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This was based on responses to the question "About how often during the last year have you and your partner had sex relations?" The results signified less sexual activity [among lesbians] than their [heterosexual] counterparts. Only about one-third of lesbians in relationships of 2 years or longer had sex once a week or more; 47% of lesbians in long-term relationships [lasting more than two years] had sex once a month or less, and among heterosexual married couples, only 15% had sex once a week …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:34 AM
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That's how everything is. Fitness gurus don't show you how to bench 135 and love your mediocre strength. They show you how to bench 405 and actually be jacked. I'd rather be pushed to become elite, than just accept mediocrity. And TRP shit is helpful to average guys as well. Average guy takes care of his career, hits the gym, looksmaxxs, and gets better at talking to girls, he will do better with women. You don't need to become Michael B. Jordan to benefit from TRP principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:36 AM
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Humans don't all have the same mating rituals. As in the millions of people who voluntarily stay single and still pursue sex as opposed to pursue relationships. I refuted your statement, because in 2022, most people under 30, especially men aren't looking for kids in the near future. If I want kids in 15 years, no I do not need a mate today. Plenty of people have kids within 5 years of meeting someone. I can live my own life. If you want to proclaim that people have to go towards exclusive relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:17 AM
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Most of the ones who's partners are same age, fell in love young and stayed with her. Single, super rich men? Yeah they're not dating women over 40 much. As most of us wouldn't do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:45 AM
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Still OK with casual sex. Nothing wrong with a woman making a tinder account to fuck with a long requirement list.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:10 AM
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Idk if you've looked around but young men are much happier with no romance, but still having sex than women. The idea that men are miserable without relationships is overblown. If guys could have the casual sex women can have, many of us would be happy single for extended periods of time. Now single + no sex, women handle better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:49 AM
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Preaching to the choir. Women and Men (not much fault if women like the way old guys look) get uglier as they get older. If you're barely attracted to her at 20, good luck. I need to be super attracted to her till at least 50, then meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:35 PM
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Yeah I don't care about n counts personally, but otherwise looks is up there, not gonna enjoy a relationship without it, and you date till you find one of the girls with the looks you need + the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:19 PM
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Because deep seated evo drives are different from recently available phenomenon like widespread casual sex. For thousands of years, animals have had males sleep around more for the extra kids. Subconsciously, it's likely some of that might be carried by men. On the thinking level, yeah plenty of young men want casual sex duh. The thinking level of what do I want is more important. If I don't want kids anytime soon and I want independence and sexual freedom... I will pick casual sex. Kids are now…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:01 PM
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Lmao men barely care about height. Most of us will date a woman from like 5' to an inch under our height. Some will date taller. Facial structure is important. But you guys get makeup, we don't. Body is 99% in your control. Fat people are fat mostly because they ate more than they burned, and never did the reverse enough to burn the built up fat. A small ass on a woman is because she didn't go to the gym like gym thots do. A woman who chooses to put on makeup and workout till she has a good body…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:32 PM
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Casual I'd still go for it. Serious absolutely not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:27 PM
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Yeah no. Only pursue women you find attractive. Then date and breakup until you find a woman who's attractive AND has the rest. It's only a meme that UgLy GiRlS hAvE bEtTeR pErSoNaLiTiEs. If you're with someone you're unattractive too, you're gonna be miserable, especially men. Middle aged guys leave their wives over attraction and they found her attractive for the 1st 20 years of the relationship. I haven't seen a single successful relationship where a young guy openly thinks his partner is ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:25 PM
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It's not talking shit if I say a statement that happens to not include a word that people then infer. I don't really agree with women being biologically too stupid to vote? I'm pretty sure that was just keeping those out of power out of power and men of the time believing women were biologically dumber. Other than that, I think it's just a varying interpretation thing. Because I've noticed that it really does vary. Me, I just try to pick up on what they're intending. Because people don't usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:47 PM
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Yes, but I'm not comparing some with all. In this case neither are stated. People just pick and choose when to infer some or all. I'm saying it should be kept consistent. Either we should always infer all. Or we should always infer some. Because the inconsistency is the problem. And for the sake of comparisons it's more succinct to say men care about women not being fat and women care about men not being poor. Versus more women care about men being poor than men and more men care about women bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:38 PM
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Hmm do I want to be single and have 0 sex or be single and have sex? I want to actually have casual sex and I also do want the validation. Both. You're missing the point. Everyone is valued. Just guys who can't get casual sex are valued less. It's not 100/0. The last paragraph is bullshit. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41467-022-31620-w. From an evolution standpoint, males benefit from more partners. More partners, more opportunities to have a kid. From a human standpoint, tons of people and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:56 PM
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Doesn't even have to he a feminist. Any non-trad who expects everything to be paid for can fuck off. That's like splitting the childcare 50/50, while you stay at home and I work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:48 PM
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You missed my point. If the phrase, men are trash doesn't mean all men are trash, then the phrase women care about income doesn't mean all women care about income. If you want to be 100% literal, then women care about income more. Or more women care about income. Both are true. The problem is some people infer "all" and some infer "some". If I say women care about income, then technically If 2 women care about income, women is the plural of woman, so women care about income. Someone inferring th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:47 PM
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Yeah wtf. First off men have less control over their face than women do thanks to makeup. Second, yes women age worse in our eyes. But if you work on lower body, you will be peak attractiveness, same as a guy getting muscles. This is stupid, as if womens looks are completely genetic and mens are from work. Faces are mostly genetic + not being fat + makeup for women. Bodies is work for both. Better genetics help. But men need to put on muscles everywhere. Women just need flat stomach, ass, legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:29 PM
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If we both know it's just sex and shes attractive, then as long as possible until one of us ends it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:26 PM
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Point 2 is idiotic. RP guys are basically saying pick one lane. Either you're trad and ill pay for dates. Or you're a fierce feminist, and no I'm not paying more than 50%. There's a lot of women who are fierce feminists but also want guys to do more financial spending. Fuck that. If I meet a modern chick, then she also has to not be demanding I pay more than 50%. Because that's BS. Most RPers have no problem with an actual trad future housewife who expects dates to be paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:20 PM
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If a small % of women are interested in casual sex with a small number men and a much bigger % of men want casual sex with a much bigger number of women. It's an obvious trend. There's nothing gendered that's 100/0. But most things are done a little more by one gender. Some things are done a lot more by one gender. If "Men are trash" doesn't literally mean all 3.5 billion of us are garbage, then "women care about income" doesn't mean all 3.5 billion women care about income. It's a way to say mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:15 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:58 AM
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One of the biggest elements of AF/BB is that women, even averagish one, only have casual sex with good looking men. It makes complete sense that women will pick the good looking guy over the average one. I would pick sex or a date with Ana de Armas over an average girl. Sure. ​ Not every guy wants to chase casual sex and casual dating. Absolutely. But men under 30 or definitely under 25? Yeah most of us would love casual sex with average or better looking women. Sometimes even below average wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:28 AM
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Lmao tha implies our goals are your goals. If my goal is to be desirable for casual sex with attractive women, it doesn't matter that I can grow old with an ok looking woman and become ugly myself. Guys just want the option to have sex without a relationship. Which is 10× as hard for men. And we want women to treat us the way they treat 10/10s, which they don't because AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:25 AM
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AF/BB is about availability. If a bunch of women are interested in sex with a 10/10 guy, then it doesn't really matter if he doesn't avail it, it's at his fingertips. Beyond that, chads actually have way more casual sex than normal guys. Normal guys might have casual sex twice their whole life, even though they wanted it bad from 16-29. Good looking fuckboi frat guys have bodycounts over 50, if they don't like relationships. By the end of college. I know some.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:23 AM
