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I mean this is sexist in multiple regards. 1) if something like this were to be prioritized, it would directly be responsible for more male deaths 2) it’s based on the extremely outdated societal belief that women are inferior and men have to suffer to protect the women. IE: see every war that has ever required a draft
/r/MensRights11/04/20 10:48 PM
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Not a personal attack. I still don’t understand why you can not comprehend that. I’m criticizing you and your way of thinking, yet you continuously ignore it because your feelings are getting hurt. How about you address the very legitimate points I presented, instead of conveniently trying to avoid them claiming hostility?
/r/MensRights24/07/19 08:32 PM
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Quick conversations/setting up a meeting on tinder is the easy part r/upvotedbecauseboobs
/r/seduction07/03/19 05:05 AM
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I came kinda late to the thread so I wasn’t expecting many people to see it. I’m just tired of all the posts attributing lack of success on tinder to tinder being dead. But hey, if that’s what people want to think then more opportunity for me.
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:00 PM
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Nope. I see this same question all the time, so here I go again on my soapbox... I actually think it’s better than it used to be. Back when it was immensely popular everyone thought of it as the hookup app. There was a degree of truth to that, but it was never really an app used to find hookups. There would be people on there looking for hookup, but mostly it was just an avenue to meet people and potentially go on dates. What has changed since then is tinder now isn’t weighed down by as many peo…
/r/seduction19/11/18 01:25 PM
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You know what is infuriating? I wanted to know more about this so I googled Kavanaugh and went to News. Almost every single article is something like “Grassley refers woman who accused Kavanaugh of rap to DOJ, FBI.” Uh fuck no? Call it like it is. Woman (actually use her fucking name) falsely accused Kavanaugh of rape, to be investigated by DOJ.” This is why I fucking loathe the liberal media.
/r/MensRights03/11/18 01:30 PM
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You’re still hung up on the word consent when I clarified earlier that I was speaking more in terms of decision making. You’re so angry, you need to lose your virginity.
/r/MensRights02/11/18 02:30 AM
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You are looking at consent solely in terms of sex. And I did specifically quote “consent” because I did not intend for it to be taken literally. You are too stupid to see that.
/r/MensRights02/11/18 02:08 AM
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Literally commented to one of your first replies explaining how you consent to your own actions and you ignored. You raged and cried along the way, and thus I have ignored pretty much everything you’ve said. I pretty much only read the first sentence of your replies. You’re wasting your time bucko
/r/MensRights02/11/18 01:56 AM
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You can go look through my post and comment history to know that I’ve only been active on Reddit the past 1.5 years (about 20k karma in that time, which is far greater rate of earning than you :) ) Bet you haven’t ever made it to the top of r/all ;) Loving your tendency to boast your own intelligence without proving it. Really cute, bet the ladies loooove it
/r/MensRights02/11/18 01:43 AM
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Almost like people have alt accounts kiddo. I have a feeling something is going drastically wrong in your life. Must be an incel. Sleep tight ;)
/r/MensRights02/11/18 01:35 AM
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r/gonewild
/r/MensRights23/09/18 03:27 AM
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Because I make a comment about not seeing a problem with not banning circumcision and I’m greeted with hostility. Maybe not from you, I lose track when it’s a literal gang bang
/r/MensRights14/08/18 02:21 AM
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So what you’re saying is I can actually last in bed? I’m 24. And I’m pretty dang girthy, if I were any more so sex with my girlfriend would be very difficult.
/r/MensRights14/08/18 12:12 AM
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No I’m not? I see no problem with circumcision. I don’t know how it’s so difficult for some of y’all to believe that two people can’t have different opinions.
/r/MensRights14/08/18 12:11 AM
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Classic backhanded insult when you don’t have anything constructive to say. Get a life kid
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:55 PM
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It doesn’t make it longer LOL
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:24 PM
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It’s skin. Erect size unchanged.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:16 PM
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Deflecting
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:12 PM
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You still haven’t substantiated a single claim, you’re deflecting
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:09 PM
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You realize it doesn’t change the size of your dick? And obviously you’re doing great without those functions, hence it’s useless. And yes, it is how medicine works. You can still get bacterial infections on your penis but having it removed makes it far less likely. I also don’t think you understand what projection means.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:08 PM
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Useless piece of skin, and by doing so will prevent infections in the future. Justified. Easily might I add. You’re probably uncircumcised and salty women prefer circumcised wieners.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:02 PM
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Bacterial infections? Hello? Moist warm area inside foreskin breeds infection. Very difficult to get those infections without foreskin. And no, I disputed your claim. I took it from the very article you read part of to get your “uses” of the foreskin. You have no idea what you’re talking about, probably had to google hitchens razor too
/r/MensRights13/08/18 10:54 PM
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Hitchens razor. Burden of proof is on the accuser. You said it does all these things, but don’t Gabe anything to back it up. Keep trying Bucky
/r/MensRights13/08/18 10:45 PM
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Nice use of google buddy. You could have used anything other than the first result. Uses of the foreskin are obsolete. We aren’t cavemen running around dick flapping in the wind. And it doesn’t increase pleasure during sex. If you read further than just the quick view on google, you would know that the results of those studies are inconsistent and extremely contested. So please, scant more.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 10:40 PM
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I already said somewhere on the thread that there should be no difference between boys and girls in that respect. That wasn’t my point. My point was that there’s nothing wrong with circumcision
/r/MensRights13/08/18 09:51 PM
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Doesn’t impair the function?
/r/MensRights13/08/18 09:50 PM
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Prevents the risk of infection down there. So it does have medical purpose. Guess you agree with me now
/r/MensRights13/08/18 09:49 PM
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That’s not what I’m saying. Not even malnutrition. You give your kids McDonald’s every day and they end up being obese, developers diabetes, and die early. And that’s NOT why I’m saying circumcision is ok. I was using it as a comparison. Don’t twist my words kid.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:57 PM
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Right, I think people are misunderstanding my stance and believe that I think it’s ok for them to ban it with women but not with men. Probably my fault for not clarifying sooner.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:51 PM
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Yes, I do disagree with that. These are so many choices you have to make with raising a child. Feeding them wrong types of food has much more serious long term impact than cutting a small piece of skin off does.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:50 PM
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A tiny piece of of useless tissue that significantly reduces/nearly eliminates the chance of infections. Yes, it’s fine. And I don’t give a fuck if parents want to do that to women. That’s my fucking point. It’s the parents choice if they want to circumcise their child.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:44 PM
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Yes they should, that’s my point.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:41 PM
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I don’t care about female genital mutilation. They are pushing for it against girls, but not against boys and that’s fucked up. But in and of itself, there is nothing wrong with circumcision
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:38 PM
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I said excluding the health concerns of getting tattooed. So why are you bringing it back up? And it’s barely “removable.” It leaves the skin deformed. Circumcision is healthier for the genitals
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:37 PM
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As I stated, it’s a perfectly acceptable decision for the PARENT to make. It’s healthier.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:34 PM
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Tattooing is not even remotely similar in scope. It’s a drastic change in appearance, excluding the health concerns of getting tattooed. I would say it’s similar to getting your daughters ears pierced.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:33 PM
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Within the realm of parents choice regarding their children. Tattooing is not even a good comparison, so do not pretend that it is.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:27 PM
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“Make genital mutilation.” I like being circumcised, and it’s healthier. I don’t see the problem.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:01 PM
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You’re going to cringe
/r/MensRights28/07/18 03:22 AM
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I don’t have it saved. You could probably look through my comments, it’s the only post I commented on in r/feminism
/r/MensRights28/07/18 03:18 AM
