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yeah. If that's what you want (you, not her, not your mom, not the spergs here you're asking advice to) she can get it up in bed, is in good physical shape, and willing to follow your lead, why not? In my opinion, looks above the threshold are added value, attitude is a necessity. Are you rating her good though? A 5 is supposed to be a woman not unpleasant to look at, maybe a little cute but not really a looker neither. A 5 in great shape and some self-care can stretch to a 6, maybe a 7. (Face/1…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:19 PM
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Legit the good advice is right here. OP forget the other comments made by spergs. Relax and do exactly this. It'll blow away on its own
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:07 PM
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mama didn't raise no quitter
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:06 PM
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Lost a bud from college because of those bullshit lockdowns too. Fucking morons pushing young men to the rope to save a few grandpas. Just keep at it. By being strong and living a life as good as they should've had, we'll honor their memory.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:20 PM
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Then don't. She dumped you. Before you get oneitis have some respect for yourself and ghost that hoe. Sex is cheap find other holes.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:58 PM
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Legit this. Don't mateguard is a warning. Too many guys who bring their girlfriend at the gym get caught up in this. You have to accept that she will get checked out and you will see the dudes do it unsubtly. Just grin and keep lifting. By each doing your thing you'll lower your chances of unconsciously starting to mateguard her.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:29 AM
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It was just to fool the other sister into thinking they weren't talking to you anymore just to save face and not seem like sluts. They probably blocked you at the same time in front of each other to prove they did it lol
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:09 PM
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There's a reason it's called The Red Pill. This knowledge can be dangerous, not so much for others as it is for yourself. Shattering a dream reality can have devastating effects on the mind. Some people have to out right reject it in order stay sane. Others try to embrace it, but their mind can't really comprehend this new reality, so become resentful. The resentment can turn to bitterness and hate. When your are exposed to something that can affect you but you can't understand it, it makes you …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:08 AM
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Then what are you doing here?
/r/askTRP21/01/21 12:19 AM
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It's not a big deal if you like the girl enough and you're actually free. Just reply something like '' I need to do/ I had planned to do X at X time but could meet up after'' This shows you're busy but have some flexibility. But don't get too used to doing that. Your time, even free alone time, is the most valuable thing you have in this life. Try to live on your own schedule as much as feasible. Likewise try not to sacrifice your rest, bitches hardly sleep during the night but a man making a li…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:51 PM
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lmao
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:25 PM
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She's got no logic, only feelz. You gotta understand that a lot of female behavior doesn't come from the conscious part of the brain. They only rationalize their actions with that part of the brain after the fact. Hard to tell from a short post with little context, but she might be checking her options to protect her ego (which is massive for females). This would be in response to the dread you're generating (other female attention mostly) which makes her think you might dump her. The cheating a…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:05 PM
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If they never made a move it's their problem. Something similar happened in my friends group, one guy was getting hit on by this girl who would hang with us sometimes. He didn't care much but planned to smash since it was on the table. My other friend was interested in her but was too beta to make a move. He told me, and I let my other friend know it was bothering him. They talked it out and my non-beta friend backed off to give the beta a chance. Guess what? he never made any move. Cock-blocked…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:37 PM
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This gotta be a troll. No don't escalate, that would be autistic, she clearly doesn't want anything to do with you anymore let alone fuck lmao.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:58 AM
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It wasn't a call out as much as a remark that I noticed she used an old pic, but I get what you mean. It is petty as she's not an LTR so I really shouldn't get upset if she doesn't meet LTR standards. That's why I posted you guys give great outsider insight thanks.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:54 PM
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True, I got riled up over a plate acting like a plate as if we were in a relationship. I'll get back at gaming other girls stop giving her so much headspace thanks
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:46 PM
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Your breakdown got good insights, she's getting too much headspace. I felt upset because this isn't usual attitude from her in the dynamic we 've establish (light D/s) but I really shouldn't care as I had already established she's not relationship material. Oneitis creeping probably. thanks.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:40 PM
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Yeah, I had to dig too deep for the EC comments to my liking, but you guys did give me some insight on a very similar situation I had (got baited with a massage too). I guess it's mostly a thankless job... but thanks anyways, you're doing good work helping dummies like me becoming better men.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:21 PM
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Why is the only good answer buried under white knight trash? I'm sorry but aren't most comment threads here breaking the rules of answering from a RP perspective? I was looking forward to reading the comments as a similar issue was happening to me last week and wanted a different perspective but instead all I got is moralizing trash justifying the girl using a bait and switch tactic to get free attention.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:07 PM
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I know how you feel, because I felt and sometimes still feel the same, but you need to let go. Be the best man you can be when with your son, and let go when without him. Your son will come to understand why you couldn't stay when he was young, and he'll grow stronger for it. It's really the only way with the fucked up systems we got in place. You're his best hope at a good life, so no matter what you need to stay in the picture, because without you he probably won't make it. So keep walking out…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:06 PM
