most couples are looks matched. So go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:38 PM
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And what did the women say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:48 AM
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Do you have family members who are divorced? What reasons did they give? Superficial minutia or real hard sad answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:28 PM
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SuperCrazy said the reason women divorce is due to loss of attraction, and that is a PPD trope which does not bear out in reality. When we bring stats and real world information to PPD, we are correcting red pill bullshit. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:24 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/ Finances, affairs, addictions and other real causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:18 PM
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The reason for the divorce statistic you referenced is the men they’re married to are no longer attractive, so they want out. Have you read the stats on why people get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:46 PM
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young men are having MORE sex than young women Could be bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:51 PM
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Take a deep breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:47 PM
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Are desperate 40-year-old women looking to date/fuck incels? Because that's gonna' be their main suitors at that point. Oh dude, if you only knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:45 PM
1

Is it? Have you not seen the stats on partner homicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:42 PM
1

Men sometimes murder women they suspect are cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:15 PM
0

She is right. The only guy I dated who ever hit me in anger was a highly insecure dweeb who could not get over himself. So he lashed out in anger at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:18 AM
-1

but people treat men's insecurities as excessive way more easily. Because men are more likely to kill or maim their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:12 AM
1

I can think of very few examples of this. Are you referring to male-only jobs like fighter pilot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:47 PM
1

But if women are gonna bitch about male privilege and patriarchy and all that bs then they gotta start given up some of their privileges. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:37 PM
8

Nobody trashes promiscuous women anymore. Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:47 PM
3

I have known so many women who date down or marry down, it's like 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:31 PM
2

Lucky for you, most women are not AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:12 PM
1

She could be on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:51 PM
1

I will remember this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:35 PM
2

Five Decades. It's his flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:34 PM
3

You are wise beyond your years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:31 PM
2

She is the primary source of the mess. He never takes a shit at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:29 PM
2

He stopped caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:23 PM
3

He also wants women to cut their hair short.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:21 PM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:43 AM
6

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:23 PM
7

no love and no commitment there, only lust. Wow, rude much?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:00 PM
1

Exactly. No one would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:56 PM
6

Not giving that man one thin dime...but I read some of his bombastic drivel on his webpage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:35 AM
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Why not? I have seen a lot of these scenarios in RL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:33 AM
4

Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:16 AM
1

nother thing is that women indeed will have more unpaid labor if they live alone, obviously. They have to work AND also do stuff of the house. When I lived alone I had it easier than when I lived with a man. Not to be blamey, but men are messy and I had to clean up after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:33 PM
1

Women have always suffered more depression and anxiety, due to hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:43 PM
0

I am 5'7" and I have no idea his actual height.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:40 PM
9

Breakups are devastating for men, not so much for women This is pure horse shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:23 PM
7

This is what causes those men to cheat the first opportunity they get. So no agency for cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:21 PM
3

Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:20 PM
3

This is very well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:16 PM
2

Find a woman who does not care about height. My boyfriend is shorter that me, yet he is a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:56 PM
1

I would totally marry based on looks. Lord knows I am dating a guy based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:37 PM
2

Similarly, I met my SO at 44 and that in itself is staggering but even wilder is that he is the love of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:41 PM
1

Way way better! I met my SO on a dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:04 PM
1

I won't give you details, but I still wake up in a cold sweat sometimes. I am glad you extracted yourself safely from that psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:50 PM
6

Constant negging and insults are not enough? Public humiliation is not enough? I dumped his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:25 PM
1

This is all good info.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:49 PM
0

No one ever asks. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:00 PM
4

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:50 AM
3

someone who's hobbies revolve around shopping, alcoholism and promiscuity. That is not most women, so you should be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:31 AM
5

Atlas would have to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:05 AM
1

I don't think this will be a problem for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:05 AM
9

Oh ok, so people commit crimes because of overpolicing and misandry. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:42 PM
6

but when men have low self esteem like an incel, approaching always backfires. They think you're trying to scam them for money, or it's a prank This is literally my experience many years ago when I expressed interest in this lonely Inkwell guy. He thought I was playing a big joke on him and raged at me in anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:33 PM
7

But attraction is fluid and can change!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:41 PM
2

So we need men to protect us from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:19 AM
3

What causes a divorce? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:27 PM
5

Divorce is a result of pickiness? Do you even hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:49 PM
10

Young marriage means more divorce and more broken homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:15 PM
1

I am an artist myself and I dated other artists. You know the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:25 PM
2

Same story here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:45 PM
1

Love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:05 AM
1

THAT WAS MY POINT. She should have kept her crying jag to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:13 PM
1

So women need to be shamed like Queen Cersei in Game of Thrones but men are a-ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:12 PM
1

So do you post tik Tok videos of yourself crying over your life choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:09 PM
1

She should not have posted that for the world to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:17 PM
2

oh thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:04 PM
1

must be okay with taking threesomes,
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:59 PM
2

A Christian who does threesomes???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:52 PM
1

I have a black belt in TKD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:39 PM
26

Dude, even the medieval popes had mistresses and bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:36 PM
10

It wasn't just the top tier, all men visited brothels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:35 PM
4

This should be top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:34 PM
58

Marrying young and also a huge age gap are both good predictors of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:15 PM
2