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Just because they are raised to power levels does not mean they are the typical ones.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 12:57 PM
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I’m not trying to apologize for feminism, I’m trying to defend the non-lunatics who are having their name dragged through the mud because of the eccentric ones, much like trump supporters names’ have been.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 11:11 AM
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Pathetic? Your the one implying I should apologize for having a different opinion. That’s pathetic.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 10:39 AM
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No, I’m not. I have no intention of apologizing, and I do not care about you opinion. Triggered little boy. Good bye.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 10:05 AM
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Nah, I don’t think they are leaders. They just have the spotlight. I don’t care who publishes what. I could publish whatever I wanted to should I have the money. They and their acolytes can follow the twisted logic, but that doesn’t mean they speak for the majority. I don’t care if it’s an elected official, an author, or some chick sitting behind a computer screen getting triggered. They aren’t the ones who determine what feminism at its core is about. If we didn’t care what the people believe, …
/r/MensRights26/07/18 03:07 AM
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Well, the prefix ‘anti’, by definition, means opposed to. So technically, if I’m anti-feminist, that would mean I’m opposed to feminism. While I am opposed to their form of feminism, I’m not opposed to the concept of it, or some iterations of it. If they want to use the twisted logic “if you’re not with us you’re against us,” then by that definition I would be anti-feminist. However, that is their own determination, and I did not imply it. Basically, they are projecting. At this point, we are ju…
/r/MensRights26/07/18 02:59 AM
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They are just the vocal ones dude. I don’t know any of the crazy ones. Not a single one of my female friends who consider themselves feminists would tell you that without asking. They don’t berate me or my male friends about anything, and we’ve had some very constructive conversations. I feel you and many others in this sub just spend too much time on the internet and base your opinions solely what you see there.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 01:19 AM
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Am I blinded by the circle jerk that is feminism? Is that a joke? Did you see my post, or my comments on their sub? You must be blind. And I’ll take that as a concession that you do believe women were, at times, deprived of their rights. Were they just give to them later, or did they have to fight for them (just like African Americans had to fight for their rights). Are you just so biased against the word feminism that you can’t see that it has, at time, produced positive results? Like, I don’t …
/r/MensRights26/07/18 01:13 AM
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They aren’t leaders of the movement, they are people who hijacked it and got attention due to publicity. Just like that guy who shot up cops in Houston in the name of BLM got all the attention.
/r/MensRights26/07/18 12:59 AM
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So shaming tactics used by women were part of the feminist movement? You don’t think there were any deprived rights they had to fight for?
/r/MensRights25/07/18 11:28 PM
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Feminism during the women’s suffrage movement was absolutely a good thing.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 10:05 PM
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..... the point is that they immediately try and delegitimize my argument by just labeling me “anti-feminist.” I didn’t make an implication whether it was good or bad. I think at its roots, feminism is/was a good movement. And it’s fine if women hold certain beliefs. But the third-extreme bullshit we see a lot of is just the vocal ones - the ones that can’t get off social media. Just like supporters of Donald trump, the ones in the spot light don’t speak for the majority, yet they get the majori…
/r/MensRights25/07/18 09:58 PM
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I have some feminist friends that would agree with the things I said on that comment. The version of feminism we see on Reddit and social media is more like an embellished version of the real movement. Now, I’m not fond of what the actual cause is here, but these characters are extreme.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 09:18 PM
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Only in their delusional minds, but not in reality.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 08:24 PM
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No? That’s a blunt statement. I’m not advocating against women’s rights, or saying they aren’t equal, I’m saying that they can be equally guilty. That’s equality.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 08:18 PM
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Right, but that wasn’t the point. I literally said nothing that was anti-feminist, but their narrative demands that they determine anyone who disagrees with them as being “anti feminist”
/r/MensRights25/07/18 04:47 PM
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No, but in photoshops you look for inconsistencies. IE between the portion in question and its surroundings, and within that portion of the photo itself. There are many inconsistencies
/r/MensRights16/07/18 05:17 PM
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That doesn’t explain why the “ITE - EN” looks darker and smoother than the rest
/r/MensRights16/07/18 04:21 PM
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One looks like it’s marker, the other looks like it was printed. Given that the N’s are different, it obviously wasn’t printed. Which means it was hand made, and that does not look like hand made. Letters are way too full/dark Hell look at the bottom border. It’s darker than the left side border. I’m guessing this said “Ban ______ ________” and someone just changed whatever the second two words were to “white men.” Had to edit the bottom border too.
/r/MensRights16/07/18 03:17 PM
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Really? As someone who never uses photoshop, it looks very photoshopped. I mean, you can just look at the difference in print between this sign and the sign behind it. I know those sentiments exist everywhere and it infuriates me, but I don’t think this particular one is legit.
/r/MensRights16/07/18 02:41 PM
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I shared this post to my Facebook and instantly got criticism because the game has “instant revives” and that undermines medical advancement blah blah blah. I don’t care about inaccuracies with medical advancements. I’m not concerned about that. I’m concerned about men’s issues which are consistently overlooked. I mean, every time I bring these things up it’s the same thing from the criticizers - deflection.
/r/MensRights13/07/18 10:57 PM
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There aren’t many ways to tell unless it’s super obvious. If he’s trying to escalate things physically, IE super strong eye contact into some light touches, he’s flirting for sure. Other than that, for guys that maybe don’t really know how to escalate or just don’t want to be so forward, there is no way to tell. I know I come across as flirty some times when I’m not, just because I strongly believe in eye contact when talking to someone (even with other guys, I will make eye contact) and because…
/r/seduction19/06/18 03:56 AM
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That’s exactly it. When you are out and about, would you be more inclined to hang out with people that are having fun, or that look angry/sad? When you’re having a good time, it’s very inviting to others, men and women. Hell half the time I bring a chick home, she’s the one that approached me. Old me would never get approached. Old me would be standing next to some friends, kinda conversing, but really just looking for a chick I wanted to talk to. When I would find one I would sit there and thin…
/r/seduction18/06/18 07:24 PM
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I mean that’s pretty much what I got into in the second half of that post. I stopped being focused on women so much, as counterintuitive as that sounds. I started focusing on being happy and having fun. There are people who will say “yeah but I can’t be happy unless I’m picking up girls blah blah blah” and that’s complete and utter bullshit. You gotta be happy. And for me, I can’t go out with the intent of getting laid. I go out to have fun with friends. If I find a girl I like, then I can try a…
/r/seduction13/06/18 06:51 PM
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Lol, not having a problem getting a girl when you want isn’t “adequate” it’s stellar. Meaning your game is pretty much perfect and you always get who you want. Adequate would be you can sometimes get girls but it’s no guarantee (which is still a pretty good accomplishment). But that’s kinda irrelevant. My own personal experience: I was a virgin all through college. Through high school I was all about abstinence because of my religious upbringing. Once I moved out for college, my ideals changed a…
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:24 PM
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That doesn’t have any bearing on this conversation. I’ve always been as smart as I am (or am not), but the change came for me after I made physical changes. I didn’t know that it was hard for you to tell that fitness, dress, and grooming are all appearance based and has nothing to do with smarts. So yes, it’s perfectly fine advice. Seems like you’re just looking for excuses to stay the same.
/r/seduction04/06/18 07:55 AM
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There is no way for anyone to tell what kind of job I have based on the way I dress. So I look successful? Absolutely. Am I? I don’t know, that’s part of the mystery. Fact is I have a decent job that pays me ok (I’m firmly middle class), but based on what you would see in public, you probably wouldn’t have any idea. You’re right though. Not everyone is gifted with intelligence. Luckily I am. Not really something. You can develop either
/r/seduction03/06/18 03:41 AM
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When I saw the title of this post, I thought man this looks dumb as fuck. But then I read it and holy shit, you are saying the exact same things I’ve been saying this whole time. People seem to think there some magic words you can say to a girl and get laid. They look for the easy way out, and want a neat little trick. However, they don’t even think about how they need to improve themselves. Trust me fellas, if you put in the time, women will flock to you. I’m not even good at pickup. I suck at …
/r/seduction31/05/18 07:24 PM
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Amazon is notorious for removing reviews for anything that doesn’t support the liberal cause. They sometimes put them back up when people enough people make complaints about it.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 12:29 AM
