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What are you talking about. I make the claim you disprove that claim This statement alone tells me everything I know about your capacity to think deeply about things. The burden of proof) is on the person who makes the claim. This is literally why essays even exist. You make some claims and, most importantly, you cite your sources. In the beginning, I was willing to believe your claims, I just needed to see some sources. That's not how most studies see it or people generally. People consistently…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:52 AM
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If you're not going to put in the work then don't make the claims. Dominance is not the opposite of kindness. You can be dominant and kind. It's clear you have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:39 PM
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If that's your number, then we are the same. My experience has been that kindness, just about every single time, has worked. I'm genuinely interested in those studies you mention though. Please link them. Also, power is a nebulous term. There is tremendous power in kindness. Read Sun Tzu, The Prince, 48 Laws of Power, or just about any book about power and you'll find many references to the power inherent in acts of kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:57 AM
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Don't confuse the individual women in your small sample size with the average woman. From the point of view of psychology, personal safety, and evolution, kindness has a lot of value to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:59 PM
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There are two broad categories of dating advice: What the average woman is attracted to, ie. good hygiene, kindness, being a supportive partner, taking care of your health long term, etc. What a specific woman is attracted to, ie. type of humour, political issues, culture, and hyper-specific stuff like playing the flute, having longer hair, kinks, etc. etc. all the things you learn after talking to and listening to lots and lots of different women. Women do a pretty good job at the first one and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:35 PM
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It's not that you're 30, it's that generally, you've got your life in order. Compared to a 23-year-old, a 33-year-old is more likely to have a good career, realistic goals, a mature, responsible personality, and an interest in finding a life partner to start a family with. All of these things are very much appreciated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:07 PM
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Been on reddit for like 15 years now. This sub has some of the wildest posts. Can't believe I didn't join sooner. Reading the headlines cracks me up. Also, it is normal and continues to be normalised for men and women to be friends. Despite a vocal minority opinion insisting we reduce every social interaction to a sexual transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:24 PM
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Good one. Wasn't familiar with that source. Would have like to see the top 20%. Interesting that the top 50% get >95% of likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:34 PM
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There's no clear source and obviously, we don't have 80% of men unable to find dates. So, the claim that 20% of men are dating 80% of women is hilariously wrong. However, there is growing evidence that suggests the top 20-25% of men are being pursued by the majority (~80%) of women as potential partners. - https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/ - https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.aap9815 There is also evidence (in a blog post by ok c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:30 AM
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There are about a dozen evolutionary reasons for why there isn't a perfect pairing of women and men. Sexual competition, the resource cost of child rearing, etc. This has been a fact for the last 30,000 years of human existence. Women successfully reproduce at 2x the rate men do. At a macro level, sexual competition and stringent selection criteria by women is great for the health of our species. At a micro level, well, us men have to compete. Facts of life. No one is owed a partnership or sex. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:29 PM
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Fake it till you make it isn't always the greatest advice. It mostly only works when you are underestimating your ability. When you have the ability but are not expressing it. Otherwise, fake confidence and charisma is easy to spot by woman. As well, you can't fake humour. You may try and pretend you're a funny "life-of-the-party" guy, but if no one's laughing it won't be successful. Join an improv club, go out on a lot of dates, pick up and get good at hobbies that are interesting for you, sele…
/r/seduction02/04/15 05:55 PM
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This is not good advice. Be yourself is only useful if 'yourself' is someone whom woman are attracted to. As far as cheap, pithy advice goes. A better line would be. Be attractive to woman. Also the title doesn't fit with the story. It could read "be comfortable with who you are and have interests and hobbies that develop you as a person. It will lead to more charisma and self-confidence both of which are attractive to woman. This will make any conversation or encounter easier and feel more natu…
/r/seduction02/04/15 05:50 PM
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Go out and grab some fresh air or find a place to lounge. Sometimes I've just gotta reel it in for a bit. The times when the mother hen swoops in and snags her when we're outside the bar and heading home? I've got no recovery for that. I get food and pack it in.
/r/seduction08/03/15 04:25 AM
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Solid article. The economist leans center-left but is mostly unbiased, the statistics come from the DOJ and the article demonstrates that there has been a significant decline of sexual assault on campus, which is now arriving at the national average. It also highlights the idiocy of having "amateur tribunals" on campus. Falsely accused men are suing them for erroneous results and women who have been sexually assaulted are suing them for allowing their perpetrators to stay on campus.
