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| 2 | How The Introverted Guy Can Get The GirlHold out your hand when you open the door for them to initiate the touch when they are about to get into the car. Touch their lower back while you hold the door to the restaurant, and lastly you can touch their lower back again when you hold the chair out. | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 03:44 AM |
| 2 | I'm afraid of alienating or weirding people out when the topic of music comes upThis is easy. Say what can of music/songs you like and why you like it. Keep it simple. For instance I like True Love by Soldiers of Jah Army. It has a good chill beat and nice lyrics. Another favorite of mine is The way you do the things you do by temptations. Their voices are so smooth along with the lyrics attract me to the song. I feel it's pretty simple to sing too as well. By doing this, it'll show the women your feelings for the songs/music you like. Paint a picture with your words. | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | lots of potential but zero confidenceI understand. I feel once you break that ice you'll relax and be you. You just need to conquer that inner doubt in yourself. That is why I said make a plan for your approach. That is how I conquer mine. Approach a 10 like you would approach a 3. To be honest it should be the same. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 10:29 AM |
| 1 | lots of potential but zero confidenceLike I said I find them going shopping or at the park or gym. If you have sibling or you live close to your parents hangout with them. My mom is one of my best wing women. I also have a 7 year old sister that I hangout with and always find attractive older women coming up to me. Also have a game plan think of ways to approach a women. What you would say and how you would break the ice if she's by herself or in a group. So when the time happens you are prepared a bit. You'll probably forget your … | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 09:37 AM |
| 1 | lots of potential but zero confidenceDon't just sleep with the girls get to know them. Look for the quality that you are looking for and take it. Approach those strong women who are independent and not these young girls who are waiting as they go to school. Step your game up. Your most likely not going to find that strong mature women at a bar or club unless they are high class bars and clubs. Idk if they have high class bars and clubs in the mainland but here in Hawaii we do not. So I would take advantage of that if you do. One pl… | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Can I use my virginity as a point of flirtation?Awesome glad to help. Let me know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Can I use my virginity as a point of flirtation?I wouldn't use it as an innocent virgin thing if you do want to have sex. "I'll say something like I had the opportunity but it just didn't feel right with me. I am really interested in you and I feel like when the time comes I can see myself taking it to that level with you." It'll make her feel so special, she'll probably plan a big thing for you. Let me know what you think. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 05:16 AM |
| 2 | [Rant] I fucked up guysThink about a few things on how to approach a women at school, work, ect. Then later when a situation like that happens you are already prepared. It's okay you fucked up it happens to all of us. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Reconnecting with someone from the pastThat is pretty smooth. Good one. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Number closed like a champ and she agrees to a time bridged date. Then she writes, I can't meet up with you. I just broke up with my ex. What would you answer?I wouldn't say anything. Why date a girl who is willing to set up a date with you while she still has a boyfriend. You don't want that kind of person in your life. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Find it really hard to get second dates. Advice?Take them out of the area, be creative. Do something fun and at the same time something where you can sit and get to know them. For instance this is a date I took a girl on. Went to a nice restaurant shared a meal.(causing us to be closer together while allowing one person to eat while the other talks.) went and played pool later that night. I live in Hawaii so I took her to this nice ocean side cliff where we could talk more. I was recently talking to her for a bit and she had some serious ques… | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Starting to get desperateFirst I would think of ways you would approach a women at the gym, store, work, ect. I usually pick up women when I go shopping. I like to open with a subtle compliment like "Nice tattoo or I like your nail." What are you making for dinner? Then I'll say I'm making whatever I am making for the night. Do you cook a lot? Maybe I'll cook for you one night. And go on from there. Play it out in your head if someone asked you your question would you be weirded out by it? Would you have a short answer?… | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Getting numbers but nothing else. Help?How eggar are you when you text them? Are you consistently trying to hold a conversation? Most people get too excited and consistently text. To prevent that get a hobby and stay busy. So when she does text you and asks about your day you actually have something to say. I would also set a date "would you like to go out Friday? Around 6-7ish" If she says no then you can ask when is it best for her. Hopefully that helps out. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Help - Reading flirty, touchy-feely girls and women!If she stops touching me less and I still want to pursue her the next time she touches me I would jokingly tell her stop touching me or I would be forced to take you right here and laugh afterwards. If she starts to get more serious and talk more deeply I would think of questions to pick her brain. And if you are alone while doing this for a bit. I would ask what her intentions are. When it comes to women you have to have finesse. Intrigue them but don't show too much. Be smart but not overly sm… | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 08:26 PM |
| 2 | I've recently come across a good type of question to inspire conversation. Can you help me think of some more?What is something you have not done yet and wish to do? And why have you not done it yet? What is your favorite moment? What do you think guys should know that women don't tell them? | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 08:19 PM |
| 3 | I feel like my number 1 reason why i turn off girls is because how annoying i am.I am like you, I get excited a lot as well. But on the other hand I usually only do it after we've had sex and it's been a week or two into us dating. The reason being is one when they do say I am weird or crazy. "I tell them I am just excited to see you. I could stop if you want?" They usually laugh and say no please don't I like it and we move on with our day. Now after that is said every time I get excited and want to be weird she just thinks I'm excited to see her. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How to stop feeling lonely and how doGet a new hobby, stay busy and active. Think of ways to approach women so you sound more confident. If it does not work out, it's okay take a breath and try again another day. I try and meet one new person a day. Mostly when I am shopping either at the mall or grocery store. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Techniques I've picked up for using Kino and Body Language to build intimacyI personally like sharing a meal on the first date. It makes her have to sit closer to you, this helps with touch during your meal. It also makes it so one person can talk while one person eats. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 08:26 AM |
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