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All Christians don’t believe premarital sex is wrong, as it’s not explicitly stated in the Bible. In fact, the Bible says sexual impurity is a sin, yet doesn’t quite explain what sexual impurity is aside from sleeping with prostitutes. So maybe you just understand what you’re talking about before you say anything.
/r/seduction09/05/18 11:55 AM
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Maybe don’t lie to people, dude. If you need to lie to get laid, then that’s pretty weak.
/r/seduction09/05/18 11:50 AM
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Mostly social events, but I have been approached on the street before. Whether or not they were flirting or just thought of something they wanted to say, I won’t know. I also take my dog everywhere I go (except when I go drinking) so she is probably the reason for the street approaches, if I had to guess. I also do live in a city there the female population is slightly larger that the male (I think somewhere around the 52-48 margin), so I would guess women feel a little bit more desperate to get…
/r/seduction09/05/18 01:17 AM
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My experience in college...girls are petty there. Still young and immature. If you’re not extremely attractive or in a frat, it’s almost pointless. It’s not until they get into the real world that they realize their pettiness is futile and then they open up to other possibilities. I only had a handful of dates during my time in college. I’m a good looking guy. Not the best, but I’d say I’m far more handsome than average. However, I was not in a frat, and I’m also just average height. No matter h…
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:39 PM
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“I feel sorry for you,” “as you get more mature.” Those are backhanded insults. Don’t pretend their not. And don’t talk about maturity when you’re doing the exact same thing as I am.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 06:04 PM
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You think I’m triggered because of what? I brought the fact that he’s male because this is a men’s rights sub discussing the false accusation of a man. That’s why I included that. And don’t pretend like your backhanded insults are actually out of good nature, I can see right through that.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 05:44 PM
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Lord have mercy. What I’m saying is that once he’s arrested, it’s highly unlikely that they drop the charges before the first court appearance. The American courts are bogged down with cases, it takes forever. Chances are a judge won’t even see the case until he has to make his first court appearance. At that point I can almost guarantee you it will be dropped. This shit doesn’t happen immediately. It’s a corrupt system, but that has to do with the court system and not the fact that it’s a male.…
/r/MensRights04/05/18 05:22 PM
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Right, but this isn’t murder. There isn’t really much accessible hard evidence, besides a rape kit. Being arrested and charged is not the same as being prosecuted.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 04:56 PM
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I’m just saying that the prosecution has to gather all facts they can before dropping charges for such a serious crime. Even when someone comes out and admits to a crime that someone else is charged with, it’s a process to drop the charges against the other individual
/r/MensRights04/05/18 04:27 PM
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Well, because she was arrested and (charged) with making false allegations. Playing devils advocate here, what if her claims weren’t false? That’s what the prosecutors need to be sure of before dropping the charges. It’s dumb, but it’s the legal process. Just because the charges haven’t been dropped doesn’t mean he is going to be prosecuted. I myself have been through something of the nature. Was locked out of my apartment, didn’t have the key, so I broke in. Only problem was I was on the wrong …
/r/MensRights04/05/18 03:36 PM
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Well my recent experience was in a bar, and with friends I go out to bars with...what I’m saying is it’s dumb to make assumptions that just because they are out downtown or dressed up nicely that they are looking to get laid, as the title of this post indicates. You go in with that expectation, you’re more likely to get discouraged.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:56 PM
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I think it’s actually bad to assume that every chick you see out is looking to get laid, that’s a very common misconception. Most of my friend group right now are women, and only one of them goes out and constantly looks to get laid. The other ones actually hate being approached, they are just out with friends. Now I’m not saying that’s all women by any means. I’m merely suggesting that it’s never black and white. Nothing wrong with shooting your shot. When you approach women, don’t have any exp…
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:05 PM
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Yes that is exactly what I’m getting at..
/r/MensRights22/04/18 11:43 PM
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Well I think it’s also important to understand the differences between the punishment charged, sentenced, and served. I couldn’t find a reference on the average charged time for rape, but it’s 9.8 years on average for the sentencing, and 5.4 years for actual time served. The jail time/punishment you are charged with is often the maximum, and in most cases is reduced based on certain factors. 1st time offenders vs repeat offenders is one. How good your lawyer is is another. What I’m getting at is…
/r/MensRights22/04/18 09:13 PM
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I don’t think so. I think it’s an excuse for people to just ignore their issues, and declare that “that’s just the body god gave me”
/r/MensRights13/04/18 07:12 PM
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I was just directing that comment at the people pushing the “love your body” bullshit
/r/MensRights13/04/18 06:39 PM
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Fat acceptance is just an excuse of overweight people to not improve their lifestyle. Me, for one, if I feel like I am unhealthy (which I do now and I’m maybe 10 pounds overweight with a decently muscular build), I want to fix that. I don’t like the fat gathering on my mid section. But those who push for fat acceptance in the guise of self love are really just lazy cowards who want to hide from their problems instead of addressing them. They want society to tell them they are perfect so that the…
/r/MensRights13/04/18 11:45 AM
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Some people say “two 5’s make a 10.” While I don’t agree with that, you shouldn’t always try to out kick your coverage. Does hurt to shoot your shot but don’t always go for the low probability 3 pointers when you can be making the easy lay ups
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:08 AM
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Hey now ugly guys can get some...maybe not from HB10s but being ugly doesn’t mean you can’t pick up some decent looking women :)
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:43 AM
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Don’t just grope random women you find attractive I would say. If you are dancing, she’s more than likely going to give you some sign to get a little ‘closer’ to say the least. If you’re not sure but you’ve been dancing, chatting, just being around each other, touch her arm, or her hip. Gauge her reaction. If she’s not into it, you will know. If she is into it, you will know. From there just make your move. You don’t have to grab chicks by the ass to bring them home. In fact I find it a bit tack…
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:41 AM
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Nah fuck that. It’s not like he needed to do that to help his boy get the girl. She had already decided she wanted to fuck him. It was a spiteful bitch friend that ruined it
/r/seduction26/03/18 12:25 AM
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Don’t get attached so easily. It’s one thing to say I love you early, it’s another thing to get attached to a girl before you go on a date...
/r/seduction23/03/18 12:03 PM
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Oh it’s absolutely not 6 to 1. I would be skeptical to see anything over 1.3 to 1.
/r/seduction17/03/18 10:13 PM
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Well I mean, the population per square mile is off the charts. More women = more matches
/r/seduction17/03/18 10:09 PM
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I myself have had to cancel with short notice (like day of, less than 2 hours until) for legitimate reasons. I’ve had my dog vomit up nails (yes nails, that was a real scare). I’ve also wrecked my car right before. Wrecking your car, completely believable and can happen to anyone but seems a little too “convenient.” I didn’t hear from that girl again. But try telling someone “yeah my dog is throwing up nails and I have to take her to the emergency vet.” It’s so ridiculous that they are almost fo…
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:56 AM
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Here is a tip to help determine fake numbers that I heard (on this sub I think) a little while ago. When you get a number, to make sure it is correct, read it back wrong. IE change one number from a 2 to a 3 or something similar. If she doesn’t correct you, and you read it back wrong, then the number is fake.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:41 PM
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Girls like confidence. You don’t exactly give off that vibe using terms like “should” and “sometime”. Being direct is more desirable, and it gets you a more clear answer. Even if you get denied, it’s better than sitting there with a maybe
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:56 PM
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I did I just don’t look at it in terms of steps to follow, I just generally try to make it natural. Pretty much the same thing but I prefer to keep things fluid instead of like “gotta follow these steps.” Not that that was necessarily you’re intent, but how some people might interpret it
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:09 PM
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I don’t really even use “steps” per say. I just look at how I can lead a conversation towards setting a time to meet. It shouldn’t be forced, it should come naturally. For instance, I have a meeting set up with a tinder girl for sunday. I asked her what her plans were for this weekend, she said she works Friday night and a double Saturday. So I say “we should get coffee or brunch on Sunday!” She agreed and have me her number. Be specific with when you want to meet up. Don’t say something like “w…
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:33 PM
3

