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GastonUre/r/askMRP08/10/20 12:22 PM
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It gets better if you put in the work. I have 6yo heavily disabled since birth that requires 24/7 care. Wife left work. 13yo tried to commit suicide 2 years ago. Brother in law has a 12yo after leukemia treatment and bone marrow transplant. Suffering runs in the family. Get your ass into therapy, get on antidepressants if you are unable to operate for now. Its a bandaid but gives you time to take care of other things. Discuss couples therapy with the wife and find someone experienced that can ac…
/r/askMRP24/04/25 09:54 AM
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What the fuck did I just read. Dude, get therapy.
/r/askMRP23/05/23 10:01 AM
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Dude, stop giving fucks about her. Find better shit to focus your attention on. As long as your dick is in command of your life you will fail and be miserable.
/r/askMRP13/01/23 06:36 PM
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Superglue your lips together. That will help you get over the initial hurdle.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/22 03:28 PM
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this is my new favorite insult, thanks
/r/askMRP24/08/22 07:11 AM
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Get surgery for snoring. Screw wife's sleep, sleep apnea is dangerous and very bad for your health. Fixing that will help with snoring as a byproduct. First 2-3 weeks post-op sucks but then you get vastly better sleep and quality of life.
/r/askMRP12/07/22 02:04 PM
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The entire mrp sub tries to teach you not to be butthurt by changing your mental models. If you get rejected you should't be having those kind of punitive responses. Treat it like asking your buddy to go out for beers. He can't or doesn't want to because xyz. Just say it's ok and go do something else. The entire idea behind going out/away from your wife is so you can live out your initial butthurtness where she cant see how much of a little bitch you are and so you can work on your thinking. If …
/r/askMRP28/04/22 07:42 AM
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when will they learn
/r/askMRP27/04/22 06:30 AM
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It's a Christmas miracle. Askmrp post that is not more than 50% retarded. Good on you mate, make your life awesome and bring on only people that will make it more awesome.
/r/askMRP26/12/21 03:56 PM
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Stupendous idea. You should do that and make new post with replies and pm's you gonna get. For science, and also for laughs. We all need a good chuckle in those trying times.
/r/askMRP06/04/21 08:38 PM
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Unless she sent it with "Would you look at that MONSTER" In that case I'd say it's fine.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/21 10:38 AM
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Thanks for all the suggestions and feedback. Haven't seen that video, good stuff. I decided some time ago to avoid games like that, more recently decided not to spend money on them. Now it's a matter of breaking free. And yes, I keep my mind on the fact that I will enjoy playing Minecraft with my kids on the weekends once I get rid of my addiction.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 10:40 AM
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10lbs is around 4,5kg, is that the correct number? Doesn't feel that dramatic of a change compared to adding 2,5kg every time I lift. I track my lifts and increment weight as suggested by the program, that is 2,5kg every lift apart from DL where I am to add 5kg every session. I want to double those increments next week (+5kg/+10kg) as I am starting to feel comfortable around the barbell. I lift before anybody in the household wakes up and yes, I enjoy those "mental gains", the challenge and peac…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 08:28 AM
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That's... accurate. Will work on my wording and format to convey information better. Thanks for feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 08:18 AM
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Haven't thought about it this way. Interesting. Agreed gaming's a pussy way out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 08:17 AM
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Will improve format, thank you. Lifts are exactly as you wrote. I used to lurk fitness forum and it was a general approach to not count the bar. Would you post lifts including the bar weight? Gaming became my addiction and I decided to manage it to downscale and eventually remove it from my daily schedule.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 08:16 AM
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Fair point I guess. Still sucking at wording my situation properly. I work 9-5 job, full remote due to lockdowns. And recently have jack-shit to do. Noticed I procrastinate and play video games because of that. Realized I'm addicted and compensate stress with escapism. Decided to schedule my days to down-size gaming and spend my time productively. Catch up on work related self-development, get new marketable skills and do something more interesting in general. I used to smoke and been quitting 3…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 08:14 AM