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TRP is focused on women who do it, because most of us want casual sex. And since only the highest value guys get widespread interest in casual sex, if we don't, then were clearly not the high value guy. Past the literal sense of beta bucks, it's more because of the reduced sexual attraction she has to you, she's likelier to push off sex in an effort to get you to be serious. With 10/10 guy, she's sleeping with him early, because she's way more attracted to him. And a 10/10 guy isn't going to put…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:20 AM
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100% true since 9-10/10 guys can actually have casual sex a lot with women. 6-8/10 guys rarely get to have casual sex with even average women. 0-5/10 will rarely even get casual sex from 0/10 women. Basically, if you're not pretty damn attractive, women are almost entirely going to be interest in sex with you within the confines of a relationship. If you're a 10/10 under 30, almost every chick who does casual sex is willing to do it with you. The other thing would be 10/10 guy never encounters w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:17 AM
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I'm a huge proponent of dating women half your age (24/25+). But if I love my wife, fuck no. Loves a thing and it's bigger than that. If the relationship is garbage and I want to break up. Thennnnnnn I'm gonna exclusively date young chicks, because looks matter a lot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:00 AM
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Yeah aren't important from 23 to 45. Child to college graduate experience and maturity actually does. It's just a reach and a half. 14 is literally pedophilic and she's literally a freshman in high school. Nowhere near a college grad. Only wannabe pedophiles are gonna support 18+ having sex with a 14 yr old. Let alone 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:05 AM
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Lmao 99.99% of American men would never date a 14 yo. They're not an adult literally and figuratively. An 18 yo is an adult legally, not really an adult figuratively. If you can't see the difference between 23 and 14, there's no hope for you. 23 is a grown ass person who should have graduated college. They're old enough to date who they want. They want to date some old guy, not his duty to say no. A 23/24+ yo dating someone of any age is fine lmao. Like 14 is 100% a child. 23+ is a post-college …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:17 AM
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Fam don't put words in my mouth. I never said all. "A very small percentage" is false. Its a pretty big percentage tf. As if, rich, successful, famous, good looking dudes can't I dunno have a good personality. Just because Blake Lively is beautiful doesn't mean she's a bad person. Same with a guy actor. Being high value gives you a high baseline, being awesome just increases it from there. But Henry Cavill dated a 19 year old when he was like 32. Yeah, now women won't line up around the block fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:44 AM
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I didn't say "every". But it's not a "few". Look at 40+ actors, and retired NBA players, and retired NFL players, or just old rich guys with some looks. Don't tell me that's it's just a few. It's a lot more than that. I used Daniel Craig since he's older and good looking. Guys that actually do? Leo, Eddie Murphy (who's not even good looking), Johnny Depp?!?!, good old Hugh Hefner, Al Pacino, Sean Penn, Paul McCartney. Retired athletes? Practically every retired athlete who didn't fall in love in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:45 AM
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Women have attacked famous guys that do it. And yet Leo can take almost any single woman on the planet. Don't overestimate the cumulative "disrespect" too much. There are certain men irl and ofc the famous/rich ones that have consistently dated young women or slept around and still had 0 problem dating more women. Like, most women would still go on a date with Leo. Have you seen the bodycounts of Hollywood guys or athletes? Often in the hundreds and yet no shortage of more beautiful women lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:29 AM
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The cool thing is everyone sets their own priorities. If your priorities are a serious relationship with someone you love and nothing else is attractive, fine. Im different. You're telling me my life and goals are bad based off of your goals and priorities. Yeah mine are completely different. As long as I'm pursuing my goals, I'm cool with that. I mean I love clubs and bars. Why exactly am I going to knit sweaters with my wife, if I don't want that lol. Your libido seems to be tied to feelings. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:12 AM
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20 is pushing it. For the record I'm only talking like 25+ let's make that clear. 20 is essentially a child. 25 is done with a masters, potentially earning 6 figures, been paying rent for 7 years wholeass adult. Also, tbh the reason why most men don't chase young women is because people rarely pursue someone they think they have a 99% chance of being rejected by. And social condemnation from women certainly doesn't help. You want to see how many men would chase young women if they were desirable…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:41 AM
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Not like men are in a rush to date either. Preferences are different than standards. We all prefer things out of our league and yet date people lower. Some middle age guys want smoking hot 22 yos and yet date women their age. Women want a 10/10 successful handsome vulnerable guy and end up with someone actually their level. How the world turns.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:15 AM
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Fine by me. Except it's not really supported by any numbers or trends. I mean women on the whole choose men their age as most attractive and prefer dating men their age or a little older. Literally if women want to say men peak at 23, cool with me. Just statistically yall don't believe that. But, fam if any woman wants a guy half her age, fine by me lol tf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:11 AM
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Different kinds of more expectations. A 35-45 yo woman is very likely to be aggressively seeking marriage/kids/commitment/serious relationship/the one. 25 yo less likely. A lot of men absolutely want to be with someone who's not getting close to not having kids age and therefore won't be pushing it so hard. And a lot of men want to be in more casual relationships, so not interested in someone who doesn't want casual relationships/sex. Don't tell me middle aged women arent looking for more seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:05 AM
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I mean at this point TRP is like millions of men, so yeah some of them probably want to marry a chick on her 18th birthday. If you were to put 1000 men in a room and ask if a 40 year old man dating an 18 yo woman is OK, not gonna be a high number. On the other hand, a shitton of guys get annoyed at the whole middle age guys are abusers for dating young women stuff. Suspicion and actuality aren't that correlated. I mean you women are suspicious of men being rapists. It's a massive problem, but mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:45 AM
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Yeah that's the problem with age gaps, is that everyone's talking about a different gap/range. Yeah, being 30+ and being OK with marrying an 18 yo means you're fucked up. 100% agree. But, like not many guys actually believe that. There's a broader age gap thing where middle aged men get attacked for pursuing like mid 20s, early 30s women. That's what I would say most TRPers are talking about. Like, if a 50 yo guy asks a 25 yo masters grad with a job out on a date. I don't personally see anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:07 AM
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Lmao. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/science-what-peak-age-is-2016-7%3famp 99% of why men go for women half their age is they're hotter and they'll be hotter in 20 years than women their own age. The rest would be no kids, more fun, makes em feel young, etc. But no let's ignore that the vast majority of domestic violence, rape, cheating, abuse happens between similarly aged couples. If 70 yo women were as hot as 20 yos, no one would date women half their age. So don't speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:28 AM
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I mean every 25 yo woman is going to be 45 in 20 years. So you would think the trauma and baggage only increases. To delineate, 25 yo women are less likely to have kids, which idk if you've noticed, but men don't like dating women with kids for a billion reasons. And 45 yo women are infinitely more likely to have had a divorce. And the average 45 yo has had more breakups and ended relationships than a 25 yo. I mean that's just math. From 25 to 45, most women are going to have more breakups and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:22 AM
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Bruh, this is all BS. If scientists ended the effect of aging on a person's physical body, age-gap relationships would go near extinct. It's really just a 25 yo woman looks better today and will look a he'll of a lot better in 20 years than a 50 yo woman. You want men to see your perspective, but you ignore our perspective and better yet speak for us and state our reasoning for our actions. Thats dumb. But go ahead believe what you want. If 50 and 70 year olds were as hot as 20 year olds, no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:39 PM
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Yeah most age-gap relationships aren't about control. If women didn't get uglier with age, there would be next to no age-gap relationships. Men who search for young women just do it bc they're hotter now and will be much hotter in 20 years than the women their own age. It's that simple. The rest is just bitter women trying to act like they're not shitting on men for finding young women more attractive. Like if scientists cured the effect of aging on the body tomorrow, no men would be chasing wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:34 PM
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Yeah guys get all the heat, meanwhile do you know how many women never give head, give bad head, starfish, don't do the fun positions, don't actually get into it? Like yes it's infinitely easier for guys to cum. But that's the point guys can cum from bad sex. But we still get just as much bad sex as yall. Very few women will actually put some work in sexually, give good head, good handies, good kisser, different positions. The very fact u think "guys put in all the work" is why so many chicks do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:26 PM
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I mean OP was counting these things as positive, when you're right they're negative. I'd much rather. Be with a 25 yo who isn't disillusioned about men/romance, approaches sex/dating with excitement and buzzing as opposed to a 45 you divorcee who has 0 excitement and the kind of history with men that leaves you single at 45. And trauma and baggage are of course negatives. 25 yo has less trauma and definitely less baggage. Lmao, it's 2022, and women don't understand why men want young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:21 PM
