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This post is basically mansplaining to women how to have sex with men I can't see this being useful to any woman
/r/seduction05/11/19 11:26 PM
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It depends. I think a lot of girls lurk forums like this because what they DONT want is guys looking to "game" them and trick them into casual sex when what they really want is love and a relationship. So they look on forums like this for insider tips of what to recognise
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:31 AM
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What do you usually talk about with people?
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:28 AM
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I don't think there are even male alphas......I've never met anyone who describes themselves as alpha who wasn't a complete try hard
/r/seduction25/10/19 03:15 PM
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Had to rewatch it like 4 times to see that part....got it
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/19 02:12 PM
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This doesn't look like she provoked anything....
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/19 02:05 PM
4

Raise a guide dog puppy
/r/seduction23/10/19 02:11 PM
2

Your her side chick bro
/r/seduction21/10/19 03:50 PM
2

Do you think he knows they aren't dating or is that just what she's telling you?
/r/seduction21/10/19 03:26 PM
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Don't express feelings. Ask her out on a date. If she says no..that's your answer. Don't emotion dump on her
/r/seduction21/10/19 03:23 PM
1

That's a pretty cringe line. "I heard girls from your country are good kissers" 🤮 What this is indirectly telling her is your interested in her for the novelty of her being foreign. No girl wants to feel like a novelty bang. That and she told you she had a boyfriend, she clearly thought you were being a platonic friend up until this point.
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:15 PM
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You know.......I think there are women who genuinely believe this is possible. So few people participate in martial arts, especially women, they get deluded into thinking that their 45 minute sepf defense class has taught them all the skills they need to overpower a 240 pound man. It is dangerous to be encouraging women to believe this nonsense. I am female, I train martial arts and spar with men regularly and know very well that any of the men in my gym, if we went 100% effort with no rules, wo…
/r/MGTOW18/10/19 01:48 PM
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I'm female and I'm bi. Nearly every girl I look at, at least 80%, I find some degree of attractive quality. With men.....it's only like 5-10% I have even the slightest sexual attraction too. I don't know if this is because maybe I'm more gay, or this is how most women feel about men. They are only boring and lust-free if they aren't interested in you. Guys will get horny enough they will fuck a 3. Women never will.
/r/seduction16/10/19 01:12 AM
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This depends how attractive and charismatic you are
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:40 PM
1

It's a hell of a lot better than asking her to "hang out" and getting dinner with her and the 4 other guys trying to nail her because your all too chicken shit to actually make a move
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:37 PM
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Do it directly and see what happens
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:48 PM
1

It sounds like it leaves you hanging out. Did you mean to ask her on a date?
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:46 PM
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He walked up to her alone on some train tracks and touched her without so much as saying hello to her, she told him stop and ran away. Then, he did it AGAIN, on another day. Y'all can find a better martyr than this. Anyone who things going up to women in isolated areas and touching them is just being friendly needs a reality check. This wasn't a guy touching a girls arm during a conversation at a mall. His behaviour is completely abnormal, the girl is in no way in the wrong for feeling threatene…
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:35 PM
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I think it's creepy. It comes across as you are trying to get them drunk.
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:26 PM
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I think a shirtless pic at the beach is fine. Gym ones are douchie
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:23 PM
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Exactly. This isn't a case of a kid striking up a conversation with a girl at the mall, touching her arm and getting arrested for it.
/r/seduction10/10/19 08:25 PM
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He acted in an identical way someone who was planning a sexual assault would act. How are you sure he wasn't trying to cop a feel? It doesn't say anything about him being mentally challenged...the only way a person wouldn't understand this is wrong would be if they have severely limited mental faculties, and in that case that type of person needs constant supervision, not a free pass. I just don't believe the defense plot of "oh he was just trying to make a friend" and that's why he was lurking …
/r/seduction10/10/19 04:15 PM
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Then slip her your number when you check out. She is in a job where she is paid to be friendly to you though
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:15 PM
1

She's at work, don't do it.
/r/seduction10/10/19 01:01 PM
2

Daytime yoga classes
/r/seduction10/10/19 12:47 PM
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Look where it happened though. This wasn't in a school cafeteria or shopping mall or somewhere she would have not felt threatened. Walking alone along a railway bridge and a guy is staring at a hedge, turns around and grabs you as you walk past....that's pretty fucking scary and I don't think this kid had friendship as a goal. No woman in that situation is going to think "oh he's just shy and wants a friend". Shyness and anxiety is not a free pass to threaten and scare people. Her whinging about…
/r/seduction10/10/19 12:44 PM
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Let's be real.....no one tries to make a friend by lying in wait for them on some train tracks.
/r/seduction10/10/19 12:39 PM
1

Being too muscular isn't your problem
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:18 PM
1

Drugs can alter your metabolism but they can't make you create body fat out of nothing
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:18 PM
2

It isn't physics. Eat fewer calories.
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:09 PM
2

So then hit the gym
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:41 PM
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Humans don't do that bro
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:41 PM
2

