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| 1 | Why are men expected to accept the responsibilities of fatherhood before they are allowed certainty?It doesn’t mean that, but I’d bet it’s not far away | /r/MensRights | 21/07/26 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to accept the responsibilities of fatherhood before they are allowed certainty?Even with that considered 30 percent is still a lot and I’d probably just guess it’s not much lower than 20% in the wild | /r/MensRights | 19/07/26 04:35 PM |
| 6 | "Take Me Out to the Ball Game" is about a super pushy spoiled woman.This ain’t the song we need to fight man. Go after Sabrina carpenter or Taylor swift. I get it, but the song at this point means something else entirely | /r/MensRights | 19/07/26 04:32 PM |
| 4 | "Take Me Out to the Ball Game" is about a super pushy spoiled woman.Bro I get you, and I know we all hate the entitlement from dating women, but chill out. People just sing the song out of tradition, it’s a cute song nobody pays attention to the lyrics. People aren’t gonna stop singing it, and I’m not gonna be the lame-o that refuses to sing it because it’s built off some goofy story. It’s meant to be fairly tongue in cheek. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/26 02:44 PM |
| 4 | In the name of “chivalry” men have let toxic women get away with everythingYea but all women aren't "ladies" | /r/MensRights | 14/07/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Stop conflating the Men’s Rights Movement with the manosphereThe Manosphere as a whole is just a general advice, entertainment, and media that’s generally aimed for men and our perspective. The spectrum is big and hard to nail down, but generally I’d say content and information aimed for men. I can tell you how the Manosphere helped me, I used to be a people pleasing spineless overweight guy who used to have no confidence and diagnosed with depression. Manosphere content improved my health by encouraging my to get fit, to get realistic about women and not… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Stop conflating the Men’s Rights Movement with the manosphereLike I said, what isn’t toxic in its extremes, the Manosphere can be toxic, but I’d almost argue it’s done more good than bad, but the bad is so much more flashier than the good. Like when people talk about the Manosphere, they always gravitate towards the Andrew Tates or the Fresh and Fit podcast. I think most guys in the Manosphere mock those guys or don’t take them serious. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/26 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Stop conflating the Men’s Rights Movement with the manosphereThe ones that get the most attention and mainstream notice does, and the generally the healthy effects of the Manosphere aren’t polarizing enough to receive enough attention. It can be negative on the extreme side, but that’s with everything. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/26 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Stop conflating the Men’s Rights Movement with the manosphereNot all Manosphere is a monolith and tells boys to not experience emotion Society has become so convinced that the way that women feel emotion and express it is the normal/heallthy way, that a lack of overt physical emotional expression is labeled as “not human”. We keep talking about emotions under a gynocentric umbrella of what people should do. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/26 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Never become a "Step Father"Because dating standards are maybe the one thing in life you’re entitled to be selfish and honest about. If a woman doesn’t want to date a guy shorter than her, she’s entitled to that. If men don’t want to date single mothers, we should be entitled to that without being called detrimental? We don’t have to be “fair” to every preference that exists because at the end of the day WE’RE the ones who are gonna have to spend time with them. I think being dishonest about your own preferences and the tr… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How feminist movement is in real life [meme]The way you framed it can’t be deciphered from these studies. I agree with the sentiment that women are more altruistic and caregiving, but it’s not because they care about other people over themselves. How do we know that they aren’t more “altruistic” do to a more selfish desire to be higher on a social totem pole. These studies kind of just blankly say women care more than men but they don’t talk about “why” enough to decipher whether it’s for selfless reasons or not. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 04:03 PM |
| 2 | How feminist movement is in real life [meme]When he says “acts like a men” it’s more about a euphemism for women who “think” they’re acting like a man. They aren’t displaying actual masculine traits, but their behavior is fueled by a feminine narcissism that often goes overlooked. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How feminist movement is in real life [meme]I don’t understand you comparing “academic feminists” as the real true feminists against these men on this subreddit who have to deal with all of these “fake feminists”. Doesn’t really seem fair for you to judge guys in a way because their experience of the majority of people who labels themselves feminists by saying they’re un aware of the true feminists actually helping them. I could say the same that you aren’t aware of the actual men rights activists that don’t blame feminism | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Never become a "Step Father"Exceptions are the situations outside of the average, not always extreme outliers. A man making the decision to be a stepfather is usually not a great decision for him. We’re not talking about “family success”, but individual success. Sure, I guess betting your house on a lottery ticket could be good if you actually “won”… I don’t mind informing people about the possible good outcomes, but we have to be truthful about the actual probabilities of such good outcomes. You can still be a good stepfa… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Never become a "Step Father"When will telling men it’s ok to have standards not be considered “Incel behavior”. It’s cool if YOU got with a Single mom dude, but don’t bash dudes for trying to be truthful about the situation a guy would likely end up with trying to date a single mother. You have your experience which is great, but do you honestly think it’ll work out like that for most guys. Especially considering op is talking mostly about men without kids? We don’t have to be incels to recognize that certain situations ar… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Never become a "Step Father"I think your opinion is biased here and it’s making you unable to see the bigger picture | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Never become a "Step Father"How about realizing your situation wasn’t the norm | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Never become a "Step Father"The exceptions don’t make the rule, of course we can’t speak for every individual situation and we can’t control someone who wants to make a bad choice despite that. We can only warn the ones of the future and give them knowledge to at least know what they’re getting themselves into instead of continuing to feed men the delusion that they’re strong for being a step dad | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Pew Research shows that 63% of American men ages 18-29 are single.lol I was trying to be a bit conservative in my estimate. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/26 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Pew Research shows that 63% of American men ages 18-29 are single.Charisma has become way more important in modern times than before. Most guys don’t have innate charisma and women generally want a charismatic guy. Before, even if you weren’t charismatic, you had the chance to stand out between 2-3 other suitors. Now you’re competing against potentially dozens of guys for one girl. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/26 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Democrats introduce paid menstrual leave bill with 12 days off per yearThey aren’t mental health days, they’re “whatever the fuck” you want days. Men will never be accommodated so we will never be equal | /r/MensRights | 02/06/26 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Democrats introduce paid menstrual leave bill with 12 days off per yearShe can use them for that OR for menstrual cycle if she needs. It’s not days for men to do whatever and only menstrual dates women, it’s just extra days and take them as you need them for whatever. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/26 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Democrats introduce paid menstrual leave bill with 12 days off per yearThis has been debunked time and time again | /r/MensRights | 02/06/26 09:42 AM |
| 5 | Democrats introduce paid menstrual leave bill with 12 days off per yearShe’d fell disadvantage because a man is enjoying his day off? | /r/MensRights | 02/06/26 09:36 AM |
| 1 | "Rape is a nonconsensual sexual act plus institutional power. And because of the patriarchy men hold power over women and thus by definition women can not rape men."Why would they just say this outwardly to somebody they assume believes the same shit they do? If you’re friends with them, then they aren’t gonna wanna just say what should be understood already. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/26 12:59 AM |
| 1 | In search of a pro male musician.Ngl, as a musician, that’s almost career suicide. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/26 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Do you think modern men are becoming weaker than previous generations? Physically, mentally, emotionally, everything feels different now. Why do you think this shift is happening? Or do you think older generations are just romanticizing the past?I feel you, the point I was making wasn’t necessarily about hitting someone proving emotional strength i.e “For better or worse”, but just the ability to make your own decision. Not saying that you should do it, but it’s the fact that nowadays you kinda can’t do it. It’s not completely dependent on self control anymore because we have influences that are controlling modern men externally now. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/26 05:00 PM |
| 9 | Do you think modern men are becoming weaker than previous generations? Physically, mentally, emotionally, everything feels different now. Why do you think this shift is happening? Or do you think older generations are just romanticizing the past?I think we are becoming weaker to an extent, but not from our own decisions. Because of the growing concerns of safety and society over the decades, the amount of control the government or authority has over the average modern man is higher than in the past. There’s less things available for a man to take into his own hands than before. If you’re in control of less things, you have less avail to prove competence, which to me, is a predictor of both emotional and physical strength. If someone dis… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/26 03:37 PM |
