| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Any good free resource for online dating? | Fundamentals | GatsbyCode | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:10 PM |
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| 1 | I fucking hate YouTube dating adviceAll modern women will lose interest when you open up is true tho'. I had this on FB dating, I opened up because I was bad at strategy and she lost interest from it. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Can’t pull girls from cold approachI have both no cold approach results and no online results. I do get a little bit of matches, mostly on FB dating but can't convert them - they all fizzle out, I can't make anything happen. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Can’t pull girls from cold approachAt least you get them online lays | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Are the pickup gurus getting rejected frequently still?Look, when guru gets rejected they are typically just polite convos or even some flirting that go nowhere. If I get rejected I get blown outs or no vibe no nothing / awkward / stupid stuff going on. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 12:38 PM |
| -9 | Are the pickup gurus getting rejected frequently still?No gurus don't get rejected a lot, they have cold approach work for them and they get pussy (the better gurus). That is why they are gurus. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach and numbers ultimate success rateYou don't need to ask for number, you should prob. have a convo and flirt first. Anyway, let's assume success rate (to get a lay) is 2% or 1 in 50. This is fully workable, you can get new lay every 2 weeks doing 25 approaches pet week. The problem is if success rate is 0, then the yield is equal to sitting at home and not approaching. Anyway my personal experience is bad, I failed at daygame... got no if any numbers from daygame, only one I can remember, a hot girl but she did not respond to my … | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Any good free resource for online dating?I hate confidence. Only a fool is confident. Confidence is delusional. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 08:19 PM |
| 12 | Using dating apps to find leads on LinkedInI don't like this idea, I think it is creepy af | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Any good free resource for online dating?Yes I am exaggerating but keeping it fair, I'm almost guaranteed to have very poor to poor results. I tried some cold approach back in college when I was younger and hotter too, but no results. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Any good free resource for online dating?I've watched playingwithfire, but have had zero success trying to be sexual in online dating chats whatsoever. Girls will often insta unmatch me or block me if I try to be suggestive at all. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Any good free resource for online dating?I haven't cold approached for years, the girls will pepper spray me, call the police on me and put footage of my cringy cold approach to social media to shame me | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Me. I know. I've had extemely poor results being honest and upfront. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?They are not scared, it simply doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Been at this for 11 yearsGoal is to get laid. First milestone is first lay, second is a few more lays and after this you can optimize. | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 04:28 PM |
| -1 | Been at this for 11 yearsWhat do you mean by moving the needle? Haven't gotten laid from daygame yet? | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Been at this for 11 yearsNo way | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 03:53 PM |
| 17 | Why it is hard for short guys in datingIt is not hard for short guys, it is hard for the incels | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 01:34 PM |
| 20 | I rejected a girl 15 minutes before we were meeting for our date (story time + identifying red flags pre-date)This is longer than a book | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 12:51 PM |
| 1 | 21 and still a virgin.In my language they call it a pull if you had sex. Makeout is makeout, I've had a few too. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | 21 and still a virgin.You have not pulled in clubs if you're still virgin. Makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Jerking off to her picture before the date to reduce anxiety. Does it help?I like the idea, not for reducing anxiety but for worshipping the date via masturbating on her | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 01:57 PM |
| -4 | How do you make same night lays easier off dating apps?If you can get sex from dating apps, good for you | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:51 PM |
| -3 | Is it worth paying for Tinder?I was on t1nd3r in 2015. This is 10 years ago. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I got laidInteresting! So you got some sex, good. However, was it all and all worth it? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Which dating coach programs or systems have you gotten laid with?None, but I got closer than b4 from old RSD stuff. Had a few makeouts and a few club grinds from RSD Julien's PIMP and got Tinder matches after upgrading my profile using advice from RSD Jeffie's the System. B4 those pick up materials I did not get any makeouts or kisses, no dances, no Tinder matches. As I contemplate my life and there is nothing good I think the nash equilibrium is to goon on porn and not get laid and be sad. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Which dating coach programs or systems have you gotten laid with?This is the true way of the Jungle | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | PLease give some constructive criticism on my gawd awful text gameI don't know, I'm not good at texting with women too. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 05:29 AM |