That pretty much proves she’s the problem and not the guys...complains she wants more than just sex, then immediately looks for just sex
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:04 AM
5

If it sounds like good advice, it’s worth taking. If it sounds like bad advice, probably is. Go with your gut reaction to people’s suggestions
/r/seduction24/02/18 02:16 AM
2

Pretending to be someone from another country and seeing if I can convince others that I am.
/r/seduction10/02/18 01:33 AM
2

Depends on the area. I go home to visit my parents in the Florida panhandle and I get next to nothing. Some cities I get a lot, some I don’t. It really just depends on the culture of the area. Everyone in Florida seems to be attracted to super cut beach guys, which is not me. Don’t get me wrong I’m in pretty good shape and I’m easy on they eyes, but I don’t fit the archetype that women in that region are generally attracted to. However I head over to east coast cities and I hit those matches lef…
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:29 PM
1

Well there are a limited number of people in your area...so you get those matches, and unless you makes new account, previous ones will not recycle...because you have already matched..
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:26 PM
2

Yep. It’s supposed to look natural and not forced.
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:02 PM
1

Right, that’s fair. I also stick to what my paycheck can afford, figuratively speaking. I swipe no on the incredibly hot chicks. 9/10 times they are fake profiles anyways, and I know there’s a 99% chance they wouldn’t find me attractive enough. I stick with the solid 7.5/8s because that’s about where I am (or so I’m told)
/r/seduction25/01/18 11:29 PM
1

Exactly. My method may be boring but I cut out all the unnecessary shit. After a few messages I say something like “well my LTE is pretty bad right now, I’d love to continue this conversation over text” and then pop my number in. If I get a text, I know where I stand
/r/seduction25/01/18 03:54 PM
13

Well she messaged you first, I think you could have said just about anything
/r/seduction25/01/18 02:45 PM
6

Society wants you to believe that people just fuck all the time. Intimate scenes in nearly every single movie, people bragging about how much ass they get, and just the general belief that women go out and just want to fuck guys. It's not really like that...I have had a couple of one night stands, but the majority of women who I end with reserve sex for a little more intimacy..and there is nothing wrong with that at all.
/r/seduction01/01/18 07:40 PM
4

There's no way that works, or that he has ever gotten that to work. This sub is kind of a catch 22. Tons of guys looking for seduction advice because they need help, and the same guys giving advice when they have no idea what they are talking about.
/r/seduction25/12/17 07:20 AM
9

How would you respond if some random person, say in a class you have, that you think is a decently cook person just asks you to do something but doesn't specify. When you ask for more details, they just say it's a secret? Probably wouldn't respond much to it... The mistake here is that a lot of people think tinder is "just for fucking." It may be for some, but for the majority of people it's not. Very many just get on to swipe and nothing else. Some people just want to chat. Some are looking for…
/r/seduction25/12/17 07:19 AM
3

I think it also matters what type of drunk you are. I'm high functioning, and somehow get more coordinated when I'm drunk? It's a very weird interaction. I will break out dance moves that I don't even think about sober. I don't slur or anything, I just get very talkative and enthusiastic. My brother on the other hand just falls asleep because his body rejects alcohol. So I think it's entirely possible for some people to be crippled by excessive drinking and some people benefit. Christ I sound li…
/r/seduction21/12/17 07:02 PM
19

Maybe it ruins your game, it helps my game. I don't have a problem talking to strangers ever, but when I am drinking, I'm a bit more bold, and more forward. When I'm sober I'm so cognizant of my appearance, and I don't like jeopardizing that just for a shot at hooking up with someone. However, drunk me says fuck it, I will say anything. And drunk me gets more hook ups than sober me. But sober me has gotten more meaningful relationships/dates. I guess it's all subjective and depends on the indivi…
/r/seduction21/12/17 04:04 PM
5

If you ever get a request from someone you don't know, don't accept it. That's like, common sense. I know it's tempting when it's an attractive girl, but if we have like 1 mutual friend (because one of my guy friends is probably a bit vulnerable) or no mutual friends, AND I don't know them, it's almost undoubtedly a catfish. And you don't need to say anything in a Facebook message if you do accept a request from someone you know.
/r/seduction18/12/17 03:49 PM
2

Yeah don't beat women
/r/seduction16/12/17 08:43 PM
3

Lol, so you are just wanna go and see if every girl has a boyfriend? How about you flirt with some girls and they will let you know if they are interested or not.
/r/seduction01/12/17 11:10 PM
2

I'd say "attracted to" and "wanting it" are two different things. But usually the wonky face means attraction, but there are always exceptions.
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:36 AM
2

Macaroni art was the best decision I made, like a 5$ investment
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:03 PM
4

Dude, chill out. I didn't lose my virginity until 6 months after my 21st birthday. Pretty much 2 years ago from this date. I didn't go out during college because I was under 21 and would not get a fake ID. I didn't join a fraternity because I had to pay for my own college, and once I had been on campus a short time realized the large fraternities there were all conceited douche bags who thought they were better than everyone else (and a lot of them used roofies to sleep with women, ironic). I ju…
/r/seduction18/10/17 01:34 AM
6

I can second this. I'm not good with approaches, I'm usually more reserved in general. I get enough success just from being inherently attractive, but recently I was on a drought...well anyways Saturday I saw these two girls walk into the bar that we had hung out with a little the night before. I didn't think anything of it, I just went up and started talking, and by the end of the night I had this spicy little 90 pound hotty in my bed. I'm not even sure I would have called it confidence, but ra…
/r/seduction04/10/17 02:52 AM
5

You know, I've read (and believe) that mean really reach their prime late 20s - early 30s. So g 28 shouldn't be a negative to anyone and you shouldn't view it as that either. You cannot change how old you are, you cannot change how big you penis is, you cannot change what you loon like (to a degree). So don't let what you can't change affect you. Wear it with pride
/r/seduction10/09/17 02:08 AM
10

She wants to give into her temptation, she really does. It's just in the back of her head that you're younger. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have said that. Think about it like a woman who is near cheating on her boyfriend (not that I condone it, but it's a good example). You're both in bed and things are starting to get heavy and she groans a little "ahhh I shouldn't I have a boyfriend." If you were to reply to this like a beta and say "oh well we don't have to if you don't want to," t…
/r/seduction29/08/17 10:27 PM
1

I would say not to watch too much because it can be addicting, but yeah you have to change your mindset. You have to honestly believe that nofap won't do anything for you. I suggest trying a short run every morning, or a cold shower. Convince yourself those things will make you feel good and guess what, they will.
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:09 PM
9

I learned how to have fun on my own. Allow me to explain. I used to be so focused on getting women, and talking to chicks that it really fucked with my head. If the night was getting later and I still hadn't had any success I would just be angry and upset, and it would ruin my night, or day. Eventually I decided fuck it, I need to be having fun all the time. I should try and enjoy things I do no matter the outcome. And I did. I started singing karaoke at bars, I started dancing (in a very terrib…
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:08 PM
8

Yeah I guess but I don't view it as a lot. More than average, sure. But I know a guy who has slept with over 500 women, and that's legit. He works from home and lives in a large city, goes out 4 days a week and usually comes back with a new chick. I have only been getting laid consistently the past year and a half so im nowhere near his level. And yeah mostly new girls. I have had one FWB situation that arose from a hookup that lasted about 2 months, and I had a girlfriend for 6 months so I'm no…
/r/seduction25/08/17 07:06 AM
3

Depends on my mood. For some reason I like to watch chicks get bikini waxed but there's a very limited library of videos for that, so it's the same few videos I watch once or twice a month. Sometimes it's just flashing tits, sometimes it's hard core. The fact of the matter is I can watch nearly anything I want, and I am in control. I can fap without porn but it's a little more difficult because I have to imagine everything. I masturbate maybe once a day, at most, and twice a week at least. I'm n…
/r/seduction25/08/17 07:02 AM
3

Love it. I temporarily live out any fantasy
/r/seduction25/08/17 06:28 AM
9

I masturbate every day and I have plenty of mata hara hoo hoo energy and I feel great.
/r/seduction25/08/17 06:27 AM
17

You gotta factor in that this is an anonymous Internet forum, so nearly everyone that comments "gets laid a lot." I'm not one of those. I don't get laid a lot. I get laid a decent amount, usually once or twice a month. I masturbate nearly every day but never more than once per day. Being horny and not relieving myself just makes me frustrated and anxious. If I didn't, I probably wouldn't last long at all when I did get laid. Think about it. A couple times a month? I would be the most disappointi…
/r/seduction25/08/17 06:26 AM
20

My issue is I don't know what exactly to say...I really have no problem talking to girls, but my results are extremely mixed because I just kinda talk...I don't know what areas I should be focusing on. I get through the initial approach but after that it's hit or miss because I just kinda, you know, talk without escalating it
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:47 PM
1

Lose weight. Yeah sure there are some things you can't change but if you have a round chubby face I guarantee it will improve if you get in better shape.
/r/seduction19/08/17 10:00 PM
1

As with any addiction, it's hard through the first two weeks. That is, anything can become a habit after two weeks of commitment. Just make not-fapping a habit and after two weeks it's second nature
/r/seduction16/08/17 01:34 AM
5

