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| 1 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?Your problem is that you’re trying to catch their attention. Women are women bro. The rank structure is all in your head. All you gotta do is ask me what they name is, ask em what they doin later and if you can take ‘em out, ask for they number and that’s it. If they say no then you just not they type or right now just might not be the right time. Notice how that’s literally how you hit on any chick… well it’s as simple as that. If you attractive to them it doesn’t take that much effort honestly… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 08:05 AM |
| 11 | Why is cold approach so addictive?Sometimes it was the adrenaline for me mixed with the sexual tension. The uncertainty, but rolling the dice anyways. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 02:36 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withShe shot you down bud. If she says she just wants to be friends then that means she doesn’t find you attractive. You can’t seduce someone that doesn’t want you. Don’t do it. Also you should just stop hanging out with her at this point. You’re not gonna get anywhere and your attraction to her is always going to be hanging over your head. Oh and she knows you like her btw… so she’s more likely to try to manipulate you knowing that she’s never gonna give you what you want so just walk away complete… | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 08:24 AM |
| 6 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:This might seem a lil toxic but hear me out. Stay far away from all the woman who have friend-zoned you up to this point. Just stop talking to them. Just stop. Don’t reach out and don’t hangout with them. Unfollow them from social media. Delete their numbers. Start fresh. And go talk to other women. You need to be selfish and think only about you! Focus on yourself and what only you want. Don’t count how many women friendzoned because guess what, they no longer exist anymore. Respect your time a… | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | any advice to raise my self confidence and approach girlsSounds to me like you do have the confidence to make an approach just need to know how to seal the deal. You probably coming off as too friendly and undecided and not letting them know your intentions. Get her number and call her (don’t text her) to set up a date for next week. Don’t stay in the phone for too long (15 minutes tops) Make it abundantly clear that your taking her (just her not her friends) out on a date. If you don’t they’ll subconsciously throw you in the friendzone because grown … | /r/seduction | 04/11/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned“Somehow some guys dick ended up in her mouth. But she didn’t have sex with him” oh really? Is that what she told you? So She magically ended up sucking him off because of course she had ZERO intentions of doing that at all. So she was drunk enough to magically have a dick appear in her mouth but sober enough to know she was sucking dick and was sober enough to know that she didn’t fuck? She tried to play you for a damn fool. Cmon. Didn’t even have enough accountability to admit that she sucked … | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Then you need to do some serious self improvement before you try to put yourself out there like that. Because if none of them like the product you putting out you gotta switch it up. A lot of em are picky af so you gotta be the best version of yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?Yes. But don’t be surprised if you get involved with someone who gets around more then you realize. Usually says something about how much they value themselves if they make it that easy. Make sure you get tested as well | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 0 | What to talk about on a date?At first I keep ask a lot of questions about themselves so this way I don’t have to talk that much. Women love to talk about themselves and if you ask the right questions, you’ll find that they just carry the conversation. What they like to do for fun, where they like to go on vacation, what makes them happy. Eventually after an hour or so ( you don’t want to stay too long you’ll keep drinking and you’ll get too drunk) while I’ll seal the deal by saying “well I’m about to shake this spot and kic… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Work in yourself. If there’s something most don’t see in you then you gotta take a brutally honest look at yourself. I started with my physique and my style and worked from there. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Social study, how does everyone keep out of the friend zone?Can’t be in the friend-zone if y’all no longer friends | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Fake it til you make it | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Exactly | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I was 19 when I made the realization. I’m 25 now | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:22 PM |
| 9 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Bruh look. I’m average as all hell. And to be honest don’t just be yourself, be the best version of yourself. And stop chasing. You don’t need to do all that. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Balls in your court | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:37 AM |
| 14 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I think guys for the most part do have that happen but like me they don’t notice because they’re not used to it being easy to get with a woman. Usually it’s hard or next to impossible. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:53 AM |
| 42 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I think for a while I didn’t notice/overlooked obvious hints that were dropped because I was soo used to having to chase that by default, I didn’t believe a woman would actually make it easy on being with you if she actually wanted you. No one told me, this was something I found out on my own. Unfortunately my homeboys still chase because they can’t wrap their heads around that concept. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Initially I got with a woman who I wasn’t super interested in because she was easy and I was desperate. But she quickly changed my mind because behind closed doors she was a goddess and it blew my mind. I didn’t think she was capable of having a body like she did because she always wore loose clothes. Now I don’t judge a book by its cover. So yeah it works. Usually. Either way I’m putting the ball in my court by choosing from whoever I have a mutual interest in. It all depends though. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:41 AM |
