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Trump's mannerisms are so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:40 PM
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Congrats, that'll do it. Tbf I just stopped eating as much too. I'm trying my first amateur bodybuilding competition in about a month and have never gotten this lean before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:25 AM
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Zyn knockoff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:20 AM
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I have lost 10 pounds in the past 6 weeks effortlessly. Thanks nicotine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:12 AM
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I think I'd rather have a masseuse robot than a sex robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:09 AM
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There's a lot of studies on this but in most mental illness, men receive greater or equal benefit from group therapy than from individual therapy. Because group therapy is much cheaper, accessible, as well as more social, it makes sense to encourage men to go to group therapy. Some other key findings: Men are more likely to persist with group therapy than individual therapy. Men have a strong preference for male only group therapy, including the therapist. This is tangential but I think women's …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:40 PM
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Everyone wants equality until the check comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:20 AM
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There's going to be enormous sampling bias on this sub and the Internet at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:27 AM
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I'm just looking for a decent woman. She's just got to be slim, nice skin, pretty smile, radiant hair, beautiful eyes, voluminous lips, and hourglass frame. Also she needs to have a college degree, have her own place, and come from a good family. She's also got to be smart, emotional available, and funny. The bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:47 AM
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You are completely misinterpreting this graph, it just says that women are more likely to view porn on a mobile device than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:50 AM
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https://imgur.com/YOenJ2p
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:24 AM
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I unironically think like 50% of women would be gay/bi if it was more socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:08 AM
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I definitely care if a woman has a career. I think it's attractive when a woman has a good career. I think there is a certain argument that a lot of men have, at least in America. Basically you're going to have to pay for everything anyway so you may as well pick the girl who makes less money because she will have lower expectations. If a girl makes great money and doesn't pay for anything in the relationship, how does that really benefit you as a man? The counterargument is that it will matter …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:18 PM
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Hark the herald angels sing "Glory to the newborn King! Peace on earth and mercy mild God and sinners reconciled" Joyful, all ye nations rise Join the triumph of the skies With the angelic host proclaim: "Christ is born in Bethlehem" Hark! The herald angels sing "Glory to the newborn King!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:12 PM
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Reddit isn't real life. I would go so far as to say that if something is accepted on reddit the complete opposite is often true IRL. Anecdotally I've been on around 50 first dates in my life. Not a single woman has offered to pay for me. Maybe about 15 have offered to split the check but every one of them only offered once and I think were just being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:55 PM
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The women at the gym were all wearing yoga pants and a sports bra. Literally had to have a wank after working out. Women at the gym should be required to wear burkas I'm trying to focus on my gainz.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:32 PM
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At the time and place it was written (1697), yes. She was desperately poor and all rich men married for money and connections. Even if she was gorgeous, her best options were to be a mistress of a noblemen or marry a tradesman like a blacksmith. The fact that a Prince wanted to marry her was inconceivable, hence it being a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:59 PM
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I think this has less to do with colorful died hair and more to do with the type of women who typically have colorful died hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:04 AM
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I feel like that sub must be a psyops from a hostile nation the women there are so terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:44 PM
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People who are overly political IRL are very annoying. I honestly think reddit is so overrepresented by overly political people is because no one wants to talk to them IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:35 AM
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Cuz he's a twat who missed his shot and killed some innocent bystander. Also he looks like Quasimodo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:32 AM
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I think you really only need two of the three to have success as a man. Shit I was doing pretty good when I only had one of the three. I think if you don't have any of the three you basically have to do what a lot of redditors do. Pretend to be liberal and a feminist and all that other nonsense just to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:17 PM
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I can appreciate the artistic aspect of it but doesn't make a woman physically attractive to me. It does seem fun to experiment with new makeup styles. I guess for men the equivalent is trying out different types of facial hair lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:54 AM
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"I can't understand why she's with him! She's so much prettier than him!" Her: 25 pounds overweight and very mediocre but has giant hair and lots of makeup that other women seem impressed by. Him: Tall, conventionally attractive White guy but wears a lot of sweat pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:31 AM
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Although women find it generally easier romantically, men generally find it way easier and more natural to make platonic relationships. Men bond quickly over shared physical activities. With women, their only option is to be friends with men who just wanna fuck them or be friends with women which obviously sucks. This is why women love having gay male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:07 AM
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I should try accentmaxing. I knew this dude in college from Wales. He was pretty average but women were always interested him for his accent. He didn't even have an impressive accent his parents were farmers or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:02 AM
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Thoughtful little gifts are nice. I was more referring to people who expect expensive gifts/vacations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:50 AM
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"Generosity is my love language". STFU bish everyone likes free shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:17 AM
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How come the only people who ever give me compliments/attention are gay men and enormous black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:54 AM
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You're gay she's hot as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:51 AM
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The women in my life support me. I'm just an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:01 AM
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men have historically been the sole source of women's woes You derailed your whole argument with this bit of hyperbole. Beyond other women-do women not suffer from famine, from disease, from natural disasters?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:05 AM
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He won the popular vote just a couple of weeks ago lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:51 PM
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The autism is strong with thee.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:36 AM
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That's why I'm a misogynist. To cancel out all of the misandry. It's a burden but it's my cross to bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:17 PM
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https://imgur.com/MRMw6XM
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:55 AM
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Hopefully once he is inaugurated Trump requires all fat women to start Ozempic. For the prosperity and longevity of the nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:49 AM
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Yea and she's just naturally beautiful. You can tell she's not even wearing make-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:44 AM
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https://imgur.com/OBzAxC2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:36 AM
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I notice how you didn't reply to my other comment. And good for you, you got married despite your disabilities! Congrats! Plus, old women are not dating youger men for you attempted and failed mental gymnastics to work Are you employed? There wouldn't be a wall if old women were dating "youger" men. If so it's awesome that someone who can't reason and can't spell is employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:00 PM
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Btw from the same link you posted about birthrates,it says that African nations have reported < 1 male/female birthrates "The estimated regional reference levels range from 1.031 (95% uncertainty interval [1.027; 1.036]) in sub-Saharan Africa to 1.063 [1.055; 1.072] in southeastern Asia, 1.063 [1.054; 1.072] in eastern Asia, and 1.067 [1.058; 1.077] in Oceania" The ratio in North Africa: 1.050 to 1.056. Statistical illiteracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:21 AM