And my standards
/r/seduction16/08/17 12:17 AM
4

I don't think it's fair to quantify this. Losing your virginity shouldn't be about how old you are, it should be about how ready you are. Let me give you a story about myself. Going through high school, I was never one of the "cool kids." I was ok looking, sure, but acne and braces combined with a lack of fashion just took away any appeal I could possibly have with most women. On top of that, I was nerdy and kind of strange. One benefit which I will thank myself forever for was my academics and …
/r/seduction01/08/17 03:01 AM
2

Well I would say if you are dating a girl for 6-12 months and it's not a relationship, then you need to learn how to progress things more. How old are you?
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:43 AM
1

As in you have 6-12 month relationships?
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:51 PM
1

In no branch is basic training only 3 weeks. Quit talking out your fucking ass.
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:05 AM
27

Completely disagree on the "fit" portion...not that don't be fit, but you don't need to be shredded, finely cut, etc. it's actually intimidating, and a lot of very attractive women I know prefer a guy who is a bit more...real. Take fitness seriously, but don't think at all you need to have a 6 pack and 6% body fat to pull attractive women. Im in good shape, no 6 pack, and actually a little love handles. But I'm mmmm built well and I look damn good in my clothes. So please, do not believe you nee…
/r/seduction28/07/17 03:28 AM
1

I agree with the man. When my girlfriend would tell me her friends thought I was cute, I was happy that she was talking to her friends about me. Especially if she said that, I knew she was talking about good things. Her friend coulda just have seen you in a snap and said something, but it's much less likely than her bringing you up to her friend.
/r/seduction27/07/17 08:09 PM
1

I thought this was going to be bullshit, whatever he was gonna say...but then I read he first sentence of the body. Spot on. Once I got over my nerves and just started busting moves on the dance floor I started getting laid pretty frequently. I'm not even good I just had the courage to do it and visibly was having fun
/r/seduction21/07/17 09:52 AM
1

Insecure people care about what others think in regards concerning such petty things. Have confidence in yourself. You are your own person on your own journey, and you have to accept that wherever life has taken you, this is where you are. Enjoy the little things and love yourself, and you will stop caring about what others think.
/r/seduction20/07/17 03:22 PM
1

My experience: no one has ever said yes to meeting up on tinder, yet I have met plenty of girls from tinder. You gotta get it to text. There is some stigma associated with chatting on tinder that is not replicated the same in text. Lots of girls are hesitant to meet up if you ask on tinder, because they are a bit nervous and maybe a little scared. However, establishing that phone connection, for whatever reason, grants a little credibility to your name. Also, I have dropped my number in tinder m…
/r/seduction29/06/17 03:58 PM
8

Case is closed. There is nothing for you here. Pony up ranger.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:10 PM
-8

This is why you fail with women and are subscribed to this sub. You think there is a formula, or a strategy that gets girls. No. It's a combination of likability, personality, and luck.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:26 AM
3

Well you need to have some sort of stable job, it's imperative. Financial struggles are the number 1 cause of divorce in the United States, meaning it makes people unhappy. So not having some sort of job stability/success is going to be a very limiting factor. And you have to be social. How can you expect to meet women if you can't be social? So I'm short, those two things are kinda non-negotiable. There are other things that can bring happiness but at minimum you need those.
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:52 AM
17

Thank you for this. That is the problem I see most, and that is a problem I experienced: searching for a girl instead of searching for happiness. I used to get my head so wrapped around getting chicks, and so determined to pick up chicks, that failure to do so always lead to despair. There were times when I was pretty depressed. I had read plenty of "you need to love yourself before you love others" and I thought it was just a bunch of cliche bullshit. Then I realized what it really meant: your …
/r/seduction24/05/17 02:38 AM
1

Yes. My type is the same way. She understood it takes time to develop feelings, and that is why we waited a few weeks to have sex. And guess what? The sex wasn't great. But we had feelings for each other. We worked through it, figured it out, and developed compatibility. Too many of you feel if sex isn't good immediately it is never going to be good. Sexual compatibility can be developed just as much as it can exist naturally. And your last little paragraph there is...exactly what you see people…
/r/seduction22/05/17 04:13 PM
2

Maybe for some people. But this just isn't true. My cousin waited, and she has the one of the happiest marriages. My other cousin waited as well, and she is due in October for their first child. I did not try to advocate waiting. I simply expressed that it wasn't even remotely accurate that "girls will sleep with guys 2-3 dates in." Some may. some may was to wait. Some may want to spend at least a month together. Who knows. It's not so simple as a number or a formula.
/r/seduction22/05/17 04:05 PM
1

That is fair, I actually thought this was coming from r/dating advice. However, it could be his goal to seduce her, when she may have no interest in being seduced. My comment was more aimed at the "girls sleep with guys after 2-3 dates" because that is just ridiculous. It is one of the most specific generalizations that is just completely false. To be honest, it kind of triggered me, and I hate to admit that
/r/seduction22/05/17 10:24 AM
1

It's one thing to say you disagree, it's another to actually provide reasons to support your claim. It wouldn't be "open minded" of me to say you are right, all women do go home with guys after 2-3 dates. That would just be prejudicing. Since you have a "type", what is that type?
/r/seduction22/05/17 08:14 AM
3

Ridiculous to generalize women this way. One of my best friends girlfriends wants to wait until marriage, and I have 2 other friends who are the same way. I had a girlfriend a year and a half back who didn't even want to kiss until about the 4th date, and we didn't have sex until about a month in. That is the problem with modern dating, you people think there is some sort of mold that each sex falls in, and that there is some sort of of formula that when followed will equal success. The only thi…
/r/seduction22/05/17 04:45 AM
1

Just focus on enjoying yourself. I used to put too much emphasis on meeting girls and getting laid that I would never have fun going out with friends. I realized this, changed my approach. When I focus on getting girls, it's all I think about, and as the night goes on my chances get smaller, and it begins to put me in a bad mood. Then I I decide to just stop giving a shit. What happens? I enjoy a night out with friends, I stop caring about how the night ends, and...I start getting attention from…
/r/seduction16/05/17 03:37 AM
6

He said he personally thinks waiting is pointless...but his reasoning is presented as fact. When he said "one of two things will happen" that is 100% a statement presented as fact. OP is saying his opinion is derived from these facts, which are not facts. They are anecdotes. Anecdotes are not facts and cannot be used as evidence.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:08 AM
15

This is a matter of opinion. Don't try and make it fact. You may think its pointless, and that is probably the popular opinion, but that doesn't mean others don't have enough justification for themselves. Let me ask you, what experience do you have to say that someone is going to have a fetish and ruin their relationship? Do you have statistics on this, or is it a blind conjecture? I'm guessing the latter? My cousin waited 3 years until marriage and she and her husband have a wonderful marriage.…
/r/seduction15/05/17 09:16 PM
3

You know you are fulfilling her needs when that happens. It's great
/r/seduction20/04/17 11:55 PM
4

If you are wondering whether or not you are good at it, you will know when you can actually feel the juices running down your dick and into your body because she is so wet.
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:59 PM
2

That's like a couple points over 50%
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:52 AM
1

I wouldn't classify making an assumption as condescending, but yes I agree. Assuming he is from the US could very well be a mistake.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:03 PM
1

Actually, I commend you for digging that up. You must have spent a lot of time doing that.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:52 PM
1

Maybe you should read the context of my other comment. Consent laws can be very detailed, and are rarely every just limited to an age. I was just cautioning him on some other restrictions.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:51 PM
-1

Oh hey you're not the 15th person who said that. Read my other comments and understand the context.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:34 PM
-1

I mean, I'm getting bombed wth downvotes. It don't really care if they like me or not. The majority of people on here are looking for help because they struggle with women, and they still try to give advice. I try to help where I can, but sometimes people will just ignore you because it's not what they want to hear.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:08 PM
-10

People still aren't understanding what I'm saying...but I've noticed this sub is more hostile than others. So many mindless subs who see a downvote and immediately jump on the train. I guess that's what lack of female contact will do to some people...
/r/seduction18/04/17 03:20 PM
-4