/r/MensRights05/12/14 06:38 PM
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As someone who had sex with foreskin until 22 and now with out it. My sexual pleasure has increased. I might be an outlier to an average that's being thrown about, but it's not always the case that sexual pleasure decreases. The key point is, the logic that says less sexual pleasure & more difficulties with sex is not necessarily true, and more importantly, definitely does not imply less sexual activity.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 11:07 PM
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You're not wrong. Every step of /u/whatsazipper 's logic is flawed, and the links you've provided are actually the real reason why the world believes this is a safe practice and why it happens not only in Africa but also in the Philippines and other developing countries. The practice, I believe, is still the wrong thing to do.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 11:04 PM
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Perfect. I don't really have any knowledge of the law so using an example was appreciated. The way i'm understanding what you've written makes an affirmative defense sound like a double-edged sword. One on the hand, if you're successful then you cannot be found guilty of whatever you've disputed. If you're unsuccessful then guilt is essentially assured. Which, contrasted against my understanding of "innocence until proven guilty" makes the job of the defense quite a bit more dangerous. Having to…
/r/MensRights31/10/14 07:15 PM
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That makes a lot sense, thanks for clearing that up. Follow-up question. Is an affirmative defense ever mandatory? Or is it considered an optional "tool" to strengthen the defense's argument? Or both?
/r/MensRights31/10/14 05:09 PM
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ah ok, thanks for the clarity
/r/MensRights31/10/14 01:30 AM
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I don't follow. What is an affirmative defense and are you saying that proving consent is an affirmative defense?
/r/MensRights31/10/14 12:57 AM
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hey, non-sarcastically or confrontation-aly, can you provide me the sources to these? Thanks in advance.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 07:03 PM
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It's far more alpha to be able to look comfortable in every normal social situation, then it is to turn a friendly gesture into a power struggle. If one of my friends does this to me, I relax. I open my body up, my shoulder sink back, I get comfortable. What do I have to be afraid, I'm a confident secure guy, and I am comfortable around other people. It's far more awkward to turn this into an obvious display of pseudo-alpha. Anyone who watches you turn this into a weird social confrontation will…
/r/seduction30/11/13 06:35 PM
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When I go out drinking, nine times out of ten it's to get pailed. My mindset is: get demolished, have a great fucking time, talk to all the pretty girls and interesting dudes and come home with a few new stories. And of course drinking affects my game. It's fucking terrible when I'm drunk! I'm super aggressive and blunt. ie. "You have a great ass, I bet I could probably carry you all the way back to my house." and other such ridiculous lines. This is why I do most of my picking-up on campus, dur…
/r/seduction21/10/13 02:11 PM
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The definitions are loose. I subscribe to the HB8 = Hot Bait. So, all this HB7, HB9 stuff doesn't make sense to me at all. It's not really all that important to the story as attraction can be pretty subjective. I really like the alternative scene and some of friends like the country scene. Who we find attractive is sometimes very different.
/r/seduction09/06/13 09:25 PM
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Everything sounded like a fine, fun night. Building attraction is always half the fun anyway. With Sally though, I'd just say be careful. All this talk about jealousy, and not being overtly sexual makes it seem like she moved you from a friend to potential relationship material. I'd have that conversation, about where you guys stand, sooner rather than later. Just let her know that you enjoy your single life and that you see yourself this way in the immediate future. She is your friend after all…
/r/seduction09/06/13 09:14 PM
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Understand that you are hurting them more by wasting their time. Pretty selfish dude.
/r/seduction27/02/13 02:52 AM
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Let's use a sports analogy: You're playing hockey. You're standing in front of a wide open net because the goalie came out to save your friend's shot. You know your friend is going to pass it to you. You know you'll have an open net and you know you're going to score. But, in the back of your head, you know that there is that chance he'll pass and and you'll miss that net. Until you have the confidence that you can score those goals every single time, you're still going to feel that tinge of fea…
/r/seduction23/02/13 09:37 PM
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The title of your post is incredibly misleading and incorrect, the content of your post contains fallacy after fallacy - example of a few below: Many studies show the female brain fires up in much the same way when the female interacted with sexually as when she is breastfeeding. So yes she derives sexual pleasure from it. Your account is half an hour old, your username is "thoughtfulcleverness". You're an idiot.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 05:21 PM
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A woman!? In my subreddit?! oh hell nah. You get all my downvotes. Edit: Read the comment tree, the OP is participating in the joke...
/r/MensRights17/01/13 03:32 PM
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The articles references a 14 page debate. Does anyone have this transcript?