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Average? Lmao. Average men cannot get casual sex often from average women. It's infinitely easier for women to have casual sex. Look up the 80/20 rule. Why do women complain about not enough handsome men looking for relationships? They could just as easily date someone at their own level. Instead fat women complain about not having handsome husbands, not realizing that they're way below average. Low value men not getting casual sex from attractive women makes sense. It also proves that were wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:58 AM
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Okay so 1. Yes having lots of sex with a bunch of women doesn't equal a harem, because they're people with a complete ability to do whatever they want. Casual sex, they'll likely come and go, so no guy has any real control over another human being and their romantic/sexual life. Thankfully. But, high value guys don't just benefit in casual sex. They also get way more romantic opportunities/first dates. Getting married is mainly about your personality and how you interact with your partner. If a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:41 AM
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There's not really a cap. You can always improve your personality, get smarter, make more money, get more jacked, etc. I'm man enough to admit the grind is both for my own life and for women. I want to be the best me so I love the man I'm becoming. And I also do want to be the desirable chad who can fuck almost any chick he wants. Women can have wisdom and a shitton of them do. I will listen to smart women on 99% of issues. But, when it comes to male betterment or becoming max desirable, women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:35 AM
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I'm 25, I can see the difference. In college, every frat guy and bar rat was putting up numbers. Now I only know a few guys who are actually sleeping around. To an extent, it's guys wanting relationships more. But to a bigger extent its that the # of women desiring casual sex falls off of a cliff after college, so there's less chicks to fuck. If attractive women 25+ want to hookup with you, you're high value as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:13 AM
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Eh, casual sex takes a nosedive after college. After college, I have a much easier time starting a relationship than hooking up with an attractive woman. As I said, a great relationship is the rarest thing, most people only get 1 lifetime. But just having a relationship? Yeah average guys can roll out of bed and get a 1st date. Hooking up after college is fucking rough. Plenty of mid 20s guys still wanna sleep around, most of them are getting next to 0 casual sex. The rest are having a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:41 AM
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We're they attractive? Sex with unattractive women ain't hard. The hot ones is different. A working relationship is harder to come by sure. But a relationship in general? Women have way lower attractiveness standards. Which is why average guys rarely hookup with attractive women and chads have a bodycount over 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:27 AM
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I didn't say that applies to me. I've had a couple hot chicks come knocking lol. But there's a lot of dudes who genuinely haven't. And if you've had 2 attractive chicks consider you hookup worthy, but your 6'3 college roommate banged 50 girls in college, idk you're still worth less than he is in the dating pool. I don't have any problem putting myself in the way of opportunities. I just care a lot about being desirable as fuck, so that my sex life is easy as shit and I decide who and when I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:45 PM
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Me and all the RP dudes I know are pretty upfront about our opinions. RP dudes don't exactly go around espousing 3rd wave feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:37 PM
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Yeah women will say PeRsOnAlItY and SoUl. While finding 20% of men physically attractive. If you want to find love, women's opinions are invaluable. If you want to be a chad and be super desirable, women's opinions are less useful. Way too many women would rather white lie than open up about their racial, height, income, facial aesthetics, body, social status, etc. preferences. If you want to be the desirable chad, the grindset of looksmaxxing, getting jacked, upping income, upping game with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:34 PM
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When men who are more desirable have way more access to casual sex, then yes a lack of getting women interested in casual sex literally equates to your worth as a man in the dating pool. Women who are told they're good enough for sex, but not a relationship are less valuable in the dating pool. And it affects their self worth. For men it's the opposite. When the 6'3, facially aesthetic, jacked guy with game and a great job can have tons of casual sex, and no attractive woman has ever wanted casu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:23 PM
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He didn't have a point. Dude can't see clear hypocrisy or double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:42 AM
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You had no point my guy. Good luck with the hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:42 AM
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? That is how I was using the word before. Believing your sexual promiscuity doesn't detract from your character or desirability but detracts completely from a woman's is hypocritical. That's what I said in the 1st place. "If you're a guy who doesn't want casual sex, I get it, some people are very judgemental about sex before marriage/casual sex/sex for sex without feelings. If you're one of those people, you're probably not going to get along with someone who has casual sex or fucked guys after…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:59 AM
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Women who have height standards are usually not hypocrites... because they're OK with us having height standards of our own. How often have you met a height-chaser who completely hated men for having any height standards? I haven't met any. The ones that are like that are hypocrites. Not preferring dicks doesn't make you a hypocrite IF you are OK with people not preferring your own genitalia. Most cismen are a-ok with men or women who aren't interested in anyone with a penis. I'd never date a tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:30 AM
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Well most guys who wanna fuck no-strings-attached don't consider themselves to have lesser romantic value. So yeah it's hypocritical to hold casual sex 10× as hard against women. Definition of a double standard. Unless, the guy actually believes he himself is a slut unworthy of marriage because he fucked too much as a young dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:53 AM
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For the most part yes, but I mean some of its gonna go to averageish guys. Discord moderators are never gonna have casual sex, but averagish guys could do a lot better with less slutshaming on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:39 AM
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Yeah, provided that she's clean, doesn't have sex content on the internet, and is OK with me having a slutty past myself. The less chicks get penalized for casual sex or early sex in a relationship, the more guys are gonna get laid. If you're a guy who doesn't want casual sex, I get it, some people are very judgemental about sex before marriage/casual sex/sex for sex without feelings. If you're one of those people, you're probably not going to get along with someone who has casual sex or fucked …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:59 AM
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Height is tough, because the average American man is only 5'9. Most guys have way less confidence with taller women and many of us just won't ever approach one. So if you're 5'9, half the men are shorter than you and most won't approach you. Guys are also more confident with girls that are a decent bit shorter. Women tend to prefer guys who are a decent bit taller, so as a result, a 5'10 guys gonna be more comfortable hitting on a 5'4 woman over a 5'9 one. And tbh, you're much likelier to be suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:37 AM
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The solution to genocide is really just to genocide every group, aka end the world. Then no genocide, just non-bigoted mass murder. It tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:21 PM
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I don't think the guy was implying that women are going to care if men give up on pursuing casual sex. He's just saying that many men are giving up because even for them the results aren't worth the drive. Which yeah to a lot of guys, the 80/20 effect means that the chase and the effort isn't worth what they get out of it. Otherwise, ofc a lot of women dgaf about casual sex or men pursuing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:18 PM
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Yeah idk that's like solving police brutality against black suspects by killing more white guys lmao. How about anything done with a consenting adult is OK? Because this is fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:10 PM
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Tf. So you want the old days where women were even more slutshamed for casual sex? Jeez, some women actually like casual sex and sleeping around at least for awhile. Certainly don't see what's great about increased slutshaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:01 PM
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You're a chick who doesn't enjoy casual sex. A dude who enjoys casual sex is the complete opposite. We love tf out of the sex, enjoy the chase, enjoy the psych benefits of "pulling", enjoy being single and still getting action, etc. And the "grind" stuff like going to the gym? Lotta people like going to the gym. Endorphin release, look better, healthier, socializing, stronger, doing better at a desired competition (powerlifting, crossfit, bodybuilding, weightlifting), etc. Other grind stuff? Mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:55 PM
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There's a decent amount of these posts and comments about obese men. There's also way more posts and comments about poor men, virgins, short men, etc than their female counterparts, so it more than evens out. Obese women are talked about a bunch because body positivity focuses on women more than men and men are attacked for a weight/fat preference infinitely more than women are. Biggest reason is men are way more accepting of "hey obese men, your obesity makes you less attractive", than women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:34 PM
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I mean hot women is #1 for me. Just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:10 PM