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Thank you for well rounded reply. Yes I was all over the place with my post. Wrote it as emotional response I guess. Owned up my action as mistake, reinstating access. Wife is not bad with money. I was butthurt and handled the situation bad. Silver lining for me is I finally posted for the first time in askMRP, got my shit called out and it pushed me to post OYS to truly start my journey.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 09:11 AM
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OYS 1 Status: Age: 32, 190cm, 85kg, unknown bodyfat (skinnyfat status) Bench 2,5kg Squat 5kg Barbell Row 2,5kg OHP 2,5kg Deadlift 5kg Best climb 6b+ (FR) Married for 2 years, together for 4 | step-daughter 11yo, son 8yo, daughter 11months Reading: NMMNG, r/MRP Background: Got together with my wife and started building patch-work family. During initial peachy period that lasted way longer than it should, we had another kid. She was born with severe form of epilepsy, and artrogryphosis to top it o…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 09:04 AM
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Been in this boat over a year ago and a lurker only too until very recently. Not even a morning wood for me. Depressing shit. All got fixed by working out. My mistake was to focus on climbing and not lifting heavy. So hit the weights and do what others said. Sidebar properly.
/r/askMRP10/10/20 09:20 AM
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Years ago I stumbled upon sort of life-hack article explaining how to adjust your sleep patterns to sleep only 3x15minutes a day. I managed to get to 6 hours a day back then and now came back to such routine. Go to sleep around 11, get up at 5. Works for me for now.
/r/askMRP09/10/20 07:57 AM
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I just started and I don't intend to lift heavy before I get my form right. And my form is shit since last time I've been to proper gym was 12 years ago. 5x5 suggest incrementing loads 2,5kg/5kg every workout and this is what I am planning until I feel comfortable around barbell.
/r/askMRP09/10/20 07:44 AM
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Thank you for the perspective. I think it might be both actually, on me poorly describing the situation and subconsciously acting in order to punish the wife. What would be the best way going forward?
/r/askMRP08/10/20 03:50 PM
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Yes, it's escapism, and it's all the more alluring because of my situation, it does help cope with stress. Need to seriously broke it off. I quit smoking some time ago so I can quit that too. Budget is in place, I keep finances in an excel for a second year now and plan them ahead. I'd like to fuck my wife as I used to, sure. But I guess first I need to make myself fuck-worthy again (I engage plenty and overtly but quality is deteriorating fast, after reading replies I know why) and solve a prob…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 02:46 PM
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That was the setup when it comes to money. The "our money" was sitting on my old account which I was the owner and this is where my salary was flowing in. She had full access to that account, from which we took monthly agreed allowance to private accounts. This is the account to which I revoked access. Home budgeting pends rediscussion once dust settles.
/r/askMRP08/10/20 02:13 PM
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how could I even for a second think that Horns will fail to rip me a new one. How the fuck do you provide tangible information then to explain the situation when asking for advice?
/r/askMRP08/10/20 02:10 PM
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fuck man, that made me laugh even though it shouldn't. point taken, thanks for your time.
/r/askMRP08/10/20 02:07 PM
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Solid reply, thank you.
/r/askMRP08/10/20 02:06 PM
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Thanks, as much as I hate this I agree and understand that it's her choice if she leaves. Only messages I left were logistics related, asked that car is returned by the time it's time to pick up my son. And that is only because she took car seats with her. With my youngest being disabled she needs a special seat and taxi drivers in Poland don't keep any child seats at hand AFAIK. And my son needs a car seat too. Public transit is out of question since even mild fever sends my daughter to the hos…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 01:32 PM
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Rember there's always another hole. Don't get attached to one and you'll be good. And if you ask "why bother?" just about anything, you're right. Don't. Lie down and die. Stop wasting perfectly good oxygen you weak willed maggot.
/r/askMRP02/04/20 06:37 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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