| 3 | "Rape is a nonconsensual sexual act plus institutional power. And because of the patriarchy men hold power over women and thus by definition women can not rape men."Oh it’s definitely a view feminist would say buddy. In a better world they wouldn’t, but I’m not sure why you would think otherwise. This is actually one of the tamer things they said | /r/MensRights | 27/05/26 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Wife let herself go as soon as we got married and wasted her youthful years out of shape, now I’m resentful and fantasize about running off with a younger womanMaybe consider getting her on ozempic or a glp-1 bro. I’m a younger guys, but Ngl this is why I won’t get married. There’s no way to approach this to be the “good guy”. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/26 05:16 AM |
| 1 | I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever.Can you see how if white boys were surrounded by people who said the same things as you that they’d eventually get fed up. They have a problem and they’ve been raised to feel guilty for being oppressors | /r/MensRights | 23/05/26 05:54 PM |
| 1 | "Most men aren't evil, they just don't stand up to those who are." is completely void of nuance.You missed the point, some evil men shouldn’t be why you’re allowed to demonize all men and then the cop out is that men need to stand up more to evil men. We have systems set in place, if a guy does something bad, in most cases he’s going through the systems we set in place to handle evil people. If a guy hits a woman, wtf am I supposed to do a random guy. Why would I ask all women to be responsible for the crazy ones? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/26 05:03 PM |
| 0 | How to not hate women?Why would you say that? Why dismiss the reality that him and a lot of guys are living. These aren’t just some basement dwellers. Even the fact that he’s self aware enough to know not to totally by into the hate. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/26 03:45 PM |
| 13 | "Why women are still afraid of men (The Grape Academy)" by Jerry Z, completely misses the point.You made a false equivalence. A better example would be saying that all Germans were nazis instead of finding out only a small percentage were actually nazis. They’re both still bad but they both have different reactions that are appropriately scaled. One of them makes it easy to condemn all German people, and the other lets it be easier to look at the nazis in an isolated away from the Germans themselves. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/26 02:34 PM |
| 2 | 40-year study shows that hiring discrimination favours women over menThe opportunity is there, some jobs women can do better than men and vice versa. Why are we looking for equal outcomes. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/26 02:03 PM |
| 29 | 40-year study shows that hiring discrimination favours women over menBut it’s…. not | /r/MensRights | 20/05/26 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't be able to 'block' a paternity test because of the rights of the child.What I responded to was the fact you say it’s mandatory for child support, I disputed that. Anything else is a diffferent goal post, unless you have to prove that it is in fact mandatory for child support. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/26 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't be able to 'block' a paternity test because of the rights of the child.You’re moving the goal post. I made point to tell you that it’s not mandatory for child support. I hadn’t said anything about what you should or shouldn’t do. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/26 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't be able to 'block' a paternity test because of the rights of the child.It’s not really, if you decide to not take the test you’re put on child support. If they send the notice to false address and you don’t get it, too bad now you’re on child support. The warning is mandatory, test isnt | /r/MensRights | 20/05/26 03:19 AM |
| 1 | i browse this sub from time to time so i come with a question: what would make you feel most valued in a relationship as a man? what are some things you would want women to know?In most cases, what you’d want from him, would be great to receive. Words of affirmations and compliments, small gestures. Knowing how stroke a man’s ego | /r/MensRights | 20/05/26 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Double standardsThe term is whatever, but the context of how it’s used is often placed in a sexist way. Words by themselves in a void don’t really mean much, “negro” isn’t necessarily a racist term, but if you were a white person and walked up to a black person and called them a “negro”, that wouldn’t sound great. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/26 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Double standardsA lot of the things that I see labeled “toxic masculinity” is just a result of a person being a bad person and not really all that reflective of masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/26 01:06 AM |
| 13 | Scanning r/women and r/mensrightsWhat I don’t like is how blanket the “both sides” are bad statement is. Most of the generalizations made here are based on some type of foundation and it’s not rooted in hate, but observation and understanding. Also the men here have no issue calling out things that get too toxic for the sake of trying to maintain some type of decorum. The same can’t be said for the other subreddit you’re talking about. Every and anything bad to say about men is free game regardless if it has any real world bear… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Only Male in the office. They always talk ish about men.Never had that experience | /r/MensRights | 19/05/26 04:59 PM |