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The fertilization? Men just ejaculated. Being a father? If you're a half decent one you're investing thousands of hours into your wife and kid. Even during pregnancy, a good father-to-be is spending hundreds of hours being with the mom, taking active but secondary decisions regarding the pregnancy, having intimate convos about the pregnancy, etc. Big fucking difference between having all that with my wife and some random surrogate. My wife, I know, I know how to talk to her, I know how to take c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:07 PM
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Every poll ever done shows men find women 20-25 most beautiful. Every physical preference men have peaks at those ages. Most of younger women preference is just they're more physically attractive to us. And they'll be more attractive in the future. 40 yo woman is gonna look like a grandma in 20 years. 20 yo woman is gonna look like a hot milk in 20 years. If you wanna assume every man on the planet has an ulterior mote, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:20 PM
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There's a difference between a person and a sex doll. Otherwise casual sex wouldn't exist. We would just use male and female sex dolls. Dudes just not picky with personality. Like I feel differently about relationships, but for casual sex I'm the same way. Tf does her personality matter for a hookup? I'm only there to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:17 PM
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That more means she didn't feel the "spark", that she felt you guys didn't click romantically. Because people go out on dates with people who clear their physical standards. So almost definitely, she just felt that you weren't a personality match.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:13 PM
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Bro life expectancy is like 80 for young non-poor American men. Means you can never have a single relationship till 30 and still have half a century of marriage/serious/monogamy. Whatever can't be gained in 50 years of serious relationships, isn't gonna be gained in another 10. Also, most people in America choose to be single at some point. And they masturbate to porn while single. For most people sex>porn. So when choosing to be single, why not upgrade from porn to sex? As a man, 99% of women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:59 PM
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With today's obesity rates, especially in America, no excess fat = in shape. I say that as a gym bro. He's scrawny as hell, but the lack of fat makes him in shape to most. Clearly women nowadays don't care too much about muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:57 AM
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Just because I didn't state it doesn't mean I don't know that. Most men are physically unattractive to women. Women peak at 18-29 for men. Since there's about as many men as women, most men end up dating women of similar age and many women end up dating men they don't find super attractive from a purely physical perspective sans emotions. Which is why high value guys actually date younger women bc they can. And super beautiful women actually date the guys that are strictly physically and sexuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:34 AM
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https://www.talkspace.com/blog/relationships-age-difference-gaps/. In America, 7.2% of all American couples have the guy older by 5-15 years. 1.3% of all American couples have the woman older by 5-15 years. That's about 5.5× the # of older men to women. Above 15 years, the ratio is more male skewed. Facts are older man younger woman is much more prevalent. That gap might be decreasing if you're right, but it's still a massive gap. https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:05 AM
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But those other guys are doing as well or better. The better looking famous guys are dating more beautiful women that she younger. Pete's dating women 40 or close, whereas the better looking guys are dating much younger women. I definitely think Pete's doing worse than handsome guys in his wealth/fame bracket. And that's with 6'3 and white helping him. Most of the men on here are also looking for sex. Pete can get laid any night because of his income/fame. Without the income/fame, he wouldn't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:46 AM
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Nah married men are not nearly making an impact, because the # of young men looking for casual sex is >>>>>>>>>>>> the # of young women. And looking for hookups on apps is fine, if people are upfront. No one complains if a chick has a tinder account for dick. I can have a tinder account while not wanting to date, just to fuck. The reality is there's way more men looking for casual sex way more often, with less requirements. Women don't deserve any anger for that because no one owes anyone anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:35 AM
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Never see it more than a few years. Women's attractiveness to men decreases a shitton with age. Men's attractiveness to women peaks later and falls softer. You'll see a lot of young women talk about middle-aged guys. But even milfhunters don't think middle aged women are hotter than the girls their age. For men, peak female beauty is 18-29 realistically. So there's very few young men married to 50 yo women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:21 AM
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But women are building Pete Davidson up as an example of how looks don't matter... when he's taller than 99% of men, makes more than 99.99% of men, and is more famous than 99.999% of men. And white. A 5'6 asian guy who looks like Pete Davidson and makes 50,000 a year isn't getting shit from women. So if Pete Davidson is the defense for ugly guys getting babes, that just shows how much money, white, fame, long dick, and wealth matters instead of face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:09 AM
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Nah. Women never openly said how much height, race, face, hair, muscles, fat, income, wealth, education level, professional success, "game" really mattered. They kept just saying personality and soul BS. Men have always been way more upfront with the standards. Women just stick with white lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:05 AM
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No the usual rules do apply. 6'3, white, millionaire, famous, in shape, hair more than overrides mid face and no muscles. Pete just shows that face and muscles are just 2 things. Even then his face isn't horrible, just mid. Otherwise, yes his personality and mindset helps him with women. But his attractiveness to women still falls in the confines of the typical rp rules. Like how men find Emma Watson attractive even though she's flatter than a board. She makes up for it in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:04 AM
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This is just circuitous slut-shaming. There's 0 wrong with prioritizing sex. People make their whole life about their romance. Spending some time looking for sex is 0 problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:07 AM
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Nintendo Switch. Yeah tired at 22 isn't normal unless we're talking extreme obesity. An in shape guys gotta have a biological imbalance or a horrible diet to be that. Some psych meds do have that effect tho... unfortunately know that firsthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:48 AM
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I have nothing to lose, except I don't enjoy it. Why would I partake in something that's a net negative. The extra sex is outweighed by the anger of directly seeing that other men are more desirable than me and I'm 50 miles away from where I want to be desirability wise. Plenty of women will go out on a date with me if I'm charming and come across as a good guy. I know that. But, it's a fact that I'm gonna be less desired than I want to be. Or less desired than the guys who I am more desired tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:46 AM
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Nothing, just when the conversation comes up, be brutally honest about standards/preferences/lack of casual sex interest. If women told men about how race/height/income/face/hair/body mattered in dating/sex, guys wouldn't go redpill and get angry bc women told them white lies their whole life. Likewise, if chicks just straight up tell men, hey most of us don't enjoy casual sex, so with the remaining few, supply and demand means they get to pick whoever they want. And casual sex being shallow alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:20 AM
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Sex or a relationship my guy. Women your age won't give a fuck about your energy levels if it's just sex. It's gonna be the typical looks, etc deal. With a relationship, not every college girl is wild. Plenty just sit inside and play on their Switch. If you're super tired, you likely could benefit from meds. But plenty of needs have girls. Otherwise, just do the typical grind to better yourself and you can pull fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:15 AM
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The real validation is just knock off the white lies. Men are more upfront about their shallowness and its harsh, but at least we don't lie to your face. Guys go and get redpilled, because women keep talking about personality and soul are all women care about, when only 20% of men are "attractive." Or when women are least likely to date outside their race. Or when height greatly affects dating success. Or facial aesthetics. Or income. If women were as upfront with their preferences, especially t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:13 AM
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Really not tho. If it was loneliness it wouldn't be nude and ridiculously sexual. It's more porn, but with girls you know and in your class. If women went on onlyfans and kept their clothes on and did POV girlfriend dates, would be way less popular and a different clientele. The female streamers who aren't good at the game or entertaining is the loneliness, to an extent. Like Pokimane. Even then it's horniness a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:08 AM
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I love how women think that pressuring their husband to have a vasectomy is so different from a man pressuring his wife to get her tubes tied or a hysterectomy. How about if he doesn't organically want that, you don't pressure him into it. Because I don't want kids, let me marry a chick and pressure her into a tubal ligation or hysterectomy. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:06 AM
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Bro wtf, this has some sterilizing black women would be for their benefit if they'd let it energy. https://ihpi.umich.edu/news/forced-sterilization-policies-us-targeted-minorities-and-those-disabilities-and-lasted-21st. Middle aged men are the #1 suicide rate in the world and the US. By a country fucking mile. I wonder if their decreased libido and worsened sex life have anything to do with it 🤔. This is like saying we should lower women's desire for romance. Because heterosexual dating is plagu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:05 AM