I read his post, the way it was worded made me think that he just thought age of consent is 16 regardless...I see so many people comment on posts like these "age of consent is 16" when in reality, it differs per state...in fact the federal age of consent is 12, with restrictions. Furthermore, states make their own consent laws. I just thought his comment was too general and he might be misinformed.
/r/seduction18/04/17 03:19 PM
-2

Ugh. Yes. But age of consent laws are much more detailed than just "16." Usually the 16 applies to people under 18.
/r/seduction18/04/17 03:12 PM
-9

I was trying to caution him. Most age of consent laws are not just "16 you can have sex." For instance, where I live the age of consent is 16. However, if you are 21+ it is 18. Most people would just look up age of consent for my state, see 16, and think they are in the clear. By the way he posted it, it seemed like he just read the minimum. Consent laws are detailed.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:31 PM
0

He just stated the age of consent is 16, like a lot of people say on these threads regardless of location.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:28 PM
-17

Probably the exact same way that all these retards "know" the age of consent is 16 where he lives.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:27 PM
3

He's getting downvoted because a lot of these guys are desperate and lonely, and will take any girl that comes their way. So they take it personally when someone says you shouldn't see this girl.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:27 PM
-70

"Age of consent is 16"...you do realize it is determined at the state level, and many are different? You are going to get yourself in a lot of trouble or get someone else in trouble if you keep saying that.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:25 PM
-74

Because the age of consent differs with each state. How do you know it is 16 where he is?
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:19 PM
-59

Congrats, I'm glad you are happy. What does that have to do with this though? This girl he is talking about is looking for FWB, not a relationship.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:18 PM
0

Because there is no universal age of consent. It's state dependent. You can get in lots of trouble if you break a consent law.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:03 PM
1

You better not just listen to these people without looking up consent laws. Some states are lax, some are more restrictive. I know where I live, age of consent is 16 unless one party is 21+, then it's 18. You could get in serious trouble.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:02 PM
3

You claimed you didn't present your opinion as fact, though it clearly was. Yet, you still believe you know what you are talking about. You are obviously delusional
/r/seduction05/04/17 06:43 PM
2

"At its core, both sexes want EXACTLY the same thing...but that's life" that statement was presented as fact. Do you even know what you are saying, or are you just writing words that you think make you sound intelligent?
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:24 PM
4

And what makes your opinion any more relevant than mine? Statistically, your anecdotal opinion is irrelevant, sorry.
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:13 PM
30

That's absolutely false. It's not the same as what makes men want to fuck women. Lots of the time men just want to fuck, and while more attractive girls are preferred, lots of guys will "settle" for much less just to get a nut. I KNOW most girls aren't like that.
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:48 PM
2

It's impossible to be "really into" someone just based of tinder conversation. They may be very interested, but a simple "I voted for Trump" or "I voted for Clinton" type post could be a turn off to an opinionated individual. Being very opinionated myself, I don't like holding these conversations or these opinions of mine being visible to people I am not comfortable discussing them with.
/r/seduction03/04/17 07:03 PM
1

I know this move....I actually delete my opinionated stuff and untag myself from bad photos before I add them. I usually delete the bad pictures anyways but I double check in this case. I definitely delete any recent political posts...
/r/seduction03/04/17 06:12 PM
1

I don't know, nothing in particular just whatever comes to mind. I.E. and unscripted conversation.
/r/seduction30/03/17 02:51 AM
2

Instead of editing because you probably wouldn't notice, I'm going to write it in reply. She's look for followers or she is giving you another means to look at more photos of her.
/r/seduction29/03/17 06:49 PM
2

I agree, you need to develop some sort of system to weed out ones you aren't interested in. However, the way he presented it was prejudicing towards people for no apparent reason. Girls with horses in their pictures have baggage? What the hell?
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:28 PM
5

"Her profile is only her Instagram handle" then goes on to say this means she thinks her face/tits/ass is enough. You really think that is true? It's entirely a prejudice. Same with the horses. I will give him the where's Waldo reference...I don't bother with profiles that only have group pictures. But then again, with the animal filter...99% of girls who use Snapchat use the damn animal filters because they think it's cute. Yeah, it's annoying, but it doesn't have anything to do with their matu…
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:50 PM
3

A lot of chicks just like to browse. Like window shopping at the mall. If all or most, hell even half of the girls that use tinder were just looking to fuck then I would have banged 500 chicks by now.
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:32 PM
10

I feel like the people who say "tinder is just for hookups and sex" haven't actually met any of their matches, otherwise they would know this is rarely the case
/r/seduction29/03/17 12:54 PM
14

"I love to have fun" well that is fucking good to know
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:47 AM
-10

This is entirely his conjecture. I can almost guarantee he has met next to none of his tinder matches, which are probably few.
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:46 AM
12

Actually a lot of people. I have slept with a couple tinder matches, but my current girlfriend I met on tinder (I was not looking for this, it just happened).
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:45 AM
2

Ok, let's be fair here. You can't blame women for some of these things when men are equally egregious on dating apps of abusing certain aspects of photography to make themselves look better. Some of these methods of spotting fake profiles are good, but your bit on camera angles and filters applies to everyone. Everyone wants to put their best photos up, even if they don't entirely look like them. I have met a couple tinder matches that told me I don't look like my pictures. They both said I look…
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:44 AM
23

Yeah, sounds fabricated. Also, if those are your best openers you have a lot of work to do. My best opener is "Hi, I'm Joey" because that is all you need to say. Nothing clever, no gimmicks. Just polite and straightforward.
/r/seduction29/03/17 09:54 AM
1

Move on, forget about it. She's not worth your time. If there is a legitimate excuse she will try to get in contact with you.
/r/seduction28/03/17 07:33 PM
2

Yeah I was raised religious, though nothing like what you experienced. My mom was very adamant about "sex is for marriage" but hell wasnt brought up in reference...anyways, I didn't do much until I lost my virginity at 21. My beliefs are still the same in a way, but I began to interpret the Bible differently that what they tell you in church...the whole "sex is for marriage" isn't even in the versions of the Bible in familiar with, it just talks about purity. I feel like the whole notion of wait…
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:33 PM
1

Maybe you need to rethink your strategy. Get different profile pics, bio, openers, etc. I find it's not hard at all to get matches. Getting replies is more tricky but I have a feeling you are one of those "hi" or "what's up" kind of guys. Especially with girls that get lots of matches and messages, you have to stand out.
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:52 AM
2

That's online dating in a nutshell though. So many fake accounts, people who are just "bored," or people dont use it seriously. If you are social and confident enough, meeting people will always be easier in public and in person. Tinder is just a way to supplement that, especially for those who are very busy and don't get out much.
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:50 AM
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I currently have 203 matches and I've gotten dates from maybe 7 or 8. But I haven't tried to get dates from all of them. I probably only messaged half, and out of the ones I actually tried to have a decent conversation with and get in a date, I've succeeded with about 50% of them
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:36 PM
1

I would also like to add: a clean haircut and good fashion sense, especially when coupled with fitness, can drastically improve your looks. Hell, I always had bags under my eyes and was tired, I started to prioritize sleep, the bags went away, and I instantly jumped from probably a 7.5 to a 9/10. I know it sounds a little conceited, but that's just what I was told by some female friends I asked to rate me once the bags disappeared. Take care of yourself, women like that.
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:15 AM
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Similar to what M4verick87 said....you need to put less pressure on yourself to talk to women. I used to have similar problems. Not as drastic as yours, but I couldn't talk to women easily. Eventually I stopped giving a shit about that. When I went out, it's because I wanted to go have fun with some friends, but because I was trying to pick up or talk to girls. If you focus on yourself, everything else comes more easily.
/r/seduction09/03/17 05:56 PM
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This is r/seduction, not r/datingadvice
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:07 AM
0

Right. I think good game, personality will only get you so far with women. This ugly goofy mother fucker, no matter how good his game theoretically is, could not game as many beautiful chicks as he claims to.
/r/seduction05/03/17 03:09 PM
0