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I'm not moving the goal post you are just illiterate. Women equal men in the 35-40 age group but there are more men than women until the mid 40s because there are way more men before that age. It's not hard to conceptualize how this is the case. The data you linked does not use US census data, it uses UN data and includes seasonal migrants which skew heavily male. Anyway you're probably right, in your case it's definitely not demographics that is preventing you from getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:14 AM
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Your stats on male babies is misleading, you're taking global averages that are skewed by places with high population such as china and india. No I'm not. You could have easily looked this up. "In a study around 2002, the natural sex ratio at birth was estimated to be within a narrow range of 1.07 to 1.03 males/female." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6511063/ From the UN: "Biological birth ratios are slightly male-biased, with an expected ratio of 105 male births per 100 female births.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:49 PM
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I'm convinced demographics explain the majority of what's discussed in this sub and gender relations in general. There is significantly more young single men than young single women because there is naturally 105 male babies for every 100 female babies. This explains the frustration of many young men in dating. The "wall" is just women equaling and then outnumbering men in the mid 30s. Dating has gotten much harder for men in developed countries but it's not because of online dating, feminism, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:34 AM
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I'd be concerned my gf had nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:43 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/afd69gg3ky6b1.png?width=320&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=70920752d936e64fa9ed164870a29d5e6695b895
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:41 PM
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The wealth transfer also comes simply from women living substantially longer than men. Even in the most egalitarian societies there is a huge net wealth transfer from men to women because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:34 PM
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Yes it does. Most government programs are a wealth redistribution from men to women because women live longer than men. The two biggest of course being pensions and healthcare. It's not a free market because almost all governments force men to subsidize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:30 PM
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The only things that have ever been linked to the birthrate are women's education, urbanization, secularization, and access to contraceptives/abortion. None of the things you mentioned have ever been shown to have any correlation with the birthrate. People, including you, just talk about whatever personally interests or suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:30 PM
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I've heard the following argument from Louise Perry: Nice men who would be good husbands no longer approach women very often or at all because they don't want to offend women or risk social ostracization. Dangerous, predatory men have never had it easier. They don't care what women think or if they are offended so they have no problem approaching. And due to lack of competition they've never had it easier. Perry argues that this has been one of the big negative side effects of the Me Too Movemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:13 AM
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High-value = Woman who finds me attractive and/or interesting. Low-value = Woman who finds me unattractive and/or uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:59 AM
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which men don't want this? Men who aren't in a transactional relationship lol. Have you never been in an egalitarian relationship? as opposed to what? Human beings? Partners? Equals? what are men like if you date thinking they are the prize (like plenty of our unhappy female friends and relatives did) Huh? Honestly most of these issues only happen within one community in the United States. I suspect that's why that community is so overrepresented on this sub and the gender wars space in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:22 PM
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I posted two studies. You have no studies at all lmao. Like I said, you've already made up your mind. And judging by these conversations, it's not hard to see why you might rub a woman the wrong way-which, if you'll remember, was my original point. You're uglier or have worse social skills than you think you do; you're not meeting the threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:09 AM
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Look at the data I linked in my edit. Realistically you've already made up your mind and nothing anyone says is going to convince you otherwise. All you have is a bunch of anecdotes from weird people on the internet; there are no studies that support your claim. Women rate men who make 10x other men substantially more physically attractive. As a doctor, they don't even ask what I do for work. You must be LARPing here. Everyone asks what people do for a living when they're getting to know a perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:30 AM
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Yes, but I don't care enough to try and convince you. It's easier to say "women don't care about money" despite every data and life experience contradicting that than to admit you're ugly or give off weird vibes. If I was unattractive, I would not have a shot with average women. Or they knew you were in pre-med/medical school/residency/fellowship and knew you were going to be at least comfortably upper middle class in the future. Edit: Here's some data on this. There are numerous studies that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:17 AM
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You don't get it. If you go into a transactional relationship, sooner or later the man is gonna want better value for his dollar. He's gonna eventually upgrade to a younger/more attractive woman. By viewing themselves as a prize, these types of women are self-objectifying and filtering for men who objectify women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:51 AM
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Arriving with flowers -- no Opening her car door -- no Pulling out her chair at the restaurant -- no Help her with her coat -- no Letting her order first -- no. Most women with manners will prefer if the man orders first so they can gauge how much you're going to eat/spend Not using foul language or vulgar humor -- no Not teasing, negging, or disrespecting women -- I don't really do this to begin with. Taking off hats indoors -- No wtf? Is it 1820? I'll take my hat off if I'm going to eat at a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:42 AM
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I work in medicine and I can assure you I know more than you. Show me a single study showing negative long-term outcomes of low-dose testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:02 AM
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Yes that's how studies work, you don't test every single person, you test enough so that the results are statistically significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:57 AM
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Respectively, you're obviously an outlier. You are either very unattractive or have very poor social skills. If you don't meet the threshold for looks/sociability money doesn't matter unless you are a billionaire. So long as you meet those bare minimum threshold, money matter quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:19 AM
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No cycles, just low-dose TRT. Men's testosterone is more than 15% lower than same age males 20 years ago in the US. https://www.reuters.com/article/business/healthcare-pharmaceuticals/mens-testosterone-levels-declined-in-last-20-years-idUSKIM169763/ Yea Ozempic is crazy, it's basically driving the economic growth of Denmark rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:07 AM
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In order to improve the birthrate and the aesthetics of our great nation men should be able to get medically prescribed testosterone at all ages. Women over BMI of 25 should be required to start ozempic like how we used to put fat housewives on amphetamines. For posterity and to defeat communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:18 AM
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That's not a dichotomy at all though. Men are saying that most men only associate with women if they think it will lead to sex or assist in that goal (eg she will introduce him to her female friends). They are not saying that men are predators like you've stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:46 PM
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Men talking about sex is “had sex last night 😏” where women talking about sex is a 2 hour presentation on your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:36 AM
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There's a woman I know who I'm pretty sure is interested in me but she has drawn on eyebrows. She's cute aside from that. I don't think I can do it her eyebrows annoy me every time I look at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:46 AM
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Jesus Christ your post history. You need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:25 AM
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You're not gay or bi, but had sex with another woman, and then flirt about it years after the fact with said woman, who is now married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:38 PM
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There is no study that says this. 92% of women who masturbate can orgasm during masturbation. Women who cannot orgasm during masturbation are exponentially less likely to masturbate. You're just misinterpreting data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:25 PM