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Aight it's cringe when women only date white guys, only date guys taller than them, only date guys over some height, only date guys they find handsome, only marry guys with certain income/wealth, only date guys with degrees, only date guys with great hair, only date guys with at least a certain dick size. Or age gap warriors are full of shit. Mid 20s and up ain't cringe or creepy. Unless people should have to date people they don't find attractive or find less attractive. Props to old dudes fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:25 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.refinery29.com/amp/en-us/2017/06/157756/one-night-stand-casual-sex-facts. Average American woman's at 6 one night stands, lifetime. So how successful exactly do you think the average guy is at a cold approach for sex? Most of my friends are bottom 80%. And their hit rate on cold approaches is low. When they do hit, it's usually a while before the sex. And usually dates before, so it's really a casual relationship. Pure one night stands? Where you fuck em the nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:36 AM
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I hope you're talking about womens' opinion and not your own. Because most of these women have whole races they refuse to date and have never dated guys shorter than them or shorter than 5'6. So age gap warriors can suck my dick. Every woman gets to be 25, not every guy gets to be white and 6'. And they don't apologize for their standards. If 25 yo women can't date any age guy they want, maybe 18 yos shouldn't be able to die in Iraq. 16 yos shouldn't be able to drive multiton vehicles that can k…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:05 AM
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Cold approaches are very statistically unsuccessful, especially for casual sex, especially for bottom 80% guys. How often does an average guy get a hookup from a girl at a bar? And what's the success % of initiations? Because based off all my friends I'd say less than 10% of the women they talk to for casual sex end up going home with them. Not everyone's OK with getting rejected 95% of the time just to get laid. Things are different for relationships, but not that much. Guys know that the more …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:01 AM
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Some people don't want to approach knowing that their attractiveness limits them. You can have all the game you want, if you're a 5/10, you're going to see more rejection than a 10/10. I have no problem approaching women, but I'm not as attractive as I used to be and can be again. And my ego is way too high to be happy getting rejected more due to my less attractiveness. I'm gonna stick to myself, grind shit out in the gym and career till I'm as good as I can be, and then go out and get the succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:58 AM
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"Genetically gifted" is bullshit. Most women under 40 can have flat stomachs and thick thighs + big ass. Go to any serious gym and you will see white women, the racial group with the worst genetics for ass and legs, who have flat stomachs and plenty big asses and legs. It's called gym thots. You exercise your lower body enough and manipulate bulk/cut cycles you will build a perfect ass and legs and cut back down to a flat stomach. Millions of women have done it. Blaming genetics is like all thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:42 PM
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Generally is a trend. Overweight women are definitely generally unattractive. Almost every actress, fitfluencer, model has a flat stomach, especially the ones guys love. Practically every top female pornstar has a flat stomach. Generally differs from absolute because something is generally true when it has a decent amount of opposition. It's absolutely true when it's 100% agreement. Having a flat stomach is >>> chubby to most men. And a big drive for chubby women is their bigger boobs and ass. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:10 PM
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Nah the higher bf% is just that you will still have a flat stomach at a higher bf% than men thanks to boobs and ass. Chubby men and women both have excess fat. Difference is a man needs to be <12% to be lean, whereas it's more 17% for women. Chubby is still chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:05 PM
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Cap. Just because men put up with excess fat more doesn't mean it's any more attractive. Flat stomachs are still way more attractive than chub. And fat guys often have muscle, whereas I know like 1 fat chick that has any muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:03 PM
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0/100 depending on if you like flat stomachs or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:02 PM
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I mean wouldn't lying about # of partners in the other direction be the same? Plenty of people downplay their body count and a lot of those relationships survive the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:37 AM
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Of course they're not super hot, UT they're well above average for their age today and were well above average in their primes. https://www.google.com/search?q=young+bill+murray&client=ms-android-verizon-us-rvc3&prmd=inv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiP-bjVhKD7AhWhJH0KHXXXAngQ_AUoAXoECAMQAQ&biw=384&bih=645&dpr=3.75#imgrc=7pnD7TdpdEhvVM. Bill Murray's tall as shit, has always had a handsome face for his age group, white, good hair until like recently. He's definitely above average. https:/…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:34 AM
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It's way easier to have scarjos body than Chris Hemsworth. Any girl that has a flat stomach and goes to the gym has her waist and probably a bigger ass. Boobs, a decent amount of women have Cs naturally and the rest can get boob jobs. Girls who have lifted for like a year and in shape have a better body than Keira Knightley who's flat as shit. Both Hollywood men and women sex symbols have gorgeous faces. But it takes 7 years of lifting, meticulous bulking and cutting, and steroids to have MBJ or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:14 AM
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If you think Tom Hanks, JGL, and Bill Murray aren't way above average for their age groups idk. Most middle aged men aren't in Tom Hanks shape. Bill Murray held up until like 10 years ago. And JGL is like the composite of women's most attractive male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:08 AM
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How is statistics nonsense? https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/comments/ac7gkv/15_of_men_receive_50_of_all_likes_given_out_by/. OLD is the fastest growing gateway to sex and relationships and its factually based on looks. Tinder has the good old 80/20. https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a. In a world where 80% of the likes go to 20% of dudes, idk where you can say looks aren't a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:29 AM
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OP is wrong, because men are way less needy of relationships. If women were as interested in casual sex as men, there would be way less dating from men. The rush to date is because the bottom 80% of guys can't get laid without a relationship. In terms of actual need for commitment/serious relationship, women are infinitely higher than men under 30. Women are definitely more looking for relationships. It's just that men are the initiators.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:06 AM
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Look at OLD statistics. 50% of hinge swipes go to 15% of the men. And that's a dating app. Hookup apps are worse. Casual sex is only remotely doable for hot guys. Average guys are lucky to have a single casual hookup with a reasonably attractive woman in their life. As for dating, looks are most of the reason behind the 1st date. If you're an average man, plenty of women will reject you for a 1st date. If you're an average woman, plenty of men won't ask you out on a date or only be willing to fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:02 AM
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Lmao no. Women show a stronger racial preference. You have to be joking. White women are the least likely to date outside their race, statistically. You have to be trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:12 AM
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"Given that long-term relationships are generally more fulfilling than short-term ones, most people spend significantly more time in longer term relationships than they do single/not serious ones, and that men have an easier time finding these partners…couldn’t the argument be made that men actually have a pretty good deal?" Citation? Most of the guys I know would stay single till 35 if they could get laid whenever they want with in shape chicks. The problem with this is it's coming from the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:12 AM
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The way hot chicks look and any positive personality traits, like intelligence, badassness, funny, positive, etc. Definitely in that order, because guys share my interests more, so don't really give a fuck about platonic female friends. And romantically, the personality only matters if I find her physically attractive. And I'm tryna fuck as opposed to date rn, so personality doesn't really matter for hookups, at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:57 AM
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Facts, chicks will always some BS about personality and soul, but the most attractive ones mostly let attractive guys take em out on a date. It's personality and soul... from guys that they're attracted to physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:44 AM
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Rich dudes will hit on any attractive young woman lmao. Politics and race rarely matter. It's just a wholesale beauty standard and the guys who can pull young hot chicks know they can so why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:10 PM
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Except, he said women expecting men, not poorer partner expecting richer partner. Most of this comes on a gender basis, with guys who make less or about the same as their partner, who still expects them to carry the finances. If it was just poorer partners and richer partners it wouldn't be gendered. It is. Most young men dont make much more than their female partners. Many make less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:08 PM
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Plenty of men refusing to pay for any woman who promotes modern gender roles, even if she is hot. I'm not going to date a big-time feminist who still wants me to pay for anything. That's just picking and choosing trad and modern roles to solely benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:06 PM
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Both. Hookups more. But hinge is a "relationship" app. Half of women's likes go to 15% of dudes. https://mashable.com/article/hinge-dating-average-guy-likes. Appearance not being a top priority implies that women are equally likely to go on a 1st date with ugly and hit guys. Idk what planet that's true on. The truth is that yall want a guy that treats you right out of the guys that you find physically attractive. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2018/02/12/in-experiments-researchers-f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:30 PM
