GarlicResponsible621 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	So we separated… and now we are spending every night/day together and fooling around but…		GarlicResponsible621	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/23 02:53 AM
1	Screwed up and got snippy with STBXW over her talking to guys		GarlicResponsible621	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/23 12:06 PM

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1	Successful Divorce After Wife Had an Affair, and May Still Be Involved with AP One thing I have noticed perusing the main divorce forum is this. When a woman wants to leave a man, she always leaves without regret, except in one circumstance, and that’s when her husband has had an affair. The only posts where women seem to have any issues regretting a potential divorce is when there was an affair on his end. If the husband was just boring, she leaves. If she wants to rediscover herself, she leaves. If she wants to have an affair, she leaves. The answer is always “she leaves…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/23 08:55 PM
1	One year later, still emotionally wrecked OP - I sympathize with the stress that long hours can put on the recovery. You are stressed from the divorce. You work long hours. You don’t want to come home and do anything. You sleep. I get that. I think you’re on the right path in terms of changing jobs. But don’t see remote work as a salvation - I work remotely… it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. You will find yourself in the opposite situation. Your empty house can become a prison of thoughts to the point where you will miss going to the …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/23 12:03 AM
1	Advice so the soon to be ex wife birthday is Saturday. I keep on going back and forth of getting her something or not getting her something. What do you guys think? 😂😂😂 go ahead and bring a ring!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/23 07:07 PM
14	Ex asking to do things as a family She had another guy and is fully comfortable “friendzoning” you in front of the kids, which is how she wants you.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/23 07:51 PM
7	Starting a thing with divorced man OP - you should sit down with him and have an honest talk with him about where he is, what he wants, what you want, and above all else, if you want to date this man, you should make it clear that you are comfortable with any lingering effects of the traumatic divorce and you will work with him on it, rather than shunning him.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/23 06:35 PM
1	👉 co-parenting after divorce 👈 Boyfriend of four months wants custody of YOUR son? Where do they find these guys!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/23 02:12 AM
1	Life after The Raging Rapids She has someone else. Time to get yourself someone too. She won’t see that coming, I assure you. And how exactly did you wind up at mom’s house? Please tell me you did not break the cardinal rule of divorce and leave mom in the marital home with the kids? Because if so, you played yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/23 05:32 PM
4	Leaving wife and kids OP - you sound like a real piece of work. You have made many bad decisions. You really need to talk to an attorney, a good one. Go ahead and pay a retainer. I would see a therapist as well. A few things though… I would not expect to move away to another state and be granted full custody over your daughter. Judges don’t let parents do that hardly ever unless the ex spouse was a crazy drug addict or just completely unfit to be a parents. Your wife does not seem to meet that standard. A judge will …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/23 03:44 PM
1	New relationship while still married success stories? That’s a funny line to say… pretty sure I have only ever seen it uttered regarding relationships that end disastrously.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/23 06:46 PM
5	What states have the most favorable for divorce laws? It sounds counterintuitive, but only at first glance. It’s ultimately rooted in the same paternalistic “we need to take care of the woman because they can’t” mindset that pervades discussion on abortion and other social topics.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/23 06:30 PM
2	New relationship while still married success stories? The thing you have to ask yourself is what kind of woman would gleefully jump into a relationship with a man who is still legally married. The answer here is not that favorable to you. A really good woman would demand her soon to be boyfriend at least be legally divorced before dating.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/23 06:18 PM
1	What states have the most favorable for divorce laws? Generally speaking, although it sounds counterintuitive, the Bible Belt and conservative states are worse for divorce for men than the more liberal states. You want 50/50 community disposition, which is the norm in most blue states. The deep red states are all “equitable distribution” which typically results in more for the wife. Same goes for custody - blue states are a bit more equal. Red states are a bit more “the wife should have the kids.” Hell, some red states don’t even let the spouse dis…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/23 06:14 PM
1	Spouse asked for a divorce yesterday, I was told this was a good group by someone. I have some basic questions. Why do women always have a boyfriend like immediately after the divorce talk. I know I know “a woman who can fog a mirror can find a man.” But holy hell. Yeah I know we were married for two decades but screw that I’ve got a boyfriend day one. That shit is just screwed	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/23 06:06 PM
1	I now know how so many men can actually come to a low enough point to kill themselves. Getting blackmailed as being gay and having it emailed to all of your coworkers and friends/family is not that big a deal you think?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/23 02:55 PM
1	I now know how so many men can actually come to a low enough point to kill themselves. Yup	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 06:11 PM
1	I now know how so many men can actually come to a low enough point to kill themselves. You can read the rational male and invest in yourself all you want. But if you’re walking down the street and somebody shoots you, that investment doesn’t mean much. You’re still shot. This is the Internet equivalent of getting shot. In fact, it’s worse. Much worse.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 05:48 PM
5	I now know how so many men can actually come to a low enough point to kill themselves. I think this answer is a bit beyond the emotional gravity of the situation at hand. Guy is going through this and you tell him to read the rational male? I like your posts but come on man… time and place. To OP, I am with you. God bless.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 05:26 PM
2	"Nothing I can do".... I know I know… the ex wife starts crying on the stand “I’m so scared of my kids being around him” and you’re just toast even if you’re dad of the year.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 05:20 PM
7	"Nothing I can do".... Your attorney is the point contact on all of this. This is extreme. If your attorney does not seem up to snuff to handle this in a way where you feel that you have some control, you need a new one. Also, at the end of the day, the family courts are biased against men. And women know that. Every woman that I know feared for me when I went through the divorce process precisely even they knew it was biased. Your ex-wife knows that no judge is gonna tear her up one side and down the other like they …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 02:38 PM
4	Is it true women get free Lawyers in Family Court? Many women receive free representation through various means. One thing in particular I have seen is friends/family/support just offering to pay for the female’s divorce attorney. I don’t think that’s typically an offer for most men, broke or not. It’s “suck it up buttercup” for men. There are also a number of women’s support groups that will fund an attorney if the woman is involved in it.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/23 12:30 PM
1	Trying to help my Dad who’s going through his second divorce. UT Dude…. The facts don’t lie. If you’re a working dad making good money, and your wife is a SAHM with the kids, and she hasn’t worked in many years and you’ve been married a while… you are likely going to get teed up and lose the house. We aren’t making it up - that’s what the laws are designed to do. Maybe it didn’t happen to you but that’s very much what normally does.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/23 02:40 AM
2	Trying to help my Dad who’s going through his second divorce. UT Sorry, but this is nonsense and will give the son false hope. The only outstanding question here that we don’t know is how long they were married. If they were married for a good long while, and she was a stay at home wife the whole time, then he is going to get screwed all day long. The only possible wrinkle for the house would be if he bought it before the marriage, and it was never in her name on the deed. Then… maybe he gets to keep the house by claiming it is pre-marital property. Depends o…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/23 07:56 PM