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I think Thai is a little easier to learn but still very difficult. The only Asian languages that are intermediate in difficulty are Indonesian and Malay. This is from the US DOS: Category I: Languages closely related to English. Danish, Dutch, French, Italian, Norwegian, Portuguese, Romanian, Spanish, Swedish Category II: Languages that take a little longer to master than Category I languages. German, Indonesian, Malay, Swahili Category III: Languages with significant linguistic and/or cultural …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:59 AM
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I would never consider immigrating to Asia, languages too hard to learn for a native English speaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:10 AM
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Like: should I pay for the first date? What are the dating norms?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:50 AM
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But they never talk about dating. It's taboo to talk about there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:46 AM
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I wish there was a passport bros community for men who don't hate women or feminism but just can work remotely and love to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:45 AM
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Women don't want equality, they want benevolent sexism. If we as men started treating women like how we treat one another I think there would be a global female mental health crisis in under a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:55 PM
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Somehow, despite it being quite niche, everyone in this sub knows multiple passport bros. The passport bros sub has less than 30k members, and like 80% of them don't even own a passport. This whole debate is perpetually online people looking for something to be outraged over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:31 PM
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This is incredibly unlikely. Only 12.4% of marriages in the United States are international marriages, and the divorce rate is roughly equal in this cohort to domestic marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:22 PM
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If they can maintain their weight, the wall for Black and East Asian women is like 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:51 PM
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Usually after I have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:23 PM
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I'm actually very happy with the status quo, it's a very easy filtering tool. Nearly 100% of the toxic, transactional, princess type women will demand that you plan and pay for everything and expect expensive dates. So simply drop these women and move on to the next; you just met her it's not like you have a deep connection. By doing so you will also filter out some decent women, but it's worth it to filter out almost all of the women who will ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:39 PM
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This is why I'm reluctant to date women who want to wait for sex. I can't help but think she's getting fucked my another dude. These types of women have basically ruined it for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:30 AM
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No you couldn't you're chatting hateful nonsense. They'd burn you alive if you did that to an Egyptian woman as a foreigner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:08 AM
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What does that even mean? They have some of the strictest cultural norms in the world, how is that free for anyone? You make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:56 AM
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Is this sarcasm? It's an authoritative military regime where men routinely get murdered for saying anything slightly critical of the government. It's kept afloat by the West because they don't want to close down the Suez Canal-both the EU and the United States give Egypt several billions dollars a year as well as weapons to keep in power. The government is moving the capital from Cairo because they are scared of their own citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:23 AM
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I've heard nothing but bad things about Egypt both IRL and on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:49 AM
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It's an extremely poorly constructed "study". Rich men are more likely to get married than middle class men, who are more likely to get married than lower class men. So really what you're looking at is that poor people have worse outcomes than rich people, big surprise. I have seen no study that accounts for socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:43 PM
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I think obesity rates plays a huge role so I'm not sure about that. I went to Norway a few years ago for vacation and feel like both the women and men were on average noticeably more attractive than Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:21 AM
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https://imgur.com/1LlbwEX This is evidently what Helen of Troy looked like. I prefer Diane Kruger: https://imgur.com/9a8tL53
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:44 AM
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Danish https://imgur.com/N8rvyJg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:41 AM
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Noora from Skam is such a babe. https://imgur.com/TuAQKwU
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:37 AM
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Yea you right, thanks for the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:06 AM
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Damn that is quite the coincidence. The best part of assassination attempts is all the good conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:05 AM
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Interesting, thanks. I guess I underestimated the amount of crazy people we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:59 AM
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Lol yea. This shit is wild, first assassination attempt on a President/former President in over 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:36 AM
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https://imgur.com/T23EHSg That shooter just handed Trump the presidency. This photo is going to be the rallying cry of everyone who's not leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:20 AM
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No. I was a janitor in high school and part of university. Urine makes no difference, you have to clean the toilet with a mop anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:53 AM
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I agree but wish alcohol wasn't so bad for your health and physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:36 AM
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Yea maybe. I'm very in touch with my feminine side.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:35 AM
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Sometimes you have to take a stand for what you believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:30 AM
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Because we are 70% of the employees and deserve more bathrooms. Also when it was a male bathroom it had two urinals and a stall, and now it only has a stall with a lock on the outside. It's created a queue to the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:22 AM
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Well it's that or women will have to clean up my piss or have to do the third world squat so either way I'm satisfied. I definitely feel like I'm making a positive impact because I've noticed women have stopped going into the gender neutral bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:16 AM
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At my work, there used to be two male bathrooms and one female bathroom. The reasoning being that ~70% of the employees are male. They recently changed one of the male bathrooms into a gender neutral bathrooms, which has infuriated me. So whenever I go into the gender neutral bathroom I make sure to piss all over the seat so women can't use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:11 AM
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She's Irish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:49 AM
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Can't speak for other countries but in the USA conservatives are increasingly exerting their influence in education. "From the “don’t say gay” law, which bans discussion of LGBTQ+ issues in the classroom, to laws helping parents challenge school library books they oppose, Ron DeSantis has turned Florida’s public schools into a culture war battleground – and the implementation of his laws has often veered into absurd territory. About 300 books were removed from library shelves last year. Some tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:15 AM
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The countries that have the best maternity/paternity leave, free or heavily subsidized daycare, universal healthcare, and stable economies (eg Nordic countries) have among the lowest birthrate in the world. The only three things that have been shown to be closely linked to birthrate are secularization, urbanization, and increasing women's education-all three are inversely related. If the status quo is maintained the world will almost certainly become more religious as religious folks in both the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:50 AM
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By 3.8 pounds and half an inch, a difference of 1.1 BMI (28.7 to 29.8). Not insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:23 PM
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Why did you pick that picture lol, her blouse is so loose you can barely tell what she looks like. Also the average woman in America is 5'3.5 and 170.8 lbs, so she is actually slimmer that the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:29 PM
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Are you seriously comparing a specialist doctor, who worked 70-80 hours a week for decades to get where he's at, to a woman who isn't overweight? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:09 PM
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The term passport bro is too broad. Is anyone who immigrates to another country and single a passport bro? Makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:03 AM