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Nah, stop treating them as if they're out of your league. Shoot your shot and keep shooting shots. I'm either gonna marry a 8+ or I'm not getting married. Fuck mediocre chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:11 PM
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The amount of women who thirst Michael B Jordan is way higher than Aziz Ansari. Nobody knows the true personality of Hollywood guys and yet the attractive ones get thirsted. Armie Hammer ended up being a cannibal fetishist, and up until 5 minutes before that he was thirsted more than all the normal mediocre looking guys in Hollywood. Case in point attractiveness has an objective element and a subjective element. There is an objective element, because 99.999999999% of women will find Michael B Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:08 PM
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Yeah that's not me lmao. Most middle age couples are dead bed so no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:15 AM
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Facts. 5th percentile genetics with 2 good years in the gym >>> 95th percentile genetics never been in the gym. Most of the ectomorph/endomorph/xenomorph morons on reddit don't work hard in the gym and don't eat 500+ over their maintenance and complain about genetics. Work hard, eat surplus, get jacked. Work hard, eat deficit, lean out. Take steroids +50% results. But no one is naturally jacked. Even "naturally lean" is just high metabolism and eating less than the caloric burn. The "I can't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:30 AM
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Except our much bigger age preferences means we're more likely to stop finding her attractive with age. It's kinda nice to get married knowing you'll still find your partner sexy in 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:56 PM
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Most def. But if youre willing to pay 50%, then you can get guys cool with modern gender roles. But chicks who want guys that pay for everything can't be surprised only guys who like trad gender roles are interested. And women who want rich guys have to understand their standards are higher. There's a reason every actor and NBA player has a 10/10 WAG.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:53 PM
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RPers are more jaded because they're not getting casual sex with women they find attractive, not so much the rest. If we were getting laid with 6/10+ women all the time, 99% of us wouldn't be jaded. There's a split in TRP. Some guys want the virgin Mary wife. Rest of us don't care as long as she doesn't cheat. But all of us want to be able to get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:36 PM
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Most men want to have sex with women they find attractive, without anything else needed. There are men that don't, but vast majority of men would go home with Blake Lively or Ana de Armas 30 minutes after meeting her. It's always gonna be a struggle to find guys that are against casual sex, because every dude I know would have sex with an attractive woman well before feelings. They do exist tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:34 PM
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Some. I chase as much NSA sex as possible and don't care if my wife did either. Actually prefer if she was open to casual sex, because I hate the concept of sex should be reserved for feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:31 PM
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If you think people who don't have this mindset are less moral, you're no different that religious people who think sex before marriage is for immoral whores. So, believe what you want, but if pursuing casual sex makes you think less of a person, then that is basically slutshaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:29 PM
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I mean that's dumb, but if you date to get money spent on you you're a gold digger. So those guys are dumb because if you buy a Bugatti to get women, then the women you wouldn't have otherwise gotten will be golddiggers. But those women are still gold diggers, so the guys are right even if they're dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:26 PM
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Thanks. You're 100% right. A lot of every activist group on the planet are morons and hypocrites. It's true that men are biologically and socially more likely to desire sleeping around. But that doesn't mean it's more ok for us and less ok for women. Double standards are trash. That's literally the same logic as religious conservatives who are cool with their sons having premarital sex, but not their daughters. In reality, we should all stop treating casual sex as a negative. If you meet a guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:20 PM
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Bruh I'm clearly not talking about child molesters and pedophiles. I'm talking about your typical 50 dating 25s. 2 different things. Child molesters literally get beaten in prison and irl. Most guys fucking hate those pieces of shit. Any adult guy who looks at <18s is obviously a piece of garbage. But when we're talking middle aged guys going after 20somethings, it's not remotely the same. Women aggressively hate that and it always seems to be because it reinforces the older = uglier side of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:11 PM
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It's a big group, some dudes are clowns and want that. But also plenty of dudes just want a hot chick that has a job, doesn't expect financial support, and will share chores 50/50. Also don't neg. Also many of TRPs just want a non-hypocritical approach to sex. If you hate manwhores, but you have a high body count that's BS. So either hate manwhores and be low body count or be cool with manwhores and have whatever body count. Because I prefer casual sex I'm not gonna date someone who hates casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:58 PM
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Age gaps under 25, I'll give you. But honestly any old guys I've seen dating a young women, gets attacked by women. Even if he started dating her at 25 or even 30. Like tbh most women will get offended at any guy their age dating younger women. Like no, age gap doesn't mean shit. If he's not controlling her or abusing her it's not shit. You just don't like his beauty preference. Perfect example, I was talking to a guy on here that said any 50 yo dating any 25 yo was creepy. That's complete BS. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:31 PM
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Nah I can't agree with that. Look at Leonardo Dicaprio. All the feminist circles were talking about the problematic shit, when the women were rich, had careers, college educated, smart and he didn't do any controlling shit that we know of. Those women clearly kept working and kept living their life. And Leo is handsome, former sex symbol, charming, 6+ white guy, millionaire, and famous. And people still used the age gap crap to sat there was something wrong with it. Like no guys, Leo just likes …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:59 PM
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Exactly lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:50 PM
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Well the whole age-gap thing isn't just 19 yo girls. It always goes past that into its wrong for a 47 yo man to date a 25 yo woman territory. Like I think dating a 19 yo is fucked up. But feminists will complain about Like 50 yo guy dating a 25 yo woman. At 24/25, you're literally masters alumni + 6 figure age. The average 1st time mom age for American women is 26. 25 yos are plenty mature to date any age person on the planet. Considering 25 is like full blown adult age. And you can't blame some…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:33 PM
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Fair. But I would say most TRPers don't want their wife to stay at home and have 0 problem with her pursuing a career. Certainly nowhere near all. Most of the TRP guys I know want partners that work. I very much want my partner to work. So many TRP dudes want partners that work, and any of them would be correct in having 0 part of 100% financially supporting their partner. If someone wants the stay-at-home raise-the-kids wife, then yeah they should be supporting her. But most TRP dudes just want…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:11 PM
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Agree and disagree to an extent. Obviously on individual level, it benefits the poorer partner to split things based off income. Individually, it hurts the richer partner. But in some cases it makes for a fairer, better relationship because you're empowering the poorer partner by having them further from the poverty line, which gives them more disposable income and accrue savings for their safety/benefit. But, if the richer partner is working 80 hrs and the poorer partner is choosing to stay hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:05 PM
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And it's not like all guys are hypocrites. If chicks think men peak at 25, I'm cool with that. Women thinking we age better isn't our fault. Nothings stopping women from thinking men peak at 25. But I'm not going to change my attraction, just because some chicks like silver foxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:34 PM
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So if someone wants a financially equitable relationship, they hate women? A lot of guys hate women. But not wanting to go past 50/50 on money doesn't Mena you hate women, just means you don't wanna be a paypig irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:32 PM
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Did you not go to college? Plenty of guys under 30 just want sex. Me included. Most men at least at some point just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:30 PM
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Bet. Shout out to the grandpas for not dating people they find unattractive to please society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:17 PM
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Lmao a guy trying to look up a same age woman's skirt is creepy. So age gap don't change that. I will act like it's not creepy behavior, because it's not. You can go ahead and believe whatever dumb shit you choose. It's literally only creepy if you chose them because they're less experienced or immature. If you chose them because they're hotter, you're no different from any other shallow person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:10 PM
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Nah it won't. I'm not gonna avoid hotter women, bc of some BS. It's not creepy, because most guys aren't going after younger women because of immaturity or anything, it's because they're more physically attractive. If 50 yr old women were as hot as 25 yos, almost 0 men would be looking at women half their age. The word you're looking for is shallow. People dating people half their age are shallow, not creepy. So I'll be that shallow dude if I feel like it, considering everyone has some shallowne…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:43 PM