| 2 | What Makes a City "Good" for Dating? Or for Single Guys?Nothing, the Chad gets results in all of the cities. | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 06:00 PM |
| 119 | When age turns them offLOL 24 is not really "older women" | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you guys bring things like flowers to girls you're seeingNever I think, this is not the current meta. It's 20th century meta. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 09:26 AM |
| -4 | She has a boyfriend, what should i do?Steal her from her boyfriend. Be the Chad. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:43 PM |
| 319 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?No idea, fuck around and find out! | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Are clubs tough or do I just suck ? How do I improve my game ?I just picked a fairly attractive girl from the bottom floor to dance with me back when I went to a club. Be a Chad! | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 07:11 AM |
| 0 | What’s the oldest “current” photo you’ve used on a dating app?Yeah but also I enjoyed going to clubs and trying to pick up the club girl more than online dating | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 08:12 PM |
| 6 | What’s the oldest “current” photo you’ve used on a dating app?My oldest was 4 years. 2015 pics in 2019. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here bang 6’s for fun lolThe correct response | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 05:25 AM |
| 2 | I only started improving with women when I stopped taking rejection personallyI had untreated ADHD at the time and wishful thinking, I might've missed it or was unable to mentally accept it. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I only started improving with women when I stopped taking rejection personallyThanks! Hopefully after 100-300 years the society is mostly nice and the truth is nice too! | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 01:19 PM |
| 3 | I only started improving with women when I stopped taking rejection personallyNo results, I didn't seriously restart pickup. I built up my career to be great from 2016 to 2021 but then had a mental health episode and lost everything because of it. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 12:33 PM |
| 14 | I only started improving with women when I stopped taking rejection personallyYou have to. I tried PUA in 2015 but I mostly failed because I took my rejections and near misses VERY personally, in turn I tried few total sets before giving up. The ugly truth is people don't care about other people, esp. strangers in general and judge others very harshly and mostly undeservedly, inconsiderate. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 12:16 PM |
| 4 | "You look gay" - biggest compliment and insult you can take advantage of as a manI don't have his picture, I've no clue. Yet if women repeatedly say it, it is likely. | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Women's respectA girl started disrespecting me because I didn't fuck her the first night after we met at a club, when we were alone in my place That's how it happened for me | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 08:03 PM |
| 36 | "You look gay" - biggest compliment and insult you can take advantage of as a manAre you gay though? | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 02:50 PM |
| 2 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysYeah that's one way! | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 08:38 PM |
| -4 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysDon't approach 500 girls to get laid. It's harassment and you can get in trouble. You should be able to get laid in first 50-100 approaches. If you don't, it's over. Now I read about a guy who got laid on his 700-some approach and I guess if you truly want to you can be a hero and go all the way, same as him. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 05:52 PM |
| 11 | You cant survive the modern dating market unless you are good in bedNo way! | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get Laid (II)I check 2 through 10. I had a oneitis too, but this was a long ago. I don't approach anymore, I just scroll. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 11:04 AM |
| 0 | Old School PUA stuff - still works or no?I've no idea I've not tried cold approach PUA for years | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Can a woman abstain for engaging in physical intimacy with a guy if she thinks he is a player ?Yeah. Has happened before. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 03:12 PM |
| 3 | How did therapy help you with game, exactly?I started talking with myself in the mirror and realized all my shortcomings was past trauma and harm from others, so I broke all those limiting beliefs via more self-talk, challenges and practice to do everything I did perfectly. Then I did everything perfectly and felt serene and perfectly in control about it. This is on top of I already had done all the normal productivity stack, time blocking, same wakeup time, sports, meditation, maintenance time blocks to keep flat tidy, digital maintenanc… | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 4 | How did therapy help you with game, exactly?I personally found therapy a scam and only wasted money trying. Didn't get anything good from it. Only benefits I've had is from self-improvement done my way by me, without any involvement from others. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Remember Simple Pickup?I hate them, they're a scam | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 09:18 AM |
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