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Septum piercings. https://imgur.com/a/Flkdl3t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:54 PM
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I'm sure your degree will lead to a fulfilling career as a barista.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:33 AM
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If that's you it's not your hair that's holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:18 AM
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All this post does is confirm my suspicion that you are a woman. most of the dudes in the ''experiment'' were 5s at best (in terms of physical attractions) Compared to who, Olympic athletes? These men were all above average, only women think like this. Also, if you were a man you would have gone into extensive detail about their height. If you were a man you would have known this. Women prefer men who are around 2-4 years older than then, so so guys outside of that age range are shooting outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:58 AM
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Men overreport, women underreport.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:46 PM
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Yea what does this even mean? Maybe she's from Sudan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:39 PM
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I think what is more likely is that South Korea is going to become majority Christian in the near future. At turn of the 20th century, Korea was around 1% Christian, whereas it's now around 32% Christian. This is due to evangelization and because Christians have a much higher birthrate. Depending on the denomination, Christians have anywhere from a 50% to 100%+ higher birthrate than the secular population (www.pewresearch.org/religion/2022/09/13/modeling-the-future-of-religion-in-america). South…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:27 AM
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Most of what women do is not to impress men, it's to impress other women or due to intrasexual competition. The only people I've seen calling Pearl unattractive are women, which just reinforced my first point. You keep saying in this thread that Pearl's ex was unemployed and fat, and thus she has lower worth. Honestly, I'm really skeptical that you're man because I've never met a man who thinks like this. Secondly, her ex is reportedly Oneya Johnson, who has over 27 million followers and a repor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:48 AM
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We don't have a generation of "gymcels" this is the most obese and unhealthy generation ever. Young men and women are literally getting shorter than the previous generation because of how fat and unhealthy people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:56 PM
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The average American city has not grown 2000% in the past 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:39 AM
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Flourish: noun. Grow or develop in a healthy or vigorous way. Yes, it was absolutely flourishing because it was growing steadily and rapidly. You don't seem to know the definition of the word, it has nothing to do with how widespread or influential something is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:21 AM
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This isn't historically accurate. It "flourished" in that it was growing at a rapid rate. "Beginning with less than 1000 people, by the year 100, Christianity had grown to perhaps one hundred small household churches consisting of an average of around seventy members each. It achieved critical mass in the hundred years between 150 and 250 when it moved from fewer than 50,000 adherents to over a million." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Christianity#:~:text=Beginning%20with%20less%20than…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:11 AM
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Disagree with this. Religions flourish in the face of persecution. Look at what the Jews have endured or early Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:26 PM
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15 year age gap is abnormal. It is fairly common for mid 30s men to date women in their late 20s though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:34 PM
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This thread is making me realize why a lot of guys in this sub are perpetually single. Nobody said hobbies guarantee that you will find love, rather that it's a more constructive use of your time than staying at home. You are exponentially more likely to meet a partner at a hobby than putzing around on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:28 PM
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What we're not is terminally online dorks. You know we can see your post history...right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:17 AM
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If you were literate you would realize I was talking about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:50 AM
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Nah. Obesity keeps rising, their options are growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:11 AM
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Here's a map of this phenomenon in the United States broken down by age group and city. I think this explains like 90% of all topics in this sub, from the wall (I think "the wall" is just women outnumbering men) to young men's dating struggles. https://jonathansoma.com/singles/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:08 AM
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Whole list bragging about how she's amazing and an outlier. Am I an outlier? I doubt it. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:43 AM
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Over 50% of miscarriages in women 35+ they trace back to poor sperm quality Citation needed. Men get less flack for this That's because advanced age in women greatly increases the chance of serious chromosomal diseases and heart diseases. For Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome), "The risk increases with the mother's age (1 in 1250 for a 25 year old mother to 1 in 1000 at age 31, 1 in 400 at age 35, and about 1 in 100 at age 40)". https://www.health.state.mn.us/diseases/cy/downsyndrome.html#:~:text=The%20…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:57 PM
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Your male friends could introduce you to their female friends and family. They could invite you to parties where you could meet women. Besides romance it can open up a lot of career opportunities. IME most people only have a couple people from the opposite gender (besides partners) in their social circle. It's really not that common past university age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:07 PM
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The real question is how would the dating world change if men couldn’t feel pleasure from sex or orgasm unless their female partner also did We would have died off as a species a long time ago, which is why female orgasms are not necessary for reproduction in any species on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:00 PM
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So you are specifically talking about befriending women? I still meet women through my male friends. Reddit is weird about this, most people don't really have that many friends from the opposite sex, unless you are using the term "friend" very loosely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:53 PM
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Join a pickle ball league or martial arts or some other sport. There's a guy in my running club who I'm pretty sure has autism but nobody gives a fuck and still invites him out with us. I feel like it's way easier to make friends as a guy so long as you are in some sort of social, physically active group.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:46 PM
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Fat changes the way your face looks. There are no immutable characteristics in humans, we are constantly changing our entire lives. So what exactly is the point of your post if you're excluding more than 50% of the population?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:34 PM
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Rating systems are not meant to be fair. This is completely asinine. Rating systems are by nature percentile ratings, you compare one thing to another. Your post is just a non sequitur about what you deem important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:41 AM
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That's a non sequitur, mean-spirited, and has nothing to do with percentile ratings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:54 AM
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The whole 1-10 rating system is all relative and based on percentiles. My point is that the percentiles in that true rate me picture make no sense and ignore like half the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:42 AM
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I actually think it's way easier to make friends as a male, especially as you get older. That's because male friendship is always based around a physical activity, from youth to old age. So all you have to do to have a social network with other men is join a physically active hobby, anything from martial arts to sports to Habitat for Humanity. Women of course can make friends too as they age but IME it seems like they have to make much more of an effort. I think the main issue is that a lot of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:36 AM
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Well this is all subjective so to each their own. But go to a place like Walmart, 85% of men will not be better looking than Ed Sheeran IMO. Like I said, the only way these lists make sense is if you exclude overweight people, disabled people, and those born with physical disabilities. Feels quite mean to me. Yea young A-Rod was very handsome, father time is undefeated though. He's still way higher than the 50th percentile in terms of looks, that was my point. He's nearly 50, he's looking great …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:12 AM
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That list from true rate me is absurd. Ed Sheeran is rated as a 4 or bottom 15% per their scale. Alex Rodrigues is rated as a 5 or 50th percentile. Most of the dudes you listed are average for men in relatively decent shaped. From 20-24, 26.1% of men are overweight, 15.3% are obese, and around 5% are morbidly obese. The "average" men you and others have linked are only average if you exclude all of the people who are obese and disabled, which is about 50% of the population in their 20s. It only …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:28 AM