| 72 | I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever.Man I swear, like once I became colleged aged and looked noticeably like a grown adult… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ?Sure, but the point I’m trying to get is the fact that it’s even possible for them to easily make that decision vs the other way around would cause uproar | /r/MensRights | 15/04/26 03:30 AM |
| 1 | why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ?They also made that decision based on the general public sentiment and they knew that there push back would be minimal. Again like the above commenter it’s not the laws themselves are guarded, but society has conveniently been set up to encourage things like this. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/26 01:31 AM |
| 2 | why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ?How the Boy Scouts needed to allow girls but the Girl Scouts get to stay just for girls. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ?It should but they won’t do that | /r/MensRights | 15/04/26 12:46 AM |
| -1 | Are Feminists Right in Seeking Equal Treatment With Men?Why don't you get a divorce? | /r/MensRights | 18/03/26 05:00 AM |
| 3 | I'm starting to hate the society and even femalesI was talking to a friend about this, but part of it is you have to almost live in a delusion yourself. You have to protect your mind and sanitity to make sure it doesn't go to the worst places. I don't use TikTok, whenever I see a woman saying some egregious stuff on social media, I try to swipe or I immediately exit the app, when I hear something in real life, I erase it from my head. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/26 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?If you feel like everyone else knows their child more than the parents, then I guess I can see how you think that way, but I don't share that thought process. Schools are for learning about different things, not to be indoctrinated about what's "normal". Heterosexuality doesn't really need to be "Exposed" to. In most cases, it's life these kids are grown up in. We can teach acceptance without having to talk about sexuality. Plenty of children's books might have a character like a triangle be dif… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?I get that, it’s a nuanced topic. I still think there should be a better way to go about it involving the parents, but this isn’t really hill I’d want to die on anyway just because of how much I’m not really involved in this stuff anyways. I don’t really like forced diversity/inclusivity really anytime, just kinda muddies the integrity of art for art’s sake in a way. That’s a different conversation though. I just don’t think kids need to be learning about what’s normal inside school or forced to… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 04:12 AM |
| 6 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?I’m not talking about what’s offensive. I’m talking about the principle of respecting people in the first place. If decency is calling people what they want to be called, which is what is being advocated for, why is “cis gendered” where the line is drawn. Also “cis” has been used in insulting way even when it’s known that to be offensive. I’ve seen and heard people use it just because they know it’s not something we want to be called. If you’re scientifically a man and I call you him even though… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?Yea but calling some “he” isn’t a slur, but some people treat it as such. 🤷🏾♂️ If we’re in the camp that people should be called what they want to be called, I don’t understand why we now get caught up in what’s scientific when we don’t have any issue calling someone biologically born a man a woman. It just seems kinda selective. Edits: If you tell me to call you a woman even if scientifically you’re a man, what is the problem with not calling me “cis gendered”? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?I mean, it think it’s one of those “vocal minority” things and the people who have the most power are part of it. Truthfully though, I really couldn’t care less about who someone lays down with or what they choose to do. Seems like a weird hill to argue on in my eyes. I do think it’s reasonable for parents to know about their “queer kids” though, and I’m not entirely convinced of the motives of including gay/queer men in children’s books. At the very least, not in any books used in school. Outsi… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Where can I find peace whilst surrounded by people who hate men?I have question, if we are asked to respect whatever pronouns/names that people come up with to identify themselves with, what’s so hard about being asked to not be called “cis-gendered”. We’re supposed to ignore every rule or definition when it comes to all of these other identifying names, but when we say time and again that we don’t want to be called “cis-gendered”, all of sudden the definitions of words actually matter? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 03:31 AM |
| 1 | "icks" do not exist. Right?Are you saying ick isn’t a real word or that it isn’t a real thing? It’s a real thing based on the fact multiple people can say they’ve gotten the “ick” We argue about whether it should be included as part of the language, but that’s how we make words. The community as a whole uses something with an agreed upon understanding. I often don’t like how women use it or what they feel deserves the “ick”, but I think the word/idea itself is valid. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/26 01:29 AM |
| 5 | "icks" do not exist. Right?It’s a bad behavior that gives me the ick. Other bad behaviors don’t really make me ick like that fr. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/26 09:40 PM |