I question the candidness of infield videos. Value of content aside, I just don't think most of them aren't pre-planned.
/r/seduction05/03/17 03:05 AM
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I've read this article. Overall, pretty good. I have out some of it to practice. The biggest point that this article nails has to do with openers...you gotta be unique. You gotta give them something they don't hear from everyone else. Also, cutting out the bullshit is good too. Don't text back and forth too long or it will probably my go stale. Maybe 10 messages between the two of you at most and then you should be trying to meet up with her. If she isn't ready for that, she will ask to get to k…
/r/seduction01/03/17 04:13 PM
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That's something I learned to do on tinder (the only online dating I use, least effort greatest rewards in my opinion). Always send messages that are unique. Something that will make you stand out from the herd
/r/seduction28/02/17 02:23 PM
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Probably because they are the cucks sending generic and or creepy messages online
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:53 PM
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You obviously don't know then. Sometimes, it's not a matter of truth or fiction, it's a matter of not wanting to sound like a braggart. Perception is reality, and sometimes when we talk about ourselves, especially with something so impressive, it sounds like we are vain and pretentious. For instance, I am a pilot (not some guy who has flown 25 hours in Cessna, but an actual rated aviator. That is my job). Sometimes it doesn't sound like I'm just talking about my job, it sounds like I'm trying to…
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:04 PM
1

Is that what you meant? What I read was "I'm mad that you are a fucking badass but don't want to be a pretentious douche"
/r/seduction14/02/17 10:27 PM
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It's a very real problem for some of us. You wouldn't have this issue with your GED and Keyboard Warrior certification though.
/r/seduction14/02/17 09:35 PM
1

I have the same problem. Well similar. I'm a UH60M Blackhawk pilot. Whenever someone asks me what I do, I'm left with two options. Tell them I'm in the army (which I don't like doing because of preconceived notions about the military) or tell them I'm a pilot. If I tell them I'm a pilot then it just sounds like I'm trying to brag, like I planned the conversation out to go in a certain direction so I could tell then how much of a badass I am. (Realistically, my job is pretty badass, but I don't s…
/r/seduction14/02/17 09:30 PM
2

It doesn't sound like you're confident, man. If you were confident you would try to escalate things with the women you are interested in. I have been the same way, though. I wouldn't describe myself as confident usually, but sometimes I muster just enough courage to go for something. Getting turned down is only part of it. As my dad often tells me, you learn through failure, not success. The more you try, the more chance you have at success. A Sebastian from the Little Mermaid says: kiss the gir…
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:47 AM
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I will agree that calling right away is weird... it calling in general isn't. I actually knew a couple of girls that would call me when I texted them because that's what they preferred. Sometimes it's nice to talk to someone instead of just reading text on a screen.
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:37 AM
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Maybe she's sitting there wondering "I wonder if he is gonna text me?" Don't play into the game. If you wanna know, text her. Be the proactive one (in this scenario). It would be different if you have already been trying to contact her, but if you want to see her again, try.
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:34 AM
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I just think you could have tried to reschedule instead of straight up saying you don't want to go there. She was probably gets a lot of attention so to her it's just like, whatever onto the next one
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:12 PM
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Yeah the way you told her you don't want to go there definitely makes it sound like you're not really interested in her. I think you should have sought advice before, not after, this exchange.
/r/seduction05/02/17 01:51 PM
2

There's actually a very logical answer: it can be embarrassing to people. Why do you think people post on a mostly anonymous forum instead of talking in person about it? For instance, my brother came across one of my posts that made it to the front page a while back. It was a drawing he did when he was on acid. Because of the nature, he asked me to delete it (which I didn't) because didn't want there to be a chance that people he knew would see it. The sketch was funny, but it was primarily the …
/r/seduction02/02/17 12:45 AM
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I personally like to practice talking to everyone so conversations come more naturally when I'm interested in a lady...as in try to smile and say hi to everyone I walk by, when I'm waiting in line for something or waiting somewhere just say hello and start yo a conversation no matter who I'm next to. I do this when I go out to bars too, just talk to everyone. It just helps me get into the Rhythm of talking to strangers so it becomes easier when I'm actually attracted to someone. Relieves the pre…
/r/seduction27/01/17 03:15 PM
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Also what kind of compliments? If you just go up and tell them they are beautiful, they might see this as you trying to get in their pants. Maybe just try and talk about something relevant to everyone (like a class talk you're in together, or something happening on campus). Just don't give off the vibe that you have some sort of angle on them, or are trying to accomplish something other than just asking.
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:27 PM
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To me this is a pretty good method. Some girls want attention, but not TOO much attention at the start. If you are too heavy, back off. If she's into you, she will text you.
/r/seduction24/01/17 07:07 PM
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Lots of the time I call bullshit when people brag about their pickup game...but this is gold and I believe you 100%. I feel lots of girls will say these bullshit excuses to not go home with someone, even if they actually want to. They don't want to look like a whore around their friends, even though they all look for dick here and there...so they makeup these soft excuses why they can't, and you address that directly so that those objections are worthless.
/r/seduction18/01/17 09:47 PM
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For me, I have found most tinder profiles with no information on them to be fake. I have come across so many profiles with gorgeous women that are from "New York University" even though I live in Georgia. Be weary of that.
/r/seduction18/01/17 09:00 PM
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Not at all. Not attempting to make myself "look bigger." And I'm not putting anyone down. I'm simply stating my opinion that I don't think most of these videos are very helpful.
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:20 AM
1

I think examples of how you approach women and how you ask them out would be beneficial here. I was somewhat similar, kept getting rejected or avoided, and I just stopped being needy. I would meet a girl, get her number, and force myself to keep texting to an absolute minimum. I will have some good conversations, but once the conversation is viably over I stop for a while. It's hard because I want to keep talking, but if you force it chances are women will recognize the neediness. Then I just ca…
/r/seduction11/01/17 06:23 PM
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No, I'm not surprised some people need more guidance. Im surprised people sit down at some sort of class/seminar for seducing women. As if they are some sort of robot, and you just gotta do X and you get in there panties? I actually came to this subreddit because I was looking to improve my game with women, and videos like this didn't help it all. They try to teach you that there is some pattern or formula you can follow and boom! You're in her panties! And I finally figured out why they weren't…
/r/seduction11/01/17 10:48 AM
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Because different things work for different guys, and different things work for different girls. See, for me, I don't get much out of passionless sex. So I'm not really into "hooking up." I prefer to wine and dine a bit and develop some sort of emotional connection before I attempt to have sexual relations. So getting things sexual right off the bat isn't really my jam. That's not saying it can't be effective, it just isn't for me because it doesn't reflect where I want my encounter to go. I gen…
/r/seduction11/01/17 12:15 AM
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Can't believe there are classes for this. I've found it's easier to pick up girls if you focus on yourself. That is, focus on having a good time and don't think too much about picking up girls. It's too much pressure to try and implement some system or strategy. Remember, women are humans just like us. They aren't robots, so some code isn't going to work 100% of the time. I don't even think about it and I do pretty good for myself!
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:01 PM
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I agree with the first comment the most. It is possible, but every girl has their preference and we just have to accept that we really aren't going to be able to get any girl out there. It is just a matter of fact that girls are into certain types guys just as we each are into certain types of girls. You could have the best game and just not be what they are into. Your body shouldn't hold you back, but you will have to figure out what type of girls are into that.
/r/seduction13/12/16 03:03 PM
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It's one thing to say it's another to do. Why doesn't this guy actually show some of his game with women? I don't believe anything he says without actually seeing it in practice.
/r/seduction05/12/16 12:28 AM
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It's true. Some guys, no matter what they do, will not be able to pick up women. They could be the smoothest, best dressed, most likable guy. Yet they could be ugly as hell and stand no chance. So I generally hate the idea that "anyone can do it" and "you just have to develop the right mentality" because that is not the case. If you're handsome and can carry a conversation then sure, but that isn't a large percentage of the population we are talking about.
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:37 AM
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Exactly. My roommate in college, average looking guy (he was quite different though and kinda annoyed me a lot) came home one night with this absolutely SMOKING hot girl. Like, one of the hottest girls I've ever seen. Neither of them had been drinking at all, in fact they came from the dining hall. I then listened through the wall as he fucked her. He didn't go up and tell her how beautiful she was, he tried to be funny, and she thought he was funny (I never thought he was funny). Point is, he d…
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:15 AM
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You know, I'm tired of reading posts like these. There is no fucking tried and true method to get the girl of your dreams. There is no cheat code, there is no magic trick. It is going to be different in every scenario. Sometimes, no matter what you do, you won't have a chance. Other times, it won't matter what you do, you will succeed. The only thing you CAN do is try. Be yourself. If it's not meant to be, it's not going to work out and you should not pretend to be someone who you aren't, becaus…
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:10 AM
1