/r/MensRights25/12/12 06:31 PM
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So you guys are "getting riled up" and then you stop because she says: "Victoria, I don't know...I just...umm...fuck...what am I going to...I just...sorry..." and then you leave? It sounds like she wanted you to chase her a bit more, tease her a bit. But that's entirely situational. In my amateur opinion. It sounds like you're getting the cold shoulder because after you left, you started to text, message, "chase" after her. There's probably a more intuitive understanding. But after doing what yo…
/r/seduction23/12/12 12:26 AM
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This doesn't belong in Men's Rights. The rights of men are not talked about the article nor are they implied in anyway. This is just a woman, who was particularly cruel, having a preventative cancer surgery. I don't see any Men's Rights issues in there.
/r/MensRights29/11/12 11:19 PM
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haha you just do man. Just keep working and eventually it works itself out.
/r/seduction09/11/12 08:39 PM
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I manage it myself. There's only two scenarios where you'd really need a management company: You live out of province/country but intend on keeping the property You own more than a dozen properties or a number of properties where you feel alright from your bottom line to pay for the management company For me, I only have 1 property and it's only about $300 a month extra cash flow. I can't really afford to give up any of that.
/r/seduction09/11/12 05:43 PM
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General concensus: r/MensRights inappropriate r/funny appropriate
/r/MensRights07/11/12 05:16 PM
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Exactly, well put. However, there seems to be a lot of rationalizations here on the part of the OP. I mean really, OP, you're a sex addict, looking to pay for a fix, but instead decided to "game" someone who was clearly in a very vulnerable state. Don't get me wrong, I hope for the best, and that eventually you both sort yourselves out. But this sounds like simply taking advantage of a situation. This woman could potentially fall in love with you. The potential for doing damage here is way great…
/r/seduction06/11/12 07:07 PM
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You know what's 100x easier than airplane mode? Keeping your phone on silent all day. That way, you check your messages when you have the time. I do this and my life is in my phone, my calendar, email, I own rental property, I'm in the middle of a degree and, all those those people who "need" to get a hold of me. Just put it on silent, keep your phone on you and check it when you have the time.
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:00 PM
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This is brilliant. Looking back this explains a lot of the take-downs I've had that I couldn't really explain. It's also where my game is going. About two weeks ago: Got into my econometrics lab and the girl behind me sort of implies to the teacher that she doesn't know what she's doing. I tell her "come and sit beside me, we've got this." Interact with her, everything is super comfortable, at the end of the class she asks me for my email address "so we can study and help each other". Just give …
/r/seduction27/10/12 07:54 PM
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Yep, this is a solid, safe response. I do it all the time for girls who seem like they know how to have fun. But she wasn't interesting enough, in the 7min, for me to go this route.
/r/seduction20/10/12 02:45 AM
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"Great, now we've both heard that line tonight." Make it an us vs them situation. Once the guy is gone, you can her how you said it way better and make fun of yourself a bit. Girls like cocky, but not arrogant.
/r/seduction19/10/12 07:03 PM
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Brilliant. This variation of "peacocking" is what worked for me all first year, and why, as a college kid, I still rock the sweatpants and flip flops to the bar. The amount of American Apparel girls who asked if they could take me clothes shopping the next day was hilarious. I can't claim to have the best game but a few things you need for this to work are: The "I don't give a fuck" attitude The ability to call out or "shit test" the target right back Confidence Disclaimer: This might only work …
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:01 PM
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Nailed my 40yr old Massage Therapist, who happens to also be a yoga instructor. I'm 23. We met in a first aid class. Played it very, very straightforward. Moved her into the recovery position and heard her sigh. So when I put a sling on her, I approached from behind and moved up against her bum. I got her number for a massage. When I asked her to get a drink, she just told me she had her pajamas on and that I should come over for a drink instead. Showed up, listened to her stories, told some of …
/r/seduction15/09/12 02:17 PM
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Goddammit. Can we not have a different opinion without downvoting? Reddiquette would be nice.
/r/MensRights15/09/12 01:36 PM
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Banking is sales with some light math. Finance and Investing, depending on how far you go, can get intense. Linear algebra, real analysis, stochastic processes, etc.
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:05 PM
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You blew up at a mother and her daughter at the beach? I don't even... When is that ever acceptable behaviour?
/r/MensRights31/07/12 01:21 PM
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If you think "IHTSBIH" is actually misogynistic you're incredibly misguided. Edit: turned "this" into "IHTSBIH"
/r/MensRights24/04/12 12:11 AM
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