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| 1 | Some thoughts from a guy in his 30s (I'm 33)I'm 20 and recently got a very down to earth and awesome girl from the game and I'm already realizing just how perfect this post is. Thanks man, it really resonates with me and helps me see my goals. I'm so glad I'm already disinterested with the popular crowd and have a gorgeous girl that my friends are jealous of, but at the same time we do nerdy shit and are totally content with where we are. A lot less insecurity. Still working to minimize it, but damn it's so much better once you realize ho… | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondThis is what I think the case is. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondNot a random chick bud. We had a class last semester where we met and flirted and have one again this semester. I would've been long gone if she were a tinder match or some chick I met at a party. I see her twice a week | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondWe have class every Monday and Wednesday so I see her usually during that time. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondShe wanted to come over and smoke and chill so I don't think I'm in the friend zone, but thanks. I'm definitely in her hand of cards that she's trying to decide from though. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondYeah I'm talking to other girls right now so no worries. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respondShe wanted to come over but didn't pick a time. She never answered a text so I followed up two hours later and asked when she's coming so I can know my plans, then she said it was cold and I offered to drive her since she's across campus. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 05:44 PM |
| 259 | Girlfriend throws a temper tantrum for sex, boyfriend denies.Was hoping he would bring up the fact that if the roles were changed in this argument, it would be a lot more obvious how fucked up her rationale is. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/01/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/9/15Had a class a year ago with this girl. She was really cute and we always made eye contact and laughed at my jokes, but I was in a relationship. Flash forward to last night, went to a party. She was there with her friend who was also in the class. I walked up and said it was nice to see them then tried to remember their names but only remembered one, I played it off and we all laughed because they only remembered my name started with a G. I went back to my group across the room for a while. I lat… | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 05:39 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/9/15Gorgeous girl came up to me on the last day of our class (yesterday, the semester just ended) and hit on me hard core. I did kino and we even hugged and she told me how she's been talking about me to her friends for a while and liked me the whole semester. I gave her my business card and told her to text me and she said she would. She still hasn't and it's been almost two days, I totally didn't expect that based on how upfront she was with me. Maybe she's doing some female alpha bullshit? Maybe … | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting stood up right nowYeah she just told me she overslept and was drunk the night before, which I knew. Just expected her to be up by 2:30 haha. Ball is in her court now. Plenty of backups. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 10:03 PM |
| 5 | In a room with a hottie coworker, late at night. studying for a final. Headphones in, we're friends. What can I do to escalate naturally?Don't shit where you eat. Don't bite the hand that feeds you. The pond is too big and there are too many fish for you to take that risk. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Great quote I remember when feeling insecureWho gives a fuck? Have a good attitude. Stop worrying about it. Try to educate yourself, but just have fun. Most guys who pick up a lot of girls ARE stupid. That's no excuse. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 01:57 PM |
| 10 | The Investment FunnelGreat advice. A lot of the problems on this sub are guys with ONEITIS. They see that word but never want to accept it or look it up. My girlfriend of 4 years, almost fiancé, left me two months ago. I can't thank her enough for that. It took some time and really hit my insecurity, but now I'm talking to 5-6 girls at a time and having the time of my life. Im nothing special either, I just go out there with brass balls and take the risk. It's great. It took me a few weeks of groundwork but now it's… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Great quote I remember when feeling insecureIt's not some Marilyn Monroe quote to justify shittiness. Just a quote to not get rid of what makes you unique | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Great quote I remember when feeling insecureOnly if you show them, not tell them. Women like a broken man, that's what I try to convey through my actions. However they hate insecure men who feel the need to flaunt their weaknesses and imperfections. Never do that. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Should I follow up?She's already made the move multiple times, you're lucky she's this patient and upfront. It's your turn buddy, take a risk and make a move. Do you think she's just going to randomly offer to have sex with you because you made her laugh? Put some effort in and put your head on the chopping block. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Showed a bit of neediness, turned girl off, how can I fix this?Well if she thinks you're needy now, you need to let her know the opposite. Act busy. Blow her off for a short amount of time, then revisit. Correct your mistake. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I open to a girl I met once on instagram?Create one so that doesn't happen again. It's not as relevant but it's still useful. It's like a casual LinkedIn. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 06:23 PM |
| 2 | My game winning answer to the question of "What are we? What do you want out of this relationship?"Honest to god, yeah. Especially when drunk and tired after sex. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 04:24 PM |
| 0 | My game winning answer to the question of "What are we? What do you want out of this relationship?"Fair enough. This is true. I meant to just type "I'm not sure what I want" because I'm in college and that's normal. I know what I want in life and chicks know that. As for the don draper thing, obviously I can't do that because it's a movie. But I can get pretty close and I think I do that well. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Flipping gender roles, what tips would you give a woman trying to get a guy?I guess, just to add and really address your question. I think sex on the first date sets a certain precedent and mood. It is kind of like foreseeing the future. If that seems like a normal thing, it would feel less valuable and he probably won't be in it for the long term if things come easy. It's hard to explain but it really just sets the mood for the relationship in my eyes. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Not being needy vs being too passiveMake them talk about themselves. Don't answer their questions with much detail. If you do, it should be a humblebrag. Be mysterious as hell and it will be attractive and you won't need to worry about either of those. Girls love talking about themselves, make them talk about their passions and etc. Just because my friend got fucked with a sexual assault charge (seriously a bullshit story), I make it my own rule of only sleeping with sober girls or ones that are more sober than myself. If you're n… | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 01:12 PM |