That strategy will result in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:31 PM
7

Then don’t breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:23 PM
1

Leprechauns and fairies too??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:27 PM
2

I am denying it right now, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:29 PM
2

You can't shave?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:00 PM
1

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:41 PM
1

LOL accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:38 PM
1

For women, faces are everything. Bodies are what you notice next.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:37 PM
6

Maybe it's private? Maybe she does not want to smear him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:27 AM
9

What a lot of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:40 PM
3

grass is greener syndrome, etc. which i suspect is happening in most of divorces. Stats do not bear this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:36 PM
1

80 percent of men on PPD believe 20 different fallacies. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:54 AM
2

OMG SO DO I!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:41 AM
4

This is spot on and cracked me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:20 AM
1

Dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:19 AM
2

Oh damn, your description was perfect...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:16 AM
2

But stats and reality says clearly that only a small percentage of guys are being chased by a majority of women Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:12 AM
1

No🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:56 PM
1

You mean when women were happier staying home, raising and teaching their children, and gardening, and being a homemaker? Dude, you need to read more history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:34 AM
7

my dad and every male family member told me not to Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:33 AM
10

No, that would be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:30 AM
2

Oh tell me about it. He would pout in high drama and storm off and I was supposed to run after him. Until I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:04 PM
4

You can literally google “nine parts of desire”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:20 PM
23

Nine Parts of Desire is how Islam framed it. You know, to justify oppressing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:27 PM
3

I had more than one insecure boyfriend. It manifests as jealousy, insults, paranoia, negging, accusations, sulking, oh lord who can tolerate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:34 PM
4

Best advice was to find someone who really "shook my tree" and not settle. Worst advice was "stop going for looks"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:52 AM
2

This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:35 PM
1

Abusers and murderers look like ordinary people and this is a big problem with your thinking that some average guy who is the same level as her is somehow safe. No. Women date and marry normal looking guys with normal jobs and it can still go very dark. This idea that you can spot a killer as some lowlife hoodlum is how Chris Watts and other killers blend in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:38 PM
0

is most abusers are abusive because they can and are used to getting their way, or just the opposite, they are angry at the world because they did NOT get what they want and so they take it our on their poor girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:39 PM
0

is most abusers are abusive because they can and are used to getting their way, or just the opposite, they are angry at the world because they did NOT get what they want and so they take it our on their poor girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:39 PM
1

is most abusers are abusive because they can and are used to getting their way, or just the opposite, they are angry at the world because they did NOT get what they want and so they take it our on their poor girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:39 PM
1

A man whom is your equal in social status / income / actual attractiveness is way less likely to be abusive. Wrong wrong wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:37 PM
3

Every one of their songs sounds like the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:16 AM
3

OLD allowed me to find my dream partner; I likely wouldn't have met him otherwise Same. No complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:25 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:10 PM
1

Did nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:53 PM
1

American men are significantly more liberal than men anywhere else than world, Uh, have you been to Europe....?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:11 PM
1

This genuinely cracked me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:23 PM
1

Science eh? So here's some science: if a 20 year old woman marries a 40 year old man for his resources or whatever, he will logically die 20 years earlier than her. Or more. She will be a widow at age 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:53 PM
1

Oh you know, buy him a private island and all that. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:51 PM
1

He needs to find a new crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:41 PM
12

How long did you spend thinking up this non-problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:38 PM
2

This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:17 PM
4

This is the best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:17 PM
1

Go read your own writing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:36 PM
1

You typed it, but this should be a class in world of Warcraft
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:14 PM
1

Lol at “slut shaman”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:08 PM
2

SMH. No. It's not. It's Red Pill Propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:19 PM
2

This is a load of crap and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:04 PM
4

I am never married and no kids, but I have a long term boyfriend. Many of us do. Just because women are not married does not mean they are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:55 PM
9

I am fifty years old and I am fine with the aging process. No jealousy at all for younger gals, I envy older women who are effortlessly thin though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:48 PM
3

You really don’t see how guys here try to convince women to give up their own interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:46 PM
1

Men are always trying to convince women to abandon their self interests for the interests of other men, even if that man doesn't include himself. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:17 PM
0

You could gender flip this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:09 PM
4

withholding sex Ugh, I am so sick of this phrasing. Like withholding car keys or withholding your last paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:07 PM
1

Maybe that's why I gave up after one episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:04 PM
5

Upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 PM
13

Dude, never drink water again. Water is used and recycled from toilets and sewage. Sure they boil it and add chlorine but it had literal poo in it. Trying to argue against that feeling using logic and reason is a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:30 PM
2

Heh heh, that would end all debate on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:27 PM
2

As far as I am aware there are no studies that compare relationship satisfaction/success in couples with mismatched sexual histories. In the past, men were stepping out on their wives quite often to visit the local brothel. Sure people could marry as virgins, why not. But many guys experiment sexually with other boys around puberty- does that make them gay? Are they virgins or not? They still got married and still had families. The women were not visiting brothels and stepping out much. Only in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:22 PM
0