| 2 | A woman who makes her husband “earn” sex is not a wife. She’s a prostitute.By definition, it means you are duty bound and accountable Yes, when you get married, you are physically, emotionally, and spiritually duty bound to your partner. You should WANT to have it, every time. There should be absolutely no pressure. If there is pressure or some sort of obligation involved in sex, then it is wrong. You're using a lot of dogmatic language. Why should people "want" it every time, and why is it wrong if you don't. There's plenty of spouses that might not want to do it, but… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/26 05:23 PM |
| 11 | A woman who makes her husband “earn” sex is not a wife. She’s a prostitute.I don’t think anybody said anything about “demand”. It’s about responsibilities. For some reason In a marriage, men are expected to continue to do everything that we do regardless if we’re mad or not feeling it today. Why should you get to use sex as a bargaining token and withhold it from the marriage? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/26 12:28 PM |
| 13 | My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial?What are you waffling about? We’re talking about protecting before marriage assets. If they stay together and he earns or saves in the marriage, she’ll still have some money to help herself if need be. We’re worried about the often gross overcompensating nature men often have to go through in the case of divorce. There’s WAY more men who get fucked in divorce regularly than women. Common sense would tell you to as a man to be wary of that. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/26 06:41 PM |
| 25 | My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial?Bro look into getting a trust. It’s a more secure way to protect yourself. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/26 06:38 PM |
| 3 | What do you respond with when people make insulting comments about menI mean the line is thin between what’s radical and what isn’t. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/26 03:55 AM |
| 17 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?So the road to merit is to start by not caring about merit? All of the stuff you’re so scared about is just stuff that you assume to be real like someone being scared of a black man. You guys have built a very extreme approach for a problem that we haven’t even identified as being a real problem or not. Plus, it sounds lol you’re willing to hurt the majority for the one individual. You’re willing to risk the spots of dozens maybe even hundreds of employees who have better qualities just so one o… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | People, get off the internet a bit and go do something IRLHalf still isn’t equal Affirmative is discrimination based on sex, it takes away and deserving opportunities someone else could’ve had to give to someone because of they were a woman. Sure they can both just retire sooner but the fact that men are essentially strong armed to work longer in order to get their rightfully earned retirement funds. If you take it out earlier, then you get taxed on it more. Men have less of right to retire than women do To also add on that Family laws discriminate hea… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 06:45 AM |
| 1 | If men's treatment of women is the cause of the male loneliness epidemic, why fifty shades of grey is the best selling romantic novel in the history and why are girls lining up for movies like 360 days?Themselves lmao | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 02:47 AM |
| 20 | Just been essentially bullied for having 'man-flu' by my female colleaguesOP please don’t just let them get away with this. There’s so much legally you could do and just taking it helps enable this shit to continue | /r/MensRights | 08/10/24 01:56 AM |
| 2 | I got accepted as an MFA to one of the top art schools in the world. I intended to make a film about being abused by my mother but none of the feminists would allow it.Hey man it’s definitely hard for us artists to operate. I think it’s the worse in our sphere to be honest. If you want someone to compose some music for the film hit me up. I’m currently a juinor jazz composition major, but I still work with all genres. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/24 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Women don’t like kind, sensitive men.Not really, every social interaction isn’t a guessing game. Just the ones with women. When men talk to each other we don’t have to play these mental games. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 8 | Young men today feel they must be six feet tall, make six figures, and have six inches downstairs to get a girlfriend—so many have given up tryingLosing weight comes down mostly to choices you can control yourself, getting a better job is a bit more multi variabled than eating less food and moving more. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 11:00 PM |
| 3 | The “Forever Girlfriend”So if she said no more sex permanently, you’d still be dating her? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I [M24] got blamed very bad by my girlfriend [F21] for telling her that I do not want her to initiate sex with me if she is turned on from someone else, why is my stance considered bad?You gotta wait till another dude turns on your wife till you can have sex with her? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Circumcision doesn't get talked about too often on this sub, but it should be one of our primary concerns (WARNING: (sort of) GRAPHIC)Not really it tends to to majority be women and the narrative a lot of them spread. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/21 08:20 PM |
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