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Bro every study ever done shows that men prefer the way young women look. If it's creepy to date the person I find most beautiful, fuck it. Shits infantilizing. I'm 25 rn, that's old enough to have a graduate degree or make 6 figures. It's not creepy if 50 yr old woman wants to date me. Women get mad because it reminds them they're considered hottest at 23, which makes the young women angry and the older women angrier. Shits not actually creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:28 PM
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Gym is the equalizer. The average man definitely spends more time at the gym. Theres also more serious male lifters. Very few women powerlift/crossfit/oly lift/comp bodybuild. Mostly 30 min at planet fitness. Guys theres a decently higher # that go to the gym 2-4 hrs a day and train super seriously. We also train and progress more muscles. Guys who lift for aesthetics hit every muscle. Women who lift for aesthetics only hit quad/ham/glute/calves/abs/obliques. We hit all those + bi/tri/shoulders/…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:56 PM
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Only older dudes do that. Most men under 30 will date all the way up to their age. Shit I'm 25 and a lot of my friends will date older. Otherwise yeah every man on the planet deep down thinks hot 25 yo >>> old chick physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:10 AM
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Bro 1 inch was the highest they went. If they went to 2+ inches, the rejection rate would have been even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:07 AM
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Yeah the TRT clinics are pretty good nowadays. I mean general practitioners are stingy, but there's wink wink nudge nudge TRT clinics that operate on providing. If I'm 40+ I'll try it that way. But if I do exogenous test in my 20s or 30s imma just order that ish online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:59 AM
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Most def
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:45 AM
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Tikthots and Dicktokers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:39 AM
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Nah test will always be lower than a comparable younger person. Being healthy and not fat helps, but genetically your test decreases with age. Which is why I'm not gonna hesitate to go TRT after 40. It doesn't matter too much bc you can still make gains with decreased test, I'm just a little anal about the gym. https://honehealth.com/edge/health/testosterone-levels-by-age/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:35 AM
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I don't disagree. Plenty of 40sums at my gyms who are in good shape. I'm def gonna take TRT, because the only real side effect is crashing natural test, which doesn't matter too much at middle aged natural test production levels. But yeah muscle can be built or maintained at any age. Just older dudes need more rest time, more injury risk, and lower test levels means a little less muscle gain rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:06 AM
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Yeah a short list lmao. Want what you want, but most guys are going to suppress the feminine emotions and also definitely machismo. Now male superiority is pretty unpopular tbh thankfully. But I mean guys don't go to the gym and get jacked to be captain in touch with his feminine side lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:31 AM
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I mean most guys definitely do not try to be "not too muscular". Most guys are trying to max out their natural capacity for muscle. Other than guys who only care about being attractive to women, the rest of us want to be massive and natural max is higher than women think it is for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:28 AM
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? A muscular guys is almost definitely going to be more in shape at 45 than an average guy is. The average guy who barely lifted at 25 is definitely going to be done and getting fat. Mr. Jacked is likely to go to the gym, take TRT, and keep a Brad Pitt physique. Even if a jacked guy gets fat, dad bod >>> kevin james.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:26 AM
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Sure, most guys on reddit arent the top x% that can have a high succeas rate at bars with attractive women. But a lot of people would rather work for something they really want as opposed to settle. Most overweight women are never going to date a super attractive man. Doesn't mean they don't want that or refuse to settle for more realistic options. Now, most men aren't the chad. But tbh most guys can become that. You work on yourself enough, you got a decent shot as long as you're not like 5'3. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:02 AM
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This is true to an extent, but very exaggerated. Plenty of relationships and especially hookups happen off cold approaches at bars/parties. Guys prefer that to pursuing women outside of bars/parties because there's less of a risk of being accused of being a bad guy. A lot women don't want to be pursued while they're working. Aka, don't hit on women while they're working. Guys also aspire to be "Chads". Like my most attractive friends, cold approach women and have infinite success. No guy wants t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:27 AM
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I don't disagree. Just pointing out the reality. It's just a higher #. Anyone who thinks bisexuality in a partner isn't a bigger turnoff for women vs men is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:11 AM
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https://today.yougov.com/topics/society/articles-reports/2019/06/20/LGBTQ-dating-bisexual-trans-poll-2019. https://www.bustle.com/articles/182670-why-wont-some-people-date-bisexuals-a-new-study-confirms-that-biphobia-is-still-alive. Women are definitely less likely to be willing to date bi guys. Cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:21 AM
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Nah I'm 25 and most of my female friends still make fun of bisexuality men, discredit their masculinity, and refuse to date them. Meanwhile dudes care way less about dating a bisexual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:14 AM
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The wall has more to do with how the other gender perceives you. Older men are perceived to be way more attractive by women than older men are by women. For obesity, women are almost twice as likely to be severely obese. https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity. Gym does mean shit because muscle + fat >>> fat. The amount of men who are fat and have 0 muscle <<<<<<< the # of women who are fat and have 0 muscle. The wall is a bigger deal for women, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:31 PM
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There's a lot of that within the movement, but you could say something similar about 3rd wave feminism. Go sort r/twox by top all time and you'll see most of the posts are generalizations of men, where they explicitly or implicitly accuse all men of doing something only some do. Which is definitely misandry. Doesn't mean feminism in its entirety is misandrist. TRP is a broad movement. There's blatant sexists and there's also people who rightfully point out cases of gender based discrimination an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:34 AM
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Facts. Men tend to have lower fuck standards, higher date standards. Women tend to have the opposite. Really comes down to supply and demand. There's more women looking for real relationships than men and subsequently more men looking for casual sex than women. So men have to settle to fuck casually and women have to settle for relationships. Been that way since the beginning of time. That's why dating becomes so much better after 30. There's so few women willing to fuck casually after 30, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:16 AM
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It happens, but I think a lot of it is the women considering women more beautiful than men thing. Like women consistently rate each other higher than men. Like rating those gfs the way men view women's attractiveness, are they really models? When women judge each others beauty they usually only consider face and they're biased if it's their friend + girl solidarity. Like model from a guys perspective is going to be gorgeous face + flat stomach + big ass + not A-cups + great hair. I don't see a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:13 AM
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Nah, it's more the things that are found attractive by men are things that peak in prevalence in 18-24. Women in that bracket are most likely to be in shape and no sagging/wrinkles. If it was just the manosphere men, then every poll ever done wouldn't show the same 18-25 preference. The toxic dudes simply go way too far and say that women "have no value" after that arbitrary age. It's more like they peak and decline for the rest of life, strictly physical attractiveness wise. And women ofc have …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:28 AM
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You said "Men will ask why she says no." The absence of any qualifier like the word some, few, etc implies all. Which is generalizing and false. I've never asked that and plenty of the dudes I know have never asked that and don't believe me, ask the men in your life and they'll say the same. I said "Saying men dont receive passive aggressive rejections in person is blatantly false and again generalizing." So I represented your point accurately, you said that you highly doubt that we experience i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:39 AM
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Youre generalizing again. Women definitely take honest rejections better than men on the whole, but there are women who don't take that rejection well and men who take it just fine. Idk what women you've met but I've met plenty of women who reject with some variation of the truth or often just via body language. I've been rejected plenty of times by women saying basically not interested or with body language like short disinterested answers and polite but clear focusing on their friends and payi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:09 AM
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I mean ain't nobody a monolith. Most of the dudes I know are somewhere in the redpill area, me included. Like 1 of us doesn't think Andrew Tate is a moron. There's also plenty of dumb shit in the women lifestyle and dating advice arena. People everywhere are dumb, when that one chick said going to the gym is fathering, you know how many people agreed with her? Shit Trump got elected with >45% of the vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:25 AM
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Bruh you spoke about absolutes when you talked about men refusing rejection. There are plenty of men that accept rejection straight up and you ignored all of them. You can't be that much of a hypocrite. And op is right about the boyfriend thing, bc men dont say they have a gf to women they don't wanna date, they reject them without doing that. And most men and women have received passive aggressive responses in dating. Another absolute to assume a guy has never received that just bc he's a guy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:19 AM