Absolutely it matters, but not for the reasons men here believe. Sex is not always consensual and if someone was raped or molested as a child, it damages them for life. I had to deal with the fallout from a few people who were molestation victims and they manifested their damage as alcoholism, drugs, mental illness, or extreme promiscuity or rigid prudery. It matters. But this idea that a woman had sex in college and now she is forever used meat? Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:15 PM
2

-3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:09 PM
2

So you guessed? Anyone can make stuff up, Bandit. I can decide that redheads need to pair up with other redheads "because it makes sense logically." No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:07 PM
4

No. My friends have terrible taste in men, and they think the same of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:57 PM
0

And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:57 PM
3

heterosexual men who mess around with other men. This might up the number of sex partners a man lists. Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:02 PM
1

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:02 PM
9

Most women are not promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:50 PM
25

Gay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:46 PM
3

So it's fact now? More intelligent women are masculine? I must be a bull dike and I never knew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:10 PM
2

Same deal for women with higher IQs; they'll fine closer to the center, aka more masculine Pfffftttt no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:57 PM
2

I wonder how many of those same women who say that past doesn’t matter would be okay with dating a 30 year old virgin who’s never had a gf? I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:34 PM
1

most women Naw. Some women, yes. Most women do not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:49 AM
4

Most women do this? Not just a large minority but MOST?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:20 PM
1

Obtain as in marry? You will have to deal with her family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:12 PM
2

with no drama. Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:09 PM
1

he is dating women in their 20s with no drama. And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:56 PM
2

I get the metaphor but it's silly. Does the lock remained unlocked forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:50 PM
1

And then it's unlocked! Wowsers! This is where the analogy falls apart. You have to lock and unlock it every day? Or else someone will get inside the shed and steal your tools? It's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:50 PM
1

Legit LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:48 PM
1

Do you like spicy food? How spicy do you want it? I am not speaking metaphorically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:47 PM
1

You and I think alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:13 PM
2

And this is precisely why I cannot do a graveyard shift. My household is so noisy, forget it...and the neighbors across the street are worse. Who can find earplugs strong enough? I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:34 PM
2

Amsterdam?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:39 PM
5

pump and dumping has become the norm and society is just a bunch of dudes wanting short term flings and modern women acting like the town bike, to fund her lifestyle Where the hell do you live???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:58 PM
1

No, why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:50 PM
9

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:34 PM
8

In reality most people fall in love and get married despite being "betas" and their partner loves them just fine. Most people are not running dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:33 PM
1

Also see "love languages" used as excuses for forcing their partner to do something. "He did not celebrate my birthday with a trip to Paris, my love language is acts of service!" "She will not put out every three hours, my love language is physical touch!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:12 PM
1

Not my type, seems babyfaced and his views clash with mine. Would not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:10 PM
1

IKR?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:01 PM
1

Just like love languages are a euphemism for personal dissatisfaction Thank you for saying this, I am so sick of "love languages" being used as crappy advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:59 PM
3

Stalkers are not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:22 PM
0

Looks first and foremost, but until we talked on the phone I was apathetic. His voice sealed the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:08 PM
2

I still hold a bit of a grudge regarding what she said all those years ago. What did she say?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:11 PM
7

Yes, but the only men I have met who were clean freaks were coincidentally gay. Straight men never vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:05 PM
4

Vet better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:01 PM
9

A lot of us have apartments so no one is repairing their own screen doors or mowing the lawn. Call management.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:40 PM
3

Mmmm, if I count coworkers and church normies then....50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:21 PM
10

Average guys that I know personally? A lot of them are single or in gay relationships. Many gave up. I know a lot of nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:18 PM
8

lol, dude! Why would you assume I dump anything on him? Don't most people hide in the bathroom when they cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:52 PM
5

if you're behaving at work, why aren't you acting the same way at home? I cry when I get home, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:50 PM
16

Oh, I see. Every month we get fired from our jobs, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:41 PM
7

despite you paying for everything, Is this 1950 all of a sudden?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:19 PM
14

Er, when are we given a pass to be a bitch?? If I did that at work I would get written up or fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:18 PM
2

What would you say about so many old single women being on anti depressants? Menopause can cause massive depression whether you are single or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:22 PM
1

Yes. He seemed non-violent and I did not want to be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:14 PM
2

My workout routine is to go to my job and lift and run around and squat and run up and down stairs and it's a 7 hour shift of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:14 PM
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I worked in a nursing home. There are tons of widows and a few widowers, but usually the man dies first. Women die "alone" because he died years ago. Also there were single never-married old women who did just fine. Old. Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:13 PM
5

Weird bunch of women.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:38 AM
5

and they are off with the fairies thinking about other stuff cos their hormones dictate their thoughts and fluctuates day to day and hour to hour...also many women have told me they hate their jobs whatever it is.. as it keeps them away from family or leisurely pursuits like shopping. This honestly cracked me up. DUDE. You can't possibly believe any of this.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 01:50 AM
1

I would rather meet guys on dating sites, which is where I met my partner.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 01:22 AM
2

That makes sense, thanks.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 06:27 PM
1

Wow, he really kept a lot of secrets.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 12:48 AM
1

Oh it's you. Hey man, do you still talk to Roosh?
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 12:12 AM
4

I do not sleep with randos, nor use Tinder, and I am picky and cautious. Isn't it possible that women have reason to be?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 03:16 PM
3