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No it's not, why do you guys say such stupid shit. Obviously having money and being in great shape makes your life easier, both romantically and just in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:50 AM
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"white parents picked a female embryo 70 percent of the time. A 2010 study showed that American adoptive parents were 30 percent more likely to prefer girls than boys, and were willing to pay an additional $16,000 to ensure they got a girl." This is honestly deeply concerning. It's stated preferences vs revealed preferences. When given the chance, due to a combination of sexism and simply wanting an easier life for their children, parents are choosing females more than 2x as often as males. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:27 PM
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Its a dick move to talk about this without his wife's consent. You know if the gender's were reversed though all the comments would be like "this is just how women communicate and relate to one another, grow up! You need therapy if you can't handle your wife talking about her sex life with her friends!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:45 AM
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Could it possibly be the country that is literally in the midst of invading a country right now in Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:58 AM
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We should strive to be more enlightened like Europe so we can have generations of stagnation and zero wage growth, all whilst being completely dependent on another country for our defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:54 AM
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This is just a misunderstanding of how the American economy works. Very little is regulated at the federal level (at least in comparison to Europe), most benefits come from specific states, counties and most commonly, employers. Employers do not have to offer most benefits, but most halfway decent jobs offer generous benefits to attract skilled workers. There is far more job mobility in America so companies have to compete with one another to a far greater extent (downside is that there is less …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:36 AM
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During WW2, the average American male was 5 feet, 8 inches tall and 144 pounds. Nowadays, the average American woman is 5 feet, 3.5 inches, and weighs 171 pounds, while average man is 5'9, 198 pounds. This explains the gender war/modern dating dynamics. Ugly people do not want to date one another. https://www.jstor.org/stable/2281864#:~:text=In%20this%20connection%20the%20following,average%20weight%20was%20150.5%20pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:15 AM
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She got that perfect hourglass shape
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:58 AM
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Yea true. What a cruel world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:53 AM
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Pics or it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:52 AM
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I can't wait for robot sex dolls. I'm not an incel I just wanna fuck a different Victoria's Secret Model every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:45 AM
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I said young men vs young women. Women under 30 have higher median incomes, lower rates of unemployment, lower incarceration, lower rates of violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:04 PM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:56 PM
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That is literally the definition of "hobby". Hobby: noun: hobby; plural noun: hobbies an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure. Ex: "her hobbies are reading and gardening"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:01 PM
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True. "I can trust this man he makes dead baby jokes".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:43 PM
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Oh true that's a good point. It almost feels like the more raunchy the humor the more you bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:21 PM
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Anyone else find that it's hard to make male friends through conversation, but extremely easy to make male friends through shared physical activity? I wonder if the male loneliness crisis is just because people are spending more time in the digital world and less time playing sports and whatnot, which disproportionately affects men's ability to make and maintain friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:14 PM
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going to the gym Ok so I actually think over the past decade young women are more productive members of society than young men, generally speaking. But women do not exercise at nearly the same rate as men IME, my gym is like 85% men and I am in a running group and it's literally two sisters and 18 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:11 PM
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I really hate the culture of expensive gift giving, feels very materialistic and consumeristic. If I actually needed something I would buy it myself. The stuff I get is thus just junk that I feel bad getting rid of. It's much better to just write someone a nice handwritten card and share an activity together than get some gift that's only going to waste space.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:39 PM
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That means you're at least a 6/10 because they didn't know how tall you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:46 AM
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How come you're only a 4.5-5/10 if you're 6'3?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:32 AM
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You'd abandon your children, your own flesh and blood, because your husband left you? That's some next level narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:20 AM
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Whitney Houston
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:12 AM
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Cool, do you have a point? A lot of people are broke and not full-time employed. And that's per child. Also, single parents disproportionately come from lower socioeconomic backgrounds. Why don't you use an online calculator to figure out how much you'd be paying, I bet if you're employed it would be at least 2x that amount. I'm not rich and in my state for two children I'd have to pay more than $1700/month.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:14 AM
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What's your point? Also that woman is making like $8/hour if she's only paying $500 month in child support for two kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:03 AM
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Drive is such a romantic movie and Carey Mulligan is a princess. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMXVD3dP_lY
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:55 AM
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I have a good friend who's Catholic and we've joked that there should be a trial weekend before marriage to ensure sexual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:15 AM
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Whose side does the court take in lesbian divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:46 AM
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Fucking Kyle. Bet he leaves the toilet seat up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:36 AM
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Pro: This happened a few days ago, but a lady at the McDonald's drive-thru called me "a cute white boy". Con: Ice-cream machine was still broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:30 AM
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I think a lot of men have a type but that's more to please their families than for their own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:54 AM
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Woman because they have higher bodyfat percentage and thus would be more nourishing to eat. Wait what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:27 PM
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Congrats man. Sounds like you're in a much better place now both mentally and physically. Your post has motivated me to go to the gym lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:18 PM
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You're delusional. Look at the size of his arms. This is years of training and a strict diet if you aren't using steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:19 AM
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this is an incredibly easy standard for men to fulfill Do you realize that to obtain a body like this you have to spend ~5 hours at the week at the gym, track your macros, and weigh your food? Almost no woman spends this amount of time per week to look good. You think that male beauty standards are lower because you have no idea how much effort it takes to build a nice physique and your standards are completely out of wack.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:39 AM
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Ok then prove it isn't. The only data that I can find is that remarriage age gaps are much larger. "Some 20% of men who are newly remarried have a wife who is at least 10 years their junior, and another 18% married a woman who is 6-9 years younger. By comparison, just 5% of newlywed men in their first marriage have a spouse who is 10 years younger, and 10% married a woman who is 6-9 years younger." https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2014/12/04/tying-the-knot-again-chances-are-theres-a-bigge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:17 AM
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Ok miss belligerent I never said that it was "typical" I said that it was probably skewing the data and that people post university age likely have a larger age gap. Nothing you've said disproves that it any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:02 AM
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I don't know why you're so hostile. But yes people still marry their college bf or gf lmao. And those median numbers don't support your argument at all, just think about it for a moment. If people are marrying their high school/college sweetheart and they are roughly the same age, but the median is 2 years, then older people must have a larger gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:38 AM