What the hell does infield mean? I haven't been able to figure that out
/r/seduction21/11/16 04:13 AM
1

Well, I think she has just been looking for weed the whole time. As in she wants you to give her weed. I notice stoner girls do this a lot. The tease you on tinder and snapchat, when they really don't give a shit about you. (Before you jump to conclusions, guys will do the same shit with other guys. Pretend to be cool with you, pretend to be interested in you when all they want is drugs).
/r/seduction21/11/16 04:10 AM
2

I think there are some caveats...for instance, I was planning on meeting up with a girl. She actually invited me out with her friends. Told me to head in town and she would tell me where they were (as they hadn't left yet). Well I get close to town, still no response from my last text. I send another one since I wasn't gonna sit in my car just waiting on the word, and she responds. I meet her, we have a little bit of chemistry, and I don't go home alone. I would say there are not rules to double…
/r/seduction21/11/16 04:06 AM
1

I would argue with some of your fitness points...if you want advice on fitness go to r/fitness, they have tons of great stuff. Everything else though seemed pretty good
/r/seduction15/11/16 11:27 PM
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I did not read this entirely, but I can confirm it. I'm not usually one for hooking up or taking women home from the bars, but the times it has happened I was never thinking about it. I was just out having fun with friends with no ulterior motives, yet I found myself waking up with women I previously did not know.
/r/seduction04/11/16 09:58 PM
1

I don't know about him, but I saw your willingness to help so I figured I would throw in my answer. I don't know what to say to start out. I have no problem carrying on conversations, and I'm pretty smooth and witty. It's just the first step that throws me off, I always overthink it.
/r/seduction18/10/16 06:43 AM
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Well I don't know what to tell you. There's no formula, you are not going to read something that will magically make you a pussy slayer. You just have to get out there and try.
/r/seduction11/10/16 04:32 PM
1

Don't go up to any woman with the expectation of kissing her, or going home with her. For instance, I really like to go to clubs. I am always one of the first people dancing, and I always end up dancing with someone. However, I get out there and make some fun out of it, then women don't seem so taken aback if I try to dance with them. They've already seen me dancing, they know I'm just out having a good time. This way it doesn't look like I'm just seeking an excuse to grope them. Same thing with…
/r/seduction11/10/16 04:43 AM
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Well you gotta think about it another way. All girls don't go out looking to get Dick. Especially with the state of hookup culture. Girls are very keen to knowing when guys are trying to pick them up. If you are trying to run game, chances are they will know it. That's why I just go out to have fun. I have this mentality, and whether or not I talk to any girls that night I'm going to have fun
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:48 PM
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Get a haircut. Groom yourself. Wear nice clothes. Don't look like everyone else, stand out. Fuck, I wear tight white pants and a salmon shirt wth a nice watch. Guys tell me I look like a fag but what they don't know is that I am fucking their girlfriend (true story, dude calls me a fag and I've been banging his chick for a month)
/r/seduction09/10/16 06:04 AM
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Stop focusing on what you have to do. Stop focusing on the end result. Seriously just be yourself. I have absolutely terrible game, and I really question all the bullshit 'tried and tested' techniques people spout out on here. Believe it or not, women can tell when a man approaches and tries to run game on them. Some of em don't mind and are flattered by it. Others are seriously turned off and think we are misogynist pigs because, you know, the patriarchy. If you are just out having a good time,…
/r/seduction09/10/16 06:02 AM
1

Sorry, autocorrect. Supposed to be unattractive
/r/seduction08/10/16 06:00 PM
1

I don't think anyone has ever argued men need hair to be successful. This is r/seduction. It's about sex. Not about winning at life. It's kind of a moot point, what you are arguing. It's completely irrelevant.
/r/seduction07/10/16 04:22 PM
1

That's also a bad example. He also has the fame and money. He's not your average guy. I don't even know why this is s discussion though, there are plenty of women (albeit usually more mature) that love a bald man. In my opinion is all comes down to sexual attraction and personality. Hair isn't necessarily a turnoff but an innate active character is.
/r/seduction06/10/16 07:39 AM
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From what I understand, OP wants a submissive woman. Sorry buddy, American women are very independent and aren't just gonna open your pants because you have a [likely tiny] penis
/r/seduction27/09/16 06:12 PM
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You, my friend, sound like the exact type of person I want to go to the bars with. Any people who want to say you're misogynistic, fuck em. For every guy out there who wants to run game, there is a girl out there who wants to get fucked. I don't exactly have the best game, and struggle with approaching women, but I have some similar success stories. If you're ever near Savannah GA circa 2017, hit me up.
/r/seduction19/09/16 02:27 PM
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I can talk to anyone once I start talking...I just struggle with opening. I hate failure and rejection is failure, which really fucks with me
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:28 PM
2

What the guy failed to mention is that a lot of the guys who develop this "entitled to hot chicks" mentality in high school often peak in high school, leaving said hot chicks for us who become successful and learn how to finally talk them :)
/r/seduction13/09/16 02:48 AM
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Just want to add my take on this...get the concept of "out of your league" out of your fucking head. From personal experience, girls are not as concentrated on a mans looks as it is in reverse. As long as you are in decent shape and clean up well, then the rest is all how you play the game. For example, this pat Saturday night I went home with the most beautiful girl I had ever laid hands on. Straight up 9.5-10. I'm like an 8 on a good day. All I did was be the goof that I am. Granted, I had a c…
/r/seduction12/09/16 11:22 PM
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My biggest issue is how to approach a girl when she's around other people. For instance, I was Ina club a couple of weeks ago, having a good time. Went out with 8 other people, piled 7 of us in my car, I was driving. I had it in my mind that no matter what, it wouldn't be feasible to try and take a girl home or anything. We were also 40 minutes from my house. Anyways I'm dancing, having a good time. I have a pretty unique dancing style, so goofy that you just have to laugh. My friends kept tryin…
/r/seduction26/08/16 01:39 AM
1

Nice
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:47 AM
1

K
/r/seduction25/08/16 01:14 AM
1

How am I supposed to reply to that?
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:43 PM
1

I will still try to keep it relatively brief, as I am on my phone. I live in a small town in Alabama, the tinder game is beyond weak hear. Been here almost 2 years, so most of the time I have been using tinder has been since I moved here. However, there is no point here, and I only open the app when I travel (only on the weekends). So often times I open the app when I get somewhere worth using it. However, it takes time to match with someone and when I get a response, it's too late. I'm gone. Pr…
/r/seduction24/08/16 05:42 AM
1

Like I said, I'm content. I doubt you want a detailed explanation of why so let's just leave it at its ok, I guess?
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:56 AM
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I mean, I haven't been all that serious about it, just kinda fun to talk to people...based on my effort, I'm ok with the results. Could be better, could be much worse.
/r/seduction24/08/16 01:24 AM
1

In my experience with tinder I have never seen even a large percentage of women looking for hookups. They were almost entirely on there just for fun, to talk to people and really not come anywhere from it. I've probably had over 500 matches on there (been using it off and on for a couple years) and I have met maybe 5. One led to a brief relationship and 2 led to sex, but the countless other ones I talked to or tried to talk to usually ended with a couple comments (or no response). I think people…
/r/seduction22/08/16 06:46 PM
1

I don't think there is any data to suggest most people are looking for relationships...
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:13 PM
1

I feel like most people bashing Tinder on here are just mad because they get rejected. I find tinder awesome, but you really gotta travel. If you travel a lot, doesn't even have to be far just a couple of hours every other weekend or so, then you can really utilize their location feature (yes you have to pay, but it's worth it for me). About a week before going somewhere, change your location to there and start swiping. Put in the work before you travel, that way when you get there you've alread…
/r/seduction06/08/16 02:40 PM
2

Just don't take it too fast. Chances are you won't last long once you actually reach penetration. However, that's not always the case. I lost my virginity recently to my (now ex) girlfriend. (I'm 21 btw). She had had multiple partners. I actually didn't finish and she did, so that is something to put on my resume. However, you don't need to focus on making sure she gets all the pleasure. It's too much pressure for the first time. As long as she knows she is your first, that is. Most girls really…
/r/seduction21/01/16 02:37 AM
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