It is always wrong to use people you are supposed to love. Do not use, and do not manipulate. AFBB implies she is using the BB and does not love him, so it is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:30 PM
1

Yes, the Morgan Stanley one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:22 PM
7

My friends have atrocious taste in men, thank God. I never find their partners cute. Likewise they think my taste in men is "dark and swarthy" and they are turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:21 PM
3

Dude, the data says "single" as in unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:19 PM
4

Sensitive as in neurotic and violent bouts of rage? Or sensitive as in compassionate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:16 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:15 PM
3

A lot of women are single as in spinsters all alone, and some are single but in LTR coupled-up relationships or even living together. Very few women are promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:14 PM
1

My boyfriend is super masculine and sexy. I went on BC and my attraction to him did not change. I came off BC and still no change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:13 PM
3

You just made all that up. The data says 45% of women will be unmarried. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:06 PM
2

That is not what the data says.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:58 PM
1

LOL not manly in the slightest. I am an extremely girly woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:58 PM
1

men that are seen as masculine are later at risk of no longer being seen as attractive should his partner get onto birth control? I never had this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:39 PM
5

OP thinks feminine men are bad and women are bad for picking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:36 PM
3

And as time goes on or they get off bc they become attracted to a different type of guy. Not in my experience. I have been on and off BC due to bad periods all throughout my adult life, and it never altered what types of men I like. My current partner of 7 years is the hottest on the planet, and I am on and off BC while dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:33 PM
4

Spot on. Also the data presented said there will be more "single" women but that just means unmarried, not alone and spinster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:05 PM
0

Cads. Playboys. Don Juans. Scoundrels. They were shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:00 AM
3

Or...different women want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:49 PM
2

women just wanted to have sex and do what they wanted without being shamed for it. Men wanted this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:47 PM
4

So did men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:28 PM
3

So I've said no 4 times. Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:53 PM
3

That would drive me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:29 PM
4

Most people do not cheat, but why are you so worked up over this anyway? If you find out someone has betrayed you, just leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:27 PM
1

I'm not. What is this weird world you guys live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:25 PM
1

Wait, I thought you were getting a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:52 PM
5

I know lots of people who live beyond their means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:34 PM
7

Yeah, that story hurt me to read even though I have never been in her shoes. Poor gal was trying her best ti win him over and thought they were a real couple, and then BOOM you lose. He is giving the most sanitized version of events to paint himself as sinless and I am willing to bet he led her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:15 PM
8

Buddy, there are lots of guys buying cars they cannot afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:03 PM
5

If she cheated on him with his twin brother, the DNA will be the same. Checkmate!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:45 PM
0

Have you noticed this generation doesn't even have raunchy teen comedies? Now that you mention it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:43 PM
2

Watching YouTube at work drains my phone battery, so I surf Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:31 PM
2

Agreed, I am religious so it makes sense to be a prude but these atheists on Reddit confuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:29 PM
3

I cannot picture any of this happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:27 PM
6

You know, telling long boring stories with no point and no punchline? I am the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:25 PM
1

This is my life as a baby faced gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:23 PM
1

I want to know more. Are they ranting about politics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:20 PM
1

Not worth the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:09 PM
1

Just break up, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:06 PM
1

Attraction cannot be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:31 PM
2

Exactly my experience too. I was a teenager and did not know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:23 PM
1

You know too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:28 PM
4

Enjoy your youth. Travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:11 PM
24

Pick something that you like and get really good at it. It doesn't matter what or how profitable it is. YES IT DOES MATTER.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:34 AM
12

And this would benefit her how?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:53 PM
1

Yup I knew someone like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:13 PM
2

Same here. I got all the money I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:08 PM
1

Are we counting divorced mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:23 PM
1

Maybe. But why not try it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:19 PM
4

Men don't care if they live in filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:06 PM
1

Problem is as a man you have to be an initiator and creator of dialogue. This is why a man will have to be witty, charismatic, funny (ideally) etc to socially grab someone he's talking to. Oh buddy, I perfected wit. I was a few years into learning social skills and I learned to be funny and clever too. Make people laugh, it's a huge social power-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:03 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:42 PM
1

1) Imitation of others 2) braces, hair, wardrobe, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:41 PM
1

I learned social skills and got pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:35 AM
1

I was not handed social status or social circles. I had to level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:00 AM
4

gay male relationships are even more stable than heterosexual relationships s Because they are not monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:53 AM
0

Most personality traits are genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:40 PM
2

I did just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:04 PM
1

Long story- I was one of the Christians who prayed for his conversion and was delighted when he claimed to love Jesus after all those years of craziness. So I followed Roosh to see if he is a real believer or a fraud, and it's been 3 years and I am still undecided. We have a mutual friend who claims he is sincere and for reals, but I am troubled by Roosh's grifting and tinfoil hat nuttiness. Did he really change? No idea. There has been some progress on his forum and less mean spirited gossip, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:59 PM
1

Pretty much all of it. I fast forward a lot of parts where he blathers on about Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:56 PM
1

But do you miss the rest of it? The doom and gloom circus?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:56 PM
16

Yeah, I tried finding this evidence too and it does not exist. The original study on pair bonding and sex was all about rodents like lemmings or voles. It had nothing to do with primates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:21 PM
2