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Shit man that's pretty straightfoward. I've been with one of those for a little while, sad for her but you need to think of your mental health first. Get out but thread carefully my dude, the best is to slowly drift appart. Get a job or hobby that takes up alot of your time, tell her you're too busy studying or whatever. You'll get some crazy at the beginning, but much less than if you break it off harsh. TBH though your relationship was pretty long so I'm not sure how it's all gonna go, mine wa…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:24 PM
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could you elaborate on how you found out she is BPD? You seem to throw alot of contradictions in your replies and I wanna make sure you're not getting advice for something that doesn't apply to you. Some women can show traits similar to BPD without being full crazy too. It needs to come with other signs/traits that are clearly indicative of her being in the BPD spectrum to be an actual one.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:20 PM
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This is the answer you're looking for OP. You gotta remember that hypergamy isn't an objective concept for women like it would be for us men. For her, hypergamy is tingles, which is influenced by the man's SMV but it mostly comes from her own mind. New things naturally generate more tingles, that's just he way things are. The good side is now you're free to find an objectively better woman, while she's gonna end up regretting her decision because it was based on fleeting emotions.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:53 AM
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Hoes fishing for attention from their orbiter pool known as "matches". Don't even bother IMO.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:13 PM
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Man, do what you gotta do and fuck all that moralistic bullshit., especially from an internet white knight/girl/neckbeard shemale or whatever. She obviously wants you, and brings down lower value men. When you go for the prize there's risks involved and being pumped and dumped is one of them. If it's too much for her then she can settle for equal or lower value men, the guys she already knows will give her the commitment without questions.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:06 PM
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lmao the hot dog shit made me lose it in the bus. Bro you made my day!
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:02 PM
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She's keeping her options open, probably thinking she can play you both off for a while seeing which one brings the most commitement/value to her. She obviously overplayed her cards since you found out, but part of me is wondering if she's not playing dread game on you since she knowingly gave you her phone, with his messages on top nonetheless.In both cases she's playing you, overtly or not, and it's up to you to decide if she overstepped her bounds and if a relationship is worth pursuing or de…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 04:39 PM
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Showing passion is showing vulnerability, because being passionate about something means it has an important place in your life. The difference between the girl reacting positively or negatively towards that vulnerability is how you hold frame when it gets shit tested.It's basically giving her a premeditated target that you know will not break under impact. If you don't act butthurt when people take jabs at something important to you that would normaly weaken a lesser man, it shows strong frame …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 02:10 PM
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Yeah pretty much this. After a while you realize that alot of the redpill stuff is truly innate male behaviour, just inconsistent with beta behaviour slipping out at various critical times. I had started lifting and moved on from my oneitis, she noticed and got attracted back. I had good reasons to give her a second chance ( child) I thought I could hold frame( which wasn't a coherent concept for me at the time) and when she'd eventually leave me again it wouldn't affect me. Caught oneitis back …
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:28 PM
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Got dumped by ltr when we were living together. This was my ex from my very previous ltr, she had dated other guys in between (lots). She very likely cheated both times at the end, never admitted but taking the pill made me realize that some events were strong evidence of what happened. I was looking for explanations about what I was witnessing ( her getting attracted to me a second time,breaking frame and her losing respect,light-switch effect,etc.) and to answer why my dating life was so incon…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:27 AM
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sidebar: use dating sites.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:07 AM
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Because sex is their bargaining chip to haggle some commitment/attention. She literally says it herself ''she Gave it all away''. They are having regrets because they completely surrendered to your frame, you're now free to give them what they were initially after, or not, and they know it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:03 AM
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You come off very pushy and needy. The fact that you wasted more than 40 minutes in a car outside her place shows that you have no abundance, and even worst you were on the phone with her so she knows it too. Cut your losses, she sees you as an orbiter who overstepped his boundaries anyway.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:55 AM
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Dude I think you're rushing a decision towards commitment, which many here would call a bitch move. You've got it good, keep spinning and enjoy all your plates at your leisure. You've only known this girl 2 weeks, it's nowhere near long enough to have a clear assessment of her quality as a ltr or whatever you're looking for (Like the other guy said I think you're way too young to commit too). In the mean time you can try to encourage her to do some physical activities with you if you really enjo…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:01 AM
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Sacrifice what? Looks? maybe a little but if you're in for the long run look at her mother/relatives to make sure your early sacrifice doesn't snowball like that other guy said. Personality?Accept some yellow/red flags? No.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:51 PM
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Vulnerability like seeming passionate about something, or showing strong emotions towards certain events/things. Giving her a taste of what's inside that beautiful stoic Frame that you keep up. Kinda like a tease so she can try to chase those emotions, or try to direct them towards herself. It creates comfort because emotions are part of a woman's world, something she understands. In her mind emotions=attention.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 11:35 PM
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