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Tbf this is probably skewed by a lot of people marrying their high school/university sweetheart. I think past that age a ~5 year age gap is pretty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:25 AM
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Saying someone is "not the best" is a euphemistic way of saying someone's bad at something. If you go to a nice restaurant and the chef asks you how the food is and you reply "not the best," the chef will likely offer to refund your food.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:35 PM
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You don't gossip about your sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:15 PM
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The issue is her gossiping about their sex life without his consent and talking shit about him to their mutual friend group. I'd be pretty devastated too and wouldn't trust her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:41 PM
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I strongly dislike people who do this. I think sex is something deeply intimate and shouldn't be shared with others without my consent-especially if it's not in a positive light. Guy overreacted but I would also feel deeply betrayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:59 PM
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I love me some dimpled cheeks. Yea I'm the same way I feel like I store all my fat in my cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:59 AM
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20/80 rule is kind of a thing. A small percentage of guys are on the dating apps and going out with different women every night. That adds up to a pretty large number. Ok but how is that applicable to what I said? I'm talking about the inverse of that, 80% of men can do enough to find it easy to date by finding their niche and getting in great shape. If you're pursuing a niche then it takes a lot more than what you're describing I used to go to a Crossfit gym and everyone was fucking each other.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:11 AM
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Well I bet you would find it harder if you were short and skinny lol. I don't know your situation, but I think looks only matter if you meet the other thresholds-sociability, career, emotional stability, etc. If you are an outlier in one of these categories it's going to be hard to find a partner no matter how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:01 AM
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It's not that difficult but 70% of America is overweight or obese. Of the remaining 30% a lot of people are skinny fat and still have a fairly high bodyfat percentage. Being lean is more than enough for I'd guesstimate 80% of men-it won't make a difference though for the bottom 20% who are very unlucky genetically. I completely disagree with you here. Finding your niche as a man is hugely beneficial, even if it's a small segment of the population who finds you attractive. Ever notice how the ban…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:28 AM
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I was thinking more the skinny rock star look. Not all woman like this but like I said there's a huge supply-demand imbalance. If 10% of woman like your look but only 1% of men have it, you're in a good place. Conversely, someone who has say a dad bod-there are women who legitimately like it, lets say 25%. But if 60% of men have that physique it's not going to do you any favors. I'm obviously only talking about if you're single though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:22 AM
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Being in great shape is hugely beneficial. Almost every man's face looks better with low bodyfat-depending on the man somewhere between 8-14% bodyfat. If you live in the West, unless you are a competitive runner, athlete, or bodybuilder, your bodyfat is likely way higher than that. It's definitely true not every woman likes a muscular physique, maybe only 25% do. But only ~2% of people have a muscular body. There is thus a huge supply-demand imbalance. It's similar to how skinny tall guys do so …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:35 AM
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You're wrong about that, men will routinely beat up other men they don't like, especially when they are younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:31 AM
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Well assuming the rule is true; 70% of America is overweight, obese, or morbidly obese. So simply being in good shape is likely good enough for like 90% of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:11 PM
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I had sex just about every day at least once when I was a teenager and in my early to mid 20s. Pretty sure this is common, it was in my friend group at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:27 PM
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It's kind of wild that you think it's fantastical to have sex twice a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:08 PM
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Bring back freckles! https://www.beautycrew.com.au/media/35256/halsey.jpg?width=675 https://i.insider.com/58ac9ddcc32d6b1e008b48eb?width=600&format=jpeg&auto=webp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:28 AM
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The article mentions peak desirability not peak physical attractiveness. Beyond your ageism and questionable reading comprehension, I'll make sure to mention this to the other men during our monthly meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:59 PM
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Nah it's just that unhappy toxic people are super overrepresented on the internet. I'm sending you an internet hug. https://static.vecteezy.com/system/resources/thumbnails/023/532/223/small_2x/two-cute-polar-hug-together-in-white-snow-background-mother-and-baby-polar-bear-cuddling-as-family-in-snow-in-winter-generative-ai-photo.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:51 AM
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The solution is to spend less time on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:31 AM
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Same this all caviar diet is getting expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:35 AM
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Why you so mad at men all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:22 AM
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Lmao https://www.cineworld.ie/static/dam/jcr:fe5482da-dea1-48fe-9b35-19fbe1ed2895/frankenstein-movies-banner.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:16 AM
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Today a nice elderly lady told me I look like an actor from when she was young. This is probably the 6th time an elderly person has told me I look like an actor from back in the day in the past few years. Here's the thing: None of them can remember his name. I'm beginning to think that this actor was unattractive or maybe a nonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:50 AM
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You're right-forget romance there's a huge problem with lack of interpersonal relationships in general. There's a famous book from the 90s, "Bowling Alone", that discussed this issue long before social media. The book notes that somewhat counterintuitively humans become far less social as they urbanize, and all developed nations are becoming increasingly urbanized. It also argues that secularization leads to less socialization and increased loneliness across society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:54 AM
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Thanks I see them. I think most of those women are fairly attractive they are just a bit overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:11 PM
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The np.reddit links don't work for me I just see the Latina lady on instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:56 PM
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I think that woman is fairly attractive but not my personal type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:49 PM
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When I click on your link it says "your connection is not private"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:19 PM
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I marry her and enroll her in a Zumba class.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:52 PM
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Just sneak into the zoo and get some gorilla semen for the GAINZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:48 AM
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https://ew.com/thmb/dbeH-vwrHYXSeIMfKfkfIg_1ew8=/1500x0/filters:no_upscale():max_bytes(150000):strip_icc()/fargo-foot_0-a9f4f3fffe7b42e3a3bf7719b523cc9c.jpg Watcha doing with that wood chipper?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:34 AM
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So I can't get free steroids? This injustice will not stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:32 AM
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That's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:30 AM
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If I identify as a trans man can I get medical grade testosterone prescribed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:27 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/KWPZkCE.png Absolutely adorable quintuple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:05 AM
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There's plenty of literature on this topic. The Atlantic has a pretty good article on this: https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/ "A massive new study of online dating finds that everyone dates aspirationally—and that a woman’s desirability peaks 32 years before a man’s does." At least in regards to online dating, men get the most interest and matches at ~50 yo while women get the most interest and matches at 18 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:30 PM
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Your bodyfat isn't very high atm, you could definitely bulk for longer. Give yourself enough time to cut for summer IMO though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:32 AM