I mean, if you like conspiracy theories there are plenty of other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:59 PM
4

Naw, it's more like we are desensitized to all the hatred and now just look upon thy wrath with amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:56 PM
2

Anyone can spin a tale to make the other party look like a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:04 PM
9

Exactly. Jessica could become a nun and she still did the right thing for herself so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:52 PM
3

Do these married doctors also cheat? Where do they find the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:50 PM
5

depends who is telling the tale of woe. Everyone paints themself as the hero or the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:48 PM
2

Try throwing a hissy fit as a grown ass man. I have seen men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:20 PM
5

No, silly. Once you commit a sin you are obligated to keep doing that exact sin for the rest of your life. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:49 PM
4

I went to a conservative church for years and this is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:44 PM
27

this sub acts and pretends like average men can't, won't, and have never treated their romantic partners like trash. They want to believe that they are morally superior to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:31 PM
7

This should be top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:30 PM
1

I dunno, his long lost sister maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:46 PM
4

I cannot think of a single time in my entire life where I needed a beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:44 PM
1

I think they married too soon because of religious reasons I am SO glad I dodged that bullet. Really had to learn this one second hand, watching friends and family get divorced after an early marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:06 AM
1

Oh they will be together until one of them drops dead. I have seen PLENTY of couples like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:04 AM
1

Why not be honest? We are all anon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:55 AM
1

Can’t drift, Well in that case, YUCK! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:54 AM
5

I'm like a Jaguar with a broken muffler.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:51 AM
0

Maybe you hang out with a trashy crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:50 AM
0

I've literally never seen a woman initiate a break up without a backup plan in place first. Never. Not once. But we all have done it. I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:55 PM
2

Most people love for love's sake, not for resources. Women love just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:54 PM
0

Yup, this is my experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:49 PM
2

Good list.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:29 PM
4

Or parks in the driveway for a looong time before going in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:25 PM
2

Yes, because it is bait in the trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:17 PM
9

Yeah, there is no healthy reason for him to ask this. He wants to treat people like toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:28 PM
1

Looking back I had that issue a lot Yeah, same. I did the opposite of AFBB and dated loser dweebs when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:26 PM
1

I see this as a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:56 PM
3

Love bombing is a specific over the top display of affection and gifts and attention done by abusers and narcs to ensnare their victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:52 PM
0

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:13 AM
1

I don't care about a man's Height as long as he is in the normal range. No dwarfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:17 PM
1

Because of children. As a childfree woman with a job...I am not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:15 PM
9

My boyfriend is shorter than me and he is completely confident and has no such insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:23 PM
3

How does a child free woman with a job drain your taxes more than a child free man with a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:17 PM
1

That is mothers with small children not just women like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:26 PM
1

They want to defund single moms on welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:25 PM
16

Those people cheated right and left, adultery is the main hobby in strict Muslim countries even now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:22 PM
1

She was a divorced aesthetician
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:06 PM
1

Are you the Smurferson poster from before?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:32 PM
2

Close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:08 PM
2

Hair extensions and fake nails, got it. You may as well skip all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:47 PM
8

Exactly- there is no memory for the recession of 2011?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:12 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:04 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:39 AM
1

Or..hear me out....don't do any of this nonsense and treat people as human beings instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:41 PM
1

Oh Pfffft, she would lose out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:29 PM
2

Usually the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:16 PM
6

even if we assume they can change who they are attracted to. what's the incentive? Lots of men are vain and want to be seen with a beautiful woman even if they are not in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:13 PM
2

Right, so dump her and let her meet someone who wants monogamy like she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:54 AM
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Because we all have different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:10 PM
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most women wouldn’t be waiting until their 30s to give up on chasing hot men and settling with average men. Exactly, most women do not do this. AFBB is the same guy, just older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:07 PM
5

I've seen this movie, the robot girlfriends stabbed him and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:13 PM
1

Not in their 60s, no. Gen X tops off at around 56 or 58 years old currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:33 PM
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No, I work in customer service and old people in their 60s and 70s are the most entitled, most likely to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:29 PM
2

OK, tell her it's infested with evil spirits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:24 PM
2

Tell her this summerhouse is infected with bedbugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:10 PM
6

How many children do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:07 PM
2

Ants work. We all have jobs. Guess we are all ants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:00 PM
133

If people by and large are choosing to have fewer children, what does that say about the joys of parenthood? Maybe just let the population die down a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:47 AM
1

Um, no I never lost my perfect round butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:37 PM
–

Nerd girl, remember. She is not boning anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:24 PM
–

On the front lawn. Sprinklers turned on. It's not my house, where'd I go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:22 PM
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Hope you aren't shallow about her looks then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:15 PM
6

OK, so dump your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:39 PM
8

I suspect this relationship is not gonna last anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:37 PM
2

Yes oh yes, that is the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:01 PM
2

Oh pal I have no choice in this matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:01 PM
2

I mean, meth...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:00 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:59 PM
29

When the government goes bust and defaults on its obligations, will your platitudes be worth anything to the women you gave bad advice to? She did not give you platitudes, she gave you reality. And why does it sound like you long for society to collapse and why do you think you would benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:58 PM
1

I am picturing Mad Max.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:09 PM
11

