This is the kind of post I love. Thanks for sharing. You make a great point. It's similar to how gender segregation in places like schools, hospitals, or even military, only has the intended effect for heterosexuals. When we hear terms like "heteronormativity", we don't hear it applied to things like this where it would actually make sense to say society was designed around heterosexuality. It's funny, and an obvious elephant in the room. Shame is an extremely powerful motivator, and psychology …