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Nice work, you have some solid results for being relatively new to lifting. Cutting sucks but it's definitely worth it IME-it made a night and day difference for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:22 AM
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Average. I think your face will naturally lean out as you get older and you will be on the attractive side of average. You have a good frame for lifting, you should start if you haven't already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:08 AM
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Awesome pic. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:02 AM
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Well you're very dogmatic but no one knows yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:05 AM
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I personally think the initial target for these AI chatbots will be in therapy and the elderly. Therapy is a huge, lucrative market, and a lot of people will value the anonymity and ease of access that AI provides. Many people may not be able to afford real therapists either. I think some people will use these AI therapists as sort of surrogate girlfriends/boyfriends. I also think AI chatbots will be huge in the elderly, particularly in nursing homes. Many of the elderly are deeply lonely and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:03 AM
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I think it's an interesting question that we don't know the answer to yet-is it better to talk to an AI than talk to no one at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:57 AM
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the birth rates are lowering to something we should have had all along
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:34 AM
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That's not how below replacement birthrates work. If our birthrate was always below replacement we would have died off as a species before we even left the forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:29 AM
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Governments will do nothing IMO. Countries like Japan, Italy, and Spain have been dealing with this for decades and haven't found a solution. Realistically I think the world will become more religious as they are the only ones with an above replacement fertility. This depends on the rate of evangelization vs the rate of people leaving the religion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:25 AM
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the birth rates are lowering to something we should have had all along If the birth rates were this low all along we would have never survived as a species. Do people not understand what "below replacement" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:22 AM
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The Will Smith eating spaghetti video was released a year ago. The progress in a little less than a year is absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:49 AM
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Maybe you could get a sybian implant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:49 AM
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What happened to your cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:20 AM
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I think it's completely natural but people have never had this much access to so many people before online dating and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:30 AM
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I’m unable to feel attraction to men I’m not attracted to This is not what he said though at all. He simply said to date men who are your level and below but are still attracted to. What is a common expectation? I don't really understand what you are trying to say. It's also very uncommon for men to have sex with women they are unattracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:44 AM
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? I can still be attracted to women who are less attractive than me. I can certainly be attracted to women who are "at my league". Are you unable to do the same with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:34 AM
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You sure settling for a man she isn’t attracted to is good advice? "First of all I wouldn't advise anyone to get into a relationship with someone they're not attracted to"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:42 AM
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Even if this were to become a thing it would be a short-term solution because you would quickly depopulate the country the women emigrated from. Look at birth rates in the developing world, they are down sharply just about everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:57 AM
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Yea that's where we got the idea from. Hopefully these become more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:08 AM
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That makes sense and is probably describing the same concept. Anecdotally I used to work at the VA and the most effective mental health treatment we found for returning veterans was group carpentry. Basically we got some money from a donor and turned a local store into a woodworking shop where all the vets could learn a trade, build things together, and work out their problems together. We ended up having lower suicide rates than any of the neighboring VA hospitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:21 AM
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You're welcome, I find this topic interesting as well. I personally think a lot of the rise in mental health problems, especially in men, is because people are no longer participating in group activities as much as they used to. From church to bowling leagues and everything in between, people spend way more time online than interacting in person. You thereby lose these unofficial group therapy sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:12 AM
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You should read this article. https://www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/are-men-less-willing-to-engage-in-traditional-talking-therapy-because-therapy-has-been-feminised Men are much more likely to express emotional vulnerability in a group setting, around other men, and when the group is based around an activity. It is part of the reason that traditional therapy is so much less effective for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:03 AM
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That's because everything you are linking uses GSS data from 2022. By the GSS's own admission that data should be taken with a grain of salt. “We shouldn’t declare the sex recession over based on just a single year of data—especially a single year that relied on new survey methods—and a fairly small sub-sample of 229 respondents. ” That's why the data from 2022 matches no other years from GSS's data or other sources like the University of Michigan, or JAMA, one of the most respected medical jour…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:49 AM
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How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:11 AM
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Not Big Brother but I have volunteered as a tutor for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:51 AM
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I like children AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:06 AM
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Mexico has below replacement level fertility and India has roughly replacement level fertility. Temporary solutions but for the next generation or so it will probably be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:11 PM
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I for one welcome our future Amish overlords
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:59 AM
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Woman 2. I'd personally rather be single than be with a woman who only wants to have sex once a month that would be torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:43 AM
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Money doesn’t make a man more physically attractive Except it does, there are numerous studies that show women find the same exact man more attractive when he is wearing an expensive suit or when they know he is wealthy. "We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females. These results indicate that higher economic status can offset lower physical attractiveness in men much more easily than in women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:29 PM
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?? That guy is on the very high side of average or low side of handsome, he's probably in the 80th percentile. The women you posted are like in the 40th percentile in terms of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:36 AM
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You're misinterpreting the data. That's 68% is couples who are already in a relationship, including people your parents and grandparents age. Over 55% of new relationships met online, and under 30 it's around 70%. Actually less than 15% of people met via their friends. Look into the Stanford "How Couples Meet" research. https://twitter.com/rex_woodbury/status/1638554215156011009
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:55 AM
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It depends on what you mean by our society. I see this as a self-correcting issue-if only religious people are reproducing above replacement politicians will increasingly cater to this ever growing group and society as a whole will become more religious. I for one would prefer countries to enact policies to encourage the birthrate-de-urbanization, more affordable housing for young people, a more streamlined and less debt inducing educational system, and more palatable hours. However, when you lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:51 AM
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No obviously. It's unconstitutional and morally wrong. I think it was pretty clear that I was against it though, hence my use of the word "disgusting".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:50 PM
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I always find this so disgusting and you see it so frequently from feminists. It's the exact argument that white nationalist use to justify their racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:56 AM
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Women are wonderful effect. This can be seen in a variety of ways, including women getting much more lenient sentencing for the same exact crime as men. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect#:~:text=The%20phrase%20was%20coined%20by,to%20a%20far%20lesser%20degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:15 PM