Medicare? Really? People over 65 are killing the dating scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:06 PM
1

Women will always sacrifice looks for life$tyle Wrong. Wrong. Oh dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:36 PM
0

somewhat unique I hate how people misuse the term unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:32 PM
0

Would some women be inconvenienced because their taxes went up? Yes. Would incels benefit? Yes. Should we ignore any of these solutions? According to PPD, lonely men’s quality of life is slightly above pack animals so apparently yes. People would just find ways around the taxes, like living alone even if they are partnered up. No one is altruistic. No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:29 PM
1

This will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:26 PM
8

I will never understand the love of Greta van Fleet and I even saw them in concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:55 AM
2

I have never ever actually made myself physically desired sex with someone based on trying to find some excuse to want to just because I know I’m supposed to. I have even tried to make myself feel sexual desire for people when I didn’t and it does not work. This is not a bug, it's a feature. Women are supposed to be selective and find most men non-arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:21 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:25 AM
3

And you are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:08 PM
1

Until they cut your hours to juuuuuust below the requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:42 PM
7

Dox yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:17 PM
3

My current boyfriend is the HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:49 PM
3

What's your take on why 50yo women gave up on dating? I have a boyfriend, I never gave up. Lots of women I asked said they would never want another man if theirs died and I was shocked. Why?? I asked. "Because I am done putting up with all their shit." Was the answer. I have since wondered what that meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:42 PM
2

butthurt lol. Two words coined by my generation, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:39 PM
0

That puts you one up on most the guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:31 PM
5

So trying to understand a 50 yo with our current world view is not the way to really understand them. Buddy, I am 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:29 PM
2

Best for whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:04 PM
0

Have you dated men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:58 PM
10

people over 50 were born and raised in a very different world, to the point that they can’t fully grasp and change their lives around current living conditions: just look at them using a mouse. I am cracking up here, dude. You honestly believe 50 year olds cannot use a mouse??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:56 PM
1

Do you hate single fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:41 PM
1

You are getting a flavor of the woman-hatred on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:33 AM
2

's cool, I like men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:15 PM
1

Sounds like you prefer men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:49 PM
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No. I like what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:47 PM
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LOL BURN
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:46 PM
–

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:42 PM
2

It's generally a bad idea, he will think you are either desperate or easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:06 PM
2

They need to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:53 PM
1

That is incredibly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:50 PM
0

and as such have been free to pursue our passions Minecraft?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:47 PM
8

the fact no women is trying to come close to the content my life has is just sad overall, friends report the same too. Men however still go through with those uninteresting girls merely because they are hot, so they pull multiple teeth in order to get her to talk and employ all kind of strategies to try and connect with this girl, which actually reinforces the behaviour, and makes it grow which is just fucked up. Read this out loud. Do you hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:09 PM
1

Is Geyges still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:25 PM
1

YEP, this tracks with my LVM ex. He knew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:28 PM
-1

You live in Brazil, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:32 AM
14

So your point is that men in power take advantage of men who work?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:01 AM
23

But you don't understand, they called their wives! Those...men in charge...hold on....But it's women who are abusing men!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:57 AM
0

I also began avoiding politics, mainstream media, consumerism, normies etc, because these things just don’t add anything of value to my life You avoid normal people??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:05 AM
3

women less rational and led more by feelings due to neural differences, they are more prone to being influenced by brain chemistry — falling head over heels, being swept off her feet, etc. What proof do you have of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:59 AM
7

LOL Usually it was "Captain won't eat anything but chicken nuggets and I can't get him to change his shirt, should I STFU more?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:54 PM
4

I get this, I am also submissive in my relationship. But I am not Red Pill, I am just naturally deferential.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:45 PM
1

I am Still puzzled why the men here care so much about a 40 dollar dinner at some boring steak house. 40 bucks, who cares??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:35 PM
2

Diana Davison comes to mind. She is an MRA vlogger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:39 PM
6

This does not describe a single person I know. Party people marry other partiers, prudes marry other prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:17 PM
2

Denny's?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:18 PM
1

What.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:39 AM
1

It just now occurred to me that 90% of the dating advice here on this sub is in fact for men. Hardly any women asking for advice, or being given any. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:38 PM
1

You might not have liked some of her other views.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:42 AM
3

While we are at it, what happened to that swinger guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:54 PM
2

Her bio was very interesting. I hope she is doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:53 PM
1

Too accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:52 PM
1

She uses some sort of voice dictation app which is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:27 PM
2

Cutie pies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:25 PM
1

Same. We all saw the photo he posted of his bedroom and it was sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:24 PM
2

protein shits First I have heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:18 PM
5

I have. They are seething under the collar at what they are owed by society and did not get. Also worth noting: mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:23 PM
3

I chose him because he was unbelievably sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:14 PM
2

So what is the alternative? Mate like Vulcans?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:40 PM
3

Agreed, why even bother? "Hey I hear that science says looks and chemistry are bullshit, let's get married."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:15 PM
2

You said it yourself, that men are often getting remarried after being widowed. I did? Where???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:53 PM
7