| 406 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Your not wrong. But my whole perception on exactly how much work I should be putting in changed when I found someone who was more attracted to me then (at the time) I was to her. 90% of the shit I normally had to initiate she did herself. Hell she made it easy on me from the jump. I’d always seen it happen to other guys until I experienced myself a couple times, then it all clicked. I stopped going out of my way to go hit on women who didn’t show much interest. Now I only focus exclusively on wo… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.Yeah. When I was younger I used to fall for the ‘I’m not easy you gotta fight for me’ bs and that shit made me look like a fool quite a few times. Then I got laid and noticed that she literally made it easy for me. No dumbass games. Once I connected the dots life got a lot more simpler from then on out. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 04:41 AM |
| 6 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.He means a girl that likes you as much as you like her if not more. The flip side is just a waste of time | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.That’s what he just said | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Can I slowly bring her back by communicating?No contact. She doesn’t want to settle down after only a month of dating. She wants to go exploring for new dick | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?Depends how far your base is. And a lot of the locals don’t speak English or like Americans. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?I joined the military and Limme tell you going overseas was the worst shit. My drought lasted like 2 years. I started to lose my mind so I just gave up and went to a soapie with my homie. But before then I hadn’t had GOOD cheeks in 5 years. Anyways a few months later my homie set up a pussy appointment for me (some cucks wife wanted to get fucked by a bbc). Worst sexual experience of my life. I never returned to her😷. But I think that might’ve been back in September. Once I get a car I’ll get ba… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 07:14 AM |
| 0 | Struggling with girls in collegeWear a 💍 | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 06:52 AM |
| 3 | How do I ask someone I’m talking to if they want to hookup?Ask if she wants to go out one evening for a couple drinks. While y’all had a COUPLE drinks and loosen up (1hr or so) then suggest y’all finish the night off back to your crib (where the wine is waiting) for a nightcap. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Do women know when a guy is horny as they are dancing on him in the club?I ain’t no professional at this myself but I noticed whenever we all dancing and we lock eyes a couple times they’ll somehow magically end up near me from across the club (if it ain’t super packed). If they’re drunk enough (lit but not plastered) some are aggressive enough to throw it back on me (or my homie) if I don’t go join them. It also depends on the venue and the crowd too. Just some things I’ve noticed 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I personally don’t think (women) are ever honest about their body count especially when they live in a college town. Not really my business so that being said off rip I never leave all my eggs in 1 basket so I don’t have reason to care tbh🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 14 | Need Help and advice: I got friend zoned but i feel like she really wants to be with me, but she friend zoned me... its confusingWhat your doing wrong is that your still hanging out with her. Cut her off. Go get cheeks from someone who will give it to you. She just using you as a self esteem boost. She has ZERO intentions in getting with you. Her eyes are elsewhere. She’s manipulating you into thinking she MIGHT be into you so you stick around in hopes that she MIGHT give up the ass. Do yo self a favor and move on from her and forget she even existed. Whenever I got laid the women made it easy for me to fuck em. They neve… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Guys dating multiple females what do you tell them?I tell them a relationship isn’t off the table for me but right now I want to take things slow. I don’t let them hustle me no matter what. I basically dangle the dog treat in front of them but after a while if they keep annoying me about it they start to notice they get left on read. Then once we see each other again I let her know she was stressing me out and I didn’t like that. Then she gives me make up fuck. And we continue on | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 05:05 AM |
| 2 | How to approach the girl from the gym?She sneakily tries to stare at you through the reflection in the mirror. Goes out of her way to get into your personal space and “exercise” when there’s plenty of space to do said exercise somewhere else. Or she tries to strike up a conversation (but that’s rare) | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How to approach the girl from the gym?Best time is if she’s sending you choosing signals. If not then try to catch her in between sets or at the end of her workout. | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - WomenFor me my emotions can fluctuate depending on how my week is going. If I’m having a good productive week, get a lot done I feel incredible and full of positive vibes. People have told me that they wanted to get to know me for that contagious energy that emanates off of me. It’s always drawn people to me. Well when I was younger my anxiety was through the roof & my self esteem was buried deep under the floorboards. I grew believing I was ugly, unwanted so I used to throw myself headfirst into the… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 0 | How to Play it After Casual HookupI like to sit back n keep it as it is. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it. If she wants more play-play she got my digits and she can hit my line. The balls in her court. Don’t go tryna make it into something it’s not. Don’t go catching no feelings. Keep it strictly Dickly. Give her kitty some time to recover from the punishment it so rightfully deserved so that next time it’s ready to get knocked right back into kingdom come. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 11:27 AM |
| 12 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?I like to ask a lot of questions about her. To get to know what she likes to do for fun, where she likes to go on vacation, and try to relate and connect with her. There’s this 20 questions (I think it was more) game me n my girl played when we were getting to know each other. You basically go back n forth. If I can find the picture I’ll try to send it to you. And the eye contact thing yea it’s actually ok to look away sometimes so it’s not like your staring her down that’s fine. Just relax. You… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 456 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?Well if you goin out to a bar for drinks it’s next to her if you take her out for dinner it’s directly across from her | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Do cities with tough dating environments really make men good with women?I know a lot of dudes from New York who never had problems getting laid because they knew some serious game. So yea I do think that dating environment you learn a few tricks of the trade | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | what kind of stоries are good to tell someone to build rappоrt with them?Pick a relatable story from your life | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 07:13 AM |
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