| 2 | How do you come to terms with never having sex with girls you really want to have sex with?Realize that some people don't have sex until they're like 25 or something crazy. The fact that I can have sex with someone who isn't below a 7 once every two months or so is quite a humble thought. Some guys would give their entire careers and life interests just to get laid by an 8 or 9. Just be happy with what you have is what I'm trying to say. It's the same reason I don't hate myself for not getting into Harvard, just glad I can get into another nice uni. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | I like way too many girlsThanks! Hopefully I can get a FR up here for how Friday goes. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:39 PM |
| 0 | The best thing to say to a girl who was interested, then you sent a lot of messages to so hasn't replied, and remarked about how stupid you were to send the messages. Waited 2 months, can I say anything?Don't get oneitis, man. I had it for 4 years and thank god she left me about 2 months ago. I got back into the game and thought my life was over and it was going to take forever to get another girl. I laid down groundwork on a bunch of girls and I'm now seeing 5 at the same time, constantly 2 dates a week or so while I narrow things down. It's great when you break that threshold, just believe in yourself. Throw shit at the wall and eventually something is going to stick. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:33 PM |
| 2 | I like way too many girlsI had oneitis for 4 years and luckily she left me about 2 months ago. I've been hopping in the game for the last two months and setting groundwork with a lot of girls, expecting low results. Except I set groundwork with so many girls that they're all finally following up and setting up dates in the next few weeks. I had one rebound a few weeks ago but I left her since she was so insecure and needy. I have 3 dates off of tinder, 1 old friend from high school who graduated, and 1 from my current u… | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I open to a girl I met once on instagram?Check Facebook. Much less creepy. Don't do IG. Message on Facebook supplying your number and telling her you two should catch up. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Hasn't texted me after 3 days, should I text/call?It's always in your court buddy. Simply tell her you had a lot of fun and see if she wants to do X at Y o'clock on DAY. Be direct and concise. Don't ask her for a day or time or activity. That's your job. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl today and went for 1:30 hr date, told her I have a free house and she should come over after work for chill and movie then she says she's going out with her friends. Wtf.Never say that you want to chill AND watch a movie. They assume the other when you say one. Saying both is overkill and can be way too needy and upfront. And dear god, please don't ever send more than one message before she responds. And don't send so many lines of text unless she asks a question that warrants it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 2 | The best thing to say to a girl who was interested, then you sent a lot of messages to so hasn't replied, and remarked about how stupid you were to send the messages. Waited 2 months, can I say anything?Keep her. What's the need? Post pictures with chicks and having fun. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Flipping gender roles, what tips would you give a woman trying to get a guy?Just left a girl because she was literally too easy. Texted her at 330am completely plastered and she came over and was gone by 5. I'm nothing special so I know that that's a big insecurity and just not very fun. It's all about the chase for me. Sex is great, but only so much within a certain amount of time. Soon enough, it seems that that's all you're good for. Give us something to work for and we will appreciate it much more. Just don't be rude or turn us away when we're trying to work for it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 12:16 PM |
| 1 | I like way too many girlsI could easily spend the rest of my life with these girls but I guess the fact that I don't want to drop everything for them shows that they're not "the one" | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Gaming with a busy schedule?A funny one I do is joke like we're married and say "Honey, did you remember Zack has soccer at 5:30 tomorrow?" And they always play along. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Gaming with a busy schedule?Diagnose the problem. I've redone my profile a million times. If I was hopeless, I'd just focus on improving myself and going out on the weekend to meet chicks irl. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 01:10 PM |
| 1 | i matched with a girl on tinder and...I've been pretty successful with tinder, here's what I do: On the actual app, when you match, get her number within 4-5 messages. Don't try to get to know her and shit, that's what the date is for. Seriously, 4-5 messages. Don't use pickup lines either, comment something about their profile. Once you have their number, within 4-5 messages SET A DATE, PLACE AND TIME. Ask if she wants to get coffee sometime, if she says yes, pick a time right then and there. Don't be ambiguous and ask her for a ti… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 09:29 AM |
| 1 | How to approach women at parties for those that don't drinkYou don't have to drink, just don't come off as a prude. Don't let them know why and don't give them any advice on it. They won't ask, but if they do, be mysterious and indirect with an answer. It's sexy to be confusing and mysterious. Much more appealing than some plastered frat guy. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Gaming with a busy schedule?I am in school and run my own business. I am also a huge workaholic, something my ex left me for. Honestly, Tinder has been my best friend. Girls on there usually want to hook up and find it sexy that you're busy. Just let them know you're busy and not blowing them off, it'll be attractive to know you're important. I always ask them to come over really late to "help me relax" and it's surprisingly successful. Usually like 1-2 new girls a month. It's great. I stalk them on social media first to m… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for second DateIs there anything winter/Christmas themed where you are? I'm taking a girl to our Zoo which puts up Christmas lights and is always known as a "couples" thing. So it's nice and romantic and fun. Nothing structured. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Revisiting a girl who friend zoned me in high school. Any tips?Might try that. Thanks! Appreciate the help | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Revisiting a girl who friend zoned me in high school. Any tips?Feel like this be too formal and uncomfortable. I might drop something along the lines of that though. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Revisiting a girl who friend zoned me in high school. Any tips?Yeah kino will be even easier since we're so familiar with each other. Closing will be hard because it's not like I can casually go in for a kiss when I drop her off. Even if things go well it is going to be hard to tell her feelings. That's my biggest worry, the close. Not to mention she's back home and I will be too, but we can go to my apt some other time. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Revisiting a girl who friend zoned me in high school. Any tips?Fair enough. Problem is I've never tried to revisit this. It's usually random girls at parties or girls I never talked to in college/high school. This is the first time that she could totally be seeing me in the wrong way. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 06:19 AM |
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