Men prioritizing their entires lives on a career and not building a family and maintaining relationships is a fools errand. A corporation is a faceless entity that doesn’t give a fuck about you, they’d replace you in a heart beat if you ever grow Ill or die, why do they deserve such loyalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:49 PM
3

I have definitely met people like this in RL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:17 AM
5

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:59 AM
13

We have enormous disadvantages in biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:04 AM
1

If the bottom 80% realized they were getting conned, they would just quit the mating game until the deal became favorable enough to them to fall for temptation. So according to you, 80 percent of men are being conned?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:48 PM
1

Dude, this never happens in free countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:46 PM
1

Who in your life has done this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:44 PM
1

Billy Beta doesn’t have any clue how his wife treated the AF before they met Maybe there was no AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:42 PM
1

The men here are not moral, that was my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:00 PM
9

Personal i wish we have easyer acces to lie detector it solve so much probleems. You do realize these things are non-science? Polygraph tests are like reading tea leaves, they mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:52 PM
2

If you are truly moral then you should have an open conversation. The men here believe that women are cheaters who would scam him into raising someone else's baby so those people should take the test in secret. This whole thing is a tempest in a teapot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:50 PM
22

So did she get pollinated by the wind or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:26 PM
6

So do it in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:01 PM
-2

So don't let anyone find out you took the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:24 PM
2

unfathomable irrationality of the human mind, why not accept it. yes, we accept the irrationality of men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:18 PM
1

Same. This whole existential crisis makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:09 PM
12

What's the big deal in asking for a paternity test apart from ego. It's an accusation of infidelity and she will view you differently, most likely leave you. get the test in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:08 PM
0

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:05 PM
6

Pepper sprayed? Really OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:06 AM
2

No, Jim went to the Bahamas with his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:41 PM
1

So stop looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:48 AM
2

Worldwide, even in poor countries like India, people are choosing to have only two kids on average. This tells me it's not just about distractions or cool video games, it's that people really DO NOT like a bunch of children in the same house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:05 PM
2

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:01 PM
0

This is surprisingly astute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:59 PM
4

Maybe I am the exception, but whoever I left garnered no sympathy from anyone I knew as everyone agreed I could do better. I never worried about looking like a bad person for ending a dating relationship, why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:54 PM
0

They do? I figured all their friends and family would tell her she did the right thing, and suggest new guys for her to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:56 PM
1

Why is this shocking? It's not just ongoing infidelity, it's any cheating at all you have ever done. So that is most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:11 PM
17

The more friends and family a girl has introduced you to the more risky it is to break up. For this reason even if a girl meets someone better she likely won’t cheat or leave you. Not without a reason that plays well with her friends and family This makes no sense. I date a guy for a few years and I HAVE to marry him because everyone has already met him and oh well, can't lose face? Why do you assume her family even likes the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:56 PM
-1

Oh OK, what a relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:55 PM
6

There is no evidence of this claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:50 PM
3

Find a woman who is not hypergamous. Anyone with eyes can see the most couples are evenly matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:47 PM
9

They would claim those average women all have Only Fans accounts to pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:10 PM
4

Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:09 PM
1

In the ancient world, eunuchs were super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:38 AM
1

Just let your gal know how you feel, and get a pre nup. If you even want to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:37 AM
1

Or just make eunuchs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:57 AM
2

But...why? I am loaded too but I am not meeting with three different attorneys to see how bad marriage could be. Are you defending your decisions against some other person?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:56 AM
7

Yeah, does OP not get how math works? If a guy has ten wives, that leaves nine men as bachelors. FLDS Mormons kick the boys out so as to reduce competition for brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:01 AM
6

I know, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:00 AM
1

But why does anyone need to pay an attorney 300 bucks when you can google it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:57 AM
2

I know a gay couple who got divorced and the one guy had to pay the other alimony. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:31 AM
2

Yeah, why would I pay 300 bucks to find out that I live in a community property state?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:21 AM
44

I have known men who were hung up on an ex girlfriend for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:26 PM
6

Or...they are telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:33 PM
20

Not in my experience, no. If you are still hung up on some lost love that got away, it takes awhile to get over him...but then you get over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:30 PM
1

So which nation fits the bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:08 PM
1

Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:41 PM
1

Yup, I dated people I did not like much out of peer pressure. I was also much younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:40 PM
20

In androcentric societies these are viewed as positive traits to be nurtured Really? In most middle eastern countries, single men have to sit in a different section of the restaurant away from the women and families. They are seen as predators, and can be kicked out of the apartments for being bachelors. They also cannot go grocery shopping at the hours when women and children are buying groceries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:11 PM
–

I still cannot understand why anyone getting dumped would make a scene. Just keep your dignity until you get home and then cry it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:22 PM
7

I never sucked his dick, we never had sex. He ended up married to a woman his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:41 AM
8

I was heavily involved in a church singles group and the groupthink was the I had to date a fellow Christian, so I went with it. It was not great, and I was not even attracted to him but people seem to think that was unimportant. They were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:40 AM
0

I have gay friends, and this is not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:10 AM
9

It's not a fact. One of the most immature guys I ever dated was 10 years my senior and made less than I did. I dumped him when he negged me. EDIT typo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:09 AM
4

Maybe the beautiful woman does not have such an inflated ego as to think every man everywhere is after her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:04 AM
2