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Bruh what. If someone's pro casual sex and they're not a hypocrite, they're not going to have any problem with someone who's pro casual sex. And a lot of us are open to a relationship. So if I meet an attractive woman, I'm not going to discount her bc she fucked a lot of dudes. If every woman on the planet wanted to sleep with me, I wouldn't limit myself to some arbitrary #. I'd put up Wilt Chamberlain #s. But go ahead and gatekeep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:05 PM
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Completely false, because people on reddit exist in real life and sure some people might come on here and virtue signal and lie, but most people share their real views. So SOME people of both genders will say it's unattractive. Personally, it's not unattractive to me. And last I checked I exist in the real world. People who are pro- casual sex and don't see a problem with sex without a relationship or emotional connection have no problem with high body counts. I will have sex with any single adu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:02 PM
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No I know they exist, but I don't think it's a big #. I don't think any of the dudes I know prefer As.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:16 AM
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Stoic - a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining. Seems like showing positive emotions when times are good doesn't preclude you from being stoic. Semantics aside, you can show every emotion aside from sadness without being vulnerable. I never said that you personally didn't value male vulnerability. But not every woman is the same way, like how not every man is the same as me. Adults under 30 are absolutely consuming mindless tiktok content. Other th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:34 PM
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Yeah almost nobody like emotionless sociopaths or assholes, but the stoic non-vulnerable man is different. A stoic guy who isn't vulnerable and doesn't cry in front of his GF can be a great guy and will also display happiness, anger, and every emotion other than sadness. Most will also be non sociopathic. I can't really agree with you about content creators or artists, because most of the most popular artists or content creators evoke no real emotion or show eeal emotion and character. Almost ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:11 PM
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Men dont even like bbls, they just like flat stomachs and fat asses. Actually we prefer women that achieve that naturally. But obv if you get that via surgery and lie, we're going to find you more attractive than a fat chick. When men find out about lipo or bbl, it's actually a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:42 PM
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Huge tits sure, but very few men prefer A cups. Plenty of men do prefer Bs or Cs over huge boobs, that's true. I don't know a single dude that prefers A cups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:41 PM
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No way, me and 90+% of my guy friends will fuck a girl way uglier than gf standards which are lower than wife standards. Women it's the opposite usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:39 PM
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Eh, most young rich men want thicc women with flat stomachs. No NBA/NFL player is dating a pretty girl with A cups and no ass. Also if you don't like thicc girls with flat stomachs, RIP. A fat, natural ass + big boobs + flat stomach is the most attractive woman. Not every thicc girl is fake or fat. Gym thots for example, flat stomach, big boobs, fat ass, thick thighs. Easily more attractive than some Emma Watson built like a 14 yo boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:38 PM
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Some women do lose attraction and consider men less masculine for being vulnerable. Most of these women are shit people, but they exist. Plenty of women love vulnerability and emotional openness, but not that many in my experience. Also, the most beautiful women tend to like the most old-school masculine guys. There's also a lot of women who say they like vulnerability, but dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:34 PM
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Bruh, I said that "relationships are codependent" is an equivalent take to "casual sex fills a void with validation." As in a generalization that takes someones opinion and acts like its a truth for everyone. When its not. Bruh. I know what I want which is casual sex with as many attractive women as possible at this point in time. Thats gonna change at some point. If you got hate on reddit, its because you kinda generalized a bunch of people's life choice because you don't like it yourself.
/r/seduction14/09/22 12:56 AM
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Character assassination is when people say you are morally worse or a worse person for your life choices. Happens to a lot of men when they pursue casual sex. I have experienced life enough to see that most women prefer romance. That doesnt mean thats what I want. One, I'm a man. And two, my purpose in life isn't to make women happy. Same way women don't owe men sex, men don't owe women relationships. I don't think I, like a lot of people, fall into an attachment style box. I don't believe that …
/r/seduction14/09/22 12:08 AM
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I mean have you ever chosen to be single and not pursue romance/love? When you did that did you still masturbate to have sexual pleasure? Majority of people have done both. Casual sex is just that but better in every way. So those women dont want to pursue love/romance, but still want a fuller sexual pleasure and contact. I feel the exact same way. Also, just because less women want casual sex doesnt mean its 0. I know a shitton of girls that have a massive body count.
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:58 PM
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Yeah the NBA players who have the freedom to choose either don't choose casual sex... they do. Powerful/handsome/successful men consistently choose to pursue casual sex for a part of their lives because its unfulfilling. People who want relationships think they know whats best for everyone else. And like feeling morally superior.
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:11 PM
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Like going big time into casual sex at this moment in time, doesnt preclude OP from pursuing something real in the future. Literally doesnt. If there's 2 things to pursue in life: casual sex and real romance, why not pursue both, one after the other. Or with casual sex as fun in between real romances. Women get less interested in casual sex as they get older, so if you want it as a man, you should pursue it teens and 20s. And then whenever you get serious 25/30/35 whenever, there's 0 shortage in…
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:10 PM
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BS, I've done all of these at the same time minus the sex. And that was with 4 hrs a day at the gym. 80 hrs a week working, 7 hrs a week in the gym, like 3 hrs a week meal prep, less if you're rich and can buy cooked meals. Add 10 hrs for grooming/transportation. Thats 100 hrs taken up. 68 hrs of pure free time for whatever. The dudes I know maintain their rotation over text. Which takes 0 time. Then if you have like 1 date a weekend, that can be as little as 2 hrs per girl with sex. How is that…
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:06 PM
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Where does it say he doesnt have female friends? Where does it say he doesnt love the women in his family? Most dudes who pursue casual sex, value plenty of women in their lives. They just dont value a romantic connection with any of them at a certain point in time.
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:02 PM
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Being tied down to one person forever and having limitations in life vs getting to do whatever the hell you want in life. Also pursuing casual sex isnt lifelong. For most guys who do, it stops before 40. Hell, most just want it for a couple years. Life expectancy is in the 80s, so if I stop pursuing casual sex at 40, I have 40+ years of real relationships and maybe marriage/love. I mean shit if there's 2 things to experience in life, casual sex and real relationships, why would I limit myself to…
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:01 PM
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Yeah absolutely nothing fulfilling about meeting a woman in flattering clothing, being attracted to her, flirting with her, feeling sexy as hell at her reciprocation, and then bring her back to your place and taking her clothes off and having sex, which is hard as hell for dudes to come by. If I character assassinated women into casual sex, you'd be arguing the opposite right now. Honestly, one of the biggest reasons guys want casual sex, is because we feel like women get a real choice between c…
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:54 PM
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Funniest thing is you know most of these women are straight. So you hate us, think we're disgusting, violent. But at the end of the day, you still want to have sex with us, marry us, etc. I kinda understand man hatred, but when straight women call men physically disgusting, it's like bitch you're the one who sucks dick lmao. Shits laughable unless she's lesbian. Legit makes no sense. Even incels find some women attractive.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 03:29 AM
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Lmao I typed a novel, you typed about 5x as much, self aware much? Do some research, cognitive decline is extremely prevalent in old people, not many 75 yos without cognitive decline my guy. A ton of judges and justices have an age related condition that reduces their efficacy in their position, akin to paraplegic dude. Bro congrats on the strawman, where did I say banning old people? For someone who has problems with liberals, that was pretty pretend my opponent is a nazi logic right there. As …
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 05:38 PM
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Diseases that reduce your intelligence and work capacity? Yes. Do you see paraplegics in fire departments? No. A judge/justice is one of the most important positions in America. It should have the utmost bar for cognitive function. Not people in the middle of cognitive declines. Most of those jobs see a direct benefit of hiring those age groups, ie marketing hires young people bc 18-49 is key demo and young people can create cutting edge ideas better than oldies and drive more profits to the com…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 04:15 PM
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Yeah alzheimers and dementia don't almost exclusively affect old people. Also it's young people who experience significant cognitive decline directly due to their age. Also ageism is a joke when the average judges age starts with a 6. The average American is like 38. Why tf should the average judge be in their 60s. If that's ageism, sign me up.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 07:38 AM
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