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I Wish I Knew This Before My Divorce: Ending the Battle Between Holding On and Letting Go Looks cheesy but was the best book for me and life changing
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/21 02:23 AM
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As somebody who went through something very similar (cheating while in therapy and not admitting it) and who has tried reconciliation after things ended with the other guy and she has actually worked hard on making things right, I see NOTHING here that warrants sticking around. It’s hard to hear in your shoes, but it’s often the truth. BTW, we tried reconciliation and we’re good friends, but it’s just not working out. A few reasons why: You said you tried everything and she’s still cheating, so …
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/20 06:26 PM
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The advice here mentioned helped me a lot, but I was really surprised how much reading the book “I Wish I Knew This Before My Divorce: Ending the Battle Between Holding On and Letting Go” helped. It looked cheesy but it really explained how the amount of attachment to her causes pain and how to cope with it and be at peace with it. It sounds impossible now, but it won’t be.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/20 02:35 PM
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Yes I just posted about it today. It is different for every situation and harder than divorce in my case
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/20 06:07 PM
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It’s not a direct answer, but I would talk to a good lawyer ASAP and not saying a word to her until then. Once you say anything about it, you can’t put that genie back in the bottle
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/20 02:41 AM
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Don’t tell him to let you know if you can do anything. Just call him and tell him you want to get together with him. He may not want to feel like a burden. When you do get together, ask questions and listen, but talk about other positive stuff too and gauge his mood to see what he feels like discussing at any random time. Some of my friends send random “thinking about you, how are you doing” texts that are small but mean the world
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/20 07:55 PM
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Same
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 11:24 PM
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