We have eyes, we see couples who are looks matched all day long. But now and then it appears that one partner is hotter because they had a glow up or maybe the other one had an illness? Who can say what goes on, it's none of our business. But in general (and studies prove this true) most couples are evenly matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:12 PM
3

Read his post history, you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:08 PM
3

Honestly? Same with the ones I know. A few of them vetted for Virgins and prudes and then well, got very little sex once married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:05 PM
98

None of this is true. Most people have low body counts and most people do not have orgies. They marry people they love after years of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:33 PM
2

Some guys like older women. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:27 PM
6

When parents do choose the gender or a child, it is usually the woman that chooses. And women are choosing to have female children over males. In fact, even fathers may be preferring daughters. Not in Asia. They kill females in the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:22 PM
1

I remember talking to someone on here that described his wife going crazy and being a bitch after they had a child because “she got what she wanted” and never liked him. Come to find she had been talking about her post-natal depression to him the whole time but he dismissed it as mental health mumbo-jumbo. This just makes me sad for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:03 PM
3

All good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:38 PM
2

I used to see some girls just date whatever man even though they were hardly attracted to them—they thought they could grow to like them in that way because their parents would say things like “go with the man who showers you with love and gifts etc” I got the same terrible advice and I never turned gold digger. But yeah, I definitely dated guys I did not find attractive because people encouraged it. And I did not get showered in gifts unless it was a stalker situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:36 PM
0

Holy crap, your post history...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:33 PM
4

But what if she is just pretty and not shallow so she dates down without realizing it? There will be no obvious Tell if she is an accomplished user, but she could also be innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:29 PM
1

If she is a good manipulator, he will never be able to spot it. The only surefire way to know she is not a gold digger is if she is already loaded. EDIT Ask your female relatives to vet her, women are better at spotting fakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:26 PM
1

All my aunts were married, or divorced and remarried. The older generation did not like being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:25 PM
1

You are going to have a hard time at the AA meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:02 PM
1

The one I used involved no swiping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:22 PM
2

Which is a bad parallel to dating apps because I did not order a thing, they all flooded my inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:02 PM
4

How is that hyper stimulation of the brain? Do you get hyper stimulated when stuck in traffic or when ordering fast food? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:12 PM
-6

But the real answer is that your brain is fried by hyperstimulation OMG you know me???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:48 PM
2

Wow, that one is really bad. And no update! I want justice for that poor woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:31 PM
1

Is this something you can get over or will it build resentment? If you cannot get past this, you need to end things with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:27 PM
-5

OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:08 PM
1

Maybe you two are not compatible. Head to your local church and find a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:06 PM
-4

Most of the women don't even have conversational skills on dating apps coz of habituation to giving one worded responses. That is because we have SO MANY people to reply to their inquiries, we give short answers to save time. Trust me, the volume of interest is huge. How can I have a long discourse with each one?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:04 PM
1

We met on a dating site. Have no idea if other women share my fascination with dark exotic men and I don't care. He is mine, that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:54 PM
2

Yes, and I pointed that out to him once. If I had been in love with any of my exes, I would never have met my current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:53 PM
2

I wish you the best, hope he is a good bf Best guy I ever met. I know that sounds like I am overselling it, but he is the love of my life and I am kicking myself that all these years I dated losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:52 PM
2

Seriously- if I had not overcome my anxiety about online dating we would never have met. I would be stuck trying to date the few single men from church or some hobby groups, and having more failed relationships with people who let me down. If online dating were not an option, I would have given up because I am an introvert and do not meet a lot of people outside niche circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:44 PM
1

Hells yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:37 PM
2

You are my favorite regular here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:35 PM
2

I met my boyfriend of six years on a dating site. Thank God, he is the answer to my prayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:34 PM
6

Guys, check out OP's post history. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:14 PM
39

It's really simple: whatever women you can get? That is your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:04 PM
6

When a man cheats he is basically saying that he believes that there is at least another woman who should be the mother of his children We have both proven this guy wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:55 AM
12

My ex boyfriend cheated on me with other dudes. Take that, red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:40 AM
1

For once I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:32 AM
2

OK, I searched on Google and it said anywhere from 41K to 73K in savings was normal, but that included money market and prepaid debit cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:29 AM
1

Middle aged, but my impression was all the Redditors here make six figures and are rolling in money by the time they hit 30. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:25 AM
3

Maybe she wanted to get to know them first because they were cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:45 AM
1

Seriously? I am not trying to be mean, this is an honest question- most people don't have at least 200K in savings??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:34 AM
1

If you have enough savings you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:52 PM
3

That is honestly a wise move
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:49 PM
9

Confident, masculine, smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:37 PM
12

Some of us do not care about height. We like cute faces and sexy personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:07 PM
1

Number 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:33 PM
3

Yes. They delude themselves that they are submissive Christian wives and that their husbands are leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:36 AM
1

Persuasion (for repressed period dramatics) You and I are the only ones who rented that film.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:45 PM
2

I know plenty of masculine, dominating women married to submissive men. They fit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:51 PM
1

If he is not cute, why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:48 PM
-1

Is he cute? Then yes. EDIT Having seen the photo, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:47 PM
1

Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:38 PM
4

Maybe he loves her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:14 PM
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