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| 1 | Should I pay evrything on a date??Depends on if you like them, ask them to pay half of you're not that into them. I mean you're probably never gonna see them again so why bother, it's direct enough to say let's end this here. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 03:11 AM |
| 7 | Why are guys so hung up on "not having anything in common"?Younger people are more brainwashed by society, media, and public schools so I get a lot of backlash for going after younger people. But you can literally do whatever you want. All those young men watch way too much stepmom porn to not actually want to try it in real life. I wouldn't care as an older person, you hit your thirties and realize life is short. Honestly do whatever you want. | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 10:41 PM |
| 5 | How can I get a date/number in the workplace without getting fired?Damn the advice here is abysmal, just be alone forever OP. Jk ask them out for drinks on a Friday night or the last day of your shift sprint if that applies, if you don't know them that well then invite other people too. Say it like, "Do you want to get drinks after work? I'm going to [place] later". They may say yes and not show up anyways, that's a good starter conversation for Monday, "Hey why didn't you go we had a lot of fun! Were you tired?". I make plans and get too tired to go many times… | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateYea also, go for drinks but don't drive her. She will drink your wallet away and make you drop her off. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 11:48 PM |
| 3 | 30+ datingI think they're focused on their careers 😞 I used to do that and realized there's no getting ahead unless you're connected or kiss ass. So I just live below my means and enjoy what time I have left as the world feels like it's falling apart. I definitely have been going out more so that's nice, I used to be a shut in, and I fear the women in my generation are still there. I feel l have to force myself to like younger women, but I feel like a weird pervert anyways, and I don't think they're inter… | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 09:37 PM |
| 5 | 30+ datingYea but dating apps are trash, but when you go out everyone is early 20s or early 40s. There's nobody around my age out and about. I'm finding it very difficult. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:13 AM |
| 8 | At what point do you guys bring things like flowers to girls you're seeingSecond date if the first date went well and I really like them. First date no, you don't know if they're worthy of flowers, and it's a little cringey. Also how they handle the flowers is a test, if they say thanks and put them to the side then they're no good, if I suggest they wear one on their ear that's a plus, if I suggest it and they think it's a weird/lame idea then they're no good, if they do it without suggestion then it's a double plus. But I'm a romantic that can't keep a relationship … | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Yea and the women at the bars are usually in their 20s though, it's just what's available. They're very pretty but that's where it ends, they don't have any stories to talk about and what they're interested in is Taylor Swift and Justin Bieber. It's just lame. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 11:48 AM |
| 245 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Yes and the 20 year olds don't know what they're doing anyways. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:32 PM |
| 2 | What are some signs that a woman might be willing to be a side chick ?Well he said it keeps happening across women. I'm guessing he gets a new relationship, the novelty fades, and then both partners find new ones. If that's what he wants maybe he should try a grand gesture, if she still doesn't do it then talk to her about it. Ask her what happened? But don't cry, don't be pushy, just maybe there's something easy like buying flowers that will do it. Buy chocolate on her period. How long have you been dating? How many times have you said you love her? | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 03:40 AM |
| -3 | What are some signs that a woman might be willing to be a side chick ?You could become swingers. She gets someone new (temporarily), you get someone new (temporarily), everyone gets that new relationship energy. If you meet another couple already initiated then you could just do an easy swap. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable?Put your legs across his thighs while y'all sit on the couch. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 01:32 AM |
| 3 | How did #metooo effect your dating life and approach to women?I guess some of the women I dated started dying their hair. But I was getting laid a lot more when contraception was more accessible, now it's like the dating scene is dead. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Mistaking my approached an underaged girlIt sucks getting older and your eyes are more worn, and everyone's wearing tons of makeup, it's so discouraging to try. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 12:49 AM |
| 10 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barIf you're just asking what's your favorite x then you're not having much of a conversation, you need to ask why is that your favorite, so you can get more understanding of the underlying philosophy of that person. Fair warning, you're going to find out most people are lame. What's my favorite color? Red. Why? It's the color of passion, love, and fire to me. It's exciting to me. What's your favorite color? Blue? Why's that your favorite color? She said idk I've just always liked blue. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Checking out female tinder to see the competition. Holy shitI can't imagine most of them being real. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 01:32 AM |
| 8 | Approached hot mom and daughterA for effort. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 12:21 AM |
| 9 | Has learning latin dance forms like Bachata help you get a lay?Usually the woman are nice there, learn some moves, get a dance partner, and go to a dance club. It's possible but you gotta be friends first. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedThe banter leading up to sex makes it hotter if sparks fly. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if a girl doesn't have time for a date right away?Ask her what she's doing instead. Make fun of what she's got planned, "okay cool 🙄". | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 09:12 PM |
| 12 | Anyone have good tinder text sequences?You can lower difficulty by adding 3 inches to your height. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:31 AM |
| 105 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidI tried learning guitar and tried to swoon someone with my perfect rendition of "ode to joy". Her response: I don't think it sounds like that. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to someone who told that my pickup line was bad?Gonna need to know the joke bud | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 08:10 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]No only to cringe nice guys. There's a difference between head over heels nice which is now considered cringe as an adult or just be respectful. I've had plenty of women in bed saying how hot it was that I respected them, and I'm supposedly a 5'6" manlet according to the internet. If a woman is turned off from you being nice then she's toxic and has a strong self defense mechanism if she puts up a front against a nice stranger. If you want me to boil it down to rules then here you go: Be yoursel… | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | When is it a good time to ask your fwb if they want to meet?Try to give like five days notice, if you've never met then ask to meet at a bar so they'll feel more comfortable in a public space. After the meet you might get a kiss but honestly save the action for the next time you meet. Ask her over to your place with a few days notice,l and see if she's interested. | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 05:42 AM |
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