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She was the first self made female billionaire in the US lol. John D. Rockefeller was a self-made billionaire nearly 100 years before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:57 AM
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That's clearly not what he was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:10 PM
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Yea that's fair. Ultimately I think we will have a resurgence in religion as religious groups are the only ones with an above replacement level birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:46 AM
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I think the East Asian countries have the resources and governance sufficient to manage their countries demographic shifts. South Korea's birth rate this year is projected to be 0.72. If this rate stays steady (the data seems to actually suggest it will drop even further) it means that they'll lose around 2/3 of their population each generation. For reference this is more impactful than the Bubonic Plague, which killed 30-60% of the population in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:04 AM
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This intuitively makes sense but none of the data backs it up. Countries which have the most generous maternity/paternity leave such as Norway have among the lowest birth rates in the world. Countries like Japan and Denmark that have heavily subsidized child care and give substantial economic incentives for parenthood have extremely low birth rates. If anything there seems to be an inverse relationship. Most of the studies that look into this find that lower birth rates are tied to increasing wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:53 AM
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Nah. If you really wanted to pay you could say something like: "I really appreciate you offering to pay but you paid for the last date and now it's my turn". Like 90% of men would gladly accept that. Women usually frame it as "want me to pay?" which just makes you look like asshat if you agree to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:06 AM
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I’d like an equal partner if anything not someone to support me. I can't imagine you'd have too much trouble finding a guy who wants a long-term relationship if you're willing to pull your weight. Perhaps you're not putting yourself out there enough? Hobbies, co-ed sports, online dating are all ways to meet people. Or maybe something about your personality is rubbing people the wrong way? I don't know you so it's hard to say-I'd recommend asking your family and friends. And I’d like to hear what…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:10 AM
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I read your posts and I wasn't quite clear if you are simply stating that women don't have it as easy as many men here think (which I agree with), or rather you're jaded that you haven't been able to find a guy to financially supplement your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:00 AM
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When we're able to make AI bots as good as Ana de Armas and Ryan Gosling in Bladerunner 2049 we're probably going to die off as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:24 AM
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? That absolutely is the case, look at marriage rates for poor people- it's less than half that of middle and upper class people. 26% of poor people aged 18-55 are married while 56% of middle and upper class people are married. Poor people in general are not getting married and poor men especially. "The losses that less-educated men have experienced since the 1970s in job stability and real income have rendered them less “marriageable,” that is, less attractive as husbands—and more vulnerable to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:38 PM
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Pro tip: Just pay for the first couple of dates. Buy a yearly museum membership-they're really cheap. Take her there, it's basically an upgraded walk date. If you vibe you can go out for coffee or dinner after. If she doesn't at least offer to pay by the third date then personally I just ask for split checks and ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:30 PM
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This isn't a logical conclusion though. It could just be that women are more likely to prioritize "marrying up" economically. It's possible that women could outearn men (not saying this is the case btw) and for this still to be the case. Not everyone gets married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:29 PM
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"Everyone I have this controversial concept that people have almost universally agreed with for thousands of years"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:04 AM
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Yea no shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:03 AM
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That's a fair point! I wonder if that's because lower income people utilize less birth control or are having more sex? I was also thinking that people with certain disabilities (eg Trisomy 21) are much less likely to be at college which would skew the data a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:25 PM
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Yea that's true but like I said it doesn't match other years from the same GSS source. Also I'm just speculating but I would guess that college students have more sex than the same age general population due to similar interests, goals, proximity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:56 AM
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You keep linking this data. I've already replied to you previously about this source but you just downvoted and never replied. The data suggests that less than 1 in 20 women (4.8%) age 25-30 haven't had sex in the past year-this doesn't match my experience IRL. It also doesn't match previous years studies or other studies. For example, in the same year, the University of Michigan had a study with over 4,000 respondents that found 38% of students hadn't had sex in the past semester. 25% of gradua…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:28 PM
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I really appreciate that you posted data. However, I'm pretty skeptical of this data. For example, the data suggests that less than 1 in 20 women (4.8%) age 25-30 haven't had sex in the past year-this doesn't match my experience IRL. It also doesn't match previous years studies or other studies. For example, in the same year, the University of Michigan had a study with over 4,000 respondents that found 38% of students hadn't had sex in the past semester. The study you linked only has 229 respond…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:34 AM
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I realize that. But it's not coming from large nations, it's coming from places like the Democratic Republic of the Congo, which has dropped from a fertility rate of 4.7 to 4.19 in the last 10 years. Obviously still high but steadily declining. If you're interested I found this website pretty useful. https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/tza/congo/fertility-rate#:~:text=The%20current%20fertility%20rate%20for,a%201.2%25%20decline%20from%202020.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:05 AM
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It's that or we change the system and tax the shit out of companies for retirement Yea I agree but I'm pretty skeptical that politicians will do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:09 AM
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And? You still have a surplus of people in other places Yes that's why I said it was a short term solution, because fertility rates are declining globally. The only places that have above replacement level fertility rates are some nations in Africa, and they are rapidly declining there too. Plus those African immigrants overwhelming go to Europe vs the New World due to proximity and history. The United States has had a net negative immigration from Mexico for most of the last decade. Countries t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:03 AM
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This is outdated. China has had below replacement level birth rates for decades, and it has gotten to the point that they are offering generous financial benefits for having children-it's had little to no effect. India has a fertility rate of 2.15 which is almost exactly replacement level. Other large countries like Indonesia have replacement level fertility. Essentially the only countries that have above replacement level fertility are in Africa and they are steadily declining there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:45 PM
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It's a short-term solution that isn't sustainable. Even developing nations have experienced rapidly declining fertility rates in recent years. For example, the current fertility rate for Latin America And The Caribbean in 2023 is 1.958 births per woman. This is below replacement level and is steadily declining. Source: https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/LCR/latin-america-and-the-caribbean/fertility-rate#:~:text=The%20current%20fertility%20rate%20for,a%200%25%20increase%20from%202021.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:40 PM
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Loneliness in general is rising in both men and women as you've pointed out. If you look into the data, almost every social activity has been declining over the past few decades and completely fell off a cliff during and post-covid. This includes church, sports league, clubs, volunteering, heck even movie going-basically anything that requires you to interact with people IRL. I find it really worrisome and I don't think it bodes well for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:53 AM
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How many OnlyFans workers have you met in real life? I live in a big city and I've never met one. People in this sub act like there's a ton of OnlyFans workers when in reality probably less than 1% of 1% of women do OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:47 AM
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You're still young though. At 20 it's still pretty common to be skinny. Trust me, by 30 yo being skinny is rare and is absolutely highly valued by the vast majority of men (and women too).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:08 AM
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