What were you hoping would happen?
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:40 PM
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You are going to have just as many problems after surgery. You are a little bit ugly but it's mostly you look overweight and poorly groomed and poorly dressed. You aren't a model, but you aren't ugly. There's no surgery that's going to make you a model. Even if you were better looking, acting like you described above is always going to repel women
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:38 PM
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Your not that ugly, but you are incredibly socially awkward and dripping with insecurity and mental instability. Don't try to guilt someone into taking you on as a fixer upper. You act like a stupid creep they are going to treat you like a stupid creep.
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:35 PM
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Or OP is hot and they don't care about his shitty conversation skills
/r/seduction09/10/19 12:17 PM
4

In real life, how many couples do you know with an ugly guy and a hot girl where he isn't rich?
/r/seduction08/10/19 01:00 PM
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Do you treat the ones you are attracted to different than the ones you aren't?
/r/seduction08/10/19 11:59 AM
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Hahahaha. I think your right though. There are not cheat codes that if you do X,y,z all women will suddenly find your short overweight bald self sexually appealing. The guys who promote this are really just about exploiting men for financial gain with these delusional systems
/r/seduction08/10/19 11:57 AM
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They sure aren't dating uglies
/r/seduction08/10/19 11:50 AM
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You aren't going to have to work that hard
/r/seduction08/10/19 11:46 AM
5

Are you hot? Are you sleeping with them quickly? Honestly don't go for guys you meet in a club. Guys who are coming up to you in a club one weekend are going to be finding a new girl at the club the next weekend. If you want a boyfriend, don't invest effort into a club slut. I think there's a danger of being too laid back and too easy going. If your just chill and sit on the couch and play FIFA with him, your just one of the guys.
/r/seduction08/10/19 01:19 AM
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If a girl wanted to have sex with you and was interested in you romantically she would show it. The last thing she would do is bring her fuck buddy over. She isn't purposefully trying to send a message, but you should at least have the basic social skills of human relationships to pick up that a girl who has a guy over she's fucking in the room next to you just isn't interested. It couldn't be more clear. I think she's not making sure you are out of the house either because 1. She's just gotten …
/r/seduction07/10/19 01:14 PM
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Honestly, women don't need seduction. The average woman has more skills in emotional manipulation than your average PUA who has been studying it, if your goal is to fuck with guys heads. If you just want to bang hot guys, just being attractive and being available is all you need.
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:17 PM
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I don't think this is about you at all. If it's the same guy, I think she's just getting more serious/regular with him and more comfortable hence having him over more. You don't have a chance with her, but I don't think her behaviour with this guy is any kind of "message" to you. Don't overthink it
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:12 PM
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I think your best bet, if it's been two days, is to just send a text message with a thoughtful apology and letting her know you don't want to lose her, but if she's done and wants to break things off, that's fine too and genuinely wish her the best of luck.
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:09 PM
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This is a definite girl answer. Most guys who want to learn game and seduction aren't looking for an LTR with someone they can grow old and build a life with....the ones who are aren't having any luck "just being themselves" Most are looking to date a lot of different women and experiment with their own different identities. "Be authentically you" is advice women give that doesn't work to get women if the "authentic you" is boring, creepy, or an obvious perv.
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:04 PM
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What did you say to here? There are some things no spin can pull you back from
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:58 AM
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If a woman wants casual, sure. Go on the date with the guy who came up to you at Starbucks and gave you a bullshit chat line about how you look so cute. From my perspective though, I've never wanted casual. There's a difference between having options and pursuing options. If you set up a date with me on Friday and a date with another girl Saturday, your obviously not that in to me . I've only ever dated or been interested in one person at a time...doesn't matter if there might be other guys inte…
/r/seduction06/10/19 01:42 PM
1

Agree to disagree on that front. I've never had any interest in dating a serial dater. If I were seeing a guy and found out he had plans with me Friday night and another girl Saturday, I'd end it. If he's cold approached me, he's cold approached 100 others and there's nothing special about me. Why waste my time? If he asked me out, and at the same time has asked out other women in our social circle, obviously he's not really interested in me, he's desperate or just a manslut. I am genuinely curi…
/r/seduction06/10/19 12:59 PM
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So where's the downside for women being the aggressor with men they are interested in?
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:34 AM
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Sure, I get that but...... I don't personally want a guy like that. I want an authentic relationship with someone who actually likes me. I have zero interest in meeting a guy who just sees women, goes up to them to tell them they are attractive and ask them out, and does this as a shot gun approach. I don't want a boyfriend who has a hard wired habit of dating lots of women, having a "rotation" or any of the things lots of guys on this forum who use pick up techniques are all about. I don't want…
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:04 AM
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I am also female, every relationship I've been in I've been the aggressor. I've felt a guy who is coming up to you, is approaching a dozen other girls too. Could never really trust him.
/r/seduction06/10/19 03:35 AM
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Being in a wheelchair is going to be a huge contributing factor to the struggle
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:12 PM
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She's not interested in having sex with you and could not have been more clear. Spend your time and energy on women who are interested. Seduction doesn't have any tips or tricks on making a girl who who has no interest in casual sex and you in particular suddenly change her mind. Humans don't work like that, there are no cheat codes to change someone's mind
/r/seduction05/10/19 04:53 PM
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Ask them their opinions on random shit, don't interview them
/r/seduction05/10/19 04:26 PM
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I think it's more context driven. Women will let you know if they want to be approached. Look for eye contact. Don't go up to a girl with headphones in in the middle of a workout and expect her to be